Why Scorpio and Aquarius are Attracted to Each Other

Updated on July 31, 2018
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Andrea loves to write about the zodiac and love compatibility. She's been an online writer for over five years.

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Even if you're a rookie in astrology, you've probably heard some of the rumors about the compatibility between water signs and wind signs. A lot of astrologers will go on autopilot and tell you that the best partner for you will be someone with whom you share an elemental sign. (They'll also tell you to check your charts.) This is too simplistic.

Every combination of signs offer unique rewards and challenges to a relationship. For example, when a water sign and a wind sign connect, the results can be magnificent. This article will explore why Scorpios and Aquarius are such a powerful match.

What You Need to Know About Scorpio and Aquarius's Love Compatibility

  • Why do Scorpios and Aquarius make such a powerful match?
  • What does it mean to be a water-bearer and a phoenix?
  • What should guide a relationship between these signs?
  • What's the benefit of dating someone with a different sign?

On some alchemical level, all relationship combinations are like a spell. Combining Scorpio and Aquarius forms a healing configuration. The paragraphs below will explain the benefits and challenges of this type of relationship.

Why Are Scorpios and Aquarius Such a Powerful Match?

Aquarius is exactly what Scorpio wants, and has always wanted. The Aquarius will always be mysterious to the Scorpio. The Scorpio will be perpetually on the hunt, always learning something new about the Aquarius. Scorpio is a strongly masculine sign, and loves to go after something it doesn't fully understand. Unfortunately, the water sign gets bored easily. Sometimes a pleasant match is too surface level for Scorpio. This sign desires a great deal of complexity, paradoxes, and affection. Aquarius's complex nature is enough to lure Scorpio. Scorpio is like the pipe organ of emotions and thought. They have a strong voice and are capable of arranging complex thoughts.

Scorpios are extremely powerful signs, but often misunderstood. They'll trail to the side and go on their own independent journeys. People don't always know what exactly a Scorpio is, so it'll fade from view without ever being fully realized. Fortunately, an Aquarius is capable of understanding the Scorpio better than any other zodiac sign. A mature Aquarius will know a Scorpio immediately just by their intense stare. A Scorpio's stare is enough to cut through titanium. No other sign has this.

What Happens When Water Signs Combine With Air Signs?

All water signs are representative of a certain amount of healing and creative power. Aquarius is a brilliant thinker with excessive creativity and intuition. When Scorpio and Aquarius meet, they make for a cleansing, healing panacea (or, if they are not mature enough, a tempest). All combinations have their healing and destructive powers. Either way, this combination is strong.

Monogynous relationships between these two signs tend to be stronger. Polygamous combinations tend to be weaker because the power is often not balanced between them. Monogyny works for them because a Scorpio can fixate on an Aquarius and help it to be more powerful. The two need to spend a lot of time getting to know each other. They also need to focus their attention on each other. There is a lot of unraveling they'll need to do as neither sign tends to be as open as a Cancer or a Sagittarius.

Scorpio is a magician, and often feels that the challenges around him or her are too dry. That many of the things around them are dull to a great extent until an Aquarius steps into their world. Aquarius is a visionary and will never bore the Scorpio. In fact, the water sign helps the wind sign's vision a reality. Meanwhile, the Aquarius takes a dormant volcano (the Scorpio) and makes it explosive, exciting their inner passion. These two can bring out the potential within each other.

They need to understand that they don't communicate like normal couples, nor should they. They're not like normal individuals either. Scorpio needs an Aquarius to gladly accept its affections. Aquarius needs a Scorpio to chase it (Aquarius isn't a huge fan of chasing). If done well, it's an incredible and beautiful journey and an amazing pairing. Unfortunately, many couples with this combination will move too quickly, leading to self-destruction.

Neither of these signs do well with zodiacs that are too simple or too controlling. They have to line up with each other naturally, sharing equal intelligence and desire or else the whole structure will fall apart before it really has the chance to grow.

What Are Scorpio and Aquarius Drawn To?

Scorpio
Aquarius
A banging body
Creativity
A charming personality
Loyalty
Intelligence
Intelligence
Good communication skills
Intuition

Aquarius is loving and intelligent. These are gifts the Aquarius employs with a fair amount of introversion or introspection (perhaps both). Scorpio can't unravel an Aquarius like it can most other signs. It sees that the Aquarius has more pure motives, a different range for ethics, and a massive capacity for love. Scorpio enjoys Aquarius, but it brings up a lot of insecurities from deep within Scorpio. Can the Scorpio possibly win the heart of the person who wants to take care of everybody's hearts? How can the Scorpio, which can be the lowest of creatures, win such a big heart?

Why You Should Consider this Combination

Embrace the calm of an Aquarius. The ease it has with life will match well with a Scorpio and its ever changing ways. Like ice, the Scorpio is the most solid of the water signs. Still, being the master of water, it can seamlessly drift into its liquid and gaseous states. (Pisces will always be the light waters and Cancer will always be the deep, troubled waters.)

Scorpio can go anywhere there is emotion, and Aquarius can go anywhere where there is thought. When they are together the two feel more complete, more like they can share their personal stories. They're not exact mirrors, or even in the same states, but they can explore each other and come to understand each other quite well. Don't force this kind of relationship. If it's not meant to be, then it's not meant to be. But when intellect and emotion try to replicate each other and understand each other, beautiful and crazy things can happen. Albeit, if the two are not mature enough in who they are, it won't work so beautifully. Just remember to know and understand yourself before you expect anyone else to do the same.

Personality Traits of Scorpio and Aquarius

Scorpio
Aquarius
Loyalty
Humanitarian
Resourcefulness
Progressive
Intensity
Affectionate
Jealousy
Friendly
Passion
Popular
Seriousness
Broad-minded
Protective
Frank
Secretive
Insensitive
Possessive
Unpredictable
Vengeful
Detached

What Does It Mean to Be a Water-Bearer and a Phoenix?

Scorpio feels awkward having to face its insecurities in the light of someone who is so lovely. Aquarius often shirks relationships, sometimes delving into very independent phases and being void of sex. Aquarius can confuse people. They can be virginal, bisexual, pansexual, and sexually straightedge. No one really knows how to label an Aquarius, especially when they are so private. They have a sexuality that is massively deep and insightful, and there are Aquarian types who really are protective and intuitive about their sexual life. However, some Aquarians are extraordinarily exploitative. Aquarius doesn't feel a lot of chemistry with many signs on a sexual level. It may feel like having true chemistry with a partner is difficult to achieve. Their invasive thoughts can distract them from the amazing things in front of them.

The water-bearer symbolically and eternally gives life and spiritual food to the world.
The water-bearer symbolically and eternally gives life and spiritual food to the world. | Source

The Scorpio is one of the few signs that can get inside an Aquarius's mind. They feel a certain chemistry with this sign that is absent in the other 11. Scorpio also finds something in Aquarius that others do not have. These two signs are like magnets and immediately connect well with each other. They want each other. This connection most-likely has something to do with how they mix as fixed signs. Their emotional palettes work well together, creating extraordinary exuberant colors. If these two meet too soon, it is a major hurdle to overcome. They won't have enough knowledge to understand each other. There is a certain amount of life fluency they need in order to bridge the gaps they'll have.

Scorpio is known for having a crazy amount of range to their emotions. They have three different morphological cycles: the snake, the scorpion, and the phoenix. The other signs will usually have only one totem. This sign is naturally complicated. Other signs just don't have enough power to study the world with the same intensity. If you're not paying enough attention, it's easy to lose sight of a Scorpio. They can change their mask so easily. They are malleable, quick-learners, and, most importantly, they can easily dissect someone else's personality.

The phoenix is a symbol of rebirth from the ashes of the past. It is also representative of the victory of life over death.
The phoenix is a symbol of rebirth from the ashes of the past. It is also representative of the victory of life over death. | Source

What Scorpio and Aquarius Want in Bed

Scorpio
Aquarius
Scorpios have an endless sex drive.
Aquarius wants to get to know the partner through making love.
Expect a Scorpio to take any and all sexual encounters very, very seriously.
Fascinated by the choreography of making love.
You can't shock a Scorpio. Try many ideas out.
Wants to be taken on a journey.
Wants to have a deep, and almost telepathic mental connection with you.
Aquarius is primarily curious.
Your trust in him will turn him on because it means he has managed to connect with you on a mental level (which is essentially what he desires).
Aquarius is also interested in experimenting with new positions.

Inside the Minds of Scorpios and Aquarius

Scorpios have busy minds, easily distracted by the noise of life. However, once they've found their match, they love deeply and loyally. They are searching for the right person, and they do not settle. They believe deeply in a soulmate, they refuse to stay with someone who doesn't fully stimulate them. Although they can seem grounded when compared to Aquarius, Scorpios (regardless of whether they flat out say it or not) are looking for a supernatural connection as well.

Aquarius can come off aloof to them, but Aquarius is like Jean Gray from the X-Men. They are intuitive, quiet, and amazingly charming. Nevertheless, they can unleash the Phoenix within them. They have powerful emotions locked up inside them. Because their emotional capacity is like dynamite, they don't let those emotions out unless they find it completely necessary.

These powerful emotions are what tie them to the image of being water-bearers. Yes, they can skate above the water all day long with beautiful thoughts, but they are also the water itself. They are spring wells of emotion, with astute emotional control. If there were an Olympics for emotional control, Aquarians would receive every gold medal. They have a relationship with emotion and thought that is difficult for many to read, therefore, Aquarians are sometimes seen as misfits, odd, and different. Their high capacity for thought and emotion make them odd ducks, difficult to understand. However, they're usually so sweet that people accept them. This runs contrary to Scorpio, who has a tendency to be brooding, grumpy, and dark. If you're a Harry Potter fan, think of the Slytherins. They get a bad reputation in the books, but in actuality they are great and must take responsibility for that greatness.

Scorpio and Aquarius get along because they are both odd, highly creative, and secretly emotional. They need to take things slow. Taking things slow is the key to making this pair work. It's like a red velvet cake. Make sure to preheat the oven, follow all the steps, and make sure you have all the ingredients before you pop the pan into the oven. Otherwise, you'll end up with a gooey, inedible mess.

They can rush things by taking it physical. They need to create a great deal of space to build trust and communication. This will take awhile. Because this relationship takes patience, many will give up. First, this pair needs to understand how to talk to each other. This is going to take some time because they are so different and have to learn from each other. It's like a newborn learning how to talk, it'll take awhile, but will be very rewarding.

An Aquarius needs to revel itself slowly to Scorpio. The Scorpio must be patient. Aquarius needs to go on private dates, away from the hustle and bustle—all the stimulus can distract it from its date. Scorpio needs to go on private dates as well. It needs to have its date's full attention. Intimacy is what it truly desires. They want to know your personal secrets, you life story, and your ambitions. You can't force the conversation with these two. Having a truly revealing conversation may take two months of seeing each other (or even two years). It can take awhile before these two decided that they are, in fact, in a relationship.

Date Ideas for Scorpios and Aquarius

Scorpio and Aquarius
Why?
The beach
Aquarius and Scorpio need to go on private dates, away from the hustle and bustle. The two must be able to have good conversation and unravel each other slowly.
A smaller, less crowded pub
Remember, these two are attracted to each other because of the great conversation they can share in. Make sure that if you're going to a pub, you choose one that isn't too noisy or busy.
Stargazing or a planetarium
These two signs love intelligence and beauty. They want to share in each other's intellect.
Botanical Gardens
Taking an Aquarius on a date to a botanical garden will make him feel calm and serene. Seeing the scientific names of the plants will allow him to gain knowledge on what you both love.

What Should Guide Their Relationship?

Focusing on strong communication should be what guides a relationship between a Scorpio and an Aquarius. Trust me when I say this, Scorpio and Aquarius don't need to worry about who they are physically. Scorpio by its very nature is sexual. It's a sensual sign, with a vivid imagination. This sign likes moving to this direction because sex is a strong glue for discovering another person. Aquarius's great imagination makes sex easy and enjoyable. They are aware of their great sexual imagination and that is why they don't share it with just anyone. They are not afraid to go without sex for awhile. Since they already understand their sexuality, it makes more sense for them to study other things.

On the other hand, Scorpio is the initiator of relationships. Aquarius builds its social structure like a never ending ocean with friends across all genders, cultures, and species. While Aquarius is a humanitarian and a social network goddess, Scorpio is instinctually interpersonal. Scorpio is a sign that is built for making a family. It's one of the few signs that really charms and awakens an Aquarius. Scorpio has strong staying power—it is loyal to the core (unless you show infidelity). An Aquarius needs someone who wants to stay, but struggles to find someone who is loyal. More often than not, they find more people who just want to date around. An Aquarius needs to feel special, it needs to feel wanted. Ultimately, it needs to feel like someone is consistent and will stay.

An immature Scorpio, will still have an exploratory phase before settling down. Scorpio is somewhat of an ass before it feels comfortable enough to give its loyalty. The more a Scorpio shows how loyal it is, the more the Aquarius will open its amazing emotional current. An Aquarius is powerfully objective, mysterious. For example, think of Luna Lovegood from the Harry Potter series. She may be a little "out there," but she's infinitely intriguing while also being calm. This is something a Scorpio will respect. A Scorpio likes both the calm Luna Lovegood side and the X-Men Phoenix side of an Aquarius. Meanwhile, the Aquarius loves the emotional-romantic side and the dutiful side of the Scorpio.

These two seem to have ESP for each other. This makes it hard for them to separate. They instantly recognize their psychic connection when they come across each other. This feeling is so desirable that they will latch onto each other with great intensity. Separating, especially for the Aquarius, means they'll have to go in completely different directions in order to get over the other person. The Aquarius will desire enough space to prevent them form getting back with the Scorpio. Deep down they know that they still love them.

Celebrity Zodiac Sign Combinations

Names
Signs
Years Together
John Kennedy, Jr. and Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis
Sagittarius and Leo
1953–1963
Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip
Taurus and Gemini
1947-Present
Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith
Libra and Virgo
1997-Present
Abe Lincoln and Mary Todd Lincoln
Aquarius and Sagittarius
1842–1865
Eva Mendes and Ryan Gosling
Pisces and Scorpio
2011-Present
John Lennon and Yoko Ono
Libra and Aquarius
1969–1980
Bill Clinton and Hillary Clinton
Leo and Scorpio
1975-Present
Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie
Sagittarius and Gemini
2005-2016
Oprah Winfrey and Steadman Graham
Aquarius and Pisces
1986-Present
Kim Kardashian and Kanye West
Libra and Gemini
2014-Present

Notes for Scorpios

Aquarius doesn't always talk. This can be baffling since it is a wind sign. Sometimes the Aquarius just wants things to be quiet and will leave a lot of space for you to decipher. Aquarius will need their privacy. If an Aquarius spends consistent time with you, this is a major plus. You may find that when you date an Aquarius you are the one making all the moves. Just remember how magical it is when an Aquarius accepts your moves. This is no easy task.

They'll slowly turn from gently holding your hand and letting you touch their hair to kissing you as they please, and for long bouts of time. This is a creature that sees far ahead into the future and loves to gather information effectively before making a decision. Don't let your insecurities drive them away, and make your insecurities clear and they'll do what they can to comfort you (that's their instinct). They want things to work and they want things to be smooth, and they don't want to hurt you. Still, you are a Scorpio, which means that you have the power to hurt them, so be careful. Scorpios know how to sting. Your power to dissect and ridicule can hurt an Aquarius extensively. They really want to trust you. If you sting an Aquarius, they'll block you out of their life, which is exactly what you don't want. So long as you don't sting them, they will accept you with open arms.

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        Mary 

        11 days ago

        I am confused with your use of the term "monogynous," meaning the male has one female only, but the female has several male mates.

        It seems like "manogamous" would make a lot more sense, but maybe I'm not getting something here...?

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        Canis 

        2 weeks ago

        After a few months of just being friends, the Aquarius woman in my life, became my other half. We often spoke for hours on end, and the more we spoke, the deeper we felt for one another. She's changed how I think about the world I live in. It's just so obvious how much we care for each other. I've honestly never met another human being like her...just thinking about our connection gives me goosebumps. We gave each other space, even when we didn't want to, and that made getting to know each other even more magical.

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        Aqua T 

        3 weeks ago

        I am an aqua women married to my Scorpio husband for 10years together 15yrs. When its good, it’s really good. When its bad, it’s really bad. It’s just like any relationship, you must compromise, and communicate to make it through the really bad periods in the relationship!

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        JustScorpio 

        3 weeks ago

        @lenna

        Hi, what it worked for me was to change the focus from others to me. If you really think that your problem solving and knowledge are better than others (and I'm sure they are), you should apply this natural talent in what you love without asking attention from others. Moreover there isn't a written rule that you should trust others, there is a written rule to trust yourself and your mind and your body the most you can. We love to think that all the people in the world like criticism or compliments, it's not true, most people love to be recognized for who they are (we are not better or worse than anyone else). If you have such a war going on inside you, appreciate it because it means that your mind is finding the truth and change your mind so you can become better. Have patience, everything will be ok.

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        Crystal 

        3 weeks ago

        I am a Scorpio woman, dating an Aquarian who is actually a lot younger than I am, and I can say it is absolutely wonderful. Unexpected and magical. This article is spot on.

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        lenna 

        3 weeks ago

        hi.i am sun scorpio leo moon and sagitarrius ascendant which is i think is a blessing and curse at a same time, i want to be alone all time and yet also want to attain attention from others because i think myself better than other people in terms of problem solving and in knowledge but people dont give attention in this aspect but they just want to show their intelligence and their meaningless day to day routines in front of me.sorry my question is getting so long i just need some advice to keep control over my thinking and emotions, i have also severe trust issues and that is way i don't have any good friend i can't stand with criticism and i hate praising and compliments too,often i feel used and manipulated by people i just think i would surely help them but on my own willingness and this thing makes me really upset.Every coming day is even harder for me than the previous. please suggest me how should i make peace with the wars going inside of me or guide me ways out of my selfishness,and unhappiness.

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        4 weeks ago

        as an Aquarius male....I long for the woman I can trust.

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        Annelise 

        4 weeks ago from copenhagen Denmark

        An Aquarius is just a Scorpio from outer space.

        #ChangeMyMind

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        hopsokev@gmail.com 

        6 weeks ago

        this is just what i needed to learn

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        Delilah 

        7 weeks ago

        Andrea,

        Say a aqua woman has been dating a mature (in age) scorps man for many months although has known her before, and he then on a one to one moment tells her he loves her,

        What does that mean?

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        Womanwaterbearer 

        7 weeks ago

        We met a few years ago and clicked instantaneously. The electricity and energy there in that moment were just high and strong. I liked him but I just wanted friendship (first basic step before thinking of a relationship- AQUA ALERT). He didn't think the same and started chasing me. We had an awkward date. Ok, this was it. I thought. But he kept talking to me and asking things like "do you never fight for what you want", telling me he was single, available, etc. Eventually I didn't show interest anymore, he was just too intense for me.

        He was an exchange student btw and after that, he went back home. Years later he comes back on a work trip, reaches out to me (out of the blue)...things happen. This was just something we "had" to do, I thought. Haha. Now you're leaving, fine by me. But then a while after he's gone, he tells me how he had fallen for me and how he liked me since the day we met. That he's been questioning everything in his life, and wants to come and get me. I'm scared. I read the comments and noticed how serious scorps are when they are in love... and considering we are not kids anymore I'm just freaking out.

        I think I'm ready to give my freedom to someone like him. I think I might enjoy it. However, I have been on and off with my first love (and only, so far) for more than ten years. I feel like I'm ready to move on as I keep coming back to him just because he's always there for me. He loves me and is waiting for my "aquarius phase of trying things out" to pass so I can go back and we'll be together forever. I have told him countless times this is not it and that he should not wait for me. He refuses to believe me. I love him, but I don't see myself with him. I'm not with him because I always get bored and run away. We are a "perfect match", zodiac compatibility-speaking...but I like challenges and trying that which people tell me not to try (scorps).

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        lilith 

        7 weeks ago

        Sorry but i disagree with this article...its sound like its only from your own opinion and plus, i saw an article of you that so anti Scorpio and Pisces...Your articles are so biased. Sorry to be rude but i cant lie.

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        jim from fl 

        2 months ago

        as an aqaruius man why do i seem to still get dirty looks from an ex scorpio. if we both decided we dont want to be with each other why do we need to hate each other? it was her decision to break up and i have accepted it. but she still hasnt moved on and either have i. i had lot of growing up to do with work , financially and mentally. i have done all of those things in 8 months in preparation for not making the same mistake with someone else or with her, but why cant a scorpio be around an ex lover that they hurt? what is the trick to make them be ok and civil and happy. they seem kind of sad still when i see them out in the same setting

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        Scarlet red kisses & Novels 

        2 months ago

        Im spending quality time with scorpio man at his luxurious apartment, He's responsible and well kept, im impressed with what he has achieved and the way he is, he is powerful which the above article mentions. He is keen on me and wont let go after all this time but Everything just seems perfect or too perfect

        I guess i have never experienced perfect before ..Intimacy is great we have a great connection. What do you expect i dont form relationships with the average man.

        Love from, Aquarius lady

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        10230121 

        2 months ago

        It's as if this article was written specifically for me; to guide me, and for me to understand the amazing jack ass Aquarius I seem to be drawn to, and i think may the one; my heart, universal signs, logic and even practically are screaming out he's the one - but my ego, pride and built in walls refuses to chase after him - even though we seem to be enjoying it. I'll get back to this when we've evolved from the foreplay friendship flirtation going on. It describes me and what I know of him to a T; it is what I'm going through with him right now.

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        Aquarius Eyes 

        2 months ago

        My scorpio man is away on a trip atm, he does keep in touch and tells me he misses me, but with this time apart, i feel like i have lost interest and dont feel enthusiastic as i would, he is perfect but i cant help but feel i cant be bothered, maybe becs he is absent.

        I guess he needs to come back and see each other, see if i feel the same way as before.

        Advise- Never give aquarius too much time apart, she will wander and may even lose interest in you.

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        Virgo 

        2 months ago

        Also, author, JFK “Jr.” was Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis’s son, not husband. JFK the president was a Gemini. This article is riddled with errors. Scorpio is a strong feminine energy- the energies of the zodiac go every other - masculine, feminine. Virgo- feminine. Libra- masculine. Scorpio-Feminine. And so forth. Just because Libras are pretty doesn’t make them feminine. Just because Scorpios are powerful, doesn’t make them masculine. Your opening paragraphs denote Scorpio as being “a strong ‘masculine’ energy”. That’s incorrect. All the water signs and earth signs are feminine. All the fire signs and air signs are masculine. Get it together :)

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        Virgo 

        2 months ago

        Scorpio is feminine

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        SXG 

        2 months ago

        Im a cancer sun aquarius moon, he's a scoprio sun and cancer moon. As soon as we met all walls fell.

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        ami 

        2 months ago

        I am an aquarius girl dating a scorpio guy and this is bang on accurate.

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        ava 

        2 months ago

        Aquarius woman married to a Scorpio man. I can tell you that your article is very accurate. My experience has been that we deeply love each other, but for the Aquarius there arises many difficulties. Scorpios can be controlling, confrontational, and demanding. Due to this fact, it makes Aquarius more distant. I find that when my husband acts in this manner I become withdrawn. Aquarius just does not like to be controlled at all. Scorpios will have a very difficult time with this. You definitely need maturity and patience on either side if it will work out in the long term. I will say the biggest pro of Scorpio is their loyalty. That is the main thing that keeps an Aquarius in the long run.

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        Andrea Lawrence 

        2 months ago from Chicago

        Aquarius needs to confront its emotions, otherwise it bottles them up and suddenly -- lets them gush out like a volcano.

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        Andrea Lawrence 

        2 months ago from Chicago

        Regardless of astrology, this guy sounds like a mess that will make your life a disaster.

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        Mschey 

        3 months ago

        Scorpio woman dating Aquarius guy, hes 14 yrs older then me and he keeps me on my toes. The only down fall is i found out he was married after he said "I LUV U". HE DOESN'T SPEAK ON HIS OTHER LIFE, WHICH LEAVES ME TOTALLY CONFUSED & NEVER APOLOGIZE WHEN HES WRONG. WE HAVE WORDS SOMETIMES BUT WHEN HES GONE I MISS HIM LIKE CRAZY... LETS JUST SAY DEALING WITH A MAN LIKE THEM , ITS FUN BUT ONLY THE STRONG Survive...

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        scorpioniceyes 

        3 months ago

        thank you.

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        Andrea Lawrence 

        3 months ago from Chicago

        Sit down and communicate with them first, because they can't read your mind.

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        Andrea Lawrence 

        3 months ago from Chicago

        I responded in another comment about this to you. Aquarius is able to express its emotions far more in creativity and language. Aquarius is the type who can write out an entire novel in the blink of an eye. Scorpio would struggle to be able to handle so many words. This can cause a great divide between the two. This is why Cancer and Pisces can end up being more suited for Scorpio. Aquarius and Gemini can handle things far better in words.

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        Andrea Lawrence 

        3 months ago from Chicago

        1. Part of the reason these two connect to each other so naturally is because of their mental energies. They both are highly intuitive personalities, but in different ways. Scorpio understands things through emotional tone, Aquarius understands things through emotion but it holds it in. Scorpio prefers to express it. So they're both kind of feeding on the same energy, but handling it in different ways.

        2. Scorpio is a water sign and is a fixed sign, Pisces is mutable, and Cancer is the cardinal. This means Scorpio is full of energy, which often gets expressed through sexuality because it's difficult as an adult to constantly be expressing emotion through other faculties. This is partly why Scorpio can be possessive, they're dying to express themselves and they know one solid method that helps with this.

        But Aquarius is the fixed sign of air, which has to do with thinking. Aquarius is full of words, language, and ideas and can appear disconnected to Scorpio -- but Scorpio just doesn't know how to interpret Aquarius' emotions, which it matures and allows to be expressed through creativity.

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        Dianne 

        3 months ago

        I am currently dating one and its driving me a bit crazy, one day he is super sweet the next he is gone and wont event reply to you for days. But i do still love him and that’s the problem I am facing is how to have a loving relationship with a guy that doesnt seem to be emotionally available and very unpredictable.

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        Kasey 

        3 months ago

        I am getting chased by aquarius

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        De 

        3 months ago

        Worst experience of my life. I now hate this Aquarius man. I will run, not walk, the next time I meet any Aquarian man. If you are Scorpio, good luck. Never again.

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        No More Pain 

        3 months ago

        Scorpio man is a worthy keeper. Lady if you got him, don't let go, you will admire his lovely qualities and the way he treats you and the *ahem*!!!, and when you spend time with him at his apartment in the city, he will watch you like a hawk, but it's all good because things are cooking.

        Embrace the change embrace the freedom which you never had before!

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        David from Florida 

        3 months ago

        aqua guy dated scorpio lady and things were really good when they were good when we first met months before dating we instantly had a connection from first conversation that slowly brought us together. when we became close she kept telling me we were never going to hook up. i said that is fine, but then said well i am going to still be friends but distance myself as friends i am friends with do not remind me we are not going to hook up every time i see them. she cried and we forgot about both things she said and i didnt make any moves. naturally we both made moves on each other this same weekend and from there we spent the whole summer together things were amazing but we never clearly said if we were dating or not until later on so we both i think at least i know i hooked up with other people casually because i enjoyed our time together doing things more than sex. but the sex we had was the best sex ive ever had and we connected very well sexually. needless to say time went on and i think she spitefully slept with someone we both knew because she didnt like my venturing out but i also did not care to venture out. i really enjoyed what i had. from there i also went through some person depressions and didnt really treat her the way i shouldve of and also did not want to have sex anymore i was clinically depressed. we broke up, i asked her not to tell anyone about our business and she told everyone, and i wanted to get into a rehab depression treatment she also suffered from this. she did not want to help me and became offended and lashed out. days after she kind of flipped out and made a scene in front of a lot of people and then we didnt speak for months still havent spoken, but we run into each other probably 1-2 times a month. we still do not speak but still see one another often. i think giving her space is best, but if she knows im going to be somewhere and still shows up what does that mean for scorpio? i regret the grey period of when we didnt clearly communicate things, and really had some bad things going on that i couldn't handle emotionally that looked for her support and when i needed that time to rebuild because of the depression she left me. she never once apologized for anything

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        Taii 

        3 months ago

        @scorpioniceyes - Aquarius woman here. While Aquariuses have emotions, like any other sign, we don't need emotion to make decisions or to think, reason and utilize logic. You can say we are experts at emotional compartmentalizing... we can put emotions aside to handle various things and make decisions objectively. While Scorpios breathe emotions, we are cerebral and breathe thoughts and ideas. Emotions and dealing with them can be hard for many of us (talking about myself here) because we don't naturally feel them like a water sign. I always joke that I feel with my brain. As I get older, I'm learning to marry my emotions and my mind, and to not just shut out my heart because it's easier that way.

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        Aquarius Eyes 

        3 months ago

        6 months on with me & scorps man. All I can say is WOW!

        Thanks for this article.

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        scorpioniceyes 

        3 months ago

        2. Scorpio can go anywhere there is emotion, and Aquarius can go anywhere where there is thought.

        This part is rather straight forward. Scorpio can understand, discuss, delve into the deepest fascists of emotion. Aquarius understands thinking and logical pursuits and is an expert in such fields. Essentially one sign is all emotions and understanding the components of that category and the other is about thoughts and thinking and understanding that.

        --- I still don't understand how Aquarius is about thoughts and thinking and understanding that... Wouldn't it that be considered feelings? I guess I am having difficulty understanding how someone can be in their head (thoughts) but not have emotions behind it. Could you elaborate?

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        scorpioniceyes 

        3 months ago

        @16.simile, thank you!!

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        I'mScorpio 

        3 months ago

        @aquagirll

        I'm sorry but no, he doesn't love you. There are two kind of Scorpios: those not evolved and those evolved. Those not evolved are needy and they need a woman who takes care of them (usually you see the woman cooking all day for them, my grandpa is one of them), so they give more than one opportunity to a woman. Those evolved are totally free, they hope to share the life with a woman but they don't care a lot. And since they're so free, they give only one chance, take it or goodbye forever. These Scorpios just need two minutes to understand if it's the best match (not one of the good matches) and if it's not, we stop talking with that woman and no, we won't never talk again because we think other people deserve us and our words. Most men are needy, we're not!!

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        16.Simile 

        4 months ago

        @Scorpioniceyes

        I'm not the writer of this article but I'll try to explain what I think she meant.

        1. It is never easy for these two to separate because they have ESP for each other.

        The definition of ESP: the ability to receive information directly with the mind instead of using five senses of sight, smell, touch, taste and hearing. ESP is sometimes called by other names, such as sixth sense, gut feeling and a hunch.

        Okay now that you know the definition here is what I believe the author is saying. The Scorpio and Aquarius are connected to each other on a psychic level. When they meet they instantly feel each others presence room. Even if they are not making eye contact they can feel the energy of the other person from the moment enter the room. It kind of startles the two signs and excites them. Which is why the author mentions that an Aquarius can identity a Scorpio just by the way their eyes cut through titanium. These two signs have an ESP or psychic element to them that makes separating hard because even when they are apart they still feel the other. Scorpios and Aquarius' don't have the need to communicate everything to each other as much as other couples because of their intuition/psychic/ESP talents. Thus making it difficult for these signs to part from one another. It's rare either finds someone who understands them on a psychic level. This is why people misunderstand these two signs. Scorpio has an ESP that let's it see right through to the emotional core of someone. Aquarius has an ESP that let's it see into the mind and intentions of someone. Both essentially can make snap judgments about people and usually their intuition about someone is correct.

        2. Scorpio can go anywhere there is emotion, and Aquarius can go anywhere where there is thought.

        This part is rather straight forward. Scorpio can understand, discuss, delve into the deepest fascists of emotion. Aquarius understands thinking and logical pursuits and is an expert in such fields. Essentially one sign is all emotions and understanding the components of that category and the other is about thoughts and thinking and understanding that.

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        aquagirll 

        4 months ago

        I guess I'm just sad and honestly don't know if I'm crazy, should I just walk away..I've tried to many times and I always hope he misses me to

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        scorpioniceyes 

        4 months ago

        I need answers. I have read this over 50 times (not exaggerating)...

        I need more details of what this means (in great detail, please)

        1. It is never easy for these two to separate because they have ESP for each other.

        2. Scorpio can go anywhere there is emotion, and Aquarius can go anywhere where there is thought.

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        Serey_sew 

        4 months ago

        @Dawn

        Why don't you just ask her straight out and stop ignoring her ?

        Im sure she isn't plotting against you if you had asked her to bare with you a d your current situation.

        What if she's fallen inlove with you by now and you ignoring her or just not messaging her back is hurting her deeply ?

        Stop keeping your mind in a frozen state. She accepts you just the way you are. She loves you right back and maybe she's been thinkinh

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        aquagirll 

        4 months ago

        I'm an aqua girl and my story with the scorpio male is sadness. We met on social media about 7 years ago, he lives an hour away, not bad at all. We tried to meet several times but I was the scared one. We finally met last year after years of silence. We talk and then we will stop talking. Last year that changed and we finally met. I thought I loved him, but when he held me..I lost myself. I don't know if he felt the same or not because after we met we stopped talking or well he did. I tried to let him go several times but he always comes back..and I wait for him. I know I shouldn't but I love him. I guess I just don't think he loves me. I enjoy sex, who doesn't? We only had sex once or tried to but I xant anymore, not if his feelings are not mutual..I just can't let this connection go. I've never had a problem with cutting anyone off before

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        cindy 

        4 months ago

        This article gave me alot of hope for me and my scorpio man. Could tell he is very emotional but i like it like that. Dont even know why i love him but i do even though he doesnt know that yet.

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        Pink Pussycat 

        4 months ago

        Thank you so much for this article. I am an Aquarian woman who has been in love with an older Scorpio man for 10 months. He is married and travels a lot for work so I don't see him often, 1-2 times a month at the most. His wife lost all interest in sex many years ago so they have a sort of don't ask don't tell policy open marriage.

        This article really nails the attraction. Thank you, because so many other sources say we aren't a good combination. My Scorpio is my Daddy Dom and I am his girl. The intensity he brings cuts to my core and no one else makes me feel this way. I swear I feel him thinking about me when we are apart, and in the bedroom we both just let loose.

        While we don't see each other very often, each time we are together I am high on Love for weeks. In between visits he texts me and it's enough to keep me going. I love him so much and pray that he will be in my life forever in some capacity.

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        16.Simile 

        4 months ago

        Hello Alice,

        I am not Andrea the writer of this article but I do think I know what Andrea meant by this sentence. She is saying that the Aquarius is the one wanting to separate themselves from the Scorpio. So basically the first option you listed is the correct option. Hope that helps you.

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        Sc_ 

        4 months ago

        @Dtm thats the point

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        Alice 

        4 months ago

        Dear Andrea! Thank You very much for this article, I have read it several times. Sorry I am not a native English speaker, maybe that's why I do not understand properly this sentence: 'Also, the Aquarius will want all enough separation to prevent getting back with the Scorpio, because deep down they know they love them.' You mean who loves who? 1) Aqua knows he still loves the Scorpio, that's why he avoids her? 2) Or Aqua knows that the Scorpio loves him that's why he wants to prevent himself or 3) to prevent her from meeting again? :)

        Thanks a lot again!

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        Dtm 

        4 months ago

        I love how in this article Scorpios are basically painted as dark villains with Aquarius being the holy virgin angel sent to save mankind.

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        Bri 

        4 months ago

        So I have been messing with an Aquarius on & off since high school & I have a problem with the distant & the texting out of the blue like nothing happened I’m a Scorpio female I just need to know what to do ? Because to me he’s sending mix emotions & I really can’t deal with the games at this point so what do I do ? Cause I really wanna go my way but I can’t honestly

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        aquasiren 

        4 months ago

        my longest relationship was with a scorpio male and it was the best/worst thing that ever happened to me. he is the only one i've ever loved but he hurt me the most i've ever been hurt. now 2 years later he's telling me he has changed and wants a second chance. i feel like i've healed and i really don't feel in love or hurt anymore but i can't help but feel curious about what could've happened if we met when we were more mature. we're both 23. how do i now this time is right?

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        SoulmatesDream 

        4 months ago

        @apaqua

        Your answer is exactly why I'm trying to save some Scorpios.

        There is a huge difference between my answer and yours!!!

        I wrote these words like: "I love that you disagree with me, of course", I made a wish to Andrea of "Good luck!!!".

        You wrote these words like: "you save no one with your trust in google", and more "a lot of nonsense to find there", of course "I'm sure Andrea know more about that than you".

        The words talk for me...

        Love you, apaqua, you're amazing!!!

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        Annelise 

        4 months ago from copenhagen Denmark

        SoulmatesDream If you knew more about astrology you would not come up with such things coz, a Pisces could have some planet in aqua, and an aqua could have some planet in Pisces, you have to have the real horoscope to see if a pair is good for each other. I'm sure Andrea know more about that than you .....so you save no one with your trust in google Lol a lot of nonsense to find there :D

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        SoulmatesDream 

        4 months ago

        I was trying to save some Scorpios, nothing else. ;)

        They say: "almost 50 percent of doctors (physicians) experience symptoms of serious job burnout", well, I'm sure "some Scorpios are going to grow up to be doctors (physicians)" but I'm not sure they would love a burnout and 50% is really high.

        However I agree with you, there is a reason why "some Scorpio are going to grow up to be doctors": LOVE. If we love, we love hard, so sometimes we fail hard (and this is the reason of the other 50% without burnout: a wrong decision).

        I really know my zodiac sign (Scorpio) and I really understand why I share same characterstic of other Scorpio (season effect on pregnancy have direct correlation with zodiac signs) but still, I belive: easy time is better time. I love that you disagree with me, of course. Good luck!!!

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        Annelise 

        4 months ago from copenhagen Denmark

        We have to remember we are not only sun sign and that makes the diff. I have been married to a Scorpio, but we were very young then, I'm aqua with sun moon Merkur venus in Aquarius, but I have mars, Saturn in Scorpio (Mars is our sex and energy drive) then my ascendant are in Gemini and his moon in Gemini, and Mars in Virgo, that's why we were together ;) the thing with ESP are absolutely right at that time I didn't know about, why we could speak without word ;) we still see each other

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        Andrea Lawrence 

        4 months ago from Chicago

        The Scorpio and Aquarius combination is one that will be remembered forever in that department.

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        Andrea Lawrence 

        4 months ago from Chicago

        PISCES FOR THE WIN! Scorpio will be attracted to any of the 12 signs for different reasons, and each combination is like it's own recipe. Pisces might be the simple kind of recipe to follow that makes life easy, but not all Scorpios will find that resonates with them. Many do in fact find themselves lost for Aquarius. Scorpio and Pisces do make a lovely romance, indeed.

        Also, some Scorpios are going to grow up to be doctors. The world is full of professional choices for all.

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        Andrea Lawrence 

        4 months ago from Chicago

        I would not use a dating guide about zodiacs for parental / familial connections. For a more accurate reading, it would need to be tailored to the kind of relationship. You can definitely get somethings out of reading about the pairing in general, but it would be much more precise, accurate, and jawdropping reading it from a familial type connection. Which... I have not written about such, I'm afraid. The kind of expectations and demands are very different when it comes to family.

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        Dia 

        4 months ago

        I saw him

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        Pq 

        4 months ago

        This is to open true. My x was a Scorpio the Sex was wiiiiiild

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        SoulmatesDream 

        4 months ago

        Scorpio man-Pisces Woman is a soulmates' dream.

        There is nothing else to say, if you want to live a dream and you're a Scorpio, go and find your little fish and love her much because she will love more.

        A Scorpio can be a Scorpio with a Pisces, a Scorpio can't be a Scorpio with other signs. And "Scorpio has a harder time understanding Aquarius, which partly is what attracts them", we're not the doctors of the world, we deserve to not have hard time and you understand this only with aging.

        Life is only one, Scorpios goes with the best and it's Pisces, you deserve easy time because life is easy.. I can assure you: Pisces is 101% of what Scorpio want and Scorpio is 101% of what Pisces want.. Only Pisces!!

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        Yves 

        5 months ago

        Very interesting. I am a Scorpio who has never dated an Aquarius. That explains a lot. Lol. I will say that my son is an Aquarius and we get along famously. I assume this connection between the two signs extends to other types of relationships? At any rate, I really enjoyed reading this quite descriptive article.

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        LaylaRose 

        5 months ago

        Thanks for this, Andrea - it could have been written about me and my Aqua. He is 20 years my junior and we knew each other for about a year before he started opening up to me. The caring grew and then we fell hard, but he is a trauma survivor and has never had a relationship, and I was in a relationship. It has taken us three years of talking, doubting, fearing and needing to get to the point where we admit but don't admit to these huge, huge feelings. We have to go slowly because his greatest fear is abandonment. He has called me his twin flame and the person sent to heal him. I call him my best friend (he is) and I love him like I have never loved anyone. It is a mystical connection, we met doing martial arts and both meditate, and to this day I can feel his presence when he wants to get in touch. We laugh a lot and are very kind and patient with each other. Sometimes his PTSD is triggered and I give him a lot of space. His family life was so bad he cannot talk about it, but he knows he can tell me whatever he is comfortable with. We protect each other. Unfortunately there is some fierce jealousy on both sides, but we manage it well with rationality and the knowledge that nobody else could understand the other as we do! We like all the same activities but have some significant differences of opinion about some things, which we enjoy. There is enormous desire but at this stage we are still too shy and respectful to explore it (plus his trauma prohibits it for now). Yet our communication is so amazing and exciting that it seems like romance all on its own. Mostly we unburden ourselves and discuss our great sensitivities. He is making progress with his terror of getting close to someone (when I met him, he was so badly hurt he could barely speak to people and it took a year for him to trust me in the most basic sense). I do not rush or pressure him because he needs time, patience and care. My love for him is a very pure feeling. Whatever happens, we are helping each other go out into the world every day.

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        Pamela 

        5 months ago

        Every thing you have written is so accurate. You have described us perfectly.

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        Pamela 

        5 months ago

        I'm a Scorpio married to a make Aquarius. He is 68 and I'm 42. We have had a great marriage until he got sick with COPD. He was always very loving and caring. A very happy marriage. Except he always wanted to control me, and he still does. And now its like walking on eggshells around him. I still love him with all my heart. But I'm shutting down since he just pushes me away. Its been like that for the last 6 years. O don't want to leave him but I can't take it anymore. I just want to run and not be around him. But the other part of me still loves him to the point that I want to be there for him. He has became the complete opposite of who he was. We have even gone to marriage counseling and nothing jas changed. I'm just so confused and stressed I don't know what to do

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        Pineapple 

        5 months ago

        If your a scorpio girl talking to a aqurius guy your literally screwed. The end.

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        Confused Scorpio 

        5 months ago

        So, I know this Aquarius, that I’ve met a month ago. We text all night, he is very nice to me even if I’m possessive sometimes, and I’m kind of starting to have feelings for him. I’m scared because he’s kind of special to me, but I don’t know if I am to him. I like to think that I am because he’s kind to me, but when I was surfing the web I saw that it’s just one of their traits to be like that to everyone. And now, we don’t talk much... we have this group chat of six people, and he acts very different to his guy friends, but to me... he acts aloof and I’ve heard that he’s been talking to my close girl friend, and I’m kind of suspicious, but they have been friends longer than we have. Should I ask my girl friend about what exactly is happening? I want to talk to him like we use to do, all night... I feel like he’s been ignoring me, but when we text it looks like I’ve been the one ignoring him. I sometimes want to do a test on him, but I feel like he’ll just get upset or show no emotions to what I say to him. And, I’m scared to lose what we have, I don’t want him to leave from my life. What should I do?

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        Sophie darling 

        5 months ago

        It has been over 3 months with me (aquarius) and scorpio man although we met a few years ago. Our relationship has been encouraged as we spend more time together resulting in me liking him a lot.

        He is exceptionally kind and caring to me which makes me feel special because i like to be treated extremely special.

        -One of the things is his life being busy working in the city and managing agendas and etc, with it all he does not exclude me, he is not selfish. That is important to me, selflessness. This prompted my likes towards him.

        Engaging in a conversation with him,

        He recently said how he felt about me and being with me, and that he does not want to hurt my feelings and said he's here for me. Which i know he means that because he would not say anything meaningless, he does not play. Thats a scorpio trait for you.

        I was pleased to hear that because i like him very much to start of with and i could see him being reliable and caring.

        I often see him and each meet up being better than the last.

        Stroking my face with his hands he said im beautiful.

        He is just what i need to keep moving forward. Im going places.

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        Andrea Lawrence 

        5 months ago from Chicago

        Glad to be of help!

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        Scorpio 

        5 months ago

        Great article Andrea, I have found it useful and insightful with my Aquarius lady.

        It can be confusing and at times a little frustrating, feels like 3 steps forward then 5 steps back but like you say in the article communication is the key.

        Totally agree with sometimes it feels like I am making all of the moves but to remember Aquarius accepting the moves is a move in itself, spot on. Thanks again.

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        Andrea Lawrence 

        5 months ago from Chicago

        Scorpios do tend to fall for Aquarius types, even if it can be a mess.

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        Andrea Lawrence 

        5 months ago from Chicago

        Personality, gender, and zodiac can all overlap. Zodiac and personality are usually synonyms. Scorpio has a harder time understanding Aquarius, which partly is what attracts them. You may have more ease at understanding him. If he says he understands better, then he had some kind of breakthrough... which is likely a good thing.

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        Brianna 

        5 months ago

        I am usually attracted to men with Aquarius traits or Sagittarius. There's just something pure about Aquas that I'm just drawn to. (Scorpio sun & venus)

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        5 months ago

        Scorpio gives Aquarius the lover factor we want .

        But the price we Aquarius pay is unconditional love .

        Scorpio has so many bad traits that they take us down with them .

        I think Aquarius will power what keeps it together .

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        InLoveScorpo!.. 

        5 months ago

        I’m A Scorpio InLove With A Aquarius Male

        We Met In the Craziest Way And Fell InLove Instantly

        We Seen Each Other Everyday And I ended up pregnant

        He Was Happy His First Child But Still Wasn’t Ready To Commit I Didn’t Care I Stayed And Waited I Ended Up Loosing The Baby He Shut Me Out And told me he needed time he ignored me for days u gave him space Untill one day I decided to go out and there he was with another woman kissing her showing affection something he’s never done with me it hurt he kept looking at me while he held her he finally came and said hi to me while he kissed my forehead that hurt me even more I tried not to cry in public I held it till I came home and cried my heart out he text me that night just to say he didn’t mean to hurt me that was never his intentioned I made up my mind I was going to move on we didn’t talk for weeks till he reached out to me. I know he loves me I’m madly InLove with him I’ve done things beyond my way for him I’m confused he tells his friends about me but shows me different he did the same thing last weekend with a different female we argued and I told myself I’m really done he once again reached out again and apologized we talk everyday again he’s showing affection again but yet I’m still confused he text me yesterday saying he needs space and I finally got fed up and said this is it as I got ready to actually shutdown he called me and This were his exact words “Baby Do You Want To Let Me Go Yes or No?..I Cried And Told Him No But I’m Tired Of This!!..He Came Over We Had Sex And I’m Confused And Still Madly InLove With Him But I’m Fed Up!!..Why Is He Doing This To Me???

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        Karmen035 

        5 months ago

        I want to start by saying Thank you. I felt as if you were talking directly at my husband and I. I seriously felt like you did a study on us. I have been married to my husband for over a decade. We are both over 40. We rarely see eye to eye but what keeps us motivated is the understanding I give him and the security he gives me among other things. He keeps me intrigued, which is a big key due to the fact that I can get easily bored. Both mentally and physically bored can lead us to dangerous grounds. We are two of a kind in our intimacy. We are very aware of each others needs and wants. Overall he keeps me on my toes.

        Something thou, I am the one that loves to talk and he is the quiet one. Which I think is more of a gender issue than a zodiac thing. He recently told me that he "matured" which is a lot coming from him. He wasn't to aware of my feelings, until recently. Do I keep reminding him? How do Scorpions do with realizations? I know personality plays a major part, but... Do I separate personality with zodiac? Is it the same?

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        Karmen035 

        5 months ago

        @reinhart, You need to think back at what happened that night that might of turned her off. In my experience of an aquarius woman. Anything can disappoint us.

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        Dawn 

        5 months ago

        How do I get my Scorpio woman back after she waited for so long for my Aquarius ass to get it together? She finally grew tired and moved on. I feel as if she still loves me but is she coming back? I hurt her and she knows for a fact that I've changed, she's told me.. when a Scorpio seems as if they are done, really done? Or are they seeking revenge?

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        Reinhart 

        5 months ago

        I'm scorpio man and i attract to aquarius woman. My personality is always remain silent and i'm a shy type.., the aquarius woman i like is... She is very cheerful & have a lot of friends.

        The first time we meet in the office she is very talk active to me, calling my name and care to me.

        In her birthday, i come to her house and send a birthday gift. and now after 3 month she seems try to keep away from me... Is she doesn't like me or she have a feeling to me and shy or something?

        When i meet her now, she is not talk to me anymore, everytime we met she smile to.

        Can someone explain it?

        This thing happen since i send her birthday gift.

        Sorry for my bad english

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        Scorpiogirllll 

        5 months ago

        I am a Scorpio girl in love with an Aquarius.he is extremely dicey. We are so compatible I love him and I know he loves me however he was never ready to commit ..he has done so many things for me..more than anyone will even think about but he still wants his freedom ..I don’t understand what should I do ..I really love him and I know he loves me more but everytime we fight he wants to run away because he says that he feels very stressed when I fight with him.i don’t know what should I do

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        Blackaqua 

        6 months ago

        How do I get my scorpio guy back??

        I got angry with him and instead of communicating and talking it out I cut him off thinking he would change and come back. (The aqua in me has a tendency to do that when I feel disrespected.) Haven't talk or seen him in 3 months. We live and work in the same area. I'm stubborn and so is he! We def had a deep connection. Something that shouldn't have been thrown away. I'll take the blame. Is it too late? What should I do?

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        Shannon SCORPIO@69 

        6 months ago

        Hello to all zodiac signs, I MUST SAY HAVING A RELATIONSHIP WITH A AQUARIUS, can be a little difficult, but dont go in something that not true an effective, time dont wait on, no one, Iove is a factor an a must for a SCORPIO, we dont like to hurt or get hurt ,we rather leave in defence , but at times an AQUARIUS dont relize they are going to be loved no matter what the situation is , they dont like to be wrong an cant wait to be right ,but always realize things when we apart , to late for comfort, time has plays apart, SCORPIO WOMAN LIKE ME , HAS TO BE EFFECTIVE, if I dont love , I dont like. There's not need to be ashame of the relationship, we thought we shared, get over it quickly or there never was a relationship in the first place, THE END IS THE END

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        Astro by masters 

        6 months ago

        Thank you so much for this great informative article! I love this blog. More information: Astroby masters

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        Andrea Lawrence 

        6 months ago from Chicago

        How people are going to relate to their parents isn't equivalent to how it works in romantic relationships. People often don't want the same energy as their parent.

        Aquarius has incredible focus, and if they want to hold a grudge, they could literally hold it forever. If they don't want to hold it, they can let it go. Aquarius is stubborn, like Scorpio. You describe Aquarius too shallow. They have a tenacity for moving forward in life, while also reflecting and being in tune with their inner child. They don't just move on.

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        Andrea Lawrence 

        6 months ago from Chicago

        I wish you all the luck of the stars. Thank you for the compliment of this being the best on the Internet. I couldn't stand that it didn't exist, and so had to write it.

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        Andrea Lawrence 

        6 months ago from Chicago

        Always like hearing it is accurate.

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        Jess 

        6 months ago

        Andrea, i replied to your email last summer asking if you think it's a good idea for these two to get married and have to deal with the intensity of the connection full time and also whether you married yours??? can scorpios really get beyond themselves and wanting to have a baby to focus on thinking about humanity and the future more?

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        Bunnxy 

        6 months ago

        How accurate and it blows my mind.

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        JustScorpio 

        6 months ago

        Laurence D. Fink, a scorpio, or the man who manage more money in the world. So all the world loves to trust the dishonest approach of a scorpio. I'd love to have a world full of Scorpios....

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        Omgirl 

        7 months ago

        As a 57 year old who has experienced many scorps in my life including my father, I can say that this pair takes a mammoth effort to get along. I admired from my father his ability to have amazing self control in adversity and he had an emotional depth and understanding. On the flip side he was sneaky on his sting. He despised my honest approach to situations. I loved him in the end but didn't have much in common. But what we did have in common, we were power houses. I felt even tho he outwardly didnt agree with my approach to things he inwardly had respect for my honest style. Business sense, he was wiser and smarter than me.

        I have always avoided scorpio as friend and lover. If someone said they were a scorp, that would just about end any further relationship, sorry to say. I can't deal with their head games, dishonest approach and having to figure out their myrid emotions. I work w a scorp woman, and we are on opposite ends. She runs hot cold (ick). As an Aquarius, we like to move and not get stuck in emotional garbage. We really don't hold grudges, we just want to experience the moment and move on. Scorp is way too intense and fixed for me. I also think Aquarius has a more positive, forgiving attitude. I am very private and admire that trait in scorp too, probably a key trait that initially brings them together.

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        Noel 

        7 months ago

        Im an Aquarius and I about 9 months ago got stung by a scorpio boy who i gave everything to for a yeah but still left me, i tried to worl things out recently and he just told me i was to much so yeah but this article was very insightful ane enjoyable to read very thankful for it

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        Dave 

        7 months ago

        As a Scorpio I have always avoided Aquarians as we didn't ostensibly read as a match. One found me and piqued my interest...and now we are a couple....

        What I have just read above totally translates.... you have written about us. Thank you.

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        Damon 

        7 months ago

        @OneScorpio

        Alright.

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        OneScorpio 

        7 months ago

        @Damon

        I found one day a wonderful picture on google: how evil is your signs?

        Scorpio: actually not evil but everyone thinks they are,

        Aquarius: satan!!

        Just think how much she was loving you after breaking the relationship for a "small" (small) argument. For me, as Scorpio, never again with an Aquarius, I don't regret that decision of not having contacts anymore with Aquarius because that means to be a "phoenix". Spreading the good in the world, not the evil!!!

        Do you like satan (you can google it and you find the picture...)? Pisces, Cancer and Virgo are the powerful match for Scorpios, 100% real life experiences..

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        Damon 

        7 months ago

        Yeah I have to somewhat agree with you, @OneScorpio. However we are not young nor was she naive but she was a fairy tale. She was a fairy tale I wouldn't mind re-reading even though I know it does have a happy ending. And her love was without conditions until I introduce them (i.e picking between me or her friends.) Which was just a small part of an argument that just got out of hand. Wish I'd known beforehand how fixated two fixed signs can be in their own individual opinions. Gosh, we're stubborn. Maybe this relationship was just an aid in getting me to become "the phoenix" or whatever us Scorpios are supposed to develop into.

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        Ami Washington 

        7 months ago

        First thing, an incredible compatibility article of these 2 signs. Best on the World Wide Web. Thank you for sharing.

        Secondly, but not last...Inlove with a Scorpion man. Wish me luck. I'm going to need it.

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        Jamiyla Ferguson 

        7 months ago

        I have to agree with this post and looking at Andrea Lawrence responses to those leaving comments is just spot on. Im an Aquarius woman with Taurus moon and I was dating a Sagittarius man with a Scorpio moon. I'm lost for words if i'm honest. But its very true in regards to a scorpio not speaking and leaving me incredibly anxious to a point you feel to drift away because of uncertainty. I wish i came across this article a lot earlier and others.

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        OneScorpio 

        7 months ago

        @Damon "Considering all the friends she had she was very lonely". All the young Aquarius behave in that way, they don't know the difference between a strong relationship and a weak relationship, they have so so so many friends but they often miss the real connection with them so they feel lonely.

        We, Scorpio have only real connections, I can trust the people around me bindly and I don't give my support for free. My friend and my family know how hard was to get my support (extremely hard) but every day I see in their eyes that they're proud of having me.

        Most Aquarius behave in that way in the young years, they don't know what they want and often they can't take the opportunities life gives or keep people really important for them. Not only, an old Scorpio doesn't believe to the fairytale of an Aquarius because it's not a love without conditions. They make you think it's a love without conditions but then, you have conditions and the biggest condition is Aquarius won't never have commitment in the relationship (and it's not her fault, it's how she's made, totally the opposite of Scorpios who can give their life for his woman because we have devotion to people, to work, to the world). Give you time, a lot of time to think about what's going wrong but I'm sure nothing went wrong, except you're a Scorpio, she's Aquarius. You want to build a strong world around you with your love, some Scorpio build companies with their loves, Aquarius is totally the opposite. Aquarius hate commitment, we love commitment. And what you miss is not her but the thoughts she make you believe in. It was a wonderful dream, it's time to wake up, brother..

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        Damon 

        7 months ago

        This article is pretty spot on. I'm a Scorpio guy who had the wonderful chance of courting and dating an Aquarius woman. After much chasing and courting I finally caught her; if only for a moment. Even though her airiness eventually sent her away from me. For a brief moment I, a Scorpio had the love of my life. I would say the most surprising thing about Aquarius women is their massive capacity for love without conditions. They are so friendly and distant until one day they just aren't and without really saying it directly they just choose you. When my Aquarius finally stopped running from the idea of "us" and gave up just a little of her independence she showed me the sweetest love I have ever known. The water barriers love flows just like water. Her love was fluid and filled up any flaws I had in myself. The water barrier is known as the servant of the Gods of Olympus. True to nature an Aquarius woman's love makes any man she chooses to love feel like they too are a God. Being with an Aquarius woman was unlike any other sign I've dated. It was like dating the bad ass, go getter, mysteriously charming, version of a Pieces. My Aquarius woman revealed to me parts of her she never showed the world. She was like a magician or entertainer. She could socialize with anyone and make a friend in a second. But behind the act was a very thoughtful and loving woman. I think my Aquarius choose me because I grounded her. I was attentive to her needs. I was not like the people she socialized with and entertained. Those people took from her always pulling her into their interpersonal drama. They were always calling her asking for advice needing her as their second opinion on their latest love drama. My poor Aqua was always willing to help them. Rarely did she remember to take time for herself. It's interesting to see the behind the scenes of such a popular person as her. Considering all the friends she had she was very lonely. Often feeling that no one understood her. I made the mistake that broke us apart when I asked her choose between me or her friends. I wanted her to be more private like me. I didn't like her going out so much. It became a big argument and neither of us would back down until finally, like she had never been there at all she left. Totally ghosted me! If her friends didn't still post weekend getaway photos of them together on FaceBook I would think she had never existed in the first place. I miss my Aqua girl terribly but I am too proud or dumb :D to reach out to her again.

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        Lex E. 

        7 months ago

        This pairing has the HOTTEST sex I've ever experienced. I am an Aquarius with a Scorpio moon. My partner is a Scorpio with an Aries moon. We balance each other out perfectly but when there is lots of friction between us it can bubble over into heavy makeup sex.(Not that I'm complaining.) We don't talk much which often confuses other couples however my partner and I realized we don't talk much because we communicate so much with just one look. My Scorpio often says to me that people normally feel intimidated by a Scorpio's gaze but my partner thinks an Aquarius has an even more intense gaze. My partner thinks Aquarius eyes are so unreadable but also pure and mysterious. Often he'll just stare deep into my eyes. Sometimes he does it just because other times I can feel him searching for something in my eyes. My Scorpio thinks I can literally read his mind whereas I feel like he can read my emotions. We just get each other in ways that are unexplainable. Just saying to anybody who feels these signs are incompatible there are over 300 comments on this article which mind you was written over a year ago. If you're unsure of this pairing take a chance it can be completely worth it.

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