Aquarius Moon Sign Emotions

Updated on April 15, 2018
Jean Bakula profile image

Jean teaches astrology and metaphysical topics. She is an avid reader, published author, and lifetime member of the NJ Metaphysical Center.

The Age of Aquarius

Source

Aquarius Moon Sign People

One of my heroes, Henry David Thoreau once said, "Each man hears the beat of a different drummer, and must step to the music he hears." I am sure he would not mind if I update his famous quote to include women too. Especially Aquarius moon women and men. These are our friends that have those endearing (and sometimes not so endearing) eccentric traits. They have very strong likes and dislikes. They are independent and unconventional souls, who do what they think is best, and do not especially care if you approve of their actions or not.

But they grow on you, and you begin to respect the fact that they do not follow trends, and that they stay true to themselves. Since their Moon is in that erratic and unpredictable Aquarius sign, these people experience many sudden and unexpected changes in their lives. Another reason is that Uranus, the Planet of Lightning is their ruler. They are strong willed people who can roll with that. And when the changes are hard ones, like deaths or divorces, you will respect the grace and sensibility with which they handle what life deals out to them. It could be easy to label someone who changes so much as flaky, but since you cannot categorize an Aquarian, you would be wasting your time and opinion. They have their own view of the world, and nobody will persuade them otherwise. Life would be such a bore without them!

Aquarius Moon Sign Personality Traits

Aquarian moon sign people are air signs, and thus are very intelligent. They have many interests, and knowledge in many areas. They are the original DIY kind of people, they do not need help, thank you! They do have a humanitarian side, and are often leaders of groups to feed the hungry, or to raise money for a worthwhile cause. It is not their leadership abilities that surprise other people, but the kindness and hard work an Aquarian moon person will put into any kind of project to benefit the less fortunate. They often do volunteer work, and care about groups of people a great deal. They like people in a detached sort of way. So that's why you will find them off fighting for causes, yet not letting too many people get close to them personally.

Most Aquarius moon sign people are quite friendly and agreeable, in an impersonal kind of way. They have kind hearts, and really do listen when others speak. Just don't tread on their personal space and you will get along fine. I realize they may seem hard to understand, but once you get down these few basics, you will find you have a very smart, well read and interesting friend who is worth the time you put in to get to know them better.

Aquarius moon sign people get bored easily, so make sudden changes in life that a faint-hearted person would not consider. Marriage does not really suit their independent spirit, unless they find a soul mate who understands their need for autonomy and realizes this is a person they cannot hover over, no matter how much they love them. They are perfectly capable people and know what they want and what they are doing. An Aquarian moon will not put up with a situation not to their liking for too long. Either you toe the line and shape up, or you will no longer be welcome in their life! They do not waste time on lost causes.

Aquarius moon sign people are usually interested in things that others might find unusual. I know one who is a mortician by trade. She thinks gory stories about autopsies interest others as much as they interest her, which results in some awkward moments. You can often hear them talking about something strange at a party, and others are trying to get away or are rolling their eyes. But they do not want to be like everyone else, and do not understand why others cannot see that.

Aquarius moon sign people are very inventive and love to take things apart to see if they can put them back together. They like science and have mechanical abilities. The women know how to fix their own cars or motorcycles. They most likely have a few tattoos as well. Their way of dressing will also be different. Say, it's 2016, and the Aquarius moon person you have your eye on likes to dress in clothes from the 1950's. They just like to be their own person, and you have to go with that. Although they grow up to be very productive members of society, they will always dress or act a bit differently than the average person. And that's fine, because they will never be "average." Why be average when you can be original? That's what makes them so much fun to be with when you go out. Aquarians like to go to concerts and shows, and like to have a good time. They really are a positive addition to any group.

Aquarius Woman who Expresses Herself

Source

A Fixed Sign who can Cope with Change

Aquarius is a fixed sign, which normally makes it's natives resistant to change. It is more complicated in the case of an Aquarius moon sign person. Their basic outlook on life will stay pretty much the same. But their Uranus ruler will cause chaos and upheaval in their lives, and so they will have to deal with more change than the other fixed signs, Taurus, Leo and Scorpio. Add in their low tolerance for boredom and bright and curious minds, and you have a person who is much more open to change than their other fixed partners in the zodiac. This is what makes them such great conversationalists, and so open-minded about the way other people live.

When somebody is discussing their problems, and the Aquarian has had that experience, they do empathize. They will offer suggestions and advice. But chances are that the Aquarian moon was able to pick themselves up faster and get life back on track much more quickly. Why waste time on something that is not worth the trouble? The world is an interesting place with places to go, people to see. Aquarian moon sign people have a practical side that they do not normally let out too much. But they do make quick decisions once they have all the facts. They are also interested in occult subjects, and have psychic abilities. Since they are so independent, you will often find them as owners of their own businesses. And it will not be a mainstream business.

They will own a store that sells mostly organic and vegetarian products. Aquarian moon sign people put much thought into whatever they put in or on their bodies. Perhaps they make their own line of body creams and cosmetics, or practice some kind of natural healing, or own a metaphysical store. Whatever they decide to do, their brilliant minds and commitment to the task at hand will make it a success. And you will be delighted to stop and chat once in a while to catch up with whatever is going on in their lives. Whatever it is, it sure will not be boring!

Questions & Answers

  • Can you tell me about a Taurus Sun and Aquarius moon personalities, such as their negatives and positives?

    Taurus Sun people are usually kind and easy to get along with. They are sensible and reliable, and like to have security in their lives. Being loyal, they will often work a job for many years as long as they get promotions and raises. They are family oriented and conservative for the most part. Taurus is ruled by Venus, so they don't like to argue. It takes a lot to get them mad, but once every few years they do, so watch out!

    The Aquarius Moon is how the person's emotional life works. This sign doesn't work as well with Taurus. While Taurus wants security in a relationship, Aquarius thrives on change and excitement. It's hard to pin down an Aquarius moon person regarding their emotions. They may love you madly, and then ignore you for hours. They get involved in causes they care about, and put time into that. They are nonconformists.

    Both are fixed signs, so this person likes to get their own way. But just knowing the Sun and Moon position doesn't give me much to work with. Every planet was in a sign when you were born, and in one of 12 houses, all with 3 or 4 meanings.

  • My Sun, Moon, and Mercury are all in Aquarius. Is this bad?

    No, don't worry. I don't look at zodiac signs as being good or bad, or any other factors in astrology. They are normally positive or negative, but you always have free will, and there are aspects in everyone's chart to help them through difficult times.

    You are stubborn and opinionated with three placements in Aquarius. But also very intelligent, so you research topics and know what you are talking about. The Sun means you are a nonconformist who has to do things your own way, and there is nothing wrong with that. It makes you interesting.

    The Moon in Aquarius means you can act detached from others at times, but again, you probably do care about people quite a bit. You don't always show it or tell them. They won't know unless you do, so work on communicating your feelings. Your emotions change often, and that can seem confusing to you and others, but again, it's nothing you can't straighten out.

    Mercury rules the way you think. You are interested in so many things, and your mind is always going, I bet you can't turn it off to sleep. But it's highly intelligent, and you understand complicated subjects that baffle other people. It's great for communication in any form if you are in a tech field or are a writer. You are slow to change your opinions, and will be accused of being stubborn, but I don't know the other planet placements.

    I think you would be attracted to someone with many fire signs in their chart. Also, it seems like an odd combo, but Cancers are very changeable too, and I know many Cancer/Aquarius couples. It's hard to express why it works, it just does. Aquarius has big revelations and changes, and Cancer changes every 2 or so days when the Moon does. I hope that helps; it's not bad, don't worry.

  • What are your thoughts on a Capricorn sun, Aquarius moon, Scorpio Rising and Venus?

    Your Capricorn Sun means you are ambitious and want to be noticed and make a name for yourself. You plan for the future, and have leadership ability. You are serious and reliable, but do have a dry sense of humor. Capricorns are emotional, but don't show it in public, but you do have strong feelings.

    The Aquarius Moon makes you a bit of a nonconformist, and I like this because the Scorpio gets sensible again. You have strong views on most things. Emotionally you are confusing to be with, as one day you seem to care a lot, and others you can be very detached. You need space in a relationship, but that can work with the right person.

    Scorpio rising makes you seem reserved, I have it too, and people tell me I sometimes seem like I don't want to be bothered. But Scorpios take time to get to know others, and do sort of decide if they really want certain people in their lives. Your serious demeanor can be intimidating to others. But you are a loyal friend and get very involved in issues you really care about. You are good at reading people.

    I think you mean your Venus is in Scorpio? That's a passionate Venus, but can sometimes run hot or cold, especially with the Aquarius Moon. It's normally a passionate Venus. It can be described as jealous or possessive, but I believe the Aquarius moon works well in this case, and you are not as detached as a usual Aquarius moon person, although you still want some space. If somebody doesn't interest you a lot, you probably won't just date for a little while; I think you would figure the person out fast, and be all in or all out.

© 2011 Jean Bakula

Comments

    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      7 weeks ago from New Jersey

      Hi Jessjay,

      I think go along with your nonconformist ways, because that's the way you are. I find that as we get older, we are more accepting of ourselves, and it gets easier to not fit the mold so much. I bet you would rather be a bit lonely than have to be pretending to be someone you aren't. It's brave. Confidence comes along with maturity, and I think you will be fine! Hang in there and take care!

    • profile image

      Jessjay 

      7 weeks ago

      Thank you Jean! I’m shocked at how closely this resembles myself.

      I find that l never seem to fit in anywhere in any group, it’s lonely but at the same time I don’t want to be the type of person that would fit in. Do these feelings or the loneliness it creates ease with age? Any incite?

      Thank you

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      2 months ago from New Jersey

      Asha,

      I can't really answer this as an astrology question. I don't know anything about his astrology, and very little of yours. If you can't even talk to him and communicate with him enough to see if you have anything in common, and you already feel uncomfortable, I don't know how to help you. If you want to know if he is interested, you have to do the work and try to get to know him. This isn't astrology, it's common sense. Good luck.

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      2 months ago from New Jersey

      Hello Simarae,

      This is a lot of information, and it would take me at least two hours to compare two completed astrology charts. What I have to work with here is just planets in Zodiac signs, and it leaves out so much. But since you've read so many of my articles and have been so kind, I will try to interpret what I can, because when you read my work, you are putting your time in too!

      I'll start with your Virgo Sun. This means you are reliable, practical, intelligent, and get bored easily. A Sagittarius Sun squares your Virgo one, but this adds challenge to a relationship, and in my marriage, which was a good one, we had several squares. This can cause attraction, and besides, we don't want to be with a carbon copy of ourselves. Sag Sun people are outgoing. They have strong principles, which you will respect with your Virgo Sun. You both like nature and spend time outdoors. A Sag person is broad minded and likes sports. Some of them are chatty, and some are quiet, but they are easy to get along with and usually fun too.

      Your Sag Moon shows me you want some emotional distance in a relationship, or in any emotional area of life. You are restless and don't judge other people. I think you like to travel or love a particular foreign culture.The Aquarius Moon is a nonconformist who may care a great deal, but will be hard to pin down in a relationship. It's a very changeable person, in a sort of fun and quirky way. So the Sag and Aquarius moons will work well in a partnership.

      Mercury rules how you think, and in Virgo you are analytical, smart, and big on common sense. The Scorpio Mercury is also serious, but has a need to research and get to the bottom of everything. It's a persistent or stubborn thinker. But Virgo and Scorpio are Earth and Water, and compatible as far as thinking goes. Venus in Virgo is a hard placement, it's hard for you to express yourself in love, and it may be that sometimes you settle for friendship with a person rather than a romantic relationship, because you don't want to lose a good friend. A Scorpio Venus is very sexy and intense, and that intensity can scare you, although you have it in you to be sensual. Scorpio Venus is possessive, but since there is also the Aquarius Moon, that can make jealousy less. Mars rules the physical things we do, yours in Virgo and the other in Pisces are opposites, Pisces is a dreamer who is good at creative projects, and you are the balance who helps keep things sensible. Opposites are fine, I don't know why people are afraid of them. You both want the same things, but go after getting them in different ways.

      I can't tell much else without casting a whole horoscope, as I can't tell what houses these planets are in, and each house has at least three meanings. I also can't see how far the planets are from each other, so this is a small percentage of what a horoscope would be. It's not a bad combination, it's worth a try and I see some positive points in it. I wish you the best and let me know how it goes. Best, Jean

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      2 months ago from New Jersey

      Same to you. I'll get to your questions as soon as I can! Take care.

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      2 months ago from New Jersey

      Hello Simarae,

      I've searched all my life for a religion to believe in, but have never felt at home with any of them. My Dad was a Catholic, but the Church was scary to me as a child and I stopped going, it gave me nightmares, and my Dad got disillusioned with the hypocrisy. Long story. My Mom was Dutch Reform, it's very strict, you can't drink, dance, play cards, sing, it's very repressive and she spent her life rebelling against it. I have studied many religions. A Pagan is just someone who worships nature and the Earth, or appreciates it, it's not Wiccan or anything evil. I do astrology as personality profiles and tarot readings to help people who are stuck in their lives. You can decide if you want me to answer the other question.

    • profile image

      Simarae 

      2 months ago

      Oops sorry there was a error in the last message. I misread something in your profile sorry about that. I need to find out more about what is paganism.

    • profile image

      Simarae 

      2 months ago

      By the way, just wanted to say, your articles and knowledge is really a gift. Thanks for sharing your insight. I've clicked into your profile to check out your other articles. My Virgo Mercury loves your concise yet in depth way of expression; haha. And it's so awesome to live out in nature, I'd want to make such changes too. And I like how you mentioned that you don't identify necessarily as pagan but get messages from nature. I felt the same way growing up. So many messages in the patterns and cycles around us. Anyways thanks and wish you well too. Cheers!

    • profile image

      Simarae 

      2 months ago

      Hi Jean, your article is very informative and easy to understand! Thanks! I'm just curious about how to understand a combination of Sagittarius Sun, Aquarius Moon, Scorpio Mercury, Scorpio Venus, Pisces Mars, Jupiter Aries, Saturn Sag, NN Aries.

      I am Virgo Sun, Sag moon (in 9th house), Virgo Mercury, Venus & Mars, Jupiter Aries, Saturn Sag, NN Aries. Pisces Rising.

      Much love

    • profile image

      Asha 

      2 months ago

      Hi I am Taurus moon and suggittarius sun. I like one guy from work almost right away ! He knew I liked him. We never felt comfortable talking or communicating properly though! We just stair at each other

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      2 months ago from New Jersey

      Anna,

      It's not hopeless. But I don't want you to hold onto false hope either. Give it a little more time, not much if it's been going on this long. See how it goes and maybe give him an ultimatum--but be prepared to walk away if he balks. Somebody devoted could be near and you aren't meeting him as you waste time on someone who won't commit. He's old enough to stop blaming his Mother for his faults. Don't make excuses for him.

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      2 months ago from New Jersey

      Anna,

      No astrology doesn't rule us. We always have Free Will and the power to change things. I just don't want you to be hurt.

    • profile image

      AnnaChava 

      2 months ago

      I suppose what I mean to ask.. (pardon my previous Pity response!!) But in truth, do you feel we would have something that would be of solid foundation in our relationship for a positive successful future? I understand the sexual square attraction and chemistry but that may not always last. Also, he is actually mercury in cancer!(not gemini- my typo!) Just looking for some encouragement if it is actually appropriate in this star compatibility with him and I. Like what would work in our favor to support a cancer sun/Venus/mercury/8th house and aquarius moon allowing himself to attach/commit emotionally long term. He did have a narcissist maternal figure who I do think affects his ability to demonstrate love, either out of fear of further rejection and/or criticism. Thank you for your time, insight and kindness. I'm not ready to let go quite yet but you're right, I don't want my heart broken and I dont want to wait another 2 years until I sense a whole hearted committment. Thank u.

    • profile image

      AnnaChava 

      3 months ago

      Hi Jean! Truly, what a remarkable response to my question! I am so thankful. My heart almost breaks reading how his cancer and Aquarius influence seems to show he is easily bored and not one to settle .. it almost seems that long term we may not stand a solid chance even if he does stop stalling or whatever it is he is doing now. We've been together almost 2 years, both 31 now. I have given him freedom and the option to let me go, but he does not choose this, however avtions-wise, he tends to keep very busy fixing anything and helping everyone, even me.. however intimacy he doesn't focus on much. I know you stay it's not hopeless but I'm reading it seeing that it is not engrained in him to settle down.. if so, maybe in another decade! Does astrology rule us or can we become more than what the stars depict if we are emotionally aware and invested? Oh dear.

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      3 months ago from New Jersey

      Hi Anna,

      I think I answered this in another question. All I can add is with his Mercury in Cancer, he thinks with his heart, not his head. The 8th house ruled by Cancer means he will probably inherit money or work in the insurance industry or with other people's money. The Gemini on the 7th means he likes change and may not settle down. He may be afraid to based on past family issues.

      I didn't know you had Venus in Pisces. That's a very psychic and sensitive placement. His detachment can hurt you and I wouldn't like to see this. I think his moods change often, now that I see he has another planet in Cancer. It's the Aquarius/ Cancer combo that causes all the change. I think my advise above still applies. Take care.

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      3 months ago from New Jersey

      Hello Anna,

      Well, you are a very ambitious woman! Aries and Capricorn are both cardinal signs of leadership, so knowing what is called your Trinity tells me you will accomplish what you set out to do. Your Aries Sun gives you an outgoing and adventurous attitude towards life, and you like to try new things. Aries people are ardent and demonstrative in love. You are warm and fun to be with.

      The Capricorn influences are a little different. The Capricorn Moon shows that you often hold your feelings in--though the Aries Sun helps with that. You are a bit at odds with your feelings, because Capricorn Moons like to show them in private, and Aries wants to shout it from the rooftops when in love. The Capricorn Rising is the way others see you, and you come off as reserved. You don't like to waste time on people if you don't think they are worth it. You are also family oriented and like to plan ahead. This causes you frustration with your BF because you like security in your love life. You are sensuous and loving. But you do want commitment and to tell others where this is going.

      You are right about your love, his Aquarius Moon and Sag rising do mean he likes freedom. But I like the Cancer Sun and Venus. This sign is a square to your Aries and Capricorn, meaning a challenge, but this can be sexy and exciting in a love relationship. People tend to think planets need to be all in easy aspects in love, but that would get boring. So this is good. Cancers also want security, but in the Sun sign, they get bored easily and Cancer men don't do well in marriages for some reason, many get divorced and have been married two or three times. Maybe too much Yin energy? But the Cancer Venus is romantic and gentle, he is sensitive and caring, nurturing, and probably wants a family some day.

      The Aquarius Moon means his emotions change suddenly, and actually since Cancer is ruled by the Moon, Cancers change all the time. The Aquarius in him makes bigger, more sudden and drastic changes, the Cancer, smaller changes, like a few times a week. The Sag rising means he likes the outdoors, and Sag people either appear really chatty or very quiet.He has a high moral code and may love foreign travel or philosophy and higher education. Since he has Cancer in him, I think he's the chatty type. I also like the Sag rising with your Aries Sun.

      I don't know your ages or how long you have been together. I understand you would like a bit more of a clue where you stand with him. His signs are contradictory. I think I would continue on, but keep your eyes open, and if he isn't ready to commit within a reasonable length of time, let him go. You know what you want out of life and want to start planning that, and he may be too changeable for you. I can't tell if he's just stalling with you, or if he really isn't ready to settle down. I think he can with the Cancer in him. Just be aware he can change his mind down the road even if you marry him. Don't let him break your heart. Give it some more time, but if you aren't making progress, you may have to walk away. I wish you the best. It's not hopeless, there are good things here. It's a matter of how long you want to put life on hold for him.

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      3 months ago from New Jersey

      Thanks so much for your feedback.

    • profile image

      JMo 

      3 months ago

      That was a great article =) I have Sun/Moon in Aquarius 8th house. Relate to all of that.

    • profile image

      AnnaChava 

      3 months ago

      Hi Jean. This article is quite insightful as I am dating an aquarius moon. I was wondering if you could provide more specific insight into our relationship as sometimes I find we aren't connecting as well -- sometimes i attribute this to childhood wounds and sometimes i look at astrology and i see how profoundly it can affect us. He is Cancer sun (not a very affectionate/caring mother), Sag rising, Venus in Cancer and Aquarius Moon. Mercury in Cancer and his 8th house in Cancer as well. 7th in Gemini. I am an Aries Sun (also rough start with mother/daughter relationship, no father), Capricorn rising AND moon, and Venus in Pisces, my 7th house in cancer, 8th in Leo. Thank you for your time and insight :) I love him very much but sometimes I feel like his words don't always match his actions - perhaps it comes from his detached side? Either way, I guess I'm also seeking some guidance.

    • profile image

      Anna 

      3 months ago

      Hi Jean! I am an aries sun, cap rising/moon -- I am having a bit of trouble fully connecting/understanding my cancer sun male with aquarius moon, cancer venus and sagittarius rising (more freedom!). We match on so many levels and then when it comes to the future, or commitment, he really just doesn't know what to say. He doesn't even care to know where he will live in the next year! I would follow him anywhere if he only asked me to. Anyway, just looking for some insight into this pairing. His signs seem to all contradict themselves a bit, but i am no astro expert! Thank you.

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      3 months ago from New Jersey

      Hi Nikki,

      I'm Cancer too, and my first love was a Capricorn as well. I was also young when we met, and saw him on and off for a few years. As I got older, I realized I was achieving more in life than he was, and he had me on a pedestal, and that's not as easy as it sounds. Capricorn is our opposite sign, and most of us fall for our opposite one time or other.

      First I will warn you that if Mr. Libra still hasn't kicked the substance abuse problem, he isn't going too. Why set yourself up for that, astrology aside? What you say about the house alignment is true, if you have that it means you have similar feelings and attitudes about the important things in life, and that's positive for any long term relationship.

      As you say, Cancer and Libra are squared, but that's not bad in itself, we need challenges or it can be boring in a love affair. People over exaggerate squares. The Taurus Moon means he does want to settle down with someone and is very sensual. Being Libra and having Venus in Libra he really wants to be half of a partnership, Libra rules the marriage house. This bodes well for your Aquarius Moon. Being a Cancer with an Aquarius Moon you change all the time so he won't be bored. You are strongly your own person and nobody can change that.

      The Leo and Sag ascendants are also good, both fire signs who want to go out and have fun, but you want nice things in life, and his in Sag means he's more lax about things in general. He likes the outdoors. Your Venus in Gemini means you get bored in a relationship if it isn't exciting enough, or you will have two great loves in your life. You also may have been seeing two people at one time.

      I can see why you were reunited with him, you are very compatible from the info you gave me. But I have qualms about the drugs. Can you really talk about it? I think you can communicate well, but in the end it takes strength for him to walk away from drugs, and we can't change somebody, change has to come from him, from within.

      People have trouble with unconditional love. Some of them didn't have parents where they always felt love, and some, like us, were hurt by first loves. What's the saying, "the first cut is the deepest?"

      I think you will give Libra another try no matter what I say, so do it if you must. Just promise to keep your eyes open and don't let him drag you down, OK?? I am not saying he can't change, he has the potential, I just don't know if he will. Best of luck to you both. Jean

    • profile image

      Nikki 

      3 months ago

      Hi Jean, what a great article! This describes me so well haha it’s eerie haha, I wanted some insight and an honest opinion.

      I’m a Cancer with a moon in Aquarius, ascendant in Leo, venus in Gemini but there’s a man that has caught my interest but I’m hesitant to continue to pursue him since I’ve learned some things and have noticed...I feel uncomfortable with. We had similar upbringings but I think the way we both handle pain is extremely different from one an another.

      I know his chart he is Libra, Taurus moon, Sagittarius ascendant, venus in Libra I’ve read bits here and there trying to make sense of it all. He has a substance abuse problem and though he claims he doesn’t do it often it still irks me. It would be a no brainer but the thing is he and I met long ago when I was 18 and he was 24, now my age...at the time I was in love with a Capricorn man, so I pursued the seagoat but it was fail attempt, and I distant myself from the Libra man because I don’t like to string along others. Anyway eventually over the years I asked the universe to reunite me with him and one day, well it happened but now I feel confuse because I can tell he’s a great person but it’s that one thing that I just don’t like and when I don’t like something it’s an intense dislike. I thought I could overlook it at first but I don’t want to change him either because I wouldn’t want someone to change me but I don’t have a substance abuse problem. I feel like I’m a square next to him. I’m not sure if you need any other alignment but what I have noticed is that our houses are complementary to one another I’m not sure if that’s more important then the planets. Eventually I’m going to have to talk to him and discuss what’s bothering me. Also the Capricorn man broke me down and because of him he taught me many lessons, one of the being to be more like him less emotional more objective, not spreading yourself thin for others and focus more oneself. I’m a sucker for love but knowing that I cannot love unconditionally, as I did the first time. I feel detach more so now with people and things, l feel a more realistic approach to life and all it’s shenanigans.

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      3 months ago from New Jersey

      You are smart and precise about what you want, but also witty and fun to be with because of your many interests. The Cancer Moon makes you nurturing and considerate. Libra Rising shows you have ambition (so does Cancer) and you like being half of a partnership in work or love.

      The Aries Sun is square to the Cancer and Libra, but this can make an exciting difference between you that keeps life interesting. Her Aquarius Moon means she is distant at times, but it isn't personal, she's like that with everyone. Give her some space and don't get too clingy. Scorpio Rising means she has a strong presence and likes to finish what she starts. She is very sexy. I think the Scorpio in her will go well with the Virgo and Cancer in you, and the rest will keep you interested enough to wonder what happens next. Why not?

    • profile image

      matthewsavenue 

      3 months ago

      I am a virgo male with a cancer moon and libra rising. She is an Aries female with aquarius moon and scorpio rising.

      Will you give me some insight on how this may work.

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      4 months ago from New Jersey

      That Cancer Moon creativity will help you get ideas for your fiction! I think there is hope for this combination. Cancer and Aries Suns are squared, and this is a challenging aspect, but we need some of that if we don't want to be bored to death in a relationship. Being Cancer, you do need some distance or time to yourself, but you can explain that it's not because you don't want to be with him. An Aries can be emotionally less mature than a Cancer, and he wants to be front and center all the time. But adults need to understand that others have needs too. He may hurt your feelings without meaning to, Aries people just blurt out whatever is on their minds.

      Libra and Aquarius Moons are good, they are air signs, representing emotions, so you can easily communicate your feelings to each other. Once again, the Aquarius Moon of yours also needs some distance, and you probably seem disengaged to him at times. His Libra Moon craves relationships, and once he decides it's you, he wants you to be with him every minute. He has to learn you have other obligations. But I think you can work through this issue. Your Cancer and Aquarius both make for a changeable person. But so do his Aries Sun and Aries Ascendant, so you both change on a pretty regular basis. So you should see this in both of yourselves.

      I like the Aries and Sag Ascendants. You are both approachable and friendly. He is a sort of "life of the party" kind of guy. You can come off as either talkative or quiet at first, there are two types of Sag people. You are philosophical and take the long view of life, a grounding influence on him. He is a very ambitious person and a born leader. You know what you want, but have a quirky side and may be sort of unconventional, but want security. But that's fine, be yourself.

      I don't see any big complications here. You have a Cancer Sun so like to know where you are going, and an ambitious person will be attractive to you. He can find you lovable and quirky. I think this is a positive mix. Best of luck in the relationship, you have what it takes to work it all out. Have fun.

    • profile image

      APandaAFoxABear 

      4 months ago

      Cool article. I have a few questions regarding my moon and it's compatibility with other moons. I'm a cancer, with an aqua moon and sag ascendant. The person I love is an Aries sun, Libra moon, Aries ascendant. Some astrology sites say that it's not going to work with that mash up, which disheartens me because I was really late bloomer when it came to feeling romantic love and this person was my best friend before we became a couple. I'm female, he's male, if that helps. I had loved people before of course, but I often just felt a strong friendship and kin connection with them and assumed that was the same as romantic love, but when I became close to this Aries, I realized that it was different. I'm hitting a rough patch lately because he started a new job and I'm struggling to make my way into my chosen profession (fiction writer-there now you know I'm broke lol) and I think I've been making myself distant and it's not helping our relationship but the last thing I want is cause a rift or distance. I just want it to be okay with us, because I have never loved like this before. I'm not sure what I'm asking here lol. I'm very out of touch with my emotions.

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      5 months ago from New Jersey

      Hi John,

      I'm so happy what I wrote was helpful to you. Teaching astrology is always a good refresher for me! The Moon is all about your emotions, so yes, the aspects to the Moon are very important. The aspects to your Sun, Moon and Ascendant are the most important.

      Since all your planets are in an astrology sign and house, many of them have aspects to other planets. When I interpret a horoscope, I usually interpret the most important ones, and try to keep it at around 15 aspects or so. I am long winded, and when I interpret a chart I always end up with 20 pages, even when I try to be concise. Astrology is a lot of information, enough to be a life time study.

      I've been having a devil of a time trying to remember how to cast a composite chart. I only ever did the one for myself and my late husband, and I have been searching piles of folders of notes. I have a computerized one which agrees with my findings on the one I did myself, but mine is a copy, and I didn't copy the math it originally was cast from. I finally realized about two days ago that it's about the times of both births where I have to start, and I was able to get the degree of Sun for the both of us. But that still makes it hard to find the average point of the midheaven, ascendant and all the other planets and house cusps. I am still working on it.

      It's a great thing to have. Because of Prince Harry and Meghan, I wanted to try one, and still can't find any directions. I don't like synergy charts, it's no different than casting charts for both people and just reading, "Well his Moon is in Cancer, so he's very family oriented, and he Moon is in Capricorn, so she's very ambitious." Then you sit and compare each planet to planet, that's what sites do. So they would have opposite Moons, not really a problem, they just go about showing their feelings in a different way.

      A true composite is a 3rd chart. It's not the chart of you or the other person. It's the chart of the relationship itself, a 3rd entity. Believe me, it's driving me crazy, though I am closer to recalling how it's done now that I can get a composite sun. When I finally recall how it's done, I'll look you up on this hub, or you can find me at jeanbakula@wordpress.com. I never developed it much, it's mostly a landing site for orders, but I do check it and want to make it different. Maybe more posts, but smaller astrology tidbits.

      Thanks for your continued interesting questions.T Keep studying! Take care, Jean

    • profile image

      John 

      5 months ago

      You articulated your reply very well. Thank you Jean.

      I was wondering, how important are moon aspects in the chart? or any other planet. negatively or positively aspected. essentially how important are aspects in the chart?

      Also, in one of your replies on this article, you briefly mentioned that you had a composite chart done and reading it 39years later it was spot on. Do you perhaps have an article about this experience?

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      5 months ago from New Jersey

      Hi John,

      Did you check out the article about houses? It explains more than I can here.

      Yes, the degrees matter. But I think newer astrologers get too caught up in them. There are 30 degrees in each astrology sign, 0-29.. They are split into something called decans. So 0 degrees to 9 would be the first decan of let's say Aquarius, 10-19 degrees would be the 2nd decan ,

      and 20-29 degrees would be the 3rd decan. In my experience, the degree only matters if it's really close. Let's say a Sun is in 29 degrees of Aquarius. Now, newer astrologers would MOVE the Sun if it was within 3 degrees, and put it in the next house.

      I'm a purist, and have a Sun like that in the 8th house. So some would insist on putting it in the 9th house. As my personality goes, it could really be in either one. But the 8th house is correct, and reflects my life experience the most, although many of my interests and love of travel are in the 9th house.

      I say stick with the real position. The seconds don't really matter, 1 minute or 60 seconds isn't going to change your life.

      Some also think if the planet is in the 1st decan, you don't feel it or exhibit the traits as much, exhibit them more in the 2nd, and early in the 3rd, still like the 2nd, but as it gets farther towards the 29th degree, you take on traits of the next sign. I think it's BS.

      I hope that helped and wasn't too confusing. A site that I trust and is pretty good for a computerized site is Cafe Astrology.com. But I'm happy to answer your questions. I have hopeless people who write to me, and I have sophisticated ones who are really trying to learn, and I feel so excited by that! I want to cry when I get a naysayer who still thinks it's all about where your Sun was at birth. I've been studying this since I was 10 yr. old, and still have a lot to learn! Keep going, there are a lot of directions to go in!

    • profile image

      John 

      5 months ago

      Thanks Jean. I enjoy your articles. Its very different to the cookbook interpretations I frequently find on the internet.

      Does a degree of the house have any effect on the sign and the house? for example, Venus 9th house 21 degrees 30' or moon in Aquarius 12th house 4 degrees 42'

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      5 months ago from New Jersey

      Hi John,

      The house placement has a HUGE influence over the planets. I preach this until I can't take it anymore. When people give me the trinity or a sun sign, I can't tell much. It takes around 12 hours to cast and interpret an astrology chart, and I charge for it. There are 12 houses that have at least 3 meanings each. I have the link to an article I wrote that explains this: http://hubpages.com/astrology/The-Twelve-Houses-of... The picture is large and you will be able to see some of the house meanings yourself.

      The 9th house does rule foreign countries, but in most love relationships it is more likely to mean she may be from another country or will love foreign travel a lot. The house also rules higher education, so she can be a teacher or is well educated or smart. It rules law and philosophy too. So has she been involved in lawsuits or is she a lawyer? Does she read about philosophies often, or read a lot for the love of reading? That would be a more complete look at her Venus. Librans are romantic, and she probably is good looking, needs attention and likes beautiful things.

      The 4th house is about home, but also real estate, and your relationships with family. So you may want to putter around the house, or could invest in real estate often. You do love home, but basically having Venus in the 4th isn't about stability (though you know yourself), that would be your Moon sign when we look for what gives us stability. You are more possessive than she is, but that will keep you close, and Libras like to be with a loved one practically every minute anyway. You'll be fine.

      I have other articles on Exemplore, explaining Moon signs and Sun Signs. I also cover Venus signs on Letterpile.com, where I made up fictional couples, but made them with the same Venus sign. You can find them there and read Libra and Scorpio to get the idea. Have fun. Jean

    • profile image

      John 

      5 months ago

      Hi Jean

      Thanks for a great article.

      I was wondering, does the house placement of the moon (or any other planet) have any influence ?

      For example my partner has a Libra Venus 9th (squared Uranus and Neptune) and I have a Venus in Scorpio 4th. Astrologically speaking, from my basic google interpretation, is that she is attracted to adventurous foreign types while i'm more attracted to home and stability.

      Would love to get your thoughts on the house placements of signs.

      John

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      6 months ago from New Jersey

      Hi LaLee,

      You are very welcome! I am always happy to hear a positive outcome. I have a good feeling about you two! Jean

    • profile image

      LaLee Bee 

      6 months ago

      Thank you so much! He is being absolutely wonderful. We are still a very new couple and are creating our boundaries with each other as well as the foundation of how we relate... It seems like he just wants to philosophize objectively with me at times when I'm interested in being intimate! But the troubles seem to have opened us to new intimacy, so maybe my sag moon is ok with his meandering aquarian thoughts... as long as that ascendant in leo makes my cancer feel like a queen & his virgo makes my scorpio feel safe... we're pretty golden. I will totally be checking back in with you! I love your site. And thank you!!

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      6 months ago from New Jersey

      Hello Kyra,

      Since the Moon rules emotions, Aquarius can make you seem a bit aloof at times. You may be really close with somebody one day, and forget their name the next. You need freedom in a relationship and like to do things our own way. So a clingy person or someone who is too needy may get annoying.

      The Cancer Sun makes you nurturing though, so you may experience that need to have some space, and not tell people. You are basically kind and gentle. The Cancer Mercury means you think with your heart, and the Venus Mercury shows you are a true romantic. Three planets in the same sign is called a stellium in astrology. So you exhibit many Cancer traits. You are tender and part of you does want security, and you are artistic and likely psychic too.

      Cancers are as changeable as Aquarians can be erratic, so this can work for you! I actually know many Cancer/Aquarius couples. Both signs get bored easily, and crave change, or can want it suddenly. So it works in an odd sort of way. Cancers need time to themselves, and Aquarius needs to be aloof because they are so interested in learning new things.

      The Leo rising is the facade you show, or how those who don't know you well see you. Leo is a warm and outgoing sign, loves to entertain, throw parties, go out a lot. So on the surface you seem more sociable than you are. The messy part is because you do need occasional solitude, and emotionally both the stelllium in Cancer and your emotional nature of Aquarius demands it.

      Leos and Cancers hate to say no. But you can try to practice it, I think that's causing emotional confusion and disarray. You want to socialize and have fun, but need "down" time. Work on that, you'll get there. Best Wishes.

    • profile image

      Kyra 

      6 months ago

      Hi Jean,

      Love this article so much. Truly a pleasure to read.

      I'm a Cancer Sun, Aquarius Moon, and Leo Rising. Lately I've been experiencing a lot of mental disarray, especially with understanding my emotions. They've always been messy, and I think my Cancer Sun, Mercury and Venus contributes to that greatly.

      Still curious if you have any insight or advice for an Aquarius Moon.

      Thank you!!!

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      6 months ago from New Jersey

      Hi La Lee,

      That Moon in Aquarius will make him "check out" emotionally at times. I don't know how long you have been together. Your Moon and Venus in Sag should be OK with him not being a clingy kind of person, but it does hurt when it seems like someone isn't listening, or is expressing things in a hurtful way. Your ascendant in Cancer does make you super sensitive, and Scorpio Sun means you are possessive, even though the Sag in you is a help in the relationship. His Sun in Virgo also works well with your Cancer and Scorpio.

      His Ascendant and Venus in Leo also bode well for your Sag planets. I think you hit it on the head. You need to decide if you can handle that aloof part of him, because at times when you need him, he may be in his own world. I don't think he intentionally wants to hurt you, it's just how he is. I do believe there is hope. We all go through phases, and maybe the timing is just bad lately. Take some more time and think about it. If he keeps putting you off for a long period and you can't get any answers, then you may have to move on. But not just yet, wait a bit. Keep me posted, we can always do a tarot reading.

    • profile image

      LaLee Bee 

      6 months ago

      Hey Jean, thx so much for this. It's really well written. I'm seeking insight on my partner (moon in Aquarius, sun in Virgo, both asc & venus in Leo) and his really strange way of behaving since we've gotten comfortable. He loves me, is devoted to me, is flying across the world to be with me, an generally takes great care with me when I'm upset, but has recently started to kind of disengage when he's talking to me. He rushes home to talk to me and then says thoughtless things that do not matter to us at all. Sometimes they're things that upset me. He doesn't get hoe I feel uncared for when he seems to lack intention when communicating. It keeps happening. (I'm both moon & venus in sagitarius, sun in scorpio, ascendant in cancer so I feel like I'm losing my mind here.) I just seem to be upset a lot (it's irksome how he's changed) and it only gets better if I complain. He admits there's an issue, and is fully present for a little bit, then seems to slip out again. He's made & is making enormous changes in his life for me/us and swears he just needs time (we need time) but I'm wondering... could there be an element of 'checked-outness' in his moon that will simply be? Is this just part of him I need to decide to take or not? I thought with my sag influence I'd be all on board for the freedom aspect of his moon, but I'm actually super hurt by what I sense is detachment. It is merc rx in fiery aries, and we are definitely going through changes, but I wanted to ask (you put it so politely in your post) do moon n aquarius ppl tend to 'check-out' w/ ppl they love? So much so as to seriously hurt even a sagitarius moon? Or is there hope??

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      6 months ago from New Jersey

      Hi Lauren,

      Happy you enjoyed the read! Best Wishes, Jean

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      6 months ago from New Jersey

      You really can't unless you have a horoscope cast. People go to astrology sites and cut and paste all the signs their planets are in, but that's not what an astrologer needs, and is only part of the picture. You need the day, month and year of birth, and most importantly the TIME of birth, to get your ascendant or rising sign. Also, the city and country where you were born. I can do it, but can't give a URL here, though there is a way to contact me. A site I trust is CafeAstrology.com, you can learn from that. When I answer questions about planets in signs, it is part of the horoscope. But it leaves out all 12 houses. I have an article about that on Exemplore, and also about Sun signs, moon signs, Mercury and Venus. All that takes time to interpret. Then it matters how far all the planets are from each other. It's a lot more work than people understand. Thanks for inquiring. Take care. Jean

    • profile image

      Lauren 

      6 months ago

      Thankyou this is super accurate in terms of personality, and I'm average height and a sort of athletic build (but always feel tall haha.)

    • profile image

      Carly 

      6 months ago

      Hi Jean,

      I am an Aquarius but not sure of any other aspects, how would I figure that out?

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      6 months ago from New Jersey

      Hi Lauren,

      Yes, Cancer is ruled by the Moon, I'm one as well! The Moon travels through all 12 Zodiac signs in about 28+ days, like a menstrual cycle. So it affects us Cancers more than anyone. People around us should expect a change every 2 or 2 1/2 days!

      The Aquarius Moon rules your emotions. So even though Cancers like stability, our changeable nature makes us open to Aquarius influences. Both signs are nonconformists, and I know several Cancer/Aquarius couples. So there is no "tension" between your Sun and Moon.

      The Ascendant in Gemini again is how others see you, and that's intelligent, lively, someone who likes to go out and learn new things. You probably excel at many things. I think you are tall.

      The Venus in Leo means that you can be stubborn in love, but also expect many displays of affection. You want to be treated like a Queen. And why not?

      Cancer people are gentle and need a long time to open up to others. The Moon and Ascendant in air signs makes you more outgoing than a Cancer description you might read, and more adventurous. Sometimes the Cancer need for security may clash with your emotional, Aquarius Moon, which wants freedom and novelty. But it's not a bad thing. I hope that helps. Take care, Jean

    • profile image

      Lauren 

      6 months ago

      Hi Jean, I have a Cancer sun, aquarius moon, asc in gemini and venus in Leo. I think there may be tension between moon and sun (in terms of what motivates me.) Does the moon sign have a particularly strong influence over Cancer? thanks xx

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      7 months ago from New Jersey

      Thank you for responding and reading my work!

    • profile image

      Maureen 

      7 months ago

      Thank you for your response,that's interesting about Scorpio.

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      7 months ago from New Jersey

      No, everyone's chart is a picture of the sky at their time of birth. There are no "family" influences in it except for one I can think of. When a Scorpio in a family dies, another one is born.

      Oppositions or squares like you mention are challenging, but also add excitement to life.

    • profile image

      Maureen 

      7 months ago

      Hi was just reading your analysis of Aquarius I've been so curious of the moon sun combinations in my family, I'm a Taurus sun Aquarius moon and my daughter is Aquarius sun Taurus moon. My husband is a Capricorn sun Leo moon while my son is Leo sun Capricorn moon. Is it weird or do families have this placements often.

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      8 months ago from New Jersey

      Hi Martin,

      The house a planet is in is very important. I answer questions here about planets in astrology signs, but it's about 1/6 the meaning of a whole chart, which takes about 10-12 hrs. to cast and interpret. Aspects are the distance each planet is from the others, and means more than what sign a planet is in. These are the 3 biggest factors when interpreting a chart, and there are more.

      I haven't written any articles on these, although my audience is more sophisticated about astrology than they used to be. I had to stop answering people who cut and paste all the planets in the signs when they look up their B-days, because it's so little info in reality, and too many were doing it. I then got a nasty email last week from a girl (I assume a teen, she was so rude) and she ranted how I probably was a fake and only cared about money.

      I spent years paying for good astrology books, taking courses and workshops, and I don't think she would have spent that much time on me if I asked for free info (she was on my comments page for weeks getting free answers). It really hurt, as my best friend passed away that week.

      Venus in Libra in the 9th house is this--Libra is the home of Venus, so it's a great place. It shows the person loves romance and even working in partnerships. The 9th house represents education, foreign travel and countries and philosophy and religion. So the person would excel in these areas. The Moon in Aquarius is another air sign, also the moon represents emotions. So it means attraction to an intellectual person who likes those topics too. But the 12th house is about secrets, and secret sorrows. So there may be heartache in this relationship, or one of the parties is not telling their true feelings and being secretive, or both are keeping it secret.

      Close aspects like a conjunction intensify the Venus in Libra. Let me see if I have an article on this. But as you see, all these factors have to be put together like a puzzle, and it takes time. I'm glad you are learning the right way. I may have an article on this at jeanbakula.wordpress.com. But a site I trust, not for charts, but astrology basics, is CafeAstrology.com. Maybe this should be the next thing I write. Thanks for the question and idea. Best Wishes. Jean

    • profile image

      Martin 

      8 months ago

      Hi Jean

      how much effect doesn't the house placement of the moon or any other planet have on a aspect ? For example, How does a venus in libra 9th house natal have a impact on ones chart or moon in aquarius 12th house.

      If you have any articles on hard venus aspects in the natal chart, please do share :)

      All the best,

      Martin

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      8 months ago from New Jersey

      Happy you enjoyed it!

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      8 months ago from New Jersey

      Hi John,

      Ok, well first off, squared or opposite moons are not as bad as some people seem to think they are. If we all got along so easily, wouldn't life be a bore after a while? The square is more challenging, but can bring excitement into a relationship. The opposition means both want similar things, but have different ideas about how to achieve them. It's easier than a square. My husband and I had squared Venuses and Moons, and were married for 39 yrs, (he passed 4 yrs. ago) everyone thought we were the perfect couple. His Venus was in Pisces and mine in Gemini, Moons in Capricorn and Aries. I planned and he had no foresight.. I liked to talk things out about our relationship, but he was a total romantic and probably would forgive me anything. It's older astrology books that make these aspects seem so dire.

      As far as synastry charts, I think you can get a lot out of them, but I don't like to do them. Basically, event though I can predict issues you will have and easy areas for you, I can't predict a couple will stay together forever or a huge length of time. Sometimes we meet someone and are together for a few months, and it changes us forever, that's our soulmate. It's two Natal birth charts compared.

      A composite takes both your Natal charts, and creates a 3rd entity, your relationship. I had ours done a little before we married, and reading it 39 yrs. later, can't believe how accurate it was! I have been considering offering them, but in the beginning of the year I am swamped with people who want Natal charts, they are making resolutions to know themselves better, and want to utilize the knowledge in the chart.

      So I am deciding if I want to do composites. That's the better thing. If you want one I can suggest two good astrology sites I even trust, Cafe Astrology and Astrotheme.com. I don't know if they offer them, they will be computer generated and will have jargon you won't get, but what they say about the relationship will be accurate. Otherwise, ask me again in the Spring. I learned how to cast charts when I was 21, and it's been so long I have to recall how to do composites! But people are asking, and I do know how good they are, so once I dig out from my pile now, maybe I will refresh my memory and start doing them again. Take care.

    • profile image

      John 

      8 months ago

      Hi Jean

      Thank you for your article. On a different yet same topic. Could aspects in synastry or composite chart balance out the difference between opposing / squared moons ?

      Also I'm curious to read your opinion on the difference between synastry and composite readings for long term relationship potential.

      Best,

      John

    • profile image

      bbyblueeyes 

      8 months ago

      Wow, that sounds amazing.

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      8 months ago from New Jersey

      I didn't think the planets were incompatible. Sag people are free spirits. There are the quiet ones, and the ones who never stop talking! Sometimes people really do realize what they had and come back, maybe it will happen.

      Yes, I sometimes can feel my husband around. I am not religious and needed an interfaith minister to help with the service when he passed. She was a clairvoyant in my area, and I had taken metaphysical classes at her business, but not with her. Since I write, I wrote his eulogy, and she added a lot to it. She really was good, and at first she knew so much about him, although they never met. A few nights after he passed, I awoke and saw a ball of white light over my head. She said that was his spirit. I had trouble learning to sleep alone. She said he used to sit by me until I did fall asleep. I don't feel him as much, just every now and then. But I believe in reincarnation, and know he's reviewing this life, so I guess he's busy! But she helped me through those first hard months, and I got more clairsentient since then, a big help for when I cast charts.

    • profile image

      bbyblueeyes 

      9 months ago

      Dear Jean,

      I so sorry for your loss on this day. It's very hard to imagine the heartbreak of loosing someone you love so deeply. It's beautiful that you were together for all those years and I'm sure your bond is still very strong. Do you still talk to him throughout the day? I periodically mentally tell my friend I am writing to you about that I love him throughout the day in hopes that he feels it. Is that weird? I truely appreciate your insight on us. You made me realize I forgot to write down his moon sign. He has a Sag. Moon. maybe he's too much of a free spirit? We've had some unforgettable fun times together and I know we met for a reason. I hope him and I stay in touch for a very long time even if our time 'together' has run its course and I hope he relizes one day that I'm his favorite 'girl.' ;) I like everything you wrote and I thank you.

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      9 months ago from New Jersey

      I never promise a life long union to anyone, even if you are very compatible. If you are twin souls, or soulmates, you would know that immediately. Something he said or did would have triggered that off right away, or at least in a few weeks. The night I met my husband, he told me "I vibrated faster than anyone he ever met." This is a pretty involved metaphysical observation from someone who was 19 at the time. We dated for 5 yrs. and were married for 34 (he passed away, it's been 4 yrs. today, and I didn't even go on a date yet, nobody measures up).. Many of our unmarried at 30 yr. old son's friends thinks he remains so because they all think we had the perfect marriage. It was good, and the planets were good. But when we met we had astrologers casting our charts, and nobody could say more than what they saw as they knew us.

      Scorpio and Aquarius are two fixed and stubborn signs, so you will have challenges. But that combo is often together and seems able to overcome them.

      Your Venus in Libra, the marriage sign, makes you yearn to always be half of a couple. His Venus in Sag means he needs more freedom, but they are compatible and I like that.

      Saturn is a karmic planet, so it's hard for me to know what about you both it affects without a chart. I don't know what houses they are in or what aspects they make to other planets. He is sensible, but you are fair in general matters. Mars in Sag and Scorpio are next to each other, so that's usually good, signs next to each other agree easily. I don't know where his Moon is.

      I would maybe suggest that since you are both mature and give each other space this could definitely go somewhere. You should both feel the "soulmate" things. I would think a tarot reading specifically about the relationship would help us see where this is going. You can look me up at jeanbakula@wordpress.com. Astrology tells us a lot, but I never predict forevers. Even a soulmate can be in your life for a short time, but you never forget him/her. You both have lessons to learn from each other, but have been together in other lifetimes, and I don't know if you believe in reincarnation. So there are a lot of metaphysical concepts in your question, and even if I did two charts, I'd never say "forever." I'd go with the tarot reading, but otherwise say give it a shot, it looks good.

      Take care,

      Jean

    • profile image

      bbyblueeyes 

      9 months ago

      Greetings, I'm a Scorpio sun woman.

      My Moon sign is in Aquarius

      Venus in Libra

      Mars in Sag

      Saturn in Libra

      My male love has an Aquarius sun.

      His Venus is in Sag

      Mars in Scorpio

      Saturn in Taurus.

      This is all I know about him. He won't tell me his birth time. I truly believe he is my soulmate/twin flame. We met 6 months ago on a Leo new moon. He is 9 years older than me. We give each other the space we seek. We don't see each other or talk everyday because we live 45 minutes apart and we both have busy lives. We both have had lot of experience in relationships so we approach each other on a very mature and understanding level when we spend time together. Do you think he thinks the same about me? Do you think we will have a lifelong union here?

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      11 months ago from New Jersey

      I'm glad you enjoyed it! I can't interpret all this without drawing up a horoscope, time doesn't permit me, as I have a large clientele of paying customers. You can find more on jeanbakula@wordpress.com Best Wishes.

    • profile image

      Raul 

      11 months ago

      Sun, Mercury, Mars and Venus in Taurus, Ascendant and Neptune in Sagittarius, Moon in Aquarius, Jupiter and Saturn in Libra, North Node in Leo... and I really feel this description about the moon in aquarius is quite accurate. Thank you so much :)

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      11 months ago from New Jersey

      It is a tough situation. You have the Scorpio Mars and he has the Taurus one, and actually Taurus is more passive than Scorpio. I think it's good to make yourself less available, and at least you are trying by having one night a week where you can try to show and tell him what you need.

      I think that's fine for a bit. But honestly, I wouldn't give it more than a few months. There's somebody else out there who will satisfy your need to have a regular relationship, and will appreciate you more. Open relationships let one person take advantage of the other, as it isn't what you want. I understand there is an attraction, but how would he like it if the shoe was on the other foot? Try for a bit, but if he doesn't change, move one. Best of luck to you!

    • profile image

      Anonymous 

      11 months ago

      Anonymous

      Hello, back again! I actually understood you very much. You deserve to be compensated for your time and many people will come here with little studying themselves.

      So I’m the one with the Scorpio Mars actually. His is Taurus Mars. The thing is that we are very close and in love. He sees being with me as different so it’s harder to engage or have sexual desire, especially with his hook up addiction. He is mainly into oral.

      We are starting to work on it 1 time a week. He said it’s hard because before me he would search daily and that his type represent a whole different feeling than is romance. I know this is his Aquarius moon acting out. I usually would have run by now but as I said, I’m more upset over the fact that he feels more desire to chase them then to initiate anything with me. When we have he is super nervous and you can feel the uneasy ness of intimacy on a sexual level.

      I know I want to be with him and a open relationship is fine as long as I know we have desire as well. Even today he has been online all day. He emailed me but I decided to use the law of attraction and finally not respond 1. Because his mind is on a hookup and 2. Because I will see him this weekend and want him to appreciate me and realize I won’t talk to him when he is in this mode.

      When we are together it’s all about doing things and cuddling but he never mentions sex anymore. I told him I won’t be compartmentalized which is why he agreed to “try” with me more often. When combining our charts it makes us seem toxic when the love and romance itself is faaaar from it. I have checked myself to make sure I’m not being codependent and also to not allow my Scorpio energy smother him.

      It sounds like disaster but truly he has wired himself and doesn’t want to lose his independence. Being single that long with instant gratification has caused him to just not know how to feel in his moments of compulsion, but why am I not a part of that? So even with all of our issues I am the strong one and I know he loves me strongly but how do I keep a Moon Aquarius, Venus Aries interested when he is so pattern like a Taurus.

      I hope I’m doing the right thing by not emailing him and giving him time instead of getting upset and having constant talks that drain him. Weirdest situation I’ve ever been in.

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      11 months ago from New Jersey

      Hello Daniels,

      Well, I have a Gemini Moon and my love of 39 yrs. had a Pisces one, and we got along fine. She is more of a free spirit and may not want to be tied down as much as you do. A Taurus Moon loves relationships and is a little old fashioned, or romantic. The Mercury and Venus are OK in Libra and Scorpio. Signs next to each other usually work out well. Her Mars in Scorpio actually helps more with your Taurus Moon, it's opposite, but that's an attraction. Your Mars in Cancer makes you home loving and possessive, but also loyal and kind.

      The biggest issue I see is that in my 40+ yrs. of Astrology, I only saw one couple with the same Sun sign that stayed together. It's strange, but true, and I've worked with thousands of people. They were Capricorns, boring as hell. I am a Cancer Sun and dated another one for a while years ago, but it felt more like we were friends, or like dating yourself. That may be what you are feeling. So maybe you are too much the same, and that's what's nagging at you. Libra is the marriage sign.

      I'd rather see you with an earth or water sign sun. I see you as sensitive and wanting to build a life with someone. Maybe she does, but she craves more freedom than you. I hope that helps. If you really try hard and can accept she needs space, I think this could work. The Venus and Mars you have together is good too. But I worry about the same Sun sign thing. Take care.

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      11 months ago from New Jersey

      Hi,

      I apologize for being so hard on you. I had a large bunch of questions where people want me to basically do hours of work for free, and I simply can't do it, there aren't enough hours in the day.

      Some of their "problems" seem so trivial to me. But yours isn't. I am a bit stumped here though, I must admit. As far as his planets and yours go, there should be more compatibility. I was with my Taurus for 39 years, and they like romance, and are generally faithful. The Venus in Aries man normally likes to show off his girlfriend, and sort of puts her on a pedestal. And in an odd way, he is, when you are the one who he takes to meet the family and friends. It sounds a little like a Madonna/Whore thing. He doesn't want you to be a "hookup", but wants YOU to be the Madonna. I can see how frustrating this is for you. His Scorpio Mars isn't helping here either. But as I said earlier, a few squares don't kill a relationship, sometimes they add to it.

      Did you talk to him about how neglected you feel in the sex department? Or won't he discuss it?

      I really don't know what to say. I'm sure you are attractive, and it seems you aren't going to get what you need from him. Or even if you do for a while, he may revert to his bad ways, or you will worry he will. That would be stressful.

      With your Moon in Gemini and Venus in Aquarius, you may be giving off a more " I don't need anyone vibe" than you think you are. But with the Pisces Sun, you are sympathetic and psychic and gentle in relationships.

      What's your Ascendant? Even so, I can't say why people are not meeting your sexual needs. This is a tough one. I do think with the current guy, there is an expiration date. You need someone who makes you happy and fulfilled. And you shouldn't be blaming yourself so much. Maybe the right one hasn't come along yet? Have you had this issue with anyone else (it sounds like yes)?

      Maybe you just have a sort of "girl next door" kind of appeal when guys meet you, and have to get past that. I wish I could be more helpful. Keep in touch and let me know how it goes. There are a lot of confusing grand trines and aspects going on right now that are upsetting everyone in different ways. Why don't you try to talk, even if you already have? See if you can make any progress. I can't tell if he wants you to be the "good girl" or if he just wants you to be the cover up for all his hookups. Men, they are so impossible.

      I didn't mean to hurt your feelings. Just don't keep hitting your head on a brick wall if you can't get through. Try, but move on. Take care.

    • profile image

      Anonymous 

      11 months ago

      Hello Jean. I think I misrepresented myself. My problem is more that I KNOW that sex isn’t what it’s all about but I don’t want a sexless relationship. Because of his Aqua Moon and upbringing, it makes him not know how to combine the 2.

      I don’t want to just have a romantic relationship and didn’t know his hookup addiction was so important. Again he is a Taurus with Venus in Aries, Moon Aquarius. So I guess I’m saying that I don’t know how to keep his attention. I’m actually the more mature one in the relationship. Everything you said I’ve called him on already and he knows.

      Our bond is unmatched but we are not sexual and it’s been 6months. It’s like he avoids it or doesn’t need it with me because he is so in love, but then on the flip side he gets to have hookups as a way of connecting sexually. I’m very jealous of that and hurt......not because of the open relationship, but because they are getting a part that I’m not.

      We are very much in romantic love, I’m the one that gets introduced to friends and family.

      I understood you couldn’t cast the charts as I’ve done it already. I was just giving you the most important (Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars). I appreciate your time and have been reading this post for months. So sorry for misrepresenting myself (Gem Moon Merc Pisces). I’m a frantic mess because I’m in love and he is the most special person I’ve ever met. But his mental illness and sex addiction to hooking up with a specific type is difficult. He is attracted to me but it seems not sexually.

      It eats at my core because in the past 15 years I have been neglected sexually. Some believe I’m manifesting it because of my Venus Mars Square. Maybe I’m to friendly in my relationships. I don’t know. Very healthy and athletic body. I do my best to be attractive. I seem to only attract love and no desire.....hurts deep. Trust that I do know very much the importance of love, which is why I’m tired of not being desired sexually.

      So just so you understand the dynamic, not for full chart purposes.....(I know what they mean. I just want your amazing input that you’ve shared with others. His Aquarius Moon is strong!!! thank you so much)

      Me: Sun - Pisces, Moon - Gemini, Venus - Aquarius, Mars -Scorpio

      Him: Sun - Taurus, Moon - Aquarius, Venus - Aries, Mars - Taurus

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      11 months ago from New Jersey

      I'm sorry, but it takes 10-12 hours to cast a horoscope, and I can't interpret all these planet lists people send me without drawing one out.

      I can answer that just squared moons or one or two square or opposite aspects don't mean it's bad, we need some challenges in a relationship for it to work.

      My husband and I were together for 39 years with squared Moons and Venus.

      You seem to think just sex is enough to make a relationship work. It's not. As you pass the years together, you will have money issues, maybe children, you will be sick and have to take care of each other. You may have to take care of your own parents. You will face serious job and career issues. You may not like each other's friends. People you love will die, and eventually, if you are together long enough, one of you will die first. The loneliness is unbearable.

      If he is so used to hookups, and your biggest fear is holding his sexual interest, I think both of you are too immature for this to work. He only wants sex, and you think it's all that matters. Grow up first and take some time off from "relationships" like this. I'm not saying this to hurt you, but you have to be more realistic about life.

    • profile image

      Daniels 

      11 months ago

      Hi Jean.

      My girlfriend has a Aquarius Moon and I have a Taurus moon. Although our emotional needs are very different our relationship still progressing. What I like most about her is the Aquarian moon qualities as you mentioned besides her emotional aloofness.

      Both of our sun signs are in Libra.

      Her mercury and Venus are in Libra. Mars in need Scorpio.

      My mercury and Venus are in Scorpio. Mars in cancer.

      I'm struggling to figure out long term potential between us. I do sense commonality but I feel there's an aspect that is missing, perhaps it's the squared moon aspect? What sign combination should I look at to enhance long term potential, other than moon?

      Thanks in advance

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      12 months ago from New Jersey

      I answered this and am unsure why it came back. Any planet Pluto aspects is intensified, so if it is near your Moon, you will feel a huge range of emotions. It's hard to say, I wouldn't say it acts like a Moon in Scorpio. People seem to think all kinds of oddball things about Scorpio Moons. It's not all about sex and death if you have only one planet in a sign. I am unsure why you aren't feeling Cancer or Sag, sometimes people have a stellium, or 3-4 planets in another same sign, so that makes a big difference in a horoscope. But I can't tell without drawing one out.

      The Scorpio in Pluto is a generational thing, and doesn't mean much at all in an individual's chart. The house it's in and aspects it makes to faster moving planets are what matters.

      You have to actually have planets in the astrology sign to feel the effects. You have a lot of fallacies about Astrology.

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      12 months ago from New Jersey

      When Pluto aspects any planet, it's energies are intensified. Since the Moon rules emotions, you will feel all of them more. I am unsure why you don't feel Cancer or Sag. Some people have stelliums, or 3-4 planets in a different sign than the Sun, Moon and Ascendant, and then they would show a lot of traits in whatever sign those planets are in. I really can't know more without casting a chart. I don't know why everyone gets so worked up about a Scorpio Moon. It causes intense emotions, leadership ability, intelligence and the willpower to stay on topic. It's not even about sex or death all that much if you have only one planet there. Jean

    • profile image

      Svetlana 

      12 months ago

      Hello Jean, great article about Aqua moon.

      I'm Cancer with Saggitarius asc and I don't unfortunately feel that vibrations. My moon is also in aqua but I feel strong scorpio and capricorn influence. Maybe because of Neptune in first house (Capricorn), and scorpio pluto-11house ('95 generation), both in soft aspects with Sun (7H). Some astrologers think that when pluto squares moon (my situation) , moon can act like a moon in scorpio. Is that true? Interesting fact is that my parents have this position (Moon in Scorpio).

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      12 months ago from New Jersey

      It's always the darkest before the dawn too. It hurts, I know. Hang in there.

    • profile image

      Katlyn 

      12 months ago

      Sorry about that ! As soon as I sent my comment, I read what you said to the others regarding that, and I totally understand :)

      Thank you for your words though. It isn't bad, but when I do get close to someone (was married for 6 years) it seems that I am easily misunderstood, and would lead to fights, which after it happening so often, despite my efforts to remedy the issue, I gave up. It's been a over a year since the separation and I will keep trudging on. Things get worse before they get better, right? :)

      Thank you for taking the time to respond to me. I appreciate your work!

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      12 months ago from New Jersey

      I also have an opposition of Sun and Moon-Sun in Cancer, Moon in Capricorn. It means we don't always present ourselves as we really are. Our emotions are a bit out of synch with the person we want everyone to know. I think my Moon gets out more to people, but I have a Scorpio Ascendant. Your Libra one is compatible with both signs. It's not a serious thing unless people close to you keep misunderstanding you. I wouldn't worry about it.

      I've been telling everyone I can't possibly cast a whole horoscope for free, and to stop emailing a list of planets from a site. No offense, but it takes 10-12 hours for me, and I charge $100.00. The site that you got the planets from will be cheaper, but not as good. If you are serious, details are on jeanbakula@wordpress.com. I understand most people don't realize how much work it is. I can read a few planets and answer what is a simple question like you first asked because of my years casting horoscopes. Take care.

    • profile image

      Arabella 

      12 months ago

      Hello, Jean. Your article touched me deeply. Pretty much me minus tattoos. :)

      I was curious if you could give some insight regarding my aqua moon and leo sun. They are in complete opposition of each other. And I feel this is causing painful stagnation in my life. Its hard for me to make decisions, leaving me frozen.

      Sun: Leo

      Moon: Aquarius

      Mercury: Cancer

      Venus: Cancer

      Mars: Virgo

      Jupiter: Libra

      Saturn: Aquarius

      Uranus: Capricorn

      Neptune: Capricorn

      Pluto: Scorpio

      Acendant: Libra

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      12 months ago from New Jersey

      No problem, Mel. Take care.

    • profile image

      Mel 

      12 months ago

      Jean, thank you so much for your insights, I greatly appreciate it! I really helps me understand why I have hard time connecting with people in love matters.

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      12 months ago from New Jersey

      That's a good mix. The Sun in Taurus is stable and reliable, pleasant and sensual. The Ascendant in Venus is the way others see you, so in Gemini you are more fun loving and intellectual than Taurus, not that Taurus isn't intelligent. They are practical and what they can actually use is important to them. The sign is ruled by Venus, so you are romantic, but more lighthearted than your Taurus Sun would make you. It's an earth sign, so you may enjoy the outdoors and environmental causes could attract you, as the Aquarius in you likes to get you involved in causes.Venus in Gemini likes to chat and is a social butterfly, also smart. You could be in love with two people at the same time, or have two great love affairs in your life. I have seen that pattern with Venus in Gemini often, and even in myself! The Moon in Aquarius means you need freedom and that may clash with your Taurus Sun in some situations. But it grounds you to have the Sun where it is. Both Taurus and Aquarius are fixed signs, so you are stubborn. Taurus is passive/aggressive, Aquarius just does what it wants. There are lots of contradictions in astrology, so the traits depend a lot on the situation and how important it is to you. Best Wishes.

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      12 months ago from New Jersey

      I'm really sorry, but can no longer accommodate people who send me a whole list of planets copied from a site. I do small interpretations for about two planets, but I can't interpret a list like this without drawing out a whole chart, and would need a lot more information about you. If you want an astrology chart, go to jeanbakula@wordpress.com. I charge $100.00. Take care.

    • profile image

      Mel 

      13 months ago

      Hello Jean, very informative article, thanks.

      My natal chart is as follows, what can you conclude about my persona, I always seem to be confused when it comes to love.

      Sun Taurus

      Ascendant Aries

      Moon Aquarius

      Mercury Aries

      Venus Gemini

      Mars Leo

      Jupiter Cancer

      Saturn Leo

      Uranus Scorpio

      Neptune Saggitarius

      Pluto Libra

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      13 months ago from New Jersey

      Hi Jelena,

      It's normal to appear like a Scorpio, that's what the Ascendant does, it's the facade we hid behind. I am a Cancer Sun with Scorpio Rising too! I also have a grown Scorpio sun, he's wonderful and smart, but was hard to raise. They are so intense emotionally they can't even understand themselves until the adult years. I often get told that "you seem like you don't want to be bothered with people: but Cancers are private and so is Scorpio, we need alone time. Both are strong signs, and maybe you give too much of your power to others. My first love was a Capricorn, we have a lot in common. The Aquarius Moon makes you seem aloof. But you aren't concerned with petty things, you have a broader look at the world. All three are signs that you don't want to be surrounded by people all the time, though Cancers are friendly and loyal friends. We need to be careful not to be taken advantage of. Take care, Jean

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      13 months ago from New Jersey

      Yes, the Pisces sun is very romantic and some can be downright doormats, but they are very devoted to loved ones and like to be together often. Taurus is also a bit Jealous, and likes to be possessive. But your Aquarius Moon emotions need some space, and you like time to do stuff on your own. Cancer Suns are clingy, but also have a lot of interests, so if you explain it's not because you don't care, you need "me" time, a Cancer does too, so maybe they will understand that. I know many Cancer/Aquarius couples. Cancer has the Moon in all 12 signs each Month, so they like change. Aquarius change is more dramatic, but something both signs have in common. Virgos want to take care of you. Just humor them. They are witty and restless, something else you find in common with that sign. Try to work with the traits you have in common. With Taurus Rising, you seem more "settled" than you really are. Tell someone if they are smothering you in a nice way. It can work surprisingly well. Take care.

    • profile image

      Katelyn 

      13 months ago

      Hi Jean, love your article. I very much resonate with this description. The only thing is that I don't know how to take care of my car.. ha!

      I am a Pisces sun, Taurus Rising, Aquarius Moon (but with Aquarius in Mercury, Venus, and another planet as well). The Pisces sun and Aquarius Moon can be very conflicting... astrology has helped me learn a lot about myself though. Do you have any advice for my sun-moon combination? Especially with love? I seem to attract many Cancer sun/Virgo Moons, but they are too smothering for me. Thanks!

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      13 months ago from New Jersey

      OK. An Aquarius Sun and Taurus Sun is a square, meaning you both want your own way. You have great, unusual ways of seeing the world, and Taurus is gentle and loves the outdoors, a real environmentalist. Taurus people are ruled by Venus and easy to get along with. They are romantic. Your Aquarius Sun is very independent, and so are you. You are aloof at times, but with the Scorpio moon need time to yourself. A Taurus is not as adventurous as you, but the Sun signs will be challenging and fun. They are loyal and usually everyone loves a Taurus. Plus emotionally you understand the Aquarius Moon person, and they understand your Aquarius Sun. Wow, I like that. Libra rising is someone who likes to entertain and have parties, go out, see shows, a social creature. A Sag rising person is interesting to talk too, and likes to get into discussions about education, philosophy and has a big interest in other cultures, probably loving travel. I think you make a good pair. Good luck!

    • profile image

      ajelena 

      13 months ago

      Hello Jean,

      I'm Cancer sun/Scorpio asc/Aquarius moon and really enjoyed your article on Aqua moon and was able to find my self totally in it. I feel like my soul is Aqua soul even though I may appear like a Scorpio. I got lost on the way for couple of years in an attempt to accommodate as a mother (son is a Scorpio) and a wife (divorcing a Capricorn) and I'm now changing my life, again.

      Also liked a lot about what you wrote about emotional detachment with people, explained a lot about me and how people perceive me, and how they actually don't know how to handle me as they feed on my energy and spirit, and are not sure how I can "cover" and change everything and be an "alien"...

      Not to bother you more just wanted to thank you for the great article.

      Jelena

    • profile image

      Jason 

      13 months ago

      Hi! How does a Libra Sun and Aquarius moon shake out? Being both air signs I was curious how these work together for me

    • profile image

      Henri Leyva 

      13 months ago

      Hello Jean! I'm an aquarius sun, scorpio moon and libra rising. And a friend of mine is a taurus sun, aquarius moon and sagittarius rising. Is there anyway you could briefly describe me and my friend Stefan based off these three signs only? We're just curious to see what your description will be like. Thank you! I know it won't be as descriptive as a natal chart reading but this will work for us!

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      14 months ago from New Jersey

      Hello Regina,

      Both Cancer and Aquarius are signs of a nonconformist. You won't change if you don't want to, and may enjoy being different from others in some way. Cancers are kind and gentle people, family oriented, but also leaders. Aquarius people are very intelligent, and are changeable, often doing things on a whim. Cancers change a lot because the Moon rules them, so it's a person who is comfortable with change, smart, and likable. Someone who wants to keep learning and growing. Best, Jean

    • profile image

      REGINA 

      14 months ago

      Hi ,

      Can you talk me about the combination cancer sun and aquarius moon please .

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      15 months ago from New Jersey

      Thanks for your compliments and for reading my work, Maria! Best Wishes, Jean

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      15 months ago from New Jersey

      Mia,

      Alexair has more advice for you. Best, Jean Let me know how you are doing.

    • profile image

      Alexair 

      15 months ago

      Hi Mia,

      I think you may be on your own from here on out. Fighting isn't good for you or the baby. The stress can release unhealthy chemicals to the baby. It's best to let go and move on. Don't wonder if he will be back in your life. It's not worth your time and effort because it's something that is out of your control. Look at what you can control like your health and the babies health instead. I've seen your situation many times and it never turns into a good long lasting relationship. Your child needs love and a loving safe home. It is your job to provide that for him or her. Don't ever chase a man because they will run every time. The more you chase the further they run. The more you fight, the less they will want to be with you. Be good to yourself and your child and never allow any man in your life that causes you worry or sorrow. Be strong and you will get through it. Give yourself a chance to find the right person as a mate. Someone that makes you smile and laugh.

    • profile image

      Maria Paz 

      15 months ago

      Wow jean this is so cool, loved this article. So true. I am a Taurus Sun, Aquarius Moon, and Libra Rising very me!

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      15 months ago from New Jersey

      He sure is heartless and immature. And what's wrong with his family? They should be encouraging him to be responsible. Do you live with your family, and are they accepting of this? Or do you have any help? I'm so sorry.

      What does he mean "you will never change?" It takes two to make a child. He is half of the equation. Does he have any normal family members you can talk too? You are not crazy and don't owe anyone an apology.

    • profile image

      Mia 

      15 months ago

      I texted his ex wife and his sister but they did not respond to me. They think that I am crazy.

      I do not want to kill a life inside me. He says he sees no need to express any concern for me or ask how am I doing since I'm no longer his gf, wife, or friend. He blocked me on all forms of communication except email. I seeked counseling for my issues, apologized and asked for forgiveness MANY TIMES but he always says in my face, I will never change. He believes what he wants to believe.

      He is a Taurus with Aquarius moon (I think) Hes heartless.

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      15 months ago from New Jersey

      Mia,

      I'm so sorry to hear about this, a man should never abuse a woman, or vice versa. How far along are you? I don't want to sound cold, but are you prochoice or prolife? Only because if it's early, and he already shows he has no interest in this child, it will be a hard road for you. Please don't take offense. Have you met his family or spoken with them. Maybe they will shame him into taking responsibility for his child. I hope it works out. Let me know how you are doing. Love, Jean

    • profile image

      Mia 

      15 months ago

      I've been fighting for a Taurus man for 6 months. Physical fights happened too. Now I'm pregnant with his baby and he refuses to attend counseling for the sake of the baby. Will he come back?

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      15 months ago from New Jersey

      Hello Alyssa,

      Three years isn't much, but it can be depending on how mature you both are. The are ages where you still have a lot of growing and self discovery going on. But I married the guy I fell for when I was 18 (not until I was 24) and we had a great marriage. His Venus in Gemini make him a flirt, but since his Sun is in Taurus he is faithful and would like to settle down someday. The Mercury in Gemini means he's intelligent, and so does the Aquarius Moon. You are more emotional than him with the Scorpio Sun, Venus and PIsces Moon. Taurus and Scorpio are opposite signs, so that's the attraction. It's not a disaster. He's a little more lighthearted than you are. If he works or goes to college, and seems like he has goals in life, then I say go for it. If he is just drifting through life, I would say no because of the two Gemini planets. But as long as he isn't living a crazy life, there's no reason astrologically that you can't get along. Good luck. We could always do a tarot reading and see what comes up about your relationship, check for me at jeanbakula.wordpress.com. Take care.

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      16 months ago from New Jersey

      I also think once you love someone, you always will, love never dies. I'm Cancer with a Capricorn moon, and I couldn't deal with someone I loved who was in a relationship with me sleeping with other lovers. She is selfish in her way. She's only going to keep hurting you, and you seem so nice. Really, I think it's for the best. Give it time, and you will begin to heal. Jean

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      16 months ago from New Jersey

      Mel, that's a beautiful way to end a relationship if that's the way it has to be. You are the more mature one, and Scorpios mellow out with time. You have to find someone who you trust more. The reason her want of freedom bother you so much is because you don't trust her. Now, that could be the fault of either of you. But I think you did the right thing. You can get through this hard time and will meet someone else when the time is right. It's usually when you aren't looking. Hang in there. Jean

    • Jean Bakula profile imageAUTHOR

      Jean Bakula 

      16 months ago from New Jersey

      Mel,

      It sounds like you did the best you could. Two fixed signs are going to have problems, you are both stubborn, even though Aquarians are "free", notice she still wants her way as well. Also, sometimes the timing is just wrong in a relationship, though I think you said you have broken up and came back together again. My first love always broke up with me when the going wasn't even that tough. He was a few years older than me and I was so crazy about him, I put up with it for a long time, 4 yrs. Finally, I broke up with him, and met the man I dated for 5 years and was married to for 34. He has passed, but I learned what it was like to be truly loved by a mature person. I have a rule I tell anyone who has been through a breakup. If someone will leave you once, that already is the pattern or foundation of the relationship. It will always be that way. I am sorry, I know you are in pain. But your truer love could be right around the corner. And don't worry about hogging up space, I'm here to try to help. Plus, there are lots of Aquarians around who also have planets in more stable signs and can compromise more. There's hope for you yet, my friend. Take care.

    working

    This website uses cookies

    As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, exemplore.com uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

    For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at: https://exemplore.com/privacy-policy#gdpr

    Show Details
    Necessary
    HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
    LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
    Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
    AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
    Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
    CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the googleapis.com or gstatic.com domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
    Features
    Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
    Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
    Marketing
    Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
    Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
    Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
    Statistics
    Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
    ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)