Interpreting Your Personal Love Dreams

Updated on September 11, 2017
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Dreams can tell us what's happened, what's happening, and what is going to happen. They connect us to the other side and offer us insight that we couldn't get anywhere else.

Your dreams will never lie to you as long as you know how to listen to them!

I've been studying my dreams since I was young and I've gotten pretty good at lucid dreaming, meaning I can 'wake' myself up in a dream and tell myself that it's a dream and then do what I want - fly, see an old friend, or ask an important question. It's a huge part of my excitement for going to sleep at night!

Every morning I remember my dreams and try to figure out if they meant something important, or if they were just random and fun little movies for the night.

Sometimes my dreams offer me the best relationship advice or personal advice that I could ever ask for.

We've all heard of great stories about dreams like Albert Einstein whose theory of relativity was inspired by a dream...that's how powerful dreams really are! You just need to know how to interpret the symbols in your dreams to understand what they mean for you.

Challenge Yourself To Start A Dream Journal And Interpret Your Own Dreams

If you really want to understand your dreams, then you need to be able to interpret them for yourself. No one else has the insight into your life, your dream symbols, and your fears, worries, and thoughts that you do, so you are the only one who can really understand your dreams. Take a 30-day dream journal challenge and see how good you can become at interpreting your own dreams.

Your Dream Interpretations Are Unique To YOU

Everyone looks at certain symbols in dreams and associates something different to them. We do not all view things in the same way.

For example, you might associate the lake with peace while your friend associates it with partying. So when YOU dream of the lake, it most likely represents peace in your life whether you are striving for it or currently receiving it. In short, the lake is your symbol for peace.

Sit back and think about what you associate certain things with. Don't overthink it! Just write down what comes to mind first.

For instance, I would associate the following things as follows:

  • Darkness = calm
  • Water = Peace
  • Parent's home = conflict or turmoil
  • Grandpa's home = comfort
  • Red = love


When you are interpreting your dreams, keep all of your own personal dream symbols in mind. Remember the truth will resonate with you when you see or hear it.

Following are some general interpretations in regards to feelings, sights, and emotions regarding relationship related dreams.

Common Dreams and Interpretations

Sometimes we have dreams about things regarding relationships and we take them a face value - but a lot of the time they are really pointing to some other area of your life.

Dreams Regarding Marriage

Bride - To dream of being a bride, whether it's yourself or someone else, means you are coming into an inheritance.

Man Kissing A Bride - This can mean a joyous get-together between family and friends.

Elopement - This may mean unfavorable events that will or are already occurring in your life.

Partner eloping with someone else - Watch out! You may soon learn about your partner being unfaithful. Alternatively, this could mean you have insecurities or questions about your relationship.

Marriage License - You may make a bad alliance that ends in you being hurt or humiliated.

Dreams With Big Emotions

Happiness - This may be pointing out the obvious but this probably means being happy now or in the near future.

Ecstasy - You will have a visit from a long absent friend.

Joy - To dream of feeling good means there will be harmony among all your friends.

Pleasure - If you dream of gratification you will have many financial and personal gains of enjoyment.

Cheerful - This means that joyous events and activities will soon prove profitable.

Delight - This is letting you know that your life is going well or going to be well soon. Everything is going work out.

Common Dream Symbols Regarding Relationships

There are some very common dreams that we all have. Chances are you have had one or more of these things in your dreams at some time or another. Remember your symbols and listen to your inner self when trying to interpret your dreams. Take into account colors, feelings, time of day, who is there, and everything else when you are trying to interpret your dreams.

Baby - It may mean that an idea or thought is growing and getting ready to be born. An obvious interpretation could be an impending birth. It can also bring to your attention a dependent behavior or need. If the baby is alone it can represent your independence.

Breasts - Of course they may represent sexual desire. It can also represent becoming a mother, need for nurturing, or if you are running around naked, it could mean a fear of exposure.

Kissing - This may suggest romantic involvement. It can also be a symbol of you and someone making up or a reconciliation coming about. It could also mean kissing the past goodbye. Married people or couples kissing means everything is going smoothly and happily and full of harmony. What time of day is it? If it is during the dark it may represent danger or an inappropriate situation. If it's sunny out it may represent good intentions and well meaning.

Pregnancy - It could indicate a desire for a child or not knowing that you are pregnant - but I dream of this a lot and I don't want children! It could also mean something new beginning or coming into your life. Maybe an idea or thought that is getting ready to come out.

Veil - If you are walking around with a veil over your face it may not just be an upcoming marriage. It may mean that you are looking at something through the veil or someone looking at you that way.

Adultery - This can signify your sexual urges and desires that are wanting to come out. It can also indicate disloyalty from your subconscious. You may soon find yourself or already be finding yourself in something shady or disloyal. It probably won't end well.

If your partner is cheating on you it may being showing you your insecurities and your fear of being dumped. It may symbol your feelings of your partner being less attentive and 'there' in the relationship. It may also be your guilt coming out and show you that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others.

Are you dreaming about sleeping with your spouse's friend? This doesn't necessarily mean you want to cheat with them. It may mean that you are feeling neglected by your spouse.

Cheating - Are you dreaming of cheating on something or someone. This may mean you have compromised your beliefs or integrity and/or not making the most of your time and your energy and putting it towards bad decisions and activities. Taking it literally it can bring to life your sexual passion and exploring areas of your sexuality.

To dream that you are cheating at a game, suggests that you are not being honest with yourself.

Lovers - A lover appearing in your dream show your acceptance, self-worth, and recognition of your true value. It may also indicate integration of both your masculine and feminine traits meaning you are feeling complete or whole. You may also dream of your 'dream person' which may indicate that your relationship is not satisfactory to you or it is unfulfilling.

To dream of an ex can symbolize unfinished or unresolved issues that relate to that person. I think we've all dreamt that at times. This may happen when you are in a good relationship and it's waking up your inner issues and memories.

Sex - This may mean you are missing aspects of the person you are having sex with and you want to incorporate them into your own character. It also may just be your desires way of telling you that it's been a long time since you've had sex. If you are trying to find a place to get it on then the dream may be represent your search for a certain intimacy and closeness that you can't find.

Are you having sex with a well known public figure? It indicates your drive to be successful. What do they represent to you? For instance having sex with Angelina Jolie may mean you want to help other people and have the drive to do it.

To dream that you are having sex with an ex may just be showing you that you have some hesitation about getting into a new relationship or situation. Normal!

If you are heterosexual and you dream that you are having sex with someone of the same sex don't spend all day thinking about it. It may just be an expression of being more comfortable with yourself and letting others know you do not affect them.

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Do You Meditate? Meditation Can Help You Interpret Your Dreams

Meditation is simply about being in a relaxed state. In short, you calm your mind (usually into an alpha state) during meditation, just as you do before you go to bed or when you daydream or when you are really relaxed sitting in front of the ocean - or wherever else your mind naturally calms down. Meditation has so many benefits for your health, but we are talking about dreams here - right?

If you want to interpret your own dreams, then meditation can help you do that. Why? Meditation gives you more self-awareness and allows you to find answers that you cannot find when your mind is buzzing and going from one thought to the next.

If you meditate in the morning on your dreams instead of instantly jumping out of bed to get ready for your day, you will have a much easier time remembering and interpreting your dreams.

Moreover, if you meditate before bed, you can focus your attention on things you want to dream about or find answers to - and you will have an easier time influencing your dreams.

Dreams have the power to give you answers, help you sort through issues, and give you insight into your future - and meditation has the power to connect you to your dreams and help you understand them.

You Are The Only One Who Can Really Interpret Your Love Dreams

Remember that whatever resonates as the truth to you is what your dream means.

I get a lot of people asking me what their love dreams mean but, as we discussed, certain symbols mean different things to different people. For instance, darkness for me is calming whereas it might be depressing or scary to you.

I can give you my interpretation of your dream and even let my tarot cards guide you towards a theme or situation, but I don't know all the details of YOU and your life, which is important for interpreting dreams. inside, you know exactly what your dream meant - you are the one who had it! So, you need to learn how to interpret them yourself.

We are all built with an inner guidance system. Meditation is a great tool to help you get access to that inner guidance system. The information is in you, in your cells, waiting for you to find it - so start looking inward instead of outward.

Happy Dreaming!

Ask a question about your dream below: NOTE: It may take me a few days to answer, so check back in a few days at the top of the comment section for an answer. A

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      Kari 33 hours ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Rach - Do you feel like your boyfriend will be there for you only in good times? The fact that he left when it started raining (getting unpleasant) may signify that you feel he isn't going to support you during the down times.

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      Kari 33 hours ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Christina - If you are still very good friends, then I assume you both still love each other. It could mean that you want more than just a friendship, but, if not, then it's probably just a reflection of how you feel about him.

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      Rach 42 hours ago

      I dreamt my boyfriend was sitting somewhere waiting for me, but when the rain started he ran home to finish some work before we had talked

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      Christina 2 days ago

      I dreamed me and my ex was talking and we both expressed our love for each other. We are very good friends still

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      Kari 3 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Vanessa - It sounds like you are worried about something - your health, your relationship with your kids, friends, family, or the dad of the boys, or just life in general.

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      Kari 3 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Mori - It sounds like you are going through positive some changes in life, which usually come with struggle and figuring it all out. As you work on figuring out what truly makes you happy, you are running into struggles that are frustrating you. But, your dream shows that you are willing to start over and keep going despite being unhappy with what is happening. You are going in the right direction!

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      Kari 3 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Haley - Are you worried about something going wrong? Your love life? A relationship with someone? Your health? That's what it sounds like to me. It could also be that you are worried if you get into a relationship something bad could happen.

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      Kari 3 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Lorie - He said I love you to the person on the other end? Maybe he's found someone new. Or maybe you are worried that he's found someone new.

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      Vanessa 4 days ago

      I dreamt of my boys. The older one was in the car with his dad. The young one was walking with me to get his bag. I was holding him tight telling him never to forget that I love him very much and miss him. I then put him into the car with his bag

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      mori 5 days ago

      the first part im writing is information..I prayed for the first time in a long time. not just for my girl but my family and for God to give me strengh. I felt a vibrating energy go though my body ive never felt before. this is when it all started.... right before I sobered up and was driving to the city with my father from the country.. we have a road we always go down together. we noticed something on the road and it was a bald eagle it opened its wings and took flight right in front of us..... this is when all my dreams started occuring....my dreams have all been about people or things just in my reach but cant quite get.****** this one particular dream im trying to spray paint graffiti on a wall. the cans feel full. but when i spray them they only spray a bit. every can has the same issue... they feel full but never provide enough paint to finish my art so at the end of the dream im unsatisfied...**** another dream im trying to draw something but I can never get it right. if its not the picture in general, its the colors but usually just the colors.. my drawings make me happy but when I color them they make me angry and i throw them out and start over*** more info... I was an artist in highschool and was going to be taking university classes for art... thats around the same time I started using drugs.... recently about a year ago this time I had got back into art and graffiti street art... I now realize I want to be a tattoo artist.

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      Haley 5 days ago

      I keep having dreams about having a boyfriend that I have no idea who he is..I’ve never even met him before in real life. But in these dreams something bad is always happening to me. This last dream I had cancer or I was pregnant in my dream. What could this mean?

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      Lorie 5 days ago

      I dreamed about me overhearing my ex talking to somebody over the phone and said I love you before he ended it

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      Kari 6 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Dina - When you pray, you add energy to or intensify the situation, so it's no wonder you dreamt about him all of a sudden.

      I'm not sure what you prayed for, but that's likely why you had the dream. You want him to be a certain way, and in your dream he probably was. So your dream was just some insight into what would happen if your prayers were answered.

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      Kari 6 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Mori - Absolutely!

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      Dina 7 days ago

      I prayed to God about this boy and asked God to change him for me and that same night I had a dream about him and this is my first time ever having a dream about him and we've been talking for a year. In the dream I was in bed and he snuck up on me and scared me and I jumped and he started laughing and then he walked to me and I started laughing and said why you scared me then I pulled him on the bed and he told me he loved me and I was loss for words cause he never told me this before but I always told him then I finally told him I loved him too. Then my mom bussed in the room and I was scared and said what are we going to do and he took my hand and we went out the window and just started running holding hands and I could here my mom say she must really love him and that was all

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      Kari 7 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Mori - I'm assuming you are the same person as Moe? Much more detail than the first one.

      Anyway, it makes more sense now. She's in jail. You can't get in. You are worried about her and she is fine, but being apart it's hard to see that.

      I would add that this dream could reflect your fear of being apart from her. Maybe you are worried about doing something to damage your relationship while you are separated and you just wish you could get to where she is and be with her. For her, she has rules and regulations she has to follow, so it becomes easier not to make bad choices. For you, she might be the rock that helps you avoid making bad choices, but you are separated by this jail and so you worry about it.

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      Kari 7 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Scorpion King - It could just be a fantasy playing out, or it could indicate that this friend has some quality that would make you feel passionate - maybe something that your wife is lacking.

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      Kari 7 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Moe - Is she having an issue in her life - or is something happening that you think is an issue? If so, you may feel the need to help her, but know intuitively that she's fine on her own. She may not need your help, but she still loves you.

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      mori 7 days ago

      I recently started seeing this woman. I have fallen in love with her. shes in jail right now but before that we were both on drugs.. she has sobered up obviously.. and so have I because of her I no longer wanted to use in fear of losing her.... in my dream shes inside of a house. all of the doors are locked and im outside. I cant get in to see her i spend most of the dream checking the doors over and over. i go to the window and shes standing there smiling looking into my eyes.. i can tell she loves me. im confused and upset i cant get in and i feel like shes in trouble..she knows im upset but she doesnt seem worried.. she laughs at me like she thinks its cute. i never end up getting in i just end up standing outside looking at her smile while im upset... then i wake up but im happy when im awake

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      Scorpion King 7 days ago

      I had a dream a couple of nights already with someone I consider a friend and it looks like both of us were really in love with each other as we are in a very intimate situation like kissing toridly. But in real life, we both are happily married to another person.

      Please share what does it mean.

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      moe 7 days ago

      i had a dream this girl im seeing that i fell in love with was inside of a house... i couldnt get inside the doors were all locked. but when i went to the window she was g. she was looking into my eyes. I could tell she was in love with me. she knew i couldnt get in but she wasnt worried.. i was upset i couldnt and she noticed

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      Kari 10 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Abby - I know you thought it might be related to your love life, but maybe it's just a sense of needing someone or something or a feeling of love in your life to help 'fight the battle' - wherever you feel that's necessary.

      Even though you are content working your way through the world alone, you may feel like having someone or something in your life will help you feel more secure, happy, etc.

      Therefore, maybe you need a connection to something spiritual to feel like you are not alone in this world - even when you don't see anyone around you.

      7:4 could be a biblical reference - like Matthew 7:4 - or it could just be a time that you normally wake up or do something important - like at 7:45.

      And if it is about the love of a man, then the dream may just be signifying that while you are content alone, having someone in your life would be nice. Maybe there is a guy that is trying to connect with you that you should allow into your life.

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      Abby 11 days ago

      I had a dream that was a post apocalyptic world where I was living kinda lonely but contently in the woods. Not in a scary way but more in a comforting calming way. Then a man showed up whom I sensed was my love interest. I narrowed the identity of this man to two people in my life. I don't remember his face. He showed up and I helped him (but I don't remember specifically aiding him I just remember that I helped him in some way because survival was difficult) Anyways, I made soup and we ate by a campfire and suddenly it was night. I was happy that I wasn't alone anymore. Then I looked down at my shoes on the woodchips and looked over at a clock that is usually beside my bed but it was there for some reason. It read 7:4something. I am not sure what this means in terms of how I feel about the mysterious love interest. Help.

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      Kari 13 days ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Sue - I'm going to say that you likely don't feel as though you and your ex had a chance to make things work because of - in part - not being given time to connect and bond and work things out alone. Maybe you feel like someone influenced your relationship or breakup.

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      Sue 13 days ago

      Had a dream that my ex and me want to spend time alone. But nobody is letting us. There are people walking in into any room we are trying to get some alone time in. Was very frustrating. Then he had to leave though he didn't want to go.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Mari - It's losing, not loosing. Major pet peeve spelling error of mine.

      In your waking life, you are shedding hair? Then your dream is just a reflection of your waking life. You may not be losing as much hair in real life because dreams are often exaggerated, but - still, it's just a reflection of your concern.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Mercy - It means you want him to miss you. You are hoping that he cares about you and misses you and wants you back. Your dream is reflecting your thoughts and feelings.

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      Mercy 2 weeks ago

      Me and my boyfriend broke up a few weeks back but i have been dreaming of him texting me how he misses me but i could resist to reply so yesterday i dreamt of him taking my pictures i was laying down on the beach sand and behind me he wrote God I miss her. What does that mean but in reality we broke up he asked for space. We not on talking terms.

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      Mari 2 weeks ago

      I saw a dream last night where i was sheeding hair. My cousin was grabbing the hairs and was shocked how much im loosing (In my waking life i am shedding)

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Jovana - You must be feeling some insecurity somewhere in your life and the dream was just a symbol for that. Your current relationship? A friend? A coworker?

      There is someone in your life who you felt a connection with that you believe has betrayed you in some way.

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      Jovana 2 weeks ago

      In my waking life I am in a relationship however, last night i had a dream about a guy I used to like a few months ago. we were together and walking to class I had earphones connected to his phone he got a call and it was a girl asking where he was I then took off the earphones and gave it to him, I got mad and when he tried to make plans I turned it down I dropped him off in his class and went to mine, a friend calls me over and tells me that when I drop him off he leaves class to meet up with another girl. what does this dream mean?

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Vanessa - 14 years is a long time together, so it's totally probable that you would use your ex as a symbol of some sort.

      The scenario is basically someone believing that you aren't being truthful to them - and you trying to tell them otherwise. So, is someone in your life questioning you right now? Are they questioning your honesty or are they suspicious about something without reason? It seems like that's an issue that's occurring and needs to be dealt with.

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      Vanessa 2 weeks ago

      I had a dream last night where my ex found out I was seeing someone else. He was at my house when he found out, and got upset and tried to leave. I went after him and told him I wasn't seeing anyone. He then asked me if I still loved him and I said yes. In reality I am seeing someone else, and don't feel as though I am in love with him anymore. So I am confused about what this dream means. We've been broken up for just over a year now, and we were together for alomost 14 years.

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Louanne - I'm not understanding you. Was that your dream? Can you give more detail about your dream with separate sentences?

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      Louanne Desmarais 2 weeks ago

      I have a question about a dream I had about my bf and he’s asking me to come home but is cleaning up & busy to talk to me but a friend says he wants me to come because his parents are trying to separate us..

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      Kari 2 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Tracey - The name may just be a name you heard the other day or a name that you've heard in the past. It's just a name.

      This is likely just a dream that is playing out a fear that he will go back to his ex or that his divorce won't finalize or something else in that nature. Even the slightest doubt that everything's going to work out (and we all have doubts sometimes) can cause you to have this type of fear-based dream. Don't worry about it.

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      Tracey 2 weeks ago

      I've been seeing this man after being separated for 18 months pending a divorce and we both really happy with each other. But last night I had this dream and it felt so real he was kissing me and then turned round to me and told me he was going back to his ex Lisa I dont know where that name has come from as hes never mentioned an ex buy that name I'm trying to figure it out could you help

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @emma - That saying isn't true. If it was, everyone we ever dream about would be dreaming about us too. You would have heard about your in-sync dreams over and over and over again by now.

      But, it may be true a small percentage of the time. I think that we can meet up in our dreams with souls we are connected to - both living and past.

      The fact that you said you wonder if he's playing with your emotions makes me wonder if you might be reading to much into how he feels, which is translating into your dreams.

      Your dreams don't tell you how he feels. He tells you how he feels. Your dreams tell you - for the most part - how you want him to feel or how you feel.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Sam - To me, it sounds like this dream is a representation of you moving on, and having a good time while doing it. It shows that you are going to be fine despite this breakup and there will be plenty of guys available to you if you want them.

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      Emma 3 weeks ago

      Thanks for the insight - He is definitely aware of my feelings, sometimes I wonder if he is playing with my emotions then I have dreams like these and they tell me he does feel the same he just isn't ready. People say when you dream of someone it means they're dreaming of you too, which I'm not sure is 100% the case however, do you think you can communicate through vivid dreaming? I mention to him sometimes when I have these good dreams (without telling what the dreams involve) and he confirms he has too. Do you think we meet up in dreams and have similar dreams?

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      Sam 3 weeks ago

      This one is a very interesting dream I have had lately.I was in a music competition all alone where I stumbled upon one of my college friends, he's a shy guy, and i nevee had a thing for him. Then we were roaming around when again accidentally i met my school mates, the whole lot. First I met my girlfriends who took this shy guy (from college) as my bf , then they ignored me and moved on. The next I was hugging a complete stranger, (possibly from my school, and I had heard of him, but never met) So this guy was singing really nice. his name was Karan and he was hot. Karan was leaping over me, walking alongside with me, trying to kinda show-off that 'hey, this hottie is my girl!" Especially to one bunch of guys, (from. My school- and these guys were my friends and they were giving confused looks- like How's Sam hanging out with Karan- do they even know each other sorts??)

      Next im in a class , sitting next ti this hot guy Karan flirting with him, and I saw my boss as the teacher in the class. Karan and I are passing notes, writing nasty things abt this teacher-alias-my boss. And finally this smart ass guy asks for my email Id, lol , not my phone number of FB id, but he asks my email. I feel good after seeing this dream lol. And im. Going through a break up and i didn't see a hint of my ex anywhere, why?? Plz interpret this dream fr me.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Emma - The song he sent you was definitely a message to you unless he's completely unaware of things around him. He knew what the song said and he knew how you would take it.

      You may be connected to his energy, felt what he was going to do, or anticipated him sending you some sort of 'love' note.

      Or, you may have had real signs from him that he was going to do that, even if you weren't totally aware of them, and so you were anticipating the 'love' note.

      Anyway, I do think they connect. It's quite a coincidence if they don't.

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      Emma 3 weeks ago

      I have a friend who Ive been in love with for 4 years, we have been on dates and spent some time together, there have been some issues and so we have never been in a realtionshio but i am absolutely in love with him and Ive had several vivid dreams where he has said to me i feel the same in my chest, i had another dream that we were making out and after it he wrote on a message i love you and showed me it, when i woke up in the morning i had a message from him it was a video of a song with lyrics about think about you everyday and i think your the one, do you think these connect? I hadnt heard the song until after the dream

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Angel - I just meant what blonde represents to you. Maybe you are lacking something - or believe you are lacking something - that you think he wanted when he first fell for you. That could actually be unknown to you. That could be stuffed away in your subconcious somewhere and you are not aware that you even feel that way.

      I wouldn't read too much into it as far as him actually doing it unless you actually see him doing that.

      It could also be your subconscious's way of trying to tell you to move on from him. He's moving on, so you should too type of thing.

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      Angel 3 weeks ago

      Well i am actually blonde, but not ditzy;) haha we’ve been talking and i haven’t had thoughts of him cheating while awake so i thought it was odd that i has a dream about it....i was thinking maybe my subconscious was trying to tell me the unknown?

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Sarah - It's a different girl each time because girls are not the issue behind the dreams. The dreams have nothing to do with him cheating on you or flirting with other girls.

      It seems to have to do with your insecurities.

      Perhaps you worry about the way he sees you. For example, because you mentioned 'chill out' twice, you might think that you are too emotional for him.

      You may also worry that he finds other girls more attractive than you for some reason.

      It's just fear projecting itself into your dreams.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Angel - So you are likely worried that he's talking to other girls - or doing more with them possibly. How do you feel about blondes? Ditzy? Sexy? Fun? Whatever your description of them is, it's likely that you are worried that is what he is finding in other girls or looking for because he didn't get it from you OR because he just needs that in his life.

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      sarah 3 weeks ago

      lately ive been having a strange dream for the past 3 nights, the first one was my boyfriend rejecting me to go to a movie with his ex and when i got onto him he told me to “chill out” and the second was him with a completley different girl telling me to “chill out” once again. but then as i got onto her about talking to him he was sitting there going “yeah” but when i left and came back to the area we were in they were sitting together once again. the third was me and my sister hanging out in a feild and he was with a girl i did not recognize or remember, it happened about 30 minutes ago. but they were together together because i saw him flirtinng aith her and playing with her hair, id really like to know what do these dreams mean why is it a different girl each time i dream of this?

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      Angel 3 weeks ago

      Me again.....so last night i has a dream that the ex I’ve mentioned was talking to two girls behind my back and all i remember is that they were both blonde lol

      Don’t remember much details

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Jess - You're not just reading into your dreams, you are talking about what you feel like when you think about your dreams in real life - excited and happy. So it seems likely that's the message.

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      Jess 3 weeks ago

      Lately my dreams include a love interest where there is mutual attraction and clues that things will lead to physical intimacy, but it always cuts out. The thing is, it’s alwas with another girl.

      I’m early 20s, consider myself asexual, but haven’t really had any relationship. But I get so happy and excited thinking back to how it felt to almost kiss a girl in my dreams. I can’t even imagine kissing a or being intimate with a guy with any excitement like that.

      Idk if it would be the biggest surprise that I like girls, but would I be reading too much into my dreams to assume that’s the message?

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Kan - Do you feel guilty about something? Maybe you are spending more time with your friends than him or sharing more of yourself with your friends them him? It sounds like your dream is a reflection of that feeling.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @jtas - It's probably his subconscious moving him back towards you. After all, your mother would be a sign of approval and have a huge connection to you, so she represents his inner voice.

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      Kan 3 weeks ago

      I had a dream that I was in a relationship with one of my friends. My boyfriend got pushed to the side in the dream and he wasn't my main focus, but we were still together and he was unknowing that I was with someone else.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Delia - This really depends on what's happening in your life.

      Are you not sharing your true feelings with your boyfriend?

      Are you doing things in your life that you know you don't want to do?

      Are you committing yourself to something or someone that you don't want to commit to? This could be in any area of your life - career, friendship, spirituality, habits, etc.

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      Kari 3 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Kwena - Who is the other guy? Are you assuming I know? You need to add more information in when you are talking to someone who doesn't know your life.

      But, my guess is that you think your mother-in-law doesn't like you or is acting against you in some way.

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      Delia 3 weeks ago

      I had a dream i was about to get married to someone else i didn't love while thinking about my boyfriend who i really love and wish i was marrying

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      Kwena 4 weeks ago

      Dreamed my mother in law sending the other guy to beat me up

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      Kari 4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Bella - It may have more to do with your friend than you. Are you worried that her boyfriend is hurting her or going to hurt her? The characters in your dream are not always as important as the symbols and feelings in the dream.

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      Kari 4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Hana - Perhaps your subconscious is trying to tell you that you need to show your crush you like him or else he will think you like someone else. Don't play games. Just make it clear he's the one you are interested in.

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      Bella 4 weeks ago

      I dreamt I was with someone and we were in love. Things were great except 1 thing. His ex was pregnant and about to give birth. I remember in the dream accepting this situation because I loved him and making the best out of it. In real life I am single and my best friend is having a baby. I did get out of a relationship but I am very single. This dream had been bothering me because the guy and pregnant girl in my dream are not familiar faces. Any advice?

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      Hana 4 weeks ago

      We were in a museum, and it was time for my other guy friend to go. I said,"Aren't you going to leave?" He said, "No because you're my best friend." We weren't that close and I saying "awwwww I feel soft" like jokingly in a friendly banter. I turn and see my crush staring at me with sad eyes, as if he was jealous . Help?

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      Kari 4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Jose - *they're

      Do you feel watched? Do you feel as if you are not getting enough alone time? Those are possibilities. It could also mean your subconscious, the part you are not aware of, is longing for some alone time.

      Also, you could be feeling anxious or worried about something, and that's coming through in your dreams. Is there something in your life that is causing you anxiety? Worry, fear, struggle? That could be the cause.

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      Kari 4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Raylee - It could mean he feels like your love towards him is dying. If you have gotten a new friend, new hobby, or are just spending more time away from him, he may be feeling like he's disappearing from your life.

      It could also be due to his insecurities. Even though he knows you care about him, he feels like his disappearing out of your life.

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      Jose 4 weeks ago

      I keep getting dreams of people watching me sleep while am asleep cause I can hear them talk but when I open my eyes there not there

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      Raylee 4 weeks ago

      My boyfriend had a dream we was in school and he walked through me as he went to hug me he then followed me Home, I was walking home with my Bestfriend and I picked up some roses and we went to this graveyard and we stood by a grave and I was crying a lot I put the roses down and the grave said in loving memory of... and his name he then realised he died. What does this mean ?

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      Kari 4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Thalia - Because he is always distant in some way, it may mean that you feel that finding your soulmate is going to be a little bit longer. Not quick. Not too soon. But later on in life. You may know this spiritually (have insight into something greater) or it may just be an insight you have because of your plans in life. For example, if you have some great career plans that involve a lot of travel, you may know that you won't have time to be in a traditional relationship.

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      Thalia Jasmin 4 weeks ago from Italy

      Oh I forgot to say, in real life we don't know each other.

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      Thalia Jasmin 4 weeks ago from Italy

      Hi!

      I have currently dreams with this guy who I believe is my soulmate, but in a lot of this dreams he is always looking away, behind me to my left and his right. And at the same I feel a deep connection with him but I feel he's also distant. What does this mean?

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      Totally Tortured 4 weeks ago

      Thank you for your insight....it is very helpful! Actually from what I remember both my mom & sister were happy about this other man. I am struggling with my feelings for him & have stayed silent for the last 6 weeks hoping that I would forget about him but instead any time we speak, which is maybe once a week I miss him more & wish that I could see him if even for just 5 minutes. The guilt is definitely killing me because my boyfriend is a great man & I am lucky to have him in my life but you made a good point that I don't feel like he is my other half. With that said I am still scared of breaking up with him and losing him. I need to analyze our relationship separate from this other person. I do not want to leave one for the other. Like you said I need to follow my heart. In which I will need to silence my brain & make the best choice I can make for all of us. Thank you again!

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      Kari 4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Totally Tortured - I totally feel you are feeling guilty. It's only natural. You obviously love your boyfriend, but you are struggling with your feelings towards this other guy.

      Even in the dream, you are trying to be sneaky about it, and, you accomplish that because your boyfriend doesn't notice.

      What does your mom represent to you? Your sister? They both see him and want to know who he is? Do you remember if they were disappointed, curious, supportive, or indifferent?

      For me, for example, my mother symbolizes disapproving sometimes and supportive other times. So if she seemed slightly annoyed or upset in the dream, I would consider her showing up as a symbol that my subconscious disapproves of the relationship with him on some level because he is no good for me. If she seemed supportive, I would consider her showing up as a symbol that my subconscious is seriously considering being with this other guy because he would make me happier or more fulfilled.

      I want to point out that you said this guy felt like your other half, and you didn't say anything like that about your boyfriend. It's a huge insight into how you feel about this guy and how unresolved feelings could still be around.

      I'm not telling you to break up, but I am telling you from experience, that not going with your heart can cause a lot of regrets. For instance, one of my best friends could only see herself with a certain guy, but she ended up marrying someone she thought she should be with because of religion, values, parents, etc. Ten years later, and three kids later, she divorced this guy because of a ton of problems and the guy she saw herself with had died.

      That said, you might regret it if you break up with your current boyfriend.

      In my experience, life is about going with your intuition and heart and owning the choices you make as the best choices you could have made.

      Hope that helps!

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      Kari 4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Just A Girl - I would say it's your subconscious telling you that you need more love in your life - real love where you feel embraced by it. Maybe you need to love yourself more (you are dear to you, after all) or maybe you need to get out and meet new people - one of who might be capable of giving you what this person does in this dream. If the dreams are recurring, that means your subconscious is really trying to drive home this insight to you. So take action and embrace yourself with self-love or the love of family or new friends.

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      Totally Tortured 4 weeks ago

      In a nutshell....I have a boyfriend of almost a year. In the summer we broke up for 2 months. I met someone else that felt like my other half. Never have I felt more myself with anyone. After 4 weeks of us just being friends & spending a lot of time together he left the country for over a month. In that time I got back together with my bf. This other man officially moved to my hometown 6 weeks ago & since seeing him again I am totally tortured. My relationship with my bf is going great. We have worked through most of the issues that broke us up. My bf talks about our future and I get a sinking feeling in my heart because all I can see is me with the other man. I keep having crazy dreams but the worst was last night. Earlier in the night I briefly spoke to this other person in which he was telling me that he wanted to come to my house to see me & just wanted to cuddle with me in bed, which I could not allow. I dreamt that he showed up at my house while me & my bf were sleeping and that I snuck him into bed with me (not sexual). I kept telling him to be quiet or my bf would wake up & see him. My bf woke up (didn't see him) & went to the bathroom, next I see my mom next to me asking me who this other man was, which I ended up introducing them. Next the same thing happens but with my sister. My bf never came back from the bathroom. I woke up right after. What is happening? Am I just feeling guilty, even though I haven't cheated on my bf? Why do I feel so connected & see my future with a man I barely know? I don't want to hurt my bf & I will not cheat on him but I need to figure out why I can't stop thinking about this other man. Any insight is much appreciated.

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      Just A girl 4 weeks ago

      Also I forgot to add, I’m only 16 so I shouldn’t be this upset over being alone. I have other mental problems that effect feeling abandoned and being alone.

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      Just A girl 4 weeks ago

      I have had multiple dreams in the last month of being in a relationship with someone. In the dream i know that they are dear to me and that I love them. Their presence alone fills me with joy in the dream. The worst ones have me being embraced by them. I say worst because I am battling depression, have no one in my real life to even call a friend much less this. And I wake up feeling heartbroken that it isn’t real. What is the purpose of these dreams? I love them, but I can’t keep waking up to them like this.

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      Kari 4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Tasha - Your husband could be missing something you used to do to stimulate him. Even if you haven't been together since you were young, he may just be missing something you did earlier in the relationship... when it was young.

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      Kari 4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Dolce - It's possible that you are considering leaving your boyfriend if you find someone better or who offers you more of what you are looking for - possibly someone who is more religious or faithful and can share that with you.

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      Tasha 4 weeks ago

      My husband dreamed he was on a bus sitting between two younger versions of me (his wife) manually stimulating us both. What does that mean?

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      Dolce Amore 4 weeks ago

      Hi kari, wha is the meaning of my dream that a male officemate,put his hands on his lips then put put it into my lips like his saying some prayer.. this kind of scenario, then in my dream i feels like i had go to bed with him(but this officemate is very junior to me both age and position and i hv no interest at him at all). BUT the most interesting part is after he wipe hiss hands to my lips,i forgot my boyfriend in that dream like he erase my memories of my boyfriend(the boyfriend im talking about it my boyfriend in real like)

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      Kari 4 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Aleya - I think you are right, this dream is about your future. Write it down, remember the feeling of it, remember the details such as 'fangirls' and I think you will be surprised in about 5-7 years when you find yourself living out this dream.

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      Aleya 4 weeks ago

      Continuation....

      I forgot to tell you some things.

      I also noticed that I said that I didnt noticed him then said on the other sentence that I forgot. What I meant on the part that I said that I forgot to where I met him is that to where I really saw him first but he does not know me yet. It also not future boyfriend but on that time I was already his girlfriend. The only skin ship we did was hugging, cuddling, and kissing. I also remembered this scene in my dream that we we're looking at the sky. We we're in a lawn maybe and he was sitting in that lawn and I was laying my head on his thighs on his side. That is the only part in the dream we kissed and nothing more than that. I hope you will still read this. Thank you so much!!

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      Aleya 4 weeks ago

      Since I am still 14, I dreamt about this guy (maybe in his early 20's) being my future "boyfriend". It seems that I was actually so happy to be with him. I met him on where my father lives since my family and I are living in my mom's place. I was maybe at the same age as him or 1-2 years younger. It feels so real and now i want to continue that dream and I also want to know who he is. I already forgot his look but I knew that he was good looking. I also saw that he had some 'fangirls' in his dream and I still dont know if he is a celebrity or something like that or he is just famous. Before I also dreamt about this guy, I also had another "boyfriend" before him but he cheated on me. I also forgot on how I met him because often forget my dreams. I only remember my dreams that seemed to be SO important to me. I always have a hard time sleeping and now for me it feels so exciting to dream again. I feel that he is somewhat a real person and i feel that one day this dream is going to come true. I actually don't find it as a sign telling me about my life now and how my life is now. I clearly feel that he is 'going' to be a part of my life someday even tho he is really unknown to me. I never really met a guy like this before that looks like him even when he is young. I need a answer right now so please tell me what does this mean? Is it going to happen? Sorry if this is long but this is the only place I can tell someone because my parents would not really understand me even my friends and relatives so I thought of asking you this. Thank you so much

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Kayla - It depends on what is going on in your life.

      Are you two worried or fearful about something? Is she making more progress away from that worry or fear than you?

      Do you feel like she's leaving you behind in your relationship or forcing you to deal more with bad stuff/situations/relationships that belongs to the both of you?

      Do you feel like she doesn't hear you and your concerns about issues you are both facing?

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      Kayla 5 weeks ago

      What does it mean when me and my girlfriend are running away from something bad in your dream and I'm falling behind and she keeps running and I'm yelling for her to wait and she just disappears into the woods.

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Serah - It means you really, really like him. What he says to you is usually a reflection of what you want to hear or what you are afraid of. In your case, it's what you want to hear.

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      Serah 5 weeks ago

      What does it mean when the man u really like tells you he loves you not once but twice in your dream

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Joss - It's likely just a fear-based dream. Maybe your relationship is a little rocky right now or maybe you just aren't totally trusting your partner in some area.

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Sofi - Pregnancy often indicates something new happening or 'being born'. So maybe she thinks you are going somewhere far away to try out something new. Or maybe she's worried about you taking a long trip and doing something different with your life.

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Kassie - Your boyfriend even feels like you are leading him in a good direction or you are trying to pretend like you are leading him in a good direction - which could be with your relationship, goals, wants, needs, etc. It all depends on how you were smiling. If it was genuine, then he must think you are good for you him.

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      Joss 5 weeks ago

      I dreamt my partner was with his ex girlfriend in my house.

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      Sofi 5 weeks ago

      My mom had a dream of me that i was pregnant (but i am not) and that i was about to get on a ship

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      Kassie McKnight 5 weeks ago

      My boyfriend told me he had a dream of him following me as im walking in front of him. And I keep looking back at him smiling. What does this mean?

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Karissa - It could mean that you are putting too much value on boys and should focus more on school, friends, activities, and other things.

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Kim - It could be possible that you think if you were to change something physical about yourself, your ex-boyfriend would notice you or maybe even want you back. But, it seems you also think he's untrustworthy, so I'm not sure how badly you would want him back anway.

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Angel - I totally remember you.

      The last part of the dream likely has to do with world events and all the crap and judgments we hear on a daily basis. It's likely just your mind's desire to say, "What the hell is wrong with you?" to all these judgmental people who are so ignorant.

      The part about your ex seems to have more to do with your feelings. You are happy to see him but then scared because of what he's doing and who is. So, it could be your mind to work through the conflict you feel towards him. Love him, scared of him, want him, don't want him, etc.

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Gertrude - You must feel like your husband wants something different than you if you are not dark skinned. Doesn't mean it's true. It's just something you are feeling for some reason.

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @HC - Thanks for sharing all that.

      It's interesting because I found myself swaying while reading your dream and comments - almost as if I was listening to a nice song. I never do that. And then you mentioned that you are into music. I'm just getting the feeling that you should keep delving into your music if the energy from your writing made me sway.

      Anyway, I think your dream is a representation of what you want to happen. You know how we practice an experience that's coming up over and over again in our heads? We say and do things in our imagination and then rewrite the script so that everything goes exactly how we want it to go. That's what I think you are doing. You are contemplating how things could go when you go there. You are preparing yourself.

      Whether or not all this is a good idea is something only you know - or will know once you see her.

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      Thalia Jasmin 5 weeks ago from Italy

      You're right! I'm struggling between my hopes and my fears about this guy and don't know what to do. Thank you for the interpretation!

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Thalia - So the duck is a symbol. It's something that is lost and alive, but struggling to stay alive. Are you struggling to keep hope alive that this guy is your soulmate? Are you finding yourself giving up? That duck sounds like the symbol of your inner struggle to communicate with him.

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      Kari 5 weeks ago from Alberta, Canada

      @Taelyn - Trying to get him out of your head doesn't equal him being out of your head. If he was out of your head, you wouldn't even have to try. So, he's still on your mind and still in your dreams.