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Why Scorpio and Aquarius are Attracted to Each Other

Updated on July 6, 2016

Scorpio and Aquarius - A Powerful Match

If you are a Scorpio or Aquarius, or even a rookie in astrology, you've probably heard some of the rumors about this water sign meets wind sign pairing. A lot of astrologers will go on autopilot and tell you the best compatibility is when you have the same elemental sign, plus you should check out your charts. This is somewhat basic when it comes to astrology. Every combination has its unique offerings for a relationship, some less feasible (more challenging) than others. Scorpio and Aquarius are a powerful match, albeit if the two are not mature enough in who they are, it won't work so beautifully.

Aquarius is exactly what Scorpio wants and has always wanted. Aquarius will always be mysterious to Scorpio, which puts it in a perpetual spiral of being on the hunt. Scorpio is a strongly masculine sign, and loves to go after something it doesn't fully understand, and Aquarius is complicated enough to draw a Scorpio. The water sign unfortunately gets bored easily. Sometimes a pleasant match is too surface level for Scorpio -- this sign desires a great deal of complexity, paradoxes, and affection. Scorpio is like the pipe organ of emotions and thought. Scorpios are extremely powerful signs, but often misunderstood... and so they'll trail to the side and go on their own independent journeys. People don't always know what exactly a Scorpio is, so it'll fade from view without ever being fully realized.

But an Aquarius -- though it doesn't fully come right out admitting it -- fully and easily understands the Scorpio better than any zodiac. A mature Aquarius will know a Scorpio immediately just by the way a Scorpio uses its eyes to cut through titanium. No other sign has this intense of a stare. Scorpio is drawn to people who have 1.) a banging body and 2.) a charming personality. These are gifts the Aquarius often has and employs, with a fair amount of either introversion or introspection (perhaps both). Scorpio can't unravel an Aquarius like it can most signs. It sees that the Aquarius has more pure motives, a different range for ethics, and a massive capacity for love. Scorpio enjoys Aquarius, but it brings up a lot of insecurities for Scorpio. Can the Scorpio possibly win the heart of the person who wants to take care of everybody's hearts? How can the Scorpio, which can be the lowest of creatures -- win such a big heart?

What makes Scorpio and Aquarius work?

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Both are the Phoenix and Made of Water

Scorpio feels awkward having to face its insecurities in the light of someone who is so lovely. Aquarius often shirks getting into relationships, sometimes delving into very independent phases and being void of sex. Aquarius gets called out for being both a virgin and having bisexuality, pansexuality, and straight edge sexuality. No one really knows how to label an Aquarius, especially when they are so private. They have a sexuality that is massively deep and insightful, and there are Aquarian types who really are protective and intuitive about their sexual life -- while some Aquarians are extraordinarily exploitative. Aquarius doesn't feel a lot of chemistry with many signs on a sexual level. It may feel chemistry, an amazing exchange of ideas or even compatibility, but having attraction... real, invasive thoughts that distract them -- is difficult to achieve.

The Scorpio is one of the few signs that can get inside an Aquarius' mind. They feel a certain chemistry with this sign that is absent in the other 11. Scorpio also finds something in Aquarius that others do not have. These two signs are like magnets and immediately connect well with each other, they want each other, and it's something about how they mix as fixed signs and their emotional palettes. I think the biggest hurdle for these two is that if they meet too soon, they won't have enough knowledge to understand each other. There is a certain amount of life fluency they need in order to bridge the gaps they'll have.

Scorpio is known for having a crazy amount of range to their emotions -- they're designated as having three different morphological cycles from the snake, the scorpion, to the phoenix. The other signs arguably have one totem. It's an automatically complicated sign, that other signs just don't have enough power in them to study. It's a sign that can easily go under the radar if you're not paying attention, which is silly because a Scorpio can change their mask, they are malleable, they can learn, and most importantly they can learn you.

They have busy minds, often easily getting distracted with too much noise, but they love deeply and loyally once they've found their match. They are deeply searching for the right person. They cut their loses because they believe so heavily in a soulmate. Regardless of whether they flat out say it or not, they are looking for a supernatural connection -- even if they can be grounded, at least in comparison to the Aquarius.

Aquarius can come off aloof to them, but Aquarius is like Jean Gray from the X-Men. She seems to be only present in thought, highly intuitive, quiet, and amazingly charming -- but she is the one who can unleash the Phoenix. She has a powerful amount of emotions locked up inside her heart, and she doesn't let it out easily, because it is like dynamite. Aquarians are powerfully emotional, that's why they are tied to the image of being water bearers. Yes, they can skate above the water all day long with beautiful thoughts, but they are also the water itself. They are spring wells of emotion, with astute emotional control. If there were an Olympics for emotional control, Aquarians would get all the gold medals. They have a relationship with emotion and thought that is difficult for many to read, and therefore Aquarians too are also seen as misfits, odd, and different Their high capacity for both thought and emotion makes them an odd duck that can make them difficult to understand, but they're usually so sweet that people accept them, unlike Scorpio who has a tendency to be brooding, grumpy, and dark. If you're a Harry Potter fan, think of the Slytherins. They get a bad reputation in the books, but in actuality they are great and must take responsibility for that greatness.

Scorpio and Aquarius get along because they are both odd, highly creative, and secretly emotional. They need to take things slow. Taking things slow is seriously the key to making this pair work. It's like a red velvet cake. Make sure to preheat the oven, follow all the steps, and make sure you have all the ingredients before you pop the pan into the oven. Otherwise, you'll end up with a gooey, inedible mess.

They can rush things by taking it physical, but they need to create a great deal of space, an entire grid if you will, to build trust and communication. This will take awhile, and for many they'll give up because this takes patience. But this pairing first needs to understand how to talk, which is going to take some time because they are so different and have to learn from each other. It's like a newborn learning how to talk -- think of it that way for this pair.

Aquarius can unravel itself slowly to Scorpio, which is what it needs. Aquarius needs private dates, away from the hustle and bustle because all the stimulus can distract it from its date... and Scorpio needs private dates because it needs a person all to itself. Scorpio needs that intimacy. Intimacy is what it really desires -- meaning your personal secrets, the story of you, and the story of where you are headed. You can't force the conversation with these two. They'll need to take their time. This may take two months of seeing each other or two years before really solidly deciding that you are in fact in a relationship.

Focus on Communication

Trust me when I say this, but Scorpio and Aquarius don't need to worry about who they are physically. Scorpio by its very nature is sexual. It's a sensual sign, with a vivid imagination. This sign likes moving to this direction because sex is a strong glue for discovering another person. Aquarius with its imagination easily makes strides in sex, which it knows and that is why for many they put off. They already in a sense understand it, and so it makes more sense for them to study other things. The two most single signs of the zodiac are Virgo and Aquarius. Scorpio on the other hand -- can be the loner, but it is greatly the mystique, the wellspring, and the initiator of relationships. Aquarius builds its social structure like a never ending ocean with friends across all genders, cultures, and species. Aquarius is a humanitarian and a social network godess; Scorpio is by instinct interpersonal. Scorpio is a sign that is built for making a family. It's one of the few signs to really charm and awaken an Aquarius. A Scorpio has strong staying power; it is loyal to the core, unless you show infidelity. An Aquarius needs someone who wants to stay, but struggles to find someone like that because they find more people just want to date several people, not just at once, but always. An Aquarius needs to feel special, it needs to feel wanted, it needs to ultimately feel like someone is consistent and will stay.

Now an immature Scorpio, will still have an exploratory phase before settling down. Scorpio is somewhat of an ass before giving away the quality it knows it must to have a relationship -- and that's its loyalty. The more a Scorpio shows how loyal it is, the more it will get to the Aquarius and its amazing emotional current. An Aquarius is powerfully objective, mysterious, and very Luna Lovegood -- which intrigues the Scorpio. A Scorpio likes both the calm Luna Lovegood side and the X-Men Phoenix side of an Aquarius. While the Aquarius loves the emotional-romantic side and dutiful side of the Scorpio.

It is never easy for these two to separate because they have ESP for each other. They know the connection when they come across it, and can latch onto each other with great intensity. To separate, especially for the Aquarius, means they'll have to go complete different ways in order to get over the other person. Also, the Aquarius will want all enough separation to prevent getting back with the Scorpio, because deep down they know they love them.

Combo is One of the Most Powerful

On some alchemical level, all relationship combinations are like a spell. You take one fire element and add it with the energy of an earth element and you have an end result. With a Scorpio and Aquarius equation you have a healing configuration. All water signs have some amount of healing and creativity to them. Aquarius is a brilliant thinker, with excessive creativity and intuition. When these two meet, they make for a cleansing, healing panacea -- or a tempest. All combinations have their healing and destructive powers -- this one either way is strong. There are 78 monogamous combinations. Polygamous combinations tend to be weaker because the power is not balanced.

A Scorpio can fixate on an Aquarius and help it to be more powerful. Scorpio is a magician, and often feels that the challenges around him or her are too dry. That many of the things around her are dull to a great extent, until an Aquarius steps into the world because an Aquarius is a visionary. The Scorpio helps makes the vision a reality, while Aquarius takes a dormant volcano (the Scorpio) and makes it a reality. These two can see their full potential in this relationship. They need to understand that they don't communicate like normal couples, nor should they. They're not like normal individuals either.

Scorpio needs an Aquarius which will gladly accept its affections. Aquarius needs a Scorpio to chase it... because Aquarius isn't a huge fan of chasing. It's an incredible and beautiful journey if done well, an amazing pairing. But for many, they jump into this stack of cards too early and too quick making for a great deal of frustration. Neither of these signs do well with zodiacs that are too simple for them nor are too controlling. They have to line up with each other naturally and with desire, else the structure will fall before it really had the chance to grow.

Why You Should Go For It

Embrace the calm of an Aquarius. The ease it has with life will match well with a Scorpio and its ever changing ways. The Scorpio is the most solid of the water signs, like ice. But it can drift into its liquid and gaseous state simply because it is the master of water, but a Pisces... will always be the light waters, and Cancer will always be the deep, troubled waters.

Scorpio can go anywhere there is emotion, and Aquarius can go anywhere where there is thought. The two together feel more complete, and feel more like they can share their personal stories. They're not exact mirrors, or even in the same states -- but they can explore each other and understand each other quite well. Don't force this kind of relationship -- if it isn't meant to be, then it is not meant to be. But when intellect and emotion try to replicate each other and understand each other, beautiful and crazy things can happen.

Notes for Scorpios

Aquarius doesn't always talk. This can be baffling since it is a wind sign. Sometimes the Aquarius just wants things to be quiet and will leave a lot of space and privacy for you to decipher. If an Aquarius spends consistent time with you, this is a major plus. You may find with an Aquarius that you are making all the moves, but remember them accepting your moves is also a move.

They'll slowly turn from gently holding your hand and letting you touch their hair to kissing you as they please, and for long bouts of time. This is a creature that sees far ahead into the future and loves to gather information effectively before making a decision. Don't let your insecurities drive them away, and make your insecurities clear and they'll do what they can to comfort you, because that's their instinct. They want things to work and they want things to be smooth, and they don't want to hurt you. But you are a Scorpio, and you have the power more so to hurt them, so be careful. Scorpios know how to sting, and stinging an Aquarius... will hurt them extensively. They really want to trust you. If you sting an Aquarius, they'll block you out of your life, which is exactly what you don't want. They won't block you as long as you don't sting them.

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      Scorp Lady 5 days ago

      been seeing an aqua guy for about two months now, and the only thing that really bothers me is that he's totally still open to seeing other people until he decides to commit. He said I'm free to do so if I want. Neither of us have, but his dating profile is still up and it's really bothering me. We've never done more than kiss, because we are both agreed we are going to take this slowly. We have a great connection and we create amazing artwork together- he told me I was born to inspire others. Not sure how to bring up the whole online dating thing though without coming off as jealous and controlling. It's not really jealousy so much as my pride- he tells everyone who will listen how amazing I am. I even overheard him on the phone when he didn't realize I was there, literally gushing about me to one of his guy friends- and this is a really manly kind of man, so hearing him talk like that was incredibly sweet. But I just want to scream "if I'm so amazing, why are you still looking???".

      I'm good with the pace we are at, and surprisingly pleased that we've not been intimate. The passion and attraction are definitely there- we do have to stop ourselves- but I'm just enjoying getting to know this amazing man so much I can wait. I think I may have to turn in my Scorpio card for saying that.

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      isa 7 days ago

      aquarius is an air sign

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      Carrot Cake 7 days ago

      Yes! Please write more about Aquarius male and Scorpio female I love your insights on this topic.

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      Nyeh 8 days ago

      i'm a scorpio who dated an aquarius, and we were pretty much the opposite of this. he had trust issues due to everyone before me cheating on him and often felt as if i wasn't loyal or wouldn't stay, which i guess he wasn't wrong because i never got the connection from him that i needed, so i would walk out during fights always trying to leave. i've never fought with someone so much or come across someone so shallow. it took outside forces to finally pull us apart though. too young i guess

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      Scorpio's Perspective 10 days ago

      @Almost30Years! Interesting from a Scorpio's perspective... We have a really strong personality and we don't want to be the dominant one but often we are (not always you have a good relationship in few days). The goal I think for Scorpio is to know his flaws and to speak with his girlfriend (of any zodiac sign). When I feel a fight is coming, I learnt to make a step back and to accept to be wrong also when I think I'm right. In few words, a bad Scorpio sting, a good Scorpio is ready to be stung (even when he knows he is right) because he wants to heal and spread peace and love. It's also challeging being a Scorpio: https://exemplore.com/astrology/Totems-of-A-Scorpi... :) :)

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      Almost 30 Years! 10 days ago

      Very True Article. I am an Aquarius and my husband is a Scorpio. This marriage has not been easy. I am surprised we made it past the first 2 years. Those were the hardest. Here is what I would like to add from a Woman's standpoint and an Aquarius. You will not EVER find anyone more loyal then the Scorpio man. When he loves you and gives you his heart he will do anything for you. He is a hardworker and will do whatever he needs to do to provide for his family. He is a great father. He puts family first and though he works long and hard he does this for his family. He wants to make your wishes come true. As a very strong woman and I easily get along with people this has been the hardest person to get along with. Partly because when we were first married I was not mature enough to handle the Scorpio. Over the years I have learned what makes him tick. Although, just when I seem to have it all figured out something new arises. I do not question his love or devotion to family. He is a bit of a hothead and I have come to realize it is his own frustration with poor communication skills. This comes easy for me.Because he is so private in the early years, I mistakenly thought this was not to be trusted. I am open with feelings and expressing what I think. He is guarded and secretive and therefore I did not trust him. I have learned this was a lesson for me. Over the years I have thought of all the people I could have married I chose the most difficult personality to get along with. Yes, this is the truth. However, when we let go of EGO and WANT to get along it is so much easier. The Scorpio has a HUGE ego and even when they are wrong they will argue their point even when you could prove them wrong again and again. It is in these times you just realize you do not want this fight and you let them have their opinion. This was a hard lesson for me because I am a defender of truth. The biggest lesson here is Perspective. We look through the lens of life and see completely different things. You can embrace this and know it is never boring. Very few times will you see eye to eye. However, on the major issues we are on the same page. I have also learned how to be more self reliant living with this personality. He is always planning for the worst and I am always hoping for the Best. He has never let me down with kids, family and finances. The hardest part for me has been to not get swallowed up emotionally as a person. If you know who you are and you are not easily affected by other peoples emotions then you will be ok in this relationship. I have learned to not let his strong opinion and personality control my reality. If you are timid and shy he will run all over you. But, then again maybe this would make for a more balanced relationship because the scorpio could be the dominant one. Like I said, Challenging!

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      Darkenbeauty 12 days ago

      LmAo I'm a scorpio woman and I have an Aquarius fiance. Nothing is easy. And if you match well why not ask him to stay? I did.

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      Heyitsme 12 days ago

      Would this apply to an Aquarian or Scorpio moon sign?

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      Aquarius Lady 2 weeks ago

      Im an Aquarius woman , and im "conversating" with an Scorpio man , 1st things 1st im going to say this !!! , i was willling to give EVERY sign a chance except scorpio , only because when they sting , THEY REALLY STING ! so ive been avoiding them at all costs , this is the 1st and ONLY article that promotes these 2 being together which makes me thinks a scorpio made it lol but its this Scorpio guy whom ive been talking to , and our conversation period has been off and on for a few years only because iam terrified of coming back to that level with a scorpio , they start off charming , they are everything a woman wants , but once they get u its a whole diff ball game , but this scorpio man is different, when i say we have been talking for YEARS Thats all its ever been , he's put more effort in more than any man i know with no sex involved , he does everything i ask him if i say "i wish i had this or wish i could do this " he would make it happen , and i still thinks he's full of it lol and sometimes i think he tries so hard with me because scorpios are ppl with big egos , and they need to have something if they want it , they need to get it just to say they got it , but im not gonna lie , he's everything a woman should want for herself and he's VERY patient with me , other guys never waited years for me to decide to give them a relationship, let alone a kiss lbvvs , but he's a SCORPIO & i tell him thats the reason i wont get anywhere with u i dont trust u guys with my heart , and every time i tell him that he goes out his way to put effort and give me everything i want , I really like him but i want to protect my heart , but i also dont want to miss out on something i deserve , i ended up giving in tonight and opening up to him and giving him a chance , i feel good about it kind of lol im jsf scared lol the last Scorpio really broke me so my trust issues are at an all time high ,

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      Kevin 2 weeks ago

      I'm a Scorpio and my gf is acqurius....I love her so much and don't want to lose her but NY insecurity makes me sting her....she loves me very much and told me that if I keep stinging her she will leave..

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      Madelyn Terreri 2 weeks ago

      I am an Aquarius with saturn in scorpio. He was a former boyfriend the Scorpio man he passed away many years ago. I married a Virgo-Piscean man and we are soul mates but it can be very true of the Scorpio-Aquarius relationships, though Scorpios are difficult but honest and loyal. So is Virgo but not difficult, Virgo is so easygoing meaning especially my virgo-pisces man!

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      amazed 2 weeks ago

      Aquarian female here feeling almost an overpowering and immensly intense connection/attraction with a scorpio male. I know he is very intrested in me, but he is married. Doing my best to resist, that is a line I do not cross. As long as he is married, we can only be friends. But wow, the intensity of our connection is making me literally dizzy.

      I read many comments about how scorpio men are loyal which surprises and confuses me because I know if I only allowed it, we would end up in bed.

      If only he wasn't married....

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      NAP 2 weeks ago

      @ Aqua_girl

      As far as I know if a Scorpio falls in love ,nothing can change them or stop them from loving you.And you can feel it that they are genuinely in love with you from the way they behave.He will be veryyyyyy caring,emotional and much more.If you like him more than others then sit and discuss with him.From whatever you said abt him...his excuses are lame.All I can say is when a Scorpio is truly in love with you,you will FEEL it.Try to spend more time with him,you will feel it if hes in love with you.After that you can decide what to do

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      aqua_girl 2 weeks ago

      @NAP

      is there anything i can do for him to like me? or i should just move on? i kinda like him a bit more than the other guy.. idk what it is, but he has charms that i like besides his smile. if i move on, then i'll completely treat him just like a friend and nothing more.

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      vinothkumar 2 weeks ago

      m a Scorpio male (22).

      I am chatting with an Aquarius girl. she is my college mate and she is from EEE department, myself EIE. we have seen each other in college tyms but we didn't had a chance to speak. we have completed our degree in March 2016. till Aug 28th of this we are strangers. I her profile in FB, gave a friend request, we started chatting, by the next day I asked for her whatsapp number, I din't get reply for a sec. then, I asked her wheather she is thinking about giving her whatsapp number. she replied yes. I said you can trust me.. suddenly, she sent her number.now we are for about a month. while talking to her I feel healing myself.. I have a worst past.

      she is special, I found something in her. my heart turning lite

      so I am, Happy Txt the whole day..

      in 1 month there be 1 lakh and more conversations...

      she questioned my past..

      I truly said her all the things even my bad things, at first she got angry but she slowly like me... now we are close..

      I wanna be with her life long..

      I wanna to know what she likes from me

      I wanna to make our relationship very strong..

      I wanna make her happy..

      I wanna support her..

      I wanna make he proud..

      I wanna do comfort her at bad times..

      etc..

      why she likes me and what should I do to make her happy life long...

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      NAP 2 weeks ago

      @ Aqua girl...im aquarius female and my bf is scorpio male.In my case I talk more abt sex than he does and he enjoys every bit of it.Yes, hes veryyyyyy romantic and we have very good chemistry in every single thing.My Scorpio is very honest and tells me every single thing in details.And it is one of Scorpion characteristic, that they are loyal to the core.But after reading your story, sorry to say but i feel you are only an option to him.If he has nothing else to do he comes to you.

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      aqua_girl 2 weeks ago

      i've post this question somewhere but i wanna see different opinions and perspectives from other people.

      hi, i'm aqua girl, student 23 yr old. i met this scorpio guy age 32 online. he's working, he is charming but he talk only about sex. i have told him early tht i'm looking more than just sex, but he said he prefers to go with the flow. so, i tried and most of our convrsation will go down to sex. nways, before our first meeting, i asked him to confirm our meeting but he didn't replied. turned out a week later, he texted me that he got family problem, and i said..oohh..okay..and we chat like usual. both of us want sex but somehow, i started to doubt him and realize i dont really just want sex. but still i'm trying to go with flow with him.

      our conversation was okay and we decided to meet up after i finished my final examination. it was monday and he said cannot because he has work. and i just okay with it although a bit disappointing. then i try to contact him asking whether he only wants me for sexting ? but he did not even read my message for 2 weeks. few days later, he message me telling his phone broke, and his chat is jammed. so yeah..

      is he playing. i know i;m not his priority. but what actually is he doing? does he has no respect for me as a human being?

      while he's missing in action, i found another guy online and this guy is just a year older(gemini). we do talk about sex, but the difference is, he want to know me deeper. he ask my fav music, random question like kiss ot hug? and chat our daily activities..not all the time, but had great conversation with him. Compared to the scorpio where evrything goes down to sex, not many questions..just flirting and dirty talks...

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      cammig 2 weeks ago

      @NAP @LIZ

      I am scorpio female and I have been very patient and persistent in attracting my ex bf's attention over the last year and now that we finally got close and had a chance but then things got too real for him.. he backed off.. said "a lot is on his plate" he cannot multitask.. which is true but still a lame excuse for being immature.. and having commitment issues..

      When an aquarius disappears and does their own thing... it's not something I did wrong right? He just went on a 5 day field trip.. and last I saw him was on the 23rd of September.. before he left my house.. how should I be acting so he gets confused? I am always too nice and patient... and there for him.. but now that he is taking a few steps back.. it feels weird.. if i did that i'd feel bitchy to him ? he hates the idea of someone rejecting him.. haha

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      NAP 2 weeks ago

      I agree with Liz.Every other website has discouraged this pair.And I love the way you have you have written about this pair.I am Aquarius female and my partner is Scorpio male.Everything you have mentioned about us is perfect.Patience, good communication and understanding each other is all you need for this relationship to be perfect.I keep checking this website everyday if you have written something new.Please keep on writing abt this pair.And I was happy to read what other couples have written about their relation.

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      SingleMidz 2 weeks ago

      I TEND TO ONLY ATTRACT GUYS THAT HAVE BIRTHDAYS BETWEEN OCTOBER AND NOVEMER SCORPIOS USUALLY. I USUALLY DONT CHASE AND CANT READ SIGNALS, SO SCORPIOS CONFUSE ME. THATS LIKELY WHY IM STILL SIGNLE

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      Andrea Lawrence 2 weeks ago from Chicago

      Glad to hear this! I am a fan of the Scorpio and Aquarius connection.

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      Liz 3 weeks ago

      I love this article, I am a Scorpio female with an Aquarius male and everything you've written is so accurate. By far the best relationship I've had. The key to this relationship is definitely to take your time and be patient enough to really understand the other. Creating a space where there is trust and open communication is key. It's a beautiful relationship for both partners when done properly. I hate how other astrology articles I've read have discouraged this pair. I have dated both a cancer and a Pisces which are the two ideal pairs for Scorpio and neither could come close to the amazing connection I have with my Aquarius.

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      Andrea Lawrence 3 weeks ago from Chicago

      Scorpios do tend to hold a chip on their shoulder. Just know it is more about them than you. His heart will likely soften eventually. Hate is hard to carry forever. If he does actually hate you. He probably is more just hurt and having a hard time navigating the emotions.

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      Andrea Lawrence 3 weeks ago from Chicago

      Perhaps I should write more about this pair. It seems to be a hot topic of interest amongst my readers.

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      NAP 3 weeks ago

      I was really happy to read so many good things about these two signs when together.Wherever i read about these signs i kept seeing only -ve things.Thanks!!! whatever you have written here is sooooo true betn us...Please write something more about these signs.Me and my partner felt like reading it Foreverrrr!!!!

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      Dzejn82 4 weeks ago

      @Andrea

      Many thanks for feedback and for advice. I've read a lot about Scorpio men that if they are hurt and someone breakup with them they think about revenge. I hope mine is mature enough and will take it as lesson learnt. I didn't want to hurt him, I love him and I've wrote him during last goodbye. I do not think bad about him, better I have in my mind nice memories and not hate. There was a reason why we met. I've already gave up with love after divorce and bad relationships and he came in right time and even if this didn't work out well for us, I will be thankful for this love :-) Hope he wont hate me forever :-(

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      Andrea Lawrence 4 weeks ago from Chicago

      It sounds like you need to address how you feel first. In this message you sound interested in him and also like you want to beat his head in with a baseball bat. If this is a good relation or connection for you -- these kind of whirlwinds or doubts won't be so extreme. Go with your gut. If you feel like he is a pain, drop him. Learn to heal and get over him completely. It may take time to completely let him go, and you may still have some positive memories and hope -- but don't let that be your driving force if you know ultimately he is not good enough for you. And focus on yourself and making yourself the best you can be, positive, charming, and interacting with the world.

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      Andrea Lawrence 4 weeks ago from Chicago

      MAKE HIM COMMIT.

      No, not necessarily that intensely, but yeah. This guy digs you. He is missing you, but he isn't being clear about what you guys actually are. I think he wants you to be content with the current relationship condition, but is it good enough for you? Is he giving you the idea that there is a vision for the relationship and you can depend on it? Or is this just a fluttering -- we are doing this because we are doing this? Put yourself out there a little more and tell him how you really feel and what you would like to see happen in the near future. Ask him what vision he has for the relationship. The present may be good here, but the big question is the future. What kind of future is he offering you?

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      Andrea Lawrence 4 weeks ago from Chicago

      I hope this works out for you!

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      Andrea Lawrence 4 weeks ago from Chicago

      I hope you guys can straighten out your connection. Communication would help, and it can be hard for Aquarius to hold back communication when you do it at lightning speed. Scorpio communication is different. They move more like water and rely on telepathic messages -- they are more into how things feel and the genuineness of this. And of course, this backfires because emotions can be tricksters. Scorpio can take a lot of heaviness from your words, so you almost need to slow down in communication, but that isn't necessarily good for you.

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      Andrea Lawrence 4 weeks ago from Chicago

      Do keep your wisdom about you as this is a very limbo like state. Yes, people often get more relaxed about relationships when they are not feeling as much pressure. It can help them calm down and not feel as panicked or forced to make a decision. I think it would be good to set some boundaries, because the lines will get blurred. I hope that you two end up coming together for something solid. It would really hurt the emotions if anyone else gets involved, so you may want to know where the both of you stand on that.

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      Dzejn82 4 weeks ago

      Hello all,

      few days ago I was asking for advice how to get out loving an Scorpio man and if he ever come back to me. Out of sudden he texted me after 2 weeks of silence "I need you help me please Sweetie" it was at 02:00 AM. So Ive read it in the morning and take it as booty call. Ive texted back that I am here if he needs me but he has to finally decided what he wants (to stay in my life or stay away forever). He read the messages but no feedback. I lost my patient, he hurting me constantly and I cant anymore. I love him, but this is too much for me. Ive said bye to him, when he treated me like nothing, playing games, he doesn't love me. My heart is broken with higher walls as ever before. I hope one day I will forget about him and not feel pain. I wish you all guys luck in love with Aqua/Scorpios partners. Do not forget: how person treat you is theirs karma, how you react is yours :-)

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      cammig 4 weeks ago

      so weird.... we have been closer my aqua guy .. (I am a scorpio female) and he has been calling me everyday.. he took me down south for a trip with his guy best friends.. 2 hour drive there and back (never taken any other girl down there before, i was also the only girl on the getaway and he told his friends that i was coming prior to even asking me?)... and he took me to the movies this past wednesday... then came back to my house and cuddled and slept over.. had sex... pretty much what we were/ had before he felt suffocated in the relationship... i remember asking him "since we are casual.. do they go to movies and stuff" he said "no.. just sex" but we're doing that and more and even i said how my friends think he is using me and he said "well they do know we have been doing extra curriculum activities outside of just sex... " and asked if i was happy i said yes.. then yeah.. he did his own thing for studies past 2 days and called me today to check up... i guess if i am still apart of his "routine" i am important.. since 2 weeks ago he was drunk and we met up and he said "fuck, i actually missed you hey!" considering he saw me 2 days prior?... and kissed me on my forehead saying "you know i care about you right?" he was wondering if i was talking to other guys or having sex with others i said no.. he was shocked i guess.. he said he wasn't having sex with anyone and i believe him...

      he obviously still has feelings for me right? or do aquarius act this way when they are just your friend...?

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      Angeline 4 weeks ago

      This article is 100% true. 1st of i am a scorpio woman aged 28 and i dated Aquarius Man aged 35 for about 3 months things have been rocky between us, as a scorpio when i love i love hard, and i got too attached to him and him being an aquarius he couldnt handle that and decided to be distant with me and started cheating and stuff though i never caught him cheating on me but i am a scorpio and my instinct were right bout his cheating. Believe me i tried to be more understanding and patient with him buh i gave up because he didnt give me any reason to fight for us, so i left him. i am currently dating a Leo. The man loves me too deeply and he is way too loyal its like he is a perfect man for me, but again i never stopped thinking bout my aquarius ex bf ever since i broke up with him. my feelings for him are still strong to the point where i cry, and i cry because i miss him and i cry because the Leo man that is with at moment i cant love him that much, my ex called me and wanting me back i was soo happy he did that buh i had to be honest with HIM & told him that im currently dating someone. I really need help because im faking the love i have with my Leo man and it breaks my heart because he is everything i wanted my ex aquarius to be when we were in a relationship. My Aquarius ex we now secreatly in contacts he wants us to get back together again and he is teling me he is now a changed man and he was a fool he didnt love me as hard as i did when we wr 2gther. i want to believe him buh i cant i still think he is a player and all over the show, and really i cannot risk to lose my Leo because of my ex whom i still love. Can someone help me Please.

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      Dzejn82 5 weeks ago

      I love this post becasue Ive never read nothing good about those combination. I am aqua woman which met younger scorpio man during summer holiday. I am from Slovakia, he is from Egypt, different countries, cultures and hearts. During holiday that Scorpio guy felt in love with me and I have to say I had feelings for him as well. We stayed in touch after, daily texting, expressing feelings for each others. But me as typical Aquarius I was so scared by his intense feelings and I didn't believe him that he felt for me and run away a few times (but always come back to him). After one lets say breakup I was silence for month, deleted his number and trying not thinking about him. But suddenly he came back texting he still loves me and always thinking about me. I texted I love him as well (God knows I do and how much), we texted all day and night and next day he just ignore me again. I am very confused about his behavior, how he treat me. Once he is hot and in minute he is cold. One he cant live without me and in minute he just ignoring me. I am sad, hurt because I do not like if someone ignores me. If you do not like me, say it and do not play games. Last time when we came back, he said he is afraid we will never met ( I am from Europe, he is from Egypt), he is moving back to his city and he dont know if he comes back. Whole situation makes me sad. I love him, but distance separate us and also I am not sure if he still loves me or he is forgetting me. Is already 2 weeks on his silence again, no texts, nothing. And I started play his game, but this time I think is over. I love him so much, I am just not able to explain it loud. Not able to show him who I am, because when I done it before to my ex, they've runaway. I am scared to how him my heart and my true feelings for him. He said that he is very jealous man and me..well..I am friend with everybody, but my heart belongs only to man I love. What to do now? Shall I move forward in my life and forget about him? He is still in my every thought, every dream and for long time he will be.. Please help me our. (Sorry for English, I am Slovakian, so its not my mother language)

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      Nicole 6 weeks ago

      I loved this article. It's the first I've read that wasn't negative toward the Aquarius/Scorpio pairing.

      I am an Aquarius female, with a Scorpio male. Reading this has confirmed so many things I've been feeling about our relationship. I'm not crazy! Scorpios are so moody and secretive. It's been a whirlwind of emotions. I've never loved someone so intense and hated someone all at once. He's so damn sexy. Aquarius may be what scorpios have always wanted, but he is what I've always wanted.

      We've been together almost 3 years. We have a one year old daughter together. I feel his love is true, otherwise he wouldn't be here right? But he's divorced. He still carries baggage from his terrible married that he jumped into too fast. Because of this, he's unsure about getting married again. And being an Aquarius that needs to feel secure that i wont be abandoned, this terrifies me. Is this a Scorpio thing to want to take things slow the second time around? Or is it just me that he has doubts about? As an Aquarius women, I can't stand to wait and see. I have so much love to give, and I never give it out easily. But he has my while heart. Will I ever get the same in return from him?

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      Susan 6 weeks ago

      LOL. I am Scorpio with Aquarius rising. What does that make me? Complicated!

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      Amina 6 weeks ago

      This is spot on. I'm Scorpio. How did this writer come bout lol of these? Is the writer an aquarian?

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      Jennyisme 6 weeks ago

      I am a Scorpio woman and have been talking to a Aquarius man for close to 4 months we live in different states , But I can say that this is the first real attraction strong attraction , not just sexual but in every aspect you could possibly fathom that I've ever felt .. I am not a immature Scorpio I'm very much Scorpio woman and I can say I never thought I could be so loyal and patient than I am . I have no desire nor wants for any other man I Really feel this is the one the last RODEO For ME ..

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      Shan 6 weeks ago

      I am a aqua women who has recently became attracted to a Scorpio man.

      It's the first time ever, he reads me like a book and I hate it but I love it because it makes me have to say less

      We planned on going slow seeing how I just exited a very terrible relationship we have been sexual and we are working on friendship and trust first.

      We met and work together which in a way makes me more attracted to him watching him move and have so much control.

      Watching women buzz knowing on the low I have him but that's a little thing I keep to myself

      Problem is idk what to do about all the power I feel around him.

      He made it easy to leave the last thing easy to move back into the world after it all.

      Made everything around me seem normal in the face of extreme madness something I know I need because my mind goes crazy

      I just can't figure out why now and I have such a hard time accepting this type of energy it makes me crazy.

      I spend time reading about his sign

      I watch him from a distance waiting for his moves

      Then after any since of euphoria say none of this can happen right now.

      I feel him growing more attached and concerned about me.

      Everytime we hang out he gives me a little more of himself.

      I can tell he won't be one to write me a love poem but I have never been attracted to that type as I pour my love out in long poems and beautiful words.

      He is 37 and I am 24 age is not my concern but giving all my love to another person is I'm so unsure and I don't want to lose him based on these feelings because I know I will.

      I know I'm in a headspin cuz just that thought brings me to tears but idk if he is willing to even deal with the storm of emotions inside of me when it comes to this.

      For now I'm just playing us day by day

      I hope I can get something as beautiful as this post describes I have read it 3 times and this is truly all I want all out of love but I know I cannot expect it from just anyone so it's scary to even try

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      Aquawoman0122 6 weeks ago

      I haven't read anything truer regarding these 2 signs! I am a typical aquarius female: strong, independent, confident, sociable and humanitarian...I met this scorpio guy 4 months ago and it has been an absolute rollercoaster of emotions that I have never felt in my life. I have been so confused throughout this relationship so many times! I have broken it off at least 7 times, but somehow, he finds a way to reel me back in, even at times that I've been absolutely sure that I will not go back to him. I am not saying he's forcing me, because the truth is I would not go back if I no longer loved him, but see, that's the thing! I have never felt love/hate at times for someone as often as I do with him!! I NEVER allow anyone to play with my emotions and I know my worth and have always valued myself, but here comes this guy, and I swear, I am way out of his league, but somehow I feel him to be a magnet. I could be mad at him and think I don't love him, but when I see him, those thoughts disappear and I fall in love with him all over again! NO ONE HAS EVER LOOKED AT ME THE WAY HE DOES!!! He has the most intense, sensual, amazing gaze, stare, look whatever it is!

      I know he loves me, but he is immature and full of insecurities. I have told him that I could see right through him as I am very perceptive and that drives him crazy because he only reveals bits and pieces of himself. I do the same, as I have to feel very comfortable to talk about myself, but I do not have a problem showing love. I am full of love and I spread it around everywhere I go!! I know our relationship will not go far (for reasons that I could not explain), but he has told me that he can never forget me and somehow deep in my heart I know that I will never forget him!

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      Aft 7 weeks ago

      That cocky arrogance of Aquarians who think that the world evloves around them and everyone should excuse him for what he is for they are not going to change for vulgars and be accepted as they are so -people, beware tone-

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      Anglea 8 weeks ago

      Aquarius girl here dating a Scorpio man. MAN OOHHH MAN. This guy has swept me off my feet in such a small period of time. We talk on the phone for 5 hours straight, we go to sleep with each other on the phone. (Note that we are grownups in professional fields)… I just thought the whole speaking on the phone for so long was left back in middle, high school, clearly NOT. Sex is BOMB!! I mean, i like kinky and this guy, i mean is there such thing as “limits” when it comes to having sex with a Scorpio man? NO! And i love it!!! But i must admit he is needy. Needs affection / attention often. Gets SUPERRRR JEALOUS and is VERY PROTECTIVE OF ME… Its sometimes difficult for me since Aqua girls we tend to be more of a free spirit & we like to come and go. But ladies, the Scorpio man will make sure you are okay and not in need of anything. He is always willing, actually, not willing, HE ALWAYS WANTS to step up and be the man. Provide, take care of me, and feel like hes in control… I must admit a lot of times i just agree with him and let him get his way even if I don’t fully agree… He is very family oriented and literally started giving me that “wifey treatment” within A WEEK of knowing me… All I can say is I’m falling for this guy like I’ve never fell before… We do have our challenges. But I just can’t explain how someone can be so much like you, yet so different. Anyhow, he has my heart and us Aqua girls are hard to commit but this guy i can PERFECTLY SEE A FUTURE WITH HIM.♥

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      cammig 8 weeks ago

      UPDATE-

      oh my goodness.. saw him on Saturday night and we hung out.. his friends were there and he was flirting and saying how nice I looked and then he asked if I would go back to his... I said yeah I would.. and stayed the night and we talked and cuddled a lot.. and just normal/banter/laughs we always have.. and dropped me home in the morning and I thought okay that went well.. then he calls me out of the blue around 10 pm.. last night and we talked for a solid 1.5 hours..? he even said "i've never done this... but it's alright that I call you right? Would it be weird if i called you every day?" I said no that's fine but it's just reassurance for him that it is okay.. since I said it was good seeing him seeing and I was glad I did and he replied with "Im glad I saw you too.. " I said how I enjoyed talking to him on the phone and he agreed... "I like talking to you too!"

      So yeah.. he was saying how cares about me alot... but this is all new to him since he usually doesn't care about his "previous girls" since he wouldn't consider their feelings. But with me... it's different... he checks up on.. asks if my dad is okay.. we do more cuddling than sex.. and his parents are leaving so he will have the house to himself this weekend.. and said choose a day.. it's yours! so I will go see him saturday and relax, have food and watch a movie... and sleepover obviously.. pretty much like how we used to be without the label haha!

      How weird is it that since the pressure is off.. I'm not up his ass... he is more calm.. and knowing im okay with it all.. and being casual and being his friend, he did say "we have been friends for almost 2 years.. i've never been friends with someone for so long then get into dating then for it to end and still be close? " Guess he is new to it.. and I told him if other girls get involved that's when I will stop it all and we will talk about it.. but for now.. don't think he wants to stop whatever this is.. and I'm fine with it...

      I thought he wouldn't even try... but it's just funny how close we are.. like best friends that are attracted to eachother.. so comfortable... can't really end something like that.

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      Beth 8 weeks ago

      Thank you for this article. I am a Scorpio woman married to an Aquarius man. This article describes us perfectly. We have been together for a little over 10 years now.

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      Anna 8 weeks ago

      first of all, thank you for this wonderful article.. i was waiting for this good one to come.. as an aquarius girl.. i was once in a relationship with a scorpio guy about few year ago.. when i was in high school.. well it did n't went well..due to some communication ptoblems ..as an aquarius i need my space.. i don't know how to show my feelings deep down i feel like i still have feelings for him.. is it love or just i don't know.. i still miss him.. but now i want forget him.. he is on my mind.. every time .. please help me he was my past.. i find it difficult to forget him. @andrealawrence

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      Anna 8 weeks ago

      first of all, thank you for this wonderful article.. i was waiting for this good one to come.. as an aquarius girl.. i was once in a relationship with a scorpio guy about few year ago.. when i was in high school.. well it did n't went well..due to some communication ptoblems ..as an aquarius i need my space.. i don't know how to show my feelings deep down i feel like i still have feelings for him.. is it love or just i don't know.. i still miss him.. but now i want forget him.. he is on my mind.. every time .. please help me he was my past.. i find it difficult to forget him.

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      cammig 2 months ago

      @andrealawrence

      Thank you so much for this amazing feedback....

      Well he called me last night while I was in the gym and wanted to see what I was up to.. then I said sure.. I will call once I am done.. so I ended up calling around 12am since he said he would be up.. but yeah talked, had a few laughs, then we talked about when we would see each other and he said tomorrow night? I said yeah sure! So obviously not being active for 2 days and doing my own thing he still has time to message/call.. means a lot but like you said it's not relationship we are in the middle grey area..

      He is at his last semester and whatever job he gets he gets... but in the mean time he will stay here! And honestly.. he does not have those relationship skills.. like he said and needs to focus on him right now.. so I told him we could be more laid back.. but still be together.. but he did feel pressured and maybe even suffocated near the end and wasn't 100% in it so thought.. "I might as well be honest now.. and hurt you months down when I've been too focused on studies and being distant/cold/aloof"

      I guess... taking it day by day... not reading too much into the signs when I know he likes me .. but like you said "half-assing it" which is fine for now as I don't want that pressure of a relationship.. but maybe after his studies which we will talk about again.. too soon now. But why is it that when we care less? Aren't as available? Act aloof.. and not emotional.. go MIA they start to seek us?

      It's like the saying "want what I cannot have.."

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      Julia 2 months ago

      I'm Scorpio woman and I love Aquarius man.We weren't exactly in relationship.I met this guy 1 month ago when I got a new job,and when I saw him for the first time I couldn't stop myself from smiling and wanting to know him.But 2 weeks ago I texted him and told him that I like him,and want to know him better,and he said that he can't do that now because he wants to be concentrated at his work,and it really broke my heart,but the more time went by I realized that I don't like,but I love him.When I confined in my co-worker friend,she said that this guy don't like to show his emotions,and only cares about his job,and me always being the romantic,emotional one.I can't stop wondering what if,and I really don't know what to do anymore with this heartbreak.

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      Andrea Lawrence 2 months ago from Chicago

      I feel like in the long run you are wanting a relationship with this man, but there isn't necessarily a promise of this. I think you are coming in with that expectation and hope. I think you need to be clear to yourself first about what you want, and then draw a line about how much you can take. He might not want to fully commit because maybe he plans to move after he gets his degree, or he doesn't have a good eye for what is in store with the future. I think if you really want this person to be your friend, you need to stay in the friend zone and get out of this gray area between friendship and a relationship. I think being in the gray area will hurt your feelings in the long run, and then end up also hurting the friendship. Be friends for now, and if it feels like you have a more clear picture that you can be in a real relationship, try this up again at that point. Otherwise, this kind of setup is going to hurt at least one of you. He may be considering being in a romantic context of some sort with you, but you do need to ask -- is this going anywhere or do we need more time to figure that out with the current setup? Or are we wasting our time here and ultimately hurting the friendship? You need to ask him what he sees himself doing in the future. He doesn't have to give you a full 100% undivided relationship or fit some kind of vision he has about what a relationship should look like. You two can be in a budding relationship that is more relaxed and doesn't make him feel as threatened. He might not be mentally ready for a relationship. You guys need to figure out and communicate what you are to each other, where you think it needs to be for now, and what you see in the possible future. Be pragmatic about it.

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      Andrea Lawrence 2 months ago from Chicago

      Are the two of you currently talking to each other? Is he out of school now or has he started a new semester?

      What are his plans for after school? Does he seem to have a vision with you in it? You need to setup clear boundaries about what you want, and what is the difference between being in a romantic context and being a friend. Honestly, I think this guy sounds like he is half-assing it with you. I think if he really liked you, he would put in more effort. He may genuinely be more focused on himself at this point in time, and giving focus to another person might not be a skill that he has at this time... or the near future.

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      cammig 2 months ago

      UPDATE:

      He called me monday night (14th of august) and we talked on the phone.. he said he was worried about me... since I was not active on whatsapp or facebook for 2 days.. so obviously he checks! We talked a lot and then I thought he had to go.. after an 1 hour he hung up and messaged on facebook saying his phone died.. so I assumed that was his way of saying bye.... then he called back? So we talked for another hour.. and discussed when to see each other next.. which was tuesday night.. so during that talked.. it was about his day, and his work, gym routine and what he ate and how he got a new phone.. "I'm back on snapchat"and he wanted me to snap him my nose piercing I said na.. in person" Anyway.. He obviously wanted to know how my dad was and if there was any news and tried to cheer me up said to look up this photo and we both laughed so hard on the phone (his old friend that used to look so different) but yeah... felt like old times.. and I was thinking of him and for him to call was so random.. then when he came over the next day... wow that was fun too.. we cuddled.. had sex and talked.. laughed and he was meant to go.. but he said "small nap" and then that turned into a full on sleep until 5 am... so yeah.. cuddling and his head on my chest... holding me tight.. Good to know we can still be friends.. and the pressure of the relationship is less.. so he feels better knowing he can have space/freedom while being with me on the downlow.. since his studies are so important...

      I know I'll be seeing him soon.. but is it true that if you care less (I'M a scorpio female btw Cancer moon - he is aquarius sun and pisces moon) so I think he knows no other person understands him the way I do... and we just get a long so well.. my gut instinct knows he isn't done with us yet.. and I don't know if I should message or call? I know... cat and mouse game (but for now)

      We were good friends before and now that we dated and now broken up to be this "casual" "low key" thing... I don't know what is best.. how to approach it.. since he said "i'll always be here... even if you need to call or get your mind off things with dad.. no burden at all" before he told his friend cbf..need break but then he obviously said "if she needs me, i'll be there for her 100%"

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      cammig 2 months ago

      I am scorpio female (22 turning 23 this year) and my ex bf is an aquarius (24) and I feel like we broke up because he wasn't ready... nor has he ever been in a relationship before. He has had flings and "f***arounds" with girls but yeah he said it was different with me... we have been friends for almost 2 years and we got close around mid april until it felt like a fairly take and he asked me out around july 12th... then we broke up august the 2nd.. such a rollercoaster.. as he got cold and distant due to his studies and I became more clingy and upset.. (had a gut feeling he was cold and kept asking if he was okay) he did not want to tell me until the night of the break up "my heart isn't fully in it as before.. I have a lot on my plate and I cannot handle everything.. you deserve 100% nothing less.." I thought it was an excuse until I found out from a close source that his average has been dropping and had to do an extra exam... (his last semester before he graduates from engineering) I just knew since he felt suffocated near the end and that he had no idea what a real relationship was... he just needs to do him.. He is know for being "indecisive" and very on and off... so I knew our chapter wasn't over yet.. it was just so sudden! He went from "I can't believe someone that was once afraid of commitment is happy in one now... my best friend hasn't even met you and she likes you.. she thinks you're changing me for the better and I'm opening myself up more around you..." so imagine my shock when he broke up... from only feeling unsure for a week... "A week is a long time for me to feel a certain way... I know myself.. if we continue, I won't be giving my all.. and not caring as much as I should be" ... I mean this guy is so private, low key... he even told his older sister about me.. and his parents were sussing out him seeing someone since he was so happy.... he wanted me to sleepover and meet them/talk to them! He was even willing to come meet my older brother and cousins... but everything changed.. now he want's to be single.. focus on his career and I agreed to be casual since the love for me is still there (despite him saying that it would hurt in the end) I don't think it would since I can put my emotions aside and just be happy to spend time with him even in a friendly/casual way... showing him there is no pressure..

      He called me on the 11th of august (friday that just passed) and asked where I have been (Since I was not on social media for 2 days) so he realised and wanted to make sure everything was okay...his friend told him about my father being sick and he felt guilty for not being there for me since i kept it from him (my breakup reaction was bad... cried for ages and he got scared/worried) but there was a reasonable response.. anyway he asked to come over and we cuddled.. talked.. and had sex.. we both wanted it, it was mutual.. and the chemistry is as great as ever... the friendship aspect of it too... but I think he told his friend "going to hit her up.. see what she's doing" his first intention was to sleep with me but once his friend told me about my father he just wanted to be there for me... and before didn't want to talk and wanted space and his friend asked "so does that mean you're in contact again?" he replied "if she needs someone to talk to then 100%"

      *almost forgot.. he ended up staying the night until 6:30am.. since he couldn't leave due to my brother and mother! We cuddled a lot.. grabbed my hand and placed it on is chest while trying to hold it.. and wrapping my legs around his body... I just know he won't find someone that cares/loves him as much as myself and he told me the girl before.. he never took her feelings into consideration and just got messages from her everytime he was seen with other females and they'd talk, she would ask to meet up and then try again until one of them flaked off.. or feelings weren't into it much.

      My head is all over the place.. he is such a caring/genuine person... and he even messaged me the next day "how'd you sleep?" I didn't reply for a solid 8 hours.. then we talked a bit and I said how I had a good time and he then said "I had a great time" and how he's here for me if I ever need to talk to anyone, no burden at all.. like he genuinely cares but obviously not at the time of his life to be settled down...

      next day he messaged at 11:47 am (continuing the earlier chat) I replied 9 hours later again.. then we stopped as I said the last word.. I will disappear and do my own thing as I have a life and he does have a full plate with work, graduating, helping his parents and just time for himself.. he went from so good to, I need space to hey are you free tonight? ... SO CONFUSING HAHA!

      I feel like when we care less ... they care more.. he even said "You took my spear away... I'm the hunter... you didn't even let me chase" which is true.. I did chase a lot.. and he likes to chase..

      Do they ever come back? (because I feel like the bond we have.. can't be broken this quick as we were friends before and the physical aspect is just as strong) He did always say "one thing I liked about (Person X) is she knew when to give me space... " but he has only ever liked two people.. myself and the girl before me.. everyone else was a fun/attraction thing...

      So as a typical scorpio.. I can't seem to let go yet since he is so wishy-washy and needs time.. and will most likely message me/call me soon to catchup. The pressure of a relationship is off and I'm glad ... I wasn't ready since he rushed to ask me out but he said "he was happy.." so I don't know what to do!?! He likes me ... yet doesn't.. yet comes back since he knows its familiar and comfortable!

      HELP!!! Missing my aquarius friend/lover

      *also - I hate how he plays the "macho man" to his friends, this image that he is fine but asks them if I'm okay, or if they have talked to me in the last few days... so he is worried about me but that could just be from a friend point of view... and since he knew I loved him.. he couldn't reciprocate that ideology of love back... I think ...

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      2 months ago

      "Aquarius is exactly what Scorpio wants and has always wanted."

      You couldn't be more right about it. I'm a Scorpio and my Aquarius man is driving me crazzzzyyy.

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      Prince pluto 2 months ago

      Hello everyone..

      Firstly I'd like to say this article has to be the most enlightening & relatable of all I've ever read.

      I kindly ask for help/ advice..im a 23yr old Scorpio Sun ,taurus Moon male..

      i just had an encounter as I'm residing in Southern africa..i was just about to relocate to a new location.

      Out of nowhere !!comes an 18yr old Aquarius female with a Taurus moon as well (lol I did research on her excuse my Scorpio probing )We immediately had a connection,

      what puzzles me is that she's younger than I am but a mind n spirit of a mature woman with kookyness lol ...rewinding a bit ,so i haven't been dating for 3 years,also celibate..So this girl is amazingly weird and different which i really like..so she's not a girly girl..which i dig about her..we talk almost about anything & we share similar interests..so she strikes me as an unfeeling aloof girl..her brilliant mind,mixed with calmness & eccentricity I admire..and im calm as well but my emotions flare up quickly,but I rarely show it.

      We started talking 2 weeks ago,we met via an my Aires friend who's a Virgo moon.

      So one time we Martians/& Plutonian (Me and my Airian friend)chilling at a park there she appears with a friend all 4 of us decide to play spin the bottle (No,we wernt drinking alcohol).

      So the bottle points to HIM AND HER..they kiss (rules of the game)...Yep and here I was jealous and agitated wanting to throw a brick to his face ,though not showing it,i watched them kiss..My emotions kept being turbulent coz I wanted to be the one she kisses,looks & touches.

      I've never been so infatuated with an Aquarius b4 nor dated one.

      So I kept cool,her friend & I kissed too but it was just ok..

      When the aqua girl n I finally got to kiss I felt some burning,goose bumpy firey feeling right below my chest,above my abdomen i wanted it to be her & i alone so bad..it was like my soul tasted a bit of hers & vice versa..neither one didn't wanna let go..

      So she tells me thAt she's not a Juliet type & fine with it..my problem is the more we cross paths,the cosmos line up n I feel the burst of emotions overwhelming me..yes we are sexually attracted too but i feel there's more to it..

      Anyway ,she puts a certain spark to my psyche I haven't experienced b4..& i get afraid of falling for her coz I might get hurt,& her too..

      at times I want to get deeper and say how I feel but being such of a scorp I resfrain coz I don't want to ruin the moment then i switch to hibernate mode.

      Being me whose chatty I always wanna talk to her (only her)

      We talk on whatsapp everyday and she asks me if would I have sex with a girl like her..i reply with honesty that "yes I would"(but I'm worried that she might have sex with me and hop on the next train like all my ex's did to me)..i hate being used for sexual activities.

      Part of me says she won't,but my other doesn't want to JUST "have sexual intercouse"..i have difficulty in expressing that part of me..

      I get worried coz for some reason my Aires friend urges me to "hit it & quit it"..and I know the more I get to know her the deeper feels I get,i immediately know once I sleep with her I'm gonna get attached(reason for celibacy).

      Is sex to aquarians like a sport or what? Coz right now I'm F*** up..to my friends having feelings for a girl is like weakness/bad thing..so I hide that part of me since I'm got a Mercury stellium in 3rd house..but Being a guy i feel & think deep

      All the time.but some days I wanna scream n shout tell her that I really like her & I'd like to try a relationship with her..

      I'm fine with giving her space coz I like mine too..especially when I'm in my moods recharing my batteries e.t.c

      I've always seen & felt like Aquarians are extraordinary beings with beautifully weirdo crafted minds that i cannot help but fall for..sometimes I feel like a freak or an outcast,but when im with an Aquarius I feel I finally found an alien to ride on a space ship n fly infinite galaxies with.

      What should I do?

      Her chart is air & earth with a dash of water...mine is air & water with a dash of earth...Coincidence??I dunno..

      Any advice would be greatly appreciated thank you.

      Pluto.

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      Lara Boucher 2 months ago

      I felt this to be right-on! Do you have other such in depth analysis of Aquarius w/ other signs?

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      ItalianScorpio 2 months ago

      Everyone is telling here that SCORPIO and AQUARIUS are the best, I believe it's the best. It's hard in the beginning but in the end, it's a relationship who last a lifetime. Because we have ESP, I know how she feels everyday and he know how I feel every day. There are examples here of people who want to marry together, who want to share their entire life together. I'm in love with an AQUARIUS woman who is in doubt about her feelings but maybe she should only follow what this incredible MAN Andrea Lawrence wrote. He has so many examples of this "sweetest relationships in history were an Aquarius and Scorpio". It's a love that is hard to get but it's a love totally different from anyone else because Aquarius can't find someone who is so deep in her mind and Scorpio need an Aquarius because he takes out the good feelings from him. Aquarius absord this feelings and she is more happy. It's a cycle of love, love, more love, love, more love.

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      Aqua ms scorp his 2 months ago

      I had a major crush on a scorpio male in my teens and i know he felt the same. I was feeling rejected by the progress we made when it was obvious to everyone there was something there. So i moved on... 25yrs later we find ourselves back in the same position but now both woth lots of baggage like trust issues being hurt or even being willing to enter another relationship. I am the reasoning he is the emotionly charged fire cracker.. we talked about not hooking up in the past and cant figure out why? The same thing is happening now again. Im reading this all and thinking slow is good good now . Imnjust not getting the hang around i just need time vibe.. its lots of communication then a dry spell. Like he sees something he doesn't like and switches off. Ill wait foreva but how do i know if im waiting for nothing? Thanx by the way. This has been eye openingâ˜ș

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      Andrea Lawrence 2 months ago from Chicago

      This is hard, but I'm not sure this man is being mature and taking responsibility for his actions or for how it makes your heart feel. I think this could be a bad situation and make for an even worse outcome in the future. I think you deserve someone who really loves you and is devoted to you. Tell him that, and if it's not what he wants, then you'll be friends, and you are thankful for him in his life. But you don't need to sit there and wait on his butt. In fact, getting this out early will help you two to have a better, healthier connection. If you sit there and wait with this unmet expectation, it could turn toxic very quickly.

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      Tonya14 2 months ago

      Your post put a BIG smile on my face when I read it! I am a 38 year old Woman (Aquarius) and about 5 years ago I met a then 23 year old Guy (Scorpio) and we hit it off instantly, very positive vibes, he first lied about his age, eventually telling me the truth, at first I thought it was not going to work, but I was hooked by then.. we dated for about 3 months and I found out I was pregnant with our son, and then I also found out he had a girlfriend that was due to give birth to their son any day so I called it quits, never speaking to him again until this year almost 5 years to the date I called it quits, and we talked over the phone for about 2 months everyday, to the point of fall asleep on the phone every night. It was like we picked up where we left off, We talked about our son, what we wanted out of life, his problems with his other son's mother and their custody battle. We talked about a lot of things. And so I eventually agreed to bring our son to meet him for the first time in his life, he was in Virginia we lived in Minnesota, We visited him everything was great, he had grown up a lot (mentally) in the beginning, I for some reason fell head over hills in love with him in such a short time of knowing him it truly scared me. So I never told him up until about a month ago and I have been wanting to move from Minnesota for about 5 years years and the opportunity presented itself and so I made the decision to move to Virginia, of course talking to him about it and he agreed that he wanted to be closer to his son and get to know each other and possibly making something work with me, after we get to know each other better. So I been in Virginia now for about a month now, we had to stay with him for about 3weeks until our house was ready, and I must say, he stayed out all night, he wants me to cook for him, he would come home from work eat, rest for about a couple of hours and take a shower get dressed and go to the gym for about 2 hours and come home take a shower and leave and I might not see him again until the next morning or he would come in th middle of the night. He just told me the other day that he has a friend with "potential" but he still wants to have sex with me ( I refuse to) I don't know if he's just trying to sow his Royal oats or what. Then gets mad when I say I'm ready to find a husband and that I know my worth and that I deserve so much more!! I want to be with him, I want to be his wife, I don't know if he is insecure about our age difference or if he is just not interested in me at all in the same way I am about him.. I know how to control my emotions so he doesn't get the jealous, emotional, in raged Woman I think he wants me to be because that's just not me! But I don't know what to do, he will be 29 in November and I will be 39 in February and I am ready for a stable, loving, respectful, Peaceful, committed relationship.. I have told him my true feelings and he has never rejected the idea of us or has he said we are or would be a couple. So should I wait, or should I just move on and find some one else? Please help me, Hopelessly in Love

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      Andrea Lawrence 3 months ago from Chicago

      Glad it was insightful. :)

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      wruzicka@bellsouth.net 3 months ago

      Great article about Aquarius women and Scorpio men. Gained a lot of insights.

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      Andrea Lawrence 3 months ago from Chicago

      I always like to hear when things resonate with people.

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      Andrea Lawrence 3 months ago from Chicago

      Telepathic connection.

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      Boris 3 months ago

      This is SPOT ON!!!!!!!! I almost cried reading it :O

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      ESB 3 months ago

      What does ESP mean

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      Jordie 3 months ago

      I feel like this would work much better for a Scorpio male-Aquarius female perspective. I don't think I've seen very many committed Aquarius males.

      Obviously, it depends on the rest of the chart because my chart is water heavy and I lack earth, so that's what I'm attracted to overall. I have air sign family members and I just can't deal being around them for long periods of time.

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      Andrea Lawrence 3 months ago from Chicago

      Very lovely. I only wish you the best.

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      Amna Anwer 3 months ago

      I am in love with a scorpion male . It has been beautiful uptil now. He loves me back so much more than anyone could have ever loved me or valued me . He respects me a lot and I love the hesitance between us to have physical relation or even verbal indecent conversations . I am a very emotional person . I can easily get sad over his absence although I know he is mine and he is around . It is beautiful how he tries his best to keep me happy . He generally is thought of as stubborn but he is the sweetest person when it comes to me . I have so much faith in him and I am sure we'll be able to make it up to marriage . I think aquarius and Scorpio is a good match .

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      Andrea Lawrence 3 months ago from Chicago

      I'm excited for your happiness, and I only wish you the best in your relationship. :)

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      akrobinson 3 months ago

      I loved this article. I am a female Aquarian that has met the most wonderful Scorpio male.

      We each have a tapestry history but have ended up in the same industry of Counselling/therapy.

      We met in an online classroom and built our friendship very slowly in the online forum, moved to phone conversations then to Skype. We lived in different states within the same country and met in the physical after 8 months of communicating.

      Every time we misunderstood each other, we-mostly me, would need to take time to process to understand each other better. He relocated to my home state and we are building our relationship stronger each day. It's been eight months since we met physically and every day is a blessing.

      This article is very acurate, if as you say, the individuals are mature in who they are as people. We are both complex, loving, loyal and family oriented individuals. Most will not get past the first few layers of either of us. I found the love of my life. Blessed.

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      Andrea Lawrence 3 months ago from Chicago

      This will help me, but how long have you two been communicating? How long have you known of each other and how did you meet? Are your conversations very consistent?

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      Andrea Lawrence 3 months ago from Chicago

      Much love your way, Mrs. Otter!

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      Mrs. Otter 3 months ago

      Thank you for looking into this. I know I have met my Scorpio soulmate. I am Aquarius. Many of things you stated were on point. We both in our hearts know we have so much love and life to offer each others. We are hopeful of our future. Thank you for your understandable words.

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      Lara Boucher 3 months ago

      Wow!! Not only did this article hit the nail straight and hard on the head from my own experiences, but so have a lot of the comments. I glanced through them but am looking forward to reading more deeply.

      Short of it is--I am an Aquarian woman. I was decribed so accurately that I thought the author read my mind! Lol. As well as what was described of the Scorpios and relationship between them.

      My mom is Scorpio. My t to stepdad's that she had the most amazing relationships with, were Aquarians. I saw so many distractive relationships in general that I was really cynical about them. But watching her in these relationships is really what gave me hope for relationships period. My first love I was a scorpio, everything as it was described in the article, including being too young and immature. I was very scared of commitment. And he was very loyal and committed. We went our separate ways. I cut it off because of my youthful fear. He went on to have a loving committed family life, that I somewhat envied. I avoided dating for 20 years. I just got out of a fruitless long-term relationship with an Aries and am back to dating. I just started seeing a Scorpio that when we met, like the first love, was as described magnetic and karmic. This time we are both older, more mature. I'm looking forward to seeing where this goes--hopefully riding off into the sunset together for the long-haul.

      I'm very grateful for the article and the advice in it. It really resonated with me and put to words what I was thinking.

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      Tina 3 months ago

      Hey...there.... My partner is Aquarius sign and we are getting married.... Can we live a mature interesting and full of love and joy..life..suggest me about this..

      Thankyou

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      Savana 3 months ago

      Wow, it is incredible how much conversation this article has sparked and a lot of it really does resonate with me. I am a scorpio woman and dated an Aquarius male for about three months earlier this year. My intense attraction to him always baffled me as I could tell immediately that we were very different. I wondered if he would be able to connect on the emotional level that I wanted to as he himself said that he was unemotional and comes across pretty detached and cool. I know that he did end up becoming quite attached to me and we moved a little too fast, which definitely could have caused the demise of our relationship.. we saw a lot of each other as we lived in the same apartment complex and started a relationship while still getting to know each other. (Actually ended the relationship while still getting to know each other too...) We had started arguing a lot, he would feel very defensive and as if if was attacking him when i wanted to talk about how we could improve our relationship and eventually I just ended it. I think he saw ways that he had taken me for granted after it ended and he just never expected I would break up with him. I didn't give him a chance to "fix" things when he realized I had had enough, but to me that was it. It was too little too late. I do think things could have gone a lot differently and can see how the different qualities of the two signs can help bring out two potential of the other. I saw glimpses of that! I still think of him and miss him but, like the other scorpions mentioned in the comments, I am fickle and don't want to try again only to hurt him more. We are complicated creatures! Thank u again for the article, twas a very interesting read!

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      Nina Aqua92 3 months ago

      Hello!

      I am an aquarius woman and i'm seriously confused with scorpio man i fall for. We still haven't met each other, because we live in different towns in our coutry. He is busy with his job and i will graduate soon and i hope we'll meet soon. We talk on the phone for hours and i REALLY LIKE HIM. It's like i've met the man i was looking for all this time. Confusing is that i don't know how he feels about me. I already told him that i feel something more, that he is more than a friend to me. I know that the distance is real problem. I think he feels something more too, but i can't tell for sure, cuz he's so mysterious. I know I have no right to want more of him, at least for now. I need some advice how to understand him and how to make him sure that i don't want to hurt him, because i have problemswith trust like him. I know it's hard to belive someone who is so far away.

      I hope we'll meet each other soon and it will work. If we both want it, of course.

      PS: Sorry if my english is not so good. :)

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      Andrea Lawrence 4 months ago from Chicago

      Thank you! Glad it is helpful.

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      Aquaorpio 4 months ago

      So, as I was reading this article i couldn't believe how true it seems. This is definitely me and my guy. I'm the Aquarius and He is the dark mysterious loyal Scorpio. Every paragraph I was able to relate based off our relationship now. I even forwarded to him to read to help us understand each other. Awesome article

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      Andrea Lawrence 4 months ago from Chicago

      I am glad to have helped you out. That always brightens my day to know I've given some help.

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      N2 4 months ago

      Hi Andrea,

      Thanks for this, I'm a Scorpio In a relationship with an Aquarius man. We have been dating for a year now, and have been having the same issues if communication. This has been challenging for me Bc we are also long distance and extremely busy individuals. We tend to meet up every other month or so, and it's a great time. My issues has to do the the lack of communication at times, he seems very detached. I bring this up often because it affects me emotionally, yet when I tell him how I feel he becomes closed off and dismissive as if he doesn't care to help the situation. I'm not sure what to do, I'm trying to be patient and hold on to all the good times we have and the similarities we have in the outlook of life. Any advice would be much appreciated!

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      Lib 4 months ago

      Wow, thank you so much for taking the time to write about the connection between scorpio and aquarius. I have been married to an aquarian for 12 years now and oh boy, it hasn't been easy.

      We have a very strong connection, intimacy is amazing, we can talk for hours come up with interesting ideas and plans but yet communication is a problem. I am very open when it comes to expressing my feelings but I'm lucky to get a full sentence out of him, it is very frustrating. He is very reserved and idk how to change that after all these years.

      I have to give it to him though, he has been with me throughout the different scorpio phases which can be very unstable and frustrating and that's where I think the problem lies.

      He used to be overly expressive and loving when we met but I was very defensive and at the first sign of betrayal I took vengeance not taking into consideration the consequences.

      We broke up for a while and then decided to work it out, we formed a family but he has never been the same.

      We hurted each other in the worse way and it wasn't easy to move on specially due to the lack of trust from my part. I'm willing to put everything aside and build the trust and he is in agreement but I don't see any effort from him to work on communicating his feelings and being more affective.

      I sense that he's hurt and I don't know what do to, this happened years ago. Any ideas??

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      Nau 4 months ago

      Im an aquarius girl... and im deeply in love with this scorpio man. We were a great couple together for a few most-almost a year. However, i have a short temper and we had a huge fight out of nothing and he ended our relationship.. i kept my distance and once a week he would just send random txt that made me understand he missed me a lot...for a month he was really still mad about what happened. And this week i finally was able to have a little forgiveness. He told me i had 75% chance to get him back and that i should wait because he needs some time for himself still (he has a low self esteem). So im stuck in a place where my patience is tested and wondering if i should really wait for him. Its a torture and dont know what to do !

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      utosepia 4 months ago

      Hey I came across this article today and I couldn't agree with you more. You have absolutely hit the nail on the head. Most articles about sun compatibility are extremely conventional. But you've broken the dynamics down to even the little details.

      I am a scorpio with aqua asc and libra moon. My lover is aquarius with capricorn asc and cancer moon (or taurus depending on what chart system).

      It's shed a lot of light and given me perspective on this relationship. Now Im more aware of the spectrum of emotions going through my aquarius man.

      I have venus conj Uranus (capri in 11-12H cusp) and what I've always believed is that to love fully one must love in a way that makes the other feel free. So I give ample space and affection as well. At times I've felt a bit confused by the space and mood swings but the love trumps all and makes everything worth it.

      Thank you for this amaaaazing article my friend. You have great depths of insight!

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      jezzicad@gmail.com 4 months ago

      it seems aquarius male and scorpio female may work better than aquarius female with scorpio male especially since aquarius challenging the scorpios "dark clouds" can seem emasculating to men?

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      Ivy Martinez 4 months ago

      I met this guys through my work this past year and he is a shy Aquarius. I dated his aries best friend who worked at the same place. But after me and the Aries broke up, the Aquarius comfort me even tho he just went through a brake up around the same time. Anyway there was this work meet up a month after the brake up and I was over my ex and he was over his ex. So I waited until the last day to ask him if he would like to go with me because he was to shy to ask me. He said "idk" but then finally said yes.....so we r having a good time and we get pizza after and he put his arm around me and we danced....the next day, like nothing happened... Boom, like im stuck in the friend zone.... Idk what to do, do I take more risks? Do I just give up and pretend like nothing happened? Or do I look for someone new?....BTW this all happened on may 19

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      Julie 4 months ago

      Wonderful!! Will you be writing about other signs or just Scorpio? I'm an Aquarius and would like to know about Aqua and Pisces.

      Thank you!

      If you ever do, please email me at julie.chou@gmail.com

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      Jay 4 months ago

      I'm a 23 year old Scorpio male, and I met this 25 year old Aquarius woman about a couple months ago. The first day I saw her I was already shakened up. I don't know why seeing her scared me but it did. I told myself I should avoid this woman at all cost, but her mind was on the opposite. It seemed like the more I try to avoid her the more she would come around. She would come to say hi to me just about everyday we could see one another. The way she stared at me pulled me in. she had her own natural scent Which is weird because I think I'm the only one that smells it. After a while our hi's turned into conversations and then me flirting with her and doing silly things to make her smile and laughter. Only a few times she would mention that she would mention that she had another "friend" who she talks to and hangs out with sometimes, but that's how much of that she would talk to me about it. Learned she was from another country overseas and so my nurturing side kicked in and me understanding how it feels to be alone I was always willing to help her anyway I can and still am. We exchanged numbers, and I would send her good morning texts often. I gave her the nickname gorgeous, I can tell she really likes it when I call her that. I would try to get her to hang out with me just grab a bite to eat, have some fun, you know young adult stuff, but she wouldn't budge, it was always "I want to, but I'm too tired or too busy." I would doubt sometimes if it's even worth the trouble with this girl because I knew from the get go we were different. One day I decided to open up just a bit to her and I told her I was attracted to her and have been since we met. I then go on to say that I would like it if we could see if we can be more than just friends. She told me she thought I was a really sweet guy but she had a boyfriend. I was devastated when she told me that, but not for long because I knew in the back of my head by her actions something was holding her back. After that it became really hard for me to want to talk to her. I wish I didn't know. I really want to be there for her, but it's hard now I had to go and open my big mouth. I still have this mindset like she belongs with me. I have to restrain myself from saying things like that because I just don't want her to get all weirded out. Funny thing is I told myself a long time ago that an Aquarius is not the type I'm attracted to. Slap in the face by the universe. On top of it all I've never had a girlfriend before in my life. I guess I'm really picky.

      She's running around in my mind all day everyday.

      I don't know what to do I'm so lost but so happy I got to see this girl.

      I made the decision to just stop contacting her all together because I know she wouldn't notice anyways being so aloof and all.

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      Jay 4 months ago

      I'm a 23 year old Scorpio male, and I met this 25 year old Aquarius woman about a couple months ago. The first day I saw her I was already shakened up. I don't know why seeing her scared me but it did. I told myself I should avoid this woman at all cost, but her mind was on the opposite. She would come to say hi to me just about everyday we could see one another. The way she stared at me pulled me in her eyes are dangerous for me to look at, and she had her own natural scent Which is weird because I think I'm the only one that smells it. After a while our hi's turned into conversations and then me flirting with her and doing silly things to make her smile and laughter. Boy I can't get enough of that smile. Learned she was from another country overseas and so my nurturing side kicked in and me understanding how it feels to be alone I was always willing to help her anyway I can and still am. We exchanged numbers, and I would she her good morning texts often. I gave her the nickname gorgeous, I can tell she really likes it when I call her that. I would try to get her to hang out with me just grab a bite to eat, have some fun, you know young adult stuff, but she wouldn't budge. I would doubt sometimes if it's even worth the trouble with this girl because I knew from the get go we where different. One day I decided to open up just a bit to her and I told her I was atteacted to her and have been since we met. I then go on to say that I would like it if we could see if we can be more than just friends. She told me she thought I was a really sweet guy but she had a boyfriend. I was devastated when she told me that, but not for long because I knew in the back of my head by her actions something was holding her back. After that it became really hard for me to want to talk to her. I wish I didn't know. I still care and like her even though I really don't know a lot about her. I still have this mindset like she belongs with me. I have to restrain myself from saying things like that because I just don't want her to get all weirded out. Funny thing is I I told myself a long time ago that an Aquarius is not the type I'm attracted to. Slap in the face by the universe. On top of it all I've never had a girlfriend before in my life. I guess I'm really picky.

      She's running around in my mind all day everyday.

      I don't know what to do I'm so lost but so happy I got to see this girl.

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      Andrea Lawrence 4 months ago from Chicago

      Extra sensory perception. It can also mean telepathy.

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      Andrea Lawrence 4 months ago from Chicago

      Glad to know it helps.

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      HOT FIRE 4 months ago

      So true about Scorpio and Aquarius...1000000% true.

      I am Aquarius and I had patient to be with my Scorpio lover. My lover loves me and he yarns for me to be with him always he is so hungry to love me and please me always. He's hot as fire for me..haha Thanks for this amazing reading its so true.

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      Esb 4 months ago

      What does ESP mean

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      Andrea Lawrence 5 months ago from Chicago

      I'm excited for you! It may take time to work out the bumps on the way, but it'll be worth it.

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      Normascorpio 5 months ago

      Wow. I was looking for a more detailed description of my relationship with an Aquarius and boy did you hit it right on the bullseye. Your description of me is exact. And I wanted to learn more about him. And yes, if fact those are his desires for our relationship. He looks further within our future. And I'm very happy and afraid at the same time. But I plan on being patient and no sting him, as of now he's been nothing more than loving and caring. Thanks again for the inside view of an Aquarius. I know we'll be going for the long haul.

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      Deidra 5 months ago

      Hello,

      First of all, thank you for taking the time to write this article and for responding to all these posts. Your dedication to your followers is astounding! For 8 month you have read all of our questions and concerns and spent considerable time crafting deeply thought out responses (I know because I read every single one of them and have gained so much more knowledge from reading your responses to other people who have similar questions). My sincerest thanks on behalf of all of us who need your help!

      I am a Scorpio woman hopelessly into an Aquarius man. Through your response to Scorpio83, I learned that his aloofness through text is not uncharacteristic. Through your advice to many others, I am aware that communication is always key. I would still like to share my story and hear your thoughts, mainly for myself because I am a Scorpio on the cusp of transition from my immature to (hopefully) my mature self (took me long enough, I am 28 years old!). I met this Aquarius 2 months ago, he is a guest vocal coach for my chorus, I was IMMEDIATELY attracted to him. He isn't the typical picture of beauty, but his charisma can shake a building. My Scorpio sensuality managed to snag his attention and we have fantastic chemistry in that arena. He lives 2 hours away from me and leads an extremely busy life with two jobs that he is very committed to and an active social life. There isn't room for much more and he has told me that. He has also told me that he doesn't want to date someone in a chorus he instructs. However, he has told me that he enjoys spending time with me and would like to continue to do so. We text every day (though it isn't unusual for him to take 12+ hours to reply). Enough about him, let's talk about me! I feel fortunate to be sharing this experience with him because I have been raw and open and honest in a way I have never been with anyone else (and it hasn't scared him away, which is a real confidence builder for me!). I started our relationship with my sexuality, which I normally hide. I also communicate with him honestly about how I feel about him (another thing I don't normally do because I don't want to scare/ push people away). He has stood steadfast through this exploration of myself, which makes me appreciate him even more. I am learning to accept and embrace my insecurities while talking with him, since he often doesn't respond to my texts quickly and he often responds in ways that aren't what I was hoping for. I love everything that this connection with him is teaching me. I am battling my emotions for this Aquarius because I am afraid of getting hurt, since my feelings only continue to grow for him, while I am also truly enjoying every bit of the experience (the pleasure and the pain) and the opportunities I have found to explore myself and develop my maturity. What are your thoughts?

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      Annette 5 months ago

      Hi,

      I am an Aquarius woman with a huge conjunction so I am very Aquarius. I am in love with my second Scorpio and trying to navigate this. Maybe what I say will help some people. I am very sensitive and emotional once I am attached so I hesitate to get attached because it hurts. I have a large circle of friends but only few I am on terms with to be comfortable with on deep levels and feel understood.

      I was married to a Scorpio and we are friends now after some separation time. I feel I am drawn to them because even if I don't show it I am as intense in some ways as they are.

      With a Scorpio when it is great it is a fabulous mix of creative energy that goes deeper and deeper without boredom and I express my passion in so many ways freely and just keep expanding horizons for my man with the way I think and the gentle way I am always there even if I am busy or seem remote. We talk with eyes only very well.

      My new guy was a total whirlwind of every color imaginable and I love it. We both talked every day and had each other doing new things. I was happy and he was too.

      He plays control games :( My husband did too. I can handle a little of that but it sure ruins things to feel a struggle where there doesn't have to be one. I'm crazy about him, willingly loyal and devoted... Then he did some things to make me not sure about trusting him like flirt with my friend and make sure I see it. Some things I viewed as tests. Some things that felt like punishments :( He wants to bottom line control. I don't need to control as much as I need to not feel pushed and pulled etc...

      We had a fight. I went cold on him. Sometimes my silence is for me to process things and cool the emotions down so it doesn't get worse. He took it bad and did some stuff to hurt me which I took badly. We are now in a weird place. Some days I want to let it all go but I am not sure he will ever totally sever ties.

      What a shame all of this is and I crave him. Some uncertainty planted bad seeds. I don't know if we could go back to what we were when it felt like the world was ours. It's been 3 months. We talk a little. Sometimes it's bad but not always.

      His little maneuvers to make me jealous or see what I would do were an awful idea. Once I'm not sure if I believe in someone anymore it's hard to make it feel the same again. Advice?

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      Minettie 5 months ago

      Hey Andrea!

      I'm an aquarius and would love your opinion on what's been going on the past 5 years after my relationship with a scorpio ended. There is a sense of "destiny", but it seems so unreal...

      Please let me know**

      Kind regards

      Minette

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      Dexter 5 months ago

      I have been chatting with an Aquarius girl for almost 6 month we have a lots of up and downs, every time in between a conversation I fall for her. Most of the time we talk to much from morning to midnight and all of sudden she starts ignoring, ignoring not in sense like not talking to each other but like just giving simple answers like hmm, hahah, oki etc... need help buddy!!