Cancer, Libra, and Capricorn are all cardinal signs of leadership. If you don't have a good career or job, that's the outlet you need, it's not the Scorpio planets causing you to have difficulty, although it is causing you to obsess about it all. You need to set goals once you figure out what you want to achieve. You have the ability to do that with three leadership signs. Scorpios are great at getting their own way too. I really think work or another way to find a leadership position of some sort is the answer to balancing all these energies. You need to act more, obsess less. Scorpios are great leaders too, and trusted friends. You just haven't found your area of interest or focus yet. Once you do, it will all fall in place.