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Free Full Moon Love Magic Spells That Work

Sage has been a witch for 25 years. She enjoys writing informative articles to teach others the craft of the wise.

Free Love Spells That Work

You don't need to pay some online psychic scammer for love spells that work—you can cast free love spells on your own that are far more effective (and much cheaper)!

I met my husband after casting a love spell one Valentine's Day many moons ago. In the spell, I detailed what I was looking for; I even went as far as to say I wanted a big, husky guy that's like a big old teddy bear who will wrap his arms around me. When I met my husband, he was introduced to me by his pagan name: Bear.

Love spells like these will actually perform well on any full moon, but they are even better when planned for a full moon that falls on a Friday or when the Moon is in Venus.

To bring back a lost love, try this candle magic spell.

Love spells unlock the possibilities.

Love spells unlock the possibilities.

Love Letter Find My Mate: Love Spell

This is ideally performed on a Friday during the full moon.

Keep thoughts of love at the forefront of your mind from the time you begin—capture and hold the feelings of how good it feels to fall in love with the right person and how wonderful you feel when a relationship is right.

Remember—don't 'wish' for love, or you'll put yourself in a state of perpetual wishing! Envision and capture the feelings of 'having' love already.

Make a night of this spell to really give it power, like you're preparing for a secret rendezvous, all the while holding on to those 'loving feelings'. Put on your most romantic music, and have some wine if you like to get yourself in the mood. Take a bath and luxuriate in the bubbles and the scents. After the bath, do your hair. Shave or put on make-up, dab on some perfume or cologne.

Love Spell Ingredients

Pink or green candle

Candle holder


Essential oil (jasmine is ideal)


Paper or parchment

Rose petals

Pink or green pen

Incense (dragon's blood, preferably)


Incense burner

Yes, Really: Dragon's Blood

Love Spell Tip! Important!

Don't use the name of someone specific. The timing of this spell would doom any relationship with a specific target.

This spell is not designed to target anyone, but to target yourself so that you're drawn to compatible potential mates. Don't be surprised if you meet more than one person.

If your crush is a candidate, the spell will work that out. But be open to someone new who may be more suitable.

Casting the Love Spell

  1. Cleanse, consecrate and charge your candle using the jasmine oil. Put it in the holder and set it aside. Cleanse, consecrate and charge your herbs as well and put them aside. Burn some incense.
  2. Take the paper and pen. Begin writing a letter to your perfect mate as though you're writing in the future when you've met the person. Tell the person of your dreams everything you love about him/her. Get into a meditative free-writing state. Write for as long as you desire.
  3. Lay your finished letter on the table. Put the candle in the holder on top of it. Sprinkle the herbs and petals around the candle holder, on the paper, in the shape of a heart.
  4. Light the candle saying: this flame represents my burning desire; I summon the energies to draw to me a compatible mate.
  5. Spend as long as you can chanting and meditating on that feeling of having love in your life.
  6. When you're done, move the candle aside and fold up the paper with the herbs and petals inside of it. Put it in the envelope. Drizzle some wax on it to seal it. Place the candle back on top of the envelope and allow the candle to burn out. Bury any additional wax remnants.
  7. Tuck the letter into your Book of Shadows, under your pillow or in a book of love poetry if you like. Then get the love spell out of your mind and start going out with a good attitude, expecting to meet one or more potential candidates.

Love Spell Scammers: Don't Bother

People that promise '100% Guaranteed Love Spells that Work' on their web sites make it sound that if you pay them enough money, you'll have the love of your dreams. They'll even tout 'white magic bring my ex back' type spells.

These people are scammers.

  • First, no one can 100% guarantee any spell. It's not how magic works.
  • Second, magic requires personal involvement to raise the appropriate energies. You don't know this person and never had any contact with them—there is little they can do for you.
  • Finally, any spell that targets another person to manipulate them is not 'white magic', it's emotional bondage.

Don't be drawn in by the fake testimonials. You have a better chance of casting your own free love spells that work than you have of getting any magic spell caster on some website being effective. Your chances also increase when you cast love spells on yourself (to draw love or become more desirable) rather than targeting someone who may not otherwise be interested.

Easy Love Spell: Magnetic Attraction Charm

Love spells that work don't have to involve complex rituals. Simple folk magic can sometimes do wonders. Try this Kitchen Witch love spell:

  1. Get a piece of aluminum foil.
  2. Sprinkle some rosemary and cinnamon in your hand.
  3. Offer a prayer to your favorite love god or goddess to bless the herbs and bring love to you.
  4. Sprinkle the herbs on the foil.
  5. Fold it up to seal the herbs inside.
  6. Keep it next to your heart (in your shirt pocket, or even under a bra strap).

Love Spells for Desire: Love Oil

Got a date? Or trying to drive your lover mad with desire? Try this:

  1. Put 1/4 cup olive oil in a pot on the stove. Heat it, but don't let it come to a simmer.
  2. Add a piece of bruised ginger and 25 drops of cinnamon or vanilla oil (to attract a man) or musk or patchouli oil (to attract a woman).
  3. Stir clockwise saying this prayer to Aphrodite: Hail, sweetly-winning, coy-eyed goddess! Grant that I may gain the victory in this contest, and order you my song (Homeric Hymn #6)

Let it cool, remove the ginger and bottle it. It's best kept in a dark, cool place. Anoint your pulse points with it before your date.

Are Love Spells Wrong?

Is it wrong to cast spells for personal gain, especially for love? There are ethics involved, but I don't believe they're wrong. As long as you're not targeting anyone to make them your emotional slave, there's nothing wrong with using magic to make your life better.

If you are looking for love, what have you got to lose? Try a spell and see what kind of possibilities arise.

This article is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge. Content is for informational or entertainment purposes only and does not substitute for personal counsel or professional advice in business, financial, legal, or technical matters.

© 2014 Mackenzie Sage Wright


Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on September 24, 2020:

I would say probably not, the energy got sent, just hang on to it.

Intrigued11 on August 05, 2020:

Hi! I did the love letter spell and truly had a wonderful time doing it. It was a beautiful moment, so thanks for that!

I do not have a book of shadows, so I placed the letter in a plastic ziplock bag in my pillow case. Two days after, my sister accidentally threw that pillow case in the washing machine.. while the letter didn’t get destroyed, it did get soaked and the envelope ripped a little. Does this mean that the spell won’t work?

Will I have to perform it again?

Thank you :)

David Brimson on April 19, 2020:

Just beautiful..... really loved the meditation video,,,, will visit that often, thank you x

Zoe Green on January 18, 2020:

Hi, I'm new ot witchcraft and was wondering if the spell still worked even it wasn't on a full moon/friday, or if their was one it definetly need to be and one that wasn't as important.

LaRochelle Greyling on January 12, 2020:

Hi im LaRochelle Greyling listen i dont know what to do or how to ask this once again like ive asked so many people over the past 1 year that ive asked around over websites,phone numbers or whatever...

I know most spell casters ask money that i dont have

Ayanda on November 08, 2019:

None of these spells work for me .....

Please help me with a powerfull attraction spell to love

Donna W on October 18, 2019:

Casting a spell to Destroy someone;s marriage. To have them Divorced!!!!

Chere65 on October 13, 2019:

I casted the love spell to find my mate over the last full moon of the summer. Although I did not name the person with whom I am interested in in the letter, after I completed the spell and closed my circle, the person I am interested in sent me a text. I hadn’t heard from him in a few weeks and I was pleasantly surprised that he reached out. We have chatted quite a bit over the past 4 weeks, but unfortunately we have not been able to get our schedules together. I sense that it will happen soon. Thank you for your advice

Lanunungsang Imsong on September 09, 2019:

I want you to cast love spell on behalf of me to make a woman fall in love with me like I do.

Cotika Washington on August 10, 2019:

Hey my name is Cotika Washington and im in love with a man name Bryant Planter and i want him back in my life for good and only have eyes for me Basily i want him obessed and constanly think bout me all day and night

Levi j sparks jiardina on May 20, 2019:

I love magic

Yvonne Snowden on April 18, 2019:

My man left me nine months ago for another woman and iwant him to leave her and return to me

Soylatte on April 14, 2019:

I wanna thank you for posting this spell because in a way it worked for me. Me and my boyfriend broke up and we didn't talk for months, and after around two weeks I did the spell he texted me and invited me out to talk, which means we did what the spell is supposed to do, make us cross paths again. We were able to at least get back the cumplicity we had before we dated and we talk almost everyday now like we always used to. Who knows what the future might bring. Blessed be!

Jacklynn on April 04, 2019:

I tried a romanian love spell once. I dont really know if it went as planned... it was meant to bind a lover to you or something. The problem is after I tried it on the person i liked, I met someone else. After i admitted to myself that i had feelings for this new person, i kept having very very vivid dreams about the person i tried the spell on. Does this mean anything?

Julieta on February 25, 2019:

I m trying to do a spell for my ex to came back and give our relationship a second chance. I love this guy and I have a two week baby with him. Which spell can I do?

Annabelle Hayes on February 20, 2019:

Thank you so much! This was so informative! I was wondering if you have to do anything differently for doing a love spell for another person instead of yourself. If you could let me know, that would be lovely!!

Annabelle L. Hayes

Karl Bjarne Nygård on January 14, 2019:

I want to meet an new big fat women from Ukraina or romaina or Spania to love an be married with in one or two years ,love big bysty mamma,an help to get out hvere i live now an get more money to new house in Albir

Lillian on September 24, 2018:

I am new to magick and I am going to try the love magnet spell hope it works

ticricticrac on August 11, 2018:

I got a good feeling (for some reason) from your post, Mackenzie. I guess that’s a good sign. It’s hard to weed out the good ones from all the bs out there.

Anyway, I have a couple of questions. 1) Is it not a good idea to have two different people doing cleansing or other type of work for you? Like will they interfere with each other? Sorry kind of a novice. 2) I know it’s never a good idea to cast a spell to have a specific person fall in love with you (“emotional enslavement”?). If you’ve had a relationship with them before though, albeit physical,

is it still not a good idea? Would they just be drawn back into the same type of relationship with you? Thanks!

merina on August 05, 2018:

I have never done these things before. however now I want to try one . if its gone wrong does I get any side effect?

andrea on August 05, 2018:

i want to

Tia on June 15, 2018:

Hey Megan, I was in a similar position as you and Tarot helped me a lot. There are many websites that offer free card readings and they're are usually very good at pointing you in the right direction. This is the one I use for Tarot readings

My personal advice to you is to just let your feelings guide you and to try and look at the situation from as many perspectives as you can. I believe the cards hold the power to reveal your best course of action. Good luck xX

Bertha on May 21, 2018:

Can I cast the spell on someone whom I want to ask money from

Megan on May 19, 2018:

I have been having feelings for someone for a while now.they are almost obsessive.I think about him when I wake and throughout the day till I fall asleep.We have never dated or been intimate and have hardly fact I am already in a it possible something else is going on.something I may not be aware of.

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on April 17, 2018:

Good luck with that ;o)

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on April 12, 2018:

Hi Ashley; I don't think having a baby means you can't practice magic; I had several babies and always practiced magic... if you can't leave candles out burning then try using other things, such as a jar spell, a charm bag, etc. that you can tuck away on a high shelf or in a corner.

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on April 08, 2018:

Hi Katherine; you may want to take some time, work on yourself-- cleanse yourself, learn to love yourself so you pick someone who is worthy of you. Sometimes the reason the right person doesn't come to us is we have lessons to learn yet about how to love ourselves and others better, so we are ready when they come.

Katherine on April 05, 2018:

My life has been one hurt after another , I was married for 15 years to a man that beat on me cheated on me and manipulated me to near death . I got me and my children away from him and stayed alone for 7 years then I met a man who was also a wolf in sheep's clothing he was weak and deciteful as well as unfaithful . He has sent his latest mistress after me and my children tho I dismiss her cruel attacks she is unrelenting. He has hurt me so badly , I blame myself I have chosen two men who have toren my heart out but I want a real love steady and strong and that is all mine please help me

mimi on March 28, 2018:

Hi..i need help. met this cute guy in the hotel we had sex and now am pregnant for him but he doesn't love me simply because he have a girlfriend who he loves. What do I do to get him all to me. Am confused!

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on March 22, 2018:

Depends on what you're using the dragon's blood for? I usually add it to lend power, so any other power booster (even a quartz crystal on the altar is good). If you are using it for cleansing, something like sandalwood can be a good substitution. Etc.

Cunningham's Encyclopedia of Magical herbs gives lots of substitutions for just about everything, it's a really good resource.

Sorry to be getting back so late... cross-country move monopolized my free time for a while.

Lala on January 14, 2018:

Find sinuasu lui on facebook her tips work greats.

Sicaca on January 13, 2018:

I was used sinuasu lui technique on her facebook page and it work.

Cici on January 03, 2018:

Is it okay to specify how I would meet my match or I would that inhibit the spell?

Paul Vert on November 28, 2017:

What's a good substitute for dragon's blood? Or will any kind of incense work? Also, is there a spell I can cast to banish the feelings I have for someone who doesn't like me back?

Maggie on November 03, 2017:

Thank you for all of the information

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on November 01, 2017:

Hi Revy; if you cast a spell on yourself to draw a compatible romantic interest, if he falls into that category and would be interested, then it would work on him, too, without touching his own free will. Or someone else even better could come along that you may end up preferring. It's really the best way to go about it, I find.

Good luck!

Revy on October 31, 2017:


I'm in serious like with this guy and I'm unsure whether he likes me or LIKES me. If I do a spell, will it come to light if he LIKES me? I've done spells before, mostly Romani ones, but I don't want to interfere with his free will. Will one the above spells help? Thanks and Blessed Be!

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on October 15, 2017:

It doesn't work like that, hon. You use spells to help yourself and others, but you can't go around your whole life trying to control someone with magic, especially someone who doesn't want to be controlled.

Your boyfriend sounds like he needs therapy, not spells... and honestly if he's not seriously taking actions to change you might want to consider that he's not the right guy for you.

You can't choose a guy based on what you wish he was; people aren't fixer uppers, lol. Choose him based on what he is... if your boyfriend has anger issues and treats you with disrespect or threateningly, your best bet would be to cast a spell on yourself-- to give yourself the courage and self-esteem you need to leave him.

I wish you the best of luck.

KRISH on August 19, 2017:

I have super moon powers but how use

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on August 05, 2017:

The best help I can give you is to urge you to move on.... you don't get to control other people, and Witchcraft isn't going to help you do that they way you want. He is making his own choices, you can't change that. Your best way to help yourself, his kids and anyone else is to protect yourselves from him.

I know that's not what you want; but what you want doesn't exist, because his life choices are not up to you. Please don't give money to anyone who tells you otherwise. Best of luck to you.

Ilze Jurgevica on August 03, 2017:

Long story short 9 years with him till this Philippine came along

after her he just went mad looking only for Philippines. He went

from good men to angry aggressive cruel abusing terror. I just want to

get back that nice helpful good kind men. How much and can you help.

Im not rich I dont have much. But im willing to do something. His kids

are suffering all his friends are turning back to him he lost his

family. Please help me

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on August 13, 2016:

Sorry, Simon, I'm not sure I understand your question, but what I think you're trying to say is that someone cast a spell to steal away your girl, and now you want to cast a spell on her to steal her back?

I personally don't believe anyone should be casting spells on this poor girl to manipulate her emotions and feelings. If you know 100% for sure, the best thing you can do is warn her and let him and her work it out for themselves.

If you don't know, even if there is a 1% tiny doubt, then you have to respect that this could in part or in whole have been her choice to leave you.

Best thing you can do for yourself is to move on. I wish you the best of luck.

simon on May 09, 2016:

If you know someone did a sPell on you to take off from your gf it ethical to do one to take her back .

simon on May 09, 2016:

Who is Cindy and Monica are they real or just promoting scammer

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on July 03, 2015:

You can dilute them so he barely detects them. He might not consciously like the smell, so it's a turn off. But his subconscious will pick up on the chemicals and they'll do the work on the brain. Thanks for commenting.

Hazel Abee from Malaysia on July 02, 2015:

Interesting indeed .... aromatic fragrance is the best love spell ever .. but yet .. my hubby do not like any 'smell' .. I have yet to find a smell that he actually said Nice ... I have tried from Lavender, Roses, Jasmine, Green apple, Black Pepper, Mandarin .... Cinnamon he almost said good but i can not find romance in the fragrance ...

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on February 08, 2015:

Hi Shaiheen; it's intent more than anything that counts. A little mess-up on a piece of paper isn't going to make a difference, unless that little mess-up bothers you or shakes your confidence in your working. If you can look past a little burn mark on the paper, it won't matter.

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on February 08, 2015:

Hi Kara; if the person doesn't like strong fragrances I'd dilute it even further, or just use the faintest touch. Our senses will certainly pick it up, even if it's not strong enough to notice.

Shaiheen on February 07, 2015:

Hii,i casted the love spell on a full moon as best as i could,however there is a problem,the letter i wrote got burnt a little due to a small mistake of i wanted to know if the spell will be still effective or should i do another one??

Kara Skinner from Maine on February 04, 2015:

Hi Wiccansage,

I love this hub, especially the desire spell. Since the oil is put on your wrists like perfume, would it work if the person you wanted to attract doesn't like strong fragrances?

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on October 15, 2014:

Hell highpriestesschar; there are 2 kinds of love spells actually. There are the kind you cast on others to love you and the kind you cast on yourself to help you in your search for love. While the former is definitely manipulative and controlling without the other person's permission, the latter does not target any individual or change their feelings-- it simply helps draw you to those who might be compatible. The rest is up to you and that person.

The kind of spells I present here are the latter. Thanks for your comment!

charlen norton from springville on October 08, 2014:

love spells are only if you are in love and they are to with you . otherwise it called control and it's bad.

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on September 12, 2014:


1) I can see your IP address and I'm going to report you for being a spammer

2) I moderate comments and will never approve yours

So, please move on. You're wasting my time and yours.

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on September 12, 2014:

Oh, hon, no~ you don't have to wait that long for the perfect timing. The full moon's influence is at it's height for 3 days (day before, day of, day after) and still pretty strong for 7 days (3 days before, day of, 3 days after).

You can also use moon signs and/or planetary hours to your advantage.

I took a glance at my calendar for you and here are some really good timings for this spell this year (2014):

Friday Oct. 4 - Waxing moon, particularly if you can use planetary hour of venus (I have an article here on hubs about calculating planetary hours: and feel free to ask if you need help).

Wednesday Oct 9 - full moon's influence lasts 3 days, and the moon is in Taurus (perfect for matters of love).

Tuesday Nov. 5th, night before full moon, moon is in Taurus.

Friday Dec. 5th, night before Full moon.

There's always alternatives to moon timing. Of course it's great to wait for the perfect moon phase, moon sign, day and planetary hour to line up, but sometimes you just can't wait. There's always alternatives.

Ayesha on September 12, 2014:

Then i guess i have to wait till next year to cast the spell because for this year i don't find any timing perfect....

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on September 12, 2014:

Hi Ayesha; as I said, it works best on a full moon on a Friday. Magical timing is one of those things that some people feel truly lends conducive energies to aid their spell work, and-- whenever possible-- they try to find the perfect timing. Other people don't worry about timing as much.

This is simply part of the learning process for each individual-- it's like cooking; one swears by cooking a turkey on 250 for 6 hours, another cooks it at 400 for 3 hours. Both are good chefs and make it work for them. Consider all spells just guidelines, tweak them to suit your needs or what works for you.

If you cast the spell on a dark moon Monday, you might still get results. Or, you might not and you might try again on full moon Friday. Either way, you learn what works best for you.

Best of luck.

Ayesha on September 12, 2014:

but what if it is not exactly on a friday during a full moon??

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on September 10, 2014:

Thanks Sparrowlet; I agree, targeting someone to manipulate their feelings brings a whole lot of baggage and problems. Plus, sometimes what we want isn't what's best for us, which is why I like to emphasize 'a compatible lover' rather than zoning in on some unsuspecting soul. I would love to hear from you and how things go, thanks for your comments.

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on September 10, 2014:

Hi Cris Sp, thanks for your comments. I have done the olive oil potion with my husband, completely with his consent, lol. Such wonderful aphrodisiacs make for a great night of passion between lovers. I appreciate you stopping by, thanks!

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on September 10, 2014:

Thank you amitsondagar; I've found them useful.

Katharine L Sparrow from Massachusetts, USA on September 09, 2014:

This sounds wonderful! I like the direction NOT to target one person, but to let the wisdom of the universe decide. I do have one person in mind, but remain open to the possibility that he may not be the "right" one, the one who is meant for me! I will try one of these soon and let you know what happens! :) Great hub.

CrisSp from Sky Is The Limit Adventure on September 09, 2014:

Very interesting and though I already found the love of my life, I think I still would like to charm him by doing the olive oil potion and those aromatic oil. Love scents anyway.

As I said, this is an interesting hub. Thank you.

Amit Sondagar from Ahmedabad on September 09, 2014:

it;s really awesome, i like it

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on September 08, 2014:

Hi Tom. This spell isn't to cast over someone else (as in, manipulating someone's feelings). It's cast over the person to attract compatible mates. Sounds like you did, and that's what counts. After 12 years, it's a testament to pure feelings, not manipulated ones. Glad to hear you're happy, so inspiring to hear about long, happy marriages.

Russell Pittock from Nakon Sawan Province, Thailand. on September 08, 2014:

I think i've had one of these spells cast over me. But how would i know? Anyway, I'm still head over heels in love with my wife after 12 years so spell or not, it works for me.

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on August 20, 2014:

Hi Yesi; great idea~ learn the basics. If you haven't read it, is a good place to begin. I also just published a beginners candle magic guide, and another simple type of spell to try is a Witch's ladder. If you have any questions feel free to ask, but basically the more you read, study, meditate, etc., practice will come easier. Thanks for stopping by, and good luck with learning the Craft.

yesi101 on August 10, 2014:

Umm well id like to try an easy spell just to get confident but im not sure what spell could do the trick. I would really appreciate your help Wiccan if you could please

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on July 23, 2014:

Hi, Annie; I'm so sorry for how long it has taken to get back, as I've been ill. I appreciate your comments and am sorry to hear you've been scammed. Most spellcasters, sad to say, are just con artists. Magic really requires a personal connection, which is impossible to do when casting spells for complete strangers. It's best to learn to practice magic yourself, or find a local practitioner willing to get involved with you on a personal level-- and if they charge at all, it should be reasonable fees and cover supplies. I wish you luck!

Annie on June 21, 2014:

Hey wiccanSage I was scammed before (not that it bothers me as I'm well off to do) so money isn't a bother however is there any true spell casters out there that PAY after results

Annie on June 20, 2014:

Hey blueron what spell was it you done I'd love to do one... Mayb you could mail me at please tell me

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on May 18, 2014:

Thanks for your comments erorantes, pleased to meet you. I like to use strong sensory experiences in my spells because it really helps them act as 'mind triggers' to achieve the desired mental state. I wish you luck with your endeavors.


Ana Maria Orantes from Miami Florida on May 17, 2014:

Thank you for the advice on love spells. I am going to try on some of my friends. I like your article mr. Wiccansage. I love fragrances. Specially, I like the smell of jasmine's flowers. I have a tree in my house.

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on May 12, 2014:

Thanks for your comment Leanna O'connar; that's great.

Leanna O'connar on May 12, 2014:

i did this on my own i hav a spiritual gift from generation to generation to it's easy

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on February 17, 2014:

Thanks Mystic. Yes, it did work out well for us, lol. I told him about it after we started getting serious and he got a real kick out of it.

MysticMoonlight on February 15, 2014:

This is wonderful, Sage! I loved the beginning and the story of how you met your hubby! So sweet! :) Voted, sharing, and Tweeted!

junekonwar on February 13, 2014:

Hi... thank you so much for replying me... so grateful. :)

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on February 13, 2014:

Hello Junekonwar! No problem. I understand when you're learning there's a lot of questions.

- Dried herbs are fine for these kinds of spells, but if you have fresh on hand you can use that. It won't make a difference. It's the herb, not its form, that counts.

- As for pink or green, that's correct-- either/or, and they don't have to match. And yes, I meant the ink in the pen being pink or green, and the candle wax being pink or green.

- I suggested dragon's blood, I like to use it for spells because of the power it lends, but you can use any incense/scents that put you in a relaxed mood and help romantic thoughts along. Incense is optional in this spell, it's just to help with atmosphere.

- timing doesn't have to be absolutely exact, and would depend on where you live. Friday evening, any time after sunset, would be best. You don't have to wait till midnight or a special hour.

Just remember, the feelings/thoughts are the most important, because they are the energy you're trying to raise. The rest are just tools. You're going to be fine. :-) anytime I can help, no problem.

junekonwar on February 11, 2014:

Hi.. thanks for answering me... anyway I got the herbs, but again confused because they are available in two forms like fresh and dry which one is better, I just want to make sure I do it in exact way. and one more thing, you said pink or green pen.. So you are referring the body color or ink color? candle and pen should be in same color? and what about the incense if I couldn't find the dragon's blood one. And please mention the exact time of doing the ritual I mean can do it on Friday evening? Sorry for asking you a lot... Please help me. again thank you so much.

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on February 11, 2014:

Hi junekonwar; yes, herbs are almost always something you can substitute. I use herbs that are very common in my part of the world, forgetting it's different everywhere- gotta love the internet.

Rosemary is associated with the masculine, the sun and the Element of Fire. So herbs that you might find in your neck of the woods that also have the same influences include bay (Laurus nobilis), cumin, saffron and sesame seeds.

Thyme is almost the polar opposite of energies, as it represents the feminine, Venus and the Element of Water. Some herbs you might find in India that have the same associations are cardamom, capers and licorice.

If you decide to do a search for herbs yourself, I would recommend staying away from herbs with energies of Mars (all lust, no love, and bringing in 'battle' energies) and the Moon (which just brings in too much emotion usually; emotionally unstable).

I always add rose petals to love spells, incidentally, to entreat Cupid (Eros), the Greek God who helps people find love; if you have a specific deity associated with love and relationships that you feel more attuned to, you can also replace the rose petals with whatever flower is sacred to that deity.

Thanks for stopping by and if you have any other questions, I'll be around this week ;-)

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on February 11, 2014:

Thanks, FlourishAnyway! has some beautiful photos, all public domain! I appreciate your comment :-)

junekonwar on February 11, 2014:

HI... thanks for sharing your spell, I am planning to cast on valentine's day. but is is there any substitute for rosemary and thyme? as i am not able to find those herbs here in India.. please reply

FlourishAnyway from USA on February 10, 2014:

Very mystical and magical. I like it! I love that photo, too!

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on February 09, 2014:

Thanks zainabfirdous; I appreciate your comment.

zainab firdous from Bangalore on February 08, 2014:

This is reallly very interesting dear.........i ll surely try dis year..........

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on February 04, 2014:

Great, OllieTrolley! Blessings in your efforts!

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on February 04, 2014:

Crafty! Good to see you! Ginger tea is actually really good for sinus headaches; and if you want to simmer a potpourri try rosemary and/or eucalpytus. They should help clear you up better than ylang ylang or patchouli.

OllieTrolley on February 04, 2014:

Oh, I'm so excited! I've got everything I need in my cupboard! Perfect!

CraftytotheCore on February 03, 2014:

I bet the love oil smells good too! Every once in a while, I get a sinus headache. I bet if I put that on the stove, it will be aromatherapy for my home.

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on February 03, 2014:

Thanks for stopping by Eddy, I appreciate your comment and am glad you enjoyed it.

Eiddwen from Wales on February 03, 2014:

A wonderful hub and thanks for sharing.


Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on February 03, 2014:

I do find the oils, the incense/scents are very good for getting attention. A lot of times though when relationships get in a rut and he's distracted, communications are more something to work on than love. Thanks for commenting!

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on February 03, 2014:

Thanks so much Turtledog, I appreciate the comment. Good luck with it, and try that meditation too, I can't take credit for it but it's pretty awesome.

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on February 03, 2014:

Let me tell you-- I wore that oil when my husband and I were on a date after we had started dating, he was so shy about making a move. Well, it got his attention big time. Now I wear it when I plan a special romantic evening. Never fails.

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on February 03, 2014:

Thanks for sharing that blueheron. You know what they say-- it's better to have loved and lost than to not have loved at all. I still remember my first love so fondly even though we didn't end up together.

இڿڰۣ-- кιмвєяℓєу from Niagara Region, Canada on February 02, 2014:

This is very interesting. I, too, wonder about the more attention aspect of this.

TurtleDog on February 02, 2014:

Thanks... I could use all the help I can get lol ( awesome and up as always.. thanks)

Victoria Van Ness from Fountain, CO on February 02, 2014:

Very nice! Do these work for getting him to pay more attention to me too?! :)

Sharon Vile from Odessa, MO on February 02, 2014:

I once cast a love spell--about 40 years ago--and theree was a horrendous thunderstorm that began that night, after I cast the spell. I thought, "Gee, it must be working." Well--it did! Soon after, I got involved in the most wonderful relationship of my life. It only lasted a few years, but it was an unforgetable kind of thing!

Mackenzie Sage Wright (author) on February 01, 2014:

Aww, Billy, you don't strike me as the kind of guy who needs a love spell. I'd have thought you'd need a spell to ward off the ladies!