Why Scorpio and Aquarius are Attracted to Each Other

Updated on July 31, 2018
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Andrea loves to write about the zodiac and love compatibility. She's been an online writer for over five years.

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Even if you're a rookie in astrology, you've probably heard some of the rumors about the compatibility between water signs and wind signs. A lot of astrologers will go on autopilot and tell you that the best partner for you will be someone with whom you share an elemental sign. (They'll also tell you to check your charts.) This is too simplistic.

Every combination of signs offer unique rewards and challenges to a relationship. For example, when a water sign and a wind sign connect, the results can be magnificent. This article will explore why Scorpios and Aquarius are such a powerful match.

What You Need to Know About Scorpio and Aquarius's Love Compatibility

  • Why do Scorpios and Aquarius make such a powerful match?
  • What does it mean to be a water-bearer and a phoenix?
  • What should guide a relationship between these signs?
  • What's the benefit of dating someone with a different sign?

On some alchemical level, all relationship combinations are like a spell. Combining Scorpio and Aquarius forms a healing configuration. The paragraphs below will explain the benefits and challenges of this type of relationship.

Why Are Scorpios and Aquarius Such a Powerful Match?

Aquarius is exactly what Scorpio wants, and has always wanted. The Aquarius will always be mysterious to the Scorpio. The Scorpio will be perpetually on the hunt, always learning something new about the Aquarius. Scorpio is a strongly masculine sign, and loves to go after something it doesn't fully understand. Unfortunately, the water sign gets bored easily. Sometimes a pleasant match is too surface level for Scorpio. This sign desires a great deal of complexity, paradoxes, and affection. Aquarius's complex nature is enough to lure Scorpio. Scorpio is like the pipe organ of emotions and thought. They have a strong voice and are capable of arranging complex thoughts.

Scorpios are extremely powerful signs, but often misunderstood. They'll trail to the side and go on their own independent journeys. People don't always know what exactly a Scorpio is, so it'll fade from view without ever being fully realized. Fortunately, an Aquarius is capable of understanding the Scorpio better than any other zodiac sign. A mature Aquarius will know a Scorpio immediately just by their intense stare. A Scorpio's stare is enough to cut through titanium. No other sign has this.

What Happens When Water Signs Combine With Air Signs?

All water signs are representative of a certain amount of healing and creative power. Aquarius is a brilliant thinker with excessive creativity and intuition. When Scorpio and Aquarius meet, they make for a cleansing, healing panacea (or, if they are not mature enough, a tempest). All combinations have their healing and destructive powers. Either way, this combination is strong.

Monogynous relationships between these two signs tend to be stronger. Polygamous combinations tend to be weaker because the power is often not balanced between them. Monogyny works for them because a Scorpio can fixate on an Aquarius and help it to be more powerful. The two need to spend a lot of time getting to know each other. They also need to focus their attention on each other. There is a lot of unraveling they'll need to do as neither sign tends to be as open as a Cancer or a Sagittarius.

Scorpio is a magician, and often feels that the challenges around him or her are too dry. That many of the things around them are dull to a great extent until an Aquarius steps into their world. Aquarius is a visionary and will never bore the Scorpio. In fact, the water sign helps the wind sign's vision a reality. Meanwhile, the Aquarius takes a dormant volcano (the Scorpio) and makes it explosive, exciting their inner passion. These two can bring out the potential within each other.

They need to understand that they don't communicate like normal couples, nor should they. They're not like normal individuals either. Scorpio needs an Aquarius to gladly accept its affections. Aquarius needs a Scorpio to chase it (Aquarius isn't a huge fan of chasing). If done well, it's an incredible and beautiful journey and an amazing pairing. Unfortunately, many couples with this combination will move too quickly, leading to self-destruction.

Neither of these signs do well with zodiacs that are too simple or too controlling. They have to line up with each other naturally, sharing equal intelligence and desire or else the whole structure will fall apart before it really has the chance to grow.

What Are Scorpio and Aquarius Drawn To?

Scorpio
Aquarius
A banging body
Creativity
A charming personality
Loyalty
Intelligence
Intelligence
Good communication skills
Intuition

Aquarius is loving and intelligent. These are gifts the Aquarius employs with a fair amount of introversion or introspection (perhaps both). Scorpio can't unravel an Aquarius like it can most other signs. It sees that the Aquarius has more pure motives, a different range for ethics, and a massive capacity for love. Scorpio enjoys Aquarius, but it brings up a lot of insecurities from deep within Scorpio. Can the Scorpio possibly win the heart of the person who wants to take care of everybody's hearts? How can the Scorpio, which can be the lowest of creatures, win such a big heart?

Why You Should Consider this Combination

Embrace the calm of an Aquarius. The ease it has with life will match well with a Scorpio and its ever changing ways. Like ice, the Scorpio is the most solid of the water signs. Still, being the master of water, it can seamlessly drift into its liquid and gaseous states. (Pisces will always be the light waters and Cancer will always be the deep, troubled waters.)

Scorpio can go anywhere there is emotion, and Aquarius can go anywhere where there is thought. When they are together the two feel more complete, more like they can share their personal stories. They're not exact mirrors, or even in the same states, but they can explore each other and come to understand each other quite well. Don't force this kind of relationship. If it's not meant to be, then it's not meant to be. But when intellect and emotion try to replicate each other and understand each other, beautiful and crazy things can happen. Albeit, if the two are not mature enough in who they are, it won't work so beautifully. Just remember to know and understand yourself before you expect anyone else to do the same.

Personality Traits of Scorpio and Aquarius

Scorpio
Aquarius
Loyalty
Humanitarian
Resourcefulness
Progressive
Intensity
Affectionate
Jealousy
Friendly
Passion
Popular
Seriousness
Broad-minded
Protective
Frank
Secretive
Insensitive
Possessive
Unpredictable
Vengeful
Detached

What Does It Mean to Be a Water-Bearer and a Phoenix?

Scorpio feels awkward having to face its insecurities in the light of someone who is so lovely. Aquarius often shirks relationships, sometimes delving into very independent phases and being void of sex. Aquarius can confuse people. They can be virginal, bisexual, pansexual, and sexually straightedge. No one really knows how to label an Aquarius, especially when they are so private. They have a sexuality that is massively deep and insightful, and there are Aquarian types who really are protective and intuitive about their sexual life. However, some Aquarians are extraordinarily exploitative. Aquarius doesn't feel a lot of chemistry with many signs on a sexual level. It may feel like having true chemistry with a partner is difficult to achieve. Their invasive thoughts can distract them from the amazing things in front of them.

The water-bearer symbolically and eternally gives life and spiritual food to the world.
The water-bearer symbolically and eternally gives life and spiritual food to the world. | Source

The Scorpio is one of the few signs that can get inside an Aquarius's mind. They feel a certain chemistry with this sign that is absent in the other 11. Scorpio also finds something in Aquarius that others do not have. These two signs are like magnets and immediately connect well with each other. They want each other. This connection most-likely has something to do with how they mix as fixed signs. Their emotional palettes work well together, creating extraordinary exuberant colors. If these two meet too soon, it is a major hurdle to overcome. They won't have enough knowledge to understand each other. There is a certain amount of life fluency they need in order to bridge the gaps they'll have.

Scorpio is known for having a crazy amount of range to their emotions. They have three different morphological cycles: the snake, the scorpion, and the phoenix. The other signs will usually have only one totem. This sign is naturally complicated. Other signs just don't have enough power to study the world with the same intensity. If you're not paying enough attention, it's easy to lose sight of a Scorpio. They can change their mask so easily. They are malleable, quick-learners, and, most importantly, they can easily dissect someone else's personality.

The phoenix is a symbol of rebirth from the ashes of the past. It is also representative of the victory of life over death.
The phoenix is a symbol of rebirth from the ashes of the past. It is also representative of the victory of life over death. | Source

What Scorpio and Aquarius Want in Bed

Scorpio
Aquarius
Scorpios have an endless sex drive.
Aquarius wants to get to know the partner through making love.
Expect a Scorpio to take any and all sexual encounters very, very seriously.
Fascinated by the choreography of making love.
You can't shock a Scorpio. Try many ideas out.
Wants to be taken on a journey.
Wants to have a deep, and almost telepathic mental connection with you.
Aquarius is primarily curious.
Your trust in him will turn him on because it means he has managed to connect with you on a mental level (which is essentially what he desires).
Aquarius is also interested in experimenting with new positions.

Inside the Minds of Scorpios and Aquarius

Scorpios have busy minds, easily distracted by the noise of life. However, once they've found their match, they love deeply and loyally. They are searching for the right person, and they do not settle. They believe deeply in a soulmate, they refuse to stay with someone who doesn't fully stimulate them. Although they can seem grounded when compared to Aquarius, Scorpios (regardless of whether they flat out say it or not) are looking for a supernatural connection as well.

Aquarius can come off aloof to them, but Aquarius is like Jean Gray from the X-Men. They are intuitive, quiet, and amazingly charming. Nevertheless, they can unleash the Phoenix within them. They have powerful emotions locked up inside them. Because their emotional capacity is like dynamite, they don't let those emotions out unless they find it completely necessary.

These powerful emotions are what tie them to the image of being water-bearers. Yes, they can skate above the water all day long with beautiful thoughts, but they are also the water itself. They are spring wells of emotion, with astute emotional control. If there were an Olympics for emotional control, Aquarians would receive every gold medal. They have a relationship with emotion and thought that is difficult for many to read, therefore, Aquarians are sometimes seen as misfits, odd, and different. Their high capacity for thought and emotion make them odd ducks, difficult to understand. However, they're usually so sweet that people accept them. This runs contrary to Scorpio, who has a tendency to be brooding, grumpy, and dark. If you're a Harry Potter fan, think of the Slytherins. They get a bad reputation in the books, but in actuality they are great and must take responsibility for that greatness.

Scorpio and Aquarius get along because they are both odd, highly creative, and secretly emotional. They need to take things slow. Taking things slow is the key to making this pair work. It's like a red velvet cake. Make sure to preheat the oven, follow all the steps, and make sure you have all the ingredients before you pop the pan into the oven. Otherwise, you'll end up with a gooey, inedible mess.

They can rush things by taking it physical. They need to create a great deal of space to build trust and communication. This will take awhile. Because this relationship takes patience, many will give up. First, this pair needs to understand how to talk to each other. This is going to take some time because they are so different and have to learn from each other. It's like a newborn learning how to talk, it'll take awhile, but will be very rewarding.

An Aquarius needs to revel itself slowly to Scorpio. The Scorpio must be patient. Aquarius needs to go on private dates, away from the hustle and bustle—all the stimulus can distract it from its date. Scorpio needs to go on private dates as well. It needs to have its date's full attention. Intimacy is what it truly desires. They want to know your personal secrets, you life story, and your ambitions. You can't force the conversation with these two. Having a truly revealing conversation may take two months of seeing each other (or even two years). It can take awhile before these two decided that they are, in fact, in a relationship.

Date Ideas for Scorpios and Aquarius

Scorpio and Aquarius
Why?
The beach
Aquarius and Scorpio need to go on private dates, away from the hustle and bustle. The two must be able to have good conversation and unravel each other slowly.
A smaller, less crowded pub
Remember, these two are attracted to each other because of the great conversation they can share in. Make sure that if you're going to a pub, you choose one that isn't too noisy or busy.
Stargazing or a planetarium
These two signs love intelligence and beauty. They want to share in each other's intellect.
Botanical Gardens
Taking an Aquarius on a date to a botanical garden will make him feel calm and serene. Seeing the scientific names of the plants will allow him to gain knowledge on what you both love.

What Should Guide Their Relationship?

Focusing on strong communication should be what guides a relationship between a Scorpio and an Aquarius. Trust me when I say this, Scorpio and Aquarius don't need to worry about who they are physically. Scorpio by its very nature is sexual. It's a sensual sign, with a vivid imagination. This sign likes moving to this direction because sex is a strong glue for discovering another person. Aquarius's great imagination makes sex easy and enjoyable. They are aware of their great sexual imagination and that is why they don't share it with just anyone. They are not afraid to go without sex for awhile. Since they already understand their sexuality, it makes more sense for them to study other things.

On the other hand, Scorpio is the initiator of relationships. Aquarius builds its social structure like a never ending ocean with friends across all genders, cultures, and species. While Aquarius is a humanitarian and a social network goddess, Scorpio is instinctually interpersonal. Scorpio is a sign that is built for making a family. It's one of the few signs that really charms and awakens an Aquarius. Scorpio has strong staying power—it is loyal to the core (unless you show infidelity). An Aquarius needs someone who wants to stay, but struggles to find someone who is loyal. More often than not, they find more people who just want to date around. An Aquarius needs to feel special, it needs to feel wanted. Ultimately, it needs to feel like someone is consistent and will stay.

An immature Scorpio, will still have an exploratory phase before settling down. Scorpio is somewhat of an ass before it feels comfortable enough to give its loyalty. The more a Scorpio shows how loyal it is, the more the Aquarius will open its amazing emotional current. An Aquarius is powerfully objective, mysterious. For example, think of Luna Lovegood from the Harry Potter series. She may be a little "out there," but she's infinitely intriguing while also being calm. This is something a Scorpio will respect. A Scorpio likes both the calm Luna Lovegood side and the X-Men Phoenix side of an Aquarius. Meanwhile, the Aquarius loves the emotional-romantic side and the dutiful side of the Scorpio.

These two seem to have ESP for each other. This makes it hard for them to separate. They instantly recognize their psychic connection when they come across each other. This feeling is so desirable that they will latch onto each other with great intensity. Separating, especially for the Aquarius, means they'll have to go in completely different directions in order to get over the other person. The Aquarius will desire enough space to prevent them form getting back with the Scorpio. Deep down they know that they still love them.

Celebrity Zodiac Sign Combinations

Names
Signs
Years Together
John Kennedy, Jr. and Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis
Sagittarius and Leo
1953–1963
Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip
Taurus and Gemini
1947-Present
Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith
Libra and Virgo
1997-Present
Abe Lincoln and Mary Todd Lincoln
Aquarius and Sagittarius
1842–1865
Eva Mendes and Ryan Gosling
Pisces and Scorpio
2011-Present
John Lennon and Yoko Ono
Libra and Aquarius
1969–1980
Bill Clinton and Hillary Clinton
Leo and Scorpio
1975-Present
Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie
Sagittarius and Gemini
2005-2016
Oprah Winfrey and Steadman Graham
Aquarius and Pisces
1986-Present
Kim Kardashian and Kanye West
Libra and Gemini
2014-Present

Notes for Scorpios

Aquarius doesn't always talk. This can be baffling since it is a wind sign. Sometimes the Aquarius just wants things to be quiet and will leave a lot of space for you to decipher. Aquarius will need their privacy. If an Aquarius spends consistent time with you, this is a major plus. You may find that when you date an Aquarius you are the one making all the moves. Just remember how magical it is when an Aquarius accepts your moves. This is no easy task.

They'll slowly turn from gently holding your hand and letting you touch their hair to kissing you as they please, and for long bouts of time. This is a creature that sees far ahead into the future and loves to gather information effectively before making a decision. Don't let your insecurities drive them away, and make your insecurities clear and they'll do what they can to comfort you (that's their instinct). They want things to work and they want things to be smooth, and they don't want to hurt you. Still, you are a Scorpio, which means that you have the power to hurt them, so be careful. Scorpios know how to sting. Your power to dissect and ridicule can hurt an Aquarius extensively. They really want to trust you. If you sting an Aquarius, they'll block you out of their life, which is exactly what you don't want. So long as you don't sting them, they will accept you with open arms.

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This article is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge. Content is for informational or entertainment purposes only and does not substitute for personal counsel or professional advice in business, financial, legal, or technical matters.

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      Anonymous 

      11 days ago

      I should appreciate the writer..you are too good..Each and every word is like very very exact..I I'm really surprised how can someone be so accurate

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      MyDuty 

      12 days ago

      To everyone who thinks to deal with unstable Aquarius people, then it's my duty to remember you the only possible outcome of being close to an Aquarius: "Arrests don’t need to be walks in the park, but it doesn’t do anyone any good if the process completely devastates people’s lives socially, emotionally and financially". Scorpio, protect yourself from Aquarius, because they are the people who during an identity crisis will send you in jail.. Scorpio must search people with a stable and balanced mind (zodiac sign from May to September) because Scorpio has so much important goals in life that he must pursue those goals..

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      Asiaa 

      13 days ago

      Our love is beautiful I'm a Scorpio and he's an aquarius it's like he's my soulmate when I met him it was kinda like I knew him

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      Asma 

      2 weeks ago

      Iam aqua girl and he is scorpio. He is one of the best things in my life so far happened to me.With him i felt wanted and needed.I love him a lot. A lot. I value honesty and he was honest. I wanted to be cared of and he cared for me. He has pampered me, spoilt me and settled down for me. I am bad at expressing my emotions but with him i learnt to unfold it too.

      He used to like me too but then our ways apparently parted because of our families issues. I even love him today. We occasionally talk, but why; i don't know. I remember each and every moment we spent together. He respected me a lot, loved me like i didn't know about love and its feelings before i met him.

      I feel like now he has turn cold towards me. I don't know if he still likes me or not. Its gonna b 2 years almost and I'm still waiting for our destiny to send him back in my life. I wish if I could ever hear that he loves me and he is mine and he owns me. I wish...May all odds be in favor of us.

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      Asma 

      2 weeks ago

      I love him a lot. A lot. I like honesty and he was honest. I wanted to be cared of and he cared for me. He has pampered me, spoilt me and settled down for me. I am bad at expressing but with him i learnt it.

      He used to like me too but then our ways parted because of our families issues. I even love him today. I remember each and every moment we spent together. He respected me a lot, loved me like i didn't know about love and its feelings before i met him. He used to express and make me feel like i never felt that way before and most of all he respected our relation. I don't know if he still likes me or not. Its gonna b 2 years almost and I'm still waiting for our destiny to send him back in my life. I wish if I could ever hear that he loves me and he is mine and he owns me. I wish...May all odds be in favor of us.

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      DT 

      2 weeks ago

      I feel like I’ve loved him from the first time I saw him. I have loved him so much, for so long, so completely, that I wish I could be whoever it is that the Aquarius needs.

      I guess it’s not meant to be.

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      Susan 

      4 weeks ago

      Scorpio...people just tell the truth

      If you miss him tell him

      Also....just tell him the sting hurt you

      They will stop.

      I am a scorpio so i can say this...if you ask him to curb his sting he will.

      Scorpios are smart so let them feel this way.

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      AMINACHERIE 

      4 weeks ago

      I'm an Aquarius woman that loves a Scorpio man. This article was so us, but he stung me too many times..I ended up changing my number to keep myself away from him and vice versa. I hope I come across an evolved Scorpio one day bc we truly are the best for each other, in my opinion. The laughs, random moments and faith I had in us were almost worth all the tears. The shit sucks bc I feel like I will be going through the motions forever. I had so many more moments and words I wanted to share with him.

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      Susan 

      4 weeks ago

      Aquarius men are extremely mean...selfish.....

      Run!!

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      cityofangels 

      5 weeks ago

      So in your opinion what would be the best compatible sign in terms of sun, moon, and rising for a scorpio sun, leo rising, aquarius moon? after reading this I don't know if an air sign would be the way to go with so much air... or the perfect pairing.

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      MiamiCityBoy 

      5 weeks ago

      I'm an Aquarius and had relations with a Scorpio and we just got back in each other's grace's. I miss her, love her the list can go on. But she's in a relationship yet our history kept us in thought of each other through the years we lost I haven't found no woman in my past relationships worth my heart, time and love more than she do and I want her back and want to rekindled the romance we once encountered. But how can I make that possible. I love her.

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      ♒️ 

      5 weeks ago

      Scorpio and Aquarius is not an easy dance, it would be a lie if I would not admit that, but is worth it for those who try and don’t give up. Blues is when a woman leaves you, but also when she comes back. That’s it. You don’t know what is worse. I mean, better.

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      Melissa Carmela 

      6 weeks ago

      WoW this is Creepy Accurate, Im an Aquarius & My Boyfriend of 5 yrs is a Scorpio, while in the beggining & sometimes now our communication can be difficult, I have never cared for anyone as deeply as I do him, its almost like their is a magnetic pull between us, although at times challenging this article really holds true to our relationship & appears like so many others. God Bless You the writer you are extremely talented.

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      Leslie 

      6 weeks ago

      I’m an Aquarius female and my boyfriend is a Scorpio. This is extremely accurate. We are going on 5 years now and extremely connected mentally and now more attached emotionally.

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      Erin 

      6 weeks ago

      My daughter is a Scorpio and I’m an Aquarius.. so there’s obviously a different dynamic. But agreed there’s a deep/almost psychic connection with Aquarius Scorpio-

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      7 weeks ago from Chicago

      !!!!!!

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      7 weeks ago from Chicago

      Some crazy amount of observation?

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      7 weeks ago

      oh. my. gods.

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      Mj 

      7 weeks ago

      who are you, really? how??? how do you get all this info. this is the most accurate ever

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      Help 

      2 months ago

      My Aquarius boyfriend can be very distant sometimes. On top of his sign he is a very busy person so there’s are days I get two one word texts, days he doesn’t text me back at all and days we text all day.

      Sometimes on the days I get less attention from him I text him a lot - he’s told me in the past this doesn’t bother him but I feel like I get annoying. Especially when I’m asking to make plans or for a phone call and he is busy.

      But when we do spend time together it’s great. It can just be unpredictable when I see him and it can feel like a lot of attention and care to none - he reassures me when I’m feeling especially emotional and need more attention that he is busy and wasn’t ignoring me or he gives me the attention I need.

      There are days when I think everything is great but days I overthink things and feel bad. Any advice? Is this typical for a Scorpio woman and Aquarius man?

      Overtime things have gotten better for us but they progress really slowly - to be fair I dig myself into holes and feel bad in the best of relationships when I see my partner more days than not so I don’t really know what to think.

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      2 months ago

      Thank you for writing this wonderful piece. I’ve read it several times over the course of a year with my Aquarius man and it continues to remind me that I need to be patient and kind to both my partner and myself. We are both so strong and so fragile at the same time.

      I want to say we are both extreme embodiments of our signs. I am a very emotional and intense person and need a lot of attention and physical closeness, time, and affection. My aqua man on the other hand is very withdrawn, he cares but does not express it much. He can go days without speaking to me and even longer without seeing me - he likes his space and privacy very much.

      It has taken me a full year to realize just how truly slow moving he is but how great his intentions are. It’s very hard sometimes though, our trust issues both run deep and we are both scared to get hurt but our connection is strong and magical.

      I’m just hoping things start to line up more in the future. I can be patient and supportive but only for so long. I fear I’ll be three/four years into the relationship before it’s clear that he won’t let me in any more and maybe our needs are too different.

      But in the mean time it all feels worth it. Our relationship has progressively become more intimate, though still much slower than I’m used to. I think he needs time to trust me and be open to falling in love with me, or at least admitting it when/if he does.

      Though he can be distant and we can spend much time apart he also makes me feel incredibly cared for when we do spend time together and talk it’s jusg those moments/days/weeks in between when I don’t see him or the day or two I don’t hear from him. Sometimes I get in my head on those days - sometimes I’m fine. I just need to catch my downward spiral thinking and intense emotions that work me up over nothing.

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      2 months ago from Chicago

      Lol indeed.

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      LaCretia 

      2 months ago

      I love me some Scorpio lol....

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      mick 

      2 months ago

      This was incredible thank you. I understood every part completely. You really know your stuff. Deepest explaination iv ever read of both sign,it makes me curious to what your sign is .... Pisces ?aries?haha scorpio?

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      Aqua Girl 

      2 months ago

      As an aqua, never been attracted to a scorpio until in the recently. it started with this weird ESP connection, and even now still going on. My long term relationship with a virgo came to an end sometime ago, and that was due to other issues, we had a strong mental connection but not much beyond that. I decided to end it, did not want to waste anymore time on something broken. And I guess one thing i do hate about being an aqua is sometimes living too much in my mind and completely forgetting about my heart and how I really feel. I am unsure about starting a relationship with a scorp now, as I feel am still getting back on my feet after the breakup, and need to focus my energy on myself for a bit. I don't like leading a person on, and would like to give all of myself to relationship.

      I agree with not giving us aquas too much space and time apart. it's like a dual aspect, as an aqua there is a part of me that loves love, wants to be in an intimate and close relationship where you are my focus/world, and on the other hand I have this freedom seeking side, that wants to pick a million and one hobbies, travel the world, wants to be alone with no strings attached. When we are alone too long, and I have experienced this, I end up been drawn to the latter, my mind wins, and I start over-analyzing things. At this moment we can begin to feel cold and distant, and become unsure of our emotions altogether (because of all the over-analyzing).

      I have a very close relationship with my mum, who is a scorp. So I kinda speak their language a little bit!. I think there are two sides to scorps. When they are in secure situation, where there is stability, they know where things are going and their needs are being met. When there are in an insecure situation where non of that is happening, you better run for the hills. Scorps get a bad rep, but they actually really kind and giving, and most of the time don't get that back in return. They deserve so much more. I would say aqua and scorp relationship can be challenging because of communication. I think aquas should only pursue this relationship if they are in it for the long run and are willing to provide a secure situation for the scorp (meet their needs).

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      Scorpio 

      2 months ago

      I have asked Andrea and it would seem she is no longer sure what she wants to do or where her life is taking her. She is also unsure of her feelings for me which was a little hard to hear. I have agreed to be patient and see where it goes, we are still messaging, talking and meeting regularly and I am just keeping it light and fun. Let’s see what happens

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      3 months ago from Chicago

      Have you talked in detail about what happened during the trip? Maybe the Aquarius is experiencing culture shock from being gone so long and is now adjusting to her home life. Try bringing back some charm, take them on a nice date. Get them a thoughtful gift only you could pull off.

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      3 months ago from Chicago

      It sounds like you have had a bad experience. If two people do not understand each other's communication style, then it will not work or gain momentum. Sometimes Aquarius wants to try something to see if it works but the real momentum doesn't take off. Sometimes Scorpio comes into the relationship with too much expectation and bombs the possibility of growth. Both need patience.

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      Char 

      3 months ago

      This is to answer David from florida. I know you posted 6 months ago, and hopefully you see this.. So you say your scorpio lady left when you were going through a bout of depression, im guessing you became distant, and did not communicate, us scorpios hate that, because we lean on our partners for emotional support not run away and we want you to do the same or at least communicate ..We hate anything hot and cold. Its not good to give a scorpio too much space without communication, we will move on, a scorpio woman needs to feel loved and wanted, if your in an out of her life she will see you as not being consistant and leave, and may become upset and never talk to you again. Now if she is showing up to places she knows she will run into you, then she probably wants you to say something to her, if she never wanted to speak to you again she would avoid running into.. Well thats what i would do...

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      AMINACHERIE 

      3 months ago

      @AQUARIUSLADY..Your message was so long ago so you may not see this, but I would love to know how things turned out with you and the Scorpio that you were afraid to let your guard down with.

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      Scorpio 

      3 months ago

      My Aquarius who I had been casually dating for 12 Months went away on a trip for 2 Months, we agreed to message every few days but not excessively. I kept it short and sweet not wanting to be overbearing, she has returned from her trip cold and distant (although we still meet up every week without fail), an Aquarius posted on here some time ago giving advice not to give Aquarius too much time/space alone! I concur with this, if I could go back to the beginning of her trip away I would have done things differently! Now I guess I will just have to see if things can get back to where they were!

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      Char 

      3 months ago

      I would also like to point out that some of you Aquarius on here already know you're not going to continue long lasting relationships with the people you're dating, so why not let them go now. Why play around with someones emotions stringing them along for months although you know at this moment you dont want anything long term.. As a Scorpio I will never understand this, Some advice if a scorpio tells you they love you, please be honest with them if you dont, we do not like to waist our times.

      Also an Aqua stated that giving to much space to them is not good, dont understand that considering Aquarius disappear, they take their space, so what are you supposed do stalk them, that makes no sense..

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      Char 

      3 months ago

      I am a Scorpio woman and have been dating an Aquarius off an on for 10 years.. I have finally decided to let it go. We were 24 and 25 when we began dating we are now 33 and 34. No kids no ring, im done trying to figure this dude out. As a woman I can not chase a man and when I wait for the Aquarius male to take the lead, he never does and this has strung out over a decade. I love him deeply, and have professed my love, but he is like a robot no emotion. He tells me he loves me with no action. It cant possibly take an Aquarius this long to figure out what they want. I dont know, im just afraid I will wake up and be 44 and still going with the flow as he likes it. He seems to put all his energy into his work. He talks about trying to get him self finacially stable, so that he can buy himself a house, but im confused as to why he is working so hard to establish a life, to what, still be alone, not like he is working towards having a family. I dont get it. With my income and his we could be living great and already have a house. He is just so backwards sometimes, he talks about me and him having a baby, but shouldn't there be a commitment first? After 10 years we shouldnt be wondering where are we? and where is this going? Im confused along with his family and mine considering they have watched this play out for years, his parents are like my parents his siblings are my brothers and sisters, we've gone threw sooo much , but he still has never reassured me as to what he wants from this, when I poor out my emotions he disappears then reappears like nothing happened, never addressing this obvious problem. He made a statement while we were on the phone the other day saying " love is something he tries to avoid" , im like "what" love is the greatest thing you could ever experience in this life and it will continue to live on even after your gone. His sister told me he was crazy about a girl in high school, he went all out on Valetines day and bought her all kinds of things, then she made a fool of him and cheated. Out of the 10years we have been together he has never bought me anything for Valentines day. I cant help, but wonder is this guy still hurt from a lil high school relationship he had as a teen and taking it out on me. I know they say Aquas hold on to the past, but geesh i feel as though im being punished for the girl that hurt him in high school, im like get over it already your 33. My mother spoke to him and she said she never heard a man talk so loving about a woman before, like he is sooo in love with me. I was confused by this considering he never put in any effort to make me happy and he is rarely there when i need him due to him being detached. All this does is just confuse me even more. Being a Scorpio I want to love and figure out why a person acts the way they do, and possibly help them fix the problem, I hate that I have wasted 10 years of my life for some one im not even sure cares..everything he does is confusing, but in the end i feel i have my answer, because i finally told him i cant do this anymore due to it not going anywhere and he had nothing to say, not even trying to chase me, but as always, i will give it a couple months and he will try and draw me back in again.. Dude is crazy, but this time im going to tell him to kiss my a**, im done..

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      3 months ago from Chicago

      I wish you well. I hope the best for you and your life.

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      3 months ago from Chicago

      Yes, there is always more to astrology. It's really based in math, so a couple of adjustments here and there can make a huge difference. For some, they're more of a cusp than having a clear cut sign, and those are some of the most interesting (and bizarre) people.

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      3 months ago from Chicago

      Thanks, Annelise.

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      3 months ago from Chicago

      I wish you well. It sounds like there are some serious complications in this relationship and when you wrote this 6 months ago, it wasn't quite a formal deal.

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      3 months ago from Chicago

      Fair enough. I can agree with this.

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      3 months ago from Chicago

      Yes, the water like energy of obsession can be difficult for an Aquarius to deal with. It's that squared energy from the zodiac circle that makes things difficult for the Aquarian. You both like the Scorpio and their charms, but there's also something that really, really sucks.

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      3 months ago from Chicago

      Such a lengthy comment. This was written by no means to trivialize compatibility or generalize it. There are successful Aquarius and Scorpio couples out there, and they do often run into the same problems and also joys. To each their own at the end of the day, some Scorpios just may not end up liking that odd mysterious energy they create with an Aquarius-folk, but some crave it pretty stark ravishingly mad. The big reason? Both of these signs are misunderstood. It seems both you and your Scorpio never got far in understanding an Aquarius, and that's fine and fair. But if there is ever animosity toward a sign in the zodiac, that means something more about the person and the way they perceive the world, rather than certain signs being annoying, boring, or evil. My own grandparents were a Scorpio and Aquarius, and sure not everything was perfect about their romance -- but to be honest, it was about as perfect as it gets.

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      brieocea 

      3 months ago

      I’m a scorpio woman and I loveeee my Aquarius man :) I feel like this article is spot on. I know I’ve always had a hard time finding a partner who challenged me and often would get bored. My aquarius however turned my black and white world spinning with colors and voice. Through him i’ve learned how to dream, and my life is much more enjoyable. We were friends for a couple of years before we turned romantic and we both want to be with eachother for the long run. We have the same ambition and dreams and we know we both need eachother to achieve them :) Communication is a big one for us... We moved fast (really fast) at first and it was hard understanding eachother. However now we read eachother like open books. I find that when we do argue or fight now it’s still due to some form of miscommunication. My aquarius is so smart and often I feel maybe challenged like I need to be smarter

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      LunaticEight 

      4 months ago from 8th House

      Looks good on paper but I’ve never seen this match last for the long term. I’m a Scorpio Moon, Mercury, Neptune female and my much-loved hubs of 18 years is Scorpio sun, Mercury and Neptune. To shorten this comment, I’ll just speak about my hub’s experience. His first wife was Aquarius and he started cheating on her 6 months in. And this was not ideal for him. Scorpios crave loyalty and want stability and faithfulness in their relationships. If Scorpio cheats, something is terribly wrong. His ex was cold, emotionally detached and placed everyone else in the world on the same level or above my Scorpio. Big no no for both of us.

      I’ve known a lot of Aquarius people in my 50+ years and they are just kind of boring. There’s no passion for anything but ideas, opinions, activities, groups, etc. Scorpio people have irreverent and kind of sick senses of humor. We joke around many times by saying exactly the opposite of how we feel. Or saying things that not remotely pc. Aquarius people seem to be very easily offended, even if they know you’re just playing. So then it just becomes fun to push their buttons.

      Look, ALL Scorpio people want a partner that cherishes them above all others, lusts after them, respects them, and allows them to let their guard down and be truly themselves. None of which the Aquarius people we’ve both known can do. In fact, after Libra, Aquarius are the coldest people I’ve ever known.

      Lastly, this is not meant to offend. It’s a compatibility issue. Other Scorpio people with different charts may adore Aquarius. And i can guarantee that any Aquarius reading this would not enjoy our company, either. Things just go that way sometimes. That's why I loathe articles that generalize compatibility. There is literally no way that one can predict these things.

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      Scorpio 

      4 months ago

      The best CEO in the world are all Scorpio, what else someone should say??

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      Sophie 

      4 months ago

      Im aqua and the man I'm with is scorpio, they do alter their personality in the beginning to be cool, calm and collected to draw you in but inside there emotions are deep running waters and I'm not lying, after they settled they slowly become obsessive, they dont have control over their emotions to the point they become possessive and jealous nd wants their partner all to themselves, they will start asking questions, checking your phone book etc. It's so nice, i do love my creepy men but its also dangerous, because they are really subtle and observe everything and sum up everything, they are silent thinkers, and you dont know if or where they could follow you bcs they are like fit for detective work.

      Im flattered that he's obsessed and its because of my character, he enjoys my company, it says scorpios are selective and its nice to know that im special. But having thought it through it wont be good in the long run, as they are dead serious about love and how dangerous will it get. I mean oj simpson is a water sign and look wt happend. But i wont even go there cs its not like that.

      Nevertheless there is so much positive, he treats me like royalty. They know how to keep you, you name it and the scorpio will do and even throw in surprise romantic moments. From opening the car door for you to making sure you got more of the bed duvet cover on your side to keep warm. Tell me thats not sweet. I hope this is clear.

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      Hi there 

      4 months ago

      This is really helpful!

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      Srishti 

      4 months ago

      My scorpio is really a magician..

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      Mongie 

      4 months ago

      As an Aquarian woman who has dated a Scorpio I must say this article is spot on for the most part. What’s attractive the most about Scorpio males is their fierce independence, ambition, they are usually neat and perfectionist as we’ll a share passionate. All the qualities Aquarius women desire and admire. Their downside and what made me fall out with my Scorpio mate is their obsessive possessiveness which can be quite intense and a major turn-off to an Aquarius woman

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      Reena pacheriwala 

      4 months ago

      tuff to understand ....sometimes its easy sometimes tuff Aquarius and scorpio .....I am Aquarius ....and I feel I am different from crowd.....dats why I love my own company ...but I hv curisity lots....

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      Scorpionism 

      4 months ago

      Scorpio man with an Aquarius woman. I honestly couldn't imagine a more perfect partnership, on so many levels. We're best friends first and have invested a lot of effort into understanding one another.

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      5 months ago

      so true !

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      Rascha 

      5 months ago

      I'm a female with sun sign Pisces and several placements in Scorpio as well Aquarius. I'm married to Aquarius guy, think it's the perfect blend.

      Sun signs alone don't make compatibility.

      Scorpio man goes better with Aquarius woman than the other way around.

      Because Aquarius guys not only need plain physical experience, also tenderness, non-extreme feelings, cuddling and feminine aura, which most Scorpio women simply lack. They can crush a man with restrictions, jealousy and temper. But Aquarius guys are independent, they need balance.

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      Mary 

      6 months ago

      I am confused with your use of the term "monogynous," meaning the male has one female only, but the female has several male mates.

      It seems like "manogamous" would make a lot more sense, but maybe I'm not getting something here...?

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      Canis 

      6 months ago

      After a few months of just being friends, the Aquarius woman in my life, became my other half. We often spoke for hours on end, and the more we spoke, the deeper we felt for one another. She's changed how I think about the world I live in. It's just so obvious how much we care for each other. I've honestly never met another human being like her...just thinking about our connection gives me goosebumps. We gave each other space, even when we didn't want to, and that made getting to know each other even more magical.

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      Aqua T 

      6 months ago

      I am an aqua women married to my Scorpio husband for 10years together 15yrs. When its good, it’s really good. When its bad, it’s really bad. It’s just like any relationship, you must compromise, and communicate to make it through the really bad periods in the relationship!

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      JustScorpio 

      6 months ago

      @lenna

      Hi, what it worked for me was to change the focus from others to me. If you really think that your problem solving and knowledge are better than others (and I'm sure they are), you should apply this natural talent in what you love without asking attention from others. Moreover there isn't a written rule that you should trust others, there is a written rule to trust yourself and your mind and your body the most you can. We love to think that all the people in the world like criticism or compliments, it's not true, most people love to be recognized for who they are (we are not better or worse than anyone else). If you have such a war going on inside you, appreciate it because it means that your mind is finding the truth and change your mind so you can become better. Have patience, everything will be ok.

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      Crystal 

      6 months ago

      I am a Scorpio woman, dating an Aquarian who is actually a lot younger than I am, and I can say it is absolutely wonderful. Unexpected and magical. This article is spot on.

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      lenna 

      6 months ago

      hi.i am sun scorpio leo moon and sagitarrius ascendant which is i think is a blessing and curse at a same time, i want to be alone all time and yet also want to attain attention from others because i think myself better than other people in terms of problem solving and in knowledge but people dont give attention in this aspect but they just want to show their intelligence and their meaningless day to day routines in front of me.sorry my question is getting so long i just need some advice to keep control over my thinking and emotions, i have also severe trust issues and that is way i don't have any good friend i can't stand with criticism and i hate praising and compliments too,often i feel used and manipulated by people i just think i would surely help them but on my own willingness and this thing makes me really upset.Every coming day is even harder for me than the previous. please suggest me how should i make peace with the wars going inside of me or guide me ways out of my selfishness,and unhappiness.

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      6 months ago

      as an Aquarius male....I long for the woman I can trust.

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      Annelise 

      7 months ago from copenhagen Denmark

      An Aquarius is just a Scorpio from outer space.

      #ChangeMyMind

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      hopsokev@gmail.com 

      7 months ago

      this is just what i needed to learn

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      Delilah 

      7 months ago

      Andrea,

      Say a aqua woman has been dating a mature (in age) scorps man for many months although has known her before, and he then on a one to one moment tells her he loves her,

      What does that mean?

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      Womanwaterbearer 

      7 months ago

      We met a few years ago and clicked instantaneously. The electricity and energy there in that moment were just high and strong. I liked him but I just wanted friendship (first basic step before thinking of a relationship- AQUA ALERT). He didn't think the same and started chasing me. We had an awkward date. Ok, this was it. I thought. But he kept talking to me and asking things like "do you never fight for what you want", telling me he was single, available, etc. Eventually I didn't show interest anymore, he was just too intense for me.

      He was an exchange student btw and after that, he went back home. Years later he comes back on a work trip, reaches out to me (out of the blue)...things happen. This was just something we "had" to do, I thought. Haha. Now you're leaving, fine by me. But then a while after he's gone, he tells me how he had fallen for me and how he liked me since the day we met. That he's been questioning everything in his life, and wants to come and get me. I'm scared. I read the comments and noticed how serious scorps are when they are in love... and considering we are not kids anymore I'm just freaking out.

      I think I'm ready to give my freedom to someone like him. I think I might enjoy it. However, I have been on and off with my first love (and only, so far) for more than ten years. I feel like I'm ready to move on as I keep coming back to him just because he's always there for me. He loves me and is waiting for my "aquarius phase of trying things out" to pass so I can go back and we'll be together forever. I have told him countless times this is not it and that he should not wait for me. He refuses to believe me. I love him, but I don't see myself with him. I'm not with him because I always get bored and run away. We are a "perfect match", zodiac compatibility-speaking...but I like challenges and trying that which people tell me not to try (scorps).

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      lilith 

      7 months ago

      Sorry but i disagree with this article...its sound like its only from your own opinion and plus, i saw an article of you that so anti Scorpio and Pisces...Your articles are so biased. Sorry to be rude but i cant lie.

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      jim from fl 

      8 months ago

      as an aqaruius man why do i seem to still get dirty looks from an ex scorpio. if we both decided we dont want to be with each other why do we need to hate each other? it was her decision to break up and i have accepted it. but she still hasnt moved on and either have i. i had lot of growing up to do with work , financially and mentally. i have done all of those things in 8 months in preparation for not making the same mistake with someone else or with her, but why cant a scorpio be around an ex lover that they hurt? what is the trick to make them be ok and civil and happy. they seem kind of sad still when i see them out in the same setting

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      Scarlet red kisses & Novels 

      8 months ago

      Im spending quality time with scorpio man at his luxurious apartment, He's responsible and well kept, im impressed with what he has achieved and the way he is, he is powerful which the above article mentions. He is keen on me and wont let go after all this time but Everything just seems perfect or too perfect

      I guess i have never experienced perfect before ..Intimacy is great we have a great connection. What do you expect i dont form relationships with the average man.

      Love from, Aquarius lady

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      10230121 

      8 months ago

      It's as if this article was written specifically for me; to guide me, and for me to understand the amazing jack ass Aquarius I seem to be drawn to, and i think may the one; my heart, universal signs, logic and even practically are screaming out he's the one - but my ego, pride and built in walls refuses to chase after him - even though we seem to be enjoying it. I'll get back to this when we've evolved from the foreplay friendship flirtation going on. It describes me and what I know of him to a T; it is what I'm going through with him right now.

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      Aquarius Eyes 

      8 months ago

      My scorpio man is away on a trip atm, he does keep in touch and tells me he misses me, but with this time apart, i feel like i have lost interest and dont feel enthusiastic as i would, he is perfect but i cant help but feel i cant be bothered, maybe becs he is absent.

      I guess he needs to come back and see each other, see if i feel the same way as before.

      Advise- Never give aquarius too much time apart, she will wander and may even lose interest in you.

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      Virgo 

      8 months ago

      Also, author, JFK “Jr.” was Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis’s son, not husband. JFK the president was a Gemini. This article is riddled with errors. Scorpio is a strong feminine energy- the energies of the zodiac go every other - masculine, feminine. Virgo- feminine. Libra- masculine. Scorpio-Feminine. And so forth. Just because Libras are pretty doesn’t make them feminine. Just because Scorpios are powerful, doesn’t make them masculine. Your opening paragraphs denote Scorpio as being “a strong ‘masculine’ energy”. That’s incorrect. All the water signs and earth signs are feminine. All the fire signs and air signs are masculine. Get it together :)

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      Virgo 

      8 months ago

      Scorpio is feminine

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      SXG 

      8 months ago

      Im a cancer sun aquarius moon, he's a scoprio sun and cancer moon. As soon as we met all walls fell.

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      ami 

      8 months ago

      I am an aquarius girl dating a scorpio guy and this is bang on accurate.

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      ava 

      8 months ago

      Aquarius woman married to a Scorpio man. I can tell you that your article is very accurate. My experience has been that we deeply love each other, but for the Aquarius there arises many difficulties. Scorpios can be controlling, confrontational, and demanding. Due to this fact, it makes Aquarius more distant. I find that when my husband acts in this manner I become withdrawn. Aquarius just does not like to be controlled at all. Scorpios will have a very difficult time with this. You definitely need maturity and patience on either side if it will work out in the long term. I will say the biggest pro of Scorpio is their loyalty. That is the main thing that keeps an Aquarius in the long run.

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      8 months ago from Chicago

      Aquarius needs to confront its emotions, otherwise it bottles them up and suddenly -- lets them gush out like a volcano.

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      8 months ago from Chicago

      Regardless of astrology, this guy sounds like a mess that will make your life a disaster.

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      Mschey 

      8 months ago

      Scorpio woman dating Aquarius guy, hes 14 yrs older then me and he keeps me on my toes. The only down fall is i found out he was married after he said "I LUV U". HE DOESN'T SPEAK ON HIS OTHER LIFE, WHICH LEAVES ME TOTALLY CONFUSED & NEVER APOLOGIZE WHEN HES WRONG. WE HAVE WORDS SOMETIMES BUT WHEN HES GONE I MISS HIM LIKE CRAZY... LETS JUST SAY DEALING WITH A MAN LIKE THEM , ITS FUN BUT ONLY THE STRONG Survive...

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      scorpioniceyes 

      9 months ago

      thank you.

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      9 months ago from Chicago

      Sit down and communicate with them first, because they can't read your mind.

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      9 months ago from Chicago

      I responded in another comment about this to you. Aquarius is able to express its emotions far more in creativity and language. Aquarius is the type who can write out an entire novel in the blink of an eye. Scorpio would struggle to be able to handle so many words. This can cause a great divide between the two. This is why Cancer and Pisces can end up being more suited for Scorpio. Aquarius and Gemini can handle things far better in words.

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      Andrea Lawrence 

      9 months ago from Chicago

      1. Part of the reason these two connect to each other so naturally is because of their mental energies. They both are highly intuitive personalities, but in different ways. Scorpio understands things through emotional tone, Aquarius understands things through emotion but it holds it in. Scorpio prefers to express it. So they're both kind of feeding on the same energy, but handling it in different ways.

      2. Scorpio is a water sign and is a fixed sign, Pisces is mutable, and Cancer is the cardinal. This means Scorpio is full of energy, which often gets expressed through sexuality because it's difficult as an adult to constantly be expressing emotion through other faculties. This is partly why Scorpio can be possessive, they're dying to express themselves and they know one solid method that helps with this.

      But Aquarius is the fixed sign of air, which has to do with thinking. Aquarius is full of words, language, and ideas and can appear disconnected to Scorpio -- but Scorpio just doesn't know how to interpret Aquarius' emotions, which it matures and allows to be expressed through creativity.

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      Dianne 

      9 months ago

      I am currently dating one and its driving me a bit crazy, one day he is super sweet the next he is gone and wont event reply to you for days. But i do still love him and that’s the problem I am facing is how to have a loving relationship with a guy that doesnt seem to be emotionally available and very unpredictable.

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      Kasey 

      9 months ago

      I am getting chased by aquarius

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      De 

      9 months ago

      Worst experience of my life. I now hate this Aquarius man. I will run, not walk, the next time I meet any Aquarian man. If you are Scorpio, good luck. Never again.

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      No More Pain 

      9 months ago

      Scorpio man is a worthy keeper. Lady if you got him, don't let go, you will admire his lovely qualities and the way he treats you and the *ahem*!!!, and when you spend time with him at his apartment in the city, he will watch you like a hawk, but it's all good because things are cooking.

      Embrace the change embrace the freedom which you never had before!

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      David from Florida 

      9 months ago

      aqua guy dated scorpio lady and things were really good when they were good when we first met months before dating we instantly had a connection from first conversation that slowly brought us together. when we became close she kept telling me we were never going to hook up. i said that is fine, but then said well i am going to still be friends but distance myself as friends i am friends with do not remind me we are not going to hook up every time i see them. she cried and we forgot about both things she said and i didnt make any moves. naturally we both made moves on each other this same weekend and from there we spent the whole summer together things were amazing but we never clearly said if we were dating or not until later on so we both i think at least i know i hooked up with other people casually because i enjoyed our time together doing things more than sex. but the sex we had was the best sex ive ever had and we connected very well sexually. needless to say time went on and i think she spitefully slept with someone we both knew because she didnt like my venturing out but i also did not care to venture out. i really enjoyed what i had. from there i also went through some person depressions and didnt really treat her the way i shouldve of and also did not want to have sex anymore i was clinically depressed. we broke up, i asked her not to tell anyone about our business and she told everyone, and i wanted to get into a rehab depression treatment she also suffered from this. she did not want to help me and became offended and lashed out. days after she kind of flipped out and made a scene in front of a lot of people and then we didnt speak for months still havent spoken, but we run into each other probably 1-2 times a month. we still do not speak but still see one another often. i think giving her space is best, but if she knows im going to be somewhere and still shows up what does that mean for scorpio? i regret the grey period of when we didnt clearly communicate things, and really had some bad things going on that i couldn't handle emotionally that looked for her support and when i needed that time to rebuild because of the depression she left me. she never once apologized for anything

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      Taii 

      9 months ago

      @scorpioniceyes - Aquarius woman here. While Aquariuses have emotions, like any other sign, we don't need emotion to make decisions or to think, reason and utilize logic. You can say we are experts at emotional compartmentalizing... we can put emotions aside to handle various things and make decisions objectively. While Scorpios breathe emotions, we are cerebral and breathe thoughts and ideas. Emotions and dealing with them can be hard for many of us (talking about myself here) because we don't naturally feel them like a water sign. I always joke that I feel with my brain. As I get older, I'm learning to marry my emotions and my mind, and to not just shut out my heart because it's easier that way.

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      Aquarius Eyes 

      9 months ago

      6 months on with me & scorps man. All I can say is WOW!

      Thanks for this article.

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      scorpioniceyes 

      9 months ago

      2. Scorpio can go anywhere there is emotion, and Aquarius can go anywhere where there is thought.

      This part is rather straight forward. Scorpio can understand, discuss, delve into the deepest fascists of emotion. Aquarius understands thinking and logical pursuits and is an expert in such fields. Essentially one sign is all emotions and understanding the components of that category and the other is about thoughts and thinking and understanding that.

      --- I still don't understand how Aquarius is about thoughts and thinking and understanding that... Wouldn't it that be considered feelings? I guess I am having difficulty understanding how someone can be in their head (thoughts) but not have emotions behind it. Could you elaborate?

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      scorpioniceyes 

      9 months ago

      @16.simile, thank you!!

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      I'mScorpio 

      9 months ago

      @aquagirll

      I'm sorry but no, he doesn't love you. There are two kind of Scorpios: those not evolved and those evolved. Those not evolved are needy and they need a woman who takes care of them (usually you see the woman cooking all day for them, my grandpa is one of them), so they give more than one opportunity to a woman. Those evolved are totally free, they hope to share the life with a woman but they don't care a lot. And since they're so free, they give only one chance, take it or goodbye forever. These Scorpios just need two minutes to understand if it's the best match (not one of the good matches) and if it's not, we stop talking with that woman and no, we won't never talk again because we think other people deserve us and our words. Most men are needy, we're not!!

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      16.Simile 

      9 months ago

      @Scorpioniceyes

      I'm not the writer of this article but I'll try to explain what I think she meant.

      1. It is never easy for these two to separate because they have ESP for each other.

      The definition of ESP: the ability to receive information directly with the mind instead of using five senses of sight, smell, touch, taste and hearing. ESP is sometimes called by other names, such as sixth sense, gut feeling and a hunch.

      Okay now that you know the definition here is what I believe the author is saying. The Scorpio and Aquarius are connected to each other on a psychic level. When they meet they instantly feel each others presence room. Even if they are not making eye contact they can feel the energy of the other person from the moment enter the room. It kind of startles the two signs and excites them. Which is why the author mentions that an Aquarius can identity a Scorpio just by the way their eyes cut through titanium. These two signs have an ESP or psychic element to them that makes separating hard because even when they are apart they still feel the other. Scorpios and Aquarius' don't have the need to communicate everything to each other as much as other couples because of their intuition/psychic/ESP talents. Thus making it difficult for these signs to part from one another. It's rare either finds someone who understands them on a psychic level. This is why people misunderstand these two signs. Scorpio has an ESP that let's it see right through to the emotional core of someone. Aquarius has an ESP that let's it see into the mind and intentions of someone. Both essentially can make snap judgments about people and usually their intuition about someone is correct.

      2. Scorpio can go anywhere there is emotion, and Aquarius can go anywhere where there is thought.

      This part is rather straight forward. Scorpio can understand, discuss, delve into the deepest fascists of emotion. Aquarius understands thinking and logical pursuits and is an expert in such fields. Essentially one sign is all emotions and understanding the components of that category and the other is about thoughts and thinking and understanding that.

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      aquagirll 

      10 months ago

      I guess I'm just sad and honestly don't know if I'm crazy, should I just walk away..I've tried to many times and I always hope he misses me to

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      scorpioniceyes 

      10 months ago

      I need answers. I have read this over 50 times (not exaggerating)...

      I need more details of what this means (in great detail, please)

      1. It is never easy for these two to separate because they have ESP for each other.

      2. Scorpio can go anywhere there is emotion, and Aquarius can go anywhere where there is thought.

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      Serey_sew 

      10 months ago

      @Dawn

      Why don't you just ask her straight out and stop ignoring her ?

      Im sure she isn't plotting against you if you had asked her to bare with you a d your current situation.

      What if she's fallen inlove with you by now and you ignoring her or just not messaging her back is hurting her deeply ?

      Stop keeping your mind in a frozen state. She accepts you just the way you are. She loves you right back and maybe she's been thinkinh

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      aquagirll 

      10 months ago

      I'm an aqua girl and my story with the scorpio male is sadness. We met on social media about 7 years ago, he lives an hour away, not bad at all. We tried to meet several times but I was the scared one. We finally met last year after years of silence. We talk and then we will stop talking. Last year that changed and we finally met. I thought I loved him, but when he held me..I lost myself. I don't know if he felt the same or not because after we met we stopped talking or well he did. I tried to let him go several times but he always comes back..and I wait for him. I know I shouldn't but I love him. I guess I just don't think he loves me. I enjoy sex, who doesn't? We only had sex once or tried to but I xant anymore, not if his feelings are not mutual..I just can't let this connection go. I've never had a problem with cutting anyone off before

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      cindy 

      10 months ago

      This article gave me alot of hope for me and my scorpio man. Could tell he is very emotional but i like it like that. Dont even know why i love him but i do even though he doesnt know that yet.

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      Pink Pussycat 

      10 months ago

      Thank you so much for this article. I am an Aquarian woman who has been in love with an older Scorpio man for 10 months. He is married and travels a lot for work so I don't see him often, 1-2 times a month at the most. His wife lost all interest in sex many years ago so they have a sort of don't ask don't tell policy open marriage.

      This article really nails the attraction. Thank you, because so many other sources say we aren't a good combination. My Scorpio is my Daddy Dom and I am his girl. The intensity he brings cuts to my core and no one else makes me feel this way. I swear I feel him thinking about me when we are apart, and in the bedroom we both just let loose.

      While we don't see each other very often, each time we are together I am high on Love for weeks. In between visits he texts me and it's enough to keep me going. I love him so much and pray that he will be in my life forever in some capacity.

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      16.Simile 

      10 months ago

      Hello Alice,

      I am not Andrea the writer of this article but I do think I know what Andrea meant by this sentence. She is saying that the Aquarius is the one wanting to separate themselves from the Scorpio. So basically the first option you listed is the correct option. Hope that helps you.

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      Sc_ 

      10 months ago

      @Dtm thats the point

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      Alice 

      10 months ago

      Dear Andrea! Thank You very much for this article, I have read it several times. Sorry I am not a native English speaker, maybe that's why I do not understand properly this sentence: 'Also, the Aquarius will want all enough separation to prevent getting back with the Scorpio, because deep down they know they love them.' You mean who loves who? 1) Aqua knows he still loves the Scorpio, that's why he avoids her? 2) Or Aqua knows that the Scorpio loves him that's why he wants to prevent himself or 3) to prevent her from meeting again? :)

      Thanks a lot again!

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      Dtm 

      10 months ago

      I love how in this article Scorpios are basically painted as dark villains with Aquarius being the holy virgin angel sent to save mankind.

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