How to Dream About Someone Specific: Your Crush, a Celebrity, or Your Love

Updated on July 23, 2017

How to dream about someone you like

During a lucid dream, it’s possible to see someone specific, whomever you want. If you’re interested in learning how to dream about a particular person, it’s necessary that you already have some success achieving lucidity. Having lucid dreams, at least semi-regularly, will give you the opportunities you need to practice the following techniques.

If lucid dreaming is new to you, or you still struggle to reach or maintain lucidity in a dream, there’s lots of good information available to help you work on this. Use your favorite lucid dreaming resource to learn the basics first. I also have an article on lucid dreaming for beginners and one on reality checks.

When you think you’re sufficiently competent in those skills, here’s the next step I suggest. Just don't ask me anything about the waking world; I don't know a thing about it.

Set it in Your Mind

An important prerequisite is to set it firmly in your mind that when you’re dreaming you will see this person whenever you want. Tell yourself that when you become lucid, it will be easy to find this person. This should be done multiple times a day until it comes to mind in your dreams.

Once you’re lucid, you need to stay relaxed. If you’re tense or worse yet, desperate, it won’t work. Remember that your dream scene is being created by your mind, so your emotions affect what happens. If you’re worried that it won’t work, your mind will find a way to create endless obstacles until your dream time runs out or it breaks down.

I’ll go over the various methods now, and then outline a brief pre-bed routine to help prime your mind for success.

Methods for Dreaming of Someone

All of the methods must be done with confidence and calmness. Try not to get too discouraged if you only make it partway, or fail to get anywhere. It’s not unusual to have to make many attempts at various stages before you can stay in the right frame of mind to succeed.

Once you become lucid and stabilize your dream, any of the following methods could allow you to see a particular person. Experiment with them all, or focus on the one or two that appeal to you the most.

# 1- Spin a Scene

Spin around for about 5-10 seconds. During the spin, picture the scene you want to enter, including your person of choice. Stop spinning, convinced that the scene and person will materialize.

# 2- Imagine a Scene

Close your dream eyes and imagine the room or venue with the person of your choice in it. Wait until the picture is strong, then, open your eyes with complete expectation that you will enter the scene.

# 3- Behind a Door / Around a Corner

If there’s a door in your dream, tell yourself that ____ is behind the door. Open it with the expectation that you’ll see them.

Another way to do it is to knock on the door. You can believe that the person will answer. Or if you prefer, have no expectation about who will answer, and instead, tell that person that you’re here to see ____, believing that they’ll get the person and be right back.

A recurring location in my lucid dreams is the hallway of an apartment building; so many doors, so many chances for this method to work.

Another way is to walk to a corner, expecting the person to be on the other side.

# 4- Just Ask

If there are other people present, ask one of them where your person of choice is. Have the expectation that they will point the person out directly or point to a location very close by.

You can also tell whoever is there to go get the person you want to see. (I find this to be very reliable.)

# 5- Go to Them

If your dream is set near a place that your person would be, go there. It could be their home, school, place of work – anywhere you’d expect to see them.

I only recommend this method if the place is really close by. If possible, fly to the location so you get there quickly. If the travel takes too long it’s easy to get distracted along the way; at worst you can lose your lucidity, at best it uses up your dream time.

# 6- Take My Hand

Close your eyes, extend your hands and say “Take my hand ____.” Wait happily and expect the person to take your hand. When you feel it, open your eyes and there they are.

If You Succeed

When the person is in sight, it’s critical to remain calm. Don’t get stressed that the person doesn’t want to see you. Don’t take any action that suggests the person wants to get away from you, like running towards them, or trying to sneak up on them.

Greet the person happily and fully expect that they’ve been waiting for you and are glad to see you.

If you make it this far, congratulations! It should only get easier the more you try.

Prime Your Mind

As you’re lying in bed, before going to sleep, imagine a dream scene where you become lucid, say “I’m going to see _____ now”, and with a calm attitude, enact the technique of your choice. Picture the person appearing and greet them cheerfully. Imagine them greeting you happily, in whatever way you choose – with a smile, a hug, or whatever seems most natural.

Keep Trying

Being able to dream about whomever you want with some regularity isn’t easy. The information given here is only a starting point. Keep thinking about your dreams, including where things tend to go wrong.

At first, I recommend doing the pre-bed visualization with all the methods, so they’ll come to mind if an opportunity presents itself; at the very least, you’ll gain experience from the attempt. After a while, you might find that one of the methods is better suited to the kind of dreams you usually have. If so, by all means focus on that one when you remind yourself through the day and pre-bed time. (I have the most success with #3 and #4, and sometimes #6)

As you gain experience with this form of dream control, you might even think of a way yourself that’s well suited to your dreams.

Ideally, you’ll enjoy the entire process of lucid dreaming and dream control, without getting too frustrated (and I know it can be terribly frustrating, especially when you lose the dream or person at the last moment), keeping in mind that you have a lifetime to practice and explore.

I hope this helps, and keep at it!


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      Howard Allen 11 days ago


      The fact that this is recurring is good news. You can daydream this situation repeatedly until you automatically doubt what your mother is telling you and reality check instead. Picture yourself in a lucid dream. Have your mother enter the scene and tell you you're not dreaming. This will be the trigger for you. Set it in your mind that when your mother tells you you're not dreaming that you have to reality check. When you reconfirm that you're dreaming, tell your mother you need to meet with ___ for a while. Ask her to make sure no one bothers you. A common problem with seeing people in a dream is getting intruded on by someone else. I find it effective to ask another dream character to take care of this for me.

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      Samantha 11 days ago

      I’ve has this recurring issue whilst lucid dreaming where my mother comes in to my dream and manages to convince me that I’m no longer dreaming and that everything is real. How do I prevent this from happening? I’ve had a dream where I managed to meet the person of my choice and wished to continue it, but last night I was stopped from doing so because of this issue.

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      Howard Allen 12 days ago

      Waking up while lucid is always a possibility. It's really disappointing. It sounds like you were doing well. The cat might have distracted you enough to wake up but it's hard to know for sure. I find the best thing is to remind myself throughout the dream that I'm lucid and stay focused on what I want to do. The usual strategy is to engage your senses so you're fully in the dream world - look around, listen, smell the air, and touch something (rubbing your hands and arms is good). There are no guarantees though. Sometimes we're going to wake up.

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      Anonymous 2 weeks ago

      Hello again, and sorry to keep troubling you. So last night, I was finally able to have a lucid dream where the person I wanted to meet was acting of their own accord, without me consciously thinking about what they should do first. I found them walking around, and then followed them and they came to a cornered space and just as I was about to speak to them, my cat appeared. I was still aware I was dreaming at this point but thought that briefly petting my cat wouldn’t delay me that much in meeting the person, and I thought that now I was lucid and had a day where I knew I did not have to wake up as early as usual, if I felt myself waking up I would be able to pull myself back into the dream. The problem was, as soon as I stood up from petting my cat and was about to turn around and meet the person who was patiently waiting for me, I woke up so instantly that I could not stop it. I felt very in control of my dream when with my cat and felt like I wasn’t petting him for much more than ten seconds. What could have caused me to wake up, and how could I prevent it in the future when it happened so suddenly? I know usually that I am limited on time to sleep, but while lucid, I was fully aware that I could allow myself plenty more time to sleep last night, so I don’t think it was because of that.

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      Howard Allen 3 weeks ago

      This sounds like a tricky one. Any dream character knows what you know, so this is bound to happen. You're expectation was right but things won't always go the way we want in a dream.

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      Anonymous 3 weeks ago

      Thank you for your fast response. Following on from that, I specifically met them at a time before a certain event happened, however, when I made a reference to that event, instead of the expectation that they would not know what I was talking about, they seemed to know exactly what I was talking about. Is this again to do with the fact that my own thoughts were derailing them too much, or is it that I travelled to the wrong time?

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      Howard Allen 4 weeks ago

      This sounds like something you would have to set in your mind daily until it sticks. I would tell myself that when I see this person they will be relaxed and enjoy themselves and everything will be normal. I would do this until that thought occurred to me in my dream. Thinking of that before seeing this person should prevent other thoughts from derailing their behavior.

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      Anonymous 4 weeks ago

      So I’ve managed to lucid dream, and to meet the person I really want to, but they seem incredibly out of character because they only act based off of things I think of. How do I remain lucid, but not have as much control over them so that they come across more naturally?

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      Jimin 4 weeks ago

      I want to dream about BTS cuz I love them very much and I wanna see them even when I'm asleep :D

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      Summer pll fan 5 weeks ago

      I dreamed about my favourite people in the world and it was troian belisario shay mitchell sasha peiterse but lucy hale and ashley benson werent there and idk why and at the start of the dream we were sharing a house and hen we went out and some reason i became troian belisario and then i was saying how i cant spell my on screen name spencer but then we went to this stage and wanted to thank the people on pretty little liars and I couldn’t find troian and after that we were laughing with eachother having fun i pointed out emison to shay and sasha they were really happy and then my mum woke me up cos i didnt realise it was 3 pm i was angry cos it was going somewhere and i got to meet them in my dream so i want to do this again tonight so i can meet my fave people and i hope this is every night and if i say take my hand ... i feel like that will work so thx for this blog

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      jennifer 2 months ago


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      Howard Allen 2 months ago


      Yes, (1) In my experience things feel real while lucid dreaming. Sometimes they feel even more intense than when awake.

      (2) No, You can't be lucid and not realize it. Being lucid means you are aware that you are dreaming. What you described sounds like a vivid dream but not a lucid one.

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      Kai 2 months ago

      I have 2 questions.

      1. Is it possible to feel things (hit, pinch, kiss) while lucid

      2. Can you be lucid and not realize it.

      I remember last night seeing my dream very, very clearly. I felt like I had a choice in what I did, but I wasn't thinking "I am dreaming". I was in a situation of the first time I met someone (It was NOTHING like the first time I met them, but I remember it being something like I was back to that moment and I did something different. Then an unamed (because it's emberassing) thing happened. Right then is when I felt like it was real, but I didn't know I was lucid. Also, I was able to feel (physically like it was real) the thing that happened. That is why I ask those two questions.

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      Howard Allen 2 months ago

      It's good to be in the habit of reality checking every time you wake up. Then you will catch these false awakenings and get lucid.

      From there you can try breaking out of the paralysis by staying calm and moving your fingers and toes. After a while the movement should spread to your arms and legs and then you'll be able to get up.

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      Nusi Limbu 2 months ago

      The same pattern happens with me!

      I am a very light sleeper, And can hear if someone around is speaking a little loudly. Sometimes my dream gets along with the topic people are discussing around me in their consciousness. Whenever i am lucid dreaming 5/10 chances of happening the same loop with me. Usually starting with lucid dream and ending on the bed realising that i am sleep paralyzied. When one session ends. I think i woke up this time, but it keeps on happening for atleast 7 to 8 times. Each time it takes roughly 2-5 minutes.

      And when i finally wake to my actual consciousness i find myself in a very coldest form. I would love to hear if you have anything that can help me through tis stage.

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      Howard Allen 3 months ago

      It sounds like you need to experiment with lucid dreaming first. Getting comfortable with that is a necessary first step.

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      Andrea Laughin 3 months ago

      I want to dream about someone I love. But I can't control my actions or thoughts in dreams.

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      Howard Allen 3 months ago

      Being nervous almost always makes it impossible. I don't know what will help you relax so I can't suggest anything. That's something you can experiment with. I would try to view the whole process as an experiment so there's no pressure to make it work.

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      Nonename 3 months ago

      I wanna dream with brendon urie but i canttt i get nervous and i just cant close my eyes any help?

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      4 months ago

      I want to see kelli berglund aka Bree from lab rats

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      Howard Allen 7 months ago

      Yes. I have dreamed about fictional characters like they were real people.

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      Marlie Sosa 7 months ago

      Is it possible to dream about a false character from perhaps a video game or a movie?

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      Dragon lover 8 months ago

      I want to see hiccup from each how to train your dragon I have tried everything but he is not in my dream when I want him so I hope this will work

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      DJNurnsTV [YT] 8 months ago

      Wow this is so cool


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