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Interpreting Your Personal Love Dreams

Updated on June 25, 2017
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Dreams can tell us what's happened, what's happening, and what is going to happen. They connect us to the other side and offer us insight that we couldn't get anywhere else.

Your dreams will never lie to you as long as you know how to listen to them!

I've been studying my dreams since I was young and I've gotten pretty good at lucid dreaming, meaning I can 'wake' myself up in a dream and tell myself that it's a dream and then do what I want - fly, see an old friend, or ask an important question. It's a huge part of my excitement for going to sleep at night!

Every morning I remember my dreams and try to figure out if they meant something important, or if they were just random and fun little movies for the night.

Sometimes my dreams offer me the best relationship advice or personal advice that I could ever ask for.

We've all heard of great stories about dreams like Albert Einstein whose theory of relativity was inspired by a dream...that's how powerful dreams really are! You just need to know how to interpret the symbols in your dreams to understand what they mean for you.

Your Dream Interpretations Are Unique To YOU

Everyone looks at certain symbols in dreams and associates something different to them. We do not all view things in the same way.

For example, you might associate the lake with peace while your friend associates it with partying. So when YOU dream of the lake, it most likely represents peace in your life whether you are striving for it or currently receiving it. In short, the lake is your symbol for peace.

Sit back and think about what you associate certain things with. Don't overthink it! Just write down what comes to mind first.

For instance, I would associate the following things as follows:

  • Darkness = calm
  • Water = Peace
  • Parent's home = conflict or turmoil
  • Grandpa's home = comfort
  • Red = love


When you are interpreting your dreams, keep all of your own personal dream symbols in mind. Remember the truth will resonate with you when you see or hear it.

Following are some general interpretations in regards to feelings, sights, and emotions regarding relationship related dreams.

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Common Dreams and Interpretations

Sometimes we have dreams about things regarding relationships and we take them a face value - but a lot of the time they are really pointing to some other area of your life.

Dreams Regarding Marriage

Bride - To dream of being a bride, whether it's yourself or someone else, means you are coming into an inheritance.

Man Kissing A Bride - This can mean a joyous get-together between family and friends.

Elopement - This may mean unfavorable events that will or are already occurring in your life.

Partner eloping with someone else - Watch out! You may soon learn about your partner being unfaithful. Alternatively, this could mean you have insecurities or questions about your relationship.

Marriage License - You may make a bad alliance that ends in you being hurt or humiliated.

Dreams With Big Emotions

Happiness - This may be pointing out the obvious but this probably means being happy now or in the near future.

Ecstasy - You will have a visit from a long absent friend.

Joy - To dream of feeling good means there will be harmony among all your friends.

Pleasure - If you dream of gratification you will have many financial and personal gains of enjoyment.

Cheerful - This means that joyous events and activities will soon prove profitable.

Delight - This is letting you know that your life is going well or going to be well soon. Everything is going work out.

Common Dream Symbols Regarding Relationships

There are some very common dreams that we all have. Chances are you have had one or more of these things in your dreams at some time or another. Remember your symbols and listen to your inner self when trying to interpret your dreams. Take into account colors, feelings, time of day, who is there, and everything else when you are trying to interpret your dreams.

Baby - It may mean that an idea or thought is growing and getting ready to be born. An obvious interpretation could be an impending birth. It can also bring to your attention a dependent behavior or need. If the baby is alone it can represent your independence.

Breasts - Of course they may represent sexual desire. It can also represent becoming a mother, need for nurturing, or if you are running around naked, it could mean a fear of exposure.

Kissing - This may suggest romantic involvement. It can also be a symbol of you and someone making up or a reconciliation coming about. It could also mean kissing the past goodbye. Married people or couples kissing means everything is going smoothly and happily and full of harmony. What time of day is it? If it is during the dark it may represent danger or an inappropriate situation. If it's sunny out it may represent good intentions and well meaning.

Pregnancy - It could indicate a desire for a child or not knowing that you are pregnant - but I dream of this a lot and I don't want children! It could also mean something new beginning or coming into your life. Maybe an idea or thought that is getting ready to come out.

Veil - If you are walking around with a veil over your face it may not just be an upcoming marriage. It may mean that you are looking at something through the veil or someone looking at you that way.

Adultery - This can signify your sexual urges and desires that are wanting to come out. It can also indicate disloyalty from your subconscious. You may soon find yourself or already be finding yourself in something shady or disloyal. It probably won't end well.

If your partner is cheating on you it may being showing you your insecurities and your fear of being dumped. It may symbol your feelings of your partner being less attentive and 'there' in the relationship. It may also be your guilt coming out and show you that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others.

Are you dreaming about sleeping with your spouse's friend? This doesn't necessarily mean you want to cheat with them. It may mean that you are feeling neglected by your spouse.

Cheating - Are you dreaming of cheating on something or someone. This may mean you have compromised your beliefs or integrity and/or not making the most of your time and your energy and putting it towards bad decisions and activities. Taking it literally it can bring to life your sexual passion and exploring areas of your sexuality.

To dream that you are cheating at a game, suggests that you are not being honest with yourself.

Lovers - A lover appearing in your dream show your acceptance, self-worth, and recognition of your true value. It may also indicate integration of both your masculine and feminine traits meaning you are feeling complete or whole. You may also dream of your 'dream person' which may indicate that your relationship is not satisfactory to you or it is unfulfilling.

To dream of an ex can symbolize unfinished or unresolved issues that relate to that person. I think we've all dreamt that at times. This may happen when you are in a good relationship and it's waking up your inner issues and memories.

Sex - This may mean you are missing aspects of the person you are having sex with and you want to incorporate them into your own character. It also may just be your desires way of telling you that it's been a long time since you've had sex. If you are trying to find a place to get it on then the dream may be represent your search for a certain intimacy and closeness that you can't find.

Are you having sex with a well known public figure? It indicates your drive to be successful. What do they represent to you? For instance having sex with Angelina Jolie may mean you want to help other people and have the drive to do it.

To dream that you are having sex with an ex may just be showing you that you have some hesitation about getting into a new relationship or situation. Normal!

If you are heterosexual and you dream that you are having sex with someone of the same sex don't spend all day thinking about it. It may just be an expression of being more comfortable with yourself and letting others know you do not affect them.

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Meditation is simply about being in a relaxed state. In short, you calm your mind (usually into an alpha state) during meditation, just as you do before you go to bed or when you daydream or when you are really relaxed sitting in front of the ocean - or wherever else your mind naturally calms down. Meditation has so many benefits for your health, but we are talking about dreams here - right?

If you want to interpret your own dreams, then meditation can help you do that. Why? Meditation gives you more self-awareness and allows you to find answers that you cannot find when your mind is buzzing and going from one thought to the next.

If you meditate in the morning on your dreams instead of instantly jumping out of bed to get ready for your day, you will have a much easier time remembering and interpreting your dreams.

Moreover, if you meditate before bed, you can focus your attention on things you want to dream about or find answers to - and you will have an easier time influencing your dreams.

Dreams have the power to give you answers, help you sort through issues, and give you insight into your future - and meditation has the power to connect you to your dreams and help you understand them.

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You Are The Only One Who Can Really Interpret Your Love Dreams

Remember that whatever resonates as the truth to you is what your dream means.

I get a lot of people asking me what their love dreams mean but, as we discussed, certain symbols mean different things to different people. For instance, darkness for me is calming whereas it might be depressing or scary to you.

I can give you my interpretation of your dream and even let my tarot cards guide you towards a theme or situation, but I don't know all the details of YOU and your life, which is important for interpreting dreams. inside, you know exactly what your dream meant - you are the one who had it! So, you need to learn how to interpret them yourself.

We are all built with an inner guidance system. Meditation is a great tool to help you get access to that inner guidance system. The information is in you, in your cells, waiting for you to find it - so start looking inward instead of outward.

Happy Dreaming!

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      Emma 22 minutes ago

      Hi Kari, please help.

      I dreamed I saw a ship from a far approaching the shore. I got on a yacht to go met the ship. I was with two of my family members on the yacht when I realised I couldnt see the ship anymore. It was missing. The sea was dark etc. Just then, the ship rose beneath my yacht and broke it in half. The ship was so big, bigger than the yacht. I was holding onto the broken half of the yacht trying to support myself from falling. I was scared of falling into the sea. I somehow managed to get on the ship that broke the yacht and woke up.... Just the thought of it is freaking me out.

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      rosie 59 minutes ago

      Basically my dream that someone that I once loved, but have lost contact with, moved out of their house. My dream for the whole night had A LOT of different parts to it that had nothing to do with each other but this part stood out to my the most. Their house was behind me and I looked over the brick wall to find that their house was empty. It was white if that's significant-which I would interpret as purity. I don't think the wall was symbolic because I do actually have a brick wall behind my house. I believe there were the classic brown boxes stacked around the small house as well. I found a white fridge next to a sink and there was a liter soda of sprite and for some reason, I took a huge gulp of it and quickly put it back. I continued looking around and found nothing significant- that I can remember. I wasn't mad just confused that they didn't tell me, even though we don't speak anymore, but confused none the less.

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      Meg 13 hours ago

      I think its the latter that we just get along. Nothing inappropriate going on at all. Also now im having a new dream that im pregnant, but I had my tubes tied 2 years ago. In dream my husband and I are shocked obviously.

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      Jayme ojeda 39 hours ago

      Kari well she's still having dream's of fire . I spent the hole weekend w her . so we both use f.b. together she and I had a little squabble I got upset w her be a cause she never puts likes on my posts she always runs to our mural friend Christan Falkner's posts he's Aquarian like her a goodie goodie on f.b. who has nothing but woman and lots of woman crawling all over him and his posts like 6 times a day . I feel like he is trying to steal her from me thats not OK by me. My point is she said I was jealous man right after she put a ♥ on my post. She started blushing bright red and started laughing. We both did.. I love her so very much . so later we went shopping and went we stopped to rest some young girls walked past us ( me in wheelchair due to sciatica ) me already tired and in pain one of the young girls lookS at me and my girl looks at me like she was mad and kicks me I wasn't doing anything but resting I think that made her jealous since she won't be in a committed relationship w me but yells at me everyday if I dont eat right or do what she asks me to do. Could her dreams of fire be due to fear. of committment since she was hurt so badly by her dead ex hubby then her ex boyfriend still is playing step dad to her fully grown kids and grand kids .? Also it seems as she hides her feelings . she always seems to be angry but I love her and her family they love me also . thanks hopefully u will know what the fire means . I.m told all the time by her23 yr old daughter and her personal friends that my girl does have feelings for me but can't show them in words she does cook for me alot

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      Kari 2 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Toni - Hard to interpret this one. I don't know what 'things' are. But, it just sounds like you are looking for a guy who is similar to your boss OR you think that your boss is a perfect fit for a boss.

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      Kari 2 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Kelly - Are you unsure about something in your life? Do you want two things at once? Are you struggling with an emotional? That's what it seems to me your dream is about.

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      Kari 2 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Karina - It probably represents the progression you want to happen in a relationship. Maybe you feel like you've been taking it too fast, or maybe you have been taking it too fast, or maybe you want to take it too fast, but your subconscious is telling you that you should take it slow. And it's not about him, necessarily. It could be about any relationship in your life, current or future.

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      Toni 2 days ago

      I dreamt about my boss that we actually got it together such a lovely dream he was just the man I'm craving but in my dream then I woke up a few things happened in the dream. But nice things what does this mean

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      kelly 2 days ago

      i recently dreamt of a woman who is in love with me and it seems that we have are into a romantic relationship, however, in my dream, i am also in love with a guy i am marrying.. what does that mean?i'm a straight girl..

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      Karina 2 days ago

      I had a dream of my former crush and we were just talking at first but towards the end of my dream he told me that he loved even and kissed me and then I woke up. What does this mean?? PLease help.

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      Nethra 2 days ago

      Thank u Kari

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      Kari 3 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Paul - Is she from your past? Perhaps your dream represents your awareness that you put too much energy into chasing her. Maybe you scared her by overdoing it? Or maybe you tried too hard and it backfired? It seems you believe that not giving her so much attention (when you stop chasing her) is when she would give you the attention you want.

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      Kari 3 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Meg - Are you worried about your relationship with your manager? Or do you feel like it's getting inappropriate? Those could be two explanations for the dream.

      Also, the dream may just represent the fact that you and your manager get along.

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      Kari 3 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Nethra - That's good you are allowing yourself time to heal and get stronger before you get back into a relationship. I would say that since you are focused on healing yourself, the proposal in the dream is more about commitment than it is about a guy confessing his love to you. Quite similar to someone else who recently had a proposal dream. Are you looking for some sort of commitment in your life? Are you trying to be more committed? (Maybe to living a single life until you are ready?) Are you doing well at your commitments?

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      Kari 3 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Anonymous - Because it is a marriage proposal, I would think that you are hoping for some sort of commitment in your life. It may be about a person (doesn't have to be intimate), or it may be about a job, health, happiness, self-improvement, etc.

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      Kari 3 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Tala - It means he's your crush and you like him! It just sounds like you hope you could have a relationship with him.

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      Paul 3 days ago

      I had a very vivid dream of a woman I loved but she went after other men. After I stopped chasing her she looked me in the eyes and said I love you and only you. (Then I woke up)

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      Meg 4 days ago

      I recently dreamt that I was at work and did a french style greeting kiss on the cheek with my manager. Someone said do a real kiss so my manager kissed me on the lips. I then smiled and blushed and felt worried about what my husband would think. What does it mean?

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      Nethra 4 days ago

      Hi am 27 yrs old and single. I have not been in a relationship since my last brk up as it left a very deep emotional scar.As, it's a healing time for me am not rushing into finding someone. Couple of years back I saw this guy at office who was from a different process and right opposite to my ODC. I was just crushing on him and that's all it was. I don't knw this guy personally or have I ever spoken. Last night I just had a dream that this guy confessed to have liking me and came to my house with the proposal. What does this dream mean? It's like a real feeling but it was just a dream.

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      Anonymous 4 days ago

      Hi am 27 yrs old ,,, I had this dream about the person whom once I had crush on appearing in my dream with a marriage proposal.I have never spoken to this person and it's been lik 2 yrs since I saw him last .What does this mean ?

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      Tala 5 days ago

      I've dreamt that my crush said he'll miss me and then he kissed my cheek and then i kissed his neck..twice does it mean anything?

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      Kari 5 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Ayushi - I don't know what a shiv or ling or shivling is. But, if you are commonly seeing one person in your dream, then there are many explanations. You may feel close to them. You may feel separated from them. You may feel like you want to get to know them better, be more like them, etc. It all depends on the context of your dreams and how you feel.

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      Kari 5 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Lynn - If he's distant in your waking life, then your dream is likely a 'wish' dream, meaning you wish he would regard you with more importance - as he would if he wanted to introduce you to his family.

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      Kari 5 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Rejoice - Do you respect your cousin? Find something alluring about them that you wish you had? Usually, sex with someone who you would never have sex with indicates a desire to get closer to them or a desire to be more like them.

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      Kari 5 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Lori - Just because you don't think of someone or something, doesn't mean it's not sitting in your subconscious. Since a lot of dreams bring up subconscious memories and thoughts, it's not surprising that at a time in your life when you are feeling good, you are dreaming about someone who made you feel good. Moreover, I'm assuming you are single, so it's easier to dream of this past man without guilt and the dream is very fulfilling.

      The themes are happiness and fulfillment, so it seems that you are just playing out how you feel in real life in your dream.

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      Lyn 5 days ago

      I had a dream that my boyfriend (he's so distant nowadays) was introducing me to his mother and sister. I was actually at their place, he found me sleeping, kissed me and then introduced me. He was happy, he was so was the other family members.

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      Lori 6 days ago

      About 20yrs ago I had an affair while I was married. I've since divorced and have had no contact with the man I cheated with. I have had very detailed, fulfilling dreams about him for the last 3 nights. I hadn't thought of him in years. I am currently very happy in my life. I am just surprised at the appearance of him in my dreams, and how happy I feel about dreaming of him. Any insight??

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      Kari 8 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Lee - It could mean many things. Do you know the lady? If not, the dream is probably more about your brothers and you than anything. Are you guys feeling under attack? Do you feel like you are struggling? Is there something going on with your aunt that's stressing you out? Are you worried about your brothers? All of these things could be reasons for your dream.

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      Kari 8 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Laura - It is a reflection of what you want. In real life, you know he's not ready to commit, but in your dreams, you are playing out what you wish he would say instead. It's a good sign that you are hoping for more from him. Be careful, you can spend years hoping for something that never comes true, and that is a total waste of time.

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      Kari 8 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Paranha - I'm still not clear on whether or not he's having the dreams. You say, "It feels to me..." So you are guessing? Or you are saying that in the dream it feels to you like he's having the same dreams? Or is he telling you that he's having the same dreams?

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      Lee paige 8 days ago

      What does it mean to dream about a lady trying to kill my brothers and I while hiding behind a door but she doesn't end up doing it and the settings is in my aunt's house.

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      Laura 8 days ago

      I've had a couple dreams, where a close friend of mine (whom I've fallen in love with but he's not wanting to commit) he appeared twice in my dreams, the first time telling me he loves me, and the second one saying that he's really for a relationship with me. But in real like won't say it. What does it mean?

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      Paranha 9 days ago

      It feels to me he's having the same dreams but in his own prospective

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      Kari 9 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Anonymous - First, if you don't like him, you wouldn't wonder if you do sometimes. Trust me, the guys I've dated in the past - I don't like... at all. I would never ever date them again. Not even a question. Maybe you don't think he's good for you, but if you are questioning it, then there is some part of you that would still date him.

      Anyway, yes, I think it means you still have feelings for him. Just because of your background. It seems like you are focused on the fact that everyone else thinks you are good together but won't admit how you really feel about it.

      And, yes, when you are thinking of someone they can be thinking of you, but that's not always the case. For instance, I have a best friend who often pops into my head and then I will get a call from her. But, when I think of people from high school, I highly doubt they are thinking of me too. Then again, I can't say for sure. The only way to know is if you find out from that person.

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      Kari 9 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Paranha - So he's having the same kinds of dreams? Or it feels to you like he's experiencing the dreams?

      If he's having the same dreams, then you guys are definitely connecting on a spiritual level. You two would be connected on a level that no one I know if is.

      If you feel like he's experiencing the dream from his eyes in your dreams, then that's just a part of your dream and you. In other words, that's what you are writing into your dream, not what is actually happening.

      In any case, again he was there beside you during a weird time and, again, everything felt good and you were laughing and having fun in the end, which just reinstates the fact that you feel good around him.

      You are a great writer for just getting into your teens! You explain things very well.

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      Anonymous 9 days ago

      So just a little background... last year I dated this guy, and everybody still thinks we would be such a cute couple even some of me and his friends I say I don't like him but sometimes I feel as though a might after certain things like this dream...

      So it was the last day of school we had out last class together and we're talking (we don't normally talk) then the bell rang and we walked out of class together. I went and got my friends but he stayed with me. Then we all walked out of the school we were talking and then he gave my this red ballon and we walked home. For some reason all the sudden we both had bikes and we biked around town and stopped at an ice cream place (this is where me and him actually had our first date) then he went home and I want to hang out with my friends. We were all talking on the swings in someone's backyard and everyone was shipping us together like putting our names together. I totally denied the fact that I actually really enjoyed spending time with him and that it seemed that he did to...

      That's the end of my dream my question is is that do you think that this dream means that deep down I still have feelings for him? Also is it true that when you think of someone they can be thinking of you?

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      Paranha 9 days ago

      Don't question it but I'm back again for round 3!!!! Man this is getting out of hand anyways here it is...

      I started off back where I ended in the organic fast food place next to a bridge in a field but it was night this time and not sunset I saw fireflies and started to catch them after 15 minutes or so k started waiting for him to fall in or even just pop in but no about 5 minutes later a kidnaper popped in and not knowing who he was I asked what he was doing here but without an answer he said your coming with me and took me by the wrist I swear that was the loudest time I've ever screamed in my life he put that one has over my mouth the one where once you breathe it in your out cold in a split second but before I passed out idk who (but I'm assuming it was the close friend) punched the guy and knocked the kidnaper out cold then later I woke up some time later (who knows how long) and the close friend was by my bed side sitting in a chair (I was also very sore) and he said your finally up I'm so glad I was so worried then the rest was super like blurred out I guess you could say but by the end we were laughing and catching fireflies

      1 huge question I have about all of these dreams is that why does it feel like he's experiencing the same dream but in his eyes???? It feels like a dream seption!!!

      Btw just got into my teens ;) donno why I'm experiencing these dreams.

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      Kari 9 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Rebekah - It sounds like you feel as if you and her can make it through anything together. I don't know if you are having rough patches right now or not, but the fact that you chose to stick it out and be together until the end is a good sign that you will both be there for each other and stick together through good or bad times. As that song says, 'If we go down, we go down together.' That's the kind of relationship you seem to think you have.

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      Kari 9 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Lucy - It all sounds very sweet and innocent with the flowers, teasing, twirl, and hugs. To me, it sounds like you see him as a sweet and kind person who is tender and all those good things. In other words, it sounds like he's a good guy - or at least you think he is a good guy, so hopefully, you and he work out.

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      Rebekah 10 days ago

      I just jad this dream last night about me and my girlfriend. We were in a tall building together like it was our own place, were only 17 btw, we lived on the top floor and then all of the sudden the whole world starts flooding the building is still good and standing for now but the water was already at the windows like the world was in a flood so i asked my girlfriend if she wanted to die slowly and drown or if i should get the gun and make it a quick and painless death. We just decided to lay in the bed and cuddle together till it all ended then the building started tipping over and i wole up. I know this dream has so much meaning please help.

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      Rowena 12 days ago

      Thank you so much Kari. This really helped and I think you are right because it feels like it's true you know? Anyway, thank you!

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      Lucy and Rosa 12 days ago

      Hello, this is Lucy (^.^)/, I have recently had this dream where my crush is standing talking to a friend in my backyard, but my crush is naked and has flowers on his body I ended up just staring at him, until he sees me and calls me over, I went to him and the friend said something and Alex(my crush) puts his arm around me and I blush then he teases me then he uses the arm that's around me to bring me to twirl me into him, than he hugs me with both arms, and the friend disappears but the surrounding space is still the same, my backyard, in the early morning, but he's wearing clothes now, he tells me something but I can't remember what it was cause after he told me that, we both smiled and went into the hug again then I woke up, I tried to go back to sleep to see/hear it again but I couldn't see the same dream again. (._.) Thank you for your time.

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      Heavenly Eyes 28 13 days ago

      Hi Kari, Thanks for the reply. Actually my ex and I had a super strong connection to where we BOTH felt when where depress or going through something from a distance.. I can feel when he's in my neighborhood.. I would wake up in the morning with the feeling in my chest and a tingeing feeling running all over my body.. I can't get out of bed until those feelings pass.. I've manage to distance those feelings until they became super light . I haven't felt those vibes since the New Year. Up until a few days ago. It was trying to make its way back to me in a very powerful way.. The min i spoke and said ( YOU DON'T LOVE ME ) those feelings felt sad and softly pulled away. As a feeling of rejection.. When i woke up i felt like i've won.. Im finally taking control of these connections he at time visit . My ex is spiritually awaken and his 3rd eye are wide open.. Trust me he can do thing others may not . Even when you break from soul ties he STILL he still connected

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      Kari 13 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Emma - Not surprising you would dream about school as it is a big part of your life. It just sounds like you are dreaming about a bunch of different things in your waking life. Maybe you've heard something that makes you think your cousin or his brother is worried, or maybe someone else in your life is worried.

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      Kari 13 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Precious - Do you need to 'wake up' to something? Possibly something to do with your mom or boyfriend? Is there something you are not admitting to yourself? Or, will something be better in your life if you 'wake up' and do what you know you need to do?

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      Kari 13 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Heavenly - It sounds like you are missing something in your life that your ex provided. That's often why we feel drawn back to things or people from our past. Are you missing compassion? Love? Support? Trust?

      Or, do you feel like you are finding the things he used to give you (that you may have been lacking up to now) from other people, which is making it easier to move on from him?

      As far as the ex, it just sounds like she is insecure. No one writes that kind of stuff on Facebook unless they are trying to prove something to other people that they aren't confident in themselves.

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      Kari 13 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Heavenly - So you won't give him a chance for dating, but maybe he does have something to offer you outside of romance. It may just be a sign to not push out people from your life because they may be able to help you reach your dreams.

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      Kari 13 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Rowena - That's a very artistic way of dreaming about words - being dressed in vines. I like that. It feels very personal. It feels very sweet, romantic, and tender. It's a romantic thought, which is probably why you dreamt it in that way. You want that kind of romance and uniqueness.

      Anyway, it sounds like these two boys each have traits that you like, and you think if the one you like were to develop some of the other guy's traits, he might be better for you? It also sounds like you worry about what your mother would think/say if you started dating the guy you like.

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      Kari 13 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Jayme - Maybe she is trying to tell you how she feels by sharing her dreams. Her dreams are a reflection of her, after all.

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      Emma 13 days ago

      Hi.. I'm Emma. I'm 25yrs and single. I go to work and do online studies as well. Work and school kind of thing. I dreamed last night I was studying abroad in some university. I have never been to that country but I've had about it and know it. My cousin brother lives there too and I saw him in my dream. but he seem a little worried about me.

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      Precious 13 days ago

      I had a dream that my boyfriend was shaking my arm and calling my name trying to wake me up. He is currently in jail. I woke up and went back to sleep. Then I dreamed that my mother was calling my name to wake me up. She also did girl you better get up.

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      Heavenly Eyes 28 13 days ago

      Hello Kari , 2 days ago i felt this old vibration of my ex who i've finally learn to get over .. The vibration was trying to make a strong come back . A feel i haven't felt in a year. I was telling myself ( You don't love me) Soon after i felt those feelings slowly drift away ,It felt sad as if he realize i'm moving on... Soon after that dream the following day and mutual friend of ours told me his current gf wrote on her fb page ( love wins) I've away knew she was the cause behind out break up . Is there any way of knowing what's going on? Im really curious . Thank you

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      Heavenly Eyes 28 13 days ago

      Yesterday I dream of meeting a male friend at an airport ... He offer to take me to a trip to Puerto RIco.. I strongly decline the offer ( Im not attractive to him in any way) He then tried to offer me a job with his band for hire so i can go on the trip for free. So i was excited with the offer and go.Under the condition i have my own room. Any idea what this could mean? Im guessing it's a wish dream but something tells me there something more.. Before you answer please let me advise you there's no way in HELL i would give this man a chance . He's no way my type . Thank you in advance

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      Rowena 13 days ago

      Yesterday I dreamed that two boys I know were mixed together in one person. I only like one of them though. I dreamt that he/they asked me out. Then it changed days in the dream. He/they kissed me. There was an adult with me that I didn't know. They were the mother of my friend (girl) that I haven't met. She told me off saying that my mother wouldn't approve that I was dating someone. This took place at school, then changed to a park in my old town. I am so confused by this and I cant work it out. I also had a dream about the boy I liked telling me something about his mother that no one knew. He dressed me in vines that represented his words, though he didn't see me naked. It looked like he was about to kiss me when I heard the school bell ring in the distance. This took place in a forest near school that doesn't exist. These are the first times I have ever dreamt of my crush doing anything like these things so naturally I'm confused. Please help me if you can.

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      Jayme ojeda 2 weeks ago

      Kari her last dream. She. Or nightmare she told me about was her trying to put out a fire that started on a door she trued to use water to put it out but then she cought fire. And with me she always yells at me about carring my blood gluecose meter w me since we both r diabetics she's type 1 me type 2 her goal is to move to reno being on section 8 she thinks living alone will help her . with her consistent low blood sugers it scares me to death and i dont want to lose her she's been the best thing in my life in over 10 years I just want to know why she's always so afraid to open up her feelings but tells me her dreams she must trust me some because I love her so very much.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Jess - Doesn't sound that odd. It sounds like you believe you might be good together again and you are playing that out in your dreams along with a little bit of reality - because if he was there, your current boyfriend and him would probably get into an altercation. The fact that you jumped off a balcony to be with your ex is something you need to think about. Do you really want to be with your ex? Or, are you just missing him and what you used to have?

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      Paranha 2 weeks ago

      Thanks for all the help so far Kari you have been very helpful with dreams like these you rock!!!!!!

      Keep up the amazing work!!!!

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      Jess 2 weeks ago

      I' ve had odd dreams lately. I dreamt about an ex that I was around his current girlfriend and me thinking how despicable she was, she was out with friends being trashy. Then the next night his cousin calls me says hes coming to get me and the whole time it was him and my ex. We all went out to eat and spent some time together, the next thing I know we are naked me ex and I in my living about to have sex when my sister runs to my room and wakes up my current boyfriend and tells him. Which then they get into an altercation and he tried to keep me their but I jumped off the balcony to run off and be with my ex. Then last night I dream that he pretends to cheat on me and says hes leaving and I beat up the girl that he says hes with now. The dream was so vivid to me, I need help. I don't know what to think, I know a couple months back my ex wanted to see me and wanted me to be done with my current one said he wanted me and we talked but never followed through. Then he became upset because my current boyfriend started texting him smh. We stopped talking but he said he wanted to be with me, and he was unhappy. I dream of him from time to time and when I do we usually cross paths.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Paranha - So you were there after he fell under a light bulb, you enjoyed each other's company, the darkness fell again - but it wasn't scary to you, and you resumed talking about video games and stuff. Then he told you that he thought you were cool and you held hands, kind of. I like how darkness and light are playing a big part in your dreams. You were under a light bulb and he came to you after having a crazy experience, almost as if you were the light/heat and he was drawn to you - needed to get where you were. I still think you really like this guy and you feel connected to him in a way that makes everything feel good - even if all the light goes out in other areas of your life.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Prakash - You sound like you are worried she is going to leave you. Or, you are realizing that you haven't been the best husband you can be and you are feeling guilty about it. Either way, don't just beg her to stay no matter what you do; instead, work on not doing bad things to her so that she doesn't even consider leaving.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Ashla - I'm not sure what mangoes represent to you - or picking them represents. You obvious know them well, so they must mean something. And they were a focal point of your dream. Did you and your ex-boyfriend enjoy mangoes together? Would you be picking them to smooth things over with him? That could be something.

      Without a lot of meaning from the mangoes, or a lot of emotion, it just sounds like a random dream with some things happening thrown together. It makes sense you would dream about your ex because you just talked to him. But, I really think it was just a dream going through some things you've been thinking about and for some reason, mangoes were involved.

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      Paranha 2 weeks ago

      I've had another dream like my last one but way different I need your help again! I'm confused!

      This dream the close friend fell from a very high height and fell into water I was under a light bulb and he came over in to the light soaking wet I giggled and said "you ok?" He said "yeah just a bit wet" and I said "a bit" and laughed

      So after talking for awhile until he said he was hungry so we went to a organic fast food place sorta like Wendy's or something and we ate and talked for a bit longer then after we were done eating the world of blackness became a real field and we went to a bridge near by with water under it we stood there looking into the water ( P.S. I believe the water is what he fell into at the beginning of the dream) so we talked about video games for awhile then he said "do you know what I think your really cool!" Then he put his hand on top of mine he just slid over his hand like our hands were both on the bridge railing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

      IM REALLY CONFUSED PLZ HELP ME WITH THIS ONE!!!!!!!!!

      btw the food place and the bridge was NOT a date!!! We were just both very hungry I swear!!!

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      Prakash Acharya 2 weeks ago

      I had a dream about my wife became self independent and leave due to my angry behaviour that I always used to be on small small things, and angrily I married a second one girl,then realised her importance in my life, I am just crying and crying talking to her to comeback pls forgive me, I can't live without you, when I wake up start crying because my wife is just behind me on bed and saying to her never leave me, I am little dumb in understanding things, pls. Forgive me for all I have done, don't leave me in any circumstances I can't leave without you.

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      Ashla 2 weeks ago

      After an argument with my ex bf last night. He Is introvert kind of person. he never gave enough reason and called the relationship off few months back. I msged him last night and we got into an agruement for hours and he finally told me he heard some rumors which where far from the truth about me and my friends and family was advised by his friends . Anyway I went to bed after that and dreamt I was with my best friend and my ex bf was with his friends in a house and I was picking mangoes from a Mango tree. The mangoes looked green. I didn't struggle to pick them cause I just lifted my hands to pick and they just fell into my hands. The mangoes looked green but yellow inside and looked ready. I came up to the house when I saw a child struggling to go the stairs. I was trying to help the child when I woke up. Is this dream in line with my argument with my ex?? I have never dreamt of picking mangoes.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Maria - Sounds like you are dreaming about rekindling the flame, which is perfectly normal after having a brief fling with someone, especially when they ended it and you don't have any closure. We all want people to come back to us and make us feel like they want us.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Pari - Write down your dreams. Find the subject, meaning, or main feeling behind your dream. Look into your life and see what those subjects, meanings, or main feelings match up with.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Nkosingiphile - That could mean a million different things. But, if that was the focus of the dream, maybe you feel like he's distancing himself from you or turning his back on you in some way.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Jayme - It could mean that you feel like you are trying to help her or be there for her in your waking life, but you are not sure exactly what she wants, needs, or desires. Either she's not telling you or you are not understanding. Or, possibly she doesn't know what's wrong and can't express it to you, but you can clearly see that she's struggling.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Lisssa - It sounds like he's showing you that you are the one he's waiting for but you are not so sure. Maybe you have some trust issues despite him being loyal and showing no signs of not being trustworthy? Or maybe other people are interfering in your relationship and making you question him.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Sharon - It sounds like you are dreaming about progressing your relationship with Marcus. Maybe you can see a future now together. That doesn't mean you are going to have a child. A child may just represent a long-term relationship in your mind that is going to last.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @SunSandSea - Love the handle you used.

      My first impression is that he appreciated what you were doing for your daughter. Whether you have been there for her, protecting her, taking care of her, or doing something out of your way for her, it sounds like he appreciated it and expressed his love to you for doing that.

      The other thing could be your desire for him to love you. Maybe your daughter was a catalyst in the dream to help him realize how amazing you are - because she knows how amazing you are.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Bella - Looks like I did skip yours too. Sorry about that.

      So it seems like your dream was geared towards work. Are you uneasy or unsure at work? Is there something that's bothering you? Do you feel like work is holding you back from a relationship with a man or another personal relationship? All of those things could be reasons for your dream.

      I also pulled a tarot card for your question and a card pertaining to self-employment popped up. So, I'm wondering if you are thinking about starting your own business and you feel scared and vulnerable to do that. That would definitely make sense with the coworkers and onlookers.

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      Maria Milne 2 weeks ago

      i dreamed about a male i had a breif fling with who we both have feelingss for but he ended it i dreamed he came in my house holding his arms out to cuddle me then we ended up kissing after a long cuddle

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      Nkosingiphile 2 weeks ago

      I had a dream , my boyfriend was walking away from me.

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      Jayme ooj 2 weeks ago

      What does it mean when I can see my girlfriends face and body and voice clear as day as if she was right in front of me in my dreams but don't know what she's saying and I feel like she pulls me into her dreams too. Her most recent nightmare was about her trying to put out a fire which started on a door then sh tried to put it out with water and she cought on fire

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      Lisssa M. 2 weeks ago

      I dreamt I was going out somewhere & this random guy said "yeah your boy expecting such & such to come by." I went in the bedroom where he was sleep or pretended to be,I touched his shoulder, he looked @ me like I was the one he was expecting to come over. I politely said now tell me the truth. Is it factual that you expecting someone to come over here.He looked @ me & said "It's true.I politely walked out. (What is this dream interpretation)???

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      Sharon M. 2 weeks ago

      I dreamed about a Man named Marcus we broke up and recently rekindled our relationshi, but lately I've been having dreams of us having a child together. What does this mean?

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      SunSandSea 2 weeks ago

      I had a dream I was in my daughter's home and she was talking to her Dad. Her Dad and I have been divorced for 12 years after he ran off with a younger woman from his office. They are married. I dreamed he finished talking to our daughter and then turned toward me. Very slowly and emphatically he said, " I Love You". That is all he said and I just stood there staring at him. I did not answer him. And then I woke up. Not sure what to make of it.

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      Bella 2 weeks ago

      Hi Karl I guess you skipped my as well. Sorry It's kind of length as well... It was approved after jamies.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Charlotte - Sorry! Your comment came through on a day that I was really busy and I must have approved it but then forgot to answer it.

      I'm sorry he didn't support you during such a hard time. And that he had a fun time when he should have been comforting you. That's really not cool.

      It sounds like you are desperate to keep this guy, despite knowing that he's not totally right for you.

      And possibly you feel like he's more supportive of other people than you, including this girl he used to be friends with.

      So your feelings of worry, desperation, and anger over this guy all got intertwined into a dream with a fear that you have regarding him - falling in love with someone else, specifically, that girl.

      I can say from experience that living in a state of worry, desperation, and anger makes for an unhappy you. I wouldn't live in that state for too long.

      And, I wouldn't become someone I'm not just to keep a guy who doesn't support me the way I need. In fact, I wouldn't change for any guy, because that's not being true to myself.

      You will either live a fake life, struggling and feeling unhappy forever or, eventually, become numb, and accept it for the way it is, and miss out on real happiness.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Lou - It sounds like to me you are 'missing' someone in your life that really loves you and you love back. Or, in other words, you want someone in your life that you really love and loves you back. I've never seen the movie, but I think it's about being very selfless in a relationship, and perhaps that what you are wanting in your life. A selfless relationship.

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      Charlotte 2 weeks ago

      Hey Kari, I think you may have skipped pass my dream (sorry it was extremely long) Charlotte :)

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      Lou 2 weeks ago

      hi! so these past few days, I've been feeling like im missing someone I don't know. and last night, i dreamt of being with a guy that i really love and vice versa! we were a very loving and happy couple in that dream. and then he asked me a dress that i would want to wear, i thought of the red dress in the movie Me Before You..end. can you help give possible meaning/s behind this scenarios? thank you!

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Stella - I don't know that answer. I can't tell the future. I know that you want to be together and happy, but it doesn't sound good. If you don't fix the underlying issues, then nothing is going to change. Spells won't help anything. You both need to be willing to work on the relationship and then do it.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Gee - Seems like your subconscious thinks you are going to get the job but may be worried that you are not the first choice (no one else was available). Have faith in yourself.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Gaile - Just sounds like you want to get into a serious relationship/engagement, but you are unsure about it (someone you don't know), but you want it to be the guy that you are in love with.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Paranha: So was the close friend in your dream your bff or someone else? Whoever he was, you were surrounded by darkness but your conversation with him and the flashlight represents that you feel good with him, even when everything else is covered in darkness. I can't help but noticed that you felt calm and excited at the same time. I don't think that's possible. lol. Or do you mean, you were calm in the beginning and then excited or you were excited in the beginning and then calm? It makes a difference to the dream. If you were excited in the beginning and then felt calm as you were with him, it's a good sign he makes you fee calm and happy. If you were calm in the beginning and then excited as you went on with him, then it's a sign that he makes you feel giddy and excited. Are either of those things you are looking for in a guy?

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      Stella 2 weeks ago

      Hello, been having it really bad with my husband of 14yrs gorgeous about 6months now, we love each other but having frequent misunderstandings, I tried to make things right but seems to me my husband is taking a break for now, almost lost my marriage but with help from a spellcaster that has been taken care of. He has refused to speak to me, refused sleeping at home, comes to see our teenagers only. J use to have nightmares of him asking to leave and generally been mean to me much like hatred. This has stopped but I had a dream of us reconciling and him telling me that he wants to give us another chance, another dream we were been so loving and intimate. Three days ago we were together again and we both were reconciliation again and we were happy, please do we still have another chance of ever been together and happy again?

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      Gee 2 weeks ago

      This is great.

      Hi, I work and do online studies at the same time . I am more of a career focused kind of person. I recently went for an interview with a TV industry and was advised I am one of the shortlisted applicants. Anyways I had a dream i was with my classmates from school celebrating an event when I received a call from the man who interviewed me for the job. He sounded urgent and said he needed me to assist him at work as no one was available to do the task. Kind of woke up after that.

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      galie 2 weeks ago

      I dreamt I was getting Engaged to someone idk and never see but then sudenly that someone became the guy I'm actually in love with but he lives very far but we do love each other and want to be with each other...

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      Paranha 2 weeks ago

      I had a dream where I was with a close friend I was surrounded by darkness except for a flashlight and him and me. we talked but the strangest thing was that it felt like he was there with me! A couple weeks back my bff told me that he had a crush on me and I thought about him just wondering if he did. I don't go to the same school he's at but I visit my class every now and then but not recently but I'm wondering why him because I was close friends with all the boys in my class.

      My feelings during my dream: happy, joyful, calm, excited

      Age group: teen

      Amount of time spent with his group: very, very long time

      Conversation: how he's been doing and games

      Emotions on face: smiles, normal

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Angie - I think you did what I've been trying to do with my best friend and/or husband forever. You met someone you know in the spiritual world and had a talk with them. It even sounds like you stepped into a place that most people don't end up in - possibly a place that we aren't supposed to know about or be at while we are here. I know that may sound weird to some people, but I truly believe we have more freedom to connect to the spiritual world when we are asleep, especially during lucid dreaming when we are aware we are dreaming and have a sense of awareness. The fact is we don't know what's out there beyond our physical world, but many people do get small glimpses into it. Sounds like you are one of those people.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Elsa - Sounds like a horror movie. I've seen any plots based on a scenario like this, so the places and stuff could just be a part of your memory in bits and pieces of movies you have seen too.

      But, the love is the big part of the dream that would stem from you. Maybe this guy represents what you are looking for in a guy and the way he acted, especially running towards you when he saw you, is something you want in your life. It's a reflection of the desire to be loved in that way.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Aurelia - Do you feel like you are being taken for granted by your boyfriend? That's what it sounds like to me. He's not appreciating what you do for him.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @lyn - I'm sorry, I don't understand the dream. Saved the woman from the feast event? He saved her from being eaten or from eating?

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Nancy - Even though you put a sad face at the end, my first thought is that you are coming into something new and good - something big. Maybe you are starting something new and exciting or maybe you are going to receive it soon. But, it more sounds like something you can see happening since everything was so clear. Any big plans? Any new ventures/relationship?

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @ nancy - I'm not sure what you are asking. If you mean someone you like dreamt about you, then there could be a number of reasons for it. Good or bad, you are on his mind.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @tashana - If you missed your period, then you are wondering if you are pregnant, so the dream would be a reflection of that. It doesn't mean you are pregnant. It kind of sounds like you believe that having a baby will keep you safe or secure somehow.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @addd - The chances are very high that he's someone you created. Only time will tell on that one, but it's more likely that you are dreaming about a perfect relationship (this guy was amazing after all and you were ready to leave your current partner). The perfect guy may represent a need to move on to a happier relationship or he may represent a need to fix your current relationship to make it happier. I think happiness (or a lack of it) is the key here.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Wilde - The fact that you are asking if his lacking traits are deal breakers means it's on your mind, which means that dreaming about someone who has the traits you desire is normal. However, you couldn't trust him, so is that really something you desire? Can you trust your current partner? Bottom line, if you are totally unfilled, you need to let him know and work on it or leave. Otherwise, you will always feel that twinge of unhappiness in your relationship.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Natalie - Not a lot to go on, but I think you are just fearful of breaking up - even on a small level. Or, maybe you are experiencing problems in the relationship and breaking up in a dream is your representation of you not connecting as well as you normally do.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Martin - Thank you for the thanks!

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Dyelle - I have a dream every so often that my husband and I have moved apart from each other. Usually, I have this dream when I've feeling disconnected from him and am worried about it.

      Your dream about your ex getting up and walking out on you to be with his ex sounds like the same thing. Even if you are not aware of it consciously, you may be worried about him talking to his ex and possibly getting up and leaving you for her.

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      Angie 3 weeks ago

      A while back I had a dream that I met a person that I knew of in a dream by chance. It seemed like we were not supposed to cross paths (like we were in our own dreams). We stepped out of our respective dreams and had a long conversation in a completely different location. Then at some point someone shows up and says "What are you doing here? You aren't supposed to be here". Instantaneously, I am back in my old dream that had been continuing. It was almost like when we were having our conversation I was also watching the other dream progress as a movie. It seemed so real for me yet I knew it was a dream. I have been trying to figure out what it means because it was so odd, but I haven't seen any interpretations that relate to leaving a dream for another one.

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      Elsa 3 weeks ago

      Hi! I had a very weird dream, like a horror movie, but I did find love in the dream also. I was in a cabin with multiple people that I either knew or didn´t know before. We quickly realized that this trip wasn´t for fun, where we had to kill each other in order to survive at the end. Something happened in this dream where we didn´t try to kill each other, but we hid instead. We tried to hid in this atic (we thought it was a good idea), and the people that had set up this horrible thing were trying to find us. In this atic where I hid, I was suddenly romantically involved with this guy that I have only seen on TV before (in real life). In the dream we looked pretty much in love. I think we had stayed hidden for a while, and then a women who came in the cabin to find us, saw us, and I started running. I ran and never looked back (from what I remember in the dream). I ran till I had found this tribe, and they helped me escape. Suddenly I was sitting on a train with some of my friends that was also in the cabin, and those people from this weird tribe helped us take a train to this lovely american town, where everything was very happy, green and summerly. In this town I met a girl who got lost from us at the cabin, and we were happy to see here. She told me that the guy I was in love with was here also, and he was heading for the shops. I called his name (don´t remember what name I yelled), and when he saw me, and ran as fast as he could, and started to hug me and kiss me. And we were happy.

      This is such a weird dream for me, and I can´t figure out if this means something. Do you think it means something? Or it can mean several things?

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      Aurelia 3 weeks ago

      I dreamed I was talking to my boyfriend on the phone. I wanted to help him but he said he wanted me to help him so that he could help another woman.

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      lyn 3 weeks ago

      dreaming my husband was carrying a woman infront of him the position of a woman is standing he hold her at the legs she saved the woman from the feast event in my childhood place in tondo manila philippines .what is the interpretation of that thanks n god bless

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      Nancy Hawaiian 3 weeks ago

      Wow... I would like to share my dream as well.

      I dreamed I was in some house in the sea and my uncle went fishing and came back with fish. he gave a fish to me. it was the biggest and the healthiest I would say. the sea was sooo clear that I would see the fish he was holding in the sea. there were three fishes but he gave me the biggest and I woke up.

      I have never had such a dream before :(

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      Bella 3 weeks ago

      Hi,

      I had a dream last night. I was with my colleges trying to film a advertisement for a product in an hotel. A friend led me to my room and the dream kind of changed. Sill in this hotel we went into some room. A room they call haunted room ( I have been to this hotel so many times but have not come across this room). anyway we went into that room and so many scary stuff and spiders all around. the scene kind of change and I am in the pool in this same hotel but naked. I didn't seem to care or mind. On the other side of the pool there were number of men I have not seen before but good looking. they were all naked as well and in the other pool. the pool was so clear that you can actually see their whole body, suddenly I realised I was naked and felt uneasy. Two of my colleges kept waving and calling for me. they passed me a towel and I kind of woke up.

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      nancy 3 weeks ago

      He dreamt about me and i also want something to tell him

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      tashana bouland 3 weeks ago

      I th that someone was going to kill me but he have something what he can use to see inside your body and he look inside my belly n see a baby ant change his mind from killing me is it a sign of telling me am pregnant ? Because I miss my period last month and was wondering what's going on

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      addd1221 3 weeks ago

      Hi there,

      So, I had a dream last night about a guy I've never met in my life, he was very handsome, funny, and just really nice, and very charming in every way, we were surrounded by kids by the looks of thing they were family members like cousins, he was just amazing with them and super flirty with me. I'm in a relationship currently and I remembered it in my dream but it was like I was all over again in love with that guy from my dream, and I was ready to end things with my current partner. Probably sounds absolutely ridiculous but I'm just curious if he actually exists or it's just something my mind created, sounds stupid I know but I just felt so happy till my alarm went off. I would much appreciate someone's opinion.

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      WildeNotCrazy 3 weeks ago

      *Sigh* I had yet another dream about an ex-lover. At one point I was having them every night or every other night. Now I'm averaging about once every month. I haven't seen him in about nine months, and the last time he expressed any serious, emotional feelings would've been about 10 months ago. In our time together, we cared about each ther, but could never get the timing right. We've always maintained that we were in love with each other, but either I wouldn't commit because I didn't trust him, or he wouldn't because he wasn't ready to be tied down.

      I've been in a loving, committed relationship for almost three years now, and I'm not sure if my dreams are telling me that my ex and I have unfinished business, if I'm unfulfilled in my current relationship, or if these are my demons coming out, attempting to self-sabotage a loving relationship because I don't feel worthy. Because I truly love my current partner, and I realize no one's perfect, but are the traits he's missing that my ex possessed truly deal breakers?

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      Ashley ❤️ 3 weeks ago

      So I don't really remember my whole dream but I just remember that I was at a dance and my friends where dancing with there crushes but not all of them only some then one friend asked me " I know you still like _____" and "i know your waiting for him " what dose that mean?

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      Quinnleanne 3 weeks ago

      Thank you! I do want to be a writer, and I have been writing on various apps, but I always seem to give up on most since I have writer's block constantly. I was thinking the one about my parents being assaulted had something to do with how I feel I'm not good enough to help them. I forgot to mention how I was mainly upset because I couldn't save them from that pain, when lately I've been feeling I wasn't enough. I didn't look at it that way so thank you!

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      Charlotte 3 weeks ago

      Hi there,

      So for the past 4 months now, I have been having the very same dream of my partner cheating on me or leaving me for the exact same girl (This girl, he used to be friends with, but now does not socialise with at all due to a argument they had, though I think he stopped associating with her because of my dislike for the person - a little insight, He used to always be there for this girl and seemed to always be at her aid, and texted her everyday to see how she was ect. In Dec, I fell pregnant with twins and due to health problems had no choice but to get a Termination.. up until the termination and afterward, my boyfriend was never there for me to support me.. He used his 2 days off work to go over to this girls family home, where she resides with her Mother and sisters.. he was unlocking a phone with the help of a mutual friend of theirs. He called me for maybe an hr whilst he was there but I just hated the fact it sounded like them and their friends were having a ball.)

      So the dream I had last night, I can still picture very clearly.. My boyfriend and I went to visit someone, and that girl was in the backyard in nothing but a shirt and under wear.. My boyfriend stared at her long enough and I made a comment asking if he was and he admitted that he did.. That is when I got upset and was saying "Are you serious" I'm right here! and he kind of just walked off.. I couldn't reach him via mobile ph, yet while I stayed back at the house waiting for him to come back, he was texting her and ringing her.. talking about how he can't do it with me anymore and so I grabbed her phone and tried to talk to him and all I remember saying is "why are you calling or talking to her not me!" he then hung up.. and then I called again (From her phone) since he wasn't answering my calls nor texts.. and he answered.. We were talking and he was saying how his fallen in love with her and loves her and his so sorry to do this to me but he can't change the way he feels and I just remember in that moment, I felt shattered and broken and like my world fell apart.. I felt so betrayed and I was crying on the phone to him "please don't do this, you don't mean that. don't do this please. I can change, I'll change anything you want about me." and that is all I really remember after that. Please give me some insight into these nightmares I've been having. Much love from down in Australia :)

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      Karen 3 weeks ago

      I had a dream last night that I was falling in love ,I haven't had that in over a year since my divorce it was so nice I wished it was real when I woke up

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      Natalie 3 weeks ago

      Hi i had a dream last night my boyfriend and I broke up

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      Martin 3 weeks ago

      Thank you for your response Kari.

      I spend much of my time dealing with physical stuff, and not a lot on imagination and feeling, so thank you again for enlightening me, I think I have a better understanding of it now. It is a great thing you do here.

      Best regards Martin Laursen

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      Dyelle 3 weeks ago

      I had this recurring dream last night, probably 7 different times. Here it is.

      I am sitting on a bench at a park in the city, my boyfriend is with me, and he tells me he will be right back, he walks around the corner and is gone for quite a while. So I go investigate, he is around the corner with his ex. Talking and kissing. Then I wake up.

      Now he still does speak with his ex

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Indepreet - Do you have doubts about the marriage? Do you want something different in your relationship? It sounds like you are struggling with the future of your relationship in some way.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Quinnleanne - No bother. You are a great writer! I would read your stories!

      First, I would suggest buying a new dreamcatcher because you seem to believe in its powers to give you good dreams and block negative ones. You may have more unicorn and rainbow dreams that way! ;)

      But, besides that, I have a few ideas.

      First, I was thinking that the dreams were just a reflection of your imagination - possibly stories that you wanted to write or tell. Then, when you mentioned the bit about the good story idea, it made me wonder if I was right. Do you want to be a writer? Have you been focusing on telling stories through your writing or otherwise? Do you enjoy reading horror or suspenseful books? It sounds like your imagination is working overtime to come up with stories - and because you remember them so clearly, you could create something from them.

      If it's not that, then it's likely a reflection of various fears or struggles you are having in your life. Obviously, you aren't a scientist who is melting, but you could be trying to come up with an idea (invention) and it's not going well. Or you could have come up with one at it was a failure. Or you could be trying to implement something new in your life (habit, friendship, etc.) and it's not going well.

      It's interesting because I've dreamt about my dad's guts being slashed open too. That was during a time where I was giving up on my dad being happy and healthy.

      So, I suggest reflecting on your life and what's going on.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Martin - Sounds like you have a great imagination which leads to some pretty unique and exciting scenarios. But, yeah, it seems that you are scared of being used - or, possibly, you are feeling used in your life right now in some way - could be by friends, family, or coworkers. But, because it's always about a girl that you meet, I would put my money on 'fear of being betrayed by someone you care about and put a lot of effort towards'. The simple most obvious answer is usually the right one! Listen to your intuition because it knows.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Enirose - I know how much it sucks to be there, but it's so much better once you move on from it! Wishing you the best!

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Jamie - Did you do something in the relationship or to him that would cause him to be upset. To me, it sounds like you are feeling guilty about (or possibly just reflecting on) something you did that you know would - or did - hurt him.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Elsie - It just sounds like you are dreaming about how close the two of you are. Marriage is a very intimate relationship, so you probably feel like him and you are intimate on a very high level and maybe you miss that relationship with him because you haven't talked for a while.

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      Inderpreet 3 weeks ago

      I heard someone's voice in my dreams asking about your marriage should take place near by your home town but my fiance is from another place I'm confused

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      Quinnleanne 3 weeks ago

      Sorry to be a bother, but I have a problem, sort of. A few weeks ago, I've began to have horrid nightmares at least three times a week. One took place at my childhood home and me and my parents were hanging out, all well, when suddenly I know all about how three kids died there, or something, and they wanted to kill someone out of vengeance or so. Then we noticed a man swinging a weapon that i can't really give a name to. My first thought was hacksaw, but that wasn't it. It looked like an old-fashioned hand drill with a blade in the U and two handles on the sides. My parents grabbed guns. One for each of them. We ran out to where the guy was swinging it. We lived in the country with no neighbors. He was freaking out. "They're coming for me. They're going to kill me." My parents began loading their guns. They were too late. I stood back and watched as the man slashed my dad's gut and my mom's leg. They cried in pain and the man had a moment of weakness. I finally tugged the weapon out of the man's hands and decapitated him with it. My parents were grateful. "Let's go back to the house and call the cops," they said. When we were climbing the steps in the garage to get to the kitchen, it was kind of like a double scene. I could see us going upstairs about to open the door to the kitchen, and I could see inside the door of the kitchen. There, three children were waiting. All I saw were their feet. Right before we opened the door my dream ended. I woke up mortified. It was the goriest dream I've ever had. I haven't had a nightmare for six years before then because I had a dreamcatcher. When we moved into our new house, I misplaced it. We had been in our new house for 7 months when I had this dream.

      Another dream that was oddly scary was a short one. It was in our new house. I felt like I was being watched constantly, which I actually do in real life. In my dream, I was trying to fall asleep, when a car drove by out my window and a shadow of a man appeared and then disappeared again. I was unfazed in my dream but spooked when I woke.

      Finally, last night's. It was odd as well. It was first in a video store, me getting movies, one was Flight and the other I can't remember. Suddenly, I was a scientist of some sort. We had dug an underwater lab recently and were about to experience with a rocket-like object. Me and a co-worker were in the underwater dome when the rocket launched and the sunlight reflected into the dome and we began... melting? Suddenly, I was in bed, computer in lap, writing a story about it. "That's a good story idea!" I nodded. Then I woke up.

      I don't know why my dreams are so gruesome lately and I would like closure on this. Sorry to be a bother.

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      Martin 4 weeks ago

      I should start by saying that I have this type of dream often, different in minor ways, mostly geographic location, but generally the same "plot" so to speak. Every individual dream is difficult for me to remember presicely, but I've had them enough so that the main themes stick with me. The dream goes like this. I meet this girl, a lovely personality, long hair (color varies) and a pretty face. We hit it off and enjoy eachothers company. Some time passes where we do random stuff, ranging from going on walks to attending concerts to running from zombies (odd, I know) And then after a while she betrays me in some way, either cheating on me, leaving me or using me for some personal gain. The most recent dream (this nights dream) involved her loosing the ability to walk, so I carried her (from some kind of medical ship to the ground) for what seemed like hours. During my carrying of her she tells me about how she needs to give her father two golden statues (don't remember why or if she even told me) and so at one point (for no particular reason as far as I know) it starts dawning on me that she is using me, so I put her down and she starts walking off as I fall to my knees in agony. She looks at me and waves goodbye as she leaves, and this is the point I realize I'm dreaming and I wake up. My best bet is that I want a relationship but I'm afraid of betrayal, but I feel like it's not that simple.

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      Enirose 4 weeks ago

      @Kari Thanks for the reply! Yeah. I actually accidentally duplicated it because I thought the first one didn't go through.

      But anyway, it sounds right. That's exactly how it is. I really wanted to move on like to forget my feelings for him. He already have a new girl with a daughter of around 5 years old. It seems like they're the replacement of me and our daughter. And you're right. I really don't want to go back to him but I really want to move on. But I think I will soon. And hopefully sooner. Because it sucks.

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      Jamie 4 weeks ago

      I've never really got over my ex boyfriend and I've been single since then. I dreamed I was walking towards my office when some girl walked up to me and told me my ex boyfriend Alex saw me in some picture and is crying for me. I walked further up trying to go through the entrance to my office when I saw a mutual friend of my ex and i. He called me over and told me the same. That Alex had been crying so hard and wants to see me. We both sat on the sit next to the office when I saw Alex come out from the office.(we work in the same company) his eyes all swollen and puffy from crying. He saw me with our mutual friend and turned his face and walked away ignoring us.

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      Elsie 4 weeks ago

      I had a weird dream which is bothering me. I have a guy best friend. We've been the best of friends since we were just kids. I've never had feelings for him but I loved him as a brother. We literally grow up together and our family know our friendship. We always shared secrets etc and seek each others opinion on our relationship with others. Last night I dreamed he took me to his home and his family kept treating me like I'm his wife and his sister kept telling me how lucky they are that we together and are getting married and woke up. I find it weird cause I do not love him that way and his just got married beginning of this year and we hardly communicate after that. Need help!

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      Kari 4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Enirose - So you left two comments, but forgot to say that he was abusing you in one of them. That's a HUGE deal and it likely has a lot to do with the dream.

      Your ex-husband had an axe and you had a knife. His weapon of choice obviously trumped yours, and I would say that the guards were a reflection of your thoughts - fears. Maybe your ex-husband made you feel inferior as a woman. Or maybe you naturally feel inferior. Either way, it sounds like you are struggling with the notion of protecting yourself, which makes sense. You want him back on some level, but you shouldn't because he abused you in every way possible, so you feel weak or incapable of protecting yourself and, possibly, your daughter. It doesn't mean you are going to get back together with him, it just means you realize that you still have feelings for him and feel conflict over that.

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      Kari 4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Ray - What does a church represent to you? From the sounds of the dream, it seems like you are feeling a lack of faith in your intimate relationships, especially with your girlfriend. Because you were in your boxers, you may feel also feel exposed to her in a way that you don't feel is right. Not necessarily a bad thing. You may just be allowing yourself to trust her and get closer to her.

      The first thought I had with the taxi is traveling through life. You get in your taxi and travel to your next destination, which is not always clear to you. So maybe there are a lot of changes happening in your life? Or maybe you want something new in your life, and you know you want to make the journey there, but you are not quite sure where 'there' is.

      So, for example, in the last dream, it seems like you haven't been making any progress forward. Maybe you are stuck in life and can't proceed with your journey. Maybe there is something that needs your attention so you can't jump back into your 'taxi' and do things that help you progress to a new destination. Reflect on your life, write things down, and I think you will have some aha moments.

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      Kari 4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Chris - Love the dream!

      First, lucid dreaming is being aware that you are dreaming while you are dreaming. You don't sound like you were aware you were dreaming - or like you were trying to control your dream, which often happens with lucidity.

      But, the intense feelings in your dream and clarity of how it happened makes me think you may have had a meeting with someone people you know in another life/the afterlife? Perhaps they were there to help you gain some clarity or just remember what real love and connection feel like.

      I think I know the kind of love you felt in the dream - intense, pure, real... and I truly believe that kind of pure love is reserved for our souls free from our judgments and worries and all those emotions that come with living. So it makes sense that your soul was experiencing something with other souls without the struggle you are dealing with currently in life.

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      Chris 4 weeks ago

      I don't lucid dream often, but this dream I had last night was filled with so much emotion that I woke up crying. That isn't normal for me. My life currently is going well. Nothing I can really pin point wrong.

      But in my dream I was with two people, both girls, friends. I remember us laughing a lot and playing together. There was a girl named Tia. (I don't know anyone named Tia) I remember feeling love for her. It was super intense strong feelings for her, but subtle at the same time. I didn't disclose my feelings to her. At a point in the dream a kid ran up to her and put his hands on her, either pushing her or just being too rough. She told him to stop politely and he did. I walked up to him and in a loveing way told him he can't do stuff like that. I know this kid in real life too but we aren't close. The strangest part of the dream was the end. After the kid put his hands on her we and she said stop and I talked to him, we all started walking back down a path or dirt road. Tia walked beside me and I felt extreme happiness. At the end she was hugging everyone goodbye, and when she hugged me goodbye she smiled and kissed me on the lips and said I love you. I said I love you too then immediately woke up. The emotion was extremely strong of love and woke up crying. Very strange it ended with saying goodbye and then me immediately waking up. I have no idea what it means, part of me wants to believe it's another reality that I don't know about and that she's real. Another part is the "logical" thoughts saying it's just a dream.

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      Ray 4 weeks ago

      I have been had a dream about being in church twice in a row now. The first time I was inside the church and I was with my cousins and uncle. The second time, I wasn't inside the church (a different church this time). I met my girlfriend at this second church in the dream and I wasn't fully clothed, I was just in my boxers. I was the most under-dressed person there. That's the part that confuses me, why was I only in my boxers meeting my girlfriend at a church? We didn't even talk much, I just greeted her as she went inside the church and I didn't go in with her.

      Another recurring dream is a dream of me travelling by taxi. I have had this dream four or five times now, in one month. I don't ever know the destination that I'm travelling to and I'm usually with strangers in the taxi but sometimes I'm with a relative or a close friend. In the most recent dream, the taxi broke down and we all had to get out. When the taxi was finally fixed, everyone else except me went back in and it left without me (I had no knowledge of the taxi being fixed because I was too busy doing something else in the dream so I realised late that the taxi had left me behind)

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      Enirose 4 weeks ago

      I just left my ex-husband 2 months ago. We're not married but we have a 9 month old daughter but she's with me. Right now, he has a new girl. And me to be honest I still miss or love him. I am in denial stage wherein I hate him and trying to distract myself as much as possible so that I can forget him. But I know deep inside I still love or miss him. And then I dreamt this. I wrote it as soon as possible in a 2nd Point Of View.

      "Earlier, as I was asleep, I remember one part of the dream, it was you. As I was walking towards back to my home, somewhere in q-mart/wet market ( which is weird ) you were there, walking beside me. You asked me,"What's up with you today?" like you always ask me when there's something odd from me and you ask it it a "malambing" way. And then, you held my hand. I let you. Then we just walked and I kept silent. Didn't answer you. Just like in real life, whenever you ask me that question, I never answered you. Then the weird ending is when we got to my home, there's guards and is asking for our dangerous stuff like weapons. You pulled up an axe and I pulled up a knife. The guy laughed at me. Pointed to the west and said," Give that to the pink woman." So I went there and gave my weapon to that woman while you following me. The guy guard laughed again and mocked me saying," How can you ever bring a weapon? You're just a girl!" then we enter. And then someone woke me up. But that guy's voice is that someone who wakes me up wherein I'm aware it was just my brother. And that's the end of it."

      So I hope you'll be able to answer about this. I think I know why but there's a message to that dream because it was kinda weird ( especially with the weapons stuff ) Thanks!

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      Enirose 4 weeks ago

      I just left my ex-husband 2 months ago because he was abusing me physically, emotionally and mentally. We have a 9 month old daughter and she's with me. Right now, he already have a new girl. And I honestly hate that. But I actually dreamt something. I wrote it as soon as possible in a 2nd Point of View.

      "Earlier, as I was asleep, I remember one part of the dream, it was you. As I was walking towards back to my home, somewhere in q-mart ( which is weird ) you were there, walking beside me. You asked me,"What's up with you today?" like you always ask me when there's something odd from me and you ask it it a "malambing" way. And then, you held my hand. I let you. Then we just walked and I kept silent. Didn't answer you. Just like in real life, whenever you ask me that question, I never answered you. Then the weird ending is when we got to my home, there's guards and is asking for our dangerous stuff like weapons. You pulled up an axe and I pulled up a knife. The guy laughed at me. Pointed to the west and said," Give that to the pink woman." So I went there and gave my weapon to that woman while you following me. The guy guard laughed again and mocked me saying," How can you ever bring a weapon? You're just a girl!" then we enter. And then someone woke me up. But that guy's voice is that someone who wakes me up wherein I'm aware it was just my brother. And that's the end of it."

      So I hope you'll be able to tell me something or what's the meaning of this. I kinda know the answer in which I still love and miss him. I am in denial to be honest like I try myself to get distracted as much as possible but in my mind and heart, I still miss him.

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      Kari 4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Jane - It sounds like even though you are thinking about breaking up with him occasionally, you don't want him to take the upper hand and break up with you; in other words, not want you. Most of us have dreams like that about our boyfriends or girlfriends. Nobody wants their partner to be interested in other people or love someone else more than they love us. It all boils down to the insecurity that we all have, some more than others.

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      Jane A 4 weeks ago

      In real life my boyfriend annoys me a lot and I sometimes think about breaking up with him and I also think other boys are cute but they can never compare to my boyfriends love. I love him so much but I had a dream about my boyfriend breaking up with me, he then blocked me off all social media and also blocked my number. I then found out he was in a relationship with a girl he used to talk to. I confronted him in my dream and asked why. He said that he always liked her and loved her personality and her looks. I also had 2 other dreams of him cheating on me. I don't know what this means, please help.

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      Kari 4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Lugano - Do you know this girl? If so, then it's possible you are really attracted to her and want to be with her OR you like certain things about her and want those traits in a girlfriend.

      If you don't know who this girl is (you've never seen her in real life), then it's likely that you feel ready to settle down into something and have a good, faithful (or whatever the church and beautiful landscape represents to you) relationship.

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      Kari 4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Ashli - It probably means that you realize your parents are not fond of your boyfriend and wish you would be with someone else - possibly someone who has traits like your best friend.

      If your current boyfriend is not treating you right or if you are not happy in the relationship, it could also mean that you are expecting more for yourself and you are using your mother as the voice of reason in your dream to help you see that clearly.

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      lugano 4 weeks ago

      Hi,I have been dreaming 7th times that I am living a happily marriage life with a girl who is not even my lover ...sometimes I also dream we in the church together or in an area with a beautiful landscape..

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      Ashli Gomez 4 weeks ago

      Recently I had a dream in which my mother, male best friend, and I went out to eat. Now i have a boyfriend and my parents aren't very fond of him, even though they won't take the time to get to know him. While sitting all together my mother kept telling me that my best friend is better than my boyfriend and that i should date him instead. Does that have any meaning at all whatsoever?

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      Kari 4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Dawnny - I'm going to assume his wife doesn't know about you (he is having an affair with you) since you are not saying whether he is still living with her or just married and separated. If that's the case, then the dream just sounds like you want him to pick you over her - and for her to know it.

      If you feel insecure, then you are insecure, and that means that he's probably giving you some reasons to be insecure - namely, maintaining the relationship with his wife. If it's been going on for two years, and he hasn't left his wife, then - to me, that's a pretty good sign that he's not going to.

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      dawnny 4 weeks ago

      I have been together with my lover for almost two years. He is still married and I'm divorced. I am very emotionally attached to him. I know he likes me a lot, tries to spend as much time with me as possible and helps me in whatever he could. I never felt so comfortable with a man before till I met him.

      This is the first time I dreamed of him. In my dream I dreamed he walked me to a room (seems like a kitchen) to a counterspace. I saw his wife at the corner of the counter, he was smiling at me, looked at me lovingly, wrapped one arm on my shoulders. The wife just looked at us with no emotions.

      What does this dream mean? Insecurity? I do feel I might lose him but I know he adores me. This dream has been bugging me and I'm so curious what it signifies.

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Renee - I don't think you should be worried. The chances of your dream being prophetic are very small. The chances of you dreaming about some thoughts/feelings he has that you don't know about are small.

      However, if he's been given you signs that he doesn't want to be in the relationship, then you may be dreaming about something that could occur. The signs may be small enough that your subconscious is picking up on them and you are worried, so you are dreaming about outcomes that could occur. BUT, don't read into things that aren't there or you will end up hurting your relationship.

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      Renee 5 weeks ago

      I'm in a relationship coming up on 2 years. I am in love with my boyfriend but I had a dream last night that we were arguing about a girl that was a friend and he then said we would never get married. That we wouldn't work. So we broke up right then and there. Should I be worried?

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Angel - It seems to me that you dreaming about him speaking your language is a sign that you think you are cohesive together - work well together. You get along and he feels comfortable with you and your world. It sounds like you don't think there was a valid reason for you breaking up or that you think you would be good together if you got back together.

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Dee - You mentioned that you talked to him about his mom, so are you still in contact with him? Do you still run into him? Do you look him up on Facebook or other places? If yes, then it's going to be hard to get him off your mind, especially because (I'm assuming) you didn't end your relationship in a negative way between you and him. There's no real damage done between the two of you and you still have a connection (probably why you are in tune about his mother.)

      If he's on your mind, then you will dream about him because it's a part of you - your thoughts, your internal struggles. I suggest taking a 'vacation' or a rest from him. Don't talk to him. Don't look him up. Focus on your fiance and kid and stop looking backward.

      The other thing is you sound like you are still attracted to the coworker. I would imagine that's the case, especially if it was a sexual thing and you didn't have an emotional struggle or blowout with him. As long as you are attracted to him and don't find closure with the relationship, he's going to be a big part of your thoughts. Perception is key. If you still see him as something you want, then he will be something you want. But, if you see him as someone who makes you feel bad and has huge potential to damage your happiness, then your attraction to him may start to diminish and you will have an easier time getting him off your mind.

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      Angel 5 weeks ago

      I dreamt my ex boyfriend was at my place with some of our friends and my family hanging out. I was In the kitchen looking for something when he walked in looking for a mug to make coffee. I kept Checking the cupboard for a better mug to pass to him when he reached over and just pick a mug and starting making his own coffee. To my surprise he was speaking my language (we are both from different places) and left to be with our friends. I caught up with him and saw him so relaxed like he i at his home. Lying on the floor etc while talking with our friends etc.

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      Dee 5 weeks ago

      Hello, I've been in a relationship for 7 years (my fiance & I have known each other ever since we were in high school....23 years), but 10 months ago I cheated on him with a coworker (this is the first time that either one of us has ever been unfaithful towards each other & this is the first time that I've ever cheated on any of my boyfriends). Our relationship was great prior to my infidelity....we got along well, we would never argue, we always had fun together etc. etc, but the most critical part of the relationship was our finances & his lack of affection towards me (not saying that those were valid reasons to cheat on him). The guy that I cheated on him with knew that I was in a relationship & he knew about my situation (we talked to each other months before we were ever intimate) so he was very attentive & he showed A LOT of affection towards me (guys that want something from you will be attentive until he gets what he wants). I was with my coworker intimately for a few months until my then boyfriend found out about it. He forgave me, we moved on & then he proposed to me about 3 months ago....I said yes. We have been working on our relationship & things have been going pretty well, he has regained his trust in me (I have been faithful), but I have been dreaming about the guy that I cheated on my fiance with. :-( The situation with me & my coworker was strictly a sex thing, nothing more nothing less, but I can't seem to get him out of my mind (I even think about him when me & my fiance are being intimate) :-( I want my relationship/family to work out so much that I even quit my job so that I wouldn't be tempted by my coworker. I love my family (we have 1 child together & she's 5 years old) & I want to be with my fiance, but what can I do to get my coworker out of my head? I'm constantly dreaming about him, I actually had a dream about his mom & when I told him about the dream (it wasn't a bad dream) & I asked him how was his mom doing, he told me that she had breast cancer (she received chemotherapy so she's fine). Is there a reason why I'm dreaming about him after all this time? Any insight/suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!! :-)

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      Liz Tina Max 5 weeks ago

      Kari thank you so much for your prompt reply and the heads up on my relationship really appreciate it. I just wanted to point out that my sex dream with the guy I love actually happened before we dated and before I fell in love with him. We have been dating for 3yrs and his a kind of guy that shows you some cards and keeps some if he think it's not necessary for you to know. We broke up 3times and got back. But broke up again and yes. We broke because he was receiving some kind of threats so he didn't want me in it. He only told me this few months back. But thank you so much for the heads up... I feel your advise is worth it. Your too good.

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Liz - Because you know that you've had premonitions of sex, you could be projecting that interpretation onto your dream. In fact, you could have dreamt of having sex with him just so that you could believe you were going to get together with him again and have sex.

      I'm not saying it's not a premonition, because it could be, but it doesn't line up with your other dreams (strangers) and because you already label these kinds of sex dreams as prophetic, there's a good chance your subconscious created the dream to match your hopes about it happening in the future because you love him so much and are so attached to him.

      From my experience, it sounds like he's not interested. A guy who really loves you won't break up with you for any reason - unless your life is literally in danger being around him and he doesn't want you to get physically hurt. Obviously, I don't know what's going on with him and you, but I just wanted to point that out because sometimes we get blinded by love.

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Arielle - You just recently broke up, so your dream is likely a representation of it being hard to let go of something that was such a big part of your life. It's natural to want to hold on consciously or subconsciously - even if the relationship was bad - because it's hard to end a big relationship. So, dreaming about your ex or you not wanting to let go is par for course.

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      Liz Tina Max 5 weeks ago

      This is fascinating. I'm Liz, 25yrs old and single. I dreamed I was having sex with some stranger, in the waking life after a week or two I actually had sex with my boyfriend back then now ex. After some time I had the same kind of dream, having sex with another stranger, in waking life I had sex with another guy I was dating back then after a week or so. It's been years now and I dreamed I was having sex with the guy I love soo much now and I've never had such a dream before. It was always sex with a stranger in my dream. But this dream it's actually him.. The guy I love the most. We broke up though and never had sex. But I feel more attached to him then Any other guy. And i love him soo much. We broke up cause he had to sort out some stuff with Some people and all and didn't want me involved in any of it. We still chat etc from time to time Please help!

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      Arielle 5 weeks ago

      I had a dream that my ex was sending me off to my flight at the airport. When it came time to say our goodbyes as I was boarding he didn't want me to leave and was saying how he wanted to come with me. My dream ended there. We had recently just broken up.

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Manda - So I take you are dating somewhat as you said that you can't sleep in the same bed with him? It's not just a crush?

      It sounds like you feel as though you aren't able to be in the type of relationship you want or do the things you want to do in the relationship. Maybe he feels guilty about something and is not able to pursue the relationship you want or maybe there are some other factors that are affecting your relationship - school, work, health, friends?

      It could also mean you have some insecurities in the relationship and, perhaps, you are the one holding back the relationship from going where he wants it to. All the things his mother said to you were coming from your mind - they were a projection of your thoughts, so make sure that you are not talking to yourself like that on some level and that your self-esteem is intact.

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Rachel - So, the first thought is that you don't believe his reason for breaking up. You aren't buying it, so in your dream, you saw a more reasonable reason in your mind. But, I find it interesting that he was trying to catch up to you in the dream. He wasn't just letting you go and ignoring your pain. He obviously cared that you were upset and was trying to catch up to you to talk about it or work through it. To me, that's a sign that he's a decent guy and, even though you may not believe what he told you on every level, you still believe it on some levels.

      The other interesting aspect is the ATM. He's picking up a girl beside the ATM as he draws out cash. It could reflect your concern about him spending money on someone or something else that you don't think is good for him.

      Or, if he often paid for you two, it could represent him taking care of you being interpreted by something or someone else and your observation of that.

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      Manda 5 weeks ago

      I had a dream about me and the guy I'm in love with. We both were happy after our day being together playing volleyball. I got in the shower and he joined but nothing happened we were just showering. I asked what about your mom ( he lives with his parents and his mom doesn't let us sleep in the same bed.) and he was like it's fine she wasn't there or something like that and I kept freaking out and said I was gonna get out and he was like no. So he got out to check. So when he got out he went looking then said oh shit and ran back and put clothes on and I sat there in the shower and his mom came around the corner. She started freaking out and called me so many names like a 'slut' and a 'whore' and how I 'ruined him'. Then she kept calling him names that even hurt me when she called him them like a "no good for nothing piece of shit". I started getting dressed as she was yelling in our face and freaking out. And I stepped up and started yelling back so she would get out of our faces. I slammed the door and we were in the room alone. I was getting my stuff and he was just sitting there. I kept bawling and kicking the door cause she kept going while she was out there. I was so angry with her, I just kept throwing stuff and kicking the door. I asked, "are you coming with me when I leave?". He said "yea I guess", then you went on a rant of how people can't leave us alone and we can't do our own thing. And that's when he started crying and the last thing right before I woke up, he said "I just love you so god damn much!" I felt so much emotion when he said it in the dream and the feeling I felt in my chest in and out of the dream is unexplainable.

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      rachel 5 weeks ago

      I had a dream that me and my ex where hanging out and he had to go to the ATM to withdraw some cash, when we got there, there was another girl beside him at the other ATM. She started talking to him and then he asked for her number. In the dream I was so crushed because I was literally right beside him and when we broke up he said he wasn't looking to be in a relationship and wants to focus on building himself. It was upsetting, so I left. The remainder of my dream was me trying to walk away from him cause I was hurt and him following me trying to catch up with me.

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Maryann - It's natural to dream about your ex like that. You were together passionately once, and that memory is still there, so dreaming about him or her is not a big stretch. It doesn't mean you are going to get back together and it doesn't mean you are not. It's just a reflection of how you felt with your ex and, possibly, how you still feel.

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Jamie - I think you are dreaming about the value you have in supporting him. He's smiling at you a lot during the dream and seems to be appreciating what you are doing for him, so it tells me that he values your support and you know it.

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @KD - I'm not sure how old you are now to dream about the age of 16, but this sounds like a fairytale come true. So it might be something you've been imagining or hoping for or it might be inspired by a romantic movie or book where people meet up together. It also shows that you are responsible since you want to talk to your family first before running away.

      Lastly, it could represent a struggle you are having with doing what your family wants and doing what you want.

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      Maryann 6 weeks ago

      I dreamt about my ex and I kissing passionately. We looked happy in the dream, but we're no more talking to each other in real life.

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      Jamie 6 weeks ago

      Hi there I'm a 29 year old male, I've known this guy he's older then me and we seem to be getting along really well, he's a teacher in a Primary School so as you can imagine a lot of time he is working, we have met several times we have had sex and all that, he will message me with out me messing him, over the last few days he has got an assessment coming up and is really worried about as his manager is not helpful at all and he say he gets treated different from the other staff.

      Right get to the dream part I had a dream that that I was walk with him to his place of in the day time down a dirt track we was holding hands he would hold my bum in front of anyone, he then kissed me as we walked along, I wentered in to his school and meet the people he works with his manager and head teacher and told them what a nice guy and how had kris works, and he needs to be praised and help in what he does, I speak to other members of staff and sit with kris he is smiling at me, I then get told to wait out side as they have a meeting I can see Kris though the window in the door he looks happy and looks at me though the door, the meeting don't last long and then kris comes out gives me a hug.

      On Thursday Kis has got to go to another school and do this assessment with other teacher who will be marking his wor to say if it is up to the standards as he is really worried he hasn't down it right and they won't give him good feed back, do you think this is what I'm dreaming?

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      KD 6 weeks ago

      Hi,

      So I had a dream that at the age of 16 I met my soulmate and we fell in love but my family disapproved of us and separated us, due to which he went away to another country to finish his education and vowed to get me back when he ages, on the other hand I was grounded and removed from school for quiet sometime. Fast forward few years I was in college studying science, and after classes I went for a coffee where I had a gut felling that I might meet him. Initially he sees me while I Ann at the table drinking my coffee and gives me the biggest and the most passionate hug ever. We both start crying and he tells me that he was searching for me, and now he found me. He tells me to runaway with him, but I tell him that we should first try to convince my family and if it doesn't work I will certainly go with him.

      What does this dream mean?

      Thank you in advance for your insight .

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      Kari 6 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @anamika - It sounds like you may have trust issues with him or someone else (maybe your brother) in your life and you don't want to acknowledge it.

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      anamika 6 weeks ago

      i had a dream n i saw my lover talking to me about dat jst becoz he have high sex apptetite he don't go h sleep with sumone n said dat i have trust issue with him infront of his parents as he was talking about sex i intrepted him not to talk n he stopped i dat i walked from his house dat was in real my house with my brother

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      Kari 6 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Mhia - It sounds like you are feeling a bit of insecurity or feeling like you are lacking something from him - possibly attention or kindness or understanding since he is being sweet to the girl in your dreams. It could also mean that you don't feel needed by him because in the dream he was already being taken care of by someone else. If you feel like your needs aren't being met with him, I highly suggest talking to him about that.

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      Kari 6 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Hanna - Your dreams are a reflection of you, not other people. So just because you dreamt that he cares about you doesn't mean that he does. If he avoids you in real life, I would say that's a really good sign he doesn't hold you very high in his list of priorities. Unless he's really, really shy and feels uncomfortable talking to you.

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      Kari 6 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @LisaGee - Regret sounds like the common theme here! Do you regret something you said or did with him? Do you regret how you handled the relationship? Are you stuck on something from the relationship and unable to let it go? If so, you may need to work on forgiving yourself. That starts by understanding what happened (the situation that is making you feel regretful) and finding a lesson from it that you can apply to your future.

      For instance, if you never told him how you really felt about him, then forgive yourself and hold the intention of always being upfront with people and letting them know your feelings.

      You did mention your mom, so the regret may be about more than just your ex. In fact, it may not be about him at all. You are the only person who knows where regret lives in your life.

      If it is about your ex-boyfriend, you didn't say who broke up with whom, but the fact that he is seeing someone else makes it sound like he isn't showing any interest to get back together. So, take this time to work on forgiving yourself and moving forward with intentions of being more open and honest in relationships.

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      Mhia 6 weeks ago

      I dreamed about surprising my boyfriend picking him up in the airport and was able to see that someone has already picked him up which is another girl. They are very sweet with each other.

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      hanna 6 weeks ago

      i dreamed about a guy saying he cares for me and that he'll always be there for me but then when i see him in real life, he avoids me??

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      Lisa Gee 6 weeks ago

      I dreamed in two different occasions the same kind of dream. I dreamed about this guy I love so much but we broke up few months back and he is seeing someone. In my first dream, I died and I could see my lifeless body and everyone mourning. I was trying to get my mum's attention and everyone else to tell me I'm around but no one saw me standing expect my lifeless body. I started to regret why I did not tell my mum I loved her and i also I regretted not telling my ex boyfriend(the guy I mentioned earlier) how I feel about him. In my second dream. I dreamed I was chatting with my ex boyfriends(the same guy) best friend in the office (we all work in the same company but hardly talk to each other) and I started looking for my ex boyfriend and his best friend told me he left the company and moved to a different town to join the military again. (he was with the military In a different country before he joined the company). I cried soo hard in my dream and regretted not telling him how I feel about him and was hoping it was just a bad dream and sure it was. Please I need your help!! By the way i still love him and we work for the same company but after the break up we hardly talk nor contact each other.

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      Kari 6 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Sandra - That's an interesting dream. To me, it shows that you know he's given up any wild ways and is ready to be yours. It may also signify that you are worried that if you don't say yes to him - or make it very clear - then he might go back to his old life. I would say that if you felt good about saying yes in your dream, you may want to do it in real life.

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      Sandra 6 weeks ago

      In my dream , my concurrent crush and I were asleep in the same room,but ,in different beds.In the bed he was in,were alot of 'concubines' that were all over him .In my gigantic bed,it was just me.So we were all asleep,when my Niece wakes me up.I look up and he's starting at my Niece and I.I get up and out of the room,which seemed like a laundry room,he materialized soon after and asked me the question he's been trying to ask me in real life,for 3 years now,and that was, " Why don't I want to be his?!".I couldn't run from the question so I just smiled ,and he kissed me.When we came back into the room ,the concubines weren't there and we were laying in the bed I'd slept in earlier.At the end of my dream,I remember feeling so much anxiety when he had to leave for work because,I refused having intercourse with him earlier on ,in the dream ,and I thought maybe he'd go back to his concubines.The one thing that gave me the surity I needed ,was the twinkle in his eye,I felt I could trust him.I woke up after this,giggling like a mental idiot because I've finally said yes to the only man I want!!

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      Kari 6 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Misty - The fact that a psychic told you that he would propose in July makes me think your dream is just a reflection of that and your hopes that he will. Your life is changing this weekend and you know you want to be with him, so it makes sense that you would dream about him proposing as you anticipate new changes!

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      Kari 6 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Maddy - I think that's just a myth. However, if you believe it, then your subconscious will have a hard time letting you believe that it's anything but true. I wouldn't go down that path because if you are not willing to accept that it's not true, you could be setting yourself up for a lot of trouble.

      Anyway, I can't understand what you are asking. For example, 'wedding wid ur lover has fixed...' doesn't make any sense to me. Sorry.

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      Kari 6 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Mike - Are you supporting her through something right now? Or does she need support? You don't say if you are in a relationship with her or not, but that's what it sounds like to me. She either needs your support on her journey or you feel like you should give her your support.

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      Misty Combs 6 weeks ago

      I had a dream last night that my boyfriend proposed to me. I just remember he was being extra loving and sweet in my dream (he is extremely loving and sweet outside the dreams), just way extra sweet . We started walking and I turned around and he was on one knee with a ring, and we both started giggling and he said "hold on babe" cause he lost his balance, and had to readjust before he fell over before he asked me lol. That's all I can remember about my dream. I had a psychic tell me last month that he is proposing to me in July. Is this dream a sign it is going to happen soon? I am graduating college this weekend , and have so many new life changes coming to me . We have made plans to live together within next year or so. Was this dream telling me he's proposing soon?

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      Mike 6 weeks ago

      I dreamt about going on a retreat with the person I love and then she collapsed and I helped her. I can give the full details if you want but this is the only relevant details i can think of.

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      Kari 6 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Keish - Punctuation! Use it! It's really hard to read your paragraph without punctuation. It's important to use when writing.

      Anyway, sounds like you watched a horror show and have scenes or experiences from the show dripping into your dreams. Really hard to understand your writing.

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      Kari 6 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Nieves - Could it be that you are angry at how relaxed he is towards a certain situation that is not acceptable to you? Maybe it has something to do with your son.

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      keish 6 weeks ago

      i dreamt im getting married and the guy i'm suppose to be married to didnt showed up so afterwards i went looking for him and found him flirting with a next girl for some reason I started running and I found myself at one of my old school and I met a teacher who once taught me in school and in this dream it was like she can tell u what is really happening to you (it was like she reads oneself) so she told me that he's dead and the person in his body is an evil spirit and I would never get the guy back and then afterwards the guy started to chase me down the road and as he was chasing me he started to transfer into a form of woman in her late 30's and as I was running I tried to scream for help but at the same time I jumped up from my sleep..

      When I did get to sleep again it was like I continued dreaming from where I left off.. I dreamt that the lady got me and she killed me..

      can u please tell me what does that dream means!

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      Nieves Guerrero 7 weeks ago

      in my dream i was in my sons room, his room was not fully furnished . my partner was lying there relaxed

      (towards the left sides and on his right was a heavy older female with black hair and a ponytail (low) her hair was split in the middle, another older female was there i don't remember what she looked like the other woman was a partner he had before. In the dream it was as if she walked in my house but there were no argument and my part er was relaxed.My position in the dream reminded the same i just stood there. The mood i had upon waking up was anger so i don't know what to make of it.

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      Kari 7 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Genvieve - Sounds like you are questioning whether or not you like him. I didn't like my husband in 'that' way until we started hanging out more. Then I realized he was the best thing that ever happened to me. It doesn't mean you like him, it just means you are playing with the idea of him being a 'kid' (I hope he's not an actual child) that you like.

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      Kari 7 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Kristen - You are living out your regret in your dreams. You want to be together, so you dream about the two of you together or trying to get back together or something similar.

      If he's taken, I highly suggest working on finding a way to be happy without him. The more you focus on how unhappy you are, the more unhappy you will be. That's no way to live a life.

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      Kari 7 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Swat - It likely means that you know he's taken and there is no chance for you two.

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      Kari 7 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Quinnleanne - Your dream made it pretty clear. You know you have a lot to offer a guy. You know that you are interesting and likable. You know that you might be interested in this guy. So, talk to him! You'll never know if your dream is foretelling something unless you build some kind of relationship with him - even if it's just talking about random stuff at first.

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      Kari 7 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Quinn - I don't know what rn means. But, if you think the dreams are telling you do to something, then you are probably right. Always follow your intuition.

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      Genevieve 7 weeks ago

      I dreamt that this kid from school, that I'm kinda friends with, asked me out. Before the dream people joked that I liked him but I always denied it because that's how I felt. Now heres how the dream goes, so I was at my house, which had been changed and moved to a new location. Me and my sister snuck out and went to the park. At the park the kid(let's call him Steve) Steve was at the park. And Steve asked me out and I got really blushy and smiley and I said my mom would never allow that. He said ok and me and my sister went home for an hour Bc the sky looked bad. Noting happened then but after the hour I went back to the park, Steve wasn't there at first so I looked around and then when I saw him I jumped towards him and said it didn't matter what my mom said, or something like that. Then we played this weird game where you line up in two lines and you run up and kiss the person, me and Steve were set up in the lines to kiss eachother but a girl pushed in front of him and so I stepped out of line and then my alarm went off.

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      Kristen 7 weeks ago

      I keep having dreams of my ex boyfriend. He cheated on me 4 years ago so I kicked him out I have always regretted it we have a 10 year old together I'm unhappily married. But I keep having these real dreams were I wake up and think they were real. One was him and I getting back together and so happy. Than last nite I was at his house while his girlfriend wasn't there and we talked and it was the longest dream I think I have ever had. Than I left got in my car stopped at a school got lost in the school and drove by him were he was think6the same things as me that we both loved one another. But that's were it ended I was so happy in the dream and anxious about what was going to happen than I woke up sad that it wasn't real.

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      swat 7 weeks ago

      I see my love and his fiance in dreams always.I never see him alone he is always accompanied with his fiance in my dreams, what does it mean ?

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      Quinnleanne 7 weeks ago

      Ok. So I had a dream about this guy at my school whom I've never talked to. The first thing that happened in the dream was something that happened in real life. We were passing in the hallway, and made eye contact. Then suddenly I was in gym class, my favorite, and a bunch of kids were just sitting around the gym, me next to the guy from the hall. He smiled at me, and since we were very close together, he said "Our hands are kind of close" and so he took my hand in his, making me blush, and it seemed so real. I was literally excited for the end of the day to tell my friend what happened.

      Then we were told to run a lap around the gym. I went slow at first, then sprinted full on, the boy commented but I don't remember what he said. Something funny. I was the only one who ran a second lap and I don't know why. I've always been an overachiever I guess. When I sat back down he asked me out. I said "We only met five days ago" which I don't understand because it all seemed to happen in the same day. He admitted that there was something about me, making me flustered. He was gone and there was paper on the floor, instead of telling him, I wrote down "My parents wouldn't want me to date so I couldn't go to your house" which I've always been scared of telling guys since I think it's a nuisance. He seemed only a little fazed by it and sounded kind of upset. I came up with the solution to pretend I'm going over to see his sister, whose 14 as he tells me and then it ends. Just like that. It was so complicated and I am so confused. But now I want to talk to that guy in real life, to see if I would actually like him or not. Please help.

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      Quinn 7 weeks ago

      So I drempt a few days ago that I was dating a person I would NEVER date, last night I dreamt that I was dating a person I like but couldn't rn because of personal reasons. I think this is telling me to just ask one of my crushes out as I haven't ever and never had 1st kiss or 1st relationship

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      Cameron Daleske 7 weeks ago

      In my dream my true love was in her death bed insted she was standing right next to me holding my hand and telling me "I love you with all my heart!"

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      Lilian Chan 7 weeks ago

      Hi, I keep having this dream where my boyfriend and I were hanging out having a good time then the words i love you would accidentally slip out of my mouth (neither of us have said it to eachother yet in real life).

      Then he would go into panic mood and repeatedly say no no no i knew this would happen, we are not gonna have a future why you say that blah blah while he's walking away from me.

      Then I would ask if he wants to break up with me and he'd be like of course what else can we do now and that's it.

      I really want to know what it means and whether it means we don't have a future together. Thank you so much.

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      Kari 7 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Kristy - Sounds like some trust issues are happening, either with the mother-in-law or your partner. Your dreams are just alerting you to the fact that you should deal with them.

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      Kari 7 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Daphne - I'm assuming you are attracted to him since you didn't mention otherwise. Either that or you feel really close to him. Don't worry about your dream. It's just a reflection of you feeling close to him, and it came out romantically.

      I've dreamt about being romantic with my best friend, who I'm not attracted to at all. Usually, it's after a visit with her where we have a really good time.

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      Kari 7 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Lisa - He's like a brother to you because you have tried rakhi on his hand two times? How does that make him a brother? I'm confused.

      Anyway, it's probably just a reflection of how much you like him as a person and how you want to spend more time around him. Don't do anything. As you said, you view him as a brother, so it was just a dream. Don't worry about it.

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      Kristy 7 weeks ago

      i had a dream last night my mother in law set my partner up to stay in a hotel she told me it was for work but it was really to set him up with his ex girlfriend and her family, I was really upset in this dream because my partner said he wanted to stay with her and I woke up feeling broken

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      Daphne 7 weeks ago

      I've been dreaming about my cousin for 2 nights straight now ever since we got home from a vacation with him and his sisters. We aren't exactly close but we talk sometimes when we need somthing from each other. I forgot what my frist dream was about but the one from last night was us being sweet. The romantic kind inculding leaning on his chest and nibbling. He showed up in my dream but he looked younger than he is now. I don't know what it means but it has been bothering me a lot.

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      Lisa 8 weeks ago

      I had a dream few days ago tht my best friend's boyfriend becomes my boyfriend and my best friend is not in my dream and her boyfriend and i are having good time . But actually in reality her boyfriend is my friend and he is also like a brother to me because i have tied rakhi on his hand two times. What does my dream mean ? What should i do?

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      Kari 8 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Sheila - Do you like him in real life? If you say no, are you being honest with yourself? If you don't, then it may not be a romantic thing. It may just be that you are jealous about something else in regards to him. Maybe his lifestyle, friends, money? Only you will know.

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      SheilaM 8 weeks ago

      in my dream i like my bestfriend but everybody is asking whats the score between us and i denied that we are just friends. And in the group he is flirting with someone else and i am hurting and jealous.

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      Question 2 months ago

      I just had a dream about me my boyfriend and his ex girlfriend. Pretty much dreaming about us fighting, and she's just in the picture. I was angry in my dream.can you tell me why I am dreaming about her????

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      Cathy 2 months ago

      I had a dream my ex was with my high school friend, n the problem is that I still love this man very much

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      Clint 2 months ago

      I was dreaming about my lover falling into the arms of my bestfriend and she looked very happy.

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      Sheilaswheels 2 months ago

      I dreamt that I clearly heard my boyfriend of 9 years say goodbye to me and I woke up

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      Kari 2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @April - So little to go on here. But, I would say that it means that you know that no matter what happens in your relationship, you are going to work things out. It may not have to do with cheating. It may just be about an argument or stressful time you are having. The dream represents your ability to come back together after all is said and done.

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      April Ortiz 2 months ago

      My wife had left me to get with her ex but then at the end of the dream we had got back together what does this mean ??

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      Kari 2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Mell - Likely your desire for him to show you that he's thinking of you is playing out in your dreams. We all want to know that our significant other is thinking about us - even when they are having fun. So, since you feel like he's not telling you that you are on his mind, he hopefully is telling someone else.

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      Kari 2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @I have 2- There is no context to these dreams and it's hard to understand what you mean about the first dream. So, I don't know.

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      Kari 2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @yup - Did you like her when you were dating the other person? Did you like characteristics about her? Or maybe what she stood for or how she made you feel? I'm assuming being around her, even in your dream, felt good because of something or a number of somethings, so try to remember what they were. Those are the qualities that obviously make you feel good in a relationship, so look for those qualities in a person moving forward - whether it is for a friendship or for dating. That's the kind of energy you want to surround yourself with.

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      Mell 2 months ago

      My boyfriend is in another country on vacation, I had a dream he was texting someone else saying the he couldn't stop thinking of me on his vacation, but in reality we hardly spoke since he left for his vacation

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      I have 2 2 months ago

      One is about this boy that I new he liked me last year but he moved that's real life dose he have these dreams the other is about me going to prom and partys and stuff

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      Leah 2 months ago

      He is locked up does he miss me

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      Confused 2 months ago

      I have had 2 dreams concerning a guy friends mother reaching out to me. One she was looking for him & the other was inviting me for weekly dinners to get to know me.

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      Jacks 2 months ago

      I had a dream of this guy I been seeing for a year and we broke up and he came looking for me forgiveness and take him back and he was telling me he loves me and wants to be with me it felt so real and I felt the love and happiness but it was at night

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      YupYup1994 2 months ago

      So I woke up in an extremely good mood because of my dream. It featured some friends from the past and a couple of ex's but mainly they were just coming and going throughout different scenes. I was with a girl the whole time(that exists in real life), going place to place, but the odd thing is I never knew this person very well; and haven't seen them in at least a year but never saw them regularly(maybe once or twice total). They happen to be a close friend of an ex of mine, that I'm not close with at all. Normally I wouldn't think anything of this, but I have never had a dream where I was this happy/joyful the whole time and where that carried into my waking self.. It felt almost like what I would envision chemistry between soulmates to be - I just think it's odd that this is the person it was projected onto in my dream. Any thoughts would be appreciated!

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      Kari 2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @meerkat - You are not the cheating type simply because you don't want to cause your husband pain or his wife? That sounds weird to me. I'm not the cheating type because I love my husband and don't need another man in my life. So, it makes me wonder if you are desiring something more than your husband or more from your husband - maybe something this best friend has. For instance, his friend may be more patient with you, tender with you, sexual in nature... there may be something in him you wish was in your husband. I would work on getting whatever that is into your relationship. But, don't feel guilty about the dream. It's just helping you work through stuff.

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      Kari 2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Chad - That's quite a dream. Eerie men in lawn chairs sound like male workers staring at women, which is similar to a group of guys anywhere sitting around and watching a woman walk by. Maybe you've noticed guys looking at her and for some reason you played it out in a factory. What does a factory mean to you? Does it have revenlance to you? Obviously, in the dream, she knew the man and this is a - 'I didn't think he loved me' type scenario. Are you worried about an ex coming back and winning her over? These are the questions I would ask myself.

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      Kari 2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @alfe - Have you seen a horror movie lately or maybe a trailer for one, because that sounds like you were just playing out a seriously scary scene from a horror. Or, think back to the horror shows you've watched. I'm sure there was something about a little girl and a black hallway where someone couldn't get out of the door.

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      Meerkat 2 months ago

      Hi I woke up after dreaming this strange dream. I dreamed my husband and I were travelling with his best friend. I am very close to his best friend and we all keep in contact via texting. We live very far away from each other (the best friend and us). We love hiking and we are planning some traveling together but this morning I woke up and must have been dreaming about this however, I dreamed the friend was naked and very aroused by me and was trying to get me into bed with him. I do have a very soft spot for him but love my husband and am not the cheating type simply because I would not want to cause my husband pain and would want to hurt his friends wife. I kept telling him no in the dream because it wasn't right. My husband was in the dream as a bystander. I woke up confused and then there were a number of texts on my phone from the friend for the two of us. Pictures of his current work which involves a bit of traveling. I feel awful cause I know deep down I love him but it really is an agape love - he is like a big brother to me and a brother to my husband. What can this mean?

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      Chad A Carpenter 2 months ago

      Good Morning,

      I just woke from a dream that was less than pleasant. My girlfriend and I of 2 years were walking with with a familiar aquanrance of mine through a factory of some sorts..there seemed to be a lot of eerie men sitting in lawn chairs staring at us as we walked. The aquanrance told us that is was good seeing us and to enjoy the rest of our walk. As we were walking down the road from the factory, a man ran up behind from that factory. The man called my girlfriends name, so we stopped and turned around. He got really close and say, "there's been something I've been wanting to say to you for a really long time." At that point I said "Excuse me?" And held up our hands and we were holding them. The man took 2 or 3 steps back and started acting nervous. He then said, "you know what, I'm just going to come out to say it." He then pulls out a small box, walks up, and asks her to marry him. Really angry and disbelief that he would do something like that especially with me right next to her, I look at her with the expression of "can you believe this guy?" She had tears in her eyes and was nodding yes and he then kiss her. I yelled, "what the F*** is this?!" She turned to me while still crying with the look of, "I'm sorry" on her face and let go of my hand.

      At that point I jumped up and I'm just sitting here next to her while she sleeps. I wish I could say this dream doesn't have me shook up bit it does. Any advice on what all this means? I had no luck.trying to find it myself online.

      Thank you

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      alfe 2 months ago

      Hi, I had a dream that I was in my room listening to music and the same song I was listening was playing in the other room as I went to check the hallway was pitch black and there was a little girl standing saying "I want to play with you" I never actually saw her face I was trying to run out of my house but she had the door locked and kept repeating "you're not leaving until you play with me"....What could this dream mean?

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      Kari 2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Genny - You are probably worried about being shut out by this person.

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      Kari 2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Freya - It could be. It could also be a symbol for any doubt you are having in your life. It might just be playing out in your relationship because you think about it a lot, but I would look for doubt in your life and tackle it if you find it.

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      Kari 2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @SRi - you must place a lot of value on parents, which is why you are dreaming of them.

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      Genny 2 months ago

      Hi! I'm curious as to what my dream meant it was a quick one, basically a conversation with someone I care about deeply and in the dream he texted me on fb and said goodbye and from there it appeared that he blocked me in some sort I felt a deep sharp pain in my chest like betrayal and sorrow along with anger, does it represent anything?

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      Freya 2 months ago

      Hi,

      I keep having dreams where I am no longer into my partner/attracted to him.

      We are currently long distance but I miss him so much and am very attracted to him. Could this be a sign that I am worried of my feelings being strong or what else could it mean?

      Thanks for the help, I really enjoyed your post

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      Sri 2 months ago

      Hi. I'm very worried and curious, kindly help me interpret my dream?

      I'll be grateful.

      I had a separation from a one sided love few days ago, though the guy does have feelings for me but isn't ready for a relationship. I have never really met his parents, but I often see myself talking to them in my dreams and moving around with them. It just happens too often.

      Thanking you whole heartedly in advance.

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      Kari 2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @victoria - That's neat that your dream was in black and white. I would interpret it as feeling as if the whole situation is unknown, which is kind of what you said. You are not sure how he feels about you, and you were not able to finish the dream to find out what was going to happen with his arms around your waist. So, it's like you are in limbo waiting to find out what is going to happen - what color it will take on.

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      Kari 2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @alejandra - Do you feel like you are losing your boyfriend? Pushing him away? Or do you feel like you don't know your boyfriend very well and that may cause a problem between the two of you? That's what it sounds like to me.

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      Kari 2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Freda - If you are holding out hope, then it's not surprising you would have a dream about him coming home to you. It could be the sign that you were looking for, but I doubt it. I think it's more of your desire to have him come home than anything.

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      Victoria 2 months ago

      I had a black and white dream about a guy ( i love him a lot but he is not sure whag he feels for me but we had something in the past) and he was talking about the girl that he currently "talking" to so we were just arriving at school he kept staring at me and well i was walking around with a friend and we were just texting and then i was alone .. he texted me "turn around " and as i felt his arms around my wait i turned wround and thats when i woke uo

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      Sri 2 months ago

      I had a separation from a one sided love few days ago, though the guy does have feelings for me but isn't ready for a relationship. I have never really met his parents, but I often see myself talking to them in my dreams and moving around with them. It just happens too often.

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      Alejandra Zepeda 2 months ago

      I had a dream in which I break up with my boyfriend but then try running after him it was late he was gone when I tried calling him I realized I did not know his number. What doesn't it mean

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      Freda Parenteau 2 months ago

      I tried to save my marriage if 35 years after finding out that my husband was fooling around with another woman for 5 months I only found out in March. I went to where he is working and tried to save my marriage because he said he didn't think our marriage was going to work because he said he was not happy, but this came after he had been fooling around with this other woman. He appears to be very confused and he tells me he's coming home and than turns around and says he's not coming home. He told me to keep the house and all of our belongings than he turns around and says give everything to his grandson. I don't know what to think about all of this. I continue to hold onto a bit of hope I hold in my heart and prayed about it. My family has been praying about this and ask God to show me a sign and I had this dream last night and in my dream he was coming home to me. This is the first dream I had of him since this whole nightmare came into my life. What does my dream mean please help. Thank you.

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      Kari 2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @nellee - They could. It's hard to pinpoint prophetic dreams because you only see that they come true in hindsight. I've found that my prophetic dreams have been quite real and detailed (not broken up) and I'm able to distinguish weird things when I see them. For instance, when I was in Hawaii, I had a dream that my dog was surfing and hurt her back. My dog was back home, but Hawaii was realistic to me because I was there. The dream was long and continuous. I took her out of the water, we tried to help her, and she wasn't getting any better. There was no popping in and out of places and I was acutely aware that her surfing was weird. When we got home in real life, her back gave out and she wasn't able to walk. She died two months later from complications.

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      nellee 2 months ago

      Is it possible that my dreams come true?

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      Kari 2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Christine - It means that you are thinking about the feelings you got with him. Safe and sexy, you said. Perhaps you want to feel safe and sexy again. Or maybe someone is making you feel that way now. Your ex is just a symbol of those feelings. You could also have a need or desire to be taken care of, because it sounds like he did that in your dream.

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      Kari 2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Julia - Possibly because all the other people seemed fake or untrustworthy to you and this crush seems genuine?

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      Kari 2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @andrew - What a dream! It sounds like a lot of things were thrown into your dream, and they are likely a reflection of your thoughts and experiences, even your subconscious ones, because you went from one crazy scenario to another.

      I will say that you had a few older people in your dream, so there's a good chance that something is going on in your life involving an older person. You may want to take a look at that in your life. And, because you felt uncomfortable in a lot of your dream - or were doing uncomfortable things, there is likely something going on in your life that you feel uncomfortable about.

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      Kari 2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @nellee - Why do you think your dream looks weird? It's a normal dream. Dreams are meant to be different and be outside our comfort zone.

      It sounds like one of a few things. You dreamt about your future boyfriend. You could be thinking about wanting to be in a loving relationship, and so that's why you dreamt about being in one. You could have seen a TV show where the woman puts her head on the guy's shoulder and he puts his head on top of hers, and then she kisses him on the cheek, and you are just replaying that in your dream. Or, you could be looking for affection from someone in your life (mom, dad, friend) and playing it it out in your dream. Which one resonates with you?

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      nellee 2 months ago

      I dreamt of someone, a guy that i didnt know but in my dreams its like we already knew each other and on how we treat each others like boyfriends and girlfriends. And what i remember is that we're in a car or i dont know what kind of vehicle is that and i lie my head in his shoulder and he also put his head on top of my head (i dont know if this make sense) and i kissed him on his cheeks, but i really dont know why i did that, i mean when i woke up i realized that i dont have any idea who really he is, i dont know his name, and even his face. And when i woke up im so happy and its like its real, and i want to go back to sleep again haha, i just want to know what does it mean? I know my dream looks weird haha

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      AndrewCa 2 months ago

      In my dream, I was helping a drag Queen look for her vehicle. Her staff didn't seem to want to put any effort into helping. I got lost and a Chinese performance troupe told me to stay with them till I saw someone I knew. Some how I ended up in a boat ride ( like at a water park. Like the log ride you get splashed on at Paramount Great America amusement park.) The boat ride took me threw different scenery. I felt very uncomfortable on this boat ride. One scene on the boat was dancing flamingos that splashed you with water. Next I got on a transport platform. It took me from the boat to an exit for the boat ride. But an elderly woman sat on my lap. She just sat on me and said thankyou. She was wearing expensive jewlery. When I went to exit, an older man started going threw my backpack, and asking questions about its content. I had a vhs of Jurassic park. I hate that movie. Idk why it was in there. And a note book. An overdose kit for my medicine. An empty water bottle and my wallet. Then he said to me while he gave me back my stuff, "we need to talk"... I said OK. He said to me " I want you to go with me to Cancun for a while" . I reluctantly said OK. Then woke up..... What...was...all..that... It made no since to me. If someone could help, I'd appreciate it

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      Julia 2 months ago

      It used to be that, whenever I had a crush on someone, I would dream that they look really different and a lot uglier than they are in real life. This would occur with every single crush I have had until now. It was as if they were an entirely different person. However, whenever my current crush appears in my dreams, he looks exactly the same as he actually looks in real life.

      I am really confused as to how my current crush is so different from all my past ones, that he would appear in my dreams as his true form.

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      Christine 2 months ago

      What does it mean when you dream of someone you had an intimate relationship with but they have now passed over? I dreamt I was in bed with this man and his adult daughter was there too. After a while she got up to get a cuppa and he followed then he came back alone and gave me something little that was sweet to eat and then kissed me and then I woke up.

      This person passed away some time ago, like a few years. I was only with him for a very short time but he was a very big personality and helped me lot in the time I knew him. He helped me physically with a place to live for me and my kids, he protected me and my kids from my ex and stopped him from getting to us. He taught me a lot about myself and drew me out of myself after I had been in an abusive relationship for many many years

      He moved on to someone else, I moved away, though kept in touch occasionally. He ended up with cancer and eventually died. What does it mean that I dreamed about being in bed with him, kissing him and I felt safe and sexy.

      Also, I have been single for almost 2 years now as the boyfriend I had dumped me after I got chronic pain following a couple of accidents.

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      Kari 2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Unknown - You were dreaming about making up because you want to make up. That's all there is to the dream.

      As far as getting him to talk to you, don't be too needy. You were rude, so apologize and leave it at that. If he wants to call you, he will. If he doesn't, then you can't force him to, and no amount of trying to get him to reply to you is going to help - in fact, it will make it worse because your desperation will be unattractive.

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      Kari 2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Aaliyah - You were wondering if he was being unfaithful just before you went to bed. That's how you interpret the dream. It's just playing out your thoughts. It doesn't mean he is being unfaithful - it's just a reflexion of your worry.

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      (Unknown) 3 months ago

      So I just woke up from a really weird dream. So yesterday, my boyfriend and I kinda got into a argument and I felt really bad for what happened and he kept wanting to hug me and hold my hand and I kept saying no. I really wanted to but my little cousin was there and so I didn't want her telling on me. He asked me for a dollar so he could get a ride back home on the city bus. I have it to him and (not noticing) I was being really rude i guess and so after he left my cousin and I waited and I started thinking so then we ran after him and couldn't find him. I stated crying. Now he just won't answer me at all. And last night while I was dreaming, I dreamt that we went to the same school and that we kissed and hugged it out and he said, "so now u wanna kiss me" and then when we got on the bus, these kids were bullying me and he was sitting right there and he started getting mad at them and stuck up for me. But I don't get it because we just got into a argument and I kinda feel like he hates me now. But I love him so much and he says he loves me but I'm scared that he hates me now. I don't know what to do

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      Aaliyah 3 months ago

      I just randomly woke up from a dream of my boyfriend being unfaithful ... I was thinking about if he was being faithful or unfaithful lastnight before I went to sleep . I don't know how to interpret this dream .

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      Kari 3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Kendra - Your son in law didn't say anything which makes me think it's more about your significant other than your son in law. The thing that comes to mind is jealousy of your significant other's relationship with his son in law? Or possibly feeling weird about their relationship? Do you see your significant other and his son in law as being too close? Or closer than they should be? Did something happen recently that could have set you thinking this? It doesn't have to be sexual. It could be anything that happened to trigger this response.

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      Naomi chacon 3 months ago

      I've been seeing this guy off and on I think of him mostly of the time and just had a dream about him being with him laying with him just us together what's it mean

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      Sami 3 months ago

      It's very professional and kind of you to go through the effort and reply all of us. Thank you Kari. She's back home in Dubai and I'm away on business. I promise you I'm going to share my feelings with her and leave the rest to destiny . Cheers!

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      Sarah 3 months ago

      So I'm a big believer in God. And prayer. But all my dreams don't really make sense or understand. I was with my childrens father for 9 years he left me a year and and half ago. For 2 different woman. Anyway I had a dream and I was hurting from the other woman in pain saying thing like why don't u just sleep with another person that's what u do. He said he loved me. But his tone didn't sound like he was sincere. So he said I do love you and grabbed me and kissed me like he truly meant it. What could this dream possibly mean. This man hasn't wanted anything to do with me for years and I've been praying for reconciliation for a long time

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      Andrew 3 months ago

      I dreamed about a girl I used to talk. This is how my dream went I was inside a building, talking to friends and all of a sudden I walk to a window seeing her walk by sad/depressed and I see someone poke her shoulder but she just looked at the guy and kept walking. I looked at the guy with a mean look and after a few seconds I rushed to catch up to her but there were guards, security type of thing and could not get out of the building. What does it mean?

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      Kari 3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Melissa - Have you been talking to him more or seeing him more? If so, then you could just be playing out the fact that you two are getting closer - even if it is not romantically. It could also just be a desire to be in love gain with a lot of emotion and passion, and the father of your child is just a symbol.

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      Kari 3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @rain - it could mean a ton of things. You could be in love with him. You could be wishing for love, and just using him as a symbol in your dream. It could be that he's been giving you signs that he's interested in you. Only you would know.

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      Kari 3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Sami - I think it's time to talk to her. Why deny yourself? It sounds like your inner self really wants to be with this girl, and in your dream, it seems like you think she may respond positively, so give it a try. I think your dream was telling you to go for it.

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      Kari 3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @MIsssudie - They care about you a lot, and you know it.

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      Kari 3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @unknown - Your ex appears saying that the new girl shouldn't get married to you? Is that what you are saying? If that's the case, it sounds like you know you hurt your ex or she feels upset towards you. I'm assuming that troubles you a bit, so you may want to forgive yourself for hurting your ex or for the negative feelings she has towards you.

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      Mr. Unknown 3 months ago

      So i keep on having dreams about my ex. But in those dreams i get married with another girl and my ex appears saying they shouldnt get married. So what does this mean?

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      Sami 3 months ago

      I have had a crush on my best friend's sister for years and can't seem to communicate with her as I'd like to because thoughts mixed with my close friendship with her brother leave me feeling like an idiot. Last night I dreamt her and I were having a heart felt conversation and she confessed she loved me with a tear coming down her eye. I responded by telling her I've been in love with her too. I really want to marry this girl. Please help me with any guidance Kari . Thank you.

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      Rain 3 months ago

      What is the meaning if i dream about my guy bestfriend who told me that he is inlove with me in my dream.pls reply

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      Melissa 3 months ago

      My dream was The father of my child and i are not together but I had a dream that we made up and made passionate love with a lot of emotion like if the love for each other was still there....

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      Kari 3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Briana - Her being pregnant recently just tied into your dream as her currently pregnant. No surprise or extra meaning there. It just seems that you are dealing with some sort of insecurity in your life. It may not be with your boyfriend. It may be in some other area of your life. Is someone hurting you or wronging you? Are you not feeling heard or expressing your feelings? If so, you need to fix that and the dreams will stop.

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      Kari 3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Praveen - A dream comes from you, so it has everything to do wtih your life.

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      Briana 3 months ago

      Hi I had a dream that my current boyfriend told me his kids were next door in my dream. He has two kids by his ex and I have none. I love his children and they love me. Anywho continuing the dream, he said to come with him to see them and I went. The baby mother is sitting on like a stool outside and I walk to his little girl and throw her in the air. I love her so. But he walks behind me and I turn around and she him side eye me to see if I'm looking. Of course I am!! He slides his hands behind her and talks loud and tells her he misses her jus as he would tell me. Then she leans back into his left shoulder and says she misses him too. But I look at her and also notice she has on a white dress! And she's pregnant!!! But jus recently (real life) she just had another baby from another guy. But why is she pregnant in my dream. Smh this not the first dream I have had of them both. I jus want to clear whatever it is and stop having dreams about them together.

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      Linda 3 months ago

      I am having casual sex with this man in real life but then the other night I had a dream that he invited my best friend to a house party and not me. She did not tell me about this and went to the party, I found out about it though. I kept calling and calling her and she never answered her phone. What could this mean ?

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      Kari 3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Lola – You think you are worth more than how you’ve been treated by someone. Maybe a guy or maybe your friends, only you know for sure.

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      Kari 3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Priscy – He has a girlfriend. Don’t give him a trial or anything else. A guy who will date you when he has a girlfriend is no good.

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      Kari 3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Laura – Maybe you did have feelings and were not able to admit it. Or, maybe you feel desperate for someone in your life and you are ignoring the fact that you hate this guy just so you can fill a void that you filled during your dream.

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      Kari 3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Justin – Don’t mess with the girls at that store!

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      Kari 3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @ Linz – It sounds like insecurity to me. Usually dreams where you are unable to experience what you want with your partner is about not being sure about something. It doesn’t have to be big. It could just mean that spending the night apart had you worried about him.

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      Kari 3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Anny – That’s interesting. It could be your desire for him to say yes to your deep love, or it could be an answer to a question you had about your health. Only you will know for sure.

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      Kari 3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @anu – Insecurity with your love. Insecurity with yourself.

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      Kari 3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @aria – Sounds like you feel like you need to protected in your life. Maybe from your relatives? It’s likely an issue you are having that needs to be dealt with.

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      Kari 3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @alex – It sounds like you don’t have a lot of probles with your boyfriend. Often we dream about issues we are having… problems that need solved. For instance, if we are losing trust in our boyfriend, we may dream about him cheating on us. So, for you not to dream about him in an active way is a good thing. It means you and him are not needing to work through anything and you are not holding any negative feelings towards him.

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      Kari 3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Vicky – Did you watch any fantasy movies recently, because they can play a part in your dreams. I get the feeling that this is what your dream is about. Either that, or you should be a writer! It just sounds like a mingle of your real life and stories or fantasies you have seen, thought about, or created.

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      Kari 3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @casey – I’m sorry he passed away. Again, I just think you are dreaming about him, reminsing, and remembering what is was like to be with him. All of your time with him and thoughts about him are still living in your subconscious, so it’s not suprising they would come out in a dream.

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      Kari 3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @asusena – Just sounds like you are dreaming about the guy you like and what he normally does to you. If you like him so much, you may want to consider leaving your boyfriend. It’s not fair to him.

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      Lola 3 months ago

      I was with a guy in fest and we met a group of people. My ex frnds are also there but I ignored. Then one them called me and asked why I was ignoring them I made an excuse then I said hello to everyone bcoz all of them was my school fellows but my ex was not there he was standing at some distance when I went there to say hi he hug me so tightly den hold my hands and started telling that "I miss you soo much you were the only one who understands me but I didn't understand your love I am sorry for everything I am sorry i left you with a reason plzz be back I can't handle it anymore" while all this he was crying and I was standing nil without any word or expression just listening him. And sudden I wake up.

      Generally I don't remember my dreams but this dream I remember word to word plzz help me.

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      Priscy 3 months ago

      I dreamt abt a guy I love so much, we are walking together with his friend in my dream but I thought he really likes me, so he message me in the afternoon and tell me that he want me to be his girlfriend .. Is that a good or bad omen? Should I give him a trial? . although. He have a girlfriend . Pls I need ur advise

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      Laura 3 months ago

      I had a dream that I was making out with someone I hate and now I feel like I have feelings for them. What does this mean? This has happened before where I kissed a guy I knew in my dream and ended up having feelings for him the next day. And before the dream I didn't even like him or think about anything like that about him.

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      Justin 3 months ago

      I had a dream that I was hanging out with a friend and I heard a voice say don't mess with the girls at a store I visit just about every day or every other day

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      Linz 3 months ago

      Last night was the first night in a while I fell asleep without my boyfriend (he will be here on Wednesday,had to stay with his dad for a couple days to help after a bad fall).I slept like shit.My dreams were crazy,no cheating or anything on either his or my part..but I was trying to get ahold of him & it was like I wasn't able to,or that when I did get ahold of him crazy things happened,like my cell phone would get shitty reception or my autocorrect would misconstrue my words & not make sense.I don't have those kind of dreams when I fall asleep next to him.I think it's because I feel safe with him,and last night was the first night in a long time without him,and I miss him.What do you think?

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      Anny 3 months ago

      I dreamed that i was in a kind of conference sitting in the middle . Suddenly the man sitting on my right front looked at me showing me a paper written on it Yes , he smiled and winked and the man was my doctor who i have a crush on and deeply in love with . I was happy the whole day next day :)

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      Anu 3 months ago

      I had a dream that my love got married to someone else and I saw them together in wedding dress and then suddenly someone said that it's a part of some movie and he is acting as groom what does this dream mean??

      Also one girl I always hated talking with him and in my dream I saw that girl is his sister

      What does this mean??

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      Aria Styles 3 months ago

      It's been some days I dreamed that dream which I could not understand but I want to know about it. I really hope you can exemplify it and relate it to something.

      Story of my dream............

      It was raining outside and I was walking nearby, he was there soaking in the rain. I called him and we both came in my house.He was good the way I saw him in my dream. I couldn't remember much of the story but he seems like protective and when I want him..he would be out there in the same exact place and in the same posture. One night I was sleeping and he saw somebody(my elder relatives)behind me quite far though, suddenly it disturbed him and he took me in his arms and shift me in a couch, he was with me whole day

      Being protective. It was a happiest dream but after I woke up I realized that he was a stranger.I have never seen him in my entire life other than just in my that dream. So, I am curious about this dream. Hope to get an answer from you soon.

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      alex 3 months ago

      my boyfriend and I often discuss our dreams and I'm pretty good at remembering my dreams and have been writing them down for years so I always have really detailed and long dreams. my boyfriend always dream of me and him, sometimes sexually but usually just like doing stuff together but i have a lot of dreams about my him but in the dreams hes always just there, like a third person in the conversation or another participant in something im doing but i rarely talk to him or touch him in my dreams and if i do it will be cut off somehow or just a brief sentance said to each other, which i find strange because in the past all crushes/boyfriends have been significant people in my dreams so i dont know why this is different. thanks!

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      Vicky 3 months ago

      Hi . There were carpenters working near by and i could hear them hammering away , I fell a sleep on the sound of that . I dreamt that my boyfriend and I where in another world and very happy,then the dream moved to us being amongst a crowd on a muddy path walking towards a big steel bridge over a deep and wide valley with a raging river under it, we wanted to cross to the other side but we had to get permission(all of us) from a woman who was some sort of keeper of the bridge , I was sick there was a wound on my leg that didn't stop bleeding and some of the other people around us had the same symptoms,he went and talked to the woman and said my wife is sick she needs help, everybody is almost sick ,we need to go because there is no one here to help us ,so ( all of us waiting) were granted permission to cross,I was on the ground sitting in the mud looking at my leg ( it occured to me that my leg , hands and hair had another colour ,as i am light brown and have jet black hair but my leg was white and my hair was blonde , I couldn't see my face. I knew it was me )He picked me up as I couldn't walk without help and he said as soon as we are on the other side you're going to the doctor and you're going to be ok .We were almost in the middle of the bridge when I could see things like bombs falling from the sky ,everybody was screaming and trying to get away but we didn't ,in my dream on that moment we both knew there was no escape and at one point the bridge would collapse . So we held on to each other and said I love you kissed and repeated this until the bridge fell from under us and we fell into the darkness,we didn't let go . I woke up in what is now our room ,the sun shined into the room it was a warm sunny day . I could hear carpenters knocking on wood with their hammers so I taught it was all good but by the time I got out of my bed I knew I was in the wrong time because we changed the furniture in the room 2 years ago and I woke up in the room with the old furniture. I walked out of the room and into the hall than towards the kitchen , I looked out the window and indeed didn't see the carpenters but I could still hear them ,I started to cry, I thought I had lost him because in what is now the second part of my dream I could remember the previous part also , I walked towards the living room with so much pain inside me and there he was ,laying a sleep on the couch :my boyfriend. I felt so relieved,he woke up and smiled at me and pulled me on the couch next to him , the tv was on there was a football programme and the presenter said it's 2008 . 2008 is the year me and my boyfriend met !! I fell a sleep with his arms around me. I woke up again to the sound of carpenters and this time I knew I was in the right time . I know it's a lot to read but I never had a dream like this before , I don't often dream about him /us . what does this dream mean ?

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      Casey 3 months ago

      It's been awhile..But an ex of mine passed away back in 2011 he was a Marine ..He was my very first everything and I was his first..It's been awhile but I recently had a dream of him showing he took a different path and we still remained together showed us so loveable and affectionate with eachother just like we was in high school so happy and in love with eachother just curious as to what this is saying to me. If you could answer me back it would mean so much to me.

      He is a person I miss so much and is still so dear to my heart.

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      Asusena 3 months ago

      Hi I am currently dating someone but at work I really am falling for this guy, and whenever he sees me he touches my shoulder or my arm or back. So I had a dream about him last night that he came up to me and touched my back and I connected with him and touched him too. We were really close just talking but then someone came up to us and we walked apart

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      Kari 3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @solongago -Just because you were with him three years ago doesn't mean he's not still hanging around in your mind. So, there's a possibility you were just dreaming about starting up your 'relationship' with him again as it would happen now.

      However, it's worth checking him out on Facebook or something because you may be connected to him on some level and know that he is having problems in his marriage - like his wife left him. Maybe he needs someone to turn to. Maybe you can rekindle a relationship with him.

      But, if he's still with his wife, it's just a dream living out a potential path.

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      So long ago 3 months ago

      A little background info:

      This guy i used to work with years ago he and i used to mess around from time to time. He did end it after telling me he was in a relationship that was getting serious (which i was clueless about). So three years later i haven't heard from him since.

      Three dream: i dreamt i was packing my old house (which happened in real life) and he was peeking through my window and so i let him in. At first i was happy but i saw sadness in his eyes so i asked him about his wife he said she'd left him. My whole dream he follows me whilst packing and im excited at first then hesitant to give into him. At the end i finally give in to him and im happy. What does this mean?

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      Kari 3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Kalani - I have no idea what FT means. Also, please use punctuation. Hard to read without it.

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      Kalani 3 months ago

      I had a dream that I FT my boyfriend and seen he was at a hotel I went to the hotel didn't see a woman but I seen an empty condom wrapper and we got into a fight I had left I waited outside for him and killed him and got away with it what does that mean?

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      Kari 3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Adam – It might not be about death. It might be an event coming up that you need to prepare for, such as a relationship going south or your job ending or something else. It just could be about something destined to happen that will require your strength or attention.

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      Kari 3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @mrsancheta – It sounds like he told you that he wanted to visit you and now you are dreaming of it. That’s it. It’s just you replaying what he said in your subconscious.

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      Adam 3 months ago

      Watch out, soon to be was spoken to me in a dream. It's a bit scary for me, and makes me question my own demise

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      mrsancheta14 3 months ago

      I have dreamt about my crush for two nights saying he'll visit me.

      Well,the last time we're together he really mentioned about visiting me and driving me crazy for a week now.

      And from yesterday and today,saying he wants to visit me or go here is the thing that pops before I wake up. So, what is the meaning of this?

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      Natalie Le 4 months ago

      @kari i have been his best friend for a little more than a year now and I have never felt this way about him before. I have had boyfriends but I never felt like the way I do right now. I'm not sure it this is me telling myself that I like him more than just friends or if I don't like his girlfriend. I just hope this dream means that I don't like his girlfriend and not that I want to be more than friends with him.

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      Kari 4 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Alexander – It sounds like you are worried that she really just wanted to go out and have sex with other guys, not just explore her sexuality with women.

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      Kari 4 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @natalie – Maybe you think of your best friend as more than a friend? Or maybe you don’t like the girl he is with and wish he could find someone better? Which one resonates at the truth to you?

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      Kari 4 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Jane – Sometimes it takes a dream to show us our true thoughts or feelings.

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      Natalie Le 4 months ago

      I had a dream that my best friend and his girlfriend were having sex in a public shower building and I was walking by. As soon as my best friend turned his head to look at me I felt heart broken and started crying. I felt this pain in my chest in the dream and I could feel it in real life. I can't remember any other dream I had that night except that one. Everytime I think about what I saw in that dream my chest hurts. Why?

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      Jane Calista 4 months ago

      Last night i dreamed about my friend and I being a couple. I've been friends with him for almost a year. he's annoying and i dont think i have feelings for him or anything since i already have a crush on someone. what does it mean. in the dream we we're hugging and exchanging pecks. but i'm not sure if its him. i don't i'll like anyone like him, because he's mostly annoying and not that attractive. but ever since after that dream, i felt weird around him.

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      Kari 4 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @ bhagya - You have it backward. If you would not think about him like that then you would not get the dreams. It's got to be in your subconscious somewhere (if you don't realize it), but you obviously like(d) the guy which is why you are dreaming about him.

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      4 months ago

      I dreamed about standing with my crush and feeling Loved! He was smiling at me with the look of "This is my woman, I am proud of having her by my side and I love her." And I was feeling the same about him. It was so real that I felt really loved.

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      bhagya dream 4 months ago

      Hi Kari, After I got that dream, I started liking him. Then I told him in real life. He told me he needs time, and he wants to be my friend. And after expressing him again the next day I got another dream in which he kissed me. This time I felt it so real. So, this is making me think again. I don't understand why I'm getting this kind of dreams. If I would not have got such dreams I would not have to think about him.

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      Kari 4 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Bhagya - Did you tell him in your dream or real life? Because it sounds like you told him in your dream, but you are saying at the end of your paragraph that you don’t want to ask him anything about it again – as if you asked him in real life. That’s very confusing.

      If you told him that you liked him in real life and he told you that he wanted to be friends, then that’s good that you are respecting his wishes.

      As far as your dream goes, it’s just a reflection of how YOU feel about him. You are dreaming about him kissing you because you want him to kiss you, like you, feel the same as you do.

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      Bhagya 4 months ago

      Hi, please help me to understand this dream. I met with this guy friend 1 year ago. Since 3 months I'm learning driving with him. So, became close friends. Unknowingly I got interest on him. I know he also have the interest in me. But he recently broke with him gf. One day I got a dream where he kissed me, then I told him that I like him. Then he said, he needs time to come out of his girl friend. And he wants me to be his friend and not more than that. Also, he felt little nervous when i was explaining how I'm feeling about him. Then on the next day in the early morning I got another dream in that he again kissed me. This time I felt this is very real. Please help me what does this mean? As he said he needs time, i respected and understood his answer and don't want to ask him anything about it again.

      Thanks

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      Kari 4 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Nishant poddar – It sounds like you want her mom to like you and you are playing that out in your dreams.

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      Kari 4 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Mjz – You are insecure with your relationship or your sister.

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      Kari 4 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Amonia – I would assume it means you want your ex-boyfriend to still love you. Or you have hope that you can get back together some day.

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      Kari 4 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @hey – You need to stop talking to yourself so negatively. ‘I am ugly’ and ‘you are my only hope’ are very negative statements that will make you believe you are not worth a boyfriend and that everything is hopeless. I would gather that you feel very hopeless when it comes to that, by the way you are talking, so I’m assuming you are just playing out a fantasy – opposite of your beliefs – in your dreams. You want to be liked and it’s nice to dream about it. That also tells me that you don’t fully believe you are incapable of getting a boyfriend. So STOP TELLING YOURSELF SUCH NEGATIVE THINGS and start focusing on how amazing you are.

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      Nishant poddar 4 months ago

      Last night I saw my girlfriend's mom in my dream who, kinf of, dislikes me...It was my birthday and I saw a post of her on my wall (she isn't there on my friend list neither on facebook) stating "Happy birthday son. May god bless you" and below that her daughter (my girlfriend) commented: "mum? Is that really you?" And even I commented on the post: "Thankyousomuch aunty" and a smiley having a smiling face...Can you please tell me what my dream was trying to convey me? In reality her mom doesnt like me much and we haven't even met.

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      Mjz 4 months ago

      Hi why i always dream about my fiance and my sister are interested to each other and in my dream they both debying it but the way they look at each other i knew. And it breaks my heart every time i wake up. Pls help

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      Amoina 4 months ago

      I had a dream in which my ex bf.....new gf comes to me and offers a ring to me on which the name of my ex bf is written and she says take the ring your ex still loves u from inside.....please tell me what does this dream symbolizes?

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      Hey 4 months ago

      Hey I know this thread is quite old but could you please explain to me what my dream means.? So, I was at school and two of my classmates and one older guy came close to me and tried to make me become their girlfriend. They were all male, and I am sing,e in real life and in the dream.. I remember wanting to choose only one of them, who I liked the most and even though I knew the two of them in real life, I couldn't recognize the older boy. It was awesome because I really want a boyfriend and I feel like I really need one but in the same time I am sad thinking I am ugly and that no one will ever want to be my boyfriend. (My crush had rejected me for another girl two times in real life and it's really hard to see them together in my class but I do not have such a big crush on him anymore. That also made me quite sad..) I know that you may not replay but you are my only hope, and Valentine's Day is coming and every single year I wish someone comes and tells me he loves me but that never happens...

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      confused 4 months ago

      So from what you are saying is that my dreams are portraying how I act and feel in real life into the dream itself right? But the thing is in real life, both of us ignored each other but in my dreams he is the one who is trying to get my attention while I am the one ignoring him. So what does this mean?

      And if that’s exactly what my dreams are about in that im aware of him and yet I pretend not to be does it mean I still like him or what?

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      Kari 4 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Buttercup31 - It just sounds like you are worried he's going to move on. Which you obviously are.

      It's hard to understand what is the dream and what is real in your big paragraph. But, I think most of it is a dream? If that's the case, you are just playing out your worries, concerns, and core beliefs (like the 25 years bit) and he's playing a role according to those worries, concerns, and beliefs.

      If you were meant to work out, then don't you think you would have by now? People in love don't just drift apart. They work on their relationship. That's what makes me think you are not good for each other.

      People have told you that you will move on one day (which I think you are talking about real life, but you didn't make that clear whether it was part of the dream or not), but the fact is that you are SO focused on this guy (obsessed) that you won't move on until you realize that your relationship probably wasn't meant to be.

      I guess it could be, at some point. But, you would no better than me how well you were together and how much of a (real) chance you have at getting back together.

      Point is, don't waste your life looking for something that isn't there - if it isn't there.

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      Kari 4 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @confused - You answered the question yourself. You are aware of him, even though you pretend not to be, and that's exactly what your dreams are about. It has nothing to do with him. Your dreams have everything to do with how you feel about him. Your confused. Your trying to pretend you don't notice him. And that's what happened in your dream.

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      Kari 4 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @sho - Punctuation goes a long way to help someone understand what you are saying.

      Anyway, it sounds like you feel exposed and vulnerable in real life. It also sounds like you are unsure of this guy and are worried that he will disappear and leave a part of himself with you. I think your dream is just about the fear and worry you feel in real life.

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      Buttercup31 4 months ago

      Hi,

      This is really important.its like damn compicatedd.my story. When we broke up ,we were still in love.after an year or so we reunited but the again drifted apart.its been 4 months since we drifted apart but I still love the boy and thinks about him most of the times.but this is the first time I ever saw a dream.everthing was false but still it was so real that I woke up completely shattered.he was boarding a train to his hometown where he doesn't live anymore with a guy that doesn't live or work with him.he is doing his dream job in my dreams which is not possible for him .And he wrote a WhatsApp to me.that he has actually moved on with a new York girl given the fact he lives in India currently.he was dead serious in the texts and was smiling and satisfied with the moving on thing.he is not at all effected.i m completely amazed and sad to a point I never felt like ever before and I could feel that in my dreams.but he still writes that we were great together in the past and will be remembered till 25 years.why 25in my dreams?Coz I thought of marrying this guy at the age of 25.as I can't move on and imagine myself with anyone else therefore I had plans to reunited again for forever.i DNT want him to forget me and move on coz I can't live without him.he is my childhood friend.people say that everyone says that but you will move on one day but trust me,I tried every possible way and I just can't.its been 4years since I love him.and unconsciously since childhood I guess.plz help ME,I am completely broken rite now.

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      confused 4 months ago

      i had a dream last night, it was about me and a guy that i once had confused feelings about. The reason that i had confused feelings for him is because we were once friends that like to play around and tease each other alot but because of a certain situation that happened before in which i started ignoring him first, causes us to both drift apart and ignore each other (i did try to talk to him in hope that we can get back to how we were but he ignore my efforts) that is when my feelings for him start to get confusing. I started to notice whenever he will play with other girls and which that we could go back to how we were before and then i get confused because i half certain that i do not like him that way. Anyway, the dream i was talking about happened 2 times. The first time i dreamt about him, we were in a classroom and he was trying to get my attention with a pencil and i was ignoring him while wondering on the inside why he is suddenly trying to get my attention again. I was happy and yet confused on the inside but i continue ignoring him until i woke up. The second time it happened was last night. Again, we were in a place thats like a classroom and he was trying to get my attention again. Only this time, he is sitting next to me and trying to squeeze me so that he can get to me as close as possible and he also tried talking to me. Again, i was confused as to why he is suddenly paying attention to me again. The thing is, he once told me, when we just knew each other and became friends, that his ideal type of girls are those with healthy skin colour (like the type of colour you get when you have play sports like basketball, swimming, etc outside for a long time, a healthy brown colour). So please at least help me interpret what these 2 dreams mean because honestly speaking, i know that i do not like him anymore (if i ever did) and yet i still notice and is aware of him even though i pretend not to and its making me feel helpess

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      sho 4 months ago

      I had this dream, I like someone in real world were friends were talking everyday and I like him for too long but a while it was really a first time to had a dream about him. Were on a bus with my friends of mine and the boy i like is so sweet to me he even touch my face and gave me the sweetest smile he ever had the scenario was in a bus but when it comes to the outside of it, it was so color like an ombre color everything is so lively like i dont want to wake up anymore then suddenly when we reach into a swirl bridge's end It was already night and it was raining hard we are at the front of factory everybody went inside some of us leave in the bus I was fun watching the rain pours when I look where he was sitting he suddenly vanished but is black cap was there i hurriedly go outside wearing his cap but i couldn't find him, the passenger who go inside in the factory already came back to the bus and I was there still looking for him one of my friend approached me and he said I was already wet in the rain so we hurriedly go inside the bus I was still holding his cap but I'm not crying but my heart seemed so down but the worst is when I looked into myself I aas drenched and half naked like my shirt was torn off and my boobs got display and hurriedly covered in with my right hand, I don't what does it mean.

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      Kari 4 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @chet - I need way more details than that! Guesses?

      You like your best friend's cousin?

      You've been treated kindly by him or her so you feel drawn to them?

      You interacted with your best friend's cousin not long ago and you are intertwining them with your desire to be in a passionate relationship?

      You are just playing out a sexual fantasy?

      Context is needed to really give a better interpretation of the dream. You have the context, so use it to figure out which guess is closest, or what else it may be about.

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      Kari 4 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @linda - Insecurities? It may not be about your relationship, technically. It may be stemming from somewhere else in your life, and your dream just played out your insecurity with your man. Do you feel overlooked at your job? Maybe a blonde woman is having more success than you? Or maybe you experienced something like that from the past in some area of your life and your insecurity now is manifesting that situation back into your mind - just in a different scenerio.

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      Kari 4 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @confused - Could be that your love life, or the relationships in your life - are starting to look up. A sign that you are on the right path, since everything seems to work out in your dream.

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      Kari 4 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @TJLO - It's not strange to dream of someone from your past. Forgotten memories are still in your brain. Past relationships are still in your brain. Even people you randomly see that make an impact on you can still be in your brain. In your waking life, you may not always have access to it. But, when you sleep, you may have easier access to them. I've dreamt of moments from my childhood that I thought I didn't think about or had forgotten.

      It seems to me like you want the dreams to mean something, which tells me that he is on your mind a bit? Maybe? Because he is in there, somewhere, in your subconscious, it seems expected that he would show up in your dreams. Even more so because you are wondering why you keep dreaming of him, which keeps him in the forefront of your mind.

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      Kari 4 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Rachana - I would say that your dreams are just a representation of the passion you felt towards him. The places may feel real, but they may be bits and pieces of places you've been before. It sounds like a longing dream more than a prophetic dream.

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      Chet 4 months ago

      Hey so I had a dream that I made love to my best friends cousin and I was wondering if you could help me interpret my dream

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      Linda 4 months ago

      Very confused I had a dream of the guy I been seeing for almost two years .. We were together and he chose to be with another women .. I remember her with blonde hair and they got in bed together ..can you help me on this one

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      Confused 4 months ago

      I just had a dream about being in love with someone i don't know and I was pregnant by him and we had a apartment and we lived next to my family and my 3 year old son was in there to and this guy was helpful to people in my dream and his face was amazingly beautiful but I haven't seen him before

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      TJLO 4 months ago

      I connected with a guy I dated briefly and went to prom with in high school on LinkedIn in February 2016. Since then, I've dreamed about him once or twice a month. The main theme in the dream is a connection. I haven't spoken to him in over 25 years, but I reached out to him in July 2016 after discovering his work email address in an online search. I told him about me and what was going on in my life and told him that I had been dreaming about him for the last six months. He thanked me for my courage and honesty. Ironically he isn't married, but he is involved and lives out of the country currently. I was hoping that would be the end of it and I would no longer dream of him. Instead the dreams come consistently every month at least once or twice a month. Each dream leaves me with a profound feeling of a connection and I feel more emotional for a few days afterward. I've never had this happen before- who dreams of someone for 11 months straight? It's not even like I've thought of him before dreaming of him, it's out of the blue. I also find it strange that I'm dreaming of someone from my past. What does this mean?

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      Rachana 4 months ago

      Hi,

      I am a married girl, got married like 2 months back. Before marrying my boyfriend (7 years relationship). I had this huge infatuation on a guy at my work place. And i had this fling during the phase of my serious relationship. With this cute guy at my workplace, i felt an unconditional bonding. I had an overflow of emotions whenever he did any gestures to me. Positive negative any gesture. Now, he has gone away as in he left the city & I keep seeing him in my dreams in places I have never been in this life, but i still feel i know these places. And the bond we share in the dreams is beyond friendship.

      Can you explain?

      Thanks

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      Kari 5 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Nadia Searching - At the most basic level, it seems like you are worried about someone ruining your love life.

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      Kari 5 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @karina - Sounds like you are scared of losing your boyfriend to another girl.

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      Nadia Searching 5 months ago

      I dreamed about after i got married and we were really happy i felt blissful but it got ruined by his mother who kept on interfering and making problems in our marriage and me being stressed all the time. I know these people in my real life.

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      Karina 5 months ago

      So lastnight I had two dreams, both about my boyfriend. One was we were out being happy and this guy wanted to fight him so they fought and the there guy stabbed my boyfriend and I started tieing something around his wound so he wouldn't bleed out and started doing cpr. Then I woke up. Second dream my boyfriend took me to a old house that supposably used to live with another girl and he was getting his things and the girl comes in really nice to me, but she said hi to him and they kissed and he had this huge smile on his face and was so happy. Then I woke up so heartbroken. He was hugging me while we're sleeping and I pushed his hand off lol. What do the dreams mean?

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      Kari 5 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Yixsel - It just means you are thinking about him and dreaming of being together. A reflection of your thoughts/feelings.

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      Kari 5 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Denise - I dreamt of having babies when I was younger, and now I'm 40 years old and have no intention of having kids. In other words, it doesn't mean you are literally going to have kids. It's more of a reflection of wanting to nurture and love someone.

      Because you said you want the kids to look like your boyfriend, which they did in the second scenario, I think you are just focused on his good looks - or possibly your looks compared to his?

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      Kari 5 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Pearl - He's still on your mind so you are still dreaming about him. Likely not prophetic. Just a reflection of your thoughts and feelings.

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      Kari 5 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @samantha - I would say it's pretty normal to dream of your boyfriend's friend in any context. He's a big part of your life, so you are going to dream about him. You may just be projecting feelings for your boyfriend onto him in your dreams. No harm done. It doesn't mean you are falling for him or betraying your boyfriend. You may even be thinking romantic/loving thoughts and he is just the guy that ends up playing them out with you in the dream.

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      Yixsel 5 months ago

      I had a dream about my ex boyfriend that left me 2 months ago. Yes, I still love him. Anyways i had a dream of him dropping me off at my hous, with his car. I told him if I can give him a kiss. So I guess we weren't together. However, he didn't answer my questions and just leaned over to kiss me for a while and smiled I guess we both just already knew we have feelings for each other in the dream. But I don't know everything felt so nice. What does all this mean?

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      Denisse 5 months ago

      same girl from the 2 baby dreams but I just wanted to add how happy I was knowing I had become a mother & that the dad was my boyfriend of 4 years and how accepting my parents were and just HER!! My baby!! I have to stress how in love I still am of her when I looked down at my arms she looked back at me and was smiling and ughh SHE WAS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL BABY IVE EVER SEEN!!!!

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      Denisse 5 months ago

      I have extremely weird dreams but I've had two of me being a mum. First one was of me having twins (a boy & a girl) & when I saw them I became sad because they looked like me & not their dad (I want my kids to look like my boyfriend because I love how he looks haha) but my boyfriend was so happy and holding them. My second dream was that this girl and I jumped up on a bed scared to death because there was a bear and it was all scary and for some reason the bear layed his head on my stomach and became super gentle and was basically cuddling my stomach and the girl (I have no idea who she was I don't even remember her face) told me "oh wow you're pregnant that's why he's doing that" & I feeaked out and said "no no that can't be possible I just had my period" (which really I had just gotten done w it) & the reason I was freaked out was because I thought of how scared I would be telling my parents (I'm 20 & my parents would be mad because I'm not married to my 4 year long boyfriend and they want me to finish college before I decided to start a family, very strict parents overall w everything) & then the dream changes to me being in a car w my parents and I was in the back seat (my dad was driving my mum in the passenger seat & I can't remember who was in the back next to me; maybe my 10yr old sister) but I looked down and the most beautiful baby girl was there. I was holding the prettiest most beautiful baby ever and in that moment I understood what it means when mothers say that they fell in love again when they had their child or how it's a different kind of love that they feel w their child. I seriously felt my heart become soft and just so happy and joyful (I can still see the babygirl a face clearly and I get that feeling again) the second thing I thought was how happy I was that my baby had gotten my boyfriends genes (golden brown hair, light brown eyes, and a dimple) the third thought I had was how confuse I was on how fine my parents were, like they weren't mad at all. Then my dad I believe told me how I didn't have any formula to feed the baby and I'm guessing we were going to be in the car for a long time because I thought to myself how am I going to feed my baby. But then I remembered how my friend breast feeds her baby so then I started breast feeding her and I felt embarrassed of myself because I have small breast so I just felt funny. So when she started drinking out of my right breast I looked down and I was leaking through my shirt from my left and I thought to myself "oh wow I am actually a mum I'm leaking like how mums do when they breast feed" after that I woke up. This dream brought me so much love, happiness, when I saw her beautiful face. I want to know what this means!!!!

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      Pearl 5 months ago

      I've had dreams where I get pregnant by this tall Mexican and I have an ex who is Mexican and we still love eachother but I dream of him a lot and my mom doesn't like him neither does my dad. I've had a lot of dreams where me and him have three kids. I had a dream last night I changed school to his school and I was in the same class and he saw me and smiled and we kept winking at eachother. I've had dreams that we live together. Me and him have not seen eachother since but I dream of him a lot.

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      Samantha 5 months ago

      i dreamed that me and my boyfriend broke up and i was going out with his friend. we were such a happy couple and the way we know each other in that dream was beyond. its wasnt sexual but we were so happy. my boy friend and i was in good term as well, he was driving me and his friend wherever we wanted to go. he was being the third wheel in the dream. i dream that he was happy too with his life. him and his friend came to visit me and it was really fun. we were the happiest people on earth.

      now, us three are pretty close friend i got to know his friend because of him. and because of the dream i feel weird and guilty and bad. it isnt the frist time i dreamed of his friend. i love my boyfriend. iam happy witth him. but why do i dream this. my fisrt dream of this friend was very sensual. now the second dream is a normal very happy relationship.

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      Kari 6 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Kayla - I think it means that you know your fiance is not feeling well. It may not be physical cancer. It may be something that is eating away at his happiness, such as stress or worry. You may be worried that you are not able to help him overcome whatever he is going through so you are playing that out in your dreams.

      I would suggest talking to him. Us women are often intuitive and can sense when things are not going well with our loved ones. See if there is something 'eating away' at him.

      If he's showing a lot of physical symptoms, you may want to encourage him to get to the doctor, but the chances are good that the cancer in the dream is more of a symbolic thing for something else going on.

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      Kari 6 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @christina - Sounds like one of two things... first, you care about him and want him to be happy, so you are dreaming about him being happy. You may not have been thinking about him, but for whatever reason, it popped up into your subconscious and you dreamt about it.

      Second, you are able to see that he met someone new. The color blue traditionally means loyalty/trust. And the color white is associated with goodness and purity. So if this is a dream focused on what is to come, it sounds like his new wife will be a good one for him!

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      Kari 6 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Laz - I think that your dream is a representation of how you feel about your boyfriend. If you are doing well in your relationship, then I'm sure it will come true in real life. Your friend's dream shows that she thinks you two are a good fit together and could last the test of time. It's not predicting the future.

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      Kayla 6 months ago

      Hi, I had a dream last night that my fiance and I were getting married. He had cancer and couldn't afford the treatment, so he decided he was going to kill himself after the wedding. My mom put the suicide hotline on the programs we passed out and I told her to have her phone ready for when he did kill himself. Then I woke up. What do you think this means?

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      Cristina 6 months ago

      This post is old but maybe I might still get an answer,, I had a dream of my first husband getting married I was very happy his bride even asked me to be apart of it as a brides maid I accepted I was over joyed we all danced together an the Vail on her was so long it almost seemd as if it was to much as she danced it was twirling with us the main color was light blue her dress my dress he was wearing white very happy dream ,,, I have no current feelings that for him I am married again an love my husband I was very surprised by this dream

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      Laz 6 months ago

      I had a dream where I was in a mall with my boyfriend (he's my boyfriend I'm real life) and for the first time he held my hand whilst walking. In real life we have hugged and he has put his arm around me on the sofa. Will my dream come true and will be hold my hand on a date or something. My best friend eila also had a dream of me and my boyfriend a lot older and we were a really good couple. Will it all come true? Please respond

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      Kari 6 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @gel - Is your 'twin soul' someone you know in real life or just someone you feel is out there and you haven't found? Do you have kids with him?

      Anyway, it was obviously a good dream. I would say it means that you are connected, and you got to connect in your dream for a few moments, which felt very good to you.

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      gel 6 months ago

      I've been missing my twin soul desperately .. and this morning I awoke thinking of him sadly ... I fell into a 10 minute sleep whereby he fetched me from my office , and in the dream , I knew I was dreaming , and I was so excited to see him , when he stopped outside my house, I refused to leave the car , but he smiled his beautiful smile and says babe you have to go now the kids are waiting for you , I looked at him and touched his face and he leaned in and gave me the kiss I'm used to I woke up so happy that I cannot believe it ... what does it mean ?

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      Kari 7 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Britt - I think at the end there you had a lucid dream. That's where you know that you are dreaming, so you create your dreamscape in a way to help you get answers. You just couldn't hold onto your lucidity in the dream for some reason, which is fine. (If you want some insights into having more lucid dreams, check out this article: http://behappytips.com/lucid-dream/ )

      Anyway, you can't control the dreams outside of a lucid dream. They are a reflection of you. Which means you have to control real life in order to control your dreams.

      Personally, I think you intuitively know something is happening. The fact that she spent the night and took a shower in the house alone with your husband is a big warning flag. My intuition tells me something happened, I don't know about yours. I don't think you are as clueless as you say you are.

      His dream of you cheating could absolutely be from his guilt. He knows that he did it to you, so he fears that you could do it to him too. Remember, dreams are a reflection of our fears, fantasies, thoughts, etc.

      If he's left you three times and won't stop talking to his ex that you don't want him talking to, he's getting away with treating you poorly. You are taking him back, letting the issue go, and teaching him how to treat you.

      It's not until you put your foot down and demand more from him both in words and in action that you will start to feel good about yourself and stop dreaming about him cheating. That may mean you need to leave him. I don't know. But stop letting yourself be used by someone who doesn't respect you enough to treat you the way a wife should be treated.

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      BrittW 7 months ago

      Just looking for some answers, I have been With my husband for seven years married for 3. Throughout our relationship we have overcome so much most people wouldn't have the heart to deal with. We both have our faults but his are most hurtful he feels the need for someone new every so often, he has left me 3 times and claims it's because he wants to see if he still has i?? Whatever that means. Anyway my whole point here is as of recently we have been doing very well except for an incident a lil bit ago where he left a ffemale friend of his stay in our house for a night. I was not okay with this and let him know b.c. he had been talking to this girl when I first met him. The next day she left but came back while I was at work and took a shower alone in the house with my husband I was very furious over this, till this day I'm clueless as to if anything had happened between them. Since than I have been having horrible dreams of him cheating with the girl he left in our home and one of his exes he refuses to stop talking to dispute all the problems she has caused for us. These dreams are beyond real it makes my chest hurt. The past week he had woken up saying he had had a dream that he caught me cheating and I laughed an shrugged it off b.c. I know it's bogus and in a way I feel it's his own guilt but than that next night I had a dream that I was standing in front of him watching him touch his ex and he kept saying it's okay it's okay and I left it alone an just watched, deeper in this dream she had left and he was standing over a sink washing his hands with his back turned I grabbed his phone an it was a message sent to his ex saying that just touching her made him aroused and that he couldn't believe he got away with touching her the way he did, going on to say that he needed to see her more later. As I laid in bed I was dreaming this but it was like I was awake like I knew what I was dreaming and it was breaking my heart but I wanted to keep going I wanted to know more and what it ment but I ended up waking up it was so surreal and I really jjust have not a clue what any of this means.... Please help me get some answers, and how do I control these dreams??

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      Dream struck 82 8 months ago

      I am dreaming of someone I don't know well, dreams is almost as we're carrying on a relationship in dream world, becoming closer. Just had a dream where I was crying and he wiped tears off and said I'm scared too. Weird.

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      Kari 9 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Lynn - That's an interesting dream. Have you been working with lavender lately? It represents love, among other things, so it's kind of neat that you were putting it in a bottle and it calmed you and him - kind of like a potion. I'm just wondering if you've been thinking about candles lately, specifically lavender candles. Because that could be all the dream is about.

      Alternatively, and this may be too far fetched for you, it could be that this guy is a part of your life spiritually, and you just reconnected in your dream. For the emotions to be that intense, it's a possibility.

      Lastly, it could just be yearning for a simpler time when you had a connection with someone, possibly your friend. Or he may just be taking the place of someone you've had that kind of connection with.

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      Kari 9 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @sammy: It depends on the context - what else is happening in the dream, what has happened in your life, etc.

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      Lynn 9 months ago

      I had a dream about a guy I used to be friends with years ago. The friendship didnt end well. I sat in a room very upset about something that had nothing to do with him and trying to calm down. He came over and sat by me. It was awkward because he wouldn't talk to me. I tried making small talk after he finally said "what" to me. He didn't reply to me but seemed very tuned in to me. I was putting drops of lavender in a bottle and I could smell the lavender so strong. I started to feel very calm and pleasant and he seemed to sense it. He suddenly took my face in his hands then pressed his forehead against mine. We stayed that way for a long time almost like we were in a trance. It was like we were deeply connecting to each other's minds. The pull to him was so intense and I knew he felt the same way. We felt each other's feelings. Then he said he liked candles. It seemed to be an odd thing to say. I could not pull away without being drawn right back to him. Then finally we broke away and he left the room without a word. I still felt happy though and someone told me "that was so tender." It was a very pleasant feeling while we connected. I was surprised by that dream because he and I are not friends anymore and no longer talk.

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      SAMMY 11 months ago

      This is awesome....but what does it mean when you see yourself sleeping in your dream?

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      Kari 12 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @cassie - You've answered it yourself. You want something better than what you have. You want a man who will make you smile, hold your hand, make you feel relieved and calm, and want to be with you. I think you're dreaming about this guy because he's in your life, but he's just a symbol of what you want. You might like him a bit, but really it sounds like you are just longing for something more than you have.

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      Cassie Gallagher 12 months ago

      OK so this is kind of long.

      I have these two people that come out as a parents as teachers group that hands out papers on would development and helps show activities you can do with your children so on and so forth.

      Well I've been day dreaming about the guy that comes here because the woman (not in a relationship with each other)

      Will not come some times.

      Well just last night I had a awesome dream that I woke up and cried from because of wishing it was reality.

      I'm married (unhappily) with 3 kids involved.

      The dream started off whete he just randomly stopped in amd told me hes been emailing me and had no responces as i told him ive been busy between raising 3 kids and work its been hard to sit down for 5 seconds. Well i started looking at my emails and i remember i had a smile on my face as i was reading and replying to the messages i couldnt see what the messages said or what i was replying. The next week we had a normal house visit where we were playing with the kids and than we started talking and the kids just disappeared and he told me he needed to tell me something. He leaned in and wrapped me in a hug and I remember feeling his stubbles from his beard on my cheek. I remember hearing something about being glad I got his messages and than everything faded as if I went to bed. Well next day I remember being at my moms and walking in on my parents having sex I immediately walked out the house and as I started walking up the road he was driving up the road and stopped to see if I was ok. I told him I was just going home from my moms and he asked if he could meet them. I told him not right now and told him why and he chuckled and we ended up together in his van just driving. He held my hand and I remember just feeling relief and calm. Well after he dropped me off I remember him telling me to shoot him a message tonight and that we should start hanging out more. Only thing is that's when I ended up actually waking up. I literally woke up and when I opened my eyes and looked around I cried. Idk why this dream couldn't of been reality (minus my parents). Please help me.

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      Kari 12 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @stephanie - I have no idea what a highschool rude ft is, sorry. I seriously can't figure it out.

      It sounds like you are just dreaming about your interest in boys. Brown hair doesn't mean anything, unless you know a guy with brown hair and have been focused on him. Day time just means you were doing it out in the open and not ashamed of it. And, without a description of the room or context, it's hard to say what it meant.

      I would go out and read as much as you can about interpreting dreams and lucid dreaming. Too much to explain here.

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      Stephanie 12 months ago

      I am a highschool rude ft who hasn't even had my first kiss or dated before. So last night I had a dream where I kissed a boy. What bugs me is that I knew how it felt to kiss in the dream. I don't remember the boys face in the dream, but I think he had brown hair. We kissed in the day time in a room that's all that I really remember. I hope you can help me.

      Oh and just a question. What are some tips on practice how to interperet dreams and becoming a lucid dreamer?

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      Kari 12 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @grac - Such a detailed dream! Wow. I did a quick tarot card pull for you and got the three of wands. I think it really does relate to your dream. It shows that you have opportunities ahead of you and that you need to become more aware of those opportunities. Because it was your last day of school and last class, this fits in well. He was an opportunity that you noticed and even chased you down to show you how much of an opportunity he was!

      In regards to dating, this may mean that you should look at guys like him instead of guys that you are currently dating or interested in. Or, if you haven't been dating, it may mean that you need to open up the possibility of finding someone in life now.

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      Grac 12 months ago

      Oh, sorry if I confused you! But just an FYI, I know the person in my dream in real life. Like I said, he's somewhat of a friend.

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      Grace 12 months ago

      Hello! I am a highschooler who has never had a boyfriend.. I thought you should keep that in mind. I was wondering if you can interpret my dream. About a year ago I,myself, have been trying to interpret my own dreams. But there is this one dream I've recently had and I don't really know if it means anything. Or if it's just a 'fantasy' dream.

      I just want to point out that first it starts as day and my dream never ended at night. Although, it felt like a whole day. In the dream of course.

      So, I was at school, and in my dream there was a guy that I never liked or loved before. He was somewhat of a friend I guess? But before I continue, let me point out that even though I don't know him that well, I used to think he liked me because he would make me laugh, I'd catch him staring at me,etc. ANYWAY, let's continue on to my dream.

      Again, I was at school. We were in home room (1st period) class and it was the last day of school. Which was the only class we had with each other. Just like in real life.After that, he would try to catch up to me to smile or say a compliment. But in my last class of the day, for some reason in the dream, he was part of my class. He sat near me. If I recall,I think it was right in front of me. Because I remember before we were talking and he was making me laugh, at one point he turned around (Which means he was in front of me), and said he loves me. And said he'll only love ME. I stayed quiet because my emotions were all over the place at that point. So the dismissal bell for school rang, I went running out of the school, and went straight to the parking lot, but he went running after me. I was running so fast I fell. When he caught up with me, he saw me laying down on the ground. I could move, but my 'gut' told me I shouldn't. Then he got on his knees, and kissed me.i resisted but then I just kind of let go. Sorry if that made no sense. For some reason I felt just a teeny bit sleepy after that. LOL. But I was mostly uncomfortable and happy. It was a weird feeling of course. And then he help me got up and my dream ended.

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      Kari 12 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @manikin - Are you wanting out of your current relationship? To me it seems like you are dreaming about being in relationships with other people, but the fact that you feel guilty makes me wonder if you are struggling with your current relationship - or at the very least, whether or not you want to stay in it.

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      Manikin 12 months ago

      I was in love with this guy while i was in high school but we never had an affair. Now i was in college and I'm currently in a relationship.

      Now this dream i had last night showed that this guy, (let's just name him George) whom was in love while i was in highschool, wants to court me. I think we even hugged. The kind of a hug only a couple do and we hold hands. I know there that i was cheating because i know that i am in a relationship with my current boyfriend.

      Before that dream, i also dreamt about this guy, i dont know him though, because his face is kinda blurred. after we hugged (i think i like that hug) he forced a kiss to me. that was abrupt. I never expect it to happen. Then i cried because i also know that i was in a relationship with my current boyfriend.

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      Cecemarie33 13 months ago

      Okay sorry, I get emails from this account whenever anybody write on here. And o had received an email a couple days ago, so I thought you wrote me back..

      Yes its the same guy and thank you for the advice

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      Kari 13 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @cecemarie - I hadn't even responded to you yet. So you were seeing what you wrote, but it wasn't like my answer was invisible - I hadn't responded.

      You need to listen to me this time. Your dreams are a reflection of what you feel/think. So, your dream about picking him up from the airport is a reflection on what YOU WANT. You want to be with him and happy. You want him to be happy.

      If this is the same guy you've been talking about on this thread for over a year, it's time to either go to him and ask him outright if he wants to be with you and start building a relationship or stop torturing yourself and move on. Otherwise, you will always have dreams like this.

      Again, they simply are a reflection of how you feel and what you want.

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      Cecemarie33 13 months ago

      I'm sorry to send it again, but whatever you wrote me I wasn't able to see. And it was just showing me what I wrote to u.

      I been having this reaccuring dream for the past few months, ever since I moved back home after being down south. And that was last year in march. The dream keeps showing me picking him up from the airport, and vice versa when he's picking me up. I seem to be jumping in his arms and kissing all over his face,(vice versa) happy with some tears (Both of us). Idk what to think about this because we're both in different states and on top of that we haven't really talked to each other like that because he's done confused me for sometime, we done argued so many times. I feel he's really cares and loves me but is just scared .. He means a lot to me, and no matter how much I try to not think about him and go about my life. It just doesn't stop.

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      Kari 13 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @hope - Ask him! Don't let time go by and regret not asking him to find out if your dreams are right. If your shy, get your friend to ask him why he never texted. That will let you know if your dreams are on point or not.

      But, your dreams could just be you trying to justify why he wouldn't text - as in, there must have been a mix up.

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      hope 13 months ago

      Ok so i saw this attractive guy in school a d i was too shy to go up to him so my friend did it for me and she gave him my number and he said he would call/text. He did seem like he was interested in me but i dont know what happened that he never texted or called me. Ive had numerous dreams where he goes to school(in college) looking for me and we end up talking and everytime he asks me why i didnt text him back and i tell him that i never recieved a text from him even though he did and he shows me the texts he sent me and the dreams are always about the same issue but they are different senerios. Could this actually mean something?

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      Kari 14 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @spencer - Your dream is not a reflection of what SHE feels. It is a reflection of what YOU feel. So, as I already said, 'You think she likes you in real life.' That is what YOU believe. It has nothing to do with her.

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      spencer 14 months ago

      But what does it mean does it means that the dream is trying to confirm that she really likes me even in real life?

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      Kari 14 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @MJ - I'm assuming this guy was your future lover. The kind of guy you are looking forward to having, but for some reason can't have right now. He's the kind of guy that's going to make you feel valued and loved and safe. It just means he is going to come, eventually, so until then do what you need to do with work, yourself, etc.

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      MJ 14 months ago

      I dream about someone last night. In my dream, I go back in my home country and meet my old officemates. We were eating on that time and this guy (he is trying to be close to me before) transfer on my side and sit beside me. We took group picture, then I'm telling them that I need to go back to my work country after that day. He stared at me and hug me so tight then kiss on my cheeks two times. I am so shocked, he also told me that there are certain things that he can't say right now but someday he will tell it to me. (In my dream I feel secure and happy)

      What is the meaning of this dream of mine?

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      Kari 15 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Angel - Your dreams are just a reflection of your inability to get over him. It doesn't mean he wants you back, especially because he is in a relationship or dating other people. Once you work through your feelings for him, the dreams will go away.

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      Kari 15 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Kia - Sounds like you like her in real life and you are not sure if she likes you. It could also be a more general thing, where you are having a hard time figuring out if girls are bi or gay or straight, and that could make you sad on some level. The fact that you were sitting in a Catholic church is telling of worry that you are going to lose a girl who likes you because of her beliefs or the beliefs of people around her - like the church.

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      Kari 15 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @spencer: You answered your own question. You think she likes you in real life.

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      Angel 15 months ago

      I keep dreaming about my ex who is currently dating. In those dreams both of us are very aware he's dating and he keeps showing/telling me he still has feelings for me but we cant be together because of his current girlfriend. And the last dream i had he told me loved me but i couldnt say it back, even though iknew i love him to. I cant get over him and these dreams arent helping.

      What does that mean. Please help :(

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      Kia 15 months ago

      So our surroundings I was not aware of we were siting most likely in a Catholic church and my friend and I were speaking but then she rhyms and says I like you then I got excited hugged her and said I like you too but after a awhile of speaking and turning away to other people to talk I reach an try to hold her hand but then she pulls away really fast?I felt s rush of confusion an sadness (I'm bi)(idk what sextant she is)

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      spencer 15 months ago

      No I'm not a boy, I'm a girl and again I'm telling you I'm straight and I already have a boy who really love me in my life and i also i really love him back .But I really don't know why I dreamt like that and the girl that told me that she likes me in my dream I think that she likes me in real life although I'm not sure about it . Please author tell me what my dream means

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      Kari 15 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @spencer. I don't understand why you said you are straight. The way I'm reading your question, you are a guy who dreamt about a girl liking you? Or are you a girl in real life?

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      Kari 15 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @bobby: I never said that you were wasting my time. Sounds like another over exaggeration? And the last comment sounds like an overreaction. I'm just pointing it out because, while it may not affect you chances with me, it will affect your chances with women.

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      Bobby 15 months ago

      Thanks for the advice. And I ddnt really mean it would make my life, I was just a little bit freaked out because of how everything was put together in the dream I had and how it was connected with real life in a way. I know ppl that have had premonitions before and told me about them. It's somehting beyond our understanding. A higher power that can speak to us or tell us if something is going to happen to us. I thought this was something like that, apperently not. Well anyway I took her out to a pub for an art event one night and I showed her a few things as far as drawing. She is a great person, I just don't know if I want to continue with a relationship with her. She's obviously had more life experience than I have had having 2 kids as a junior in high school. I don't mind being friends with her, but I feel like she wants something more. And btw I have a great life, great friends, family, and the only reason I'm still single is because I'm still looking for the right one. I'm not in any hurry. I'm sorry if my "overexxageration" was a waste of your time. I'll find another source. Thanks

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      spencer 15 months ago

      Hi again it's me spencer I forgot to mention that when I slept in my dream and I told you that I wake up and I met again the girl It was schooldays and i went to school and I met her in school and I don't know why I dreamt like that because I am straight and please author please tell me what my dream means

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      spencer 15 months ago

      Hi,I am 14years old and one night I dreamt about a girl whom I know as we are studying in the same school. So my dream starts with me walking in the night time with her and my relative who is a boy and is younger than me. We just walk and didn't even talk to each other and as we were walking suddenly my relative told me that he wanted to say something to me and not to be angry at him if he told me and I also I said yes ok I won't be angry. He said that the girl likes me and I was about to shake her hand to say thank you to her and suddenly again the boy (my relative) said that she wants to be in a relationship with me and I put away my hand and I didn't shake her hand anymore and she also she just smile at me and was blushing. And I went to my own house and I went to sleep and when I woke up I saw the same girl again and she was smiling at me and looked down and I also I walked away and the dream ended. What do you think does my dream means?

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      Kari 15 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @karin - It could be prophetic or it could be a sing that you want more love in your life. You are going to have to wait and see if he shows up.

      @aria - Hard to understand what you are saying. But, it sounds like you are scared to be in a relationship.

      @angel - Wow, I love the dreams. I often dream of stars dancing and moving into shapes, and I've never had anyone else tell me of that. Personally, I feel like that is a connection to my spiritual side, so I strongly believe that your dream is simply about the journey that you are on. Especially because your dreams seem to be about space and being far away - which is a disconnect from the daily grind and what we focus on in our daily lives.

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      angel 15 months ago

      hi , i have most unusual dreams :) , for 2 nights i have dreamt of being taken away by 2 unknown beings , they were masked &wearing orange clothing with shining brass or copper looking mask, i was hiding under a blanket but they found me .1 of the beings lifted the blanket & put his mask to my belly , within seconds i could actually smell what seemed to be gas & air.i could feel myself becoming so light headed & paralysed, i of them carried me downstairs .the next thing i no im awake on the settee , i knew I had legs but could not feel them , but when i could i went outside it was daytime & i met a man with a stubly beard , he smiled at me held me close to him & he yold me he loved me , i felt blissfully happy.the next nights dream .was that me and that man was together wearing black astrnoughts clothing, we seemed to be always together & happy.we looked into the dark night sky were it was full of beautiful stars , we watched the stars change shapes as yhey went from a big wheel to a areoplane to a huge rabbit. a man them came up to us but i didn't see his face but he told us that we was going on a journey. any thoughts would be grateful, thankyou

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      aria 15 months ago

      I dreamt about a person who has a crush on me . It was at night and we were walking on the road near my locality and there was a child who is my relative and we were walking together (me,my relative,and the person who has a crush on me)and while we were walking my relative told me that he wants to tell me something and told me not to be angry at him if he told me and I also said ok I won't be angry then he told me that the person likes me and I said ok thank you and I was about to shake the person's hand when he told me that the person wants to be in a relationship with me and I didn't shake the person's hand anymore and the person didn't even say a thing to me and I also didn't say a thing to her what does the dream means?

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      Kar.rn 16 months ago

      So I have these CONTINIOUS dreams, and this boy I don't even know. I forgot how he looked like and we fell in love. But then I forgot about it. What does this mean?

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      Kari 16 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Bobby - Don't feel weird about it, embrace it. It's like getting a sneak peek into what is right for you in life or - what is your right next move. So, obviously, this was meant to be for right now.

      I feel like if you tell her, you're going to be weird about it and scare her off. You can tell her, but don't act weird about it. Don't make it into something where you shake and are in awe. Act like it is an interesting dream that correlates to your interaction. Be cool about it.

      Also, saying things like "it would make my life to get a response" makes me wonder how overexaggerated you are about stuff. Me answering won't make your life - and if it does, you need more of a life! ;)

      I just want to warn you that most girls are not attracted to neediness/over the top, and that's the energy I'm getting off you. They want to know that they are liked and wanted, but not that a guy is not going to be able to breathe because they are not around.

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      Kari 16 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Jasmine - The biggest part that struck me was being lower than him on the couch. Almost as if you are inferior to him in some way. Maybe you feel like he has to be the one to decide before you can decide yourself. Sounds like you want him to like you that way, and that you like him that way. I think you are just scared to admit it to yourself or him.

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      Kari 16 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Hayley - It sounds like you are right. You have some decisions to make. But because you didn't know what was down the tunnels, I think it is more about fear of moving forward then not making a decision. Moving past fear and going down any tunnel is better than standing still.

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      Kari 16 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @max - I literally cannot understand your question because there is no punctuation.

      I think you don't know the girl you dreamt about, which tells me it is just a fantasy dream. Wishful dream. Maybe influenced by a movie you saw or story you heard.

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      Bobby 16 months ago

      Hi, I had been looking all over the Internet for an occurrence that I cannot explain, I think it was my premonition, but it sort of stopped me in my tracks when this happened. I am a single 23 year old male and an artist and I had this dream about a girl I sort of knew in high school never really talked to her because I was kind of quiet. Just ddnt really know her as a friend more like a fellow classmate in my graduating class(this was freshman year in high school). I never really had a girlfriend at all throughout my life, just because I never really thought of it. I was just real focused on my art career through high school and college. I have some friends on Facebook and Instagram and this girl was one of my friends, but ddnt think of too much of it. I remember she'd always comment on an art piece I'd post on Instagram and I'd say thank you. All of a sudden I had this dream about how I saw her at the beach, I was with my family sort of but I just went and checked out an area sort of walking around a different area from my family. And it wasn't just us there were other people around it was like a carnival on a beach sort of like a Santa Cruz beach boardwalk kind of thing only more peaceful and not as many people. Anyway I remember seeing this girl there at the beach and it was kind of strange because it was like I always knew her in my dream and we sort of ran away together on the beach and I remember looking back at her face and seeing the orange glow of the sunset glistening on her face and we both looked at eachother with such passion and love. All I remember was this peaceful feeling and nothing mattered but that moment right there with us two. I've never felt a feeling like this before in my life nor have I ever had a dream about a girl that was so clear in identity to me in a dream. It was the best feeling I've ever felt in a while, a more fantasy calm and peaceful dream. I also remember her and her kids (she has kids) were there and I remember playing with the kids and letting them use the crane machine to get a toy they wanted. Then when I woke up I just remember feeling like that was one of the best dreams I've ever had. Here is the trippy part, I went to school today and the dream I had was yesterday night and as I was in class I remember liking one of her doodles she had on Instagram from being in her own class. When I liked it she direct messaged me and asked if I liked her crappy doodle and I just told her I do the same in class but I liked the cross hatching, but I am pretty good when it comes to doing artwork and hers was a little amateurish, but I never tell anyone that. I know that it's hard for people to draw if they've never had as much practice as me. But anyway she was saying she remembered me in high school and remembered that I was very quiet and she wanted to talk to me, like have a real conversation. Because she told me its something she really wanted as far as getting to know me. I told her that I was going to an art event in downtown Fresno sort of where my school was and I invited her to go with me. She told me she had to get a baby sitter for her kids and I said ok. She asked me if I knew she had kids and I asked her if those were hers that she posted on Facebook and Instagram a lot, and she said yes. I never thought too much of it and I said ya that's fine, I just said if she couldn't find a baby sitter I could always let her know if there was another art event I could invite her to. It's sort of a drink and draw thing where models pose for us and we draw them while hanging out and having a drink. This is where I had this weird feeling inside and I remembered the dream and sort of trembled and stopped me in my tracks and everything was sort of blocked out in class when the teacher was talking and I started to shake. This happened because I ddnt even know that this was happening it seemed so surreal how it was all happening. I remember shaking in fear of the coincidence because I was so shocked that it was happening because how it was all happening at once. The whole day I just felt paralyzed and weak and without expression. If someone had said somehting to me I might of blocked it out because I was in such shock. I still am feeling this way a little and pretty much every time I think about it. And she just messaged me that she could go and asked if I could send her a picture of myself so she could draw it, because she like to draw just by looking at my art on Instagram. I needed some way of explaining this to someone because I can't hold in this feeling or what I experienced. If someone could give me some guidance I'd really appreciate it. I am just feeling so shook up by all this and need someone who is maybe experienced in such a manner of premonitions or dreams. Please I need help because I feel very weird of it all. Should I tell her at the event of what I experienced? I don't know what to do. If I can get a response it would make my day and my life. Thank you

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      jasminesmith44 16 months ago

      I had a dream last night that i was at a get together with some of my friends and the guy that I've been friends with for a year was in this dream. (Me and my friend have been having sex every few weeks for the fast few months and am unsure if i have feeling for him or not.) In my dream we were being very flirty and playful together and holding hands and stuff. At the end of the dream everyone was watching a movie together and me and my friend were sitting beside each other on the couch. The couch cushion i was on was a little bit lower than his was so i had to look up at him to talk to him. I looked on the TV screen and saw red a pink hearts on it when he suddenly reached down to grab my hand and looked into my eyes and said "i love you". I was shocked but felt very happy and excited about this and then he kissed me passionatly, and that's when i woke up. I am confused as to what this dream could mean. I also has this dream on valentines day if that means anything. What do you think this could mean?

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      Hayley 17 months ago

      Hello I had a dream last night that I was walking down roads with a friend and we got to this big dome we walked in and stood in the middle of it and it had different tunnels that we could go down.I looked down the different tunnels from where I was standing.But did not go down a tunnel,as I was scared of getting lost.what does this mean I took it as maybe I have some decisions to make and don't know which pathway to follow? What do you think it means? Thank you.x

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      MaxD 17 months ago

      I had a very strange dream i dreamt that i fell for a girl that pretended to not like me but i could tell she did and this was all around in and on top of the tallest tower in the world and with one of my closest freinds i love high towers big things and climbing high places are also a big thing for me and in this dream i worked for her dad and he didnt like me very much but i liked her a ton and there was a bit of parkour too which i dabble in and like too its awesome and in the end we escaped from the skyscraper with her and her little sister and i woke up before anything could happen i was wondering if you could provide a little insight ive never ever dreamt about falling in love before thanks and let me know what you think

      -Max Derby

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      Kari 17 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Alanis - You answered your own question. He's been on your mind a lot and you want him back, so of course you would dream about him. You're putting a lot of thought into your ex, so you are dreaming about him - both how you might like it to be (or how it was) and about other people knowing. It just means your thinking about him.

      By the way: You need to use punctuation when you write. It is VERY hard to read that long of a paragraph without punctuation.

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      Kari 17 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Danielle - It means you like him.

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      Alanis Elmore 17 months ago

      I had a dream about my ex In the dream I went oto my dad's house he showed me messages between me n my ex thay were inappropriate then I went to my room and my ex was there I went to use the bathroom I came back he was in my bed I jumped on him and I rubbed his back then I kissed him and he kissed back I was hesitate at first bc he has a gf then it led into more sexual things like him fingering me and I was about to give him a blow job but my friend came through the door we both stopped and I'm like we were doing something and then she left the room and we continued what we were doing then we had sex and it went into another dream he left with his dad to go to my cousins house so I went over there too and then it turned into my mom's house and idk what it means I love my ex but he has a gf we dnt tlk anymore he has been on my mind alot I miss him I wanna text him but I'm wairing for him to text me bc that will show me that he misses me I don't wanna be the one always going back seeming desperate I just want him back what does my dream mean?

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      aida-garcia 18 months ago

      Excellent article!

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      Danielle Az 18 months ago

      I had a dream that me and this boy that I go to church with were at a movie and we were cuddling and kissing until my mom showed up and was curious if we were dating and then I went to his house and I felt so in love and we were kissing again and I said I love you and I got kind of embarresed but then he said I love you too.... What does this mean? We are usually flirty with each other at church.. I woke up so dissapointed because I thought it was real and I was so happy

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      Kari 18 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Sven - It means you are worried that she will cheat on you with a guy that you know she likes. It doesn't mean she's going to cheat. It is your fear being projected into the dream.

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      Sven 18 months ago

      Had a dream my girlfriend was unfaithful to me,I took her out somewhere with me, we got seperated, I looked for her n found her kissing some guy I know in real life she likes,

      what does this mean?

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      Hayley 19 months ago

      Thank you.

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      Kari 19 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @SJ - It doesn't mean that the likes you (but, he might so don't rule that out!) It just means that you want him to like you. You are dreaming about what you want to happen. The fact that it felt so real probably is because you were so focused on it and excited about it because it's something you've been thinkng about.

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      Kari 19 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Hayley - I would interpret it that your friend is on your side and is there to support you.

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      SJ 19 months ago

      P.S, I forgot to mention. The dream felt so real, it took me a few seconds to process it hadn't actually happened to me in my waking life!

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      SJ 19 months ago

      There's a boy in my class I've caught looking at me for quite some time now. Safe to say I'm attracted to him; but we have never spoken because I'm too big of a wuss, and perhaps, he's shy as well.

      Now, last night, I dreamt about how I was in school. We had to stand in line to go home for some reason and I coincidentally stood behind him. When he glanced over his shoulder, I flashed him a smile (I do this to everybody), and he smiled back, then turned around completely, saying, “You know why I look at you? Because I find you very beautiful.” I was so ecstatic, I held both his hands. The last thing I remember is the both of us talking on the phone before I finally woke up. He didn't seem to care about my existence in school today, however, which left me rather disappointed.

      What could this dream mean?

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      Hayley 19 months ago

      Last night I dreamt that I was walking to my car to get into it and I was beckoned by a lady who gestered to a tree, when I looked up, one of my earrings was hanging in this tree out of reach, I asked her to help me, but she wouldn't, and told me to jump to reach it. After a while of jumping and trying and struggling to reach it, then my friend appeared offering a chair and i managed to reach it.

      Can you tell me what does this mean?

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      Kari 19 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Ja - There's two things: First, your not sure you want to be with your boyfriend on a subconscious (or maybe conscious) level and your looking for something better - hence the guy that you really like. Second, your insecure about your relationship and you are trying to protect yourself from getting too upset about what he might do. Whichever one resonates with you is likely it.

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      Ja 19 months ago

      Last night i had a dream that my boyfriend left me and drove away then i started looking for another guy i seen a cute guy and then i gave him a hickey but he said he couldn't date me then i seen this guy that i really liked but i never seen him before in my life and we made out and then we walked to his house and we were with his little sister and brother and i put my hand near his private parts and he told me not to do that cause his siblings were there then his little sister told him something about that a funny joke about him and then i woke up but now i cant stop thinking about him cause i love him and hes the perfect guy for me but i never met him before. btw ive had dreams before of my boyfriend and me cheating too

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      Kari 19 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @jd - Sounds like a movie scene to me. Just want to make sure that you didn't watch a movie that had this kind of scene in it and that's why you aer dreaming of it in this way.

      But, it also sounds like you are reflecting on your relationships with him. The iconic smoking while thinking is a huge symbol of reflection, so he may just be on your mind. It doesn't sound like there were any intense feelings (quietly chatting, smoking while watching him) so I'm guessing it is not an intense feeling you have about him.

      By the way, if you smoke, quit. So bad for you and so not cool on any level.

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      jd 19 months ago

      Hi any interpretations for this:

      I had a dream I was with an ex. we were quietly chatting im not sure what about in an evening setting outdoors then he fell asleep. we kind of fell asleep next to each other in the dream then I woke up or maybe i didnt sleep and watched him sleep and stole a cigarette from him and then walked away and kind of watched him again from a distance smoking my cigarette. then he got up, i felt like he looked around for me, lit up a cigarette too and then was looking at me from a distance but also pretending not to be at the same time and i was sort of doing the same thing, watching him but pretending not to it was weird.

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      Kari 19 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Mommy - you are worried or insecure about your relationship.

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      Adam 19 months ago

      Love really is the strongest emotion it makes me feel a bit weird saying that considering how I experienced it. But I know that's what I felt lol you're very reassuring I just feel the structure of the dream was strange about her arguing the setting and knowing she was pregnant lol. I've never been open like this befor # life class and thank you

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      MommyYam 19 months ago

      Hi! I just had a dream earlier that my husband is talking with his guy friend and he told the guy that we are no longer together. Suddenly i woke up after that dream and i was thinking why i dreamed like that. Me and my husband are still together but we are in a long distance because he's working in other country.

      What do you think about my dream? Thank you in advance.

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      Kari 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Adam - I totally get the old iPhone! lol

      I've said this before on here, but when I was young - around the age of 14, I dreamt about being in love with someone passionately and being intimate. I hadn't been intimate yet, so it was weird to have such intense feelings - like you said - powerful. Anyway, I dated a lot in my younger years up until my mid-twenties, but never felt the way I did in that dream, even though I sometimes thought I was in love. Then one day I started dating the man I'm with now, and we had a moment that was exactly like in the dream. I felt the same passion. I felt the same physical connection I had in the dream. I really believe when we dream of something we don't have the experience yet for, it is prophetic or past life.

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      Hrdnipz (Adam) 20 months ago

      Lol I'm sorry about the punctuation I was on a trash old iPhone so give me a break. How often have you known prophetic dreams to actually be true. I only ask because when I woke up I was sad the way you feel after a break up but magnified I assume if it was your true love. This whole dream and experience was really powerful to feel that in a dream when you haven't befor, like I said I don't have good dreams I'm always running or fighting something and I usally wake up just befor I die or might die. A few times I've woken up but couldn't move and then when I was able to move or come out if it I had to almost catch my breath. But I have real awqweard sleep patterns and I only sleep in a few hour bursts which I thought you had to be asleep for a good amount of time and at the end is when you reach REM sleep and start to dream. Also I don't watch live story esq shows so I don't know. Any way thank you for you insite.

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      Kari 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Hrdnipz - I think that's not your real name and that punctuation makes things MUCH easier to read.

      But, about your dream, I think that you could be having a prophetic dream. The feelings you had for never being in love are pretty accurate, so only time will tel on this one.

      It could also be a reflection of a movie or story you heard recently. But, if you can't think of one, then it is more likely prophetic or past life.

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      Kari 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Smith - It sounds like you are insecure right now and that is translating to your relationship in your dreams. You may not be insecure with her, but somewhere in your life - work, friends, etc. Or, you may be insecure with her and no admit it to yourself. Gotta get honest!

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      Kari 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @andrew - I don't dream of my husband that much either. Our dreams reflect our fears, thoughts, desires, etc. So usually our partner is not in them if we are happy and fulfilled with them.

      So she's kind, beautiful, and smart, but she's not your type? That sounds like a lie to me - one you may not even know you are telling yourself. I think you have an attraction towards her and your potential 'love story' is playing out in your dreams.

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      Kari 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Mary - Just sounds like you know he likes you and would be willing to do something with you if you chose to. Doesn't mean he's in love with you or anything. It just means you are aware that opportunity is open.

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      Hrdnipz 20 months ago

      Hi I'm not sure if this forum is still up or not but if you could give me your insight on this I'd appreciate it - normally In my dreams I'm running from something or fighting something But I just had this dream I was in this girls house and we were together surrounded by people I perceive we're our friends and I think her dad it was a beautiful house nice back yard dream house basically it was hers or get family's inside the light was bright almost I don't know perfect I was obv in love with her but I kept going from the living room where she was and the kitchen where our friends were. Everyone was happy and then halfway through or more towards the end she was on the couch arguing with her ex boy friend it was more like he was mad about something I assume me and he kept arguing with her it felt like she was just trying to get her point across and finish what ever she was trying to say but he kept arguing with her like he wanted her back or something but she wasn't having it. I couldn't hear anything they were saying but I kept going from the living room to kitchen I felt like she didn't want me to inturpt because at one point when the ex or what ever got more mad I felt like I was about to smash him or something like that but I just went back to the kitchen were our friends were because she wanted me too and was handling it This whole time the sun was shining in like a perfect Sunday morning and everyone was happy. But then I woke up because the phone rang Now in this dream I knew I loved this girl but I've never been in true love befor and I felt like she was pregnant. What do you think

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      Smith 20 months ago

      Hey so I keep having these weird dreams I am a female and I am married to a female but in my dreams im always with my wife but she is different always is very distant and annoyed with me and she tells me she dont love me and then by the end of the dream I see her dating a man and cheating on me and she dont leave me she just always says she dont love me and I will deal with this. I try so hard to interpret the dream but I get nothing but bad things and I just want to know someone else's interpret I know for a fact there is no way she is actually on me we are together all the time. Please help me.

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      Andrew0616 20 months ago

      Hi, good day! I really need your help. Before, I dreamt of a girl whom I'm close with, 4 days in a row! That was a few months ago. Now, perhaps a random day I'll dreamt of her again but the funny thing is, I have a girlfriend. The girl in my dreams is not my girlfriend but my bestfriend. Now, I seek for help because my dreams with her crossed the line! Last night I dreamt of her in which we were at a gathering of our fellow high school friends in a condomenium then she went out, I followed her and she was sitting next to the pool. She was, as far as I can remember, removing the back part of to what she is wearing ( I don't know. I hate it when I can only remember half of my dreams) then I told her to stop because I can see her and its awkward until she asked me to scratch her back then I did and then I can't remmeber what happened next but we ended with a kiss and went back to our friends like nothing happened! Now, while thinking about this dream, I remember those 4 dreams with her. Each of this dreams resemble a story in which, let's say the first one is I'm just with her, the 2nd one is that I'm giving her a ride on my back, the 3rd one is that we're holding hands and the 4th one is that she kissed me on my cheeks. The other ones I forgot then the latest which is the condomenium and kissing next next to swimming pool. I don't know but this girl, my bestfriend, she's kind, beautiful, and smart but she's not my type and my bros like her so bros before rose. Please help, I'm so confused about this, I can't take a hint except for the fact that my dreams with her resembles a love story of us :/

      P.S I don't dream of my girlfriend, I don't know why, hahahaha. Thank you for the help :)

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      Mary V. 20 months ago

      I had a very odd dream, at least for me, the part that I remember was being out in I'm guessing like a sort of party, when I left with one of my friends in a jeep, going through the forest I was stopped by a guy I know, (he actually is my manager and he's made a couple of advances to me, but I'm married and even though he is a tractive I know he's no good and I would never cheat on my husband) to keep the story, he stopped us by standing in front of the jeep and getting me out of the car, took me far from the car to hug me from my back, while he wispered with his face touching mine, he wispered to please stay with him, to choose him. And suddenly my phone was on a call from my actual husband who was asking as well, then I just woke up.

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      Kari 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Hayley - try to look at your life and interpret it yourself. I would say that you are unsure of something because there were a lot of unknowns. Also, right when you were finding relief you were disturbed for a serious reason, so maybe you are feeling unrested or unable to relax.

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      Hayley 20 months ago

      Hello last night I had a dream that I was walking in a place I didn't know and I was carrying a box,full of things but I don't know what,I then see I was being followed by a man,I got away from this man,and I sat down to rest,then I see a group of people and the man in the group fell over,I jumped up to go help him and he had hurt his shoulder,he was ok and thanked me,I then went into a public toilet for a wee,and while in the toilet 6 girls jumped over the toilet door saying that I had to go with them to be killed,I then woke up,what does this dream mean please.x

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      Kari 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Angi - My first thought is that it is a simple reflection of your desire to get into a relationship that makes you feel safe and protected. Possibly you don't feel like you have any relationships as protective like that right now.

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      Kari 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Drgneyes - Sounds like one of two things:

      1. There is something about your boyfriend that you don't trust. Something he is portraying to you.

      2. There is something that you feel your boyfriend doesn't trust about you. It's like he caught you doing something and was able to see the truth clearly outside of his body.

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      Angi k 20 months ago

      Like yourself, i too have had a fascination with my dreams since i was 6 years old. For the most part i know what my dreams mean and why i have them. Sometimes i can go back to sleep and finish a dream after waking.

      I would like to share with you the dreams that I've been having lately to get your opinion, and to see if it's the same as what i think they mean.

      In day to day life i am a single 42 yr young woman and haven't had a boyfriend, or dated for that matter, in a few years. For the past month or so i have been having these romantic dreams. I meet a man and suddenly we have an instant connection and we are both very passionate about each other and very attracted to each other. There isn't any kissing or sex, is much deeper than that. They are true feelings we have for one another. We are touching in the way that he is standing behind me with his body against mine and i feel safe and protected. Each dream that I've had, it's been a different man, but the other things are still the same. The scenarios may be different, but the basis of the dreams are the same. I have a theory about this, but i would also like to know what your thoughts are.

      Thank you for your time.

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      Drgneyes 20 months ago

      I had a dream that my boyfriend and I were having sex, and out of nowhere this guy walked in who looked excately like him! The other guy stood there for a second said something like "thank you now I know" to my boyfriend and walked out shaking his head. I was so confused that I wasn't even sure if the guy I was having sex with was my boyfriend now. I said i have been nothing but faithful and honest to you our entire relationship how come you never told me you had a twin? I was crying and then I woke up and was crying in real life. I don't understand this dream at all. Please she's some information as to what this means.

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      Kari 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @love - You are either dealing with rejection somewhere in your life or worried about rejection.

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      love29 20 months ago

      What does it mean when you dream about getting married and then your fiance says no and leaves

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      Kari 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @sofia - It means you like him and are playing out a fantasy of him telling you that he likes you.

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      Kari 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Jenn - If your lover is an actual real person, then it means that you might be suspicious of him, despite your belief in your trust.

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      Kari 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Alonement - You basically answered your own question. In your dream you hear him but pretend not to and go hide in a building to watch him interact with another woman. Obviously you don't feel ready to show him how you feel. If you weren't too concerned in the dream (depressed, sad, etc) then you are probably just playing out how you feel. If you were concerned, it may be time to do something about it and let him in a little.

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      Kari 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Luna - Him not caring is part of your insecurity. I mean you were trying to slit your wrists, which is someone quite troubled would do. The fact that you saw him doing nothing tells me you don't think he really cares about you. I would work on that in your waking life.

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      Kari 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Confused - Wow. Thanks for sharing so much with us. First off, just from your real life story, you should leave this guy. Nobody deserves to be mentally or emotionally abused. And your confidence and self-worth will diminish the longer you keep putting up with it and putting him on sort of pedestal.

      I think that 'confused' is the optimal word here. Your dreams shows a bunch fo different men and forms of relationships and emotions, and it is a sign that you are struggling to make sense of your relationship and where it's going.

      The peace you felt was likely because you were focusing on being centered instead of overthinking. Of course it would feel peaceful to stop worrying, thinking, wondering, etc.

      Your love can't be too much for a human to handle, unless you are being possesive, jealous, and obsessive. Are you?

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      Kari 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Marisar - Sure. We are all connected through energy, and you may have tapped into the energy of that house for whatever reason - and the woman who was left behind. Too bad you didn't get to hear what she said. I hope you dream it again because the message will be the most important aspect of understanding why you had the dream.

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      Kari 20 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Tamy - Could mean that you don't think you are worthy of love. Or it could be simply from an experience where you felt rejected - it doesn't have to be a huge experience and it doesn't have to do with a man (although it could.)

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      sofia 20 months ago

      i had a dream that the guy i like told one of my bestfriend whom he doesnt know in real life to tell me that he loves me what does that mean pls tell me

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      Jenn 20 months ago

      I have had 3 dreams in the last week where my lover asks if I trust him. My answer is always yes, or of course, or completely. He never says much else....but always looks happy with my response. But a few minutes later he will ask again if I trust him, and again I will tell him yes. What does this mean?

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      Alonement 20 months ago

      I had a dream that my guy friend was parked in an opened field and was leaning out of the door of his vehicle. I was getting off of a bus or something and he called my name, but i kept walking to some kind of building. A girl that was in the vehicle from which i came from hollered his name and ran over to him and was leaning on the front of his vehicle and they were talking. I cant remember if he was still calling my name or if he was looking for me to come to him, but i was looking out of window at the two. Nothing happened between them while i was looking out of the window. I like him more than he knows, but im not ready to show that side. He does have other females and im fine with that, but im not sure if its right for me to show my real feelings towards him. What is this all about? I need help understanding.

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      Luna 21 months ago

      I dreamt that I needed to obtain information on my husband's laptop, but he was being weird, and holding it at an angle so that I could not see. I grew suspicious, and took it. There were loads of porn, gay porn included. He then went on to tell me that he has been with men, and shares an experience with me, he seems very unbothered, when just moments ago he was trying so hard to hide it. I begin to freak out, grab scissors to slit my wrists, and start grabbing his face, hitting him with a ruler. He again, seems unbothered. No reaction. Just like he doesn't care. I have had other dreams beforr where he lies or cheats, and I attribute that to my insecurities, but I don't understand the not caring part. I will be freaking out, and he is so nonchalant. These dreams often wake me up shaking and in tears. Hoping to get your opinion and some resolve. Cheers!

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      Confused part 3 21 months ago

      But he said that he had been hurt too many times that he couldn't get hurt again. I said I wouldn't hurt him. That I love unconditionally. ThTs true because I never treated my boyfriend badly. I always forgave him as best as I could. I was begging him to stay with me. I said I was deeply hurt as well and showed him a place on my chest that has hurt for a long time. I told him I loved him and I left crying feeling the same deep pain I have felt for a yeAr. Then I woke up feeling happy. What does this mean? Will I be forever alone? Is mr love too much for a human to handle. Can it never be reciprocated? Is the dream something totally different. More happy? Because I felt content when I awoke. I felt anew.

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      Confused. Part 3 21 months ago

      He didn't respond. I was left leaving in tears feeling the same deep pain in my chest I've felt for over a year. I left as my boyfriend though for some reason. I adored him passionately. I gave him my love and my family treated him like a son. I'm starting to feel like I was wrong. That I was wrong to have loved him but I loved him somehow. When I woke up from my dream I was happy. I was thinking that I had to leave my boyfriend. That I didn't love him as strongly anymore. The heart can only take so many knife jabs you know? I lay my hand where I pointed to my chest in my dream and I felt an overwhelming sense of peace it was surreal. I did it again later but the feeling wasn't the same. I do not know what this means. Why was my friend in it? We are classmates. Why was I not accepted by the safe man I deeply loved? please help

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      Confused...part 2 21 months ago

      Everyone mentioned someone. And then they all felt close. I was next to a friend. Someone I've been close to at college with classes. Before the forest I was talking with him and the group at school. Well so he looked into my eyes and he kissed me with such a passion that I have never felt coming from someone else. We were very close. Then I get wet in water. My face does and I want to talk to everyone about my boyfriend. She and everyone stops and looks at me in horror. I think for a brief sec it's because they know I have a "boyfriend" but then realize that they see someone else's face. They see a twin of my boyfriends that did something horrible and was shunned and expelled. Before leaving I was in front of a big man. He made me feel safe. I said I loved him and he said he couldn't get hurt anymore that sorry but we were over. This was not my friend. He was u recognizable. I said that I too was hurt right here. Showed him a place only chest which has hurt over the last year of my relationship. I urged him that impulses hurt him that I was hurt too. That I loved unconditionally. But

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      Confused...part 1 21 months ago

      Hi I just had the most fascinating dream. It felt so real. I woke up with my heart pounding and my body sweaty. Okay here it background. I am in some sort of relationship with my boyfriend. My first love. I fell in love with him about a year ago. I was innocent and he was older so I said the words I love you. Our relationship at least to me was always more emotional. We were and are hardly physical but I always felt I loved him with a deeper passion than he did me. That I truly loved him and he only kind of did. You see he's been verbally and emotionally abusive. He says he has mental issues and I have done what I can to help. I promised him I would love him forever and never leave but he's hurt me so many times my soul felt like it had a permanent cut.

      The dream:

      I was walking with a group of people and a professor/guider (female) who was guiding the trip. It was spiritual in a way. It was at night but didn't feel creepy. It felt exciting. She was saying who is someone you would be with.

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      Marisar 21 months ago

      Hi,

      I had a strange dream that I was in a house and going upstairs there was a lady who looked homeless she was dirty. But in my dream she wanted to tell me something but right when she was about to tell me something, my husband woke me up so I didn't find out. As I took my husband to work that morning, me and my daughter were driving by this neighborhood looking at houses and I couldn't help but notice a house that looked like the one I dreamt only in my dream it had a back porch and in real life it didn't. My daughter convinced me to take a look so as check it out we notice the door is open and the house is on renovation so we open the door and I it was exactly as I dreamt it with the stairs in front of the door that led to the room where the lady in my dream was. Anyways, I asked a neighbor about the house, she had said that there was a fire in the house maybe that's why it was being renovated and someone died. I'm guessing the lady wasn't a homeless last but the person who died? But I could be wrong and it might it be related. But what does this mean? Is it really possible to dream something that you've never seen before and actually see it in real life a few hours later?

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      Tamy4 21 months ago

      I had a dream that I was with a guy who I can't remember who he was, but I think we were dating. We were in a building and I told him I loved him and he jumped out the window, then I woke up alarmed. What does this mean?

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      Kari 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Sophie - I think you are connected to him in some way. It may not be love. It may just be a spiritual connection. But I definitely think there is a connection there. Just enjoy the fact that you are connected.

      I have an ex-friend who I was very close to. We haven't talked for years, but not long ago I dreamt about her home in detail. I also dreamt about her being with a certain man (when we stopped being friends she was married). Thanks to the magic of Facebook, I found out she had divorced her husband, married the guy in my dreams, and lived in the house that I dreamt about. We are spiritually connected even though we will not be friends again in this lifetime.

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      Sophie 21 months ago

      To the author, i remembered that i ONLY saw his entire face including his teeth. After that, i was shocked, i quickly woke up. I told myself, who's that guy omg... Never had this kind of dream before. Never imagined that i was going to met him at my new workplace.

      He's nice actually. I want to told him about the dream but, i refused because it's impossible for me to do that. Now i don't know if someday i might met him again, because i always remember him. Is this some love sign? It has been 8 months (from February) i develop this feeling, even he has gone to somewhere. This is crazy. I also wish to let it go, not thinking about this again but i keep remember him.

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      Kari 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @sophie - Sounds like you had a premonition dream. You dreamt about him before you met him. Because you didn't give many details about your dream, I can't interpret it. But, if you have a good feeling about him, then go for it!

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      Kari 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Tamaa - sounds like it was just a dream about your ex. Could be how you feel about him - as if you are always doing something like staining your dress. And the way he talked was kind of hoity-toity which may indicate you view him as a snob.

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      Sophie 21 months ago

      I dreamt a guy that i don't know who he is, and it occured once. And i also saw his face, he's not good looking tho.

      Then, the next month I MET THE GUY but during that time i didn't yet realised he was the guy from my dream. But we're kinda close at work. Not that much. But i can feel something from him. At first, he disturbed me while i'm eating. WHICH I DIDNT UNDERSTAND when there was his friends beside him in group. I just kept silent. He also asked me some questions. And also about how well am i behave with my parents. Kinda weird. My friend also said he's weird lol.

      There were the time where i was looking at him, he realised and he smiled himself. And also the other day, he gave me this really scary look, like he wants something from me and its really weird.

      When he left for a while, i suddenly realised he was the guy i dreamt, while i wa eating.

      But from all above, i like him. He seemed curious about what i'm doing and helped me when i'm doing a quite dangerous work. His friend even teased him infront of me, that HE LIKES ME. But he denied that lol

      But we no longer met after he moved. Although he moved, i still saw him outside at the road.

      Can you tell me what is this all about? What the dream told me?

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      Tamaa 21 months ago

      Had a dream I was at a party,wearing a white dress...I saw my ex n his close friend there too at a distance,,upon seeing them,I stained my dress wit de drink I was holding,,,,I realised he wanted to talk to me but he didn't know how,,then he finaly said "Madam uve got some stains on your dress..."

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      Kari 21 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Luvly - I hope you don't see your dream as a sin. It's not. It's an expression of your subconscious, and it doesn't necessary mean you want to get with a man who is married.

      Maybe you are longing for love, and he just happens to be the guy who symbolized a romantic partner in your life. Maybe you are longing for more meaning or love in your life, and - again, he was just a symbol of that.

      And maybe he is just really attractive and you were fantasizing about him! Nothing bad about that. It's not like you are physically acting on anything.

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      luvly 21 months ago

      Hi there, I had dream about a married man who I know. In the dream he kissed me and told me he loves me. The dream was so real .I told him you have a wife and nothing can happen. I woke up then the went back to sleep,and continue the dream. When I did get up for the day I repented and I was asking why I am I dreaming about this man . I have not look at him in that way because he is married.

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      Kari 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @ciara - Here's my opinion - it's time to move on once and for all. If honest communication doesn't work, then it's a sinking ship.

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      ciaramarie33 22 months ago

      Thank you.. I ve tried that and i get nowhere with him..so i dont really know ..

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      Kari 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @confused - Just sounds like you are moving on. Dreaming about his/your friend being romantic with you means you are open to moving on to someone else besides your husband. It doesn't mean you will be with that guy, but it sounds like your subconcious is saying, "I'm ready to move on!" which is a good thing.

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      Kari 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @ciara - It sounds like you and your ex are playing games with each other and you know it. Instead of being upfront and honest about how you feel, you are 'acting tough' and 'acting like you don't care'. To me, it sounds like your subconscious is telling you to contact him and talk to him so you can get what you need to say (and hear) out in the open - whether it is good or not for your relationship. Be honest and ask him to be honest.

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      Confused 22 months ago

      Hello. I am married & actually going through a separation right now. I just recently forgave my husband for everything & have finally let go of some resentment.

      I literally just woke up from having this dream:

      My husband, myself, & my husband's friend are at our house. The guys just got done hanging out & im walking with them out of the door. My husband goes out first & stands out there as he smokes a cigarette. My husband's friend (who is also my friend. We were friends before him & my husband were) is the next to head out but he turns back abruptly & writes on a piece of paper "I love U grl" then turns around & goes out. I laugh it off & ball up the paper & throw it away. Then my dream skips to the future & it's my husband's friend & myself looking for a house (he has gone with us house hunting before). My husband is gone & I feel as if at this point in the dream we are separated & I am looking for a house to live in alone. Husband's friend then pulls me close & whispers he has always loved me. We turn the corner of the hallway & my family is sitting in the living room with a child. We walk towards the front of the house & see my husband walking towards the house from afar. Then the dream ends.

      Pleassssssee help me

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      Maybe 22 months ago

      So I had a dream

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      ciaramarie33 22 months ago

      So i been having the same dream. Reoccurr, once i left this dude i Was seeing. I had moved back home, since things wasnt goin to well for me out there where i met him.

      In the dream it shows how he sees me at the gas Station, he ends up comin up to me tryin to talk to me.. We was goin bac n fourth about issues that was affectin us when was seeing each other. I tried to play Tough, meaning not tryin to show emotions but ended up tearing up and he started to tear up his self . i ended up drivin off after i told him , he acted like he didnt care".

      Another part of a dream i keep having is, that i was heading home i guess i had went grocery shopping .. When i got home and started taking the grocerys in the house. When finished, someone ended up ringing my bell and left flowers on my step.

      Ever since i left all i see is his name everywhere. When i dont think about him some how this name pops up either in a movie im watchin or someone ends sayin the name, or this seafood truck with his name on it ends im goin pass me when im out n about?.. Another funny thing that keeps poppin up is the state he is from, i keep seeing the licenses plates everywhere.. Please help me understand if this is a sign..?

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      Kari 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @curiousmale - The first thought I had was that you trust your girlfriend, and this dream was a reflection of that trust, love, etc...possibly combined with some sexual fantasies mixed in. It doesn't mean you want to do that in real life, but - come on...it's fun to think about those kinds of things and there is nothing wrong with fantasizing about them.

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      Kari 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Awkwarddreams - I'm so sorry. Your comment got automatically thrown into spam - I'm assuming because you wrote blow jobs.

      Anywase, most sex dreams are not sexual. Because you thought of your ex, your brother may have just been on your mind and substituted your ex for whatever reason. Or maybe your ex is starting to become more like a brother to you than a lover. There are many interpretations rather than you want to have sex with your brother.

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      CuriousMale 22 months ago

      Hi, this one might be a bit weird (it's definitely slightly off the beaten track as far as interpretations go).

      Recently, I've had dreams of sharing my girl, never put much stock in it rather than it being a fun dream. As a general rule, I'm quite adventurous with an active imagination so largely put it down to this.

      I had a dream last night where she was with her ex intimately. I was watching (or aware at least, I think..it was kinda conceptual rather than explicit) but not angry at all, more that there was a sense of trust and general acceptance in it. I woke up fairly shortly into it so can't claim to see where it went or if I reacted but it didn't feel bad in any way

      Would love to know if it means anything, I feel I'm still on a journey of self exploration with a lot of areas in my life so I know there's room to know myself better. :-)

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      AwkwardDreams 22 months ago

      I dreamt that my brother called me and smiling told me you know why I called and he meant for a blow job( that's weird and gross) and than I said I know but when I touched his hair and looked at him I remembered the face of my ex (recently we decided to break up but we end up together again.. we did so many times ) that I touched his hair like that and I couldn't do it. Than we were like having sex but with clothes on

      This is really awkward for me even to write it because he is my brother but I would like to know does it mean anything..?

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      Kari 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @hars and @username1 - Your welcome! Thanks for sharing.

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      Username1 22 months ago

      Thank you so much. I'm trying to realize what my dreams mean and every sign what should I do because it's not that it is all against my will and I don't want to but I don't know what I want!! I want the life that I always thought of and that can happen with the guy that my relatives introduced me but in other hand I'm so free and so myself like I never thought I could be with the guy I know.!

      Eitherway thank you for interpreting my dream it's really helpful :)

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      hars 22 months ago

      Thank you so much for the feedback! Feels nice to see other people with real, lovely stories and dreams!

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      Kari 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @hars - You interpreted your own dream beautifully. You have hope within. You know where you have been. You know what you want. And you know that your convinction is right, not wrong.

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      Kari 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Username1 - From what I got from your dream, sounds like you are being pulled into a relationship that you don't want to be pulled into. I think it's important to follow your heart in relationships and go where it tells you to go - not where relatives want you to go. The big teeth aspect is interesting. If that is an unattractive quality to you, then it may have just been there to emphasize the fact that you don't want to be with him.

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      Kari 22 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @India - Sounds like you expected him to break up with you for a while. And, it sounds like you know a relationship with him is not going to work out. Yes, I think it is your subconscious telling you that you need to move on because - in the end, he's not going to want you back.

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      hars 22 months ago

      I am single and have never had a real loving relationship. I am from India- a country where they do arranged marriages if you can't find someone yourself.Obviously I only believe in marrying for love but recently I have been despairing and have given up.

      Anyway so after years of negative thinking I finally had this dream, and of course it represents what my life has been so far and what I want in d future.

      Its a dream thats mostly sad but in the end I was so gobsmacked because it was so beautiful. None of the people in d dream are real.

      So basically i am living somewhere with a family that's cruel to me. And basically I am just living there for food n shelter and not because I belong there. And then one day I do somethng wrong and they decide to punish me. I don't remember what I did wrong.But they chain me naked to the front gate where all the public can ridicule me and I learn my mistake.

      I know that I haven't made any mistake and that I've been wronged.And everyone is making fun of me and laughing for days. And then finally he comes- a kind soul just like me and he picks me up and takes me away. I know it sounds like a fairytale and a load of bull, but it was really beautiful anf powerful.

      Although Ive never been in a healthy relationship, Ive loved two guys before so I know what love means.I just don't know what its like to be loved in return. i did not even get love from my parents as a child, so probably thats why I seek it elsewhere when I am an adult.

      Anyway,so when this guy picked me up-it was so beautiful- his strong kind face lit me up and gave me strength. and even though Ive had such good dreams before, this has been the most beautiful.Its the closest Ive come to experience love from a guy and I just can't forget about it. for some reason I felt its a message from God to wait for the right guy instead of compromising my happiness by marrying just about anyone. I know it sounds silly but it really was all that powerful and ive never felt anything like it.

      So I wrote it down in a diary and I had tears in my eyes when it did. I am someone who has been through too much in her life (I know- who hasn't?) But i really have.I guess thats what the chaining represents. And in my mind i guess the guy represents what I want in the future.

      But the main point is the dream has made me positive that maybe I will find someone kind and who understands me. Ive been so negative about it all so far and given up.But maybe this was just God's way of telling me to hang on. I am not very religious but I do believe in a higher power.

      I am a fractured soul which is in need of love.

      P.S.: I know love comes from within and one should not rely on others for happiness etc. But just humour me please and let me bask in the dream! Lol

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      Username1 23 months ago

      I had a dream last night that I went at my aunts' home( I've seen that house in mu dreams before never in real life) and there was this guy I went on a date that my relatives introduced me (he was living there) and when he talked to me he had big teeth and started to tell my cousin it's good when my wife makes me work (like show me around the place) and wouldn't let my hand go even that I pulled my hand to go away...!!

      It was weird and complicated but does it mean anything that I cannot decide between this guy and another one that I know whom to be with???

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      India 23 months ago

      My boyfriend/ child's father/ first love/ first lover first pretty much everything just broke up recently and he says it's because I let people run over me and that it is unattractive. And he says he also doesn't believe in titles like girlfriend and boyfriend. I want us to work it out and be together. Even when we were in a relationship I would always have dreams of him dumping and I would try to get him back but he doesn't want me back. Now I am still having dreams like that. What am I to do? It's it a sign that I need to move on or what ?

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      Kari 23 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @anna - Something may be going on in your life that other people think are good for you (and may even be good for you), but you don't want to do it. What other people think is good is not always right for you, so pay attention to what's going on in your life and make your own choices.

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      anna 23 months ago

      I had a dream last night in which a boy i had not seen before was crazily in love with me and he is ready to go any extent for me......but im ignoring him and feels like he is making my life miserable by forcing me into a relationship that i dont want t......please reply me what does this mean

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      Kari 23 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @readhead - just because you have seen him in a couple years doesn't mean there isn't still a connection there. So, something may have happened (a smell, a thought, a type of feeling) that triggered you to dream about him a familiar setting.

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      Redhead_n_luvingit 23 months ago

      lorful & real-life like also I always remember them) that I was visiting a old Navy command that I once was stationed at 13 yrs ago. My dream was in real time for me and what I imagined the command would be like now if I was to go visit it. I walked into the building went to the front desk and asked the Petty Officer who was manning it if there would possibly be some people here that would have been here in 2000-2001. She started naming some people that I didn't know but then said a name of someone that I was extremely close to mentally and physically when I was stationed there. I haven't thought of this man in many years. We haven't seen or talked to each other since he left the command in late 2000 with new orders to Italy. Both of us married had a very intense, pleasurable affair with each other that would have not ended if not for him leaving. I have briefly thought about him every now and again through the years wondering how he is but like I said a couple sentences ago it's been years since I have until I did in my dream. We reconnected sexually in my dream but in all new ways and in all new places that my dream state mind took me.

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      Kari 23 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @still - It is a reflection of how you feel - so you likely feel that he does not respect you, love you, or care about you.

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      Still confused 23 months ago

      Hi i had a dream about my ex who i still have deep feelings for showing up to my house with his current girlfriend which he got pregnant and the whole time they were in there he was ignoring me and like kept throwing it in my face that he was with her now what does this mean.?

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      Suzannawadlow 2 years ago

      Ok so really weird dream about having sex with my sister's man. I hate the guy with a passion hes an abusive jerk and cheater. In the dream he came onto me and i let him...it felt really good and i woke up wanting sex. The whole time during the dream i was worried about my sister finding out or catching us. What does this mean? I love my sister so much and would never do this to her and I'd never cheat on my husband

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