You have to decide if you want to develop your gifts, or not. What you have to remember is that you are just as capable of predicting good things as bad ones. That's because life is full of negative to positive events, constantly. The problem is that humans are programmed to take more notice of the bad stuff - naturally, it has more emotional impact - so those are the ones that 'leak through' into your conscious. There are various suggestions on the page and in the comments so I won't repeat them again. You'll also find a link to a resource page where you can discover other people going through similar experiences.