Mercury in Cancer Thinkers
Mercury in Cancer Wants to be a Parent Someday
Thoughts Influenced by Emotions
People who have Mercury in Cancer have it tough, because even though they have good minds, their thinking is very influenced by their emotions. Now, we all have those situations where we think one way about something, and feel another way about it. But this is a constant in the life of a Mercury in Cancer person, the mind is influenced by unconscious desires, and at times any bias or prejudice they have may interfere with objective thinking. This may cause a person to look at some facts, but ignore others which do not appeal to them. On the up side, they have great memories, especially when they are made more intense because they are associated with happy events or occasions. Plus, Mercury in Cancer people subliminally absorb and learn by osmosis. They have psychic ability because of those mental processes that occur on unconscious levels.
Sensitive Towards Others
Mercury in Cancer people are very sensitive to the people around them. Even if they do not agree with others opinions or attitudes, they may prefer to remain silent about it unless it is a good friend. They are likely to be really close to their families, and hang onto their friends for years, knowing many of them since they were young children. An emotional appeal by a family member or friend will never be turned down, even if the Mercury in Cancer person has to be inconvenienced. Their feelings get hurt very often and easily, and something said that was not directed at them will be interpreted as if it was. So a lot of explaining and getting things straight will be happening with this person. It is always best to get things out in the open with a Mercury in Cancer person, because they will tend to worry and think the worst when somebody makes a remark that was not even intended for them.
Tactful and Diplomatic
A Mercury in Cancer person is always diplomatic and tactful, and that is a great asset in life. If you need to discuss a problem with them, you can be sure they will be discreet, too faithful to ever spread gossip about what you said in confidence. They are good natured and reasonable, with a clear intellect when the subject is somebody else’s problem, though they are highly intelligent. These are people who adapt to their surroundings with an almost chameleon like ease, and have sociable dispositions as long as the Moon is in a compatible sign.
Mercury in Cancer people are very impressionable, especially when young, and may need to be coaxed to speak about what is really on their minds. They gravitate towards kind people, being so kind themselves. They change their minds a lot because of the way emotions affect them, and have restless minds, always going, always thinking. They have a lot of interests, sort of like Gemini Mercury people, but will be more selfless and take less time to indulge in them if their families need them. In fact, these are the "mother hens” of the zodiac, who most likely worry about you more than you worry about yourself! Of course, family and friends will point it out if they think their friend isn’t getting out enough or is getting too bogged down in other people’s problems.
Mercury in Cancer people are usually spiritually minded, and reflect a lot on whatever interests them at the time. If they do not go to church, they likely have a meditation group, or exercise group, someplace to go to blow off steam and get some well earned time to themselves. They love music and poetry, and that restless spirit usually leads to a love of travel, especially by the ocean. If they can work it out in the future, they will invest in a vacation home by the water, and possibly rent it out in the off season for some extra cash. These people also possess great business ability, because they want to have enough money to think they are secure. They make great real estate agents, bankers, accountants, economic advisors, and also do well in the food industry, owning or operating a restaurant or bakery, or other creative food store.
Love Being Near the Water
They Love Being Surrounded by Family
A Mercury in Cancer person has a deep love of family, and will want to spend a lot of time with their parents and relatives. This is somebody who always knew they wanted to get married and have children, and expect to be a homeowner when the time is right. Even if they are not currently dating someone, they are already saving a set amount of money each paycheck for that dream house that is all part of their life plan. So what kind of home does the Mercury in Cancer person want when they have married and it is time to talk to the realtor? Of course, he or she may be the realtor. They care very deeply about their sense of comfort, and want to have lots of room so the extended family and friends will have room to drop by often.
Firstly, we have established that this is a person who is influenced a lot by their family’s wishes. But while engaged in shopping for a home, Mom and Dad should not be overstepping themselves by judging what our Mercury in Cancer person wants in a home. And since she is just starting out, she hopefully is not in a position where either parent is elderly and needs to live with her yet.
Down the road a Mercury in Cancer person will always be the one who takes in the family strays, when they lose their driver’s license after having one drink too many at the party and can’t get to work, so need a place to live that is close (unfortunately hers). And when the time comes that a parent really cannot live alone, hopefully there will be space for them, or if she has to buy something larger, the parent has money from the sale of their former home, so they do have something to contribute to the mother/daughter home necessary at the time. Cancer people will go way too far trying to solve their family’s problems, to the point they may not even have enough money to fix their own, so that is definitely something to watch out for. But they always will be the one everyone comes to for refuge when they need it. This is why this home must have a lot of features to comfort the Mercury in Cancer owner.
Home is Their Refuge
Since she recently married, this couple has decided that to avoid all that “Whose family will we spend Thanksgiving with, and whose family will we spend Christmas with?” stuff, they will host all the holidays and have everyone come to them. So they need a good sized kitchen, with a nice dining room that can accommodate a crowd. They do not want it to be too formal, they want to feel relaxed and not have to worry if somebody spills a drink or breaks a glass. Open concept is good. This couple is kid friendly and they hope to have children of their own, so probably will not wait too long to try to fulfill that dream. They want a nursery that has a chaise or a daybed so one of the parents can rest in the baby’s room when those inevitable ear infections start coming. They want it to be cheery, but able to grow with the growing child, and not to look too girly or boyish. These two will be the type who want to be surprised about the sex of their child.
A big yard with lots of room for playing and outside entertaining is a must, as again both the adults and kids need to be comfortable at this property. And since Mercury in Cancer people do change their minds a lot, they would not mind a smaller starter home before the wedding, and selling that to upgrade a few years down the road, as the family is starting to come along. But it is easier to just get what you want the first time, plus the younger they start paying down the mortgage, the more flexibility they will have.
A pool is also a must, but fenced in so the children or others have no accidents. Any person with Cancer in them needs a quiet refuge, so this can be a gazebo in the yard, or a nice sun room porch, ideal for those days when the weather doesn’t permit being outside, or just days when grandma and grandpa have the kids and the couple just wants to relax in their PJ’s and have coffee and read the paper in the pretty room with all the light and plants.
Strength is Drawn from Family
Also, anyone with Cancer planets likes to cook, so they will have a nice area for the grill and a good seating arrangement that is appropriate for the weather in whatever climate they live in. These people love having guests, and never feel happier than when they see their friends having a good time relaxing at their home. They will take loads of pictures, and use them to make lovely and sentimental gifts for holiday occasions.
As the years go on they will not have separate get togethers for friends and family, they will be a mixed group that all celebrates the good times together, and meets at this house during the hard times too, for tea and sympathy. Mercury or any other planet in Cancer makes for a strong person who knows how to deal with the difficulties life throws our way. Better yet, this person will provide the refuge for everyone to come to when they need to be together to deal with those "astral tests" as one of this writer's friends calls some of the freaky things we need to deal with at times. Life will be hectic, but beautiful memories will be made, and knowing her home is the anchor for her loved ones gives the Mercury in Cancer person such a great amount of satisfaction, no matter what else she is doing in other areas of her life. Her family is her strength.
Flexible Home for Extended Family
© 2013 Jean Bakula