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Interpreting Your Personal Love Dreams

Updated on September 11, 2017
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Dreams can tell us what's happened, what's happening, and what is going to happen. They connect us to the other side and offer us insight that we couldn't get anywhere else.

Your dreams will never lie to you as long as you know how to listen to them!

I've been studying my dreams since I was young and I've gotten pretty good at lucid dreaming, meaning I can 'wake' myself up in a dream and tell myself that it's a dream and then do what I want - fly, see an old friend, or ask an important question. It's a huge part of my excitement for going to sleep at night!

Every morning I remember my dreams and try to figure out if they meant something important, or if they were just random and fun little movies for the night.

Sometimes my dreams offer me the best relationship advice or personal advice that I could ever ask for.

We've all heard of great stories about dreams like Albert Einstein whose theory of relativity was inspired by a dream...that's how powerful dreams really are! You just need to know how to interpret the symbols in your dreams to understand what they mean for you.

Challenge Yourself To Start A Dream Journal And Interpret Your Own Dreams

If you really want to understand your dreams, then you need to be able to interpret them for yourself. No one else has the insight into your life, your dream symbols, and your fears, worries, and thoughts that you do, so you are the only one who can really understand your dreams. Take a 30-day dream journal challenge and see how good you can become at interpreting your own dreams.

Your Dream Interpretations Are Unique To YOU

Everyone looks at certain symbols in dreams and associates something different to them. We do not all view things in the same way.

For example, you might associate the lake with peace while your friend associates it with partying. So when YOU dream of the lake, it most likely represents peace in your life whether you are striving for it or currently receiving it. In short, the lake is your symbol for peace.

Sit back and think about what you associate certain things with. Don't overthink it! Just write down what comes to mind first.

For instance, I would associate the following things as follows:

  • Darkness = calm
  • Water = Peace
  • Parent's home = conflict or turmoil
  • Grandpa's home = comfort
  • Red = love


When you are interpreting your dreams, keep all of your own personal dream symbols in mind. Remember the truth will resonate with you when you see or hear it.

Following are some general interpretations in regards to feelings, sights, and emotions regarding relationship related dreams.

Common Dreams and Interpretations

Sometimes we have dreams about things regarding relationships and we take them a face value - but a lot of the time they are really pointing to some other area of your life.

Dreams Regarding Marriage

Bride - To dream of being a bride, whether it's yourself or someone else, means you are coming into an inheritance.

Man Kissing A Bride - This can mean a joyous get-together between family and friends.

Elopement - This may mean unfavorable events that will or are already occurring in your life.

Partner eloping with someone else - Watch out! You may soon learn about your partner being unfaithful. Alternatively, this could mean you have insecurities or questions about your relationship.

Marriage License - You may make a bad alliance that ends in you being hurt or humiliated.

Dreams With Big Emotions

Happiness - This may be pointing out the obvious but this probably means being happy now or in the near future.

Ecstasy - You will have a visit from a long absent friend.

Joy - To dream of feeling good means there will be harmony among all your friends.

Pleasure - If you dream of gratification you will have many financial and personal gains of enjoyment.

Cheerful - This means that joyous events and activities will soon prove profitable.

Delight - This is letting you know that your life is going well or going to be well soon. Everything is going work out.

Common Dream Symbols Regarding Relationships

There are some very common dreams that we all have. Chances are you have had one or more of these things in your dreams at some time or another. Remember your symbols and listen to your inner self when trying to interpret your dreams. Take into account colors, feelings, time of day, who is there, and everything else when you are trying to interpret your dreams.

Baby - It may mean that an idea or thought is growing and getting ready to be born. An obvious interpretation could be an impending birth. It can also bring to your attention a dependent behavior or need. If the baby is alone it can represent your independence.

Breasts - Of course they may represent sexual desire. It can also represent becoming a mother, need for nurturing, or if you are running around naked, it could mean a fear of exposure.

Kissing - This may suggest romantic involvement. It can also be a symbol of you and someone making up or a reconciliation coming about. It could also mean kissing the past goodbye. Married people or couples kissing means everything is going smoothly and happily and full of harmony. What time of day is it? If it is during the dark it may represent danger or an inappropriate situation. If it's sunny out it may represent good intentions and well meaning.

Pregnancy - It could indicate a desire for a child or not knowing that you are pregnant - but I dream of this a lot and I don't want children! It could also mean something new beginning or coming into your life. Maybe an idea or thought that is getting ready to come out.

Veil - If you are walking around with a veil over your face it may not just be an upcoming marriage. It may mean that you are looking at something through the veil or someone looking at you that way.

Adultery - This can signify your sexual urges and desires that are wanting to come out. It can also indicate disloyalty from your subconscious. You may soon find yourself or already be finding yourself in something shady or disloyal. It probably won't end well.

If your partner is cheating on you it may being showing you your insecurities and your fear of being dumped. It may symbol your feelings of your partner being less attentive and 'there' in the relationship. It may also be your guilt coming out and show you that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others.

Are you dreaming about sleeping with your spouse's friend? This doesn't necessarily mean you want to cheat with them. It may mean that you are feeling neglected by your spouse.

Cheating - Are you dreaming of cheating on something or someone. This may mean you have compromised your beliefs or integrity and/or not making the most of your time and your energy and putting it towards bad decisions and activities. Taking it literally it can bring to life your sexual passion and exploring areas of your sexuality.

To dream that you are cheating at a game, suggests that you are not being honest with yourself.

Lovers - A lover appearing in your dream show your acceptance, self-worth, and recognition of your true value. It may also indicate integration of both your masculine and feminine traits meaning you are feeling complete or whole. You may also dream of your 'dream person' which may indicate that your relationship is not satisfactory to you or it is unfulfilling.

To dream of an ex can symbolize unfinished or unresolved issues that relate to that person. I think we've all dreamt that at times. This may happen when you are in a good relationship and it's waking up your inner issues and memories.

Sex - This may mean you are missing aspects of the person you are having sex with and you want to incorporate them into your own character. It also may just be your desires way of telling you that it's been a long time since you've had sex. If you are trying to find a place to get it on then the dream may be represent your search for a certain intimacy and closeness that you can't find.

Are you having sex with a well known public figure? It indicates your drive to be successful. What do they represent to you? For instance having sex with Angelina Jolie may mean you want to help other people and have the drive to do it.

To dream that you are having sex with an ex may just be showing you that you have some hesitation about getting into a new relationship or situation. Normal!

If you are heterosexual and you dream that you are having sex with someone of the same sex don't spend all day thinking about it. It may just be an expression of being more comfortable with yourself and letting others know you do not affect them.

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Do You Meditate? Meditation Can Help You Interpret Your Dreams

Meditation is simply about being in a relaxed state. In short, you calm your mind (usually into an alpha state) during meditation, just as you do before you go to bed or when you daydream or when you are really relaxed sitting in front of the ocean - or wherever else your mind naturally calms down. Meditation has so many benefits for your health, but we are talking about dreams here - right?

If you want to interpret your own dreams, then meditation can help you do that. Why? Meditation gives you more self-awareness and allows you to find answers that you cannot find when your mind is buzzing and going from one thought to the next.

If you meditate in the morning on your dreams instead of instantly jumping out of bed to get ready for your day, you will have a much easier time remembering and interpreting your dreams.

Moreover, if you meditate before bed, you can focus your attention on things you want to dream about or find answers to - and you will have an easier time influencing your dreams.

Dreams have the power to give you answers, help you sort through issues, and give you insight into your future - and meditation has the power to connect you to your dreams and help you understand them.

You Are The Only One Who Can Really Interpret Your Love Dreams

Remember that whatever resonates as the truth to you is what your dream means.

I get a lot of people asking me what their love dreams mean but, as we discussed, certain symbols mean different things to different people. For instance, darkness for me is calming whereas it might be depressing or scary to you.

I can give you my interpretation of your dream and even let my tarot cards guide you towards a theme or situation, but I don't know all the details of YOU and your life, which is important for interpreting dreams. inside, you know exactly what your dream meant - you are the one who had it! So, you need to learn how to interpret them yourself.

We are all built with an inner guidance system. Meditation is a great tool to help you get access to that inner guidance system. The information is in you, in your cells, waiting for you to find it - so start looking inward instead of outward.

Happy Dreaming!

Ask a question about your dream below: NOTE: It may take me a few days to answer, so check back in a few days at the top of the comment section for an answer. A

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      Kari 4 hours ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Tee - It's very simple. You are dreaming about how you wish it would be with him.

      From the sounds of it, he doesn't like you like that. Maybe it is because you talk about babies. Maybe you are needy. He mentioned something about fake, so maybe he doesn't think you are being real with him. Or, maybe he's just not attracted to you. But a guy who likes you wouldn't be NOT making an effort to talk to you or saying those things when you ask him if he likes you.

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      Tee 9 hours ago

      I met this guy at the start of the year and we started talking and we’ve only seen eachother twice because we live quite far from eachother. Sometimes the guy would act like he likes me and sometimes he would act in a way that would make me question if he even likes me at all. If i didn’t message him first we would go days without talking and we’ve even gone nearly a month without speaking because I had enough of being the first to message him so I thought to leave it to him but it never happened. That’s when I had my first dream about him, so I messaged him and he was acting like nothing happened, like we hadn’t just stopped talking for nearly a month. But I just went along with it. This guy constantly makes me feel like I’m wasting my time because surely if you liked someone you would make the effort to talk to them or even see them. I felt really heart broken throughout speaking to him and throughout this time I would have dreams about him. In the dreams about him, me and him would be happy and he would be doing sweet things and we would just be spending a lot of time together and when I would wake up it would make me wish for that and encourage me to continue talking to him despite the fact that I would have recently gave up with him because of his games. So I don’t understand these dreams. Do they mean I’m in love with this guy or I’m just wishing something that will never happen. Don’t get me twisted everything is okay when we talk though he really doesn’t make any effort to speak to me and leaves it all to me. I’ve got to the point where I’ve just asked him if he likes me abc he’s said “I like us, you’re cool”. When he said it it just felt so fake but despite that I’ve continued talking to him and now I’ve had another dream about him. We were sleeping in bed and there was a baby with us but it was his niece and I woke up to go bath the baby and he was still sleeping but he said in his sleep “you’re a good girlfriend and I like you but you remind me of my ex, she wanted to have babies too soon” and I have talked about babies to him before because when his niece was born and when he puts up pictures of his niece I would say “aww she’s so cute, makes me want children” I don’t know what all of this is supposed to mean.

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      Kari 29 hours ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Kieran - makes sense. You have unfinished business with her. You were left hanging without a real reason, so you are stuck in that place where you left off - where you maybe wanted to go. Let go of the experience. Chalk it up to something you may never know or understand. And the dreams should stop.

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      Kari 29 hours ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Jenny - Does he like you? Because that's the feeling I get. I think that he feels like he's going to lose you or that you don't care enough about him to 'tell him where you are going'.

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      Kieran 37 hours ago

      I keep dreaming about a girl I met and went on a date with. The date was amazing we got on so well on so many different levels, we had so many of the same views about a lot of topics. We met for an evening coffe and had a beer as well then she invited me back to her house and we had a few cups of tea and talked all night, things did get heated and we kissed a lot, extremely passionately but it never went further, we were with each other till half 1 in the morning then we got to a point where we felt like if I didn't go it would go further so we said goodbye but said we'd meet again. Then when I tried to organise something else she wouldn't reply for ages then finally said she's too tired and then never replied to any more texts.

      I keep dreaming that I meet her again and we do kiss and do things but never go all the way, I'm in a relationship now and in the dreams I know I'm cheating but it doesn't stop me from kissing her, I've had 3 of these dreams now, always in different places

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      Jenny 2 days ago

      My Coworker Had AVery Sad Dream About Me. Its Not the First time He Had A Dream about me. BUT this Time It Was Sad and Crying.

      He Said that We were By a Lake. And I Was Saying GOODBYE TO HIM. AND THAT I DIDN'T WANTED TO TELL HIM WHERE I WAS GOING. AND THAT EVERYTHING HAPPEN BY A LAKE.

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      Kari 2 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Na - I think that it could be! I think your dreams were about wanting more out of him than he ever offered you, so maybe you were holding onto the notion that he should have given you more than he did and now you are letting go of that, accepting what happened, and moving on to bigger and better things!

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      NA 2 days ago

      So I have been having dreams about my first love forever. We aren't always happy in the dreams and he is always so much more loving than he ever was in our relationship. And always just seems to see me. We are always so close and so In love in the dreams. The back ground is almost always dark. Last night I dreamt that he broke up with me, and I wasn't was devistated for a bit, and then starting really looking forward to the future and different possibilities of dating others.

      IM happily married with children so I've always wondered about these wondered about dreams, but last night-- could it be my self conscious finally letting go of my first love?

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      Kari 2 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Geraldine - You seem to have interpreted it yourself, feeling like it means you are tolerating it. So, do you feel like you are tolerating something in your relationship that you shouldn't? It may not be about an ex-girlfriend. It may just be about the way he treats you, talks to you, supports you, etc.

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      Kari 2 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Josh - I would interpret your dream as a need for someone to acknowledge that they like you for you. That's what she seems to do in your dream. Maybe you dreamt about her because she's neutral to you, and you don't see her viewing you as good or bad, so she was someone who could easily see you in a good way and like you for you - so she was just as symbol... a symbol of someone who would appreciate you for being who you are.

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      Kari 3 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @SB - Have you asked her out after a year? I would. You are going to dream about her until you do because she is taking up a lot of your thoughts. You like her, so you dream about her. Because your dreams are so vivid, it seems clear that you know what you want.

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      Kari 3 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Carla - I would say that's a sign that you know you're a good catch and your confidence is up.

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      Geraldine 3 days ago

      Hello !

      I just dreamt that my boyfriend was living with his ex . He was in bed and she was sitting outside the bedroom. I passed by and asked her what's wrong and she said he was mad at her .

      What does the dream meant that I'm tolerating this?

      Please help

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      Josh 3 days ago

      A girl I went to school with years ago I never really had a crush on her maybe soft feelings she appeared in my dream. Since then I have seen her a couple times in public places but never acknowledged it. Like I mean put much thought into seeing her just like a oh it's her kinda thing. My love life is rocky my current girlfriend treats me like garbage and holds my son over my head. Well I dreamt of this girl coming into a room with a group of people and her and myself stepped aside she told me she loved me and that she likes how I act around her then we held hands. Then I woke up it was a quite long dream but that was the part that woke me. I woke up disturbed about it not in a bad way but because my love life is horrible an it somewhat "touched" me. What could this mean please help I'd just like to know because I find thinking about this really bothers me almost like I missed out.

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      SB 3 days ago

      I would always dream of the person I like for a year already. I can say almost 80% of my dreams this year was all about her and eversince the day I knew I like her I've been dreaming about her. The dreams are always vivid and I felt like it's almost real.

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      Chris 4 days ago

      Kair, I love you interpretations here, you've got great insight to offer! But I appreciate more the fact you tell the reader, they are their ultimate interpreters. That was really inspiring to think about it for myself for a change, I really got some answers! Thank you (:

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      Carla 4 days ago

      I dreamt of a man I'm interested in but who is currently in a relationship with someone else. In the dream he had to choose me or her - and he choose me and said to me, "Of course I would choose you."

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      Kari 5 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @CJ - so she was telling your wife that you had been unfaithful to her or wronged her in some way? Do you feel like other people are interfering with your marriage and causing problems? That may be one reason for the dream. You may also feel guilty about something. You never really said how it made you feel, but your feeling afterward would be important to interpret this dream.

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      Cj 5 days ago

      I dreamed of another woman i am attracted to telling my wife i talked to her .i dont know if she is attracted to me. Maybe she was in my mimd because my marriage is on the rocks almost over.

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      Kari 6 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @LB - My best guess is that you love him and miss him very much since our dreams are a reflection of our own thoughts.

      Or, maybe you don't miss him, but the type of relationship that you had.

      OR, maybe you just miss some aspects of your relationship with him, such as fun, connection, desire, support, etc.

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      LB 7 days ago

      The past few nights I have had dreams about my best guy friend. We had a friends with benefits type of relationship. We both were in love with each other, but never acted on it. It has been 7 months since we last talked. In my dreams he's telling me how much he loves me and how much he misses me. I wake up an emotional wreck. Why am I having dreams like this and what does it mean?

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      Kari 8 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Brandon - ? Your dreams are a reflection of your waking life. Keep that in mind.

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      Kari 8 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Princess - You would know best, so go with your gut feeling. But, one thing I've learned in life is that just because you love someone deeply doesn't mean they like you back.

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      Princess 8 days ago

      I think he does like me because he winked at me in church and his worry about me plus I do love him deeply

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      Brandon 8 days ago

      yeah he didn't give me a straight answer in my dream

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      Kari 9 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Princess - It sounds like you want the dream to be about true love, so who is to say it's not. Although, it's likely more about wanting true love than it is having true love if you are not in a serious relationship yet.

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      Kari 9 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Brandon - Are you feeling uncertain about something or someone? Are they not giving you a straight answer? Are you not sure how things are going to work out? Are you uncertain about yourself? I think a lack of clarity is the theme in your dream, so where do you lack clarity in your life?

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      Brandon 9 days ago

      I dreamt that I was in school and I was running looking for my crush and whispered in his ear I love you and he said you love your phone? and I said no i love you but he didn't say yes or no instead he said do you have a tablet then I woke up by my alarm :( I woke up super happy

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      Princessharvey3455@icloud.com 9 days ago

      I dreamt of hugging someone and they told me to snuggle with him and I held him I put my head on his shoulders what does this mean is it true love ?

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      Kari 11 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Nelle - You could be worried that he won't like you, which may be why you aren't telling him that you like him beyond the excuse that it's weird if a girl approaches a guy first (which it's totally not... it's weird to not say how you feel and let opportunities go missed because you don't want to speak up.)

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      Kari 11 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Shelby - Yep, that would do it. If you are in love with him and thinking about him, you are going to dream about him.

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      Nelle 11 days ago

      so theres a guy that i met online i like him so much, i want to tell him that i have a crush on him but i dont like to tell him because for me its weird if a girl approaches the guy first, so i had a dream last night about him, we meet, talk, go for a walk then he held my hand then after that we didnt talk never again what does it mean?

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      Kari 13 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Bria - Your dream is about your feelings, not what he's going to do or how he feels. Therefore, it seems that you want to believe that he would never leave you or cheat on you.

      After 3 days, I'm assuming your anger and hurt are starting to die down and you just want to make the relationship right again.

      But, in the dream, it seems like he's trying to buy you off with money. He could have come in and given you a hug or kiss, but he came in and handed you money - almost as a payoff. So, to me, it sounds like he's trying to convince you that he's not doing anything wrong and that he wants to be with you, but somewhere inside you believe he's just trying to trick you into thinking everything's OK when you really feel like it's not.

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      Bria 13 days ago

      Lately my boyfriend and I have been in bad terms because I found out about a female he was talking too. I'm really unsure if they had sex a lot but in the messages they both reach out to each other. Last night I had a dream I was in Miami vacationing with family. I joined them late and was expecting for my boyfriend to be there too. There was another man there and I asked my mother where my boyfriend was. Minutes later he came through the door with money and handed me some. He told me that he had to leave and would be right back. They way he looked at me was like he wanted me to believe that he would never leave me. What could his dream mean? I have been avoiding him for about 3 days

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Amy - It likely means you want him to like you more than her - since your dream is always around her. It makes sense that you would wake up feeling all kinds of different emotions because you are winning, losing, and struggling all at the same time.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @J.C. - I would think that it means you trust her and accept her for who she is.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Tiaan - Likely it's unfinished business with your ex on your part.

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      Tiaan Henning 2 weeks ago

      Hii

      I dream about my ex a lot but what does it mean ?

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      J.C. 2 weeks ago

      if i dream that my girlfriend told me that she has already a little girl and i hugged her and told her that i love her what does that dream mean?

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      Michelle b.L 2 weeks ago

      Yes that makes a whole lot of ssense now.because I am falling for this guy now,who is the total opposite to my past ex's. And he keeps saying herather be single.an it's not me but him.he's the total opposite to me,and yet we have so much in common.we always have breakfast together an we also work together.overall I do feel rejected and it's killing me inside.#if only.....and with my bully?no I haven't checked up on him or seen him in years.so I reckon your right.I think he's a symbol to the guy who I'm falling for atm.wow thanks a lot that really helped me.

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      amy 2 weeks ago

      For 3 weeks now I've had dreams the my ex is there with his current girlfriend and he is constantly grabbing at me or trying to kiss me behind her back. The last couple dreams when he tries this, I worn him she's right there and she's gonna see us but he says he doesn't care, let her see he says. Sometimes Her and I have an altercations and I wake up, sometimes she leaves for good, or sometimes they leave together and then it never fails I have a similar dream just in a different place, and him toughing or groping me becomes more intense.

      I wake up every day feeling happy, sad, angry all at the same time.

      What is my dream trying to tell me?

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Michelle - You seem to know a lot about him - where he lives and what he's doing - so are you checking up on him or hearing about him? If so, that's one reason he's in your subconscious mind, meaning you don't know you are thinking about him, but he's in the background of your mind.

      But another reason is he's a symbol. He was a bully and someone who was desired by other girls. So maybe he's a symbol of rejection or insecurity. If he is, anytime you have some rejection or insecurity in your life, you may dream of him in ways that fit your current reality with him symbolizing the person or circumstance that is causing you rejection or insecurity.

      In short, think of what he represents to you and then look in your current life to see where his representation may apply.

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      Michelle b.L 2 weeks ago

      I really don't understand my dreams at all! I always have different scenarios with this guy I use to have a crush with since childhood.but the thing is I haven't seen him for over 8 years now.and he's always been my bully/girls were attracted towards him! He lives in London now playing league,while I still live in our hometown...I just want to know why do I keep having these random dreams?even though I don't think of him at all...and I was never his gf or match.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Cate - Yeah, I got the feeling that it was about your relationship with your husband. As if you are now sure that your relationship with him is meant to be and going to work out no matter what happens, so you can relax and just enjoy life without having to convince yourself, or anyone else, that your relationship is good and comes first.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Bubble - It means you love him and you are dreaming about your desire for him to love you back.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Kiana - Likely means you think his family will like you or that you think you are a good fit for him (which is what makes families like their kid's partners).

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Mario - My best interpretation is that the dream was more about work than the girl. Maybe you want to be more creative at work, more passionate, and more excited? Maybe you feel like you are lacking those things? Or, maybe you feel like you are nailing those things and that's what the passion in your dream represented.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Elsa - You really need to figure out what the pills and crystals represent to you and your relationship with him. I have no idea. But, if I had to interpret your dream, I would say that it was just a reflection of how much you enjoy your time with him.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Jane - It sounds like you are craving intimacy. Since you haven't really been intimate with your girlfriend, it makes sense you wouldn't dream about her while being intimate, so you are putting other girls in her place.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Melba - Did a red sucker mean something to you and your ex? Or does it mean something to you? Does it make you feel happy or good or appreciated? It sounds like you are dreaming about your ex-boyfriend letting you know that he is good with you and wants you to know (whatever the red sucker represents to you).

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      Melba 2 weeks ago

      I had a dream and my ex boyfriend who passed away June of this year gave me a red sucker in a wrapper.....he laid it on a book I had open and then walked away. Thank you.

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      jane 2 weeks ago

      Hi!

      I had a dream recently, and its quite alarming.

      I have a girlfriend and we've been together for just over 2 months. We haven't done anything sexual really. In this particular dream, i was with another girl and she was kissing my neck. in another part of the dream, i was hugging another girl for a long time.

      What could this mean?

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      Elsa galindo 2 weeks ago

      Last night i had a nice dream with my my best guy friend he took his pills checked in our china for crystals then we sat on a chair leaning on each others heads and wet talked a few but then it got super quiet!

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      bubble 2 weeks ago

      I saw a dream between 7 to 8 AM in to morning. Where the guy I love, but he does not love me, in a friends party kept his hand on my waist and than we held hands very tight.

      what could this mean?

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      Cate 3 weeks ago

      I've gotten good at figuring out what my dreams mean, but last night stumped me, because it's been a slightly reoccurring thing - but still changing.

      I've been having very vivid dreams that involved my ex that I dated for a few years. It's not like either of us is trying to get back together in the dreams - in fact, I made it VERY plain that I'm in love with my husband and that I want nothing to do with this ex romantically. He doesn't push for a romantic relationship either.

      At first, I thought that the dreams meant that I had some unfinished things to say to him, but the last time we talked, we settled just about everything & we were even on good terms as friends - of course, that ended when he started dating this chick and I started dating my now husband.

      My dream last night was a little different, though. Usually the interactions seem strained as I try to focus on keeping the line of boundaries drawn. However, last night was very relaxed. We joked and talked. I made it clear that I am happy in my relationship at the beginning, but I didn't stress that fact over and over like usual. It was like I finally realized that there was no need to.

      I've wondered before if the dreams meant that I wasn't as happy in my marriage as I wanted to be. However, this dream made me wonder if I was more about my friendly relationship with this ex & my realization that my marriage (and relationship with my husband in general) is better than it's ever been since I didn't stress it so much to convince us both this time. It just seemed like a lot was going on at one time.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Carina - I think you wrote two messages with two different names? Not sure why, but I deleted your other message assuming Tham was you.

      Maybe your friends and right and you are tapping into his energy. But, it's more likely that you are the one dreaming about him wanting you and desiring you. It's just an expression of confidence in yourself and being desired. It could also be about issues you are having in your relationship or any doubt you are having. But, if you don't think you are having any doubt, then chalk it up to fantasy.

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      Carina 3 weeks ago

      Hi there, I have a boyfriend, but apparently I kept dreaming about this guy 2 times, and in the dream, he likes me and have said "you couldve chose me instead of him" and I said "no, I love him not you" so some of my friends had said that I dreamed about him because he have been thinking about me, so I'm not sure about that.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Ami - You answered your own question. You are having problems in your marriage. With problems come some doubt, fear, worry, regret, etc. Your dreams are just a reflection of those feelings. It's not anything bad. It doesn't mean your marriage will end. It's natural human feelings appearing in dreams. Even if you don't think about things like that consciously, your subconscious is remembering all your experiences and thoughts in life and combining them to give you dreams that align with your feeings at the moment.

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      Ami 3 weeks ago

      I dream about all the people who proposed me or who liked me and I regret my decision of saying no to them(in dreams).

      Also sometimes I dream about arrange marriages.

      I have married to love of my life, there are some problems going on between us but I do not think about anybody else when i am awake. I do think about ending the marriage some times but again its momentarily.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @M.J. - Yeah, that would be terrifying! I know the feeling. I've dreamt about loved ones dying horribly too.

      As far as your boss, maybe you are just sensing a better relationship with him developing (good thing for a work environment) or maybe you desire a better relationship with him, and that just played out as dating in your dream.

      As far as your 2-year-old, fear is the driver behind that dream. What mother doesn't worry about her 2-year-old? Maybe you were having some subconscious fear towards your child, even if it wasn't about dying, and that's why you had the dream.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Dona - Do you think this guy was good for your friend? If not, then you are probably just dreaming about your feelings towards him.

      Maybe you are just sensing a struggle that your friend is going through. I think our connections with friends and family never die and we are still connected to their energy somehow.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Regine - In my opinion, it's not strong to put up with someone like that in terms of your self-respect and happiness. Yeah, you're willing to stick around despite what he does to you. But, you are also willing to let him and his actions chip away at your self-worth.

      Being strong means taking control of your own welfare and happiness, and showing other people (like your sons) that you are not willing to put up with anything less than you deserve in a relationship.

      The dream is just a reflection of your misery.

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      regine kelly 3 weeks ago

      my husband of 32 years left to live with his 96 year old mother a year ago. He has been having a mostly email and phone affair with a high school crush. Nikki was married for almost 50 years, she was treated like a princess and her husband died in December '16. She contacted my husband 11 years ago and since then their relationship morphed into REAL love for him. We have 2 wonderful sons and truth is that larry always had intense relationships with old girlfriends, co-workers, flirts. He had little money and our boys needed to be raised. I sucked up not being loved and emotional abandonment years ago thinking I was strong! I have dreams where larry is cruel to me and last night, in a dream, he told me he was in love with a 23 year old prostitute he met and she re-sparked him sexually. I woke up shaken and feeling such loss. I feel like I need an "exorcism" to shake his hold on me. I am 12 years younger and wish I could shake off this decades old betrayal and loss.

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      M.J. 3 weeks ago

      My dreams have been crazy lately. I have 2 in particular i would like some light shed upon. first i dreamt that i was dating my boss, whom i dont remotely find appealing. We were holding hands hugging and kissing. Second one has me terrified. I dreamt that my brother in law was coming to pick something up in his truck and as he was backing up accidentally ran over my 2 year old. I screamed call 911 and began crying then woke up.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Lala - I've had that kind of dream too. But, remember that usually, your dreams are a reflection of what you feel or fear. So the chances are good it's not about her but something to do with you, such as low-confidence, worry, frustration, or feeling rejected. And it doesn't have to relate to her. For example, you could be feeling rejected by your family and the dream is a reflection of that.

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      Lala 3 weeks ago

      I HAD a crazy short dream... basically I asked my significant other if She was sexually attracted to me and she said no ... it felt so real and the pain felt so real..

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Clavida - It could mean a couple of things. Either you have both been unhappy in the relationship and a conversation or experience the day before made you both think about the possibility of him breaking up with you.

      Or, something in your life (or one of your lives) could be ending - a living situation, a relationship, a financial situation - and you both used your relationship as a symbol of that end.

      Or, it could be as simple as watching a movie or hearing about an experience where the man broke up with the woman. Since you are a couple, there is a good chance that you both would see or hear about the same thing.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Annahannah - Well, I think that's your subconcious telling you that you need to send him an honest message. Maybe you weren't totally honest in the relationship about your feelings or thoughts. Or maybe you want to tell him exactly how you think. Either way, it sounds like you have something you want to get off your chest.

      Don't expect him to want you back though. Your dream about sending him a message is more about you and what you think you should do. If he doesn't respond well, it still may help you to start moving on, so it's worth a shot.

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      Annahannah 3 weeks ago

      I saw my ex boyfriend yesterday. To be honest, i'm still in love with him. When i saw him yesterday i said nothing because he said he would hate me and things like that and he said nothing either. I dreamed that we were together and happy, i kissed his cheek. Then i asked him what to do if it's just a dream. He answered that i should send him a message and that i should be honest. I really don't know what to do and what to think.

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      clavdia g jimenez 3 weeks ago

      Me and my husband both dreamed that he finished our relationship. on the same night. We where showering in the morning and commented to him that i dreamed he broke up with me. and then he said, well that's weird i dreamed the same thing

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Khailiyah - So you need to figure out what the conversation is about. Because you never have it, it may be a subject you are scared to talk about or approach when it comes to love or relationships. Or, it may just be a conversation that you are scared to have with someone in your life, such as your boss. The point is, I think there is a conversation that you are not having.

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      Khaliyah Haskins 3 weeks ago

      Lately I've been having dreams about my old high school crush. In the dream we finally see each other because we haven't seen one another in a very long time. We have a conversation, basically catching up with one another. However, towards the end of the dreams he says to me that we should go and talk somewhere more private. But I never get to see the part where we actually have that conversation. He either disappears or the dream ends.

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      Kari 4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Carmie - Are you missing him? Have you seen him recently? Or, are you being reminded of times with him? All of that could be reasons for your dream.

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      Kari 4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @anonymous - You feel like you are in love so you will be having more dreams like this.

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      Kari 4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Jess - Do you think your lecturer believes in you? Maybe he shows you preference or gives you extra support?

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      Kari 4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Jasmine - It sounds like your boyfriend is doing something new in his life - according to you. It doesn't mean he's cheating on you. He could be behaving in a new way, taking on some new habits, changing his beliefs, starting a new job, etc.

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      Jasmine 4 weeks ago

      Hello my name is jasmine I had a dream last night where I was at this house and at this house I found all my boyfriends belongings even his sons things were there then I'm getting out of my car to ask a woman were they currently in a relationship as I'm walking down the hill to do so my boyfriend is trying to stop me. When I found out they were I just drove off and me and my boyfriend were starring at each other as he stayed with the other woman and her friends. What does this mean?

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      Lin 4 weeks ago

      I had a dream a few nights ago, and I can't tell if was about my animus or something else.

      I was in what looked like some hotel room with an attractive man that I couldn't see clearly--I feel like I didn't glimpse his face all that much but when I looked at him I felt an attraction. I was laying on my stomach with my shirt off and he started pulling whatever I was wearing for bottoms down--it wasn't meant in a sexual way for the most part, because he was exposing my back so he could massage it. He was massaging my whole back with an oil and it felt...pleasurable. While enjoying this massage, I remember feeling like my senses were heightened and I was moaning a lot. At some point he whispered in my ear that he loved how I moaned and reacted at his touch and that he liked me a lot. I felt we were both deeply attracted to each other and we both knew where this was going next. I said we should look for a place to have sex, and I settled on the shower. I jumped into his arms and we were on our way. Before ever getting to that point though, the dream fast forwarded (I feel this specific point says a lot).

      In another scene, I was lovingly holding hands with the same man in the above scenario. My parents showed up, but the kicker was that every time I ran into them I would hide this man from their sight so they couldn't see him. I remember feeling uneasy to let them see him, like they wouldn't approve of me loving him (he was tan and my dad is a bit...racist, and my mom is fickle) or approve of him specifically. At one point I was holding hands with him again and they saw us; I felt a condescending presence when I looked at them, but I still held onto him because I wanted them to know I loved him. I wanted us to be together, and I felt he wanted the same too even if it meant people like my parents didn't approve of us.

      I feel this dream is saying a lot and I truly want to understand it all, down to the little nuances. I feel its message is strong, like my subconsciousness is trying to tell me something extremely important that it thinks I really need to know in order to improve my relationship with myself and how I behave in my waking life. What are your thoughts?

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      Kari 4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @rgn123 - Your dream likely represents an issue with your sexual life. Are your needs being met? Are you nervous about sex? What's going on in your sexual life that would cause it to not go smoothly?

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      Kari 4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Noel - Are you having some sort of struggle in your life? Do you feel like something is trying to encase you, close you in, make you go somewhere you don't want to go, or suck you up in some way? Are you scared of what's to come? All of those things could be reasons for your dream.

      You sound like you are having a very intuitive and artistic dream. Very creative. What does a vent represent to you? Something that sucks up unwanted things? Something that could hurt you?

      Sit down and think about the problems going on in your life - the things you are complaining about or worried about - and then tackle those issues.

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      Kari 4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Gemini555 - So you don't know if you are pregnant yet? Did you tell your family member that you had sex? Because that would make a difference to why she/he dreamt about you. Maybe she/he knew that you two were close and that's why they had the dream. In any case, it represents their fear of him not being there for you. Your dreams represent your confidence that he will be. Neither one is an indicator that you are actually pregnant.

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      Noel Smile 4 weeks ago

      This site was the first site that I thought of when I finished thing this in my notes.

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      Noel Smile 4 weeks ago

      So it's 5:21 am I remember going to sleep a little after 3:30 am I had a dream.. a nightmare now that I think about it really I went to what seemed to b like an abandoned house with a man and a older woman. The older woman was reluctant to go but we made her saying that everything would be fine. The man opened the gates, I guess the place was in a cemetery and as we entered I saw a landscaping truck. The house appeared to be just getting done it was creepy though like it seemed done and it wasn't at the same time. I remember holding what appeared to be a camcorder like a actual handheld one and I was seeing through that I didn't actually see my body at all. The place seemed familiar like I've been there in a dream or real life before. So immediately the lady that came is following behind me and is somewhat drawn to this spot she goes in front of me and starts screaming and pointing at the ground kind of indicating to downstairs well at least it felt like it was downstairs and then everything started happening. It was like a Squarish vent that shot down from the house itself out of nowhere and tried to close around everywhere was closed except for a place on her back and I saved her from being enclosed by the vent it tried to get at her again but then the other person that was with me helped and got her out again. At the top of the vent it was like a bandage was on it and it writing apeared that said I know your future and the actual vent started screaming in the creepiest scream like it was In pain and by this time it was not a long vent anymore (12 feet or higher when it tried to suck the woman up) it was and 4 foot in length and you could clearly see the white bandage in the only part you could actually see in the vent actually it looked like a mouth because I remember it shaking still screaming and the part that you could see turned black but you can still see the bandage if you can picture that actually it looked like a person . I stayed there recording on the camcorder I was the last to leave but it actually didn't scare me staying there alone with it. I don't know what this dream symbolizes but it's been like this for the past couple of nights I can't get a good night's sleep when I dream things like this It's depressing me and I don't know what else to do

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      rgn123 4 weeks ago

      i had a dream last night with my boyfriend, and he actually wants to have sex with me but we can't find a place to go do it, what does it mean?

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      sabrina 4 weeks ago

      we literally talk from the moment we wake up til we fall asleep, so i began to grow feelings for him and yeah i sometimes wish he didn't have a girlfriend. i just don't understand how the conversations go on and on and there isn't no commitment. i dont knw what to do. especially having the dreams of him telling me he's in love with me or us being together. it's been the same dream and a continued version for the past almost week...

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Dorcus - Do you think your partner is moving on with an aspect of his life? Is he giving into his family? Is he moving away from you in some aspect? All of these things could be reasons for your dream.

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Taurus - Insecurity in yourself or jealousy of your sister is likely the reason for the dreams

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Princess - You are insecure right now in the relationship or with yourself.

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Sabrina - It could just mean you want someone to tell you that they love you like that. It doesn't have to be him, although, if you like him it may be. Do you wish he liked you or didn't have a girlfriend? Or do you just wish a guy like him liked you?

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Shana - Does the distance between you bother you? Because that is what the dream would represent to me. You are tired of the distance.

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Serentiy - May be time to cut ties with your 'loud mouth friend'. Or, at least, talk to her. To me, it sounds like you have some ill feelings towards her for some reason but you aren't able to let her know about those feelings.

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Kim - Sounds like the dream was more about Matthew than your coworker. Is your relationship with him good? Do you think he's good for your cousin? The dark and stormy aspect adds to my belief that you think something shady might be going on. That's the sense I get from the dream.

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @question - It sounds like a lot of things mixed together. Perhaps you are feeling a sense that he is trying to express his independence more? He is more inclined to do what he wants to do without waiting to see what you think or, possibly, waiting around for your input.

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      Dorcus 5 weeks ago

      Dreaming about the family of my partner coming to collect his clothes they say he passed away

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      princess erika 5 weeks ago

      i had a dream that me,my partner in life and his ex partner walking in the street and i felt in my dream they still in love each other even in the true life i fell that..what is the meaning of that?

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      Sabrina 5 weeks ago

      i had a dream that me and a coworker were going out for lunch on our break. and as we were talking we ended up talking about what we think about relationships with someone we work with. well during my dream he ends up just staring at me smiling and puts his hand on my leg as he was driving. a few moments later he moves his hand and he tells me he's sorry he didn't mean for it to get this far. and i asked him what did he mean we're just two coworkers who are grabbing lunch. and he tells me "there's no easy way to say this but i'm in love with you, i've been in love with you from the moment we began talking. " and i just stared at him in disbelief because he had a girlfriend in my dream and i woke up. what does it mean to dream someone telling you they're in love with you who in real life also has a girlfriend . any suggestions!

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      Serenity 5 weeks ago

      I dreamed my boyfriend and I were not on good terms so we both took time out in seperate rooms. He was in the bedroom and I was in the kitchen cooking by fire. I went to check on my boyfriend and I saw a loud mouth friend of mine laying happily on my boyfriends body. He looked shocked when I saw them. I got so jealous and angry I ripped her off my boyfriends body and beat her to the floor. I put her head in between the room door and was trying to slam the door to smash her head but the door was not connecting with her head. Any suggestions?

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      Kim 5 weeks ago

      I dreamt last night that my coworker and I were together. Nothing sexual happened, but we were kissing and holding each other. At one point, he held me close and said, "you're the one". It was late at night, really dark and stormy. We were in my house, and my cousin and her boyfriend Matthew were there. I can't remember how, but I ended up killing Matthew. Anyway, I've been wrecking my mind attempting to make sense of all this. Is it meaningful? I'd appreciate any and all insight.

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      Question 5 weeks ago

      I had a dream that I was with my husband in a location that alternated between NYC, Miami and an airplane. We were in a building and then I told him to go to the elevator and I'd be right with him. When I stepped out to the hallway he was not there, I figured he took the elevator down to the lobby. I took the elevator down and when the doors opened, a good friend's boyfriend was there with another man. I asked them for my husband and they said he wasn't there. I looked around and then they said they'd take me home. We drove about 5 mins when I said I needed to find him and they let me out 3 avenues away from a restaurant that I somehow knew he was at. When I called him he said he was eating dinner. I walked in and he was with a tall Eastern European woman wearing a fancy outfit, coat and hat. I asked her a question about a street and she kept giving me the wrong pronounciation of the street. I finally got tired of asking her to repeat herself and was turning my back when I woke up. I no idea what this all means but it's extremely weird. Any suggestions?

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Tyler - Girls don't just like popular guys. They like guys who are real, nice, funny, and sincere. So, yeah, a girl could like you even if you are "unpopular". But, popular or not, we all feel awkward sometimes, and that's likely what you were dreaming about.