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How the Twin and the Fish Get Along
This series on AstroCompatibility will cover all of the potential matchups in the Zodiac. We will continue this series thinking about and commenting on Gemini and Pisces.
Pisces and Gemini Compatibility
Pisces is a Mutable Water Sign. Gemini is Mutable Air. Then think about the fact that both of you have this “two ness”. Pisces is a fish going in two different directions. Gemini is at least two people waking up each morning. It should give you a sense of comfort, while you whistle in the dark. Plainly, the biggest difference is that one of these abides in the stratosphere, and the other can be comfy in the deepest oceanic depths. Willingness becomes then, the key word. How much do they care for each other? Their oppositional elements can definitely go together, but they both have to be willing to get an “E Ticket” to the others’ territory. If Gemini demands selfishly to insist on not entering emotional quandaries, Neptunian insights, psychic discussions and topics about the subconscious, then maybe the Twin is not ready for the Fish. Conversely, the Fish would have to let the water stream from its gills and agree to go on an all-things-are possible trip soaring through the clouds. If the Fish is too reluctant to entertain this possibly uncomfortable aspect to the fast moving Gemini, then maybe it’s not for the best.
Piscean mystery has to do with the fact that they are both super wise, and somewhat out of it. It’s as if they are given a motion picture insight into everyone they meet, but self-understanding sometimes eludes them. Like a camera man who forgets he is a camera man and over identifies with the film, the Fish can forget. And sometimes, it’s a deep forgetfulness. There is potential beauty here though. If Gemini finds this Pisces, they can help lift, identify and classify the fishes’ soulfulness, give it a name, scrub it up and write a no nonsense story of resurrection for the one it loves.
Framed positively, both the Fish and the Twin have to look at their harmonics. The Pisces can add humor and wisdom to an individual who can often be accused of being way too cool and easily disengaged. Gemini can lift the Fish from introspective moodiness and make it not so hard to figure.
Gemini and Pisces should appreciate each others’ differences. Gemini might have to patiently bring a Fish out of a “Gloomy Gus” day every once in a while. Gemini having to slow down and care, is not such a bad thing. Pisces might have to stop moping and gear itself for the magician of communication, just to stay with the program and enjoy a partner who can spread some joy.
Pisces would want to avoid conflict. If they are forced into conflict, or to defend themselves, they can present a strongly felt, oceanic kind of suasion. They can get as nasty as they need to be, but what Gemini needs to watch out for is the fight that Pisces might keep waging, day after day after day, in other more quiet, but painful ways. The Twin is a debater extraordinaire, sarcasm personified. They are still always afraid that they might hurt too deeply. They often go too far and win the battle, but lose the war. This could be a very negative scenario.
Life in the end is repetitive and mundane, and so is Romance itself. This factor asks the question: "Can we be bored together over the long term?" This is a very heartening factor. Pisces boring lazy evenings could be quite appealing to the emotionally overwrought Gemini. The tired Fish, the hassled Gemini, could be quite happy seeking out the quietude of a “boring” scene.
Keep Up the Interest Graph
Gemini hates staleness. The Fish can be SO internal, that it lives on the inside and becomes a reluctant participant. Gemini can help with this deficit, and then actually end up benefiting from the Fish’s imagination. They can keep up the interest and also develop adaptability for each other.
Seven Year Itchiness
There are some signs that by their nature are more stable in their love interests and family concerns, as time goes on. Others are not. A Fish can lose touch with itself sometimes, and then swim into the murky depths of a nightclub. It might be in the 7th year, or not. Gemini is very fluid and easily contemplates any possibility. The care that they have shown each other would be their protection.
Astrocompatability Possibility Rating: 70% Positive Long Term—70% Short Term. Mutual attraction can definitely happen right off the bat. If these two do not implode with a lack of tolerance, patience and the miasma of emotionalism, they could be a sweet couple.
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Claire on October 09, 2018:
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I am a Gemini and I get along with a Pisces, mainly because I have a Scorpio Moon and my Scorpio comes out often. I get along with her because her Moon is a Sagittarius and I’m more likely to become friends with Sagittarius'. I love to talk and she listens to me but we don’t have the same humour even though she claims she does. Yesterday, she got mad at me because I had a razor and I jokingly approached her but she said I was going to murder her and became very angry. Now I’m too afraid to talk to her because it’s the first time we “fought” or got mad at eachother (pretty much one sided) and fights between friends are usually dooms day for me as fights in a friendship never make the friendship work at the end. I’m not apologetic at all as it’s humiliating to apologise so I didn’t. I just stared at her while she yelled at me and turned away.
Katie on September 28, 2018:
I'm a Pisces born 11 March. My partner of 7 years is a Gemini born 11 June.
He is my soul mate. As soon as I met him something in my mind told me he was the one I was going to be with for the rest of my life. We do have our struggles but we are deeply in love with eachother. Only problem is, he refuses to marry me. He struggles with commitment. It hurts me very badly and my self esteem is so low because of it. But I love him so much I can't live without him so I stay and tolerate it but I'm quite resentful about it. I just hope that one day he'll change his mind. I don't think he's being very fair to me, he doesn't have much empathy for me at all. Maybe he does, but he doesn't show it. It's always his way or the highway.
Yvonne on July 12, 2018:
Terrible match. Pisces will get very annoyed by gemini quickly. Gemini will think pisces is bipolar, but in reality, Pisces simply cannot stand Gemini.
Nicole on June 27, 2017:
I'm a Pisces and my best friend is a Gemini. I'd say I love hate this relationship. She is the most two faced person I've meet. She's manipulative and a lier. She's hot and cold all the time. It's difficult because she argues with me and I hate conflict. She also has a way of always having to be right and then always always puts me down. She insults me then the next minute she is coping me and doing the same thing. It's stressful being around her. She thinks I'm an idiot but I'm alot smarter then she thinks. I always catch her in her lies and always catch her telling someone personal things about me. It's an endless cycle that's been going on for 9 years and I'm over it and hurt.
smileekim on July 21, 2016:
I am a Pisces, and I have been dating a Gemini for quite sometime now. It's been a rough four years..in and out..stop and go.. twists and turns.. They can be so chatty and in tune with you, then suddenly be so cold. Oh, Geminis and their mood swings, but when they make an effort to make you happy, they'll really sweep you off your feet. They can give you that intense feeling of happiness. It's so confusing. They're so confusing. When things are bad, they're so bad, but when things are good, they're sooo good.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on May 29, 2012:
Tam: Geminis do have a "don't look inside me" kind of quality. However, Pisces is so soulful, they can be a bit off putting. As for "rudeness and arrogance" that is unfortunate indeed. If you are not going to have a relationship with a Gemini, I can see how these things could happen to you.
Tam on May 28, 2012:
Im a Pisces. Every Gemini I have come across has a guard up, is rude, arrogant and I just try and avoid any interaction as it hurts my soul. Gemini men are the worst. I think they feel threatened by Pisces woman because we are so open and out there. They can't handle it
GeminiLady on December 11, 2011:
I've been friends with a Pisces over 15 years and I still feel like its a waste of time, cause he's rarely present in the moment, but when he is it's so sweet.
NeNe on December 11, 2011:
I am a pisces dating a Gemini we been together 4 a year now it has been rough because it was hard 2 understand him because of the constant mood swings itz seems as though I am always upset with him but when he makes me happy its the most amazing feelin ever! Itz worth a try but just know they are so defensive, sneaky, liars, know it alls(well think they do), moody. Cancers are the best compatible signs 2 be with pisces.
Neat on December 07, 2011:
Geminis are the most irrational, impatient, defensive, angry know it alls. They can be upbeat but that's a persona until reality sets in. 2 personalities. I am a PISCES and hate confrontation. I have been put in a bad place by Geminis. Cancers are quite compatiable for PISCES.
Vanessa on September 14, 2011:
I have been with a Gemini for a few years and it has been a bumpy ride. Its seems I am unhappy a good amount of time but then when I am happy its an amazing feeling. I find it difficult at times to balance his constant changes of mood and sometimes wish it was easier.
Pamela N Red from Oklahoma on January 18, 2011:
I am Gemini and always seem to have men who are Aries or Pisces most interested in me. Not sure why since neither are supposed to be most compatible.
I am married to an Aries man.
Foxie on December 09, 2010:
Im pisces fallin for gemini, we'll see. . .