Why Scorpio and Aquarius are Attracted to Each Other

Updated on July 6, 2016

Scorpio and Aquarius - A Powerful Match

If you are a Scorpio or Aquarius, or even a rookie in astrology, you've probably heard some of the rumors about this water sign meets wind sign pairing. A lot of astrologers will go on autopilot and tell you the best compatibility is when you have the same elemental sign, plus you should check out your charts. This is somewhat basic when it comes to astrology. Every combination has its unique offerings for a relationship, some less feasible (more challenging) than others. Scorpio and Aquarius are a powerful match, albeit if the two are not mature enough in who they are, it won't work so beautifully.

Aquarius is exactly what Scorpio wants and has always wanted. Aquarius will always be mysterious to Scorpio, which puts it in a perpetual spiral of being on the hunt. Scorpio is a strongly masculine sign, and loves to go after something it doesn't fully understand, and Aquarius is complicated enough to draw a Scorpio. The water sign unfortunately gets bored easily. Sometimes a pleasant match is too surface level for Scorpio -- this sign desires a great deal of complexity, paradoxes, and affection. Scorpio is like the pipe organ of emotions and thought. Scorpios are extremely powerful signs, but often misunderstood... and so they'll trail to the side and go on their own independent journeys. People don't always know what exactly a Scorpio is, so it'll fade from view without ever being fully realized.

But an Aquarius -- though it doesn't fully come right out admitting it -- fully and easily understands the Scorpio better than any zodiac. A mature Aquarius will know a Scorpio immediately just by the way a Scorpio uses its eyes to cut through titanium. No other sign has this intense of a stare. Scorpio is drawn to people who have 1.) a banging body and 2.) a charming personality. These are gifts the Aquarius often has and employs, with a fair amount of either introversion or introspection (perhaps both). Scorpio can't unravel an Aquarius like it can most signs. It sees that the Aquarius has more pure motives, a different range for ethics, and a massive capacity for love. Scorpio enjoys Aquarius, but it brings up a lot of insecurities for Scorpio. Can the Scorpio possibly win the heart of the person who wants to take care of everybody's hearts? How can the Scorpio, which can be the lowest of creatures -- win such a big heart?

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Both are the Phoenix and Made of Water

Scorpio feels awkward having to face its insecurities in the light of someone who is so lovely. Aquarius often shirks getting into relationships, sometimes delving into very independent phases and being void of sex. Aquarius gets called out for being both a virgin and having bisexuality, pansexuality, and straight edge sexuality. No one really knows how to label an Aquarius, especially when they are so private. They have a sexuality that is massively deep and insightful, and there are Aquarian types who really are protective and intuitive about their sexual life -- while some Aquarians are extraordinarily exploitative. Aquarius doesn't feel a lot of chemistry with many signs on a sexual level. It may feel chemistry, an amazing exchange of ideas or even compatibility, but having attraction... real, invasive thoughts that distract them -- is difficult to achieve.

The Scorpio is one of the few signs that can get inside an Aquarius' mind. They feel a certain chemistry with this sign that is absent in the other 11. Scorpio also finds something in Aquarius that others do not have. These two signs are like magnets and immediately connect well with each other, they want each other, and it's something about how they mix as fixed signs and their emotional palettes. I think the biggest hurdle for these two is that if they meet too soon, they won't have enough knowledge to understand each other. There is a certain amount of life fluency they need in order to bridge the gaps they'll have.

Scorpio is known for having a crazy amount of range to their emotions -- they're designated as having three different morphological cycles from the snake, the scorpion, to the phoenix. The other signs arguably have one totem. It's an automatically complicated sign, that other signs just don't have enough power in them to study. It's a sign that can easily go under the radar if you're not paying attention, which is silly because a Scorpio can change their mask, they are malleable, they can learn, and most importantly they can learn you.

They have busy minds, often easily getting distracted with too much noise, but they love deeply and loyally once they've found their match. They are deeply searching for the right person. They cut their loses because they believe so heavily in a soulmate. Regardless of whether they flat out say it or not, they are looking for a supernatural connection -- even if they can be grounded, at least in comparison to the Aquarius.

Aquarius can come off aloof to them, but Aquarius is like Jean Gray from the X-Men. She seems to be only present in thought, highly intuitive, quiet, and amazingly charming -- but she is the one who can unleash the Phoenix. She has a powerful amount of emotions locked up inside her heart, and she doesn't let it out easily, because it is like dynamite. Aquarians are powerfully emotional, that's why they are tied to the image of being water bearers. Yes, they can skate above the water all day long with beautiful thoughts, but they are also the water itself. They are spring wells of emotion, with astute emotional control. If there were an Olympics for emotional control, Aquarians would get all the gold medals. They have a relationship with emotion and thought that is difficult for many to read, and therefore Aquarians too are also seen as misfits, odd, and different Their high capacity for both thought and emotion makes them an odd duck that can make them difficult to understand, but they're usually so sweet that people accept them, unlike Scorpio who has a tendency to be brooding, grumpy, and dark. If you're a Harry Potter fan, think of the Slytherins. They get a bad reputation in the books, but in actuality they are great and must take responsibility for that greatness.

Scorpio and Aquarius get along because they are both odd, highly creative, and secretly emotional. They need to take things slow. Taking things slow is seriously the key to making this pair work. It's like a red velvet cake. Make sure to preheat the oven, follow all the steps, and make sure you have all the ingredients before you pop the pan into the oven. Otherwise, you'll end up with a gooey, inedible mess.

They can rush things by taking it physical, but they need to create a great deal of space, an entire grid if you will, to build trust and communication. This will take awhile, and for many they'll give up because this takes patience. But this pairing first needs to understand how to talk, which is going to take some time because they are so different and have to learn from each other. It's like a newborn learning how to talk -- think of it that way for this pair.

Aquarius can unravel itself slowly to Scorpio, which is what it needs. Aquarius needs private dates, away from the hustle and bustle because all the stimulus can distract it from its date... and Scorpio needs private dates because it needs a person all to itself. Scorpio needs that intimacy. Intimacy is what it really desires -- meaning your personal secrets, the story of you, and the story of where you are headed. You can't force the conversation with these two. They'll need to take their time. This may take two months of seeing each other or two years before really solidly deciding that you are in fact in a relationship.

Focus on Communication

Trust me when I say this, but Scorpio and Aquarius don't need to worry about who they are physically. Scorpio by its very nature is sexual. It's a sensual sign, with a vivid imagination. This sign likes moving to this direction because sex is a strong glue for discovering another person. Aquarius with its imagination easily makes strides in sex, which it knows and that is why for many they put off. They already in a sense understand it, and so it makes more sense for them to study other things. The two most single signs of the zodiac are Virgo and Aquarius. Scorpio on the other hand -- can be the loner, but it is greatly the mystique, the wellspring, and the initiator of relationships. Aquarius builds its social structure like a never ending ocean with friends across all genders, cultures, and species. Aquarius is a humanitarian and a social network godess; Scorpio is by instinct interpersonal. Scorpio is a sign that is built for making a family. It's one of the few signs to really charm and awaken an Aquarius. A Scorpio has strong staying power; it is loyal to the core, unless you show infidelity. An Aquarius needs someone who wants to stay, but struggles to find someone like that because they find more people just want to date several people, not just at once, but always. An Aquarius needs to feel special, it needs to feel wanted, it needs to ultimately feel like someone is consistent and will stay.

Now an immature Scorpio, will still have an exploratory phase before settling down. Scorpio is somewhat of an ass before giving away the quality it knows it must to have a relationship -- and that's its loyalty. The more a Scorpio shows how loyal it is, the more it will get to the Aquarius and its amazing emotional current. An Aquarius is powerfully objective, mysterious, and very Luna Lovegood -- which intrigues the Scorpio. A Scorpio likes both the calm Luna Lovegood side and the X-Men Phoenix side of an Aquarius. While the Aquarius loves the emotional-romantic side and dutiful side of the Scorpio.

It is never easy for these two to separate because they have ESP for each other. They know the connection when they come across it, and can latch onto each other with great intensity. To separate, especially for the Aquarius, means they'll have to go complete different ways in order to get over the other person. Also, the Aquarius will want all enough separation to prevent getting back with the Scorpio, because deep down they know they love them.

Combo is One of the Most Powerful

On some alchemical level, all relationship combinations are like a spell. You take one fire element and add it with the energy of an earth element and you have an end result. With a Scorpio and Aquarius equation you have a healing configuration. All water signs have some amount of healing and creativity to them. Aquarius is a brilliant thinker, with excessive creativity and intuition. When these two meet, they make for a cleansing, healing panacea -- or a tempest. All combinations have their healing and destructive powers -- this one either way is strong. There are 78 monogamous combinations. Polygamous combinations tend to be weaker because the power is not balanced.

A Scorpio can fixate on an Aquarius and help it to be more powerful. Scorpio is a magician, and often feels that the challenges around him or her are too dry. That many of the things around her are dull to a great extent, until an Aquarius steps into the world because an Aquarius is a visionary. The Scorpio helps makes the vision a reality, while Aquarius takes a dormant volcano (the Scorpio) and makes it a reality. These two can see their full potential in this relationship. They need to understand that they don't communicate like normal couples, nor should they. They're not like normal individuals either.

Scorpio needs an Aquarius which will gladly accept its affections. Aquarius needs a Scorpio to chase it... because Aquarius isn't a huge fan of chasing. It's an incredible and beautiful journey if done well, an amazing pairing. But for many, they jump into this stack of cards too early and too quick making for a great deal of frustration. Neither of these signs do well with zodiacs that are too simple for them nor are too controlling. They have to line up with each other naturally and with desire, else the structure will fall before it really had the chance to grow.

Why You Should Go For It

Embrace the calm of an Aquarius. The ease it has with life will match well with a Scorpio and its ever changing ways. The Scorpio is the most solid of the water signs, like ice. But it can drift into its liquid and gaseous state simply because it is the master of water, but a Pisces... will always be the light waters, and Cancer will always be the deep, troubled waters.

Scorpio can go anywhere there is emotion, and Aquarius can go anywhere where there is thought. The two together feel more complete, and feel more like they can share their personal stories. They're not exact mirrors, or even in the same states -- but they can explore each other and understand each other quite well. Don't force this kind of relationship -- if it isn't meant to be, then it is not meant to be. But when intellect and emotion try to replicate each other and understand each other, beautiful and crazy things can happen.

Notes for Scorpios

Aquarius doesn't always talk. This can be baffling since it is a wind sign. Sometimes the Aquarius just wants things to be quiet and will leave a lot of space and privacy for you to decipher. If an Aquarius spends consistent time with you, this is a major plus. You may find with an Aquarius that you are making all the moves, but remember them accepting your moves is also a move.

They'll slowly turn from gently holding your hand and letting you touch their hair to kissing you as they please, and for long bouts of time. This is a creature that sees far ahead into the future and loves to gather information effectively before making a decision. Don't let your insecurities drive them away, and make your insecurities clear and they'll do what they can to comfort you, because that's their instinct. They want things to work and they want things to be smooth, and they don't want to hurt you. But you are a Scorpio, and you have the power more so to hurt them, so be careful. Scorpios know how to sting, and stinging an Aquarius... will hurt them extensively. They really want to trust you. If you sting an Aquarius, they'll block you out of your life, which is exactly what you don't want. They won't block you as long as you don't sting them.

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        Shannon SCORPIO@69 24 hours ago

        Hello to all zodiac signs, I MUST SAY HAVING A RELATIONSHIP WITH A AQUARIUS, can be a little difficult, but dont go in something that not true an effective, time dont wait on, no one, Iove is a factor an a must for a SCORPIO, we dont like to hurt or get hurt ,we rather leave in defence , but at times an AQUARIUS dont relize they are going to be loved no matter what the situation is , they dont like to be wrong an cant wait to be right ,but always realize things when we apart , to late for comfort, time has plays apart, SCORPIO WOMAN LIKE ME , HAS TO BE EFFECTIVE, if I dont love , I dont like. There's not need to be ashame of the relationship, we thought we shared, get over it quickly or there never was a relationship in the first place, THE END IS THE END

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        Astro by masters 12 days ago

        Thank you so much for this great informative article! I love this blog. More information: Astroby masters

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        Andrea Lawrence 13 days ago from Chicago

        How people are going to relate to their parents isn't equivalent to how it works in romantic relationships. People often don't want the same energy as their parent.

        Aquarius has incredible focus, and if they want to hold a grudge, they could literally hold it forever. If they don't want to hold it, they can let it go. Aquarius is stubborn, like Scorpio. You describe Aquarius too shallow. They have a tenacity for moving forward in life, while also reflecting and being in tune with their inner child. They don't just move on.

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        Andrea Lawrence 13 days ago from Chicago

        I wish you all the luck of the stars. Thank you for the compliment of this being the best on the Internet. I couldn't stand that it didn't exist, and so had to write it.

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        Andrea Lawrence 13 days ago from Chicago

        Always like hearing it is accurate.

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        Jess 2 weeks ago

        Andrea, i replied to your email last summer asking if you think it's a good idea for these two to get married and have to deal with the intensity of the connection full time and also whether you married yours??? can scorpios really get beyond themselves and wanting to have a baby to focus on thinking about humanity and the future more?

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        Bunnxy 2 weeks ago

        How accurate and it blows my mind.

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        JustScorpio 3 weeks ago

        Laurence D. Fink, a scorpio, or the man who manage more money in the world. So all the world loves to trust the dishonest approach of a scorpio. I'd love to have a world full of Scorpios....

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        Omgirl 3 weeks ago

        As a 57 year old who has experienced many scorps in my life including my father, I can say that this pair takes a mammoth effort to get along. I admired from my father his ability to have amazing self control in adversity and he had an emotional depth and understanding. On the flip side he was sneaky on his sting. He despised my honest approach to situations. I loved him in the end but didn't have much in common. But what we did have in common, we were power houses. I felt even tho he outwardly didnt agree with my approach to things he inwardly had respect for my honest style. Business sense, he was wiser and smarter than me.

        I have always avoided scorpio as friend and lover. If someone said they were a scorp, that would just about end any further relationship, sorry to say. I can't deal with their head games, dishonest approach and having to figure out their myrid emotions. I work w a scorp woman, and we are on opposite ends. She runs hot cold (ick). As an Aquarius, we like to move and not get stuck in emotional garbage. We really don't hold grudges, we just want to experience the moment and move on. Scorp is way too intense and fixed for me. I also think Aquarius has a more positive, forgiving attitude. I am very private and admire that trait in scorp too, probably a key trait that initially brings them together.

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        Noel 4 weeks ago

        Im an Aquarius and I about 9 months ago got stung by a scorpio boy who i gave everything to for a yeah but still left me, i tried to worl things out recently and he just told me i was to much so yeah but this article was very insightful ane enjoyable to read very thankful for it

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        Dave 4 weeks ago

        As a Scorpio I have always avoided Aquarians as we didn't ostensibly read as a match. One found me and piqued my interest...and now we are a couple....

        What I have just read above totally translates.... you have written about us. Thank you.

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        Damon 4 weeks ago

        @OneScorpio

        Alright.

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        OneScorpio 4 weeks ago

        @Damon

        I found one day a wonderful picture on google: how evil is your signs?

        Scorpio: actually not evil but everyone thinks they are,

        Aquarius: satan!!

        Just think how much she was loving you after breaking the relationship for a "small" (small) argument. For me, as Scorpio, never again with an Aquarius, I don't regret that decision of not having contacts anymore with Aquarius because that means to be a "phoenix". Spreading the good in the world, not the evil!!!

        Do you like satan (you can google it and you find the picture...)? Pisces, Cancer and Virgo are the powerful match for Scorpios, 100% real life experiences..

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        Damon 4 weeks ago

        Yeah I have to somewhat agree with you, @OneScorpio. However we are not young nor was she naive but she was a fairy tale. She was a fairy tale I wouldn't mind re-reading even though I know it does have a happy ending. And her love was without conditions until I introduce them (i.e picking between me or her friends.) Which was just a small part of an argument that just got out of hand. Wish I'd known beforehand how fixated two fixed signs can be in their own individual opinions. Gosh, we're stubborn. Maybe this relationship was just an aid in getting me to become "the phoenix" or whatever us Scorpios are supposed to develop into.

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        Ami Washington 5 weeks ago

        First thing, an incredible compatibility article of these 2 signs. Best on the World Wide Web. Thank you for sharing.

        Secondly, but not last...Inlove with a Scorpion man. Wish me luck. I'm going to need it.

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        Jamiyla Ferguson 5 weeks ago

        I have to agree with this post and looking at Andrea Lawrence responses to those leaving comments is just spot on. Im an Aquarius woman with Taurus moon and I was dating a Sagittarius man with a Scorpio moon. I'm lost for words if i'm honest. But its very true in regards to a scorpio not speaking and leaving me incredibly anxious to a point you feel to drift away because of uncertainty. I wish i came across this article a lot earlier and others.

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        OneScorpio 5 weeks ago

        @Damon "Considering all the friends she had she was very lonely". All the young Aquarius behave in that way, they don't know the difference between a strong relationship and a weak relationship, they have so so so many friends but they often miss the real connection with them so they feel lonely.

        We, Scorpio have only real connections, I can trust the people around me bindly and I don't give my support for free. My friend and my family know how hard was to get my support (extremely hard) but every day I see in their eyes that they're proud of having me.

        Most Aquarius behave in that way in the young years, they don't know what they want and often they can't take the opportunities life gives or keep people really important for them. Not only, an old Scorpio doesn't believe to the fairytale of an Aquarius because it's not a love without conditions. They make you think it's a love without conditions but then, you have conditions and the biggest condition is Aquarius won't never have commitment in the relationship (and it's not her fault, it's how she's made, totally the opposite of Scorpios who can give their life for his woman because we have devotion to people, to work, to the world). Give you time, a lot of time to think about what's going wrong but I'm sure nothing went wrong, except you're a Scorpio, she's Aquarius. You want to build a strong world around you with your love, some Scorpio build companies with their loves, Aquarius is totally the opposite. Aquarius hate commitment, we love commitment. And what you miss is not her but the thoughts she make you believe in. It was a wonderful dream, it's time to wake up, brother..

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        Damon 5 weeks ago

        This article is pretty spot on. I'm a Scorpio guy who had the wonderful chance of courting and dating an Aquarius woman. After much chasing and courting I finally caught her; if only for a moment. Even though her airiness eventually sent her away from me. For a brief moment I, a Scorpio had the love of my life. I would say the most surprising thing about Aquarius women is their massive capacity for love without conditions. They are so friendly and distant until one day they just aren't and without really saying it directly they just choose you. When my Aquarius finally stopped running from the idea of "us" and gave up just a little of her independence she showed me the sweetest love I have ever known. The water barriers love flows just like water. Her love was fluid and filled up any flaws I had in myself. The water barrier is known as the servant of the Gods of Olympus. True to nature an Aquarius woman's love makes any man she chooses to love feel like they too are a God. Being with an Aquarius woman was unlike any other sign I've dated. It was like dating the bad ass, go getter, mysteriously charming, version of a Pieces. My Aquarius woman revealed to me parts of her she never showed the world. She was like a magician or entertainer. She could socialize with anyone and make a friend in a second. But behind the act was a very thoughtful and loving woman. I think my Aquarius choose me because I grounded her. I was attentive to her needs. I was not like the people she socialized with and entertained. Those people took from her always pulling her into their interpersonal drama. They were always calling her asking for advice needing her as their second opinion on their latest love drama. My poor Aqua was always willing to help them. Rarely did she remember to take time for herself. It's interesting to see the behind the scenes of such a popular person as her. Considering all the friends she had she was very lonely. Often feeling that no one understood her. I made the mistake that broke us apart when I asked her choose between me or her friends. I wanted her to be more private like me. I didn't like her going out so much. It became a big argument and neither of us would back down until finally, like she had never been there at all she left. Totally ghosted me! If her friends didn't still post weekend getaway photos of them together on FaceBook I would think she had never existed in the first place. I miss my Aqua girl terribly but I am too proud or dumb :D to reach out to her again.

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        Lex E. 5 weeks ago

        This pairing has the HOTTEST sex I've ever experienced. I am an Aquarius with a Scorpio moon. My partner is a Scorpio with an Aries moon. We balance each other out perfectly but when there is lots of friction between us it can bubble over into heavy makeup sex.(Not that I'm complaining.) We don't talk much which often confuses other couples however my partner and I realized we don't talk much because we communicate so much with just one look. My Scorpio often says to me that people normally feel intimidated by a Scorpio's gaze but my partner thinks an Aquarius has an even more intense gaze. My partner thinks Aquarius eyes are so unreadable but also pure and mysterious. Often he'll just stare deep into my eyes. Sometimes he does it just because other times I can feel him searching for something in my eyes. My Scorpio thinks I can literally read his mind whereas I feel like he can read my emotions. We just get each other in ways that are unexplainable. Just saying to anybody who feels these signs are incompatible there are over 300 comments on this article which mind you was written over a year ago. If you're unsure of this pairing take a chance it can be completely worth it.

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        Dia 5 weeks ago

        I LOVE YOUR ARTICLE!!! I'm an Aquarian woman 52, intrigued by a Scorpio male 41. Although we have not met in person, your article is dead on as far as the attraction, conversation, & intensity. However, after weeks of talking on the phone, FaceTiming & texting, we were finally going to meet face to face. Then nothing...gone. I've tried to reach out to him with absolutely with no reply whatsoever. What happened?? Of course I have, being the Aquarian that I AM (LOL), analyzed every aspect of our conversations, texts, etc., & I am lost. It has been two weeks of nothing from him. I just pray he's okay. I should probably call this a loss huh?

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        Wilda Nora 6 weeks ago

        I'm a Scorpio woman that was with an Aquarius guy but it did not work out. I was loyal and patient. But he was distant and always had thoughts of me being unfaithful. He was also very selfish, abusive, and demanding. One thing I've transformed into while being in the relationship is becoming a Phoenix. Best of all, I found God and have three children of ours to raise on my own. It's a blessing.

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        Sophie Darling 6 weeks ago

        I am an aquarius 27 and im dating a scorpio man who is 13 years older, hes handsome mature and well shaped. However he pretty much did take it slow with me, he likes me alot but wants to becareful, i can just see it. Hes masculine on the surface but i can see layers of emotions too, curiousness & suspicion but i dont mind bcs i dont play games. I like it because i know he can treat me like a queen which is lovely & i myself will shower him with affection. Its beginning stages atm and things are going slow, too slow lol but i can wait but i am excited. He makes me laugh cant believe how goofy he can be. I cant stop thinking about him, i am emotional when i have feelings for someone, and you have to be special in this case. But still i want to remain objective and control these feelings. What gets under my skin of how wrong people can be about who i am which i dont relate to at all. Of all the articles about aqua woman and scorps man, this is accurate.

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        Andrea Lawrence 6 weeks ago from Chicago

        Aquarius is not as analytical and left brained as you are describing. Aquarius types actually have huge emotions, which is partly what draws them to water signs. They have the keen ability to focus on whatever they want and not allow their emotions to distract them. But an Aquarius will be moved to tears and overwhelmed if there is enough stress and heartache. Aquarius types are creative partly because of their access to their emotions. Only seeing them as analytical and logical isn't going to paint a very true portrait of the Aquarius. This is a sensitive type who has strong empath abilities, while also being able to balance it with their keen focus. Aquarius often want to detach so they're at a comfortable distance from their emotions without those ruining a good thing. Aquarius gets attracted to Scorpio so frequently because of the way the Scorpio pulls them out of their shell -- but things often get cut short before the Aquarius fully reveals itself. And these long essays coming out of the Aquarius are often fueled by strong emotions, emotions the Aquarius might not have realized it had.

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        Andrea Lawrence 6 weeks ago from Chicago

        !!!!!!!!!

        Scorpio danger alert! See him a few times in person before you have sex. Yes, Scorpio will have sex without leading to anywhere. He might just want you for sex. It's weird if someone hasn't met you face to face and is saying this stuff.

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        Np 8 weeks ago

        These signs are physically and mentally atracted to each other. Emotions are dealt with in opposite ways so a love relationship is a no no. Its like seeing someone so interestingly different. Its not that they dont agree on anything no matter how big or small but they have a way of aproaching it thats so not thought of from the other persons point of view. Aquarius is too prideful and kind to admit defeat. Scorpio does not know how to let go easily and is too loyal. I am a scorpio male who likes aquarius women but am smart or experien ed enough to know its superficial and deepnes and intimacy will be a major issue.

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        JonesBlueGrass 2 months ago

        “Don't fall in love with the moment and think you’re in love with the person.”- 1975

        I don't know if these signs together should act on their magnetic attraction all the time. In my opinion these two signs need to let this "thing" (instant attraction) burn out on its own. I've witnessed these two signs come together too soon or too quickly and it resulted in pain and heartache for both parties, but maybe more so for the Aquarius. The Aquarius will be in more pain because when an Aquarius is hurt emotionally they will think and rethink about what they are feeling in logical manner. The Aquarius is more likely to write long essays in its mind about how it feels rather than cry about it . These are the times when conversational Aquarius will be mute. This sign does quite know how best to articulate what they are feeling. Aquas hate to blab about nonsense or not have a strong stance on their own opinion so rather be a burden to others they stay silent. A recovering Aqua will replay certain interactions with Scorpio in its mind to better understand from a logical point what happened and where it went wrong. Think of a mathematician arriving to the end of an equation only to realize the value of x did not balance the equation so they are left searching for their error. Aquarius is confident in many ways but in a love pairing as intense as this one an Aquarius fumbles like a child. The other major downside is all this thinking will take a toll on the Aquas health. When Aquas reflect deeply on emotional matters they become very distant and retreat to their quarters to consider everything. A recovering Scorpio will retreat into its dungeon as well and like an Aquarius the Scorpio will replay their interactions. However unlike logical Aquarius the Scorpio will go through a multitude of emotions when reflecting. Scorpio has a tendency to heighten its emotions to epic proportions which sometimes can result in emotional displacement. All this brooding can lead Scorpio to become more emotionally charge towards Aquarius. This is a dangerous stage for both signs to be in because it is when both signs might try to rekindle there "failed" romantic pursuit. (Follow the metaphor for a second would ya?) Ex: The reason it is a dangerous stage is because Scorpio has been away to itself “emotionally masturb-ing” about everything it just experienced with Aquarius. (This not a sexual thing it's just a metaphor for how Scorpio replay interactions with Aquarius. A Scorpio not only replays the conversation but the emotion that was felt during that conversation.) So we got Scorpio over here emotionally masturb-ing and what is Aquarius doing you ask? Well Aquarius is doing the one thing they do best, thinking! What are they thinking about you ask? Scorpio. So when finally one of them breaks this trap and reaches out to the other they are in a vulnerable state. If it is Scorpio that reaches out to Aqua then Aqua would have been thinking about Scorpio and may foolishly consider rekindling their romance. If it is the Aquarius that reaches out to Scorpio then Scorpio deep in the heat of emotional displacement might leap back into Aquarius' arms thinking this is love. With one sign deeply thinking about the other and the other sign deeply feeling they might think they should come back together without considering if that is truly the best choice for them. To quickly summarize these two must take it VERY slow should they pursuit each other. With such different minds and morals and both having fixed energy it can be hard to tell when to pursue each other, when to stay away, when to call it quits and when to know yeah I do love this mofo and its rocky but they are without a doubt the only one.

        I hope these ramblings are somewhat understandable. Cheers, darlings.

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        Anika11 2 months ago

        I am an aquarius girl who met a Scorpio guy on social media about 10 months ago..I was instantly attracted towards him and within a few months we starting flirting n stuff..we made a plan to meet but he never turned up and said it happened due to miscommunication..after which he said that he wants to have sex with me..I asked him for committment for which he said let’s go with the flow and see how things work out..we have never met till now but on an emotional level we know everything about each other and he tells me about his whereabouts and discusses everything with me..If I don’t talk to him for 1-2 days then he will ping himself..I don’t know if he has feelings for me..if yes, then what is the harm in expressing those and even if it is a no then also he should clearly tell that to me..or is he simply interested to have sex with me so he is keeping me hanging??

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        Andrea Lawrence 2 months ago from Chicago

        The problem for a lot of Scorpio and Aquarius relationships is they end up misunderstanding each other. Scorpio shouldn't focus only on their self and cut out Aquarius -- that's the worst route to take. Work toward figuring out what is the misunderstanding and how miscommunication is happening. Aquarius may overwhelm with how many words they offer, but Aquarius gets anxious because Scorpio doesn't speak enough. Scorpio needs to speak clearly and speak to the quirks of the Aquarius. And Aquarius is a very masked individual because so many people have dropped them because of their eccentricities, which you probably find magnetic.

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        Andrea Lawrence 2 months ago from Chicago

        Reach out to the Aquarius. Keep it light and friendly. Aquarius hate to lose people in their life. It sounds like you guys had a miscommunication and you're not really sure what happened. Send her some words. Remember, Aquarius is an air sign. Communication is their ace. She may have a billion different words going through her brain. A strong Scorpio can say -- I would like to her all the words going through your brain. It might exhaust you, Scorpio. But Aquarius figure out this world through their language.

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        Andrea Lawrence 2 months ago from Chicago

        Music is an excellent connection for Scorpio and Aquarius types to jive.

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        Andrea Lawrence 2 months ago from Chicago

        It is fascinating, isn't it, that this astrology thing with Scorpios and Aquarius types has happened so frequently?

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        Andrea Lawrence 2 months ago from Chicago

        I have not been keeping track of how often these relationships happen and how successful they are, but I can say I have seen it workout several times.

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        Andrea Lawrence 2 months ago from Chicago

        Whole books could be dedicated to the complexity of Scorpio and Aquarius. I'm still amazed at how these two fall in love.

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        Cm 2 months ago

        @ Elscorpio. You're welcome. Happy to share. I didn't take it that you were cocky or immature more so confident, and there's no shame in being confident.

        @ Scorpig85. Sounds to be you have another intense connection. Where do I begin with Aqua's? It very much could be a case of her healing or simply being freaked out by the commitment proposition encroaching on her independence. I can only speak for myself but I do hold dear the true loves I've experienced.

        I don't think there's anything wrong with reaching out, just ensure you remain objective, no expectations then you can't lose. From my own experience I feel these love connections are there to teach you a lot about yourself and that happiness must come from within.

        I wouldn't want to keep you in the reassurance stage as that's not healthy, but I do know this from my own interactions with Scorpio men, you leave an incredible impression, at the same time though as I said to Elscorpio, honour you and what's best for you and don't lose sight of that. It has to be even in give and take.

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        Scorpig85 2 months ago

        @cm or anyone out there

        you mentioned that "Aqua's lost in thoughts, feelings are foreign. Encompassing emotions into complex psyches means work time away. We just have stuff to work out. The confusion you sense may be the confusion she has within herself and needs to work on sorting out who she really is."

        My question is will it take a long time for Aquas to 'move on' from a previous broken relationship that hurt them alot? Especially one that lasted very long (5-10) years.

        My story with the Aqua gal - I thought she had 'moved on' especially telling me she was not seeing anybody and the way she sounded was all cool when I met up with her. Every since I told her what I felt about her and told her my intentions of having a relationship, and also given that the previous breakup was recent (less than a year), she 'disappeared' which I think now deep inside her her heart might really be broken and hurting still. Is this what you call the 'work time'? I haven't reached out to her for months and don't know if I should at the moment and just give her time - she did say she needed some time in some indirect way. Don't know whether to give her the away time or still reach out. I know I felt something between us but it feels like she doesn't care about me atm. =(

        So I'm really thinking of perhaps just moving on with my own life, but sort of wait for her unless fate or destiny shows me another Aqua or girl.

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        Elscorpio 2 months ago

        @CM thank you so much for sharing. Everything you have shared is meaningful and positive.

        I think when I said win I realise now how immature and cocky that may come across but what I really meant is I work hard to get what I want and often achieve success. I don’t half ass something I am passionate about.

        It is hard to let go but I need to at least for now. I would never say never however and you are spot on about using music as an outlet it makes for some bitersweet material.

        Again thanks for taking the time! I really appreciate it!

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        Cm 2 months ago

        @Elscorpio. I'm happy you didn't take it that way as I wouldn't want to encourage something that would prolong discomfort for a person.

        So wonderful you heard from your Aqua. I appreciate what you mean in the sense the connection is there, you're close but perhaps still sensing that Aqua detachment and aloofness from her. I don't doubt she is missing you. Commitment of any kind is a struggle and takes time for some Aqua's, sometimes it's best us Aqua's go on that path alone to mature.

        That would be really difficult to have had that time with her, strengthening that bond to have her not continue with a romantic relationship but exchange gestures. Do you think you would feel ready to ask her about this? You're intelligent and have your own extraordinary life too so make sure you're not unconsciously holding yourself back. Get clear with yourself about what you want, as I said if you're happy with how things are with her that's cool, if you want a relationship with her / others you may need to detach from her to change focus and let her know why.

        Yes it is confusion. I say about myself I'm sometimes airy fairy :) you need someone with two feet in the earth here with you.

        It would be hard as a Scorpio, a being so loving and so much in feeling to let go of something special, but connections always remain they just change form, and sometimes they leave for something even better to come in.

        I'm sure you do win ;) and I have faith for you that you will one day win very soon with the perfect partner. Yeah it is life it's the journey, it's growth and so much more. . .

        I also thought of the fact you mentioned you're a musician - if your inclined to arts as well it may be a good outlet for you to help even your emotions out especially if you feel overwhelmed by it, anything different to change up the energy. Hope that makes sense. Stay strong.

        Btw I'm an Aquarius sun, Scorpio Moon, Scorpio South node with all of the emotions of a Scorp, but air of an Aqua. Lol bipolar much :)

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        rockerchic7667 2 months ago

        I am an Aquarius woman and I attract Scorpio men, like flies. We have such a powerful chemistry a d the sex is amazing that Ive had with a Scorpio man. They say us Aquarians arent sexual, but we are, we just need more mental stimulation and let the games ir role playing begin in the bedroom. The problem I have with Scorpio men is that they want me sexually and are possesive of me yet do not want a relationship. However I am quite older than my 2 Scorpio past lovers, yet they always come back to me.I was recently seperated it was durin . 3 year period the first a year a d the second over 2 years, but it hasnt moved to a level that I need, see when I give my body to someone I give a peice of my soul too and Im not find of giving that much of myself without it leading to some sort of relationship. I have never made either one feel bad, found out my first one is engaged to be married and I dont beleive in hurting other woman , but here he is 2 years later still reaching out to me when he is in a committed relationship, and I dont like to be used. We were involved in a Dominant/submissive relationship and his woman who he is engaged to doesnt partake in that. I said to him , how are you entering into a long term relationship with someone that you cant be who you are sexually ? You should be with someone who shares all your sexual fantasies. So I don't thinkI will enter back into this with him, because its not fair to me, to meet his sexual fantasies but nothing else commitment wise. I deserve it all, I was married 25 years faithfully to one man a Libra who never matched me sexually or had what I had with my 2 Scorpio lover's. As a Aquarius woman if you treat her as someone on a shelf that you can come back to when the mood suits you, you will never win her heart or get her Goddess like sexual ways, you must earn her trust first

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        AquaGuy19-4 2 months ago

        @AquaGal1998 ...I can’t believe how similar your story is to my situation. One difference though is “we” have a significant age difference. Otherwise everything you’ve said is so identical to my situation. I don’t have any great solutions for you but it’s nice to know someone else can’t get a Scorpio out of their mind. It is driving me crazy yet I can’t walk away. I hate that but I am so hooked on her. Still I feel hopelessly frustrated by my Scorpio. What can I do. Good luck to both of us.

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        OneScorpio 2 months ago

        @ElScorpio Aquarius girls are special, amazing and they deserve the best man in the world. But ElScorpio, Aquarius girls are so special because they have the power (a beautiful power, thank you world for the Aquas) to bring you inside their world and it's just like living a fairytale. We, Scorpios, are so grounded that when we see the fairytale she lives, we don't know anymore where we are, is it still life, is it real, are we death? It's like a symphony, who doesn't love a beautiful symphony? But... ElScorpio think!! There is nothing more fascinating than to understand an Aquarius mind, it really makes you better... Your first challenge is not "winning", it's to learn to not hear a symphony but to make yourself the symphony you want to be.. Bye :)

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        Scorpig85 2 months ago

        Hey fellow guy scorps and all others reading the thread and contributing,

        I've been a lurker (Guy Scorp btw) constantly looking for updates on this page in this thread and what you Scorp guys just discussed has been really good advice for me. The phrase 'windy words', 'words without action are just words', 'live on the ground ' really hit the nail on the head.

        Obviously I am also entangled with an Aqua gal which has kind of stalled and I think both of us are confused as well. But yeah I got to say this Aqua gal I've got my sights on is just soooo special, it is the most intense of all the girls I've met. We're both musicians btw like @Elscorpio.

        I just want to say thank you for all the Aqua gals writing about their experiences here. It really has helped me and given me some insight. And also thank you @Andrea Lawrence, for doing this write up!

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        Elscorpio 2 months ago

        @CM no problem I wasn’t taking it as you saying I should wait. Just nice to hear another female Aquas viewpoint.

        I spoke to my aqua friend today and it was good we had a decent chat. I told her I had been missing her and she said she was missing me to. Plenty of back and forth but my gut feeling is that I am close but no cigar. I mean a lot to her but not enough and that’s fine.

        I know she’s a very intelligent girl and she knows how I feel about her as we spoke about it before she left which is why i have found some of her comments and gestures more confusing I wouldn’t say she’s mislead me at all but she seems very calculated and wouldn’t say anything without thought and she has said things that keep hope alive.

        I agree with OneScorp on the she is confused comment and there really is no point chasing confusion.

        It’s hard to let someone special go and being a Scorpio I like to win and often do (usually it’s easy too) not this time tho and that’s life what a joy it is!

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        Cm 2 months ago

        @ Elscorpio, happy it helped. It's important to also mention I wasn't encouraging you to wait for her.

        I agree to focus on you and your path, honour your feelings and your boundaries. Your needs first. If you're happy with continuing the communication with how it is that's up to you but it has to be even in give and take.

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        Elscorpio 2 months ago

        @Cm thanks for your kind words. Your post sure does help me understand!

        @OneScorpio I feel you are correct. As hard as it is to swallow. I just need to focus on myself and move on. I find it hard when I get the I miss you stuff coming through I suppose I just have to keep in mind words without action are just words.

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        OneScorpio 2 months ago

        @ElScorpio Keep focusing on your life, don't allow yourself to to be kind and try to help her to understand her thoughts.

        You love that girl because she is hard to understand, it's like a challenge and we love challenges.

        But she is NOT a challenge, she is a confused woman and it's a BIG difference. You can solve a business challenge but you can't solve a confused mind.

        Forget her and move on to find a woman that knows what there is in her mind.

        I wasted three months of my time and it's my all responsibility because I was dumb, really really so dumb. I went through a criminal procedure due to the actions of an Aquarius woman and especially due to me being dumb.

        Aquarius women live their life in her confused mind, we live on the ground and her words about listening your music and all those stuff are only windy words.

        Find the woman who knows what there is in her mind, this is the best advice I can give you.

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        Cm 2 months ago

        @ Elscorpio. Your story is so touching and you sound like a precious soul. As a female Aqua I can tell you your Aqua would be missing you. We're not the complete ice queens people make us out to be, but busy in thought and from my own experience with a Scorpio I used to work with, the connection awakens the emotional level even more within us sending our thoughts on a spin. It's hard for us to give up our independence but it doesn't mean we don't care or feel for you. I miss my Scorpio every day and when he moved area's I went home and cried - although remained composed in front of him.

        Every connection is different and so are Aqua personalities but it appears that Aqua's are so much in thought our feelings are somewhat foreign to us. Encompassing emotions into our very complex and intense psyches sometimes means work time away on the self. It doesn't mean we don't love or miss you any less. We just have stuff to work out. The confusion you sense may be the confusion she has within herself and needs to work on sorting out who she really is. Our thoughts are all over the place all the time so it's very hard to ground, we are like the wind. Scorpio is so grounded and on an emotional level which may be why an Aqua is hard to read for you.

        I feel it's still a special connection though. I think my Scorpio is beautiful, intelligent, and different from the norm and I'm sure your Aqua feels the same about you. We sometimes have difficulty knowing how to express it whether that be love, admiration or anything else.

        I hope that helps, and I wish you all the best with it all x

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        Elscorpio 3 months ago

        Hey just curious how many cases of this Scorpio/Aquarius attraction you know of to be true in your personal experience?

        I find everything you have said to more or less be spot on. Just curious as to if you have seen many cases personally.

        Also an update my Aquarius friend that moved states has now mentioned a few times how she’s been listening to my music and said she wishes she could be there with me watching me play (tends to come out after some drinks) I suppose this is a positive sign she at the least misses me?

        I only question the obvious at times because I find her so hard to read and so confusing. She really has got in my head. Infuriatingly magnetic!

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        Andrea Lawrence 3 months ago from Chicago

        I wish you well in finding someone who will be with you. There are ways to do meditation to stop having dreams about ghosts from the past, not literal ghosts but connections and so forth.

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        Andrea Lawrence 3 months ago from Chicago

        No, this is not M Rags. Aquarius and Scorpio relationships are often eerily similar.

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        Eagle 3 months ago

        No. Aquarians age oddly. They are just odd. Oddities are common enough, somewhat interesting and then, just boring.

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        Drew 3 months ago

        To Anonymous I'm a Scorpio guy and there's an Aquarian girl that I work with. Whom I stare at alot, she makes me lost for words. It's hard for me to break in to a personal lol. Your story sounds like mine .... M Rags is that you?

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        Anonymous 3 months ago

        I’m an Aquarius girl and there is this Scorpio guy 2 years elder at work and who stares a lot like the hypnotising stare.

        I was quiet uncomfortable at first but started to get addicted to his attention and Gentleness and jealousy!

        I felt he could communicate with my soul through my eyes.

        Although he disappeared for some days and I felt a huge void in me and a lot of disturbance.

        I am not sure if he likes me to the extent that I do and I have a feeling he is not looking for a mature and committed relationship.

        ps: we haven’t spoken to each other although his voice got shivery when I once went with my friend to his workstation who wanted to ask him a work related query.

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        ScorpioG 3 months ago

        I had a fling with an Aquarius man a while back, and this was pretty accurate for us. It started out small, slowly built up, and we had a brief moment of bliss before our short comings got in the way. Once that happened, I knew he would shut me out forever, so I let him go.

        3 years later. I've just come across another Aquarius man today, and I felt an instant heat. Like you say, I was drawn to their banging bod and charming personality at first... but I like that I can't quite read them as well.

        I know I'll have to chase him, but let him come to me in the end. I'll need to show him consistency and affection without burning him with my intensity. I'll need to go slow, to shift between steam, water, and ice until I find the river of communication to his heart... But that the magic is in the journey. That slow bloom.

        I've already made a move, so we'll see :)

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        3 months ago

        I'd like to thank you for writing this! The entire time I was reading this I was thinking "OH MY GOD FINALLY SOMEONE GETS IT" I've been scouring the internet for any info on this Aquarius/Scorpio match.

        I'm an Aqua girl who had an intense connection to a Scorpio years back. I was completely confused as to why I was attracted to him, but now I understand. I always thought I was crazy for feeling like we could communicate though eye contact, but now it makes sense that our signs have ESP.

        We had explosive, almost supernatural, chemistry. Unfortunately we were both immature when we met, and fate separated us before we could pursue an actual relationship. It's been years and I still constantly have vivid dreams about him. Sigh, it breaks my heart because I know we could've been amazing together.

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        Andrea Lawrence 3 months ago from Chicago

        So glad to hear this helped.

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        Andrea Lawrence 3 months ago from Chicago

        Ah, I'm so sorry this is happening to you. The best thing to do is not react negatively. Still calm and positive, and don't lash out. Aquarius may have some strange idea in their head, and a breakup might let them really know whether they have genuine feelings for you or not. It's not about the physical -- it's their emotions. They're not sure how well those are clicking, and they didn't want to string you along. Best case scenario they realize they do have emotions for you. So be kind to them, if you can. Try not talking to them for the next few days. Let them come to you to talk. Check out https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/

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        Andrea Lawrence 3 months ago from Chicago

        Oh my goodness! Thank you for the recommendation. I'm a fan of Asian dramas, so I'll add this to my list.

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        Yamini 3 months ago

        Thanku soooo much for sharing this Information.... Thanks a lot really..... This info really mean to me.... Thanku one again

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        Sbanna 3 months ago

        My aquarius treated me like always like the queen of his universe on Friday we wvwn made plans to be togerher sunday then sunday I got I don't have feelings for you anymore and he took me home." We should be friends for awhile." He said I naturally took it horribly. Haven't talked to him in days I doubt he even misses me like I miss him. Feel like somethings missing like a big hole. Every memory hurts because I've never had someone look at me like I'm amazing or hold me all night like he did. Just don't know what to do :/

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        Scorpio 3 months ago

        Thank you so much for your article...

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        O_O 3 months ago

        You know there are two main characters in a Chinese Drama called Ten Miles Peach Blossoms - Eternal Love that can definitely describe what an Aquarius and Scorpio combo look like :) I thought this godly couple is an great example! The young Aquarius man I totally dig makes me want to do fun wonderful things to him. When I think of him, I think of fun ideas :)

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        Alexis 3 months ago

        Many good points in this article! Issue I have is that Aquarius, though they want to save the world, they lack emotional depth for those close to them. I see through their BS each and every time, especially the ones that possess quite a lot of air in their chart. They are very detached people. I don't even need to see their chart, I can perceive it once any interaction has begun. I am a Scorpio with both Leo and Scorpio in key areas within my planets. Aquarius is in my 7th House so the qualities of that sign would be describe a partner I could be happy with. But a REAL Aquarius cannot be trusted. Anyone with significant amounts of Aquarius within their chart or air for that matter could never truly satisfy a Scorpio. Trust is what releases us to let people into our world. In the end we need the deepest of emotional connections to feel free to express our love and stay committed in that love. An Aquarius does not understand love in this way. One exception I can see is if the Aquarius has water in key areas of his/her chart. If that's in place the match could be wonderful indeed!

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        Arveen gill 3 months ago

        Thank you this helped me so much. I have a friend that I like and he is a aquarius and I am a Scorpio so it is great to find all of this detail.❤️

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        Andrea Lawrence 4 months ago from Chicago

        Maybe subconsciously. Aquarius are meant to be authentic people. They don't put up with manipulation. Now, they can have walls up around them making it hard for them to trust others.

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        Andrea Lawrence 4 months ago from Chicago

        Accurate.

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        Andrea Lawrence 4 months ago from Chicago

        That seems like a wise plan. I wish you only the best. You seem like a decent, kind person. Good things will come your way.

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        Andrea Lawrence 4 months ago from Chicago

        He has other priorities since he is married to someone else now. This isn't going to happen. You need to start working on getting over him.

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        Andrea Lawrence 4 months ago from Chicago

        I think he's too young and isn't ready to commit as seriously as you are wanting him to commit. He doesn't seem to have the time nor the resources to make a connection work. He is still figuring himself out. Stay positive toward him and be a good friend, but don't expect him to come running to you.

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        ahquariaun 4 months ago

        @scorpiowoman being an aquarian, we do not "test" but rather feel out a situation. If we are hurt, which is very easily done, we recede. That is our test. Loyalty is greatly important to us, once we decided to be loyal to something. Deep within we want to be with just one and only loving one and sharing the depth of our nature with one. It may appear differently, but that is only our persona. Not our wholeness.

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        Scorpiowoman 4 months ago

        I have a secret crush on a aquarius woman who's 3 years older than me. Right now we are friends. I wonder if aquarius test ppl too? To see if they can trust you.

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        EagleScorpio 4 months ago

        @Mona Scorpions didn't leave without a reason and he left for a clear reason: to find the right woman to marry and build a future with her. He answered because we are kind and we think you deserve your answer but then, it was way too much for him because he is married and when a scorpio is married, all his love is for her, only for her. One day you will understand that he respected your time, he was clear and Scorpions always go ahead in life, never back. You torture yourself because you don't accept that he found his woman. I wish you a happy life, because wishing the best to others is our second skin. With love.

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        Elscorpio 4 months ago

        I have probably know her for a year. But a majority of that time we fell distant until the months mentioned. We are still in contact and it seems to be picking up more again. I have felt that I should let her settle into her new life and after putting my feelings out there and being rejected I would let the dust settle a bit.

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        Mona 4 months ago

        We had a brief relationship of 4 months and then he left, next we hardly spoke in 2 years. Came to know he got married, he is a Scorpion and am an Aquarian by birth. Even after 2 years I still not able to move on. There's always a hope to see him or speak with him to clear up things. 2 months back I mailed him and he responded. He said he will show up on a specific week. But neither he showed up nor he communicated the reason for not showing up. Again all my hopes were shattered. I mailed him asking the reason but didn't get any response. Is it natural for Scorpions to run away without any intimation. Please let me know if it is his second skin to torture me mentally.

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        cammig 4 months ago

        not sure if that answer was in response to me? but we broke up in august... he isn't ready to be in one emotionally but yet we are still close and are on and off... right now he is away and i send a funny snap he replies or a sexual one as banter he does as well, or a meme on ig... he loves the chase and it really annoys me when I'm being nothing but nice and he takes his time to reply and only calls me when he felt alone 2 weeks ago.. it sucks because we are such good friends... and i give him so much space and freedom but then i get scared it's too much and he'll just not come back... but to my surprise he always does.. since we are casual... no one is as patient with him than I am... and i even got him a nice present for graduating.. (cologne) he went from "I'll make it up to you dont worry.. for missing your birthday... have faith in me!" to... barely initiating convo... im so sick and tired of this cat and mouse.. and we have talked about it since he doesn't want to stop me from having a future with my potential but I don't want anyone nor am I ready ... just confused how aquarius can flip the switch so quick??? it's weird how I have to be cold, distant.. reject him and act like I don't care to get his attention.. but then I feel so guilty and bad :'(

        sigh... any advice for this 24 year old aquarius that is Mr Casanova

        does it matter that his moon sign is pisces and mine is cancer?

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        Andrea Lawrence 4 months ago from Chicago

        Crazy. But I'll go with it. ;)

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        Andrea Lawrence 4 months ago from Chicago

        I think we have to backup a little. Why did you guys break up?

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        Andrea Lawrence 4 months ago from Chicago

        She's afraid of commitment and getting serious. I think she has genuine feelings for you, and likely just as strong. She probably hasn't figured out how to navigate through them just yet. How long have you known her? Aquarius loves to have more time getting to know someone before having to make a decision. Also, how old is she? She might not be ready for a serious relationship / settling down / have the right resources yet. She is definitely having feelings for you.

        I think you should bring it up with her that you would like to try long distance dating. It can be a trial run, check it out for a couple of months and if it doesn't seem right, you can stop. You can stop and still be friends. Let her know you think it would be worth it to find out if a long distance relationship would work. Ask her if she would like to explore the connection more. Help her navigate through this, because she might not see a way at this point. But don't be pushy or demanding. Be open for conversation. Ask her if it's possible that you two might have a future together.

        Maybe first try looking for something to do in her area that is bound to be an enjoyable experience that you can take her as a date. Try to get a date of some sort with her, even if just hanging out one on one. Try to do this a couple of times before posing long distance. Show that you can make it tangible before talking about it as a possibility.

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        Andrea Lawrence 4 months ago from Chicago

        I think you should be very careful in this situation. A 40 year old Scorpio is going to have a lot more experience than a 20 year old Aquarius. Like a scary amount. BUT ANYWAY, the best thing you can do is learn more about him as a friend. Learn more about his history. You have a lot of life to live, so don't get yourself too tangled up with love at this point. If he's meant to be, things will click and fall into place like puzzle pieces.

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        UpToTheSky 4 months ago

        Scorpio saw an Aquarius and said: WOW.. Aquarius saw a Scorpio and said: What? After three years: Scorpio saw the same Aquarius and said: What? Aquarius saw the same Scorpio and said: WOW..

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        cammig 4 months ago

        I think my aquarius male ex is mad at me... he is so passive and randomly becomes distant and cold due to myself hanging out with his best friends.. we're all close and click so well but because he is away at work he probably feels weird and doesn't like it... :'( as a scorpio female I am over thinking to the max and even his responses seem.. cold. He was calling me so much and sending me snapchats then once he saw I was with his friends (they invited me and kept being persistent) he went weird..

        besides leaving him alone what else can i do? he always comes back because we're just so attracted and it's like magnet.. even though we arent going out or dating.. (we used to) it still sometimes feel as if we are... so weird how he usually wants me when I'm cold or distant... annoying :(

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        Elscorpio 4 months ago

        I am a Scorpio Male and I met an Aquarius girl who worked in a cafe below where I used to work. After she had started talking to me a lot and really caught my attention I asked her on a date and she agreed and enthusiastically I might add. We chopped and changed plans and then she became aloof and I gave up.

        She had added me on Facebook and various other social media and I discovered she was leaving the state quite randomly as a friend from another state came to visit and convinced her to go. So I moved on.

        7 months later to both our surprise she moved in next door to where I am currently living but sadly was still leaving in a few months.

        In the months she was here we bonded strongly. We would go for walks on the beach, she would take me out to dinner and come around to my place for drinks and movies etc. she complimented my smile and would cook and sing for me. We went on adventures, long drives She believed in me and really lifted my spirits.

        She started texting me morning noon and night. She visited family interstate one weekend so I gave her space but she had time to keep me in the loop and keep contact going strong.

        I am a musician and she loved my music and asked me to make her a CD. She would say things like I would rather listen to you play then the radio and I am going to cry listening to your music as I drive interstate which to me sounds like something you would do only if you truly deeply cared for someone strongly.

        In the time we spent together we discussed everything and she told me many things that are very deep and personal and we both opened up to each other.

        Eventually I told her how I felt and she let me down nicely sighting her moving interstate and it being something she needed to do. I accepted this and told her I didn’t want to hold her back. To make things more confusing she started contacting me even more frequently after I confessed my feelings perhaps trying to keep the friendship alive? She had also stated many times she just wishes we got to know each other sooner.

        My question is why would she invest so much time and build such a strong bond with me knowing she was leaving (yes i did this too but I already had a crush on her) is she just being nice? Do aquariuns invest all there time and effort into just friends? Am I the only one feeling the connection? She didn’t need new friends and her friends were getting jealous with the amount of time we spent together before she left.

        She does still keep in contact and has said she misses me.

        I really feel a little empty with her gone. She is the most intriguing complicated and the most gorgeous woman in and out that I have ever met.

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        Elscorpio 4 months ago

        I am a Scorpio Male who met an Aquarius girl whom worked in a cafe below my work. I had asked her out on a date to which I was surprised to get a yes too. We ended up chopping and changing plans and eventually I gave up as she became aloof. She added me on Facebook and other social media and I learned she had decided to move states. So I moved on.

        7 months later she moved in next door and we were both shocked and it was a pleasant surprise but sadly she was still moving and had about 2 months left in this city. In this time we bonded a lot we would go out for walks on the beach she would take me out to dinner take me on adventures and come over to my place for movies and drinks etc. I would get text messages morning noon and night. Even when she would visit family for a weekend in another state I would give her space but she would have the time to keep me in the loop. She would cook for me, sing for me, compliment my smile and really boosted my spirits and really believed in me. I was so sure we had a strong connection and she was like nothing I have ever experienced before so different yet so familiar in many ways.

        I am a musician and she loves my music and asked me to record a CD for her and I did. She said she would rather listen to my music than the radio. She also said she would cry listening to it on the way up to her new home interstate.

        We spent so much time together in the 2 months or so she was next door that even her friends were getting upset and wondering where she was and my friends were kicking me to tell her how I really felt so I did.... she turned me down nicely sighting her moving and needing to try interstate or she would regret it. I accepted her answer but to confuse me more she started contacting me even more after I confessed my feelings I guess she didn’t want to lose the friendship? She had said a number of times that she just wishes we got to know each other sooner?

        I can’t stress how much time we spent together in such a short space of time, I had never really felt this kind of connection before at least not so fast she truly feels like a best friend and my deeper feelings aside even as a friend I miss her deeply and I can’t stop feeling a little empty without her in my life.

        We do keep In contact still and we have both said we miss each other. I am wondering if what I feel could be only on my part. Is it likely only I feel this connection? Her words would say one thing her actions would say another. She definitely put a lot of effort into our friendship as i tried to play it cool as much as I could. Why would she build such a strong bond knowing full well she was leaving? Why would she say she would cry listening to my music on the way to her new home? Is/was she just being nice? To me I would only say those things and invest that much time into someone really special. Do Aquarius woman treat all “friends” this way?

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        lily fleur 4 months ago

        hi there,

        i am (an aquarius woman of 21) feeling a strong attraction towards a scorpio guy, and i suspect that he feels the same way too, it's just the way he behaves. the problem is, well, he is 40 years old, so we have a 20 year age gap which is quite intimidating. still it does not bother me because i wasn't ever attracted to anyone in my life this much before. should i open up about my feelings? what would he presumably do if i did? any tips? thank you!!

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        Andrea Lawrence 5 months ago from Chicago

        Aquarius is a calm sign. That is who they are, but what can unearth a Scorpio is that Aquarius thinks so much in the wind and communication. Generally an Aquarius goes wild if someone has hurt them in a way, and they'll try to express it with words, and if they feel like those words are not being understood... they'll feel great pain. This may cause them to try and express it in another avenue. Usually Aquarius isn't the type to break things around them. Aquarius wants to achieve peace, so something is seriously wrong if they have this strong of a temper. It's not normal. Generally, Aquarius isn't the one with a temper. That's not generally a wind sign quality.

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        Andrea Lawrence 5 months ago from Chicago

        Essentially:

        Stings when is hurt. That hurt isn't always coming from a mature place, however.

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        Andrea Lawrence 5 months ago from Chicago

        It must be fascinating to be raising an Aquarius child when you're a Scorpio. It is probably eye opening, and sometimes that can be gut wrenching too.

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        Andrea Lawrence 5 months ago from Chicago

        Glad to hear you have had long lasting relationships with Aquarius types. There is a certain amount of similarity and difference in this kind of relationship that can be incredibly enticing. I wish you well in your current relationship.

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        Kim 5 months ago

        I'm Scorpio Sun, Asc, Mercury, and Uranus. My two most significance relationships are Aquarius sun. Ex-husband for 8 years. My current partner is 6+ years and we are so different and so drawn to each other at the same time. I'm super emotional and helps me pull from the intensity. We are definitely the yang to my yin.

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        Mckenzie 5 months ago

        Wow this might be true

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        chelle1970 5 months ago from Olive Hill, Kentucky

        Aquarius is an Air sign. My daughter is double Aquarius..Sun and Rising sign. :) I am a Scorpio..sometimes our relationship as Mother and Daughter is challenging, but alot of times, we are close There is a closeness between us and my husband is Aquarius moon.

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        Aww 5 months ago

        Don't block as long as don't sting? What about not hurting so many times and cutting off communication even to anger more so that no sting is needed? Sting comes because they done hurting more than enoughfirst and didn't even listen what others have to say.

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        Lorrie 5 months ago

        AquaGal1998 .....I am an aquarius as well and going thru the same situation with a scorpio guy...but......this one isn't the first one and the other one I was way too young...

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        AquaGal1998 5 months ago

        I CAN'T GET THIS SCORPIO GUY OUT OF MY HEAD. Oh. My. Gosh. I've never really been into Zodiac readings, until I found out he was a Scorpio. I am, of course, a lady Aquarius.

        I looked up how Scorpios act, AND HE IS THE SPITTING IMAGE OF EVERY DESCRIPTION. I'm 19, and he's just about to turn 19, but someone help me..... he's so... distant?! I can't! I was too overbearing when I first met him, but once I gave him a huge gap with my absence, he suddenly clings to me again?!? I've NEVER met someone so AGGRAVATING... but I just can't get him out of my head!! UGH.

        I'm undeniably attracted to him.. but this article is spot on. I'd need to move across the world to get over him. Every time I think I've given up... he gives me a spark of interest I just CAN'T deny. Ugh.

        The worst part is, I want to be apart of his feelings.. I just don't know HOW. I'm definitely distant with emotions, but I feel so deeply for him. It's so irritating, I have so much conflict within me. PLUS, he's super awkward and then I'm like... SUPER SUPER awkward, and it's an absolute disaster.

        However.. when we do have moments, they're monumental. He makes me feel so different than I have with any other guy, I'm just so attracted to him. I feel like I have no control, and even though that's a little suffocating. I'm still so intrigued by who he is.

        I'm not sure if he's attracted to me romantically, but we are quite dynamic as friends when he isn't in a mood. There's always a tension between us, he can never speak with me directly, but he can with everyone else. He definitely doesn't hate me, so he continues to baffle me.

        Why don't you look at me when you talk to me? How come you can't speak to me directly? You're always by yourself.. aren't you tired of being by yourself?! Why do you always second guess yourself?!? UGH. No one has ever given me this much stress in my whole life!!! UGH!!

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        CutScorpio 5 months ago

        @GuyScorp Think that if you use your venom, it means that you have venom inside you. Forget that you have venom and you will find what Scorpio really is.

        But it won't be easy to cut your sting.. Because it means, for a Scorpio which has infinite sweetness within itself, to be vulnerable and naked.

        Let down your walls (it's hard but we should let the world see us) and be sure that Scorpio is a phoenix, we always born again. Maybe that Aquarius will show her worst temper, maybe not, is it really matter? No, because nothing can kill us.

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        GuyScorp 6 months ago

        This makes such sense it's crazy. I've only dated Aquarian women also my best friend is Aquarius. Not by choice either. It's true the magnetic and mystery part, and I think because of it I find myself always enamored like a child watching magic tricks. I love to be enchanted but the main issue for me is that Aquarians have the worst temper even more then Aries but more scary because it often comes out of the clear blue sky! My first gf would break everything in my apartment and my ex wife would pick up and disappear for months at a time. They would both erupt into what my friends joke as "LBS" (Linda Blair Syndrome) LOl! But when the tantrum was over, the sex was Amazing. Even when I wanted to sting them, they did not give me a opportunity to. I feel like I'm a more evolved scorp because I let it go arnd never sought revenge, but now I'm with an Aquarius woman who is so sweet and gentle but I feel like I have PTSD! I don't want to let down my walls but she is SO charming, I struggle. I fear I might even sting this one with all the venom I didn't use on the others. So it is true that this pair has to come together later in life to benefit from one another in order to make the most powerful connection. Can you write about the Aquarius temper? Why is it so severe when they erupt and is what the other person does or doesn't do the cause of it? Or are Aquarius prone to just snap because they are unpredictable wild creatures? Because as much as astrologers talk about notorious scorpio revenge, they let the Aquarius get off scott free. But honestly Aquarians can be so mean that it makes a sting look like a joke. Is that also another reason these two are a match, The power to inflict pain that scars? In this case maybe it is safer to stick to my own boring element. LOL! But I don't like to be bored and I often find danger to be very attractive.. and though I am not in my twenties or thirties anymore, I will always love a good mystery.

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        Andrea Lawrence 6 months ago from Chicago

        The best advice: let him be. Don't chase him right now. It'll push him away. For some reason he needed space, and it could have been you. Let things cool down, and when ready send a message that's positive, inviting, and open minded. Aquarius tends to run when it feels like its independence is being taken. You may have come off controling or manipulative, doesn't mean that was the case... but the Aquarius might think so. Give them some space. Be nice to them. Make yourself a positive person.

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        Scorp Lady 6 months ago

        been seeing an aqua guy for about two months now, and the only thing that really bothers me is that he's totally still open to seeing other people until he decides to commit. He said I'm free to do so if I want. Neither of us have, but his dating profile is still up and it's really bothering me. We've never done more than kiss, because we are both agreed we are going to take this slowly. We have a great connection and we create amazing artwork together- he told me I was born to inspire others. Not sure how to bring up the whole online dating thing though without coming off as jealous and controlling. It's not really jealousy so much as my pride- he tells everyone who will listen how amazing I am. I even overheard him on the phone when he didn't realize I was there, literally gushing about me to one of his guy friends- and this is a really manly kind of man, so hearing him talk like that was incredibly sweet. But I just want to scream "if I'm so amazing, why are you still looking???".

        I'm good with the pace we are at, and surprisingly pleased that we've not been intimate. The passion and attraction are definitely there- we do have to stop ourselves- but I'm just enjoying getting to know this amazing man so much I can wait. I think I may have to turn in my Scorpio card for saying that.

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        isa 6 months ago

        aquarius is an air sign

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        Carrot Cake 6 months ago

        Yes! Please write more about Aquarius male and Scorpio female I love your insights on this topic.

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        Nyeh 6 months ago

        i'm a scorpio who dated an aquarius, and we were pretty much the opposite of this. he had trust issues due to everyone before me cheating on him and often felt as if i wasn't loyal or wouldn't stay, which i guess he wasn't wrong because i never got the connection from him that i needed, so i would walk out during fights always trying to leave. i've never fought with someone so much or come across someone so shallow. it took outside forces to finally pull us apart though. too young i guess

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