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Why Scorpio and Aquarius are Attracted to Each Other

Updated on July 6, 2016

Scorpio and Aquarius - A Powerful Match

If you are a Scorpio or Aquarius, or even a rookie in astrology, you've probably heard some of the rumors about this water sign meets wind sign pairing. A lot of astrologers will go on autopilot and tell you the best compatibility is when you have the same elemental sign, plus you should check out your charts. This is somewhat basic when it comes to astrology. Every combination has its unique offerings for a relationship, some less feasible (more challenging) than others. Scorpio and Aquarius are a powerful match, albeit if the two are not mature enough in who they are, it won't work so beautifully.

Aquarius is exactly what Scorpio wants and has always wanted. Aquarius will always be mysterious to Scorpio, which puts it in a perpetual spiral of being on the hunt. Scorpio is a strongly masculine sign, and loves to go after something it doesn't fully understand, and Aquarius is complicated enough to draw a Scorpio. The water sign unfortunately gets bored easily. Sometimes a pleasant match is too surface level for Scorpio -- this sign desires a great deal of complexity, paradoxes, and affection. Scorpio is like the pipe organ of emotions and thought. Scorpios are extremely powerful signs, but often misunderstood... and so they'll trail to the side and go on their own independent journeys. People don't always know what exactly a Scorpio is, so it'll fade from view without ever being fully realized.

But an Aquarius -- though it doesn't fully come right out admitting it -- fully and easily understands the Scorpio better than any zodiac. A mature Aquarius will know a Scorpio immediately just by the way a Scorpio uses its eyes to cut through titanium. No other sign has this intense of a stare. Scorpio is drawn to people who have 1.) a banging body and 2.) a charming personality. These are gifts the Aquarius often has and employs, with a fair amount of either introversion or introspection (perhaps both). Scorpio can't unravel an Aquarius like it can most signs. It sees that the Aquarius has more pure motives, a different range for ethics, and a massive capacity for love. Scorpio enjoys Aquarius, but it brings up a lot of insecurities for Scorpio. Can the Scorpio possibly win the heart of the person who wants to take care of everybody's hearts? How can the Scorpio, which can be the lowest of creatures -- win such a big heart?

What makes Scorpio and Aquarius work?

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Both are the Phoenix and Made of Water

Scorpio feels awkward having to face its insecurities in the light of someone who is so lovely. Aquarius often shirks getting into relationships, sometimes delving into very independent phases and being void of sex. Aquarius gets called out for being both a virgin and having bisexuality, pansexuality, and straight edge sexuality. No one really knows how to label an Aquarius, especially when they are so private. They have a sexuality that is massively deep and insightful, and there are Aquarian types who really are protective and intuitive about their sexual life -- while some Aquarians are extraordinarily exploitative. Aquarius doesn't feel a lot of chemistry with many signs on a sexual level. It may feel chemistry, an amazing exchange of ideas or even compatibility, but having attraction... real, invasive thoughts that distract them -- is difficult to achieve.

The Scorpio is one of the few signs that can get inside an Aquarius' mind. They feel a certain chemistry with this sign that is absent in the other 11. Scorpio also finds something in Aquarius that others do not have. These two signs are like magnets and immediately connect well with each other, they want each other, and it's something about how they mix as fixed signs and their emotional palettes. I think the biggest hurdle for these two is that if they meet too soon, they won't have enough knowledge to understand each other. There is a certain amount of life fluency they need in order to bridge the gaps they'll have.

Scorpio is known for having a crazy amount of range to their emotions -- they're designated as having three different morphological cycles from the snake, the scorpion, to the phoenix. The other signs arguably have one totem. It's an automatically complicated sign, that other signs just don't have enough power in them to study. It's a sign that can easily go under the radar if you're not paying attention, which is silly because a Scorpio can change their mask, they are malleable, they can learn, and most importantly they can learn you.

They have busy minds, often easily getting distracted with too much noise, but they love deeply and loyally once they've found their match. They are deeply searching for the right person. They cut their loses because they believe so heavily in a soulmate. Regardless of whether they flat out say it or not, they are looking for a supernatural connection -- even if they can be grounded, at least in comparison to the Aquarius.

Aquarius can come off aloof to them, but Aquarius is like Jean Gray from the X-Men. She seems to be only present in thought, highly intuitive, quiet, and amazingly charming -- but she is the one who can unleash the Phoenix. She has a powerful amount of emotions locked up inside her heart, and she doesn't let it out easily, because it is like dynamite. Aquarians are powerfully emotional, that's why they are tied to the image of being water bearers. Yes, they can skate above the water all day long with beautiful thoughts, but they are also the water itself. They are spring wells of emotion, with astute emotional control. If there were an Olympics for emotional control, Aquarians would get all the gold medals. They have a relationship with emotion and thought that is difficult for many to read, and therefore Aquarians too are also seen as misfits, odd, and different Their high capacity for both thought and emotion makes them an odd duck that can make them difficult to understand, but they're usually so sweet that people accept them, unlike Scorpio who has a tendency to be brooding, grumpy, and dark. If you're a Harry Potter fan, think of the Slytherins. They get a bad reputation in the books, but in actuality they are great and must take responsibility for that greatness.

Scorpio and Aquarius get along because they are both odd, highly creative, and secretly emotional. They need to take things slow. Taking things slow is seriously the key to making this pair work. It's like a red velvet cake. Make sure to preheat the oven, follow all the steps, and make sure you have all the ingredients before you pop the pan into the oven. Otherwise, you'll end up with a gooey, inedible mess.

They can rush things by taking it physical, but they need to create a great deal of space, an entire grid if you will, to build trust and communication. This will take awhile, and for many they'll give up because this takes patience. But this pairing first needs to understand how to talk, which is going to take some time because they are so different and have to learn from each other. It's like a newborn learning how to talk -- think of it that way for this pair.

Aquarius can unravel itself slowly to Scorpio, which is what it needs. Aquarius needs private dates, away from the hustle and bustle because all the stimulus can distract it from its date... and Scorpio needs private dates because it needs a person all to itself. Scorpio needs that intimacy. Intimacy is what it really desires -- meaning your personal secrets, the story of you, and the story of where you are headed. You can't force the conversation with these two. They'll need to take their time. This may take two months of seeing each other or two years before really solidly deciding that you are in fact in a relationship.

Focus on Communication

Trust me when I say this, but Scorpio and Aquarius don't need to worry about who they are physically. Scorpio by its very nature is sexual. It's a sensual sign, with a vivid imagination. This sign likes moving to this direction because sex is a strong glue for discovering another person. Aquarius with its imagination easily makes strides in sex, which it knows and that is why for many they put off. They already in a sense understand it, and so it makes more sense for them to study other things. The two most single signs of the zodiac are Virgo and Aquarius. Scorpio on the other hand -- can be the loner, but it is greatly the mystique, the wellspring, and the initiator of relationships. Aquarius builds its social structure like a never ending ocean with friends across all genders, cultures, and species. Aquarius is a humanitarian and a social network godess; Scorpio is by instinct interpersonal. Scorpio is a sign that is built for making a family. It's one of the few signs to really charm and awaken an Aquarius. A Scorpio has strong staying power; it is loyal to the core, unless you show infidelity. An Aquarius needs someone who wants to stay, but struggles to find someone like that because they find more people just want to date several people, not just at once, but always. An Aquarius needs to feel special, it needs to feel wanted, it needs to ultimately feel like someone is consistent and will stay.

Now an immature Scorpio, will still have an exploratory phase before settling down. Scorpio is somewhat of an ass before giving away the quality it knows it must to have a relationship -- and that's its loyalty. The more a Scorpio shows how loyal it is, the more it will get to the Aquarius and its amazing emotional current. An Aquarius is powerfully objective, mysterious, and very Luna Lovegood -- which intrigues the Scorpio. A Scorpio likes both the calm Luna Lovegood side and the X-Men Phoenix side of an Aquarius. While the Aquarius loves the emotional-romantic side and dutiful side of the Scorpio.

It is never easy for these two to separate because they have ESP for each other. They know the connection when they come across it, and can latch onto each other with great intensity. To separate, especially for the Aquarius, means they'll have to go complete different ways in order to get over the other person. Also, the Aquarius will want all enough separation to prevent getting back with the Scorpio, because deep down they know they love them.

Combo is One of the Most Powerful

On some alchemical level, all relationship combinations are like a spell. You take one fire element and add it with the energy of an earth element and you have an end result. With a Scorpio and Aquarius equation you have a healing configuration. All water signs have some amount of healing and creativity to them. Aquarius is a brilliant thinker, with excessive creativity and intuition. When these two meet, they make for a cleansing, healing panacea -- or a tempest. All combinations have their healing and destructive powers -- this one either way is strong. There are 78 monogamous combinations. Polygamous combinations tend to be weaker because the power is not balanced.

A Scorpio can fixate on an Aquarius and help it to be more powerful. Scorpio is a magician, and often feels that the challenges around him or her are too dry. That many of the things around her are dull to a great extent, until an Aquarius steps into the world because an Aquarius is a visionary. The Scorpio helps makes the vision a reality, while Aquarius takes a dormant volcano (the Scorpio) and makes it a reality. These two can see their full potential in this relationship. They need to understand that they don't communicate like normal couples, nor should they. They're not like normal individuals either.

Scorpio needs an Aquarius which will gladly accept its affections. Aquarius needs a Scorpio to chase it... because Aquarius isn't a huge fan of chasing. It's an incredible and beautiful journey if done well, an amazing pairing. But for many, they jump into this stack of cards too early and too quick making for a great deal of frustration. Neither of these signs do well with zodiacs that are too simple for them nor are too controlling. They have to line up with each other naturally and with desire, else the structure will fall before it really had the chance to grow.

Why You Should Go For It

Embrace the calm of an Aquarius. The ease it has with life will match well with a Scorpio and its ever changing ways. The Scorpio is the most solid of the water signs, like ice. But it can drift into its liquid and gaseous state simply because it is the master of water, but a Pisces... will always be the light waters, and Cancer will always be the deep, troubled waters.

Scorpio can go anywhere there is emotion, and Aquarius can go anywhere where there is thought. The two together feel more complete, and feel more like they can share their personal stories. They're not exact mirrors, or even in the same states -- but they can explore each other and understand each other quite well. Don't force this kind of relationship -- if it isn't meant to be, then it is not meant to be. But when intellect and emotion try to replicate each other and understand each other, beautiful and crazy things can happen.

Notes for Scorpios

Aquarius doesn't always talk. This can be baffling since it is a wind sign. Sometimes the Aquarius just wants things to be quiet and will leave a lot of space and privacy for you to decipher. If an Aquarius spends consistent time with you, this is a major plus. You may find with an Aquarius that you are making all the moves, but remember them accepting your moves is also a move.

They'll slowly turn from gently holding your hand and letting you touch their hair to kissing you as they please, and for long bouts of time. This is a creature that sees far ahead into the future and loves to gather information effectively before making a decision. Don't let your insecurities drive them away, and make your insecurities clear and they'll do what they can to comfort you, because that's their instinct. They want things to work and they want things to be smooth, and they don't want to hurt you. But you are a Scorpio, and you have the power more so to hurt them, so be careful. Scorpios know how to sting, and stinging an Aquarius... will hurt them extensively. They really want to trust you. If you sting an Aquarius, they'll block you out of your life, which is exactly what you don't want. They won't block you as long as you don't sting them.

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      cammig 2 minutes ago

      @andrealawrence

      Thank you so much for this amazing feedback....

      Well he called me last night while I was in the gym and wanted to see what I was up to.. then I said sure.. I will call once I am done.. so I ended up calling around 12am since he said he would be up.. but yeah talked, had a few laughs, then we talked about when we would see each other and he said tomorrow night? I said yeah sure! So obviously not being active for 2 days and doing my own thing he still has time to message/call.. means a lot but like you said it's not relationship we are in the middle grey area..

      He is at his last semester and whatever job he gets he gets... but in the mean time he will stay here! And honestly.. he does not have those relationship skills.. like he said and needs to focus on him right now.. so I told him we could be more laid back.. but still be together.. but he did feel pressured and maybe even suffocated near the end and wasn't 100% in it so thought.. "I might as well be honest now.. and hurt you months down when I've been too focused on studies and being distant/cold/aloof"

      I guess... taking it day by day... not reading too much into the signs when I know he likes me .. but like you said "half-assing it" which is fine for now as I don't want that pressure of a relationship.. but maybe after his studies which we will talk about again.. too soon now. But why is it that when we care less? Aren't as available? Act aloof.. and not emotional.. go MIA they start to seek us?

      It's like the saying "want what I cannot have.."

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      Julia 5 hours ago

      I'm Scorpio woman and I love Aquarius man.We weren't exactly in relationship.I met this guy 1 month ago when I got a new job,and when I saw him for the first time I couldn't stop myself from smiling and wanting to know him.But 2 weeks ago I texted him and told him that I like him,and want to know him better,and he said that he can't do that now because he wants to be concentrated at his work,and it really broke my heart,but the more time went by I realized that I don't like,but I love him.When I confined in my co-worker friend,she said that this guy don't like to show his emotions,and only cares about his job,and me always being the romantic,emotional one.I can't stop wondering what if,and I really don't know what to do anymore with this heartbreak.

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      Andrea Lawrence 14 hours ago from Chicago

      I feel like in the long run you are wanting a relationship with this man, but there isn't necessarily a promise of this. I think you are coming in with that expectation and hope. I think you need to be clear to yourself first about what you want, and then draw a line about how much you can take. He might not want to fully commit because maybe he plans to move after he gets his degree, or he doesn't have a good eye for what is in store with the future. I think if you really want this person to be your friend, you need to stay in the friend zone and get out of this gray area between friendship and a relationship. I think being in the gray area will hurt your feelings in the long run, and then end up also hurting the friendship. Be friends for now, and if it feels like you have a more clear picture that you can be in a real relationship, try this up again at that point. Otherwise, this kind of setup is going to hurt at least one of you. He may be considering being in a romantic context of some sort with you, but you do need to ask -- is this going anywhere or do we need more time to figure that out with the current setup? Or are we wasting our time here and ultimately hurting the friendship? You need to ask him what he sees himself doing in the future. He doesn't have to give you a full 100% undivided relationship or fit some kind of vision he has about what a relationship should look like. You two can be in a budding relationship that is more relaxed and doesn't make him feel as threatened. He might not be mentally ready for a relationship. You guys need to figure out and communicate what you are to each other, where you think it needs to be for now, and what you see in the possible future. Be pragmatic about it.

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      Andrea Lawrence 14 hours ago from Chicago

      Are the two of you currently talking to each other? Is he out of school now or has he started a new semester?

      What are his plans for after school? Does he seem to have a vision with you in it? You need to setup clear boundaries about what you want, and what is the difference between being in a romantic context and being a friend. Honestly, I think this guy sounds like he is half-assing it with you. I think if he really liked you, he would put in more effort. He may genuinely be more focused on himself at this point in time, and giving focus to another person might not be a skill that he has at this time... or the near future.

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      cammig 22 hours ago

      UPDATE:

      He called me monday night (14th of august) and we talked on the phone.. he said he was worried about me... since I was not active on whatsapp or facebook for 2 days.. so obviously he checks! We talked a lot and then I thought he had to go.. after an 1 hour he hung up and messaged on facebook saying his phone died.. so I assumed that was his way of saying bye.... then he called back? So we talked for another hour.. and discussed when to see each other next.. which was tuesday night.. so during that talked.. it was about his day, and his work, gym routine and what he ate and how he got a new phone.. "I'm back on snapchat"and he wanted me to snap him my nose piercing I said na.. in person" Anyway.. He obviously wanted to know how my dad was and if there was any news and tried to cheer me up said to look up this photo and we both laughed so hard on the phone (his old friend that used to look so different) but yeah... felt like old times.. and I was thinking of him and for him to call was so random.. then when he came over the next day... wow that was fun too.. we cuddled.. had sex and talked.. laughed and he was meant to go.. but he said "small nap" and then that turned into a full on sleep until 5 am... so yeah.. cuddling and his head on my chest... holding me tight.. Good to know we can still be friends.. and the pressure of the relationship is less.. so he feels better knowing he can have space/freedom while being with me on the downlow.. since his studies are so important...

      I know I'll be seeing him soon.. but is it true that if you care less (I'M a scorpio female btw Cancer moon - he is aquarius sun and pisces moon) so I think he knows no other person understands him the way I do... and we just get a long so well.. my gut instinct knows he isn't done with us yet.. and I don't know if I should message or call? I know... cat and mouse game (but for now)

      We were good friends before and now that we dated and now broken up to be this "casual" "low key" thing... I don't know what is best.. how to approach it.. since he said "i'll always be here... even if you need to call or get your mind off things with dad.. no burden at all" before he told his friend cbf..need break but then he obviously said "if she needs me, i'll be there for her 100%"

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      cammig 3 days ago

      I am scorpio female (22 turning 23 this year) and my ex bf is an aquarius (24) and I feel like we broke up because he wasn't ready... nor has he ever been in a relationship before. He has had flings and "f***arounds" with girls but yeah he said it was different with me... we have been friends for almost 2 years and we got close around mid april until it felt like a fairly take and he asked me out around july 12th... then we broke up august the 2nd.. such a rollercoaster.. as he got cold and distant due to his studies and I became more clingy and upset.. (had a gut feeling he was cold and kept asking if he was okay) he did not want to tell me until the night of the break up "my heart isn't fully in it as before.. I have a lot on my plate and I cannot handle everything.. you deserve 100% nothing less.." I thought it was an excuse until I found out from a close source that his average has been dropping and had to do an extra exam... (his last semester before he graduates from engineering) I just knew since he felt suffocated near the end and that he had no idea what a real relationship was... he just needs to do him.. He is know for being "indecisive" and very on and off... so I knew our chapter wasn't over yet.. it was just so sudden! He went from "I can't believe someone that was once afraid of commitment is happy in one now... my best friend hasn't even met you and she likes you.. she thinks you're changing me for the better and I'm opening myself up more around you..." so imagine my shock when he broke up... from only feeling unsure for a week... "A week is a long time for me to feel a certain way... I know myself.. if we continue, I won't be giving my all.. and not caring as much as I should be" ... I mean this guy is so private, low key... he even told his older sister about me.. and his parents were sussing out him seeing someone since he was so happy.... he wanted me to sleepover and meet them/talk to them! He was even willing to come meet my older brother and cousins... but everything changed.. now he want's to be single.. focus on his career and I agreed to be casual since the love for me is still there (despite him saying that it would hurt in the end) I don't think it would since I can put my emotions aside and just be happy to spend time with him even in a friendly/casual way... showing him there is no pressure..

      He called me on the 11th of august (friday that just passed) and asked where I have been (Since I was not on social media for 2 days) so he realised and wanted to make sure everything was okay...his friend told him about my father being sick and he felt guilty for not being there for me since i kept it from him (my breakup reaction was bad... cried for ages and he got scared/worried) but there was a reasonable response.. anyway he asked to come over and we cuddled.. talked.. and had sex.. we both wanted it, it was mutual.. and the chemistry is as great as ever... the friendship aspect of it too... but I think he told his friend "going to hit her up.. see what she's doing" his first intention was to sleep with me but once his friend told me about my father he just wanted to be there for me... and before didn't want to talk and wanted space and his friend asked "so does that mean you're in contact again?" he replied "if she needs someone to talk to then 100%"

      *almost forgot.. he ended up staying the night until 6:30am.. since he couldn't leave due to my brother and mother! We cuddled a lot.. grabbed my hand and placed it on is chest while trying to hold it.. and wrapping my legs around his body... I just know he won't find someone that cares/loves him as much as myself and he told me the girl before.. he never took her feelings into consideration and just got messages from her everytime he was seen with other females and they'd talk, she would ask to meet up and then try again until one of them flaked off.. or feelings weren't into it much.

      My head is all over the place.. he is such a caring/genuine person... and he even messaged me the next day "how'd you sleep?" I didn't reply for a solid 8 hours.. then we talked a bit and I said how I had a good time and he then said "I had a great time" and how he's here for me if I ever need to talk to anyone, no burden at all.. like he genuinely cares but obviously not at the time of his life to be settled down...

      next day he messaged at 11:47 am (continuing the earlier chat) I replied 9 hours later again.. then we stopped as I said the last word.. I will disappear and do my own thing as I have a life and he does have a full plate with work, graduating, helping his parents and just time for himself.. he went from so good to, I need space to hey are you free tonight? ... SO CONFUSING HAHA!

      I feel like when we care less ... they care more.. he even said "You took my spear away... I'm the hunter... you didn't even let me chase" which is true.. I did chase a lot.. and he likes to chase..

      Do they ever come back? (because I feel like the bond we have.. can't be broken this quick as we were friends before and the physical aspect is just as strong) He did always say "one thing I liked about (Person X) is she knew when to give me space... " but he has only ever liked two people.. myself and the girl before me.. everyone else was a fun/attraction thing...

      So as a typical scorpio.. I can't seem to let go yet since he is so wishy-washy and needs time.. and will most likely message me/call me soon to catchup. The pressure of a relationship is off and I'm glad ... I wasn't ready since he rushed to ask me out but he said "he was happy.." so I don't know what to do!?! He likes me ... yet doesn't.. yet comes back since he knows its familiar and comfortable!

      HELP!!! Missing my aquarius friend/lover

      *also - I hate how he plays the "macho man" to his friends, this image that he is fine but asks them if I'm okay, or if they have talked to me in the last few days... so he is worried about me but that could just be from a friend point of view... and since he knew I loved him.. he couldn't reciprocate that ideology of love back... I think ...

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      6 days ago

      "Aquarius is exactly what Scorpio wants and has always wanted."

      You couldn't be more right about it. I'm a Scorpio and my Aquarius man is driving me crazzzzyyy.

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      Prince pluto 2 weeks ago

      Hello everyone..

      Firstly I'd like to say this article has to be the most enlightening & relatable of all I've ever read.

      I kindly ask for help/ advice..im a 23yr old Scorpio Sun ,taurus Moon male..

      i just had an encounter as I'm residing in Southern africa..i was just about to relocate to a new location.

      Out of nowhere !!comes an 18yr old Aquarius female with a Taurus moon as well (lol I did research on her excuse my Scorpio probing )We immediately had a connection,

      what puzzles me is that she's younger than I am but a mind n spirit of a mature woman with kookyness lol ...rewinding a bit ,so i haven't been dating for 3 years,also celibate..So this girl is amazingly weird and different which i really like..so she's not a girly girl..which i dig about her..we talk almost about anything & we share similar interests..so she strikes me as an unfeeling aloof girl..her brilliant mind,mixed with calmness & eccentricity I admire..and im calm as well but my emotions flare up quickly,but I rarely show it.

      We started talking 2 weeks ago,we met via an my Aires friend who's a Virgo moon.

      So one time we Martians/& Plutonian (Me and my Airian friend)chilling at a park there she appears with a friend all 4 of us decide to play spin the bottle (No,we wernt drinking alcohol).

      So the bottle points to HIM AND HER..they kiss (rules of the game)...Yep and here I was jealous and agitated wanting to throw a brick to his face ,though not showing it,i watched them kiss..My emotions kept being turbulent coz I wanted to be the one she kisses,looks & touches.

      I've never been so infatuated with an Aquarius b4 nor dated one.

      So I kept cool,her friend & I kissed too but it was just ok..

      When the aqua girl n I finally got to kiss I felt some burning,goose bumpy firey feeling right below my chest,above my abdomen i wanted it to be her & i alone so bad..it was like my soul tasted a bit of hers & vice versa..neither one didn't wanna let go..

      So she tells me thAt she's not a Juliet type & fine with it..my problem is the more we cross paths,the cosmos line up n I feel the burst of emotions overwhelming me..yes we are sexually attracted too but i feel there's more to it..

      Anyway ,she puts a certain spark to my psyche I haven't experienced b4..& i get afraid of falling for her coz I might get hurt,& her too..

      at times I want to get deeper and say how I feel but being such of a scorp I resfrain coz I don't want to ruin the moment then i switch to hibernate mode.

      Being me whose chatty I always wanna talk to her (only her)

      We talk on whatsapp everyday and she asks me if would I have sex with a girl like her..i reply with honesty that "yes I would"(but I'm worried that she might have sex with me and hop on the next train like all my ex's did to me)..i hate being used for sexual activities.

      Part of me says she won't,but my other doesn't want to JUST "have sexual intercouse"..i have difficulty in expressing that part of me..

      I get worried coz for some reason my Aires friend urges me to "hit it & quit it"..and I know the more I get to know her the deeper feels I get,i immediately know once I sleep with her I'm gonna get attached(reason for celibacy).

      Is sex to aquarians like a sport or what? Coz right now I'm F*** up..to my friends having feelings for a girl is like weakness/bad thing..so I hide that part of me since I'm got a Mercury stellium in 3rd house..but Being a guy i feel & think deep

      All the time.but some days I wanna scream n shout tell her that I really like her & I'd like to try a relationship with her..

      I'm fine with giving her space coz I like mine too..especially when I'm in my moods recharing my batteries e.t.c

      I've always seen & felt like Aquarians are extraordinary beings with beautifully weirdo crafted minds that i cannot help but fall for..sometimes I feel like a freak or an outcast,but when im with an Aquarius I feel I finally found an alien to ride on a space ship n fly infinite galaxies with.

      What should I do?

      Her chart is air & earth with a dash of water...mine is air & water with a dash of earth...Coincidence??I dunno..

      Any advice would be greatly appreciated thank you.

      Pluto.

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      Lara Boucher 2 weeks ago

      I felt this to be right-on! Do you have other such in depth analysis of Aquarius w/ other signs?

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      ItalianScorpio 2 weeks ago

      Everyone is telling here that SCORPIO and AQUARIUS are the best, I believe it's the best. It's hard in the beginning but in the end, it's a relationship who last a lifetime. Because we have ESP, I know how she feels everyday and he know how I feel every day. There are examples here of people who want to marry together, who want to share their entire life together. I'm in love with an AQUARIUS woman who is in doubt about her feelings but maybe she should only follow what this incredible MAN Andrea Lawrence wrote. He has so many examples of this "sweetest relationships in history were an Aquarius and Scorpio". It's a love that is hard to get but it's a love totally different from anyone else because Aquarius can't find someone who is so deep in her mind and Scorpio need an Aquarius because he takes out the good feelings from him. Aquarius absord this feelings and she is more happy. It's a cycle of love, love, more love, love, more love.

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      Aqua ms scorp his 3 weeks ago

      I had a major crush on a scorpio male in my teens and i know he felt the same. I was feeling rejected by the progress we made when it was obvious to everyone there was something there. So i moved on... 25yrs later we find ourselves back in the same position but now both woth lots of baggage like trust issues being hurt or even being willing to enter another relationship. I am the reasoning he is the emotionly charged fire cracker.. we talked about not hooking up in the past and cant figure out why? The same thing is happening now again. Im reading this all and thinking slow is good good now . Imnjust not getting the hang around i just need time vibe.. its lots of communication then a dry spell. Like he sees something he doesn't like and switches off. Ill wait foreva but how do i know if im waiting for nothing? Thanx by the way. This has been eye openingâ˜ș

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      Andrea Lawrence 3 weeks ago from Chicago

      This is hard, but I'm not sure this man is being mature and taking responsibility for his actions or for how it makes your heart feel. I think this could be a bad situation and make for an even worse outcome in the future. I think you deserve someone who really loves you and is devoted to you. Tell him that, and if it's not what he wants, then you'll be friends, and you are thankful for him in his life. But you don't need to sit there and wait on his butt. In fact, getting this out early will help you two to have a better, healthier connection. If you sit there and wait with this unmet expectation, it could turn toxic very quickly.

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      Tonya14 3 weeks ago

      Your post put a BIG smile on my face when I read it! I am a 38 year old Woman (Aquarius) and about 5 years ago I met a then 23 year old Guy (Scorpio) and we hit it off instantly, very positive vibes, he first lied about his age, eventually telling me the truth, at first I thought it was not going to work, but I was hooked by then.. we dated for about 3 months and I found out I was pregnant with our son, and then I also found out he had a girlfriend that was due to give birth to their son any day so I called it quits, never speaking to him again until this year almost 5 years to the date I called it quits, and we talked over the phone for about 2 months everyday, to the point of fall asleep on the phone every night. It was like we picked up where we left off, We talked about our son, what we wanted out of life, his problems with his other son's mother and their custody battle. We talked about a lot of things. And so I eventually agreed to bring our son to meet him for the first time in his life, he was in Virginia we lived in Minnesota, We visited him everything was great, he had grown up a lot (mentally) in the beginning, I for some reason fell head over hills in love with him in such a short time of knowing him it truly scared me. So I never told him up until about a month ago and I have been wanting to move from Minnesota for about 5 years years and the opportunity presented itself and so I made the decision to move to Virginia, of course talking to him about it and he agreed that he wanted to be closer to his son and get to know each other and possibly making something work with me, after we get to know each other better. So I been in Virginia now for about a month now, we had to stay with him for about 3weeks until our house was ready, and I must say, he stayed out all night, he wants me to cook for him, he would come home from work eat, rest for about a couple of hours and take a shower get dressed and go to the gym for about 2 hours and come home take a shower and leave and I might not see him again until the next morning or he would come in th middle of the night. He just told me the other day that he has a friend with "potential" but he still wants to have sex with me ( I refuse to) I don't know if he's just trying to sow his Royal oats or what. Then gets mad when I say I'm ready to find a husband and that I know my worth and that I deserve so much more!! I want to be with him, I want to be his wife, I don't know if he is insecure about our age difference or if he is just not interested in me at all in the same way I am about him.. I know how to control my emotions so he doesn't get the jealous, emotional, in raged Woman I think he wants me to be because that's just not me! But I don't know what to do, he will be 29 in November and I will be 39 in February and I am ready for a stable, loving, respectful, Peaceful, committed relationship.. I have told him my true feelings and he has never rejected the idea of us or has he said we are or would be a couple. So should I wait, or should I just move on and find some one else? Please help me, Hopelessly in Love

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      Andrea Lawrence 5 weeks ago from Chicago

      Glad it was insightful. :)

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      wruzicka@bellsouth.net 5 weeks ago

      Great article about Aquarius women and Scorpio men. Gained a lot of insights.

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      Andrea Lawrence 5 weeks ago from Chicago

      I always like to hear when things resonate with people.

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      Andrea Lawrence 5 weeks ago from Chicago

      Telepathic connection.

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      Boris 5 weeks ago

      This is SPOT ON!!!!!!!! I almost cried reading it :O

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      ESB 5 weeks ago

      What does ESP mean

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      Jordie 6 weeks ago

      I feel like this would work much better for a Scorpio male-Aquarius female perspective. I don't think I've seen very many committed Aquarius males.

      Obviously, it depends on the rest of the chart because my chart is water heavy and I lack earth, so that's what I'm attracted to overall. I have air sign family members and I just can't deal being around them for long periods of time.

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      Andrea Lawrence 7 weeks ago from Chicago

      Very lovely. I only wish you the best.

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      Amna Anwer 7 weeks ago

      I am in love with a scorpion male . It has been beautiful uptil now. He loves me back so much more than anyone could have ever loved me or valued me . He respects me a lot and I love the hesitance between us to have physical relation or even verbal indecent conversations . I am a very emotional person . I can easily get sad over his absence although I know he is mine and he is around . It is beautiful how he tries his best to keep me happy . He generally is thought of as stubborn but he is the sweetest person when it comes to me . I have so much faith in him and I am sure we'll be able to make it up to marriage . I think aquarius and Scorpio is a good match .

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      Andrea Lawrence 7 weeks ago from Chicago

      I'm excited for your happiness, and I only wish you the best in your relationship. :)

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      akrobinson 7 weeks ago

      I loved this article. I am a female Aquarian that has met the most wonderful Scorpio male.

      We each have a tapestry history but have ended up in the same industry of Counselling/therapy.

      We met in an online classroom and built our friendship very slowly in the online forum, moved to phone conversations then to Skype. We lived in different states within the same country and met in the physical after 8 months of communicating.

      Every time we misunderstood each other, we-mostly me, would need to take time to process to understand each other better. He relocated to my home state and we are building our relationship stronger each day. It's been eight months since we met physically and every day is a blessing.

      This article is very acurate, if as you say, the individuals are mature in who they are as people. We are both complex, loving, loyal and family oriented individuals. Most will not get past the first few layers of either of us. I found the love of my life. Blessed.

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      Andrea Lawrence 7 weeks ago from Chicago

      This will help me, but how long have you two been communicating? How long have you known of each other and how did you meet? Are your conversations very consistent?

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      Andrea Lawrence 7 weeks ago from Chicago

      Much love your way, Mrs. Otter!

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      Mrs. Otter 7 weeks ago

      Thank you for looking into this. I know I have met my Scorpio soulmate. I am Aquarius. Many of things you stated were on point. We both in our hearts know we have so much love and life to offer each others. We are hopeful of our future. Thank you for your understandable words.

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      Lara Boucher 8 weeks ago

      Wow!! Not only did this article hit the nail straight and hard on the head from my own experiences, but so have a lot of the comments. I glanced through them but am looking forward to reading more deeply.

      Short of it is--I am an Aquarian woman. I was decribed so accurately that I thought the author read my mind! Lol. As well as what was described of the Scorpios and relationship between them.

      My mom is Scorpio. My t to stepdad's that she had the most amazing relationships with, were Aquarians. I saw so many distractive relationships in general that I was really cynical about them. But watching her in these relationships is really what gave me hope for relationships period. My first love I was a scorpio, everything as it was described in the article, including being too young and immature. I was very scared of commitment. And he was very loyal and committed. We went our separate ways. I cut it off because of my youthful fear. He went on to have a loving committed family life, that I somewhat envied. I avoided dating for 20 years. I just got out of a fruitless long-term relationship with an Aries and am back to dating. I just started seeing a Scorpio that when we met, like the first love, was as described magnetic and karmic. This time we are both older, more mature. I'm looking forward to seeing where this goes--hopefully riding off into the sunset together for the long-haul.

      I'm very grateful for the article and the advice in it. It really resonated with me and put to words what I was thinking.

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      Tina 8 weeks ago

      Hey...there.... My partner is Aquarius sign and we are getting married.... Can we live a mature interesting and full of love and joy..life..suggest me about this..

      Thankyou

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      Savana 8 weeks ago

      Wow, it is incredible how much conversation this article has sparked and a lot of it really does resonate with me. I am a scorpio woman and dated an Aquarius male for about three months earlier this year. My intense attraction to him always baffled me as I could tell immediately that we were very different. I wondered if he would be able to connect on the emotional level that I wanted to as he himself said that he was unemotional and comes across pretty detached and cool. I know that he did end up becoming quite attached to me and we moved a little too fast, which definitely could have caused the demise of our relationship.. we saw a lot of each other as we lived in the same apartment complex and started a relationship while still getting to know each other. (Actually ended the relationship while still getting to know each other too...) We had started arguing a lot, he would feel very defensive and as if if was attacking him when i wanted to talk about how we could improve our relationship and eventually I just ended it. I think he saw ways that he had taken me for granted after it ended and he just never expected I would break up with him. I didn't give him a chance to "fix" things when he realized I had had enough, but to me that was it. It was too little too late. I do think things could have gone a lot differently and can see how the different qualities of the two signs can help bring out two potential of the other. I saw glimpses of that! I still think of him and miss him but, like the other scorpions mentioned in the comments, I am fickle and don't want to try again only to hurt him more. We are complicated creatures! Thank u again for the article, twas a very interesting read!

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      Nina Aqua92 8 weeks ago

      Hello!

      I am an aquarius woman and i'm seriously confused with scorpio man i fall for. We still haven't met each other, because we live in different towns in our coutry. He is busy with his job and i will graduate soon and i hope we'll meet soon. We talk on the phone for hours and i REALLY LIKE HIM. It's like i've met the man i was looking for all this time. Confusing is that i don't know how he feels about me. I already told him that i feel something more, that he is more than a friend to me. I know that the distance is real problem. I think he feels something more too, but i can't tell for sure, cuz he's so mysterious. I know I have no right to want more of him, at least for now. I need some advice how to understand him and how to make him sure that i don't want to hurt him, because i have problemswith trust like him. I know it's hard to belive someone who is so far away.

      I hope we'll meet each other soon and it will work. If we both want it, of course.

      PS: Sorry if my english is not so good. :)

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      Andrea Lawrence 2 months ago from Chicago

      Thank you! Glad it is helpful.

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      Aquaorpio 2 months ago

      So, as I was reading this article i couldn't believe how true it seems. This is definitely me and my guy. I'm the Aquarius and He is the dark mysterious loyal Scorpio. Every paragraph I was able to relate based off our relationship now. I even forwarded to him to read to help us understand each other. Awesome article

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      Andrea Lawrence 2 months ago from Chicago

      I am glad to have helped you out. That always brightens my day to know I've given some help.

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      N2 2 months ago

      Hi Andrea,

      Thanks for this, I'm a Scorpio In a relationship with an Aquarius man. We have been dating for a year now, and have been having the same issues if communication. This has been challenging for me Bc we are also long distance and extremely busy individuals. We tend to meet up every other month or so, and it's a great time. My issues has to do the the lack of communication at times, he seems very detached. I bring this up often because it affects me emotionally, yet when I tell him how I feel he becomes closed off and dismissive as if he doesn't care to help the situation. I'm not sure what to do, I'm trying to be patient and hold on to all the good times we have and the similarities we have in the outlook of life. Any advice would be much appreciated!

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      Lib 2 months ago

      Wow, thank you so much for taking the time to write about the connection between scorpio and aquarius. I have been married to an aquarian for 12 years now and oh boy, it hasn't been easy.

      We have a very strong connection, intimacy is amazing, we can talk for hours come up with interesting ideas and plans but yet communication is a problem. I am very open when it comes to expressing my feelings but I'm lucky to get a full sentence out of him, it is very frustrating. He is very reserved and idk how to change that after all these years.

      I have to give it to him though, he has been with me throughout the different scorpio phases which can be very unstable and frustrating and that's where I think the problem lies.

      He used to be overly expressive and loving when we met but I was very defensive and at the first sign of betrayal I took vengeance not taking into consideration the consequences.

      We broke up for a while and then decided to work it out, we formed a family but he has never been the same.

      We hurted each other in the worse way and it wasn't easy to move on specially due to the lack of trust from my part. I'm willing to put everything aside and build the trust and he is in agreement but I don't see any effort from him to work on communicating his feelings and being more affective.

      I sense that he's hurt and I don't know what do to, this happened years ago. Any ideas??

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      Nau 2 months ago

      Im an aquarius girl... and im deeply in love with this scorpio man. We were a great couple together for a few most-almost a year. However, i have a short temper and we had a huge fight out of nothing and he ended our relationship.. i kept my distance and once a week he would just send random txt that made me understand he missed me a lot...for a month he was really still mad about what happened. And this week i finally was able to have a little forgiveness. He told me i had 75% chance to get him back and that i should wait because he needs some time for himself still (he has a low self esteem). So im stuck in a place where my patience is tested and wondering if i should really wait for him. Its a torture and dont know what to do !

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      utosepia 2 months ago

      Hey I came across this article today and I couldn't agree with you more. You have absolutely hit the nail on the head. Most articles about sun compatibility are extremely conventional. But you've broken the dynamics down to even the little details.

      I am a scorpio with aqua asc and libra moon. My lover is aquarius with capricorn asc and cancer moon (or taurus depending on what chart system).

      It's shed a lot of light and given me perspective on this relationship. Now Im more aware of the spectrum of emotions going through my aquarius man.

      I have venus conj Uranus (capri in 11-12H cusp) and what I've always believed is that to love fully one must love in a way that makes the other feel free. So I give ample space and affection as well. At times I've felt a bit confused by the space and mood swings but the love trumps all and makes everything worth it.

      Thank you for this amaaaazing article my friend. You have great depths of insight!

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      jezzicad@gmail.com 2 months ago

      it seems aquarius male and scorpio female may work better than aquarius female with scorpio male especially since aquarius challenging the scorpios "dark clouds" can seem emasculating to men?

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      Ivy Martinez 2 months ago

      I met this guys through my work this past year and he is a shy Aquarius. I dated his aries best friend who worked at the same place. But after me and the Aries broke up, the Aquarius comfort me even tho he just went through a brake up around the same time. Anyway there was this work meet up a month after the brake up and I was over my ex and he was over his ex. So I waited until the last day to ask him if he would like to go with me because he was to shy to ask me. He said "idk" but then finally said yes.....so we r having a good time and we get pizza after and he put his arm around me and we danced....the next day, like nothing happened... Boom, like im stuck in the friend zone.... Idk what to do, do I take more risks? Do I just give up and pretend like nothing happened? Or do I look for someone new?....BTW this all happened on may 19

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      Julie 2 months ago

      Wonderful!! Will you be writing about other signs or just Scorpio? I'm an Aquarius and would like to know about Aqua and Pisces.

      Thank you!

      If you ever do, please email me at julie.chou@gmail.com

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      Jay 2 months ago

      I'm a 23 year old Scorpio male, and I met this 25 year old Aquarius woman about a couple months ago. The first day I saw her I was already shakened up. I don't know why seeing her scared me but it did. I told myself I should avoid this woman at all cost, but her mind was on the opposite. It seemed like the more I try to avoid her the more she would come around. She would come to say hi to me just about everyday we could see one another. The way she stared at me pulled me in. she had her own natural scent Which is weird because I think I'm the only one that smells it. After a while our hi's turned into conversations and then me flirting with her and doing silly things to make her smile and laughter. Only a few times she would mention that she would mention that she had another "friend" who she talks to and hangs out with sometimes, but that's how much of that she would talk to me about it. Learned she was from another country overseas and so my nurturing side kicked in and me understanding how it feels to be alone I was always willing to help her anyway I can and still am. We exchanged numbers, and I would send her good morning texts often. I gave her the nickname gorgeous, I can tell she really likes it when I call her that. I would try to get her to hang out with me just grab a bite to eat, have some fun, you know young adult stuff, but she wouldn't budge, it was always "I want to, but I'm too tired or too busy." I would doubt sometimes if it's even worth the trouble with this girl because I knew from the get go we were different. One day I decided to open up just a bit to her and I told her I was attracted to her and have been since we met. I then go on to say that I would like it if we could see if we can be more than just friends. She told me she thought I was a really sweet guy but she had a boyfriend. I was devastated when she told me that, but not for long because I knew in the back of my head by her actions something was holding her back. After that it became really hard for me to want to talk to her. I wish I didn't know. I really want to be there for her, but it's hard now I had to go and open my big mouth. I still have this mindset like she belongs with me. I have to restrain myself from saying things like that because I just don't want her to get all weirded out. Funny thing is I told myself a long time ago that an Aquarius is not the type I'm attracted to. Slap in the face by the universe. On top of it all I've never had a girlfriend before in my life. I guess I'm really picky.

      She's running around in my mind all day everyday.

      I don't know what to do I'm so lost but so happy I got to see this girl.

      I made the decision to just stop contacting her all together because I know she wouldn't notice anyways being so aloof and all.

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      Jay 2 months ago

      I'm a 23 year old Scorpio male, and I met this 25 year old Aquarius woman about a couple months ago. The first day I saw her I was already shakened up. I don't know why seeing her scared me but it did. I told myself I should avoid this woman at all cost, but her mind was on the opposite. She would come to say hi to me just about everyday we could see one another. The way she stared at me pulled me in her eyes are dangerous for me to look at, and she had her own natural scent Which is weird because I think I'm the only one that smells it. After a while our hi's turned into conversations and then me flirting with her and doing silly things to make her smile and laughter. Boy I can't get enough of that smile. Learned she was from another country overseas and so my nurturing side kicked in and me understanding how it feels to be alone I was always willing to help her anyway I can and still am. We exchanged numbers, and I would she her good morning texts often. I gave her the nickname gorgeous, I can tell she really likes it when I call her that. I would try to get her to hang out with me just grab a bite to eat, have some fun, you know young adult stuff, but she wouldn't budge. I would doubt sometimes if it's even worth the trouble with this girl because I knew from the get go we where different. One day I decided to open up just a bit to her and I told her I was atteacted to her and have been since we met. I then go on to say that I would like it if we could see if we can be more than just friends. She told me she thought I was a really sweet guy but she had a boyfriend. I was devastated when she told me that, but not for long because I knew in the back of my head by her actions something was holding her back. After that it became really hard for me to want to talk to her. I wish I didn't know. I still care and like her even though I really don't know a lot about her. I still have this mindset like she belongs with me. I have to restrain myself from saying things like that because I just don't want her to get all weirded out. Funny thing is I I told myself a long time ago that an Aquarius is not the type I'm attracted to. Slap in the face by the universe. On top of it all I've never had a girlfriend before in my life. I guess I'm really picky.

      She's running around in my mind all day everyday.

      I don't know what to do I'm so lost but so happy I got to see this girl.

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      Andrea Lawrence 2 months ago from Chicago

      Extra sensory perception. It can also mean telepathy.

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      Andrea Lawrence 2 months ago from Chicago

      Glad to know it helps.

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      HOT FIRE 2 months ago

      So true about Scorpio and Aquarius...1000000% true.

      I am Aquarius and I had patient to be with my Scorpio lover. My lover loves me and he yarns for me to be with him always he is so hungry to love me and please me always. He's hot as fire for me..haha Thanks for this amazing reading its so true.

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      Esb 2 months ago

      What does ESP mean

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      Andrea Lawrence 2 months ago from Chicago

      I'm excited for you! It may take time to work out the bumps on the way, but it'll be worth it.

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      Normascorpio 3 months ago

      Wow. I was looking for a more detailed description of my relationship with an Aquarius and boy did you hit it right on the bullseye. Your description of me is exact. And I wanted to learn more about him. And yes, if fact those are his desires for our relationship. He looks further within our future. And I'm very happy and afraid at the same time. But I plan on being patient and no sting him, as of now he's been nothing more than loving and caring. Thanks again for the inside view of an Aquarius. I know we'll be going for the long haul.

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      Deidra 3 months ago

      Hello,

      First of all, thank you for taking the time to write this article and for responding to all these posts. Your dedication to your followers is astounding! For 8 month you have read all of our questions and concerns and spent considerable time crafting deeply thought out responses (I know because I read every single one of them and have gained so much more knowledge from reading your responses to other people who have similar questions). My sincerest thanks on behalf of all of us who need your help!

      I am a Scorpio woman hopelessly into an Aquarius man. Through your response to Scorpio83, I learned that his aloofness through text is not uncharacteristic. Through your advice to many others, I am aware that communication is always key. I would still like to share my story and hear your thoughts, mainly for myself because I am a Scorpio on the cusp of transition from my immature to (hopefully) my mature self (took me long enough, I am 28 years old!). I met this Aquarius 2 months ago, he is a guest vocal coach for my chorus, I was IMMEDIATELY attracted to him. He isn't the typical picture of beauty, but his charisma can shake a building. My Scorpio sensuality managed to snag his attention and we have fantastic chemistry in that arena. He lives 2 hours away from me and leads an extremely busy life with two jobs that he is very committed to and an active social life. There isn't room for much more and he has told me that. He has also told me that he doesn't want to date someone in a chorus he instructs. However, he has told me that he enjoys spending time with me and would like to continue to do so. We text every day (though it isn't unusual for him to take 12+ hours to reply). Enough about him, let's talk about me! I feel fortunate to be sharing this experience with him because I have been raw and open and honest in a way I have never been with anyone else (and it hasn't scared him away, which is a real confidence builder for me!). I started our relationship with my sexuality, which I normally hide. I also communicate with him honestly about how I feel about him (another thing I don't normally do because I don't want to scare/ push people away). He has stood steadfast through this exploration of myself, which makes me appreciate him even more. I am learning to accept and embrace my insecurities while talking with him, since he often doesn't respond to my texts quickly and he often responds in ways that aren't what I was hoping for. I love everything that this connection with him is teaching me. I am battling my emotions for this Aquarius because I am afraid of getting hurt, since my feelings only continue to grow for him, while I am also truly enjoying every bit of the experience (the pleasure and the pain) and the opportunities I have found to explore myself and develop my maturity. What are your thoughts?

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      Annette 3 months ago

      Hi,

      I am an Aquarius woman with a huge conjunction so I am very Aquarius. I am in love with my second Scorpio and trying to navigate this. Maybe what I say will help some people. I am very sensitive and emotional once I am attached so I hesitate to get attached because it hurts. I have a large circle of friends but only few I am on terms with to be comfortable with on deep levels and feel understood.

      I was married to a Scorpio and we are friends now after some separation time. I feel I am drawn to them because even if I don't show it I am as intense in some ways as they are.

      With a Scorpio when it is great it is a fabulous mix of creative energy that goes deeper and deeper without boredom and I express my passion in so many ways freely and just keep expanding horizons for my man with the way I think and the gentle way I am always there even if I am busy or seem remote. We talk with eyes only very well.

      My new guy was a total whirlwind of every color imaginable and I love it. We both talked every day and had each other doing new things. I was happy and he was too.

      He plays control games :( My husband did too. I can handle a little of that but it sure ruins things to feel a struggle where there doesn't have to be one. I'm crazy about him, willingly loyal and devoted... Then he did some things to make me not sure about trusting him like flirt with my friend and make sure I see it. Some things I viewed as tests. Some things that felt like punishments :( He wants to bottom line control. I don't need to control as much as I need to not feel pushed and pulled etc...

      We had a fight. I went cold on him. Sometimes my silence is for me to process things and cool the emotions down so it doesn't get worse. He took it bad and did some stuff to hurt me which I took badly. We are now in a weird place. Some days I want to let it all go but I am not sure he will ever totally sever ties.

      What a shame all of this is and I crave him. Some uncertainty planted bad seeds. I don't know if we could go back to what we were when it felt like the world was ours. It's been 3 months. We talk a little. Sometimes it's bad but not always.

      His little maneuvers to make me jealous or see what I would do were an awful idea. Once I'm not sure if I believe in someone anymore it's hard to make it feel the same again. Advice?

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      Minettie 3 months ago

      Hey Andrea!

      I'm an aquarius and would love your opinion on what's been going on the past 5 years after my relationship with a scorpio ended. There is a sense of "destiny", but it seems so unreal...

      Please let me know**

      Kind regards

      Minette

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      Dexter 3 months ago

      I have been chatting with an Aquarius girl for almost 6 month we have a lots of up and downs, every time in between a conversation I fall for her. Most of the time we talk to much from morning to midnight and all of sudden she starts ignoring, ignoring not in sense like not talking to each other but like just giving simple answers like hmm, hahah, oki etc... need help buddy!!

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      Andrea Lawrence 3 months ago from Chicago

      It's quite possible she could feel the intensity of your feelings and was concerned that if she didn't feel the same, things would only get uglier and more confusing. If she is really your friend, time will heal this. It may have been getting too intense for her when you were friends. She may have felt like it was too big of an investment. The best way with an Aquarius isn't too approach this too seriously, but show a fun and witty side. This will come off more friendly and less threatening.

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      Andrea Lawrence 3 months ago from Chicago

      I would say yes.

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      Andrea Lawrence 3 months ago from Chicago

      I wish you the best!

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      Pranjal 3 months ago

      I don't know if you will reply or not but I really need help. This was the only article that says an Aquarius and a Scorpio is the perfect match... I just love this article as I am a Scorpio and the woman I love is an Aquarius. This article goes deep about everything that needs to be taken care of. Year 2016 I was happy alone, not searching for a partner or something then an Aquarius woman entered into my life and everything changed my perspective about the world, my thinking everything. I could talk to her about anything and everything. From painting, sketching to spirituality and universe. She was comfortable showing her emotions to me and so was I. One day after few months of being friends I finally confessed that I am in love with her. Didn't ask her to love me back as I was okay with being just friends. I was lucky to call her my best friend. She said she respects my feelings and it was okay. She was good with all that. She even said she likes when I compliment her on personal level. Everything was good she enjoyed it. But after a few months she said I don't want you to wait for me because I don't need anyone right now. I said it's okay. But after that nothing remained the same. She never felt special whenever I complimented her. She started avoiding me. There was a time when we used to talk til 3 in the night and now we marely say hello to each other. I was okay with being just friends I even said you are always free you can date anyone you want that won't bother me. I gave her the freedom she needed. But today we are strangers. I still haven't figured out what went wrong. I just want my best friend back...

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      lovey 3 months ago

      Does this work for scorpio woman and aquarius male too?

      i mean i see a lot of comments are fpr scorpio male vs aquarius female.

      I really need to know because i have just started a relationship with aquarius guy and sometimes i feel its a mistake.

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      Aquarianna 3 months ago

      A wonderful description. Spot on! That's exactly how we work. I'm a stormy Aquarian girl and my man is a deep as an ocean scorpio. I have never found someone that is so interesting. We are both quite the complex creatures which keeps mutual fascination continuously glowing. You are right about the importance of maturity in this zodiac relationship. If we found each other in our 20ies, we would probably have killed one another. With more self love and security of late 30ies we know how to play with our differences. What a great trip we are on!

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      Ania 3 months ago

      A wonderful description. Spot on! That's exactly how we work. I'm a stormy Aquarian girl and my man is a deep as an ocean scorpio. I have never found someone that is so interesting. We are both quite the complex creatures which keeps mutual fascination continuously glowing. You are right about the importance of maturity in this zodiac relationship. If we found each other in our 20ies, we would probably have killed one another. With more self love and security of late 30ies we know how to play with our differences. What a great trip we are on!

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      BlueBomba 3 months ago

      I'm the an Aquarius that just married my Scorpio. I feel like everything you said here describes us exactly. We've known each other 15 years. Young and immature, we didn't date, which was a good thing. He pursued, but I resisted. I didn't get him, thought he was strange. 6 years ago (and much more mature and sure of myself) we started dating and married 8 months ago. Daily, I still feel the intense connection we have and I'm positive it will never go away. We have so much electricity, emotional strength and desire, as you stated. I've never met anyone like him and don't believe I ever will again. I'm so happy he is equally infatuated with me!

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      Mahua 3 months ago

      Bang on! This is one of the closest description of what I have read so far about the pairing of these two signs. I'm a true blue aqua woman and on the verge of getting closer to a Scorpion man. Most of what you have written is eerily true.

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      Andrea Lawrence 4 months ago from Chicago

      I'm here to help if you need it! Sometimes I lag in my response time since my life isn't only Hubpages. But I do like hearing that this is accurate.

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      Dolna 4 months ago

      I am an Aquarius girl. Though I hv not dated Scorpios my father is one. So am somewhat familiar to Scorpio quirks. We hv our disagreements, there are days we don't speak even. But I love him to bits, and I am emotionally closet to him than my mom.

      I have interacted with some Scorpio women colleagues and relatives but unfortunately that did not come as favourable. I hv found that I don't get along with Scorpio women. I find them intrusive and somewhat patronizing, which makes the independent Aquarius in me bristle.

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      Ee 4 months ago

      Soz for The Message was by accident.

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      Ahlee 4 months ago

      This is on point. I am an Aquarius and this is exactly how my relationships with Scorpios are. I kid you not all I date is Scorpios. And this really made me understand why I do. They always tend to be jerks at the end. And as I kept reading I couldn't agree more. All you said is facts and I still have faith that these two actually work! I would love more advice!

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      Linda 4 months ago

      I'm a Scorpio woman and have been with an Aquarius for 16 years it's been a rollarcoster at times but it works

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      Andrea Lawrence 4 months ago from Chicago

      You are welcome! I am so glad this connected with you. I hope it will be a helpful resource for you.

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      Andrea Lawrence 4 months ago from Chicago

      I'm quite flattered by your response. It always makes me feel good when others say this resonates for them. I'm glad your relationship is growing beautifully, and I hope it continues to do so. I love the Aquarius and Scorpio combination; I think it it one of the most intriguing zodiac combinations of all. Many astrologers and writers won't go fully into it to try and find out what exactly makes this combination work. I think that's silly, because all combinations can work with the right understanding of how the two connect. With all the billions upon billions of people who live and breathe on this planet, every zodiac combination under the sun has seen success.

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      Lala 4 months ago

      Amazing article..articulated exactly how I'm feeling about this Aquarian man at this exact moment. The chemistry is so intense like a magnetic force I cannot explain. This article made sense of it all for me...Thank you.

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      Julla Bulla 4 months ago

      Thank you for writing this article!!! When my boyfriend (the Scorpio) and I (the Aquarian) first got together and I read all of the compatibility reports; they did not sound very hopeful or optimistic...and some said even destructive (good thing I'm an Aquarius with oppositional defiance disorder; telling me not to do something only makes me want to try it more to find out why not! LOL) but I told myself that not every Scorpio or Aquarius fits a cookie-cutter definition, and knowing myself and my occasional penchant for the dark/mysterious/misunderstood- I went with my gut, and we are two years very much in love! He is a Scorpio, Aquarius rising, and I am an Aquarius, on the cusp of Capricorn...plus like the post says, "the biggest hurdle for these two is that if they meet too soon, they won't have enough knowledge to understand each other. There is a certain amount of life fluency they need in order to bridge the gaps they'll have."- I found this to be so accurate!- as, 5-10 years ago, I don't think I would have found him to be so perfect. And he definitely would not have been into me either! He needed time for his, "immature Scorpio, exploratory phase before settling down", and I needed my time of being a free-spirited Aquarius with no rules, and to have no one to hold me back, or have to answer to. But, we lived our lives, and then luckily found each other at the right time in life; (actually, the timing couldn't have been more perfect) to be our best selves, to bring it out in each other, and to grow into something beautiful together.

      "The Visionary", and "The Magician"- they are stronger, with their forces together, than they are apart. And ALSO on that note, there is no doubting our ESP/psychic connection!...so thank you again for writing this perspective and for confirming what I already knew to be true!

      I've been in both relationships; one's that on paper should've worked, and ones that "shouldn't work"...and forever, I thought that I needed to be with another Aquarius- that only another Aquarius could understand me, and only an Aquarius was creative or interesting enough, and could keep my attention/intrigue (it's funny that you brought up, "The two most single signs of the zodiac are Virgo and Aquarius" HAHA, I can understand why for both these signs!-virgo is one I can often combat/debate with endlessly!) ...but at least from my experience, I can confidently say that opposites attract and likes repel for a reason! I think in a romantic relationship it is best to have traits that compliment, and balance each other, rather than too much of the same.

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      Andrea Lawrence 4 months ago from Chicago

      This is a really excellent question, and I'm glad that you brought it to my attention. I hope that I can be of service to you. Scorpios are powerfully emotional, and sometimes they are not fully aware of this -- and it is often in the subconscious. For the Aquarius, the Scorpio energy can have a profound effect on you. Partly because as an Aquarius in the intuition and really diverse charisma an open mindedness, usually other signs can't effect the Aquarius. Scorpio, however, pulls on Aquarius' energy in a lot different of a way than the other signs. Aquarius also really baffles the Scorpio because Aquarius is more immune to this than other signs -- but, even still, to the Aquarius the Scorpio's energy sticks out like a thumb.

      Depending on the situation, a mature Scorpio is incredibly insightful, engaging, loyal, and enlightening. But on the flip side, if they haven't matured, you could be dealing with a psychic vampire. And this is not good, because it is sucking out your positive energy instead of trying to resolve its own personal issues on its own. You'll know if Scorpio is immature because they are looking for methods to get a rise out of you -- they'll want your reactions, and so they may try destructive things to get reactions out of you. This can be really simple things, like in conversations, daily tasks, etc. Scorpios are magicians -- they know how to manipulate and control people. This is part of being a water element, because Pisces and Cancer have this in common as well. It's hard for an air sign to quite grasp, because air signs are not about manipulation or jealously -- and don't get me wrong, manipulation and jealously in this sense are not automatically negative words. Jealously can be used as an indicator to know what you value; manipulation can help you to understand expectations. Now, this doesn't mean that you have to cave to either of these demands (jealously or manipulation), but it allows you to have a window into their psyche and their wants. For an Aquarius, that can be pretty valuable. Aquarius are not known for directly having their hearts on their sleeves -- but they can figure out a lot when others make their emotions loud.

      I have found that partly why Aquarius gets attracted to Scorpio is because Aquarius is actually an extremely, powerfully emotional being but it doesn't let everyone in on that. This is partly because Aquarius is so telepathic, which is a water sign trait. Aquarius is like X-Men's Jean Gray, and then can if willing, go into its Phoenix state -- which is highly emotional. I hope this is helpful. I know what I'm writing here may seem like I'm rambling.

      Scorpios do have a lot on their plate. They do have a tendency to have sadness, this is in large due to being misunderstood and having intense emotions to process and understand but not necessarily know what are the right tools to tend to those emotions. Scorpios have the full range of emotions -- they can go into the deepest, darkest depths of the planet and turn around and go to the highest, highs of emotion. Again, some are not fully aware that they have this much at their disposal. Male Scorpios have it even harder because of our social norms and social constructions in how we view emotions. We as a society have inaccurately labeled emotions as more feminine and this is a lie. Logic and emotion are not about gender. And because we've feminized emotions so much, men don't develop this part of their rationale as easily, so as you can imagine as the Scorpio, this is a big burden to carry. It's also why of all the signs -- Scorpios are pretty easy to spot. They'll also hide a lot of their emotions in their sexuality, which isn't healthy either. Emotions need to be balanced out through all activities, not bottled up for one aspect of the self.

      So, what I'm trying to say is that yes, you are feeling a void. I can verify for you that you are feeling that connection, and it is very real. Now, the real question that you are asking as to whether you should go into the void with him or step away, that's not as simple of a question. Before getting into a relationship with a Scorpio, ask yourself where they are, how mature they are being in the present, and don't just look at their potential for where they are going in life. It is important to look at people's potential and see their capacity to grow. But with Scorpios, and how stubborn they are, you really shouldn't date them until they've had that enlightenment. If you are feeling a void like vibe from him, you need to find out what is the root of that or if it has to do with him longing for you. If it's coming from some emotionally unresolved business, the person needs to take care of that before getting involved with you, or else you're not quite getting the real person. And that's a big deal.

      I say listen to your gut. When you enter the void, it will influence your psyche. And if you are seeing that this would not be a healthy choice for you, then I wouldn't do it. Being with a Scorpio, as an Aquarius, can cause you to have a lot of wild imagination and fantasy like dreams. It will really get to you, and breaking up with a Scorpio is also extremely powerful for an Aquarius. The flow of energy on this is unreal. If he seems ready, loyal, and available -- you might try it. Scorpios do communicate through emotions, so there is a lot of telepathy whether they realize it or not. It is likely that they have strong feelings for you and that's where you are getting the vibe to some degree. But I will admit, Scorpios are a whole different scenario for Aquarius-types than honestly the whole zodiac.

      Also, communicate with him. Let him know that you need some amount of space and independence in the relationship, and your need for that space doesn't mean that you are trying to break it off or hurt him or go to someone else. You just need that space for introspection and yourself. This can be difficult for water signs to understand and accept, but if they are willing to date an Aquarius they'll have to accept your need for yourself and for your friends. And that your romantic partner is a very high and sacred place in your mind, and isn't of the same value as friendship. Scorpios have different thoughts on friendships because they don't tend to have as many platonic friends or platonic friends that go as deep as some of Aquarius' connections do. Aquarius can be like a social mayor. Scorpio is more designed to merge really intensely to get to know someone, and have them as a part of the self. This is why Scorpios will extremely love you. But when you break up, they'll completely end it. It's because they see in those extremes, and can have a difficult time nurturing other more diverse friendships. They want the fullness of where things can go, not a watered down version. That's why 100% in love is their goal, not 23%. So they do tend to have full breakups, just so you know.

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      Absolutely. Anytime. :)

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      AnneHebe 4 months ago from Boston

      I'm a sun/moon/mercury/ aquarius woman. I've had a Scorp asc Pisces man extremely interested in me for about 2 yrs now. He's super sweet, artistic,compassionate and tolerant but there's just this absorbing,melancholic and sad vibe about him that kind of makes me pull back. Not sure if maybe it's just me overthinking everything but I can't help this feeling of entering a void when I'm around him and it makes me feel drained. I'm used to having relationships mostly with Sagitarius and Piscis individuals with a lot of fire and air in their natal chart but NEVER this combination. He complains that I go "back and forth" with him but I just can't find another way to find my balance in the situation. Honestly I dont know wether to get away completely or "enter the void" with him.

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      Bridge 4 months ago

      Thank you for writing such a beautiful article.

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      Andrea Lawrence 5 months ago from Chicago

      Normal is no fun at all! Glad to know this hub is accurate and relieves some stress from all the naysayers. It's a lovely combination through and through.

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      Rainbowalker 5 months ago

      I just wanted to say thank you ! I'm a aqua girl with a scorp hubby. We have been together for nearly 30 years. I knew it the minute I saw him at the tender age of 19, that he was the one. The connection was undeniable for both of us.We have been inseparable ever since. I've read things in the past that diminish our compatibility ie: Not a good match. Of course there has been ups and downs over the years, that's life. I still see it in his eyes, I'm a enigma and he loves it.

      He see's the love in my eyes and I feel his heart swell. Scorpios are the biggest softies and yes they can be brutal with their sting, more a deflection so they don't get hurt ! Thank you for describing what I know to be true. I love what you say about the communication style..So True ! Very unique, but it works.I tried normal once, worst day of my life :) Thanks again

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      Head over heels for this Scorpio Man 5 months ago

      so I recently met up with the Scorpio that I have known for quite a while if he is he is interested in me but it also appears that he's not interested in me but for some reason I cannot get him off my mind I feel like I'm going crazy and he tells me things to show me you care but you know I'm usually not the loving and caring one I normally go astray especially as signs of control reveal itself I'm so confused but for some reason I feel completely drawn to him can somebody help help

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      DianaFlo 5 months ago

      Hello! Your articles are awesome! I want to ask you a question:will you write an artcle about noth and south nodes?

      I am Aquarius and I have my north node in Scorpio.What exactly does this mean?

      Thank you! :)

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      Christine 5 months ago

      Great information and seems to be on point! Thank you!

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      Andrea Lawrence 5 months ago from Chicago

      The best thing to do in this situation, is to stop contacting him. You'll drive him away if you keep contacting him because he already has a negative perception of you. Try going at least 15 days without contact, see how you feel, and then add another 15 days accordingly. You can't do anything with texts or normal communication to win someone back. You'll have to wait a moment for the bad feelings to die down first. Aquarius types respond to creativity. When you feel like it's been long enough for him to get over negative perceptions, send him a real, positive secure message in a creative way. But if you keep sending him messages when he already has a bad perception of you... you'll be reinforcing that.

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      Scorpio female 5 months ago

      So I met an Aqua, we hit it off really well but I was really insecure and thought he is seeing someone else or he isnt interested because he wasn't responding so promptly. Then we got in a huge argument and he said I have shown him that I am not stable as a person and wants to end it. I begged him to see me again ... yet he disappeared. Is there a way to get him back? I msged him so many time 20 within the last two days and he never responded.

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      ScorpAddict 5 months ago

      Out of all the aqua/scope articles I read this has to be my favorite. Why because it's the only article that puts some positivity into this combo. I'm female Aquarius he's male Scorpio. I only have one question, does the Scorpio care any for me? My story is different from all the others, because I'm not in a relationship with my or do I plan to. We've been "side buddies" for the past 3 years. He's been in other relations and I been with my BF for 5 years. Please don't judge. I've told him many time I wanted to stop because of guilt even tried to make him mad to push me away because he is so addicting. The sex is amazing. In the beginning he would chase but now it's always me that chases and he's always willing since he's the sex sign. Anyways the last time I did this back and forth thing I told him I cared for him and basically asked if he did to, and if he didn't care for me to tell me to leave him alone. I don't know why I even care I'm not leaving my BF and we met cheating so there will never be anything more. But I'm a female and we been doing this for 3 years so I did grow some feelings for him. Back to story....he didn't tell me he cared for me; he told me we should quit what we were doing. I was bumbed maybe I just wanted to hear that he cared for me as a friend. Friendship to me is important to me. Anyways fast forward 6 months later, I've been faithful and he's been with others. He never hits me up to say hi. I was doing good but then I messaged him. I took a shot and asked if we could "play" again to my surprise he said yes. I didn't think he would since I'm a nut. We hook up it's great as always. He tells me he loves how freaky I am. He's also seeing someone. Anyways after all this do you think he cares any for me? Also if he enjoys what we do why do I always have to initate? Why after 6 months did I have to reach out? I know I'm wrong for this.

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      Andrea Lawrence 5 months ago from Chicago

      I do have a Capricorn and Aquarius compatibility hub already made. Check it out and tell me what you think.

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      Sheri Lee 5 months ago

      I loved your article. It spoke volumes to me. I am an Aquarius who is hopelessly attracted to Scorpios and their energy. I even married one, but we are now divorced. Shortly after we separated, I met another Scorpio. But this one was different. The moment we met, and he placed his hand on my back to say hello, I recognized him. That has NEVER happened to me before. We only dated for two months, but it was the happiest I have ever been in my entire life. I wasn't afraid to be honest, to be me, to love. There was so much intensity, incredible magic and perfect passion between us. Whether we talked for hours on end, or made love until the sun came up, we connected on every level.

      And then one day, I felt a shift. I called him out on it. He said he wasn't feeling those "secondary feeling" he should be. I was baffled and very heartbroken. I didn't understand. I told him that I couldn't see him anymore. For months I cried more than I ever have in my lifetime. But I always felt connected to him. Like there was some invisible thread I couldn't cut loose.

      Sometime later, we spoke briefly through texts and decided to see each other.

      It was like no time had passed. The chemistry was palatable. He was so affectionate. Interested in how I was. Attentive. We kept in touch after. But much to my disappointment, he stands firm on not sharing the feelings I have for him.

      I started dating someone else and have not been happy. I was having a moment of doubt when my Scorpio contacted me again out of the blue. Like he knew.

      I can't let go of him. I've tried. I've mediated, wrote messages to myself, to him, said a prayer under the full moon and lit them on fire.

      We've maintained a friendship, albeit distant at the moment as he respects that there is someone in my life.

      But I know he's thinking of me. I can feel him all the time.

      What do I do? I am convinced beyond any shadow of a doubt that he is my twin soul. I DO NOT FEEL this kind of love for anyone. EVER.

      I know I cannot force it. But it haunts me every minute of every day.

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      Marina 5 months ago

      I'd really love to see a more endepth reading like this for Aquarius and Capricorn as I've often gravitated to them and meet Aquariabs who keep meeting Capricorns. In all my years observing this, I feel the two are actually deeply compatible and like Scorpio and Aquarius misunderstood as a couple.

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      Andrea Lawrence 5 months ago from Chicago

      Love to hear that!

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      Douglas Mark 5 months ago

      Hi,

      Your post is full of facts. My girlfriend is Aquarius 14 February and am a Scorpio 3rd November. We get along very well. She's the only woman who understands my true feelings and emotions. Its true Aquarius rock a Scorpio's world.

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      Rissa 5 months ago

      So I have a Scorpio boyfriend and I feel like he isn't opening up to me as much as he should. Maybe I am overthinking this, or something of that sort. I can't read him that well, I know a lot about him but I just can't read his in-depth emotions and it just bugs me. Please help.

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      Amrita 5 months ago

      Hi Andrea... I share the same thoughts as Nilanjana.. It has become so complex with all the articles taking purely negative about this match but somewhere I have wondered if this could come about to be beautiful with time.. Thank you for this piece of positivity. Would like to listen from you on some other fonts and if could get some detail

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      Andrea Lawrence 6 months ago from Chicago

      You can work it out! It is possible.

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      Andrea Lawrence 6 months ago from Chicago

      Thank you for reading!

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      Tabby Leamer 6 months ago

      Reading this article was like someone has been watching my boyfriend and I for the past two months. Most of it is right on point in the way our relationship is going for the moment and leaves me hopeful that we can work together and grow as a couple.

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      tnypal 6 months ago

      Thank you Andrea.

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      arohi chaudhary 6 months ago

      hi

      what a descriptive explanation between the two signs! great work. mostly, these signs are labelled as not so good for each other.

      I am an aquariun women n have been seeing a scorpion man since 1.5 month. It was going perfect in initial days but now he has starting like distancing himself up. We have not met though, Its a long distance relationship. I really like this guy. He is perfect combo of whatever I could wish for! I am really confused as to how to get the things going. Sometimes there are signs that he really think about us and the other time he make me feel like an ordinary person. p.s we both are waiting to meet for real before finalizing things. Please guide what should I do. Shall I avoid him or shall I talk straight about my insecurities or shall I let him do whatever he wants. But this on and off thing is really messed up.

      Thank you.

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      Laura 6 months ago

      I have a scorpio friend. He confessed that he likes me on 2nd Feb 2017, few days ago.

      I said I want some time. (I am an aqua female)

      He showers me with love. He is sensitive and tender.

      But I hate his 1 thing. He suddenly stops talking to me and doesn't replies to my messages. (We mostly talk through WhatsApp)

      He is online for the whole day and sees my messages but says nothing!

      It's so irritating and hurting at the same time,!

      I understand him and he is the only guy who got to me emotionally.

      He always understands me.

      He is so patient with me when I show sudden outbursts.

      Nd I loves me instead of my cool approach and is always confident about himself.

      He hasn't been replying to me since few days even after seeing my messages.

      I don't know what to do.

      I never think emotionally and I always use my mind.

      But I hate loneliness. And this attitude is hurting.

      And I can't get over thinking about him.

      I don't understand what I did wrong.

      I don't get hurt easily but I don't understand why it is happening with him.

      He is the first guy who got into my head like this!

      Please help ASAP!

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      Andrea Lawrence 6 months ago from Chicago

      Hi, there Satiah! I'm slowly but surely making my way through all 72 romance combinations in the zodiac. I've just finished my series on Pisces. Next up is Aries and then Taurus. Taurus is definitely a fun one to consider. I had fun writing the Aquarius + Taurus combo and the Pisces + Taurus combo. I'm sure I'll learn a lot as I go through this process. I would initially think Taurus and Leo would be comparable to a Aquarius and Scorpio match, or even Taurus and Aquarius since these all square Taurus. But there would be common threads with all of those because they are fixed signs. I think Taurus and Leo would be more similar because they are the 2nd and 5th signs, rather than Taurus and Aquarius which are the 2nd and 11th signs. So in theory, before I've really gotten the chance to write / explore it... I think Taurus and Leo would be most similar to an Aquarius and Scorpio combination -- but it'll be different because earlier signs in the zodiac have a more forward temperament, whereas Aquarius and Scorpio are in the latter half and have more reflective temperaments. Very, very interesting question you have posed.

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      Satiah 6 months ago

      You write with such wonderful detail and nuance! I've been studying astrology for 15+ years and have yet to come across someone who has this kind of original POV in terms compatibility. Aquarius and Scorpio. Leo and Virgo. These are two sets of atypical pairing. Is there a comparable Taurus match? (I'm early Taurus 3 degrees -4/23- and feel much fire in addition to earth) I'd LOVE to hear your take or even read an article written by you on this one... hint hint lol

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      Andrea Lawrence 6 months ago from Chicago

      He is not okay with rejection. He has gone cold toward you now. He doesn't want to recreate a connection and then you cut him off again. Scorpios put a lot of focus on trust and loyalty, so it probably made him feel bad and he's doing what he can to move on and find someone who makes him feel good.

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      Megan 6 months ago

      I have a question. I recently started dating a scorpio, we really hit it off but I let my own insecurities and past experiences get the best of me and I called it off. I regretted it almost right away. I tried to later talk to him about it and he said I should've been open with him about it and he seemed a bit hostel about me calling it off and now he won't talk to me at all. I find it hard understanding what is going on since he won't just come out and tell me how he feels.