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How Leo and Aquarius Can Get Along

Updated on July 5, 2016
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The Lion and the Water Bearer: Leo and Aquarius

Aquarius is Air and Fixed. Leo is Fire and Fixed. Their shared fixity predicts interesting challenges. They are both proud in different ways. They are both proud of being stubborn, but also in different ways. We are dealing with real individuals here. T

his is one of those “transportation and transformation” couplings that I like to name that way for easy comprehension. They can work especially if they are “transported to a new place, and transformed in a new way.” Matching up is what this is about. Sometimes matching up is what is really happening, but the reticence, reluctance, hesitancy or whatever you want to call it, to actually admit, accept and use the good information you need to actually make an improvement, is often the farthest thing from the Ego’s awareness. It is often true that the thing you need the most is the thing you are the least ready to admit.

Aquarius is cool. Could we say almost cold in respect to relationships? Mind you, they do not see themselves as cold; they see themselves as comprehensively humanistic. It is their job to float along the continuum of the passage of time and acknowledge every person they meet, but to not really embrace them. They try to avoid subjectivity. They relish the sense of objectivity; thus, their coolness. It is not arrogance as much as remoteness.

Leo has all kinds of warmth and sunny friendship for Aquarius to observe and benefit from. There is a ton for Aquarius to learn from Leo. Leo could stand some of The Water Bearer’s objectivity. Leo could not countenance this. It would be tantamount to asking them not to be Leo, but if you ask their friends, they would say, “Oh yes, they could really stand to be less subjective. It’s not like everything is about them!” Or said quickly: “Leo needs to be more objective about itself.” It is the actual acceptance of these issues that would be required before the two could benefit.

Positive Postulate

The Aquarian and the Leo, actually out there together would be quite a match! Positively speaking, they would bring far-sighted ingenious ideas together with powerful personal strength. Some of the greatest ideas, companies and movements are characterized by great ideas coupled with mighty personal energy. That is what these two have, in the most exalted way. Aquarius and Leo could be paired for magnificent personal and career effort.

Romance Recommendation

Some Aquarians can do without romance. I mean romance in its more elemental form. It is not that they are not loving. They would probably say that they are among the most loving of most all people. That is the puzzle here to be figured. Leo has a whole way of life to offer here. Leo loves back slapping, smooching to say hello, grinning from ear to ear and lots of romance. Aquarius watching and learning from the Lion could be very helpful. Leo’s over-the-top ways could also benefit from the Aquarian coolness. Unless the humanistic can benefit Leo, it won’t tend to respect it. Though humanism is not a common romantic feature, it can present a different perspective.

Conflict Quotient

Aquarius could see this match as a continuum of discussion. They might not even consider their long discussions to be actual conflict. Leo would be bothered by extended talk. The irritation that would arise from their conflicts would be almost as debilitating to the Cat as the issues under conflict themselves. They would want things to be settled with a sense of resolution, so that things were not continually revisited. Loud recriminations from Leo would offend the cooler Aquarian.

Peace Parlay

Life in the end is repetitive and mundane, and so is Romance itself. This factor asks the question: "Can we be bored together over the long term?" Aquarius could only be deemed boring if it was giving too long a speech. Leo, much the same. The Water Bearer would want to stay in the flow of activity and following Leo around is one of the things that could keep away from the humdrum.

Keep Up the Interest Graph

The far seeing Aquarian would be able to draw interest and imagination out of its own mind, and its most recent books on time travel or alternative dimensions. Leo, stretching and marching along its daily haunts has a love of the new and will dare to try whatever it cares to. Interest for the couple would lie in Aquarius being talked into what did not appeal to it immediately.

Seven Year Itchiness

There are some signs that by their nature are more stable in their love interests and family concerns as time goes on. Others are not. If these two were happy and challenging one another, the distraction of a 7 year itch would probably be viewed as highly interruptive of their challenging lives. Aquarius, not moral in the classical sense could allow itself, but it would probably not do so for the waste of energy that it would demand.

Rating

Astrocompatibility Possibility Rating

65% Positive Long Term - 80% Short Term.

Aquarius, first focusing on the wild and wonderful Leo might be drawn into its own sense of experimentation, even faster than usual. As time proceeded, Aquarius could be too disengaged for The Cat’s self-fulfillment.

These two would be covering new territory for each soul’s former experience. If they became deeply involved a possible long duration is foreseeable.

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      Prince 6 years ago

      OMG, everything in here is true. No joke ahahhah

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      reka 5 years ago

      This is sooooo tru!

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      water bearer 5 years ago

      I love how I'm saying "this is so me!" throughout the whole thing

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      jessica 5 years ago

      this is sooo true because my boyfriend is leo and im aquarius and we love each other but i have a feeling it will be long term

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      Christofer French 5 years ago from Denver

      Make him feel like a Leo. If an Aquarian has a feeling, they think its a fact. So, you guys just might make it.

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      Mello Leo 5 years ago

      Omg. As i was reading this i was thinking it was so true! My ex boyfriend, whose an Aquarius and i, a leo broke up because we couldn't see eye t eye on things and were both to stuborn to say we were wrong about something

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      Christofer French 5 years ago from Denver

      yup. Two of the hardest heads in the zodiac. At least you can reason with a Scorpio.

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      Mello Leo 5 years ago

      Thanks for the advice!

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      Christofer French 5 years ago from Denver

      Mello Leo: At least hardheads are not subtle. If they use their hardheads to pursue you, then they are directly declaring their interest. Otherwise, they are just being themselves.

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      Jaay_Fizzle_143 5 years ago

      this is sooo true this boy that is my bestfriend now , we used to talk & we did some stuff & now like I'm in love with him & he says he loves me to death . buuuut we NEVER see eye to eye we are on the phone pretty much EVERYNIGHT & we don't argue till were about to get off . I hate it because he can be sooooo mean sometimes . but I deal with his shit .... because I love him .

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      Christofer French 5 years ago from Denver

      Jaay: Stay as spirited as you sound, but in the quiet and softness of the night, you want someone who can whisper in your ear, and be believed.

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      Leo teen 5 years ago

      i am kind of liking a girl that is an Aquarius and at the beginning of the school year i wasn't attracted to her then after a few months i started to get attracted to her beauty from the inside of her soul and the outside she had some classes with me and in one class i talk to her sometimes and every time i talk to her i get this warm fuzzy feeling that i had not felt since middle school (but that is a different story)especially when one day she was going through a hard break up with here former boyfriend and she told me in class that i am one of the good guys and most other guys are mean and cruel to woman and don't care about woman's emotions after that conversation i was really interested into her and that i might be the right one for her and i try to ignore my feelings and complection for her but my emotions just over powered my will to ignore her so its driving me nuts what should i do???

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      Christofer French 5 years ago from Denver

      Leo Teen: Normal to feel like this at this time of your life. Desire, lust, attraction, infatuation - all these things are designed to burn inside you, especially as a Leo to bring about new relationships. The work is getting along after your desires are inflamed.

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      leo teen 5 years ago

      but some days i have so much feeling for her when i see her hugging other guys (because she is a flirt) i can get so up worked about it and sometimes it just ruins my whole day and then i question myself is this the woman i am supposed to be with, it is just so frustrating and tiring of this Leo burn coming from the inside of me so what does this mean? and what do you think about it? answer back ASAP please

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      Christofer French 5 years ago from Denver

      To quote Paul: "Why will you burn?" It is hard to be a Leo. It is hard to burn. Separate yourself from concern with her and see how happy you become. I can't tell you which way to go, or how to make up your mind. The decision is yours.

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      Steph 5 years ago

      I'm a new Leo mother and my little babygirl decided she wasn't gonna be an Aries, (due April 11th), she was coming into our lives Feb 18th. She skipped 2 astrological signs how futuristic is that!? I appriciate your insight Chris it is wonderful.

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      Christofer French 5 years ago from Denver

      Steph: Sounds like a unique soul coming in.

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      jess 5 years ago

      i knew this leo men from a friend of mine, i'm an aqua. We have great conversation by phone...he is so funny and smart. Then we decided to meet..after the meeting we keep in contact after the 3rd meeting he is less contact with me..well he knew i am close with other men too..actually i don't like one of them, wishing he is the one to be my bf rather than the other men. He did say that he like me and i said it too...but furthermore nothing, so i went out and see other men...then suddenly he comes again...say hi and i treat him as my friend...i don't know what he wants..he can call me at night tell me his problems etc etc...i help him to encourage himself. I do care and i think i fall from him but i dunno about his feeling towards me, what should i do?

      thanks

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      Christofer French 5 years ago from Denver

      jess: He's the Leo. Wait until he acts like one and wants to win you.

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      jess 5 years ago

      so it's mean he wants me? and i have to wait? sometime i feel that he just flirting... oh God i don't understand Leo. If i ignore him, he ignore me back. Seems like everything is about him...

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      Christofer French 5 years ago from Denver

      Jess: This is Leo style. Friendly and charming to beguile you. Then back off and see if you follow. Leo wants to be adored and they know how to make others do it. Aquarius does not have enough moves to use against Leo. If Leo is not throwing himself at you, then it is you on the playing field with your own schemes. I know its tough, but that's how they do it.

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      Tom 5 years ago

      I'm a Leo-Male and a relationship has started with a Aquarius-Female. I was wondering how I could keep this relationship long term, cause I've read numerous horoscope comp. Charts reading that the relationship can either be forever lasting or short term. Do I cut down on my urges to always be with her and treat her like my queen or continue being a Leo..?

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      Christofer French 5 years ago from Denver

      Tom - You probably can't help but continue to be a Leo. Your other question does not have Triad info about each other. See TRIAD article. I need your Rising and Moon signs.

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      Tom 5 years ago

      TRIAD article? There's time in which we would talk all day then there's days that we won't talk at all, and its very hard to spend time with her. I'm at the brink of ending it cause I don't feel like she's putting effort into making it work.

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      jess 5 years ago

      Hi Tom, am an aqua n got confusing with this leo men. Your situation almost the same like mine, we can talk all day then but next day will be zero action. Your girl, just like me...we are cool and sometime hide our feeling...take times to open our heart but we do care with person that we are closed with. Don't get us wrong...keep in contact and ask her out, believe me...we just too cool! :) we want you but we stay cool just to figure out how deep u want us as ur girl. So tell me about leo? or bout ur feeling now? cos damn...ur story n mine sound similar...

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      Tom 5 years ago

      Hi Jess! I understand, reading the horscopes about the Aquarius female makes me cringe because they're more calm, collective, detached, free, etc. While I want her to show me why I should stay and continue to give her my 100% for example, I love it when the female showers me with affection (Don't get me wrong she does it when we're together but when we're apart there's nothing), the Leo male constantly wants to be reassured that we're the only male in the females life because once we find a "Queen" there's no one else that can grab out attention and the worse thing you can do is try to get us jealous because that'll just make us toss you to the side!! The thing with her is that eventhought I ask her to hang out, she's ALWAYS busy..

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      jess 5 years ago

      hahaha so that is the problem, jealousy! i did talk about other men with him, something light...the point is i just want to know his reaction cos he never tell me bout his feeling towards me, now he avoiding me, telling me that am only fooling around with him and want to forget bout me. Am confused cos he ever mention that we just friend, but why he reacts to avoiding me? if we just friend? rite? but i know he cares n pay attention a lot to me..am doing it too. do leo always wait for girl to tell how much we like or love them? tell me what shud i do to get his 100%? actually am fallin for him.

      in your position, keep in contact and then disappear, we love mysterious men...give full attention and gone...trust me. hehehe we gonna miss you a lot!!

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      Uniqueleo21 5 years ago

      I'm in a little dilemma. I'm a female -Leo and I've been talking to a male- Leo and ever since we've been talking we have been clashing like there's no tmrw. Anywho his best friend is an Aquarius. The aquarius hit on me at the club one night before me and the Leo even started talking. I can't lie I was feeling him but nothing happened after that night at the club. Recently I hung out with the Leo and Aquarius and it felt so awkward. The Aquarius constantly had smart things to say and was quick to challenge me. To make things worse I could feel the energy between the both of us heating up... Both Of us smiling at each and debating about what the color of his walls were all while I'm sitting in the Leo's lap. I like the Leo, I really do but I'm very Intrigued interested in the Aquarius and I feel bad about it. The spark that was lit wont go out and idk how to make it stop flickering.

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      Christofer French 5 years ago from Denver

      If you two Leos get along, then leave it alone. Aquarius delights itself in being provocative and intriguing. The Aqu is probably gaming you. They have fun in their head alot.

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      Angel 5 years ago

      I am a Leo female, and I met an Aquarian male recently. For someunknown reason, someone mentioned that he was having a tough time in his life. Well, I get taking to him, and I suddenly feel really close to him. I told him a very personal story, and he kind of shared his troubles with me. Well, I felt so close to him, I told him I love him. He said he loved me several times, and gave me a huge hug. I am seeing him again, and I am worried that he might be embarassed he said that, but I am not. He is a great guy! Is that odd for an Aquarian to fall in love at first sight? I think he loves my intellectual banter. :-)

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      Christofer French 5 years ago from Denver

      Angel: Leo must believe they are loved, especially if someone actually says it. Let me give some warnings. Aquas are great at immediate, electrifying, gripping emotion; but then they forget your name. They can say the word "love" with great facility. Immediate intimacy is also a favorite of theirs. Mind you, they are sincere. It's just that they can fool themselves so easily. They love to see themselves as making a big impact. Forget first sight. See what the next date brings. This also sounds like a typical seduction. Blessings. Watch yourself Leo. Leos want appreciation almost too much. Blessings.

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      LeoSunGeminiMoon 4 years ago

      My BF and I have a mutual friend who is a single Aqua male, and we all get along really well. After being friends for a year or so with all three of us hanging out together, the Aqua male and I hung out for a day a few months ago, just by ourselves. We had so much fun and we get along extremely well because we are both very creative and share a ton of common interests. He hung out with my BF a month ago when I was out of town and talked to my BF about how much fun he had hanging out with me that day and he told my BF that he was really lucky to have me because I am kind, smart, funny, and incredibly creative. My BF is a Sagittarius and NOT jealous at all, and he loves that his friends and I can become friends in our own right. I have since asked this Aqua if he wanted to go to an art lecture and asked him to a sporting event, and each time he said he was definitely interested and would get back to me, but he never got back to me, so I just went with another friend instead. I talked to him about an interesting project about a month ago, with which he was very enthusiastic and helpful, but since then, he has become very silent and distant to me.

      My question or concern, I guess, is what happened? I love being his friend, but I certainly don't want to bother him if he has decided he doesn't want to be my friend anymore. He told me that he has a wonderful time hanging out just with me and he said the conversations we have are just awesome, so it makes me so sad that he has just stopped talking to me. My BF thinks that the Aqua maybe has a crush on me and is trying to sort out his feelings. All of my BF's friends tell him if he and I ever broke up, they would definitely want to date me. But, this Aqua was so different from everyone else. He treated me like my own person, not just his friend's girlfriend, and the three of us hanging out together was always very comfortable, never awkward. I really thought this Aqua and I could just be great friends because I thought Aquas are really good at not becoming romantically entangled. I really don't know what to think. Can you give me some insight into what he might be thinking? I am usually very good at reading people, but I can't read him at all, except that I can tell he honestly really likes spending time with me. It complicates things because my BF thinks that this Aqua male would be a great housemate for us (Aqua has said before that he thinks we would all be great housemates), but I don't feel comfortable asking him now since he has been acting differently towards me. I am not sure if our charts say we would be good housemates or not.

      I am Leo sun, Gemini moon, Libra rising. Our friend is an Aquarius sun, Leo moon, but I don't know what his rising sign is. Sorry! My BF is Sagittarius sun, Scorpio Moon, and Cancer rising in case you need to know that too. Thank you for your help!

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      Christofer French 4 years ago from Denver

      Nicely told tale. Almost like a short story. Aqua boy is just being typical. Zooming in with Aqua charm making you feel like you are sooo special. But at their core, they are impersonal. They want to be well thought of and adored. They want to think they are helping out the world just by showing up. Aquas don't play poker well, or other cards. Intensity of emotion starts to confuse them. Your friend is probably right, but "feelings" are hard to sort out anyway. Your BF Sag is freedom loving. Scorp, deeply sincere, Cancer sociable, but liking the essence of family. I would keep him. Let Mr. Zoom in prove himself. And one of your girl friends can tell you. Don't be going to your guy to ask about his friend and your potential friend. Maybe I am not hip and too old, but this spells trouble to me.

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      mattie 4 years ago

      i'm a leo girl and i'm in love with an aquarius guy but the broblem is i don't know how to talk to him normaly i keep being shy and we sometimes fight but we make up the next day.i just want him to make him love me more but i don't know how,do you think that we are gonna be the be couples?

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      mattie 4 years ago

      i'm a leo girl and i'm in love with any aquarius guy we sometimes fight but then we make up again do you think we're gonna be the best cuoples?

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      Christofer French 4 years ago from Denver

      Mattie: Your Leo nature is going to be in a constant quest to "pin down your mate". Aquarius presents a puzzle to loved ones. If you really do love him, you are going to have to get a picture of what he is like and then understand and enjoy that. If you are happy now, you can continue to be happy. But he will present puzzles to you that you in your direct Leo way are going to be facing. All the best.

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      Zoe 4 years ago

      I found myself laughing so hard through all of this. I'm an Aquarius, and at the part about alternate universes and time travel, I looked over at my bookshelf. Lo and behold! "Blackholes, Wormholes, and Time Machines", "Astral Projection", and various other books about both physics and metaphysics. I am also very cold in my personal relationships, though I don't mean to be. I have a hard time touching, or getting close to someone. I'm very outgoing, yet always feel like an observer in a sense, even though I have a strong sense of civic duty. But I just recently met a Leo that's making me want to stop observing, and she fits this description wonderfully. I've never actually been impressed by astrology before, but kudos.

      Though I'm not sure if you still answer, but if you do, could you tell me what you recommend an Aquarius whose scared to get close to /anyone/ do to overcome it and let herself get close to a very special Leo?

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      Christofer French 4 years ago from Denver

      Zoe: When you said "I don't mean to be" -- that's the key. I know an Aquarius who swears he is the most loving and intimate persona he knows. He is all talk. The fear of intimacy and closeness comes from your sense of self being spread across the dimensions. Give me your Moon and Rising and I will get closer to the mark. Having to do with a Leo will be good for you. Lacking subtlety, they will hold your romance to the fire and make you become intimately honest, or they will bite your head off.

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      aquarius female 4 years ago

      Wow, the long term status for Aquarius/Leo is very high (80 percent), higher than for other air signs, and it is certainly true with real life marriage statistics. Our top 3 marriage partners long term is Leo,Sagittarius and Pisces. Interesting that Pisces is up there in the top 3.

      The bottom five is actually filled with the other air signs. I find this to be true. Leo energy, or strong leo placements (especially stelliums) really provides me with satisfaction. My husband, though he is a Scorpio, he is dominant Leo in his chart.

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      Christofer French 4 years ago from Denver

      When you get through the short term, that is the key. There are so many impediments in the front, that once they are traversed, you are left with an earnest Aquarius who years to be understood and to offer its special inssights. The Leo loves the permanence of feeling the "lofty" thoughts of the Aqua.

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      marcel 3 years ago

      Hey the my name is marcel

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      marcel 3 years ago

      Ok so im a leo aug 4th and the girl i like is an aqua jan31st last year i told her that i liked her and then i backed off from her as i was flirting with her friends she told me that she loved me so and left out of the room sad and instead of me running to catch her i stood there and didn't do anything so as the time went by i spoke to her as a friend but i flirted w with her sometimes teasing her then i acted like an asshole for a few months she heard that i cried in front of another girl (really wasn't the way she thinks) then she bavked ooff and stsrted to egnire me then i compared her to someone else then she didn't want to talk to me at all so i waited i few months to give to give her space then i returned to her and apologized to her for all of my wrong i admit im acually far away from the person i used to be and ive had a few moments this year where she sees that ive changed but we just egnore eachother and i really want her back ,i want her to give mejust half of the affection that she game me before ! Anyhelp?

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      Christofer French 3 years ago from Denver

      Marcel:

      Check out my article on TRIADS. You sound like you have aspects that are not very leonine. However, I would say that PRIDE may be playing too great a role in your relationship. Aquas, especially women are hard to figure. You must PURSUE them with a relentless earnestness. Even when they act distant, you must still demonstrate your Leonine interest. It sounds like you are both uncertain as to your true feelings for each other. Keep up the pursuit. Don't just sit there like a happy lion under the sun. Get up and move across the Serengetti and declare your interest. Blessings.

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      sissy 2 years ago

      My ex boyfriend ego is damaged because of me. Is there anything I can do to gox it?

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      Christofer French 2 years ago from Denver

      When you talk about EGO, that's a big arena for LEO, and AQUA kind of invented the whole "MAN, AM I UNI QUE ROUTINE". So either way somebody has to play second fiddle to repair hurt feelings. Second Fiddle is not disparaging to the helper. It means "the one who makes harmony". You have to consciously try to make music. Harmonize. Listen for the rhythm and the beat and help the other "sound good". All of this is loaded with potential. It takes loving creative effort. Anybody in for that? Blessings.

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      Leo gal 10 months ago

      so I'm a Leo girl who just turned 21 and I am into this aquarius guy who is much much older than me... His very friendly to everyone and were also good friends but we tease and make fun of each other when ever we get together. I have had a crush on him for as long as I can remember and I think he has one on me too but im not sure. Usually I like to look at him when his not watching or is distracted and most of the time he just goes about his business and never really notices me which is something ive gotten use to, this has kinda changed lately cause whenever i tend to look at him now he tends to look directly at me or is looking in my direction he sometimes hangs around me just last week we shared this gaze where he gave me a look that was kinda weird cause well I was checking him out and he noticed and I dont know he seemed to appreciate it or something I dont know what it was but it was weirdly nice.. He does sometimes try to disattach himself from me like usually we sit and talk but he tries to avoid this which kinda started recently but he couldn't stay away I guess... And most people that know us know we're close because well we kinda like the same things movies and TV series what I dont wanna get mixed up is his closeness for just being friendly unless oh gosh his treating me like a sibling than that would be weird. And his older which is something very different to me his turning 29 next year. last week I asked him if he wanted to go watch a movie with me which he didn't respond to and I kinda had a feeling before sending the message that wouldn't respond or would just reject me which actually turned out that way. Maybe I'm getting this all wrong I mean I do tend to over react and maybe I'm over analyzing this...

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      ABC leo 7 months ago

      I too love an Aquarius gal.. we met each other in our training .. she came first to me introducing herself and telling my whole class that she likes me.. that tym I didn't love her but in the two months of training as I spent tym with her ... And then when she got joining in different city I felt I am in love with her now.. but I came to know then that she too spent nyt with someone.. I asked her but she didn't accepted it.. but I know what others told me was true.. but still I love her.. I don't know what to do as she hates me a lot now and blocked me everywhere.. but I need her.. coz the tym we spent talking meeting each other and our eye to eye contact and mutual understanding that tym I don't feel I would be able to set that with anyone else.. what to do now

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