Interpreting Your Personal Love Dreams

Updated on February 22, 2019
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I've been studying my dreams since I was young. I believe that once we know how to interpret our dreams, we can learn so much from them!

Wondering what your dreams can tell you about your love life? Read on.
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Dreams have the power to teach us much about our waking lives. Once you've learned to understand them, they can tell us what's happened, what's happening, and what is going to happen. They connect us to the other side and offer us insight that we can't get anywhere else.

Your dreams will never lie to you as long as you know how to listen to them.

I've found that my dreams offer the best relationship and personal advice that I could ever ask for, and I'm positive that once you know how to interpret them, yours will too!

Common Relationship-Dream Symbols

Dreams about relationships (past, present, and future) are incredibly common, but that doesn't mean they can't be incredibly confusing! Sometimes we take these dreams at face value, but much of the time they are really pointing to some other area of our lives.

In this article, we will discuss dreams about the following topics:

  • Someone You Love
  • Your Ex(es)
  • Saying or Hearing "I Love You"
  • Kissing
  • Crushes
  • Marriage
  • Sex and Hooking Up
  • Cheating or Being Cheated On
  • Pregnancy

At the bottom of this article, you will also find information about learning how to interpret your own dreams, such as keeping a dream journal and meditating.

Your Dream Interpretations Are Unique to YOU

Before we dig into any specific dream interpretations, it's important to take a step back and remember that we are all unique individuals with unique life experiences. We do not all view things in the same way in our waking lives, so why should it be that way in our dreams? We all look at certain symbols in dreams and associate them with something different.

Sit back and think about what you associate certain things with. Don't overthink it! Just write down what comes to mind first. For instance, here are a few of my associations:

  • Darkness—Calm
  • Water—Peace
  • Parent's Home—Conflict or Turmoil
  • Grandpa's Home—Comfort
  • Red—Love

When you are interpreting your dreams, keep all of your own personal dream symbols in mind. The truth will resonate with you when you see or hear it.

Below, you will find some general interpretations in regards to feelings, sights, and emotions in relationship-related dreams. Before we start, rest assured that these are very common dreams that we all have.

Remember to listen to your inner self when trying to interpret your dreams. What are your feelings during the dream and upon waking? Are you happy? Anxious? Confused? Understanding these emotions will be a huge help in interpreting what dreams do or don't mean for you personally.

What Does It Mean When You Dream About Someone You Love?

Dreams about people you love are quite common—our parents, siblings, and closest friends often make appearances in our lives' little nighttime "movies." But what about romantic love? What does it mean when you dream about a partner (past or present) who you love dearly?

If you're having positive dreams about someone you are in a relationship with, that can be a great sign. These dreams may be an indicator that you have a deep bond with your partner and feel fulfilled in your relationship. They may also indicate that you love yourself just as deeply—which is a key component of love with any other person—so well done, you!

For not-so-positive dreams about people you love (e.g. seeing your ex with someone new or catching your partner cheating on you), continue scrolling and don't be afraid; as unfun as these dreams may be, they can actually reflect positively on what's going on in your waking life.

Note: It's important to recognize the line between love and obsession. If you're dreaming about this person every night and they hardly know your name, it's high time to back off and get a hold of yourself. This isn't healthy for you

More often than not, dreams about your ex are actually a reflection of your relationship with yourself.
More often than not, dreams about your ex are actually a reflection of your relationship with yourself. | Source

Dreams About Your Ex

As unnerving as it can be, dreaming about your ex is totally normal. But before you start panicking about why the dude who broke your heart just showed up in your dream, take heart in the fact that these dreams have everything to do with what's going on with you, and squat to do with your ex.

Seeing Your Ex in a Dream

To dream of an ex can symbolize unfinished or unresolved issues that relate to that person. I think we've all dreamt that at times. This may happen even thought you are in a good relationship—your lingering issues and memories are just choosing to surface in your dreams.

If you dream about seeing a recent ex, it's likely that your subconscious is trying to help you process the breakup. Now it's your turn to figure out why—are you holding on to anger, guilt, resentment, hope? Whatever it is, use this nudge from your subconscious to try to work through the breakup in your waking life.

Dreaming about seeing an ex can also indicate that you've recently met someone who reminds you of your ex (or reminds you of how you felt when your ex was around). On a simpler level, it could mean you're reflecting on the good times the two of you shared.

Seeing Your Ex With Someone Else in a Dream

Oof. This one can really hurt. In good news, this can indicate that you're coming to terms with the fact that things are really over between you and your ex and that life will go on for both of you. In not-so-good news, this can indicate that you're having a hard time letting things go and are still too focused on your ex. If you suspect this might be the case, try to take some time in your waking life to process the relationship and truly accept the breakup.

Dreaming About Getting Back Together With Your Ex

This one usually doesn't feel too good either, but don't worry—while this kind of dream might stem from real longing, it can just as easily be brought about by changes you're experiencing in your current relationship. Did you just get serious with a new partner? That's a major change, and your unconscious mind might just need a little time to process (albeit in a strange and frustrating way).

Marrying Your Ex in a Dream

Surprisingly enough, this is a very positive dream, as it suggests that you've come to terms with the relationship (including the breakup) and learned from your mistakes. This is especially pertinent if you are in a new relationship, as it is a signal that you know not to make those same mistakes again.

Dreams about sexing your ex aren't usually anything to be worried about. In fact, they're quite normal!
Dreams about sexing your ex aren't usually anything to be worried about. In fact, they're quite normal! | Source

Dreaming About Hooking Up With Your Ex

This kind of dream might indicate that you still have some lingering feelings for your ex or that you have some hesitation about getting into a new relationship or situation. Totally normal!

If you're already in a committed relationship, dreaming about having sex with your ex might indicate that your needs aren't being fully met by your current partner. But if you assess your relationship and find that you feel happy and satisfied, the dream was probably just a fluke.

Dreaming About Your Ex Apologizing to and Missing You

However real it might feel to hear "I'm so sorry," "I miss you," or "I wish we were back together," dreams about your ex missing you and wanting you back are more likely to reflect what you want and the possibilities that you wish the two of you had explored. Did things end poorly or before you felt ready to say goodbye?

As tempting as it is to entertain thoughts that maybe your ex really does want you back, your subconscious is urging you to do the opposite. Dreams like this may indicate that as hard as it is, you need to put any hopes you may have harbored about the two of you getting back together to bed for good (pun intended).

Dreaming About Your Ex Breaking Up With You Again

If this dream is coming in the wake of a recent breakup, this is just your subconscious's way of processing lingering trauma. Dreams like this are even more likely if you continue to find yourself thinking about your ex, about the breakup, about why things ended and whether they really had to. Thoughts from our waking lives seep into our dreams, so if you find yourself agonizing over every detail of the breakup while you're awake, rehashing it in your sleep is only natural.

If, however, you're dreaming that a long-ago ex is breaking up with you all over again, it may indicate that you're experiencing feelings of rejection in your waking life. Whether you got turned down for a job or found out your crush is dating someone else, feelings of rejection in your day-to-day life might lead to dreams that evoke those same feelings.

Spending Time With Your Ex's Family in a Dream

If you were close with your ex's family and spent a lot of time with them, dreaming about hanging out with them after you and your ex have split can mean that you miss the comfort of your old routine. These dreams should become rarer as time goes on and that relationship is no longer a constant in your life.

What Does It Mean When Someone Tells You They Love You in a Dream?

Dreaming about someone confessing their love for you can have many meanings. Read the list below and see which resonates with you.

  • Dreams about someone saying they love you may be an indication that you accept and love yourself for who you are—or a reminder that you should.
  • This kind of dream can also indicate that you're developing strong feelings for someone or trying to decide how you feel about a new partner. Maybe you're trying to figure out whether you love someone, or whether they love you!
  • If you aren't in a relationship, or you are in an unfulfilling one, dreams like this may be a way for your mind to compensate for what it feels like it's missing out on in your waking life. Consider this a spur to find satisfaction and fulfillment in your day-to-day life!
  • Dreams like this might be a kind of dress-rehearsal for how you want your love life to be. It's completely normal to fantasize about things like this in your waking life, so it shouldn't be too big of a surprise when they transfer to your dreams.

What If I Dream That I'm Telling Someone I Love Them?

Similar to the interpretations above, this is likely a sign that you want love in your life, and perhaps that you have already found it but have yet to openly acknowledge it.

Kissing dreams can be fun, but what on earth do they mean? Well, that depends . . .
Kissing dreams can be fun, but what on earth do they mean? Well, that depends . . . | Source

Dreams About Kissing Someone

Figuring out what it means to dream about kissing someone depends on a few factors, such as who you kissed and how you felt about it. Here are a few interpretations of different kissing scenarios in dreams.

  • Kissing Your Partner: This may be a sign that your relationship is lacking in the romance department. If this interpretation resonates with you, you might want to try talking to your partner about trying to renew the passion and desire in your relationship. Not to worry, though. Dreaming about kissing your partner could also simply mean everything is going smoothly and happily and that your relationship is harmonious.
  • Kissing Someone Else's Partner: First things first—don't panic and think that this makes you a bad person! Just because you dreamed about kissing someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend doesn't necessarily mean you actually want to be with that person. It could simply be a reflection of your desire for love and/or passion. However, if you tend to be a jealous person in your waking life, dreams like this could be an indicator that you are covetous of that person's relationship.
  • Kissing a Friend: Don't panic about this one either; dreaming about kissing a close friend could be nothing more than a reflection of how much you respect them and of the bond between you. If, on the other hand, you awake with feelings of desire for that friend, you may indeed be wishing they were more than just a friend!
  • Kissing a Stranger: If you had positive feelings during a dream like this, it may indicate a desire for love in your life. However, if this dream inspired negative feelings (e.g. you were kissing someone you did not want to kiss), it may be an indicator that you are easily taken advantage of or that someone in your day-to-day life is trying to get you to do something that you don't want to do.

Otherwise, kissing dreams may be a symbol of you mending fences with someone or a reconciliation coming about. It could also mean you are "kissing the past goodbye," so to speak. What time of day is it? If it is during the dark it may represent danger or an inappropriate situation. If it's sunny out it may represent good intentions and well-meaning.

For more information about all kinds of kissing dreams, check out this in-depth article about what it means to dream about kissing.

What Does It Mean When You Dream About Your Crush?

  • Current Crush: The most common interpretation of dreaming about a current crush is that it's a form of wish fulfillment. You want to be with this person in real life, and that carries over into your dreams. This may also reflect, however, that you don't think you're good enough for this person and are upset that you never will. If this is the case, it may be a good idea to spend a little time in your waking life trying to accept and love yourself. After all, you can't expect someone else to like (or love!) you when you don't like yourself
  • Past Crush: This one could go either way. If you have a positive dream about a past crush, it could indicate that you are excited about new experiences and opportunities in your current life, but if the dream leaves you feeling bad or anxious, it may be an indicator that you're afraid to go for what you want in life or that you're worried about falling back into old patterns.
  • A Crush on You: Go you! You're feeling confident and happy with yourself and you're excited about what's going on in your life.
  • Rejected by Your Crush: This may be a sign that you feel unworthy of being loved. If you suspect this might be the case, try taking a break from other people and focusing on yourself for a while. You are worthy of love, but step one is loving yourself.
  • Accepted by Your Crush: You are feeling optimistic and confident. This may be your subconscious's way of telling you to go for it and tell your crush how you feel.
  • Your Crush Dying: Luckily, the meanings of these dreams are far less drastic than you might fear. They're usually just indicators that your feelings for your crush are waning or, if they aren't, that it's time for you to move on!

Dreaming of white dresses and wedding vows? This can have meanings that have nothing to do with marriage.
Dreaming of white dresses and wedding vows? This can have meanings that have nothing to do with marriage. | Source

Dreams About Getting Married

Naturally, if you are planning a wedding, will soon be attending a wedding, or recently got married, these dreams are likely to be a simple reflection of your day-to-day life. But these kinds of dreams can also have meanings that have nothing to do with weddings. Here are a few examples of marriage-related dream symbols and their interpretations.

  • Being a Bride: To dream of a bride, whether it's yourself or someone else, could mean you are coming into an inheritance.
  • Being a Bridesmaid or Groomsman: If you dream of being a member of the wedding party, it could be a sign that though you may not have found love yet, it's just around the corner!
  • Going to a Wedding: Attending a wedding in a dream can indicate a big transition in your waking life. You may be excited or anxious about this change—how you feel in the dream should help you figure out which it is!
  • A Bride Being Kissed: This can signal a joyous get-together between family and friends in the near future.
  • Eloping: This may mean that you are trying to run away from unfavorable events that will occur (or already are occurring) in your life. It could also indicate that you aren't ready for a big change happening in your life (whether it's a positive or not-so-positive one).
  • Your Partner Eloping With Someone Else: Watch out! You may soon learn about your partner being unfaithful. Alternatively, this could mean you have insecurities or questions about your relationship.
  • A Marriage License: You may be seeking legitimacy in your current relationship, whether it be in the eyes of your partner, your friends and family, or the law. Alternately, a dream like this may indicate that you will soon make a bad alliance that ends in you being hurt or humiliated.
  • A Veil: If you are walking around with a veil over your face it may not be just because of an upcoming marriage. It may mean that you are refusing to tackle a problem head-on, that you have secrets to keep, or that you are very shy.

Dreams About Sex and Hooking Up

What Does It Mean When I Dream About Sex?

This may mean you are missing aspects of the person you are having sex with and you want to incorporate them into your own character. It also may just be your desire's way of telling you that it's been a long time since you've had sex. If you are trying to find a place to get it on, then the dream may represent your search for a certain intimacy and closeness that you can't find.

Here are a couple of other scenarios you may have dreamt about.

  • Sex With a Celeb: Are you having sex with a well-known public figure? This could indicate your drive to be successful. What does this celebrity represent to you? For instance (and contrary to what you might think!), having sex with Angelina Jolie may mean you want to help other people and that you have the drive to do it.
  • Same-Sex Sex: If you are heterosexual and you dream that you are having sex with someone of the same sex, don't spend all day fretting about it. This alone isn't a reason to start questioning your sexuality. It may just be an expression of being more comfortable with yourself and letting others know that you are not affected by them. Good for you!

What If I Dream About Taking a Lover?

A lover appearing in your dream shows your recognition of your self-worth and your true value. It may also indicate the integration of both your masculine and feminine traits, meaning you are feeling complete or whole.

You may also dream of your 'dream person' which may indicate that your relationship is not satisfactory to you or it is unfulfilling. If you find yourself dreaming about steamy, 'perfect' lovers frequently, it may be time for you to reassess your relationship or what you look for in a person (and whether that ideal truly exists).

Cheating dreams aren't always a bad thing . . .
Cheating dreams aren't always a bad thing . . . | Source

Dreams About Cheating or Being Cheated On

Strange as it may seem, these dreams can actually have a positive effect on your love life! They can reveal your hidden sexual urges and desires, thus bringing your passion to life and encouraging you to explore new areas of your sexuality! But dreams about cheating can have other meanings as well . . .

Dreams About Cheating

Are you dreaming of cheating on something or someone? This may mean you have compromised your beliefs or integrity and/or are not making the most of your time and your energy (or that you're putting it towards bad decisions and activities).

Dreams About Adultery

This can be a warning from your subconscious about future disloyalty. You may soon find yourself (or already be finding yourself) in a shady or disloyal situation. Spoiler alert—it probably won't end well.

If your partner is cheating on you, it may be showing you your insecurities and your fear of being dumped. It may be symbolic of your feelings of your partner being less attentive and 'there' in the relationship. It may also be your guilt coming out and showing you that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others.

Are you dreaming about sleeping with your spouse's friend? This doesn't necessarily mean you want to cheat with them. It may just mean that you are feeling neglected by your spouse.

Dreams About Pregnancy

Below is a brief interpretation of several common pregnancy-related dream themes.

Baby: An obvious interpretation could be an impending birth, but not necessarily of a child! Dreaming about a baby may mean that an idea or thought is growing in your mind and is nearly ready to be born. It can also bring to your attention a dependent behavior or need. If the baby is alone, it can represent your independence.

Breasts: Dreams about breasts can represent becoming a mother or the need for nurturing. If you are running around naked, however, it could mean a fear of exposure.

Pregnancy: This kind of dream can indicate a desire for a child—but I dream of this a lot and I don't want children! It could also just mean something new beginning or coming into your life—maybe an idea or thought that is getting ready to come out. This kind of dream could also be your subconscious's way of telling you you're pregnant if you don't already know.

Part of learning to interpret your dreams is learning more about yourself.
Part of learning to interpret your dreams is learning more about yourself. | Source

Challenge Yourself to Start a Dream Journal

If you really want to understand your dreams, then you need to be able to interpret them for yourself. No one else has the insight into your life, your dream symbols, and your fears, worries, and thoughts that you do—so you are the only one who can really understand your dreams. Take a 30-day dream journal challenge and see how good you can become at interpreting your own dreams.

Dream Journaling Is a Key Step on the Path to Lucid Dreaming

I've been studying my dreams since I was young, and I've gotten pretty good at lucid dreaming, meaning I can 'wake' myself up in a dream and tell myself that it's a dream and then do what I want—fly, see an old friend, or ask an important question. It's a huge part of my excitement for going to sleep at night!

Every morning, I remember my dreams and try to figure out if they meant something important, or if they were just random and fun little 'movies' for the night.

We've all heard of great stories like the one about Albert Einstein's theory of relativity being inspired by a dream . . . that's how powerful dreams really are! You just need to know how to interpret the symbols in your dreams to understand what they mean for you.

Meditation Can Help You Interpret Your Dreams

Meditation is simply about being in a relaxed state. In short, you calm your mind (usually into an alpha state) during meditation, just as you do before you go to bed or when you daydream or when you are really relaxed sitting in front of the ocean (or wherever else your mind naturally calms down). Meditation has so many benefits for your health, but we are talking about dreams here—right?

How Does Meditation Help You Interpret Your Own Dreams?

Meditation gives you more self-awareness and allows you to find answers that you cannot find when your mind is buzzing and bouncing from one thought to the next.

If you meditate on your dreams in the morning instead of instantly jumping out of bed to get ready for your day, you will have a much easier time remembering and interpreting your dreams.

Moreover, if you meditate before bed, you can focus your attention on things you want to dream about or find answers to—and you will have an easier time influencing your dreams.

Dreams have the power to give you answers, help you sort through issues, and give you insight into your future, and meditation has the power to connect you to your dreams and help you understand them.

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If You Are Interested In Dreams, This Is a Must-Read

Why We Dream: The Transformative Power of Our Nightly Journey
Why We Dream: The Transformative Power of Our Nightly Journey

After you read this book, you will have a better understanding of how powerful your dreams are for your life. You will find a new respect for your dreams and your dream life.

 

Remember, You Are the Only One Who Can Really Interpret Your Love Dreams

Remember that whatever resonates as the truth with you is what your dream probably means.

I get a lot of people asking me what their love dreams mean, but, as we discussed, certain symbols mean different things to different people. For instance, darkness for me is calming, whereas it might be depressing or scary to you.

I can give you my interpretation of your dream and even let my tarot cards guide you towards a theme or situation, but I don't know all the details of YOU and your life, which is important for interpreting dreams. Somewhere inside, you know exactly what your dream meant—you are the one who had it! So at the end of the day, you need to learn how to interpret them yourself.

We are all built with an inner guidance system. Meditation is a great tool to help you get access to that inner guidance system. The information is in you, in your cells, waiting for you to find it—so start looking inward instead of outward.

Happy dreaming!

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Questions & Answers

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Ask a question about your dream below: (NOTE: It may take me a few days to answer, so check back in a few days at the top of the comment section for an answer.)

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      Jas 

      6 hours ago

      I dreamed of this one boy who looked familiar but I couldn’t recognize him fully. Throught my dream I had peaked an interest on him. Near the end of my dream, I remember thinking of my current boyfriend, until I brought my attention back to this other boy. There was lots of familiar faces of friends and stuff, but I only wanted to be with him. I was happy and my cousin was taking pictures of just him and I smiling.

      What does this mean, because I woke up happy from my dream, but I have a boyfriend?

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      Kari 

      6 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Hoola - Just because you are not thinking about him doesn't mean that he's not still in your brain.

      I would assume that something is happening that reminds you of him or makes you think of him - even if you are not consciously aware of it.

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      Hoolahoop 

      7 days ago

      I dreamt of someone in the past that I liked even though I am not thinking about him. What is the meaning of that?

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      Kari 

      9 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Kolby - I don't have kids and I'm not planning to have kids, but the other night I dreamt that I really wanted a baby and then I dreamt that I gave birth. For me, it was a combination of watching and thinking about a vlogger who has recently given birth and wanting something new to come into my life.

      For you, it may be something similar, or it may be that you are thinking a baby keep you on instead of off (which it probably wouldn't) or that you and him are meant to be (which doesn't mean that it's true). It's a reflection of your thoughts and feelings and experiences, so think about how you feel, what you've experienced, etc, and you will be able to interpret your own dream.

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      Kari 

      9 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Charlie - There are so many different reasons that this dream could have come to you. I would need more context. Do you like the girl that this person looked like? Do you like the characteristics of her?

      If I were to guess, I would say that there are some things you like in this girl in real life, but you are looking for something more - just slightly differently.

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      Kolbymals 

      9 days ago

      I dreamed of me standing up and I had a baby bump. I was also looking up to the guy that I have been recently with on and off and he was smiling at me because of the bump.... as if it made us both happy. I don’t know what this means

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      Charlie McCaul 

      10 days ago

      Hi I have recently had a dream of a person I doent know but it looks like someone I do. We met quickly and instantly loved each over and I woke up wanting to be with her

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      Kari 

      2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Nicole - Are you feeling judged? By family, friends, church friends, or other people? Or are you worried people might judge you? That's what it sounds like to me.

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      Nicole 

      2 weeks ago

      I dreamth my boyfriend and i was walking into our church and everyone was watching us. But we walked in from the back and everyone chairs wad turned toward us and the pastor was preaching.

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      Kari 

      2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Acofdj - It's your dream, so it reflects your thoughts and wishes. I'm assuming you like this guy and have thought about being with him for a long time, maybe even getting married? The fact that he says it's up to you means that you may be debating it and haven't made up your mind yet.

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      Kari 

      2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @BigBrownie - You start off by saying that the guy you were talking to has left you. Was that in real life? If so, then you are simply dreaming about the fact that there are more fish in the sea and you should move on because some of those fish are awesome and will take you to the top of mountains - so to speak - where your ex could never take you.

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      Kari 

      2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Janice - Because you talk about yourself being a mess and having no makeup, it makes me wonder if you don't feel worthy of receiving love the way you are.

      He seems to love you, but then leaves you for someone else and you are focused on how you can't get ready and have no makeup and are a mess. That focus seems to be the driver behind the dream.

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      Acofdj 

      2 weeks ago

      I had a dream of the guy I am talking to we have been talking to each other for about 2 months and some days the thing is he is far. In my dream we are talking and he tells me " I hopes that in the futre we can get married... But its up to you how you feel about it" What does it mean?

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      BigBrownie19 

      2 weeks ago

      I dreamt I was talking on the phone to a guy I was seeing but he’s now left me.

      He was saying he couldn’t wait to see me missed me etc but as much as I was feeling the same, I couldn’t wait to get off the phone.

      While I was talking to him I looked at this guy standing next to me completely naked and all I was thinking was how huge his manhood was and couldn’t stop staring at it,

      The conversation on the phone ended and while I was still feeling that guilt,this man took my hand and we ran on top of this mountain.

      We stood next to each other looking out into this valley and I’m thinking wow this view is amazing.

      Then I woke.

      I had another two dreams after on different nights but close together.

      I can’t help feeling this was a sign he was breaking up with me and I didn’t know.

      I’m still heartbroken and looking for answers

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      Janice gruver 

      2 weeks ago

      I had a dream that has me on a emotional rollercoaster this morning. Lol. I dreamed i and some of my family go to a wedding and its a black guy and a white girls wedding but the guy im in love with but have never said so and vice versa. Somehow i just know his friends have told him they see the feelings between us. Im a mess in a beautiful dress but no makeup yet and upset now bout the wedding. He comes to talk to me and kisses me to see if its true that im inlove with him. I felt so much love in that kiss!!! And i know he did then he gets up and goes to find her and i guess go to their wedding. Im all upset not knowing if hes decided to marry her. I csnt find my family so i csn get ready . I realize left my purse in the car so no makeup. Lol i cant find any of my family and everyone is heading to the wedding. All im feeling is scared hes not coming back and how can i stop him i dont even have myself ready. Ughhhhh then i wake up.

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      Olivia pappas 

      2 weeks ago

      I dream that im looking for my ex boyfriend whom ive been talking to agian but in my dream everyone and everthing is slowing me down i wake up frustrated

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      jen 

      2 weeks ago

      i dream of my best friend that were on cinema and he start to embrace me and something happen in the cinema then i told him that i will go home and rest first then i came back and told him that come home with me and were walking embracing each other while walking like we love each other

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      Kari 

      3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Arnold - It could mean that you are doubting yourself for this girl. It could mean that you are comparing yourself to her ex (boyfriend or husband?) and you don't stack up in your mind. It's most likely a symbol of self-doubt, that's all.

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      Kari 

      3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @oli - It could be a sign that you are meant to be together or at least should give it a go. But it could also just be a sign that you are connected to her on a deeper level and you are glad she is in your life to help you through times of need. If you don't view her in a sexual or girlfriend type of way, then it's probably the latter.

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      Arnold 

      3 weeks ago

      I had a dream last night that me my crush, couple of friends and family were at a party. In the party the ex boyfriend/husband was there which he is my friend too, then the ex took out a ring an propose to her. My crush was really happy fill of joy and I just couldn’t believe it, I was really sad then I woke up. What does that mean??

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      Oli 

      3 weeks ago

      Morning Kari,

      I dreamt that me and this girl had just survived a near death experience and after we looked at each other, touched hands and smiled and i felt this deep elation. Now, what I currently have on my mind is that I am currently talking to this girl after 2-3 months of not talking. Ive never really viewed in a sexual and girlfriend light. The timing of this dream and how it appears after re-engaging a conversation with this girl. Am I to assume that I just go for it with this girl or does my dream mean something else.

      Any help would be greatly appreciated bud.

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      Kari 

      3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Tahnya - It could mean that your husband isn't willing to give you what you need so he's telling you to go elsewhere because he's not going to give it.

      It could just mean that you feel your husband does not love you as much you deserve, which could be a relationship thing or a self-esteem thing.

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      Kari 

      3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Barbara - It could be a warning. Are you getting involved in something that is dangerous? Are you putting yourself at risk in some way? Would someone who loves you not want you to do something that you are doing or planning on doing?

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      Kari 

      3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Nthabi - Sounds like your ex is trying to rebuild his life and you are aware of it. Maybe he's rebuilding it with other women?

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      Kari 

      3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Sammy - It likely has to do with the way you feel about your dad. Maybe something happened recently that caused you to feel like your dad is judging you, or maybe you are thinking about something that you think your dad will judge you on if you share it with him.

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      Tahnya 

      3 weeks ago

      Good day

      What does it mean, if you dream about a man who picks you up and takes you home, and there your husband takes your suitcases, pram and car chair and packs it in the mans car?

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      Barbara 

      3 weeks ago

      I keep having recuring dreams of my desease ex, he passed away over 8 years ago but now for the past month or so he has been entering in my dreams, the last dream was just the other night when he told me he loves me and does not want anything to happen to me. What does this mean?

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      Nthabi 

      3 weeks ago

      My ex family house was destroyed it was only left with few rooms and it seems he's was trying to clean with his friend wife and this other gal

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      Sammystevens25 

      3 weeks ago

      I had dream of keeping secret from my dad about my boyfriend in dream I tell him he judge me in the dream

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      Kari 

      4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Ngelbee - It could mean that you think your sisters are controlling your life or making decisions for you that you should be making. It could also mean that they may have more experience and are able to spot a good thing (and a bad thing) when they see it, and you should trust their instincts.

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      Ngelbee 

      4 weeks ago

      What is the meaning of seeing my sisters choosing one of my boyfriends for marriage(to marry me) they were saying he is best for me

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      Kari 

      4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Cm - Yep, I think your dream is telling you that it's all good and you should go for it. You seem to believe on some level that things have a good chance of working out. :)

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      Cm 

      4 weeks ago

      I had a dream of my mutual crush calling me his gf.. we had discussed it in real life a couple of days and we both want to take it further but never actually confirmed it as it will both be our first relationship in years.. but are both confident in being together is this my dream telling me to go for it ?

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      Kari 

      4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @DawnZ - So do you like this man? If so, then that's the reason for your dream. It's a hope that he's not married and something could progress between you and him.

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      DawnZ 

      4 weeks ago

      I dream of a man that I believe to be married in real life but honestly am unsure if he is or not. It was a dream that he and I finally spoke and ended up kissing and start having a normal every day relastionship.

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      Kari 

      4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Angie - It could be for a million reasons. It depends on what is going on in your life. I don't understand your last sentence, so I'm not sure how that fits in. But, because you've known him for so long, it makes sense that he would be a symbol in your dream. You just need to figure out what kind of symbol by thinking about what's been happening and what you are thinking about/worried about/doing.

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      Kari 

      4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @ScraM - I would assume that because you just lost your grandfather, you are worried about losing your husband. You were wearing the same dress, which associates the dream with the funeral in some way, and because you are walking through beauty and then hard-to-walk-through-paths, it seems like you are just contemplating how things are easy and beautiful in life and then struggle comes along - and it's a never-ending circle. Which it is! We are all going to face struggle and rough times in our lives.

      So, you reassure yourself that he is sticking around (his confession of love to you), and your relationship with him is full of love, and then you get on with life.

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      Kari 

      4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @lostloise - He's trying to tell you he's not interested in you at all and, if you are still putting the moves on him in any way, stop. He doesn't want to date you. He feels like you have not given up on the notion of being together so he needs to be more forceful in his words.

      If you are fighting, I'm willing to bet you are still sending out signals of wanting to be together (whether you know it or not) and that's making him uncomfortable.

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      Angie Feregrino 

      4 weeks ago

      so I had a dream about a guy who was holding my hand in school every time. and in the dream, I kept on asking why were we holding hands but he wouldn't tell me. in real life I have known him since kinder and I did crush on him for a month but didn't like him anymore. now I like my best friend she is quite a party pooper.

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      ScraM 

      4 weeks ago

      Hello :)

      I hope you can assist, as this was so vivid to me

      I dream't my husband was getting married to someone else, so walking out (i was dressed in a black dress I had on at my grandfathers funeral) in the most beautiful Italian stone setting in the rain - then through mud and bushes and then i was in the stone setting again ( like I was walking in a circle) I looked up and told my husband that he humiliated me so much, he told me that he loved me and did the whole love confession thingy. We ended up walking right into other friends wedding reception together (they are already married and a pastor)

      I have just lost my grandfather - just as a side note.

      I have no idea what this means although If i take each part it separately it makes no sense.

      Hope you can assist please.

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      lostloise 

      4 weeks ago

      hey, i have a friend (a very close one) who i confessed to before. but he rejected me, saying he is flattered but he sees me as a friend and that was cool. and our friendship got along fine after that. though there was some minor tension after, he remained really sweet and thoughtful. we never fight before. like EVER. and after i confesed to him, we started to fight, a lot and recently, he dreamt of us fighting, and he ended up beating me because he said in his dreams i was doing sexual advances on him. can you please interpret this dream?

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      Kari 

      4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Bernie - Regret possibly?

      The second dream sounds like you felt as though he wanted you to come with him, but for some reason, you didn't want to. Could that parallel your life with him? Did he want something you didn't want and that's why the divorce came about?

      And the first dream could be the vision of what could have been with him. A life where you have the nice home, moving on to bigger and better things, the family dog, and nice neighborhood?

      My instinct tells me it's about regret or what could have been. Maybe not on a deep level, but on a level where you wonder about it sometimes and ponder another path your life could have been on.

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      Bernie Rodriquez 

      4 weeks ago

      This makes my 2nd dream of my first love we married at 18 had 2 boys divorced in 7 years. I’m now 66 yrs old he is deceased was remarried I Dream we lived in a nice big home we were young and happy he drove up in the attached garage I met him in the kitchen showed him a letter was on the counter the house was being either sold or rented to our surprise. There was a dog in the house I was afraid of but protected me and loved me. We had neighbors in the house when he got home they had a few children then I woke up.

      The other dream I had about him we were young and happy he told me to go with him I said I can’t then I woke up.

      Tell me why do I keep dreaming of him when we were young and happy with no kids?

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      Kari 

      4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Kailey - Sounds like insecurity to me. It could mean that you think he would be more attracted to character traits that your friend has, or even her physical appearance.

      You may also just feel like he won't like you in the same way you like him, so you are reflecting a situation in your dream where he sees you as a friend and others as more than a friend.

      Unless he's told you outright that he just wants to be friends and doesn't like you that way, then it's just your insecurity playing out in your dream.

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      Kari 

      4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Janey - Daddy in heat? I'm not sure what that means. But, if you find it inappropriate on some level or feel that it's just wrong to call him daddy, then that may absolutely play a part in dreaming about an inappropriate relationship with him.

      It could also mean that you really love your dad and are jealous of him having girlfriends. Maybe they take time away from you or you just feel neglected in some way.

      And, of course, it could mean exactly what you think it means. I would suggest you always go with what feels right to you because you know yourself best. So, maybe you've seen signs of jealousy in past girlfriends, and your dream was about your bond and that jealousy.

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      kailey 

      4 weeks ago

      hi id really appreciate it if you could interperet this for me. so i have a friend she went to my elementary school. and i have a friend he goes to my current school. Those two friends never met. and i have a minor crush on the guy in real life but dream about him like i have a big crush on him. Keep in mind these two friends dont know each other exist but i had a dream he liked my other friend and im very confused on what this means please tell me kari

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      janey 

      4 weeks ago

      Hey there! just woke up from a strange dream. I am trying to interpret it myself, but may need your expert help, Kari!

      In my dream, my crush was my father. He was still himself, and we were both still our same age. We were still in our most frequent setting, in the forest, which is where we met. The dream had little to do with my father, despite knowing that my crush was my dad in my dream, and that he had a girlfriend who was also our age, who was my mother(!?) and who really resented me for being a mom at such a young age I guess. I met her in the dream. I'm not sure if he has a girlfriend in real life, but we live far away so it's possible.

      To me, this dream means like... he is family? Maybe we do not have a romantic bond, but still a very connecting love? and perhaps his next girlfriend will be jealous of the bond? I'm not sure.

      Also... for reference... I sometimes call him "daddy" in heat (his idea), so I'm sure that factors in somehow.

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      Kari 

      5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Connie - I'm not understanding if he had an affair in real life... how you felt about him before he passed away. That could have a lot to do with the dream.

      If you didn't get to tell him how you felt, or you still just want to tell him, then that's a plausible reason for the dream. Since he can't say anything to you at this point because he is deceased, it would make sense he remains silent in the dream.

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      Kari 

      5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Muriel - The silent fight sounds about right. You are fighting for his attention, without actually fighting each other. I'm sure she knows that something is going on, so she's probably doing her best to bring him back to her.

      It seems like you think he is going to stay with you, despite his wife being upset. Maybe you even think you are going to win him by the way she says I hope you will be happy.

      Your dry mouth may be because you are nervous or fearful of what is going to happen.

      Sounds like he has it made.

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      Connie 

      5 weeks ago

      I dreamt my deceased ex husband came into my bedroom and got in my bed like we were still married. I was in the bed and he came over to me so close that I could feel him, so I got up. I told him that I didn't want him anymore, or the marriage and made him get out of the bed. Then I noticed that he had bought some of his things (bible books and cups) in my room and put them on my dresser table. I knocked them over and as he came over to get them, I hit him in the back--3 times. I was angry that he felt he could come back to me regardless of having an affair. Yet, he remained quiet, calm and sad, so he walked back to the bed and got in---just looking at me like he was hurt by what I did. So I told him again that I didn't want the marriage and there was nothing, no house-no money-no kids-that would make me change my mind. After saying that, we just looked at each other. Then I woke up.

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      Muriel 

      6 weeks ago

      Im having a relationship with a married man. Known his wife good. I had a dream in the morning that he took my family to his house. Nd I was also their he left and come back with his wife I was at da back yard and he pass me going somewhere. As I did not know about the wife being around she saw me. And come to da back where I was sleeping on a mattress. She lie next to me nd start pulling my hair but we were so quiet. We started to fight but know one knew we were fighting. We left each other but we throwing stones at each other nd it happen I throw her on her shoulder. I try and call her husband but failed and send a message to him. He come running and she speed of with his white venture. He let her go. After he was playing with the kids. I call him and he cum to me and said he does not want to fight cos he is happy. I wen to their bath he followed and his phone ring nd it was the wife crying but she was talking tswana I couldn't understand. But she dropped the phone saying hope you will be happy with your marriage. He comes out of their bedroom with a man i'dnt know. As he was toking to the men my mouth were so dry I've drink water it did not help it remained dry my 2 uncle entered the room and ask me if I'm ready he will be back in 10 minutes. I woke up

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      Kari 

      6 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Kaden - Is your mother not how you want her to be? Sounds like you were dreaming of a mother that aligned with your needs and wants, which is likely something you want.

      You could also be dreaming about someone you know spiritually - someone who you are connected to and makes you feel protected. However, it's more likely that you are fulfilling your need for a loving, supportive, and connected mother figure.

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      Kari 

      6 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Coolsteffi - Are you worried about your relationship? Is there problems? Are you feeling disconnected? That's what I assume is causing the dream.

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      Kari 

      6 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Verna - Punctuation really helps people understand your writing better.

      I would assume that you feel protected by him... as if he's a good provider and he will provide for you.

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      Kari 

      6 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Italy - Sounds like something may have happened during Christmas break that was upsetting. Just because it was in that time frame.

      Otherwise, it sounds like you are unsure of your relationship right now. The whole dream was focused on relationships and how they are not working out, people are not doing well, and people are stepping out on you, so it seems like you may have some concern over a relationship you are in and can't pinpoint whether it's anger towards them, fear of them being sick or hurt, or fear of them hurting you.

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      kaden 

      6 weeks ago

      i had a dream where i had a different mother and she was the perfect mother, everything in my mind was pleased. i felt like i could let go and didn't have to look behind me anymore. before waking up i felt like never wanting to leave her. It was like i found someone who could relate to everything in my mind, and i knew what she thought with out even looking at her. her presence was the happiest thing i have ever felt. all i felt was happiness.

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      Coolsteffi 

      6 weeks ago

      I had this dream a couple off nights ago. About a friend who is a woman came and knocked on our front door and ask for my partner went and got him he said we going out did not ask if I wanted to go, try texting and phoning him but he would not answer what it mean

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      Verna fields 

      6 weeks ago

      My boyfriend had a dream about us he said he was a billionaire and he drove up to my job with rose royce and he said to me do you trust me and love me i said i do tust and love you so he said i have 100 hundred million dollars for you to put it in your account now go tell your boss you quit your job i went and told her then we went to p.n.c bank he said you don't have to worry about money again u can take the money 100 hundred million and walk away or stay i choose to stay and he said you can buy anything you dont have to asked me and this is separate fom the money in your account u don't have to touch that then he said you don't have to worry about money again that was the end of the dream

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      Italy De La Cruz 

      6 weeks ago

      Three days ago, I dreamt of my boyfriend. I was in middle- school all over again, and it was like Christmas break, and I didn't have any way to contact my boyfriend. Finally, it was that day; Monday. When I entered, I saw him with long, like shoulder-length long hair, and in my dream I kept on thinking of the way he looked like before. He and I weren't on good terms, which made me feel bad. He was different, he wasn't christian, he ignored me, he didn't love me. Then it was lunch. I threw my food tray at him. I'm not sure if I did it on purpose or not. He looked mad, like a, 'I'm going to kill you, and cook you for dinner' kind of mad. He left, and I cried for him to return. A friend from another middle-school I attended before that one sat next to me, and told me that he dosen't deserve me. She looked sick, she had red scars everywhere. Then I out of nowhere go to the future. My boyfriend was with another girl that is a friend of mine, and I saw them flirting. Then they kissed, and I started crying. I tried asking him to forgive me, but I kept on hesitating. I spent an eternity watching them flirt, have their first date, get married, have kids, get old, and I never stopped crying. Please help me find out what it means, I can't get my mind off of it, thanks for reading!

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      Kari 

      7 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Sophia - Yes, I understood what you meant about your dream. My interpretation of your dream stands. Don't take your dreams so literal. You may want to go to where your Grandpa and cousin are, but the fact is that you have never met him so he's likely just a symbol for your current life that you are experiencing.

      If what you are trying to say is that you've seen pictures of him and are attracted to him, then your dream may be because of your attraction towards his looks.

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      Kari 

      7 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Sophia - You've never met your cousin, so I doubt you have feelings for him of any kind yet. Your cousin is likely just a symbol of someone or something you are falling in love with or want to fall in love with.

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      Sophia 

      7 weeks ago

      Ummm..I'm just gonna correct my comment before this.

      Last night I had a dream that me and my family went to my grandpa's place for a vacation and I meet my cousin(boy) who I've never met before because they live in other country, and then after a few days me and my cousin fell in love with each other.

      In real life I really have a grandpa who live in other country and I really have a cousin that I've never met before and my grandpa and my cousin in my dream are really my real grandpa and cousin and the place where my dream happen is where my grandpa really lives and in real life I really wanted to go to my grandpa's place. So please help me interpret this because I'm really confused. Thank you:-)

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      Sophia 

      7 weeks ago

      Last night I had a dream that me and my family went to my grandpa's place for a vacation and I meet my cousin(boy) who I've never met before(my cousin lives with my grandpa), then after some few days me and my cousin fell in love with each other.

      But he is my cousin so why would I fell in love with him?

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      Kari 

      8 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @TaJaya - You keep dreaming about her because you loved her and miss her a lot. She's on your mind. What you think about in your waking life, the issues you have in your waking life, and problems that you want to solve are all going to be in your dreams where you can play around with fantasies, scenarios, and solutions.

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      Kari 

      8 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Sophia - It could just be a reflection of something you saw in your waking life. Maybe on a TV show where a girl was trying to find her boyfriend? Or on a show where music is used to bring two people together? Or maybe your friend is struggling with her boyfriend?

      Since you don't have a boyfriend, it just sounds like a dream reflecting something you've seen or thought about.

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      Kari 

      8 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Uknolwn teen girl - Your dream tells me that you probably really like him and he's forefront on your mind right now. You can't know his feelings unless he tells you. Your dream gives you an indication of how you think he feels, which is that he likes you. If you thought he didn't like you, then he would likely be more distant or unreachable in your dreams.

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      TaJaya 

      2 months ago

      I keep dreaming about my ex which who I really love and care about alot,it comes out of know where i mean yes our relationship wasnt that good but i loved her and i really do miss her alot.

      Why do i keep dreaming about her?

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      Sophia 

      2 months ago

      Last night I had a dream that I'm in a place with my friend where there is like a festival and I'm finding my boyfriend because we had a little argument before and then I saw someone I know and she helped me to find my boyfriend before he go away with his mom and my friend said that what if I play the song that me and my boyfriend made, and I get my phone and played the song loudly so my boyfriend could here it but when the song played like 5sec. I suddenly woke up and I didn't finished my dream. But I don't really have a boyfriend in real life, so if you please may help me interpret this. Thank you:-)

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      Unknown - teen girl 

      2 months ago

      Basically so idk where to start um I'm nice, cute?, outgoing, honest, sometimes sad, loyal, respectful, responsible and I love helping making people happy, well I have lots of qualities to my personality. I've had some ups and downs like everyone does. So, I talked to a boy on the phone and so before I went to sleep I ended so my phone can charge. I had some hours of sleep but at some point my eyes were still closed they weren't open so I saw him without him actually being here I'm not so sure why or how this happened and I'm not so sure if I like him. At one point I woke up for a little trying to figure out why, then I fell back asleep and all the sudden he started kissing me. So if u please may help me interpret this I'd gladly like that. What are my feelings? What is he feeling? Thank you so much and I hope you have a great day your fantastic at this and keep doing what you love please achieve all of your dreams( I'm meaning like if you want to be an actress or something) go after your dreams!! Good morning thank you for reading this on your time I appreciate it!! :) thank you Happy Holidays!

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      Kari 

      2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Sarah - It may represent that you think he's irresponsible - or that your dad thinks he's irresponsible. Nine kids as a single guy is pretty irresponsible.

      Or, it could be that your dad is questioning something you are choosing to do, and you feel like he doesn't feel as if you can handle it... possibly work or a change in something you do.

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      Kari 

      2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Amy - You won't know if your dream is prophetic until you meet him. But, I think you are most likely dreaming about him. Maybe you think he's perfect for you - hence the last guy - or maybe you hope. But, you've never even seen him in two years? That's kind of weird, no? Your dream could mean that he's not for you and someone else is. It could be a warning for you.

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      Sarah 

      2 months ago

      I dreamt that my ex came in to this room where my dad was also there. He came in with his arms open, and he says I am back, but I have nine kids now. My dad says to me, how are you gonna take care of nine kids now? And then he says, two of the kids are grown, and four are gone, so I really have three.

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      Amy 

      2 months ago

      I had a dream the guy I have been talking with sent me a text message on skype that the last guy I will be with is a Cherokee indian name Branon from Brannon. It felt like he was trying to reveal to me who he really is.

      We have been communicating for over 2 years and never met. He has told me he is mixed with Cherokee indian but his name is not Brandon. Just wonder if my dream is prophetic?

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      Suzan Akiteng 

      2 months ago

      Amazing

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      Kari 

      2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Rita - Is it possible you are feeling guilty about something? If not, then maybe you feel like your boyfriend is suspicious or nosy.

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      Rita 

      2 months ago

      I have a dream where my boyfriend came to my house with another girl and tells me that he knows how many people i call in a day that he has found out alot about me and my family.

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      Kari 

      2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Tamara - "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time." - Maya Angelou

      If he is saying hurtful things to you and tells you that he means what he's saying, then believe him. Nobody who truly loves you will do hurtful things to you or say hurtful things to you.

      As far as the dream, it sounds like you already know that you deserve something better. You are dreaming of real love with someone who makes you feel good/safe/happy when you are with him. A man who truly loves you.

      So why stay with someone who doesn't make you feel peaceful, loved, and good? Especially when you know there is someone out there who can make you feel like the guy in your dream?

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      Tamaral25 

      2 months ago

      I just came across your article. A lot of information that brought on some clarity. I’ve been in a relationship for 4 years. We have had a rough 3 years and have been on an off separated by distance. We met at a wedding while I was in the midst of my divorce. Lately things have been really rough for him and his is going through depression and trying to find a job he enjoys and keeps saying he doesn’t find enjoyment out of life anymore. It’s been really stressful lately. Between him, stress with my family, work, commuting an dlife in general I am stretched pretty thin at times. My boyfriend of 4 years, whom I love like no one else I’ve loved before, has been stressing me out. I am always afraid to loose him, but lately I feel like the love is one sided even though I know it’s not the case. I know he is going through a lot, but at times I do wonder if he feels the same. He has been doing and saying hurtful things because of the way his life has gone. He tells me he means what he says, but he doesn’t mean to say them. I feel like he is pushing me away at times and I’m getting whiplash im the sense of his moods when we get along and he loves to when we don’t and he doesn’t want anything to do with me, but still wants me in his life. I had one of the worst sleeps of my life last night. A lot of different dreams that felt all connected. Like different points in the same lifetime. There is this one person strong and tall with hard hair, fairish skin and eyes that just pull you in make everything else fade. It seems like we are around a school with a little bit of a hospital feel, but a school no less. I’m this dream we fall in love and it’s a deep passionate one. Something that takes root inside of you. I can’t quite describe the intense feeling, but this man he loves me. Right before I wake and I find him again, we run towards each other and he picks me up and gives me a kiss I can still feel. I’ve been rolling it around in my head today. Not sure what it really means, but it sounds like a love out of a fairy tale. Would you be able to shed some light on it or direct me to how I can figure out what it means. The feelings this dream left me were I intense. Could you help me determine what this all means or point me in the right direction? I would meditate to see where it leads, but I don’t know the first thing about how to meditate.

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      Kari 

      2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Majed - Sounds like a nice dream. Sounds like a lot of elements that may be part of your life - your friend, learning, film room, movie, snapchat - so you may have been combining different things that have happened lately into one dream.

      Have you seen a girl with dark black hair lately? That could be the cause of dreaming about her. Is there a girl who is interested in you but acting aloof, that could be the cause of the dream. It's important to take a look at your own life and what's happening (including what you are feeling) to help you interpret your dream.

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      Kari 

      2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Baylee - Sounds like it's your subconscious assuring you that everything is going to be ok. Of course, it could be someone who's able to reach you in the dream state telling you that love is coming around the corner, but it's more likely your subconscious, which could have insight that you are not consciously aware of yet.

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      Anne Randall 

      2 months ago

      thank you! that was very helpful.

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      Baylee 

      2 months ago

      I had a dream last night and it was dark and I heard a voice say you will fall in love, and be loved soon. What could that mean?!

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      Kari 

      2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Anne - I think you are saying that you are dreaming about random boys and each boy you kiss in different settings? Your sentence makes it very confusing.

      In any case, it's most likely that you like these boys and are trying to make a decision between them. Or, you want a boyfriend, and you are just playing with the idea of a boyfriend with different guys.

      It also depends on how you feel in the dream. If you feel happy, then my above interpretation is probably close to accurate. If you feel scared, then maybe a boy is showing you some interest and you are not sure about being with him. If you feel confused, then maybe there are two boys trying to get your attention and you are not sure which boy to pay attention to.

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      Anne Randall 

      2 months ago

      I have been having dreams with both random boys and boys I know about kissing and making out with them,but they happen in diffrent settings and I have absalutly no idea what they mean,please help?

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      Kari 

      2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Josefina - Do you feel like your cousin is trying to keep you from dating his friend? Or do you think he's standing in the way somehow? Even if he doesn't realize it? That seems to be what your dream is about.

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      Josefina 

      2 months ago

      Hello Kari

      Ive really enjoyed your post of interpreting dreams....although i don't know much about what my dream could mean...

      Ive a few dreams about my cousins best friend, we have all known each other since we were 12 and we have always had this special bond and secret crush on each other. In my dream i went to this party at his friend's house and we were all hanging around talking when my cousins friend tried to hold my hand and asked if he could talk to me in private, he told me that he's always wanted to be with me but my cousin made him promise that he would never pursue me and that i was the one girl cousin he wanted him not to date. And before i could ask my cousin why he said that i had woken up......what do you think this means?

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      Kari 

      2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Brandi - I would take a look at your marriage first. Do you feel like you are drifting apart from your husband, or like he is drifting apart from you? Are you wondering if you ever really knew him? In short, the mystery man may be your husband. If you are having any sort of relationship issues, I would work on fixing them.

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      Kari 

      2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Vuyelwa - Love your name by the way.

      Does your friend have something new going on? Pregnancy is often a symbol for new projects, new growth, new success, new anything... so have you seen that she's experiencing something new or exciting - maybe something you wish you were experiencing? Or do you just think that's going places and creating a life for herself that you kind of want for yourself? That's what it sounds like to me with the friend.

      As far as the ex boyfriend, it sounds like you are just playing with the idea of getting back together with him, but, like you said, you have doubts as to what his intentions are. I would expect more dreams with him talking to other people, giving you mixed messages, etc., until you see him during the holidays.

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      Kari 

      2 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @evan - I think it could be your subconcious telling you that you think things are going to work out. If you had a good moment with her, then that woudl encourage you to think things are going better. But, I don't know what happened or how she feels. While you may want things to get better, she may not be on board with that. Your dream is a reflection of your hopes, not hers, so you will have to wait and see what happens. But, at least you know that you want to work on it!

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      Brandi 

      2 months ago

      I am married and in my dream I was als9 married, but to a complete stronger. My real life partner didnt exist in my dream. The husband in my dream was mysterious and no one knew much about him. He lived far away and wouldnt come see me. When I tried talking to him I never got a hold of him. I had no idea who my husband was but I had pictures of our wedding. Then he went missing completely, and people started to think he was murdered. I realized then he never ignored me and that he was dead and I had lost him. Then I woke up.

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      Vuyelwa 

      2 months ago

      Hi Kari

      Thank you for this insightful post. I know you encourage us to interpret our own dreams, I will work on that. Could you kindly help me make sense of this one.

      I dreamt a friend of mine I hadn’t really been close to in over a decade (we just drifted) was pregnant. In this dream we were at some event , we dressed up but I had inferior feelings towards her. As if I work for her. I must have done or said something wrong because she slapped me across the face 3 times. I was shocked and hurt. She also couldn’t believe she reacted that way. I asked to see her in private, yanked her - almost, away from everyone to have a word with her. I had to help jump over a puddle of water. I did. We got to the other side and she apologized but I was upset I just wanted to leave.

      She went back to the group. I didn’t cal anyone but I knew my boyfriend was coming to pick me up. I walked to the parking lot and there he was. On the phone. I worry he’s talking to a girl. As I get close I hear him make reference to me “my woman.....”

      In real life. This boyfriend is my X. We broke up 17years ago. He moved to another city. Lately we’ve been talking and it’s as if we are back together. He’s coming home for the holidays and I’m excited but I have doubts.

      My friend is a successful social media personality. She’s done well for herself and I respect her.

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      Evan 

      3 months ago

      Hi.... Last night I woke up to a dream about a night that I spent with my girlfriend and her son a couple years ago. We hit a rough patch about a year ago and are still trying to work through some things. Could this dream be a sign that our relationship will start to get better and that the issues that were still working on will get resolved. The night that I dreamed about was a night that was one of our happiest moments because it was right after she had surgery and was needing help with her son because she was unable to lift a lot or be on her feet a lot.

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      anonymous 

      3 months ago

      Hi Kari,

      I dreamt I saw a man who I have never met before, we were together in the barren land, he later asked me to stay calm and focus, then after a while the barren land was transformed, and the place developed.

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      Nicola 

      3 months ago

      I keep dreaming nice ones of someone I am madly in love with but have not seen or spoken for few weeks.. I long for him. Will I see him soon

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      Kari 

      3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Nixi - Often our dreams are about fears. Last night I had a dream I was working at a job from 20 years ago and smoking - two things I never want to go back to. When I woke up, I was mad at myself for smoking again until I was able to come into full consciousness and remember that I quite years ago.

      Therefore, one thought is that you love your fiance so much you don't want to betray him in any way, and the dream was a scenario where you were not yourself and he would possibly think you were betraying him. After all, the dream was situated in school, when we all tend to make mistakes and not fully see good things when they are in front of our faces. ;)

      You obviously felt bad about it and you were trying to find him and knowing that what you were doing wasn't what you wanted.

      The guy didn't even have a face, so he was really just a symbol to help you process the emotions you were having.

      Also, in the dream you were taking a lot of action and you beat up your bully - which can indicate a feeling of strength and confidence, probably around your relationship since that is what the dream's focus was.

      In short, I think it was just a dream reflecting a fear of panic and chaos in your relationship ensuing at some point. Maybe things are going to so good, your subconscious is a little worried that something might go wrong and you will fall in love with someone else or be blamed of something similar and your relationship will start to crumble.

      Just like my smoking, you know that it's not true, but when your dream is so vivid, it's hard to get your focus off it/shake it off and come back to reality where everything is good.

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      Nixi 

      3 months ago

      I dont even know how to start this off ( in real life ) i am 23 and im engaged , i woke up with my fiance at 5 this morning to make him coffee and pack his lunch and went back to bed.

      ( now dreaming ) i am back in highschool in my metric year yet we are only one group of metrics at a primary school . My fiance is there my ring is on so we are still engaged. Everybody we know is this there and know our story . Then i started hearing a story going around about me being inlove with someone els. ( in real life thats not even a close case i love my fiance to bits im very much still inlove with him we are planning a wedding my life is at the top point where it could be right now ) anyway carring on . I went out of my way trying to find this person telling these stories . I found him and it use to be someone that bullied me in school in real life. So i did something k would really never do and i beat him up. Take that for spreading stories ! The whole metric group went into the hall to watch the first graders consert and as usual the metrics are all the way in the back. I felt awkward because everybody was talking about me i could hear everybody whispering. Then someone came and passed me while i was already sitting and he did something with his feet passing me to get my attention i looked up and this was "the guy" everybody has been talking me being inlove with.he goes but the name Danny. He didnt have a face i could reconise dont believe he had a face at all but i found myself smiling so big i would feel the heat in my cheeks. I just looked down trying to get the smile away and realised everybody saw. I got up and went looking for my fiance . Its dark outside and it started raining and i looked and looked through the whole school. Danny came around the corner and gave me a hug. It was like i was being blown off my feet best hug ever. Words couldnt explain it. I told him i was looking for my fiance. When i got outside again it was pouring with rain i could guess it would be almost 8pm. I couldnt find him so i started to ask around and someone said his parents came to pick him up like 10min ago. We live together which is odd why would he leave me here . I ran in the rain to the parking lot where the cars stand bumper to bumper trying to leave the school in the pouring rain. I checked every car in panic mode. I wouldnt find him and suddenly there was a girl infront of me and told me he had already left. I fell into her arms and screamed from how i cried. Then i woke up. I dont know if this is anything to do with what the post really is about but if anybody can help me it is spinning my mind around like crazy and im not a dreamer and i love my fiance. Normally i dont take anything i dream as something but my mind has not stopped racing!

      Any idea would be thankful! Because i feel like the biggest piece of poo when i woke up

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      Kari 

      3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Harry - The fact that you saw her a few weeks back is probably why you had a dream about her. You say you had no reaction, but we tend to think about these things here and there because it's not human nature to just let it go. So, it was sitting there in your mind - even in your subconscious - and you had a dream about her. Maybe it's a reflection of what your subconscious feels good have been, or maybe it's just a way for you to experience her in a different way.

      Also, because her face was fuzzy, maybe you are showing yourself that there's another woman out there who has the characteristics you liked (just not her face) waiting for you.

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      Harry nuttzz 

      3 months ago

      I had a dream about a lady who rejected me months ago. In my dream she approached and was holding my hand and hugging me. It was outside by some trees in a park. I looked like it was her but her face wasnt completely clear. Weird. She definitely doesn't like me, and I don't like her now either. It makes no sense to me because I have zero interest in her. Havent even thought about her in a while. I did see her a few weeks back and she laughed when she saw me, I had no reaction. Any clue as to what this may mean?

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      Kari 

      3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Anonymous - I dream about people I went to elementary with but haven't seen or really had no relationship with. So, it wouldn't surprise me that you would dream about someone you were best friends with and also in love with. Point being, people from our past are always tucked away in our memory and come into our dreams to illustrate a point or make us think about something. And, the more history you have with them, the more likely they are to show up.

      So, you saw him. But what else was going on? Who else was there? What's happening in your waking life that may cause you to dream about him?

      It's easy to say that he's on your mind and that's why you dreamt about him. But, there so many reasons why he might be on your mind - thinking about him lately, seeing a friend or family member of his, looking for a relationship like you had with him. Only you know.

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      Kari 

      3 months ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Lizzy - That could mean a ton of things depending on what's going on in your life or her life in your opinion. Maybe you want them to get back together or maybe you see them getting back together or maybe you want her to be happy... it all depends on what's happening.

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