Venus in Virgo Personalities
How Venus Expresses Her Essence in Virgo
There’s a mystique around natal Venus in Virgo. Venus is love, sex, and romance, and Virgo is called a prissy sign, virginal because no candidate is good enough. They seem contradictory. Yet far more often than chance would allow, the title of “most beautiful woman in the world” or even “of the decade” goes to Venus-in-Virgo women:
- Bridgette Bardot in the 1950s
- Sophia Loren in the 1960s
- Catherine Deneuve in the 1970s
- Julia Roberts in the 1990s
- Meghan Markle, icon-to-be . . . more about her later.
Today, women with the goddess planet Venus in the zodiac’s only truly feminine sign, Virgo, keep us almost too conscious of their goddess looks and love lives. Kim Kardashian and her sister Kylie Jenner, a model, both have Venus in Virgo.
All of the above-named women except Markle have natal Venus stationed high above their charts’ horizons: They are career beauties. Bardot and Kim Kardashian have Venus at the midheaven. Venus crowned them with ultra-feminine curves, glamour and mystery. By comparison Deneuve looks icy and Julia Roberts like a waif! Those two stars, like Markle, instead have the Venus-in-Virgo touch of class.
Is your natal Venus in Virgo? Own it. You probably already coordinate your clothes and act like a model. Maintain your high standards and feel very fortunate.
Meghan has natal Venus in Virgo. Prince Harry has a Virgo Sun.
Queens of Their Own Lives
Being born female with Venus in Virgo is lucky. Venus-in-Virgo women with world-class and even historic accomplishments include J.K. Rowling, whose Moon and Mercury are also in Virgo, excellent for a writer (and she has Uranus and Pluto in Virgo, granting genius and fame); Germany's prime minister Angela Merkel, comedienne Lucille Ball, singer-songwriter Pink, and the actress and bestselling author Carrie Fisher.
Virgo is the sign governing the harvest, and in their natal charts the planet Venus sits to the west, signifying greater achievement and acclaim in later life.
Venus also rules luxury. In maturity, all these down-to-earth Venus-in-Virgo ladies can rest easily on their fortunes or laurels, having lived to their fullest potential. They age like wine. We have all seen the queenly planet Venus, our sky’s brightest object, robed in the lavender and lemon colors of a sunset, the time she is most beautiful.
The "Virgin's" Love Life
Venus in Virgo people are indeed choosy about lovers but can afford to be. They fulfill just about everyone’s “soul mate” wish list: intelligent, healthy, well-mannered, moneyed, artistic, and passionate. He or she is a catch and knows it. Their question is, are you a catch? Do your ears stick out? Is your tie not tasteful? Are you visibly imperfect? If so, Venus in Virgo might advise you to go play in your own league.
The belief that they are perfect, or their pretensions to perfection -- vanity -- is Venus in Virgo’s one really laughable trait. She might say, “Oh no, I never smoke” (except out on the patio late at night, or in a rental car), or “Oh no, I would never risk being alone in my Paris apartment with millions of dollars’ worth of jewelry; I'm not that naïve!” In a Cosmopolitan magazine survey Kim Kardashian claimed that she has never “gone #2 or passed gas.” It was a joke, but that’s a very Venus in Virgo assertion. John Lennon once called The Beatles more popular than Jesus. There’s a transcendent ego for you. Venus in Virgo can be disgusting without that touch of class.
Venus in Virgo practically gave birth to the “starter husband” or “starter wife” phenomenon. The world is their red carpet, if only at home. Venus in Virgo is the main event, while the partner should act like a one-person entourage or otherwise stay out of sight.
A Venus in Virgo woman can be easy to fool because she' so used to fooling herself about her perfect looks and judgement. Remember How Stella Got Her Groove Back? Stella’s author Terry McMillan, who has natal Venus in Virgo, in real life married her 20-years-younger man, but it ended in divorce; he was gay. After being burned, a Venus in Virgo man or woman might opt out of relationships entirely -- like actor Bill Murray who's been married twice, has six kids and doesn't want a girlfriend.
The planet Venus governs value and the arts as well as love and beauty. Venus in Virgo loves finding a partner who delivers value. Catherine Zeta-Jones boosted her acting career by marrying Michael Douglas, a much bigger star 25 years her senior. Two decades later they are still married. Win-win!
Bill Murray Doesn't Want a Wife or Girlfriend
But Venus in Virgo Men Aren't Monks. . .
What you might have heard about Venus in Virgo males being monkish or shy is simply incorrect. Mick Jagger and John Lennon, who stirred things up wherever they went, were born with Venus in Virgo. Bruno Mars has Venus in Virgo. Amazingly versatile, like typical Virgos they work hard. Internationally, Julio Iglesias, a Spanish singer so polished that English speakers and Chinese fans embraced him, recorded songs in 14 languages and sold more than 300 million records. Shy? No. Venus-in-Virgo guys practically own the planet.
Male celebrities with Venus in Virgo tend to have Venus setting in the west, just like their accomplished female counterparts. Examples include Jimmy Fallon, Bill Murray, Sting, and Leonard Cohen, the songwriter who actually did spend five years in a Zen monastery. But he came back out! All evolved beyond youthful fame and stayed productive and relevant as they matured. Swiss tennis champion Roger Federer has Venus in Virgo, but his horoscope shows Venus rising rather than setting, a hint that success might not follow him into maturity -- but at age 36 he’s been a great athlete for 20 years and on track to becoming the greatest tennis player of all time.
Regardless of looks, gender or marital status, a Venus in Virgo person has much to look forward to. If you are one of them, take care not to overthink everything. Venus in Virgo women spend too much time solving other people’s problems. The men have sexual worries and tend to blame their personal problems on sex or women, domains of Venus. Jagger once sang, with an edge in his voice, “Some girls give me children I never asked them for," as if he had nothing to do with it.
Always Copycatted, Never Duplicated
To make a successful step up from superficial success, Venus in Virgo people need schooling, mentoring or experience, and friends. Bardot and Deneuve credit their film directors with teaching them how to act. Earth sign Virgo nudges Venus to be practical because time marches on and conditions change.
Preparing for the future, short-term and long-term, makes Venus-in-Virgos lucky -- and when they don’t prepare, somebody steals their jewels.
They can, if inclined, make a career of their perfectionism, like Martha Stewart, who packaged and sold perfection for the home; Louis Vuitton, who makes perfect accessories; and Gene Kelly, the Hollywood dancer, called “ruthless” in his pursuit of perfection, who rehearsed his partner Doris Day until her feet bled.
We spoke before of modeling. Those born with Venus in Virgo are natural role models. From grade school onward they will suffer copycats. People get Brazilian butt lifts to try to look like Kim Kardashian, or want to perform like Jagger, or write poetry like Sylvia Plath, another fierce Venus-in-Virgo perfectionist who tragically preferred death to failure. Meghan Markle, fiancée of British Prince Harry, is destined to be copied everywhere. Yet Markle’s Venus placement, below her chart’s horizon (all her natal planets are below the horizon!) hints that the trend she sets might be for charitable work and giving rather than jet-setting and stylish clothes.
Like everyone else Venus in Virgo needs friends, but being rather self-involved and preoccupied, they might choose associates or spouses for status or convenience, then be critical behind their backs because they aren’t true-blue. Yet Venus in Virgo treats customers, clients, fans, students and animals kindly. Their pets are meticulously groomed. Brigitte Bardot chose animal welfare as her life’s work. It seems apt that great beauties, post-stardom, care most about creatures who offer unconditional love.
More than any other Venus placement, Venus in Virgo knows how rare unconditional love is!
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