How to Love and Understand Capricorn Women
What Capricorn Women Seem Like
For as long as I can remember horoscopes have been a popular way to receive insight on ourselves and others. Some people even plan their day based on what their horoscope says. Although I don't use horoscopes as far as choosing or not choosing a mate, any guy I deal with personally, I always ask him his astrological sign. I believe knowing this will give me insight into his character.
When a guy asks me my sign and I tell him a Capricorn I receive different reactions. Some say, "Oh, Capricorn's are cool." Others will frown and start listing all the negative traits they feel belong to Capricorns. Some have confessed they felt Capricorn women were difficult to get along with. In some cases that is true, but not quite. So since I am a Capricorn woman, although I cannot speak for all Capricorn women, I decided to give men insight on how to love and understand the Capricorn woman.
Capricorn women have been called one of the most difficult signs under the zodiac. Their reserved personality and serious demeanor can make them appear aloof, standoffish and rigid to the point of not being fun.
Although Capricorns can be sharp with the tongue, they are extremely loyal to those they care about and they enjoy having a good time in fact most Capricorns are very witty and have a sense of humor.
As a Friend
Capricorns are serious and analytical. They have many associates but few friends most would rather keep their circle small, their no-nonsense personality makes it difficult for them to tolerate things they deem as silly. This is especially true in many young Capricorn women. With age, Capricorn women usually lighten up.
As her finances become in order she usually evolves and becomes more humorous and less skeptical. A Capricorn will have your back through thick and thin but will cut you loose without a thought if you cross them. They are easy to offend, known for holding grudges and do not forgive easily. A Capricorn woman holds herself to high standards and she expects loyalty from her inner circle of friends.
Horoscopes can be helpful when you are dealing with people in business as well. For example, most Capricorns are shrewd when it comes to business, they love the almighty dollar, maybe a little too much.
They are hardworking, determined and ambitious. Overly ambitious, this is because most men and women Capricorns value themselves by success and a Capricorn whose finances are not in order is an insecure Capricorn. In-fact, Capricorns are so career-minded, relationships can become secondary in their pursuit for stability.
Anyone dating a Capricorn who is not financially stable, may feel neglected as the Capricorn chases his or her dreams. If you are patient with the Capricorn, however, when things get in order, you will have yourself a strong and solid mate.
Why Is It Hard for Capricorn Women to Find Love?
With all her attributes, the lady Capricorn can have a hard time maintaining love. Her temper and sharp words can make it hard for men to deal with her. Submissiveness is not a strong trait in a Capricorn woman, however, she can be very submissive if she has a mate who has a strong personality and is a good provider.
Capricorns do not like to play games. They hate mind games and people who use games to manipulate and control. Capricorns lose interest fast. They won't waste time chasing someone who's always running. Capricorns like people who are confident in their own skin and have their own passion and dreams.
What Kind of Men Are Capricorn Women Attracted to?
Capricorn women crave security, they tend to be drawn to men who are intellectual. This can sometimes be the downside for the lady who is known for being one of the most cautious and suspicious women of the zodiac. Under her seemingly steely heart flows a well-spring of passion, and she can be fooled by sweet words and blinded by outer appearances.
Once the glow of love wears off, however, this shrewd woman looks to see if words align with action and if not, her beloved may find himself dealing with a mean spirit. Capricorn women need to feel secure and if her finances are not in order she has no peace, and neither will the person she is dealing with. When it comes to love, some lady Capricorn's do not set a high standard for her men, as she does for herself, and the people around her. So in this case, love usually backfires for the goat who foolishly chooses with her heart.
- Team player
- Too serious
Capricorn women are usually more respected than liked. It's not that people don't like Capricorns, it's her tell-it-like-it-is personality, that can come off as hurtful and arrogant. The Capricorn's bark is bigger than her bite, and she usually means no harm. Truthfulness is a strong trait in a Capricorn and her advice can come off as cold and in-compassionate, but she's really just being true to her character. A wiser Capricorn will understand it's not the message but the delivery of the message that counts. This does not take away from the fact that people love to confide in Capricorn women not only will she give you good advice but she can be trusted with your secrets.
As Wives and Mothers
Most Capricorn women make good wives and even better mothers. She is a nurturer and loves a beautiful home. Although, most Capricorn women are very ambitious, she can be the go-getter in the family or, the woman behind the scenes supporting her man.
For the lady Capricorn, it doesn't matter whose driving, as long as the overall goal is accomplished. One of the positive traits in a Capricorn woman is she is a team-player and if she is part of a winning team she is happy.
Capricorn women are reserved and suspicious. A Capricorn woman who has been burned by love will have deep trust issues. If you can gain her trust, then the Ice Queen will melt like snow on a hot summer day, for underneath her icy exterior, is a hot passionate woman with a strong sex drive. Now I must add that's not true for all Capricorn women so I must say that for me, if I don't truly trust who I'm with, as far as issues with fidelity, then I proceed with caution. So if your Capricorn is a little too reserved in the bedroom for you, there may be issues with trust. If that's the case you may have to wait for the lady of caution; if you choose to wait, however, she will be worth it.
What Do They Like?
Capricorn women love the finer things in life, however because she is practical she will more likely look for expensive things at bargain prices. She in not above thumbing her nose at stores who sell inferior products but will happily shop at garage sales and thrift stores for name brand products and things of high quality.
So, how can you love this complicated and complex woman? My advice is to be true, be loyal and be yourself. A Capricorn woman will endure to the end if she feels what she has, is worth holding on to.
Do you use horoscopes to check someone's sign in order to receive insight into their character?
Do you feel my assessment of Capricorn women is accurate?
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