Gemini and Virgo are what we call a square aspect in astrology. It causes challenges in relationships, and in individual charts too. But squares in a love or couples situations can add chemistry and great sex too! Also, both Gemini and Virgo are ruled by planet Mercury. It's all about communication. There is nothing better for a relationship than to be able to discuss what's on your minds. Since you are Virgo, you like facts, and take communication more seriously. You can get bogged down in detail, be critical, and not see the forest for the trees. She's your intellectual equal. She likes to learn about a variety of topics, but not as deeply as you do. She's a bit more lighthearted. She can be a flirt and her mind goes faster. My love of 39 yrs. and I had many planets squared. A lot more than just knowing the Sun signs matter. But I hope I helped you understand that communication between you two is the key. If it's not broke, don't fix it!