Becoming Wiccan: 7 Useful Steps to Start You on Your Path

Updated on May 17, 2018
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A Wiccan of 25 years, Sage likes to put her background as a writer and teacher to use by helping people learn about this NeoPagan path.

How Do I Become Wiccan?

Dear Sage, I have decided to become Wiccan! Now, can you please tell me—what do we believe? Who are the God and Goddess? Do we have to be vegetarian? Should I wear black clothes? Do I have to get a pentagram? I’m ordering a complete box of ritual tools from Witchcrafts-R-Us.com and it should be here next week, now how do I cast spells? Thanks so much, Blessed Be!”

This is something I get in email more and more often, and other friends of mine who are openly Wiccan will occasionally get them as well. I’ll see similar messages on social media. I have to wonder at that point—if you know nothing about a religion, how do you decide you want to join it?

Then I recall that many Western religions that we’re familiar with encourage us to convert first, sort out the details later. Wicca, being an experiential religion rather than revealed, can pose a problem for those who are used to being told what to believe and what to do. To help those individuals, I’ve tried to break it down into a basic step-by-step overview of the process.

Some people think the key to starting Wicca involves running out, buying tools, holding a ritual or casting spells—eventually, yes. Initially, you should take it much slower.

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1. Read

Before you even think about converting to Wicca, or before you make any finalized decisions or declarations, you should spend some time studying. Sorry to report this—but if you don’t like reading or studying, you’re probably not going to like Wicca very much; or at least you’re not going to get very far. Wicca is a non-dogmatic religion; rather than telling you what to believe, it throws the ball in your court and tells you to think critically. This requires knowledge.

One book isn’t enough, but five or ten books is a good start. It’s generally recommended you read and study—actively—for at least a year and a day before making any decisions about whether to be Wiccan or not.

My Reading Recommendations

Wicca for Beginners: Fundamentals of Philosophy & Practice
Wicca for Beginners: Fundamentals of Philosophy & Practice

Simply the best fundamental book for beginning Wiccans to day-- better than Cunningham's "Wicca" and way way waaaay better than anything ever penned by Silver RavenWolf.

 
The Circle Within: Creating a Wiccan Spiritual Tradition
The Circle Within: Creating a Wiccan Spiritual Tradition

I absolutely love this book; unlike most other books, it's not all about introducing tools, Gods and rituals. Instead, it takes a both practical and spiritual approach to living your life-- 24/7-- as a Wiccan. if you're tired of reading yet another Wicca 101 book, this will bring you into new territory.

 

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Step 2: Think

Once you really start learning about Wicca, it’s beliefs, it’s tenets, etc., it’s time to consider whether your beliefs are a match. Are your personal beliefs something that can fall within a Wiccan framework?

Wicca is not a dogmatic religion, this is true; so anyone coming into it looking for a book of scripture or a list of commandments is approaching it from the wrong angle. But Wicca is also not, as some poorer sources have of late been putting it, “anything you want it to be.” The problem with saying Wicca is anything is that you’re essentially saying it’s nothing. There are some things that just don’t fit very well under the definition.

For example, if you don’t believe in any kind of Gods, and you’re just looking to practice magic, then why are you joining a religion in which the major rituals, festivals, rites, etc. are centered on Pagan Gods and Goddesses? You could just as easily go ahead and study Witchcraft without becoming Wiccan at all. Or if you believe in Jesus with all your heart as a savior, why do you want to worship him within a religion that teaches there is nothing to be saved from?

The beauty of Wicca is that there are really no mandates—there are no ‘accept this or take a hike’ philosophies. But in being part of an experiential religion, you are accepting responsibility to use logic and reason—which means really considering if your beliefs fit within Wicca, or that if perhaps the one or two things that attracts you to Wicca can be found in another religion that is more in line with your beliefs.

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Step 3: Pray

Once you get to the point at which you know you want to worship as a Wiccan, it’s time to begin worshipping. Start praying to your Gods. Introduce yourself and ask them to reveal themselves to you. Ask for guidance, for clarification, for understanding.

Start meditating—for as they say, if prayer is talking to your God, meditation is listening. A daily meditation regime can be very beneficial not just for health and wellness purposes, but for spiritual development.

Praying Is for Everyone

Wiccans pray too.
Wiccans pray too. | Source

Step 4: Observe

Start being aware of life from a Wiccan perspective. Observe the cycles of the seasons and the cycles of the moon. Start acknowledging them in small ways. Think about Wiccan tenets and ethics when you’re faced with choices. Consider your life, and areas in which lessons can be learned from Wicca.

Observe the world around you; the interplay between all living things. Begin to notice the cycles of the seasons, of the moon, of life. You may wish to get into a more regular routine with your meditations and prayers, or start some very simple, informal rites to celebrate Esbats and Sabbats.

At this point, reading and learning shouldn’t necessarily stop, but it’s important to begin some application of those principles. That’s how you start living Wicca.

Some of My Ritual Tools

Wiccan Altar Tools
Wiccan Altar Tools | Source

Step 5: Build

A mistake a lot of people make early on is rushing out to collect tools—but Wicca is not a scavenger hunt. But at this point, when you’ve begun to practice, you may want to begin moving towards more formal practice. You might wish to start collecting altar tools—you don’t need to get them all at once. In fact, it’s a good idea to study a tool and its purpose, then look for it, then begin to use it, doing this one at a time.

A lot of books will tell you to get this and that, but keep in mind that you won’t need every tool that every book mentions. This is why it’s important to understand a tool’s function before you even worry about buying it—it may turn out to be something you just don’t need.

It’s also time to start building your ritual. That is, building a more structured approach to your ritual. That doesn’t mean you have to plan ever single detail out, but by its very definition a ritual is a repeated act. It’s the repetition that helps you reach ritual consciousness. It helps you bypass the state of consciousness in which you’re actively thinking into that state on which you go into ‘autopilot’ so that you can open yourself to the various energies you’re trying to raise.

Start thinking about a standard opening and closing, invocations, casting a circle. Again, it’s not something you need to do all in one night, but every couple of months think about and add another element.

Step 6: Magic

Magic isn’t necessarily the focus of Wicca, but it’s certainly a major component. Eventually you’re going to want to incorporate some into your practice. Someone interested in just learning magic doesn’t have to be Wiccan and should go straight to learning The Craft; however, if Wicca as a religion is what interests you, spend the time familiarizing yourself with the religion first. Once you get to the point at which you’re collecting tools and holding regular rituals, it’s a good time to begin practicing this fascinating and enchanting element. Begin including some minor magical workings in your circle, as well as beginning studies in the arts.

Connect!

Meet other Wiccans
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Step 7: Network

At some point, it’s good for you to get out in the Pagan community at large. You don’t have to wait until the end to do this, but if you haven’t yet you should try at this point.

Meet with other Wiccans, attend classes or open rituals or drumming circles. Doing this can expose you to many new ideas, help you find people to talk to that you can relate to, you might even find a coven that you’d like to join if this is your ultimate goal. Religions are personal journeys, but they’re also meant to be experienced communally to some extent.

This list is by no means the only way to go about becoming Wiccan, but if you’re truly unsure of where to begin or where to go, it’s a good succession that will get you on your way.

Wiccan Liturgy - Charge of the Goddess

© 2013 Mackenzie Sage Wright

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      Simone 

      28 hours ago from South-Africa

      Hi! So I have a question- may sound silly. I grew up as a Christian, no longer adhere to it for a very long time now, like I'm totally committed to becoming Wiccan, since I love everything about it [am doing one year and one day]. All the things I've learned so far are so liberating! Anyway, growing up Christian I was taught to always ask god what is his will before I make any life decisions, and that I would be punished or things wouldn't work out well if I made the wrong choice against his will. I was also taught about predestination and a divine plan. Now that I'm walking this path of becoming wiccan it's a huge obstacle for me as I'm not sure if there is such a concept in wicca? It has always made me very uncertian in my life about how to make decisions, and now I feel like WIcca may have some better answers for me about 'the will of the divine'. How does this work and what are your veiws? When it comes to magick and ethics- does a witch need to consult the will of the divine before doing a spell, or is she free to do any spell, as long as she harms no one? Is there some divine plan that we need to follow/understand or do we just make our own path? Tnx!

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      Aidean 

      4 months ago

      Hi I read this page and this looks interesting. I am currently in the research part of the decision. I wanted to ask if you know any good articles or books or even videos about this subject.

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      Mackenzie Sage Wright 

      6 months ago

      Hi Vivienne; I know how it feels, your mind can swirl with information overload in the beginning, it takes time for things to start settling and percolating sometimes.

      So it all comes down to this: Wicca & Witchcraft are two different things that overlap. Wicca is a Pagan polytheistic fertility religion; we have certain liturgy, tenets, rights, rituals, a way of looking at the divine (as equal masculine/feminine).

      Witchcraft is a skill; a literal craft. It can be combined with any-- or no-- religion. There are Witches in all walks. Their practices may vary depending on religion/culture.

      The pentagram (which we don't worship; it's just a symbol) has been around for thousands of years. Wicca is a 70-ish year old religion. So... do the math. Many religions have used the pentagram as a symbol for various things. Even Christians used it for more than a thousand years to represent the wounds of Christ.

      Athames are not unique to Wicca. In fact when Wicca was developed, the use of blades was adopted from Ceremonial Magic.

      Now... can you be Wicca if you don't agree with everything? I would say sure... I don't think there is any religion in which every person agrees exactly on the doctrine. I guess it really depends-- how much can you disagree with a religion before you discover you've gone way out of the ballpark? That's something you have to think about as you learn.

      Some of my articles delve into the differences between Wicca & Witchcraft, Wicca & Pagan, Wicca & Christianity, Eclectic Wicca & Traditional Wicca, etc... so keep reading & learning. It takes time to really digest it all. Took me years to get a foothold, and I'm still learning things.

      Good luck! Many blessings on your path.

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      Vivienne Tiana 

      6 months ago

      Hi sage. I have to get this off my mind! So i am very very interested in Witchcraft. But i tend to get things mixed up. Like the Pentagram. Can you worship it without being Wiccan? Can you own an athame without being Wiccan? Can you still do wiccan rituals without being Wiccan? I have considered being Wiccan, but i dont really believe in some things that Wicca beholds. It confuses me alot. Can i still be wiccan even if i dont believe in some things? I need answers about what the religion actually is and what makes it different from Witchcraft. Blessed be.

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      Mackenzie Sage Wright 

      2 years ago

      Sorry for the late response Angelfire, I hope you've found the answers to your question. If I put a book in my article, it's because I recommend it. My favorite for people looking to learn is Wicca for Beginners by Thea Sabin.

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      angelfire 

      2 years ago

      I've always been drawn to 'the craft' and wicca- but there's so much info- I seek the truth of it all. Can you recommend books that will help me along the way

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      Mackenzie Sage Wright 

      3 years ago

      Hi Melissa;

      If you are interested, check out my blog for info about the Wiccan Way Grove class I will be teaching this fall: http://wiccansage.blogspot.com/p/news.html

      This is going to be a fairly intensive year-and-a-day study, so it's not for someone just looking for information or who is just looking to chat. But for those serious about learning, it will be an interactive guided course for serious practitioners.

      There are many ways to study Wicca. You can study as a solitary and join an internet message board to help you along (it is always good to have people to bounce ideas off of). You can also check out Witchvox.com or CUUPS.org to see if there are any groups, events, shops, classes, etc. in your area.

      Play it safe to be sure, but at least you have somewhere to begin and can ease into it.

      Hopefully you'll find my hubs helpful as well. Have a blessed Beltane.

      ~Sage

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      Melissa 

      3 years ago

      I live in a big city, a bad city. I am 34 and need to learn about the gods and goddesses, the moon and its power and many other things, people where i live are NOT approachable, but i need to learn. What do i do? I need someone to learn from.

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      Mackenzie Sage Wright 

      3 years ago

      Thank you Mel, I so appreciate the kind feedback.

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      Mel92114 

      3 years ago

      This is just amazing! Love, love, love this and all of your work!

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      Mackenzie Sage Wright 

      5 years ago

      Thank you modernalchemyst, I think it could apply to many of the Pagan religions today since they are so orthopraxic. I think people mean when when they are attracted to it, but the Western world has long been dominated by orthodoxic religions that teach people, "Sit down, this is what you're supposed to believe and this is what you're supposed to do." When they come to an orthopraxic religion, it takes them by surprise. Thanks for the comment!

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      Joey 

      5 years ago

      Yes! This! I will be sharing this in the future, because I tend to get the same questions only referenced toward Norse paganism rather than Wicca. I think what you've written actually could apply to paganism in general.

      It sends a red flag up for me every time I hear someone claim they want to be a witch/Wiccan/pagan/whatever, but they have absolutely no idea what it entails. I immediately suspect they're fresh off a great sci-fi show or book that inspired them to practice "the craft", right or wrong. I admire the Wiccan tradition of studying for a year and a day for just that reason.

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