I am a psychic and spiritual counselor with lots of advice on love and romance.
You Deserve Love
In the days when I used to hang out in Wiccan and witchcraft chatrooms, the number one question was, "can you tell me how to do a love spell for free? One that really works?"
This usually got the questioner a lengthy explanation of why love spells are bad.
But love spells aren't bad if you know how to do one in a manner that's safe, healthy, harms no one, and doesn't impact your karma in a negative way.
Working as a psychic and spiritual counselor, I'm often asked for advice on love and romance. The love spell I'm going to give you here is based on an affirmation I often give to my clients—sometimes several times in one night. It's just that good.
This love spell actually works, and it works not just well but fantastically well. In fact, it's the spell that I used to draw my second (and last and forever) husband to me.
And if you don't like to do spells? Not a problem. The Ultimate Love Affirmation works fantastically by itself.
While I am normally a strong proponent of creating your own spell, every once in a while, you come across one that works so well that it deserves to be passed on. This spell is one of those.
Here's the deal: You deserve love. I want you to find it.
But before I get to the spell itself, let's start with some information that will help you understand how love spells work.
A Little About Casting Spells
First, if you're interested in casting this spell, it will help if you know some of the terminology and techniques. If you're a seasoned witch or magickal practitioner, feel free to skip this part.
- Creating sacred space refers to any practice that sanctifies yourself and the area in which you're casting the spell.
- In Wicca and witchcraft, we call this practice casting circle. It is just as valid to sprinkle holy water, read a psalm, or follow the rites of whatever religion or spiritual practice you follow.
- Grounding and centering are methods of connecting with the energies of the planet and the universe at large. They allow you to tap into more power than your human body allows. Some examples of this are tree meditations, the Qabalistic Cross, or just taking a moment to close your eyes and feel at one with your deity and the planet as a whole.
- Raising energy means using song, dance, vehement prayer, chanted words, or other methods to pull forth the energy of the Earth and the universe. You will know the energy has peaked when it feels as if the energy is so powerful that it's trying to pull away from you to get to where it belongs.
Another thing that's important to know: Need and desire are the fundamentals of magick. Therefore, don't allow someone else to cast a spell for you. Nobody cares as much about your love life as you do.
Don't worry about "getting it wrong." There's not much you can mess up with this particular spell.
If you have a friend who can help you create sacred space and you want to work the spell together to empower it in each of your lives, that's fine. But you don't need someone else to cast it for you—and certainly, don't pay for that.
First, Write a Lover's Wish List
One thing that helps get the universe in line with your desires to make a list of what you hope to find in the perfect person.
You might list things like:
- Shares my core spiritual values.
- Shares my core political values.
- Makes me laugh.
- Is responsible.
- Is good at communicating in our relationship.
- Respects my love for (something you care deeply about).
- Respects my intelligence.
- (Anything absolutely essential for you in a relationship.)
Don't go overboard on this. The longer the list, the more challenging it will be for the universe to give you what you're looking for. Try to keep it to no more than 10 or so items.
Look over your list and pare it down. With each one, ask yourself if it would be an absolute deal-breaker if the person didn't have that aspect.
As an example, one guy I dated wanted to eat out all the time. I love to cook, and I'm amazing at it. But this dude was squeamish about almost everything that wasn't a hamburger. Frustrating! I told myself that the right person for me would love food and adore my cooking.
My forever husband? Yup, he's a foodie. We enjoy cooking together and for each other, as well as watching shows about food together. It's heaven.
Another example. The same guy who didn't want me to cook also didn't like my cat (or any cat) very much. I already had an established relationship with my kitty, and I was neither giving him up nor wanted him to be a second-class citizen in my home. So, when I asked to find my forever love, I stipulated that he'd love my cat. One of the things I found on hubby's profile page was a photo of him holding his cat. Again, I knew we'd be compatible.
Don't be too specific. I had one student, proud of her Irish heritage, who asked that her new love be Irish. That ended up backfiring on her big time.
Things I'd recommend leaving out would include:
- Specific religion. For instance, saying you want someone who is "Pagan or Pagan-friendly" is fine, as is saying you want someone "Christian or Christian-friendly," etc. Remember that values and beliefs are different things.
- Specific hobbies/arts. If you have a hobby or art form you're passionate about; it's okay if the other person doesn't share that exact hobby with you, so long as they respect your love for it.
- Physical characteristics—eye color, hair color, height, weight, etc.
If you ask the universe to find you a 6-foot 2-inch, 180-pound Catholic-Italian tap dancer with blonde hair, green eyes, and a love of water polo, you're making it challenging as heck for the right person to come to you.
State your list in a positive manner. For example, don't say, "I want someone who doesn't treat me like garbage." Say, "I want someone who treats me with love and respect."
The Wish List as a Spell
If you want, you can use this list in a spell.
Be aware that this is not the "Ultimate Love Spell" that I'm going to show you shortly. Also, because doing spells for the same thing may actually make your spell work more slowly, don't do any love spell (or any spell for the same specific purpose) more than once every three or more months.
Because the Ultimate Love Spell is so powerful, I suggest you do that one first, wait three months and then, if you desire, use the one below.
Give yourself at least a week after you've made the list to fine-tune it.
Follow the same directions as for the Ultimate Love Spell (below).
Instead of steps 7 and 8, substitute your wish list, writing it down again and reading it out loud, starting with "[Your Deity of Choice] I accept someone who . . . " (And as per that spell, read it three times total.)
Place the list under the candle the same as with the Ultimate Love Spell, and follow the rest of the steps.
The Ultimate Love Affirmation
First, a warning or two about this affirmation.
You can use this if you are already in a relationship. It will do one of two things. Either it will make you stronger as a couple, or it will cause you to see that your present partner is not the right person for you. Be prepared for and open to either outcome.
Whether or not you already have a partner, it will cause powerful changes in your life, opening you to the perfect person. It may (and likely will) cause you to have experiences that will make you grow as a human. Only use it if you are ready and willing to accept love, joy, and the challenges of a true partnership into your life.
To my knowledge, this affirmation was created by my mentor, Lord Ash. I am not aware whether he had help with it or if it came in whole or in part from his own teachers. One of my students and I added two words to it, which we felt made the affirmation stronger.
The first time I saw this spell work was around 1999. Ash told me about the spell and suggested that I use it as well and give it out freely. His husband came into his life within about six months. A year or two ago, they were legally married.
I accept a reciprocal relationship that fulfills and satisfies me physically, emotionally, mentally, dynamically and spiritually.
Breaking Down How It Works
"I accept" means you are opening your heart and letting that energy in.
It's a reciprocal relationship; therefore, both of you will get as much from the relationship as you put into it. Assuming you put in the work—and any relationship IS work—you will both grow and thrive as a couple and as individual human beings.
It fulfills and satisfies you on every level of life. Those levels are pretty self-explanatory, but I'll touch on "dynamically." This means that you will come together at the right place and time when you are both the right people for the relationship to last over time.
How to Use the Affirmation
Write it down and place it somewhere you will see it every day. You can make multiple copies and post them in various places in your home.
Say the affirmation out loud. Put energy and power into your voice.
Know it is coming true.
I recommend saying it at least once per day, though more times a day can't hurt.
You can also make it into a spell (as below).
Making It a Spell
You do not need to use the Ultimate Love Affirmation as a spell. It will work just like an affirmation. However, it certainly doesn't hurt to work a spell to empower it. (And I did promise a spell, right?)
This is a simple candle spell, which can be used as a guideline for creating your own spells if you so desire.
Note that you may want to have a copy of the instructions with you during the spell, but that you should familiarize yourself with them before getting ready to cast.
You Will Need
- Pink candle (Note: You can also use a red candle; however, it's my feeling that pink works better for this.)
- Pen and paper
- A copy of the Ultimate Love Affirmation
- Something to light the candle with (matches, a lighter, or an already lit candle)
You May Also Want
- Incense (Rose, patchouli, or amber are especially appropriate.)
- Flowers (Pink and red roses are traditional of love. You may also want to include flowers that are personal to you.)
- Dove's blood ink (no, it's not made with real doves or with any sort of blood) and a quill pen rather than a normal pen. This ink is traditionally used to draw friendship and love.
- Pink paper rather than normal paper.
- A drum.
- Any altar gear you normally use.
- A small piece of pink quartz.
- Any items that remind you of love and romance.
- Choose a time during the waxing or full moon to work your spell. (Waxing moon is used for bringing something to you.) Make certain that you will be uninterrupted and that you will have plenty of time afterward to relax, let your candle burn and eat something. (Eating is grounding, and, as casting a spell takes energy, you need to replenish that.)
- Set up the space and altar for casting your spell. Feel free to make your space and altar as pretty as you'd like. Place your candle on your altar and any other items nearby and within reach. If using the pink quartz, place it in front of your candle.
- Ground and center.
- Create sacred space in your normal manner.
- Invoke your deity or deities of choice.
- Take a moment to focus on what it will feel like to be in a loving, mutual relationship, and hold that focus as you go through steps 7 through 11.
- Write the Ultimate Love Affirmation down, reading it aloud as you do so.
- Read the affirmation out loud two more times. (For a total of three readings.)
- Place the affirmation under the candle.
- Raise energy by singing, dancing, drumming, or chanting, "I accept love."
- When the energy peaks, send it into the candle.
- Light the candle. Say: "I accept love! May it be so!" (Or "so mote it be," "amen," or whatever is appropriate to your beliefs.)
- Thank the deities. Release your sacred space in your normal manner. Remember to ground yourself.
- Allow the candle to burn down in a safe place, and take all normal safety procedures for fire. Never let candles burn unattended.
- Within 24 hours, take at least one action from my article "Taking Action to Find Your True Love," or some other action to meet your special someone.
- Continue using the Ultimate Love Affirmation on a regular basis. If you used the pink quartz, carry it with you to remind you of your affirmation.
Do the Spell, Then Take Action
One of the most important things about spells is that they're not going to help unless you also take action. Spells don't make things happen; they make things more likely to happen.
A primary reason for spells failing is when the caster doesn't take some kind of action to give the spell an opportunity to function.
Love Spell FAQs
Why Do Love Spells Get a Bad Rap?
Ask most witches for a love spell, and you're likely to get a lecture. The truth is that most people who use love spells do so with a particular person in mind.
This isn't healthy. These spells usually flop and backfire big time on the person who cast them. Why? Because it's not ethical to cast a spell on an unwilling participant. Ever.
So, the love spell done on that specific person you're thinking about tends to end up creating stalkers and other abusive relationships.
Everyone deserves free will. You wouldn't want anyone else deciding what's best for you, right? Nobody else wants that either.
What Happens When You Cast a Love Spell with a Particular Person in Mind?
Well, if your magickal power happens to be strong enough to overcome that other person's will, you have, in effect, created a zombie. While they may have free will regarding other aspects of their life, they're now in love with you. They don't have the power to change it.
As long as your love spell is in effect, that person will feel driven to retain your love. There might be instances of intense jealousy (pretty much any time you befriend someone).
You might find that this person actually isn't right for you. In fact, you absolutely will find that out. Because if they were right for you, you would have fallen in love with each other in a completely natural way.
Good luck with that. Because of your spell, they're still going to be hanging around. Thus, the stalker aspect.
What's an Ethical Love Spell?
An ethical love spell is one in which you don't focus on a particular person. Instead, you trust in the greater wisdom of the universe to draw the right person to you.
Unlike the manipulative spells I've spoken about above, this type of spell doesn't force anyone. Nor does it create any harm or have negative repercussions.
An ethical spell will tune into your own higher power to make you magnetic to the energy of love.
Can You "Uncast" a Spell?
It's actually quite easy to cast a spell. You combine your heartfelt desire and need with the unfettered energy of the planet and the universe itself, and you begin to tip the dominoes of possibility and probability.
But uncasting a spell? That's a challenge. The universe doesn't have a simple "undo" button.
Once you've created energy and put it out there, you have to wait until that energy has moved through its full cycle or, in atomic speak, its "half-life." In the case of a love spell, that cycle is based on how long a relationship might be expected to last. That might be 75-100+ years, depending on how old you are when you begin it. As medical advances grow, that timeline will lengthen as well.
If you happen to drag the wrong person into your net via a love spell, that energy could extend for years and even decades, locking you into an uncomfortable and manipulative relationship.
Can a spell be undone? Yes, but not easily. That's a whole other subject.
How Will You Know They Really Love You?
The problem with a manipulative person-based love spell is that you will never get to know if they really care about you or if it's just your magick that is keeping the relationship intact.
Here's the deal—do you want to actually be loved, or do you just want to feel like you're loved? Me, I choose the first option.
Seriously. Do you want to live in a relationship where you have to wonder if they really care about you or if magick is doing it?
Obsession isn't healthy. Not for you, not for them.
Why Should You Want a Real Relationship?
A real relationship isn't about getting "hooked up." It's not just about having someone that makes you feel loved, although feeling loved is certainly a wonderful goal, so long as you go about it in a healthy manner.
It's only not about having a great time in bed—consider that a plus. And it should be fun and delicious for both of you. The physical sharing of a true relationship goes beyond mere physical pleasure and establishes communion and connection. It is as much about giving your partner joy as it is about having your own.
A relationship is about finding someone you can communicate with and share goals and interests with. It's about learning to deal with the faults and foibles in a fellow human and still be able to cherish them.
It's about still wanting to wake up every day gazing into their eyes.
Does Everyone Have a Perfect Match?
It is my powerful and absolute belief that every person on this planet has a perfect match. And that they have the ability to find that person in this and every lifetime.
When you use a manipulative love spell (or, for that matter, manipulate someone in any way, spell or not, to keep them with you), it prevents that perfect person from finding you because you're stuck on the one who probably isn't your perfect match.
It's also my belief that the All (feel free to insert your own name for this, whether you call it God, Goddess, Great Spirit, the Universe, or the Giant Spaghetti Monster) knows what's best for you. If you allow it to and work with it, it will eventually lead you to the person who will bring you ultimate happiness.
Why fight that?
This article is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge. Content is for informational or entertainment purposes only and does not substitute for personal counsel or professional advice in business, financial, legal, or technical matters.
Questions & Answers
Question: Do you have a spell to know if someone loves you?
Answer: Your best "spell" is to ask them outright. l suppose you can design a spell. Feel free to look up my book Spellcraft Secrets at Amazon.com or another venue. Personally I have never developed a spell for this, as I didn't find it needed. Talk to them, communicate! You'll know it pretty soon one way or the other.
Question: So I did the spell with a specific person in mind now... the flames appear to be dancing and just moving a lot and I have never seen that before, is that a good sign?
Answer: First, please don't do this spell with a specific person in mind. I've already cautioned you why that is unhealthy. The flames may be dancing because of air coming through your windows or any other environmental reason. It''s not a sign until you have ruled every other possibility out.
Question: is a colored candle necessary or can it be just a plain white one?
Answer: A white candle is a Universal answer to any color situation. When in doubt and if there is no other alternative because of access to other colors, use a white candle. White light enfolds the entire spectrum of colors and thus always works for every situation. Sure it's more powerful to use a color that resonates with the type of spell desired, but if you can't then go with white.
Question: I’d like to try this spell, however I do have someone in mind who I’ve had a long connection with, I would not like the person to be forced into something against their will, which is why I looked up how to put it out there in an ethical way. Is this ok? I would never want to do harm and only want to heal and strengthen our bond.
Answer: Once again this is all about ETHICAL. So NO, do not have someone in mind. Even if you DO have someone in mind be willing to have someone in mind for a diffeent alternative. When I started this spell I HOPED to continue a healthy relationship with my husband-at-the-time. He wasn't it. I met my ultimate love 2-3 years later and he IS the love of my life forever. Do not focus on a specific anyone. Trust the Universe.
Question: Is there a love spell you can cast for someone else?
Answer: If you mean casting it for a friend who needs a love: It's not going to wok nearly as well as if she/he casts the spell. If you're asking if "someone else, another person that you want to hook up with, then no, go back to "not working it on a specific person." Please do clarify your question.
Question: What if the candle won't go out?
Answer: Candles eventually go out because of a lack of fuel.
© 2014 Lionrhod
How do you feel about love spells in general or this one in particular?
Lionrhod (author) from Orlando, FL on April 14, 2020:
The short answer: Yes it is unethical.
The long answer: I have an entire chapter devoted to the morals of spellcasting in my book SpellCraft Secrets: The Art of Creating Magic Spells Made Easy.
The medium answer: Yes it's still unethical.
1) Do a spell on YOURSELF to make your own communication more powerful. Ask that those around you (not just your beloved) can feel safe and comfortable opening themselves to you. Don't be surprised if this results in coworkers, or random strangers chatting you up and telling you their deep dark secrets. Honor the spell by giving them your best, most honest and heartfelt advice, and then zipping your lips if someone else is curious about their secrets.
2) Have an honest and open talk with your beloved using NON-BLAME LANGUAGE.
Blame language: "When you don't want to share your feelings with me, I feel hurt."
Non blame language follows this formula and doesn't specify a specific person other than yourself. "When X happens, I feel y." Example, "When I imagine that someone is holding back from expressing their feelings, I feel sad/lonely/hurt etc."
Notice the use of "I imagine". it's a powerful hypnotic phrase that allows others to understand your state while not putting the blame on them.
3) IF and ONLY IF your beloved agrees that they have a problem, you might offer to do a spell for them. Or even better to do a spell together. If they say no, respect that. If they say yes, craft a spell that once again, places no blame, and enhances both of you equally.
Lionrhod (author) from Orlando, FL on April 14, 2020:
Mona: I'm sorry about the loss of your beloved. Yes, I'm sure that sucks., and there's no help for it other than the usual platitudes. Allow yourself to grieve.
Loss is something you will experience again and again over the course of your life. I can't save you from that, nor would I want to. It's part of what makes life precious. The only way to not lose those you love is to not love. And not loving is a terrible headspace I wouldn't wish on anyone.
As for your present boyfriend:
TALK with him and explain how you feel. Be willing to listen to how HE feels. Focus on improving healthy communication between the two of you.
Realize that wanting him to love YOU and ONLY YOU is unreasonable and unhealthy for both of you and your relationship. Nobody can be EVERYTHING for someone else.
Lionrhod (author) from Orlando, FL on April 14, 2020:
Again, my apologies for not checking my pages often enough.
Robert Jones: I'm sorry that your wife does not seem to love you. You may be able to win her back, or you many not. Since I know nothing about your situation, it's impossible for me to give you specific advice.
Some General Advice:
1) Please do read my articles on relationships https://hubpages.com/@lionrhod I have several which may be useful. Especially check out Healthy Steps to Heal Yourself After the Breakup.
Neither a spell nor any amount of talking may work, depending on how she left or why.
2) Don't fixate on her. If she left, she wasn't the right one for you and vice versa.
3) Consider your actions in your relationship. What can you do to be a better person in the next relationship?
4) If it's possible to still be friends, then focus on that. But be a REAL friend, not a husband trying to get her back.
5) Consider therapy, hypnosis, meditation, 12 steps or other methods of improving your mental image, feeling of self worth and life in general.
Kris on March 01, 2020:
Is it against free will to use a friendly spell with love to help someone who actually is attracted to the other be more encouraged to be honest with the self taking the next step? What if one is too shy, fears rejection and simply never fully offers him or herself to their love because of their uncertainty based off their own self doubt/rejection or thinking others will judge him or her for opening up and allowing him or herself to be brave enough to come forward with their love? Is it unethical, then, to use spell casting to help ones love "cross the bridge" in order to be honest with him or herself to finally speak up and take the next step?
Silas777 on December 16, 2019:
Love spells on specific people often backfire.
PeterBall on November 13, 2019:
Thanks for sharing the article.As mentioned, the FIRST relationship you come across spells may not be the RIGHT relationship for you to end up with.
Monasoto on November 12, 2019:
I need help I know my boyfriend loves me but he likes that center of attention, he is my middle school sweetheart, then we broke up when we were 17 then we went on our separate ways but we were still close friends, then I found the love of my life my bff, soulmate my love of my life, but he past on 4yrs ago, and now I’m back with my middle school sweetheart, I just want him to love me and only me, I don’t want to be hurt or lose anyone again so plz help me
Mona on November 12, 2019:
Hello, my boyfriend that I’m with is my middle school sweetheart, we broke up when we were 17yr and we went on our own but still we’re still close friends, then I found my love of life, bff, soulmate, my world but his past on almost 4yrs ago, and now my with my middle schools sweetheart, I know he loves me but he likes the center of attention and his so call friends (girls) just use him for his money, I just want him to love me and only me, I want him to know I got his back all the way, to thick to thin.so plz help me get him back to me, cause I don’t want to lose another love of my life
Randa on November 10, 2019:
Is this love spell free?
Robert Jones on September 30, 2019:
I need help i want my wife to love me again life with out her is killing me i want her to want me but not under a spell i want her to feel my hurt and pain from loseing her but also the love i have for her please help me
Lionrhod (author) from Orlando, FL on September 29, 2019:
Raven: Apologies, I've been offline with a broken computer for several months, and have only just returned to Hubpages.
I'm not sure what you mean by the "rule of two" please do elucidate?
It's not really possible to do this particular spell "wrong" so long as you are focused on the "right" person for you.
As mentioned, the FIRST relationship you come across after you do this spell may not be the RIGHT relationship for you to end up with.
BUT every relationship in your life, whether romantic or not is there to teach lessons.
Your instincts on not wishing to break up another relationship are spot on. You can certainly be a friend to this person, but getting "involved" sounds like it could become quicksand, rapidly sucking you under.
Toxic relationships are toxic for TWO reasons, not just one. In other words, BOTH parties are allowing that toxicity to be part of the relationship. That person you care about is going to need years of changing their own patterns before they could be a healthy partner in a relationship. I highly recommend these articles:
Don't beat yourself up, but certainly don't look at this relationship as anything other than a friendship that will help you grow,
As for the love spell itself - Depending on where you are in your life it may take time. And don't be afraid to do the spell more than once. I myself, just in giving the words to my clients, repeated the affirmation at least a thousand times before I found my FOREVER HUSBAND.
That's okay - it's a safe spell. And the more you repeat it and open yourself to a relationship that TRULY satisfies you, the more it will happen.
Lionrhod (author) from Orlando, FL on September 29, 2019:
Cotika: I think you missed the point of the entire article. An ETHICAL love spell does not make someone obsess over you. Obsession is not a healthy part of any relationship.
Honestly, nor is someone who "thinks about you day and night." If anything that's creepy and stalker-ish.
If you really care about someone you want them to have a life OTHER than you. That doesn't mean you can't be part of their life, but hopefully you want them to have dreams and aspirations, a career, things that THEY want to do for THEMSELVES,
In a healthy relationship you both support each other's dreams. You don't become each other's stalker nightmares
There are plenty of so-called spellworkers who will promise to do a "bring back your man" or similar crap spell. Feel free to waste your money.
Or if you want a real true healthy relationship actually READ my article.
Lionrhod (author) from Orlando, FL on September 29, 2019:
Dove's Blood ink is pretty easy to find. I'm sure Amazon carries it, but also many smaller companies should. Just do a search for "Dove's Blood ink.
Cotika Washington on August 11, 2019:
Hey my name is Cotika Washington and im in love eith a man name Bryant Planter and i want him back in my life for good and only have eyes for me Basily i want him obessed with me and constanly think bout me all day and night
Raven on May 23, 2019:
Is there any chance that the rule of two can make things go awry? I’ve tried a love spell before, though it wasn’t this one. Then I did this one and I feel a connection growing with someone that I’m worried about is all wrong for me. We basically got like 2 puzzle pieces, practically reading each other’s minds (but in a good sort of way). The problem isn’t the person or whatever, but they are already in a relationship, albeit a toxic one and I don’t want to mess up a relationship to get one. Granted, I hadn’t met these people until after I did the spell, but I don’t see any good relationship coming from ending another, though that’s really the only reason I have a bad feeling about this at all. I’m basically just scared that this spell worked on the wrong person and that the people affected are going to get hurt, you know? I sincerely hope you respond because I’m terrified that I somehow did the spell wrong or that I did it right, but the rule of two is at play or whatever.
Amy on May 21, 2019:
I perfer using affirmation without casting it as spell
Well thank you for sharing
But like when will see result and when will stop saying affrimation
Melissa on May 18, 2019:
Where can I find the taking action to fjnd your true love article?
M on May 09, 2019:
Can you provide the like for your article “taking action to find your true love”?
Cas on April 18, 2019:
My boyfriend's ex put a love spell on him using her menstrual blood. Since we have been together she's done nothing but get in the way and split us up. We always end up back together but I'm concerned all the problems are due to the spell? He also says he doesn't believe in voodoo/ witchcraft/spells ect but it worries me. Could it have actually worked? Is it dangerous?
Raven on April 01, 2019:
Where is the article “Taking Action to Find Your True Love”?
Jm on March 17, 2019:
Jensen on January 14, 2019:
What if I would like to do this spell, but I have a crush on someone? I don't want to accidentally direct the spell at him in particular, but it wouldn't be so bad if he ended up realizing he loves me because of it. But I don't want to MAKE him love me. So what if I accidentally think of him while I'm doing it??
Mike Booyens on November 09, 2017:
Good article. Where can one buy dove blood online?
Lionrhod (author) from Orlando, FL on November 04, 2014:
Thanks for asking Alisha. You don't have to use the pink quartz or the dove blood ink. If you want, the juice of raspberries or another berry would be perfect. You can use clear quartz in the place of any other stone. Or use a picture of a heart or a heart shaped piece of jewelry or other heart shaped item
Alisha on November 04, 2014:
pink quart and dove blood is not available in my country...any alternatives???