Aquarius Moon Sign Emotions

Updated on July 27, 2017
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Jean studied and taught astrology, tarot, and metaphysical topics for 40+ years. She is an avid reader, researcher, and published author.

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Aquarius Moon Sign People

One of my heroes, Henry David Thoreau once said, "Each man hears the beat of a different drummer, and must step to the music he hears." I am sure he would not mind if I update his famous quote to include women too. Especially Aquarius moon women and men. These are our friends that have those endearing (and sometimes not so endearing) eccentric traits. They have very strong likes and dislikes. They are independent and unconventional souls, who do what they think is best, and do not especially care if you approve of their actions or not.

But they grow on you, and you begin to respect the fact that they do not follow trends, and that they stay true to themselves. Since their Moon is in that erratic and unpredictable Aquarius sign, these people experience many sudden and unexpected changes in their lives. Another reason is that Uranus, the Planet of Lightning is their ruler. They are strong willed people who can roll with that. And when the changes are hard ones, like deaths or divorces, you will respect the grace and sensibility with which they handle what life deals out to them. It could be easy to label someone who changes so much as flaky, but since you cannot categorize an Aquarian, you would be wasting your time and opinion. They have their own view of the world, and nobody will persuade them otherwise. Life would be such a bore without them!

Aquarius Moon Sign Personality Traits

Aquarian moon sign people are air signs, and thus are very intelligent. They have many interests, and knowledge in many areas. They are the original DIY kind of people, they do not need help, thank you! They do have a humanitarian side, and are often leaders of groups to feed the hungry, or to raise money for a worthwhile cause. It is not their leadership abilities that surprise other people, but the kindness and hard work an Aquarian moon person will put into any kind of project to benefit the less fortunate. They often do volunteer work, and care about groups of people a great deal. They like people in a detached sort of way. So that's why you will find them off fighting for causes, yet not letting too many people get close to them personally.

Most Aquarius moon sign people are quite friendly and agreeable, in an impersonal kind of way. They have kind hearts, and really do listen when others speak. Just don't tread on their personal space and you will get along fine. I realize they may seem hard to understand, but once you get down these few basics, you will find you have a very smart, well read and interesting friend who is worth the time you put in to get to know them better.

Aquarius moon sign people get bored easily, so make sudden changes in life that a faint-hearted person would not consider. Marriage does not really suit their independent spirit, unless they find a soul mate who understands their need for autonomy and realizes this is a person they cannot hover over, no matter how much they love them. They are perfectly capable people and know what they want and what they are doing. An Aquarian moon will not put up with a situation not to their liking for too long. Either you toe the line and shape up, or you will no longer be welcome in their life! They do not waste time on lost causes.

Aquarius moon sign people are usually interested in things that others might find unusual. I know one who is a mortician by trade. She thinks gory stories about autopsies interest others as much as they interest her, which results in some awkward moments. You can often hear them talking about something strange at a party, and others are trying to get away or are rolling their eyes. But they do not want to be like everyone else, and do not understand why others cannot see that.

Aquarius moon sign people are very inventive and love to take things apart to see if they can put them back together. They like science and have mechanical abilities. The women know how to fix their own cars or motorcycles. They most likely have a few tattoos as well. Their way of dressing will also be different. Say, it's 2016, and the Aquarius moon person you have your eye on likes to dress in clothes from the 1950's. They just like to be their own person, and you have to go with that. Although they grow up to be very productive members of society, they will always dress or act a bit differently than the average person. And that's fine, because they will never be "average." Why be average when you can be original? That's what makes them so much fun to be with when you go out. Aquarians like to go to concerts and shows, and like to have a good time. They really are a positive addition to any group.

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A Fixed Sign who can Cope with Change

Aquarius is a fixed sign, which normally makes it's natives resistant to change. It is more complicated in the case of an Aquarius moon sign person. Their basic outlook on life will stay pretty much the same. But their Uranus ruler will cause chaos and upheaval in their lives, and so they will have to deal with more change than the other fixed signs, Taurus, Leo and Scorpio. Add in their low tolerance for boredom and bright and curious minds, and you have a person who is much more open to change than their other fixed partners in the zodiac. This is what makes them such great conversationalists, and so open-minded about the way other people live.

When somebody is discussing their problems, and the Aquarian has had that experience, they do empathize. They will offer suggestions and advice. But chances are that the Aquarian moon was able to pick themselves up faster and get life back on track much more quickly. Why waste time on something that is not worth the trouble? The world is an interesting place with places to go, people to see. Aquarian moon sign people have a practical side that they do not normally let out too much. But they do make quick decisions once they have all the facts. They are also interested in occult subjects, and have psychic abilities. Since they are so independent, you will often find them as owners of their own businesses. And it will not be a mainstream business.

They will own a store that sells mostly organic and vegetarian products. Aquarian moon sign people put much thought into whatever they put in or on their bodies. Perhaps they make their own line of body creams and cosmetics, or practice some kind of natural healing, or own a metaphysical store. Whatever they decide to do, their brilliant minds and commitment to the task at hand will make it a success. And you will be delighted to stop and chat once in a while to catch up with whatever is going on in their lives. Whatever it is, it sure will not be boring!

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      Jean Bakula 5 weeks ago from New Jersey

      I'm glad you enjoyed it! I can't interpret all this without drawing up a horoscope, time doesn't permit me, as I have a large clientele of paying customers. You can find more on jeanbakula@wordpress.com Best Wishes.

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      Raul 5 weeks ago

      Sun, Mercury, Mars and Venus in Taurus, Ascendant and Neptune in Sagittarius, Moon in Aquarius, Jupiter and Saturn in Libra, North Node in Leo... and I really feel this description about the moon in aquarius is quite accurate. Thank you so much :)

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      Jean Bakula 5 weeks ago from New Jersey

      It is a tough situation. You have the Scorpio Mars and he has the Taurus one, and actually Taurus is more passive than Scorpio. I think it's good to make yourself less available, and at least you are trying by having one night a week where you can try to show and tell him what you need.

      I think that's fine for a bit. But honestly, I wouldn't give it more than a few months. There's somebody else out there who will satisfy your need to have a regular relationship, and will appreciate you more. Open relationships let one person take advantage of the other, as it isn't what you want. I understand there is an attraction, but how would he like it if the shoe was on the other foot? Try for a bit, but if he doesn't change, move one. Best of luck to you!

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      Anonymous 6 weeks ago

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      Hello, back again! I actually understood you very much. You deserve to be compensated for your time and many people will come here with little studying themselves.

      So I’m the one with the Scorpio Mars actually. His is Taurus Mars. The thing is that we are very close and in love. He sees being with me as different so it’s harder to engage or have sexual desire, especially with his hook up addiction. He is mainly into oral.

      We are starting to work on it 1 time a week. He said it’s hard because before me he would search daily and that his type represent a whole different feeling than is romance. I know this is his Aquarius moon acting out. I usually would have run by now but as I said, I’m more upset over the fact that he feels more desire to chase them then to initiate anything with me. When we have he is super nervous and you can feel the uneasy ness of intimacy on a sexual level.

      I know I want to be with him and a open relationship is fine as long as I know we have desire as well. Even today he has been online all day. He emailed me but I decided to use the law of attraction and finally not respond 1. Because his mind is on a hookup and 2. Because I will see him this weekend and want him to appreciate me and realize I won’t talk to him when he is in this mode.

      When we are together it’s all about doing things and cuddling but he never mentions sex anymore. I told him I won’t be compartmentalized which is why he agreed to “try” with me more often. When combining our charts it makes us seem toxic when the love and romance itself is faaaar from it. I have checked myself to make sure I’m not being codependent and also to not allow my Scorpio energy smother him.

      It sounds like disaster but truly he has wired himself and doesn’t want to lose his independence. Being single that long with instant gratification has caused him to just not know how to feel in his moments of compulsion, but why am I not a part of that? So even with all of our issues I am the strong one and I know he loves me strongly but how do I keep a Moon Aquarius, Venus Aries interested when he is so pattern like a Taurus.

      I hope I’m doing the right thing by not emailing him and giving him time instead of getting upset and having constant talks that drain him. Weirdest situation I’ve ever been in.

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      Jean Bakula 6 weeks ago from New Jersey

      Hello Daniels,

      Well, I have a Gemini Moon and my love of 39 yrs. had a Pisces one, and we got along fine. She is more of a free spirit and may not want to be tied down as much as you do. A Taurus Moon loves relationships and is a little old fashioned, or romantic. The Mercury and Venus are OK in Libra and Scorpio. Signs next to each other usually work out well. Her Mars in Scorpio actually helps more with your Taurus Moon, it's opposite, but that's an attraction. Your Mars in Cancer makes you home loving and possessive, but also loyal and kind.

      The biggest issue I see is that in my 40+ yrs. of Astrology, I only saw one couple with the same Sun sign that stayed together. It's strange, but true, and I've worked with thousands of people. They were Capricorns, boring as hell. I am a Cancer Sun and dated another one for a while years ago, but it felt more like we were friends, or like dating yourself. That may be what you are feeling. So maybe you are too much the same, and that's what's nagging at you. Libra is the marriage sign.

      I'd rather see you with an earth or water sign sun. I see you as sensitive and wanting to build a life with someone. Maybe she does, but she craves more freedom than you. I hope that helps. If you really try hard and can accept she needs space, I think this could work. The Venus and Mars you have together is good too. But I worry about the same Sun sign thing. Take care.

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      Jean Bakula 6 weeks ago from New Jersey

      Hi,

      I apologize for being so hard on you. I had a large bunch of questions where people want me to basically do hours of work for free, and I simply can't do it, there aren't enough hours in the day.

      Some of their "problems" seem so trivial to me. But yours isn't. I am a bit stumped here though, I must admit. As far as his planets and yours go, there should be more compatibility. I was with my Taurus for 39 years, and they like romance, and are generally faithful. The Venus in Aries man normally likes to show off his girlfriend, and sort of puts her on a pedestal. And in an odd way, he is, when you are the one who he takes to meet the family and friends. It sounds a little like a Madonna/Whore thing. He doesn't want you to be a "hookup", but wants YOU to be the Madonna. I can see how frustrating this is for you. His Scorpio Mars isn't helping here either. But as I said earlier, a few squares don't kill a relationship, sometimes they add to it.

      Did you talk to him about how neglected you feel in the sex department? Or won't he discuss it?

      I really don't know what to say. I'm sure you are attractive, and it seems you aren't going to get what you need from him. Or even if you do for a while, he may revert to his bad ways, or you will worry he will. That would be stressful.

      With your Moon in Gemini and Venus in Aquarius, you may be giving off a more " I don't need anyone vibe" than you think you are. But with the Pisces Sun, you are sympathetic and psychic and gentle in relationships.

      What's your Ascendant? Even so, I can't say why people are not meeting your sexual needs. This is a tough one. I do think with the current guy, there is an expiration date. You need someone who makes you happy and fulfilled. And you shouldn't be blaming yourself so much. Maybe the right one hasn't come along yet? Have you had this issue with anyone else (it sounds like yes)?

      Maybe you just have a sort of "girl next door" kind of appeal when guys meet you, and have to get past that. I wish I could be more helpful. Keep in touch and let me know how it goes. There are a lot of confusing grand trines and aspects going on right now that are upsetting everyone in different ways. Why don't you try to talk, even if you already have? See if you can make any progress. I can't tell if he wants you to be the "good girl" or if he just wants you to be the cover up for all his hookups. Men, they are so impossible.

      I didn't mean to hurt your feelings. Just don't keep hitting your head on a brick wall if you can't get through. Try, but move on. Take care.

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      Anonymous 7 weeks ago

      Hello Jean. I think I misrepresented myself. My problem is more that I KNOW that sex isn’t what it’s all about but I don’t want a sexless relationship. Because of his Aqua Moon and upbringing, it makes him not know how to combine the 2.

      I don’t want to just have a romantic relationship and didn’t know his hookup addiction was so important. Again he is a Taurus with Venus in Aries, Moon Aquarius. So I guess I’m saying that I don’t know how to keep his attention. I’m actually the more mature one in the relationship. Everything you said I’ve called him on already and he knows.

      Our bond is unmatched but we are not sexual and it’s been 6months. It’s like he avoids it or doesn’t need it with me because he is so in love, but then on the flip side he gets to have hookups as a way of connecting sexually. I’m very jealous of that and hurt......not because of the open relationship, but because they are getting a part that I’m not.

      We are very much in romantic love, I’m the one that gets introduced to friends and family.

      I understood you couldn’t cast the charts as I’ve done it already. I was just giving you the most important (Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars). I appreciate your time and have been reading this post for months. So sorry for misrepresenting myself (Gem Moon Merc Pisces). I’m a frantic mess because I’m in love and he is the most special person I’ve ever met. But his mental illness and sex addiction to hooking up with a specific type is difficult. He is attracted to me but it seems not sexually.

      It eats at my core because in the past 15 years I have been neglected sexually. Some believe I’m manifesting it because of my Venus Mars Square. Maybe I’m to friendly in my relationships. I don’t know. Very healthy and athletic body. I do my best to be attractive. I seem to only attract love and no desire.....hurts deep. Trust that I do know very much the importance of love, which is why I’m tired of not being desired sexually.

      So just so you understand the dynamic, not for full chart purposes.....(I know what they mean. I just want your amazing input that you’ve shared with others. His Aquarius Moon is strong!!! thank you so much)

      Me: Sun - Pisces, Moon - Gemini, Venus - Aquarius, Mars -Scorpio

      Him: Sun - Taurus, Moon - Aquarius, Venus - Aries, Mars - Taurus

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      Jean Bakula 7 weeks ago from New Jersey

      I'm sorry, but it takes 10-12 hours to cast a horoscope, and I can't interpret all these planet lists people send me without drawing one out.

      I can answer that just squared moons or one or two square or opposite aspects don't mean it's bad, we need some challenges in a relationship for it to work.

      My husband and I were together for 39 years with squared Moons and Venus.

      You seem to think just sex is enough to make a relationship work. It's not. As you pass the years together, you will have money issues, maybe children, you will be sick and have to take care of each other. You may have to take care of your own parents. You will face serious job and career issues. You may not like each other's friends. People you love will die, and eventually, if you are together long enough, one of you will die first. The loneliness is unbearable.

      If he is so used to hookups, and your biggest fear is holding his sexual interest, I think both of you are too immature for this to work. He only wants sex, and you think it's all that matters. Grow up first and take some time off from "relationships" like this. I'm not saying this to hurt you, but you have to be more realistic about life.

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      Daniels 8 weeks ago

      Hi Jean.

      My girlfriend has a Aquarius Moon and I have a Taurus moon. Although our emotional needs are very different our relationship still progressing. What I like most about her is the Aquarian moon qualities as you mentioned besides her emotional aloofness.

      Both of our sun signs are in Libra.

      Her mercury and Venus are in Libra. Mars in need Scorpio.

      My mercury and Venus are in Scorpio. Mars in cancer.

      I'm struggling to figure out long term potential between us. I do sense commonality but I feel there's an aspect that is missing, perhaps it's the squared moon aspect? What sign combination should I look at to enhance long term potential, other than moon?

      Thanks in advance

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      Jean Bakula 2 months ago from New Jersey

      I answered this and am unsure why it came back. Any planet Pluto aspects is intensified, so if it is near your Moon, you will feel a huge range of emotions. It's hard to say, I wouldn't say it acts like a Moon in Scorpio. People seem to think all kinds of oddball things about Scorpio Moons. It's not all about sex and death if you have only one planet in a sign. I am unsure why you aren't feeling Cancer or Sag, sometimes people have a stellium, or 3-4 planets in another same sign, so that makes a big difference in a horoscope. But I can't tell without drawing one out.

      The Scorpio in Pluto is a generational thing, and doesn't mean much at all in an individual's chart. The house it's in and aspects it makes to faster moving planets are what matters.

      You have to actually have planets in the astrology sign to feel the effects. You have a lot of fallacies about Astrology.

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      Jean Bakula 2 months ago from New Jersey

      When Pluto aspects any planet, it's energies are intensified. Since the Moon rules emotions, you will feel all of them more. I am unsure why you don't feel Cancer or Sag. Some people have stelliums, or 3-4 planets in a different sign than the Sun, Moon and Ascendant, and then they would show a lot of traits in whatever sign those planets are in. I really can't know more without casting a chart. I don't know why everyone gets so worked up about a Scorpio Moon. It causes intense emotions, leadership ability, intelligence and the willpower to stay on topic. It's not even about sex or death all that much if you have only one planet there. Jean

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      Svetlana 2 months ago

      Hello Jean, great article about Aqua moon.

      I'm Cancer with Saggitarius asc and I don't unfortunately feel that vibrations. My moon is also in aqua but I feel strong scorpio and capricorn influence. Maybe because of Neptune in first house (Capricorn), and scorpio pluto-11house ('95 generation), both in soft aspects with Sun (7H). Some astrologers think that when pluto squares moon (my situation) , moon can act like a moon in scorpio. Is that true? Interesting fact is that my parents have this position (Moon in Scorpio).

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      Jean Bakula 2 months ago from New Jersey

      It's always the darkest before the dawn too. It hurts, I know. Hang in there.

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      Katlyn 2 months ago

      Sorry about that ! As soon as I sent my comment, I read what you said to the others regarding that, and I totally understand :)

      Thank you for your words though. It isn't bad, but when I do get close to someone (was married for 6 years) it seems that I am easily misunderstood, and would lead to fights, which after it happening so often, despite my efforts to remedy the issue, I gave up. It's been a over a year since the separation and I will keep trudging on. Things get worse before they get better, right? :)

      Thank you for taking the time to respond to me. I appreciate your work!

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      Jean Bakula 2 months ago from New Jersey

      I also have an opposition of Sun and Moon-Sun in Cancer, Moon in Capricorn. It means we don't always present ourselves as we really are. Our emotions are a bit out of synch with the person we want everyone to know. I think my Moon gets out more to people, but I have a Scorpio Ascendant. Your Libra one is compatible with both signs. It's not a serious thing unless people close to you keep misunderstanding you. I wouldn't worry about it.

      I've been telling everyone I can't possibly cast a whole horoscope for free, and to stop emailing a list of planets from a site. No offense, but it takes 10-12 hours for me, and I charge $100.00. The site that you got the planets from will be cheaper, but not as good. If you are serious, details are on jeanbakula@wordpress.com. I understand most people don't realize how much work it is. I can read a few planets and answer what is a simple question like you first asked because of my years casting horoscopes. Take care.

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      Arabella 2 months ago

      Hello, Jean. Your article touched me deeply. Pretty much me minus tattoos. :)

      I was curious if you could give some insight regarding my aqua moon and leo sun. They are in complete opposition of each other. And I feel this is causing painful stagnation in my life. Its hard for me to make decisions, leaving me frozen.

      Sun: Leo

      Moon: Aquarius

      Mercury: Cancer

      Venus: Cancer

      Mars: Virgo

      Jupiter: Libra

      Saturn: Aquarius

      Uranus: Capricorn

      Neptune: Capricorn

      Pluto: Scorpio

      Acendant: Libra

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      Jean Bakula 2 months ago from New Jersey

      No problem, Mel. Take care.

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      Mel 2 months ago

      Jean, thank you so much for your insights, I greatly appreciate it! I really helps me understand why I have hard time connecting with people in love matters.

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      Jean Bakula 2 months ago from New Jersey

      That's a good mix. The Sun in Taurus is stable and reliable, pleasant and sensual. The Ascendant in Venus is the way others see you, so in Gemini you are more fun loving and intellectual than Taurus, not that Taurus isn't intelligent. They are practical and what they can actually use is important to them. The sign is ruled by Venus, so you are romantic, but more lighthearted than your Taurus Sun would make you. It's an earth sign, so you may enjoy the outdoors and environmental causes could attract you, as the Aquarius in you likes to get you involved in causes.Venus in Gemini likes to chat and is a social butterfly, also smart. You could be in love with two people at the same time, or have two great love affairs in your life. I have seen that pattern with Venus in Gemini often, and even in myself! The Moon in Aquarius means you need freedom and that may clash with your Taurus Sun in some situations. But it grounds you to have the Sun where it is. Both Taurus and Aquarius are fixed signs, so you are stubborn. Taurus is passive/aggressive, Aquarius just does what it wants. There are lots of contradictions in astrology, so the traits depend a lot on the situation and how important it is to you. Best Wishes.

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      Jean Bakula 2 months ago from New Jersey

      I'm really sorry, but can no longer accommodate people who send me a whole list of planets copied from a site. I do small interpretations for about two planets, but I can't interpret a list like this without drawing out a whole chart, and would need a lot more information about you. If you want an astrology chart, go to jeanbakula@wordpress.com. I charge $100.00. Take care.

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      Mel 2 months ago

      Hello Jean, very informative article, thanks.

      My natal chart is as follows, what can you conclude about my persona, I always seem to be confused when it comes to love.

      Sun Taurus

      Ascendant Aries

      Moon Aquarius

      Mercury Aries

      Venus Gemini

      Mars Leo

      Jupiter Cancer

      Saturn Leo

      Uranus Scorpio

      Neptune Saggitarius

      Pluto Libra

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      Jean Bakula 3 months ago from New Jersey

      Hi Jelena,

      It's normal to appear like a Scorpio, that's what the Ascendant does, it's the facade we hid behind. I am a Cancer Sun with Scorpio Rising too! I also have a grown Scorpio sun, he's wonderful and smart, but was hard to raise. They are so intense emotionally they can't even understand themselves until the adult years. I often get told that "you seem like you don't want to be bothered with people: but Cancers are private and so is Scorpio, we need alone time. Both are strong signs, and maybe you give too much of your power to others. My first love was a Capricorn, we have a lot in common. The Aquarius Moon makes you seem aloof. But you aren't concerned with petty things, you have a broader look at the world. All three are signs that you don't want to be surrounded by people all the time, though Cancers are friendly and loyal friends. We need to be careful not to be taken advantage of. Take care, Jean

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      Jean Bakula 3 months ago from New Jersey

      Yes, the Pisces sun is very romantic and some can be downright doormats, but they are very devoted to loved ones and like to be together often. Taurus is also a bit Jealous, and likes to be possessive. But your Aquarius Moon emotions need some space, and you like time to do stuff on your own. Cancer Suns are clingy, but also have a lot of interests, so if you explain it's not because you don't care, you need "me" time, a Cancer does too, so maybe they will understand that. I know many Cancer/Aquarius couples. Cancer has the Moon in all 12 signs each Month, so they like change. Aquarius change is more dramatic, but something both signs have in common. Virgos want to take care of you. Just humor them. They are witty and restless, something else you find in common with that sign. Try to work with the traits you have in common. With Taurus Rising, you seem more "settled" than you really are. Tell someone if they are smothering you in a nice way. It can work surprisingly well. Take care.

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      Katelyn 3 months ago

      Hi Jean, love your article. I very much resonate with this description. The only thing is that I don't know how to take care of my car.. ha!

      I am a Pisces sun, Taurus Rising, Aquarius Moon (but with Aquarius in Mercury, Venus, and another planet as well). The Pisces sun and Aquarius Moon can be very conflicting... astrology has helped me learn a lot about myself though. Do you have any advice for my sun-moon combination? Especially with love? I seem to attract many Cancer sun/Virgo Moons, but they are too smothering for me. Thanks!

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      Jean Bakula 3 months ago from New Jersey

      OK. An Aquarius Sun and Taurus Sun is a square, meaning you both want your own way. You have great, unusual ways of seeing the world, and Taurus is gentle and loves the outdoors, a real environmentalist. Taurus people are ruled by Venus and easy to get along with. They are romantic. Your Aquarius Sun is very independent, and so are you. You are aloof at times, but with the Scorpio moon need time to yourself. A Taurus is not as adventurous as you, but the Sun signs will be challenging and fun. They are loyal and usually everyone loves a Taurus. Plus emotionally you understand the Aquarius Moon person, and they understand your Aquarius Sun. Wow, I like that. Libra rising is someone who likes to entertain and have parties, go out, see shows, a social creature. A Sag rising person is interesting to talk too, and likes to get into discussions about education, philosophy and has a big interest in other cultures, probably loving travel. I think you make a good pair. Good luck!

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      ajelena 3 months ago

      Hello Jean,

      I'm Cancer sun/Scorpio asc/Aquarius moon and really enjoyed your article on Aqua moon and was able to find my self totally in it. I feel like my soul is Aqua soul even though I may appear like a Scorpio. I got lost on the way for couple of years in an attempt to accommodate as a mother (son is a Scorpio) and a wife (divorcing a Capricorn) and I'm now changing my life, again.

      Also liked a lot about what you wrote about emotional detachment with people, explained a lot about me and how people perceive me, and how they actually don't know how to handle me as they feed on my energy and spirit, and are not sure how I can "cover" and change everything and be an "alien"...

      Not to bother you more just wanted to thank you for the great article.

      Jelena

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      Jason 3 months ago

      Hi! How does a Libra Sun and Aquarius moon shake out? Being both air signs I was curious how these work together for me

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      Henri Leyva 3 months ago

      Hello Jean! I'm an aquarius sun, scorpio moon and libra rising. And a friend of mine is a taurus sun, aquarius moon and sagittarius rising. Is there anyway you could briefly describe me and my friend Stefan based off these three signs only? We're just curious to see what your description will be like. Thank you! I know it won't be as descriptive as a natal chart reading but this will work for us!

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      Jean Bakula 4 months ago from New Jersey

      Hello Regina,

      Both Cancer and Aquarius are signs of a nonconformist. You won't change if you don't want to, and may enjoy being different from others in some way. Cancers are kind and gentle people, family oriented, but also leaders. Aquarius people are very intelligent, and are changeable, often doing things on a whim. Cancers change a lot because the Moon rules them, so it's a person who is comfortable with change, smart, and likable. Someone who wants to keep learning and growing. Best, Jean

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      REGINA 4 months ago

      Hi ,

      Can you talk me about the combination cancer sun and aquarius moon please .

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      Jean Bakula 5 months ago from New Jersey

      Thanks for your compliments and for reading my work, Maria! Best Wishes, Jean

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      Jean Bakula 5 months ago from New Jersey

      Mia,

      Alexair has more advice for you. Best, Jean Let me know how you are doing.

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      Alexair 5 months ago

      Hi Mia,

      I think you may be on your own from here on out. Fighting isn't good for you or the baby. The stress can release unhealthy chemicals to the baby. It's best to let go and move on. Don't wonder if he will be back in your life. It's not worth your time and effort because it's something that is out of your control. Look at what you can control like your health and the babies health instead. I've seen your situation many times and it never turns into a good long lasting relationship. Your child needs love and a loving safe home. It is your job to provide that for him or her. Don't ever chase a man because they will run every time. The more you chase the further they run. The more you fight, the less they will want to be with you. Be good to yourself and your child and never allow any man in your life that causes you worry or sorrow. Be strong and you will get through it. Give yourself a chance to find the right person as a mate. Someone that makes you smile and laugh.

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      Maria Paz 5 months ago

      Wow jean this is so cool, loved this article. So true. I am a Taurus Sun, Aquarius Moon, and Libra Rising very me!

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      Jean Bakula 5 months ago from New Jersey

      He sure is heartless and immature. And what's wrong with his family? They should be encouraging him to be responsible. Do you live with your family, and are they accepting of this? Or do you have any help? I'm so sorry.

      What does he mean "you will never change?" It takes two to make a child. He is half of the equation. Does he have any normal family members you can talk too? You are not crazy and don't owe anyone an apology.

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      Mia 5 months ago

      I texted his ex wife and his sister but they did not respond to me. They think that I am crazy.

      I do not want to kill a life inside me. He says he sees no need to express any concern for me or ask how am I doing since I'm no longer his gf, wife, or friend. He blocked me on all forms of communication except email. I seeked counseling for my issues, apologized and asked for forgiveness MANY TIMES but he always says in my face, I will never change. He believes what he wants to believe.

      He is a Taurus with Aquarius moon (I think) Hes heartless.

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      Jean Bakula 5 months ago from New Jersey

      Mia,

      I'm so sorry to hear about this, a man should never abuse a woman, or vice versa. How far along are you? I don't want to sound cold, but are you prochoice or prolife? Only because if it's early, and he already shows he has no interest in this child, it will be a hard road for you. Please don't take offense. Have you met his family or spoken with them. Maybe they will shame him into taking responsibility for his child. I hope it works out. Let me know how you are doing. Love, Jean

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      Mia 5 months ago

      I've been fighting for a Taurus man for 6 months. Physical fights happened too. Now I'm pregnant with his baby and he refuses to attend counseling for the sake of the baby. Will he come back?

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      Jean Bakula 5 months ago from New Jersey

      Hello Alyssa,

      Three years isn't much, but it can be depending on how mature you both are. The are ages where you still have a lot of growing and self discovery going on. But I married the guy I fell for when I was 18 (not until I was 24) and we had a great marriage. His Venus in Gemini make him a flirt, but since his Sun is in Taurus he is faithful and would like to settle down someday. The Mercury in Gemini means he's intelligent, and so does the Aquarius Moon. You are more emotional than him with the Scorpio Sun, Venus and PIsces Moon. Taurus and Scorpio are opposite signs, so that's the attraction. It's not a disaster. He's a little more lighthearted than you are. If he works or goes to college, and seems like he has goals in life, then I say go for it. If he is just drifting through life, I would say no because of the two Gemini planets. But as long as he isn't living a crazy life, there's no reason astrologically that you can't get along. Good luck. We could always do a tarot reading and see what comes up about your relationship, check for me at jeanbakula.wordpress.com. Take care.

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      Jean Bakula 6 months ago from New Jersey

      I also think once you love someone, you always will, love never dies. I'm Cancer with a Capricorn moon, and I couldn't deal with someone I loved who was in a relationship with me sleeping with other lovers. She is selfish in her way. She's only going to keep hurting you, and you seem so nice. Really, I think it's for the best. Give it time, and you will begin to heal. Jean

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      Jean Bakula 6 months ago from New Jersey

      Mel, that's a beautiful way to end a relationship if that's the way it has to be. You are the more mature one, and Scorpios mellow out with time. You have to find someone who you trust more. The reason her want of freedom bother you so much is because you don't trust her. Now, that could be the fault of either of you. But I think you did the right thing. You can get through this hard time and will meet someone else when the time is right. It's usually when you aren't looking. Hang in there. Jean

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      Jean Bakula 6 months ago from New Jersey

      Mel,

      It sounds like you did the best you could. Two fixed signs are going to have problems, you are both stubborn, even though Aquarians are "free", notice she still wants her way as well. Also, sometimes the timing is just wrong in a relationship, though I think you said you have broken up and came back together again. My first love always broke up with me when the going wasn't even that tough. He was a few years older than me and I was so crazy about him, I put up with it for a long time, 4 yrs. Finally, I broke up with him, and met the man I dated for 5 years and was married to for 34. He has passed, but I learned what it was like to be truly loved by a mature person. I have a rule I tell anyone who has been through a breakup. If someone will leave you once, that already is the pattern or foundation of the relationship. It will always be that way. I am sorry, I know you are in pain. But your truer love could be right around the corner. And don't worry about hogging up space, I'm here to try to help. Plus, there are lots of Aquarians around who also have planets in more stable signs and can compromise more. There's hope for you yet, my friend. Take care.

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      Mel 6 months ago

      the truth is even with all the love that was present our relationship became toxic because of the power struggles and differences in opinion combined with poor communication. we ended things with loving kindness towards each other. and i am leaving it there. i wish her well..

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      Mel 6 months ago

      Mel here again...

      I just need a place to talk about this so hope you are ok with me flooding your comments section.

      The thing is I see myself so much in her (the Aquarius Moon). She is such a beautiful dynamic spiritual being. She is so magical and her heart is gold.

      We are a lot alike and although I live my life differently.. I very much see the beauty in the way she chooses to be free. Again, I love the fire in her. It's the fire in my heart. However, I have rules and strict boundaries that I live by. I'm fluid in some ways certainly but I am very rigid when it comes to certain things. And, like you said, I do always think I am right. She doesn't like that about me. I can be forceful and demanding (even without saying anything). And my will is powerful. I always am in control. I read somewhere that my archetype as a Venus in Scorpio is "The Owner". I believe this to be the worst person in my lovers eyes. Freedom is so important to her. She also wants to please her lover. And, my desires to possess, to consume, to control... conflict with her needs. These are not traits I am proud of. I do not know how I could change them. I do not know how I can not be jealous or possessive. I do not know how I can love without wanting all of my lover all the time. It's so easy for me to become delirious with desire. It's not good because sometimes even too much love can be a bad thing.

      I give too much and it becomes disempowering. I give too little and my lover does not even know that they are wanted by me.

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      Mel 6 months ago

      Hello Jean,

      It's Mel again. WOW. I am truly in awe that you are able to describe the dynamics in our relationship so definitively. Everything you stated is true for the two of us.

      We aren't talking right now. I won't speak on her behalf. But I can tell you that I have not been able to go a single day or night without thinking of her. My friends and family don't like her at all. They don't see what I see. Like you said, she comes off as stronger than she is and like a party girl. But I know her as more than that. I have struggled to embrace her fire. I love that part of her. But, it's also the part that makes me feel insecure in our relationship. She loves connecting with a lot of people in a lot of different ways. Enjoys having many lovers. I love that she sees beauty in everything and everyone. However, I also get jealous. I wanted more from her than she was able or willing to give me. I tried to just be her friend but I can't make my heart not want more than that...

      I had to just let it go. I don't know if she thinks I abandoned her. I know I felt that way for a while like she did that to me. But, really she is just living her life and following her own path. And I am doing the same. And while I did not want it I now see why the separation is/was necessary. & now she lives on the other side of the country. Not like that is a barrier for me. I would go anywhere for that kind of love. But the timing is never right for us... The love is still there. I am just moving forward and hoping one day our paths will cross again but if they don't I will still always love her. Always.

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      Jean Bakula 6 months ago from New Jersey

      Thank you so much for reading my work, Rochelle. Best Wishes, Jean

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      Rochelle Simpson 6 months ago

      love your insight! It is dead on... from a Aquarius moon, sun woman. Kudos and thank you for the site!

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      Jean Bakula 6 months ago from New Jersey

      Hello Bee,

      Aquarius, Taurus and Scorpio are all stubborn or fixed signs. So it's the Venus in Libra that makes you more flexible, romantic, and helps you be a little easier to get along with. It's normal to relate to our Moon signs more, as that represents our feelings. So in Aquarius, you can be aloof, even though you care. The Taurus Ascendant also is a calm and gentle sign, Taurus is ruled by Venus. So you come off as being sensible, warm, and easier to get along with than you are! I'm sure you have better aspects too, you like your own way and are opinionated, but even seeing this much it seems that there are ways to negotiate with you. You are very sexy and romantic! Best Wishes, Jean

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      Bee 6 months ago

      Loved this article Jean! This sounded like you know me! Lol. I often feel like I like relate much better better to my moon sign than my sun. It just depends. I'm an Aquarius moon, Taurus ascendant, Scorpio sun and Venus is in Libra. So... Imagine the many internal battles there. I always love to love but am secretly terrified of it. Same with almost every other area except my beliefs. Those are solid. I want to believe the Aquarius moon in me makes everything sort of fickle or like a swinging pendulum searching for balance. It makes relationships complicated for sure. Which influence do you think causes that?

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      Jean Bakula 8 months ago from New Jersey

      Thank you Ricardo!

      Sun sign Virgos are intelligent, serious, but also witty and fun to talk to. Virgos can be critical, but that's really their worst flaw. They are neat and organized, so can be a good match for someone who isn't. They are kind and affectionate. Taurus Ascendant will make a person seem really calm and in control. The Ascendant is the way you appear, but you have the traits too. Taurus is ruled by Venus, so they are romantic and like to be surrounded by comfort, good food, good wine, nice furniture, the best. They have good taste. They are down to earth and reliable and love the outdoors. They are very sexy. The Moon is about emotions, and Aquarius doesn't show them too much. They can seem aloof, but they do care. They are involved in so many things they will say they love you one day and forget your birthday the next day. They are also very smart and unique. They view the world in a different way than most people, are nonconformists, but don't care what others think. I hope that helps. Take care, Jean

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      Ricardo 8 months ago

      Jean thanks for the article.

      I wonder what is like to born in sun virgo, taurus ascendant and moon in aquarius, i loved your work!

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      Jean Bakula 8 months ago from New Jersey

      Hi Bri,

      I remember, I wrote to you last night, fire and air, right? Ok, so now I see with Venus in Capricorn, it's hard for him to express his feelings. But he has strong ones, and is likely to show them more privately. Mars in Cancer means he wants to settle down some day, and putter around the house with the family. Your Venus in Cancer is opposite his in Capricorn, that's good and means a sexual attraction. Your Mars in Virgo goes well with his Mars in Cancer, Earth and Water. This is what I was hoping to see, because you two needed some earth and water to calm down the air and fire. He sounds mature, and so do you. Since you've known each other and sort of put each other on the back burner as you went to college shows you are both mature. I think this is a great love story, and has great potential. Don't be afraid to tell him you lost your job. Always tell the truth, when you don't, it can mess up something good! You both have outgoing sides and quiet sides, and so are alike, but different enough to make life interesting. And you waited for each other. I think you both care enough to work out the little issues. Go for it! Take care, Jean

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      Bri 8 months ago

      Hi Jean, Thank you! I actually found out what his Venus and Mars are in so, his Sun is Sag and Moon in Aquarius his Venus is in Capricorn and His Mars is in Cancer, I am Sun in Leo, moon in Aries and my Venus is in Cancer and my Mars is in Virgo.. we have only been dating a year and a half but have known eachother since high school and i wasn't interested in him back then even though he was very popular and star athlete and good looking he has tried to come back into my life twice once when I was a freshman in college and he was a sophomore I was unsure of his intentions so I didn't give him a chance (i was in school in VA and he was in school in NY) then four years passed and he came back again and this time I gave him a chance. On our first date we found we have identical tattoos and he had gotten the number 7 and I wanted to as well bc its the number of completion and my birth date. Also have eerie similarities or almost a weird coincidences. I was thinking of surprising him with tickets to a Nats game and when I saw him later he told me a friend of his was giving out tickets for the same game but he had left his desk so missed the email opportunity but thought of us going together. And I can finish his sentences. we are both independent even though i require more attention. I recently lost my job and I haven't told him but i don't want to keep secrets I'm just insecure that he won't want to continue to see me or that he'll find a better person since he likes to travel and right now i am looking for stable work. I want us to work but I'm sure we communicate our feelings differently. would you be able to tell me more from the information I provided? thank you so much.

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      Jean Bakula 8 months ago from New Jersey

      Hi,

      Those daily horoscopes are what gave astrology a bad name. They became popular during WW11 to give people something entertaining to read to keep their minds off the war. Usually if you read you Sun and your Ascendant and mix them together, it's closer to what's happening in your life. Since both your Sun and Ascendant are in Virgo, that should be close, or as close as you can come The Moon doesnt figure into daily horoscopes, but you can try reading Aquarius with Virgo, and it can't hurt anything. Maybe that will feel closer to what's happening in your life. Good Luck. Jean

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      Jean Bakula 8 months ago from New Jersey

      Hi Bri,

      No, these planets are really in good signs, Fire and Air is good. Leo and Sag are both Fire signs, so you are both outgoing, he's more of a thinker and reads or studies a lot of interests, but you are fun to be with and a good match for him. The Aries Moon and Aquarius moon are good too. Aquarius is air, and the moon is how we show our emotions. Aquarius moon people tend to act aloof. It's not that they don't care, more like they don't know how to show it. If he wants to give you keys to his place, he seems serious. If you find what his Venus and Mars and yours are in, that could shed some light. I don't like the computer sites, but Astrothemes is pretty good, Best wishes, Jean

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      Bri 8 months ago

      Hi Jean, my sun sign is a Leo and moon sign is Aries. My boyfriends sun sign is Sagittarius and moon sign is Aquarius. I find that he seems detached at times and very affectionate and playful other times. Its like we have chemistry and compatibility but the way we express ourselves emotionally is much different. I tend to get discouraged and feel like I'm not important. It almost feels like we work but something is always changing. I feel like he's hot and cold and I feel like he is honestly afraid of commitment and that scares me because we talk about buying a puppy together and things for his house (that i don't live in currently but he has tried to give me keys). So it feels like he's not ready for a serious commitment but then is.. Could this pairing work or are there too many differences?

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      US7 8 months ago

      Hello there.... im virgo sun + asc .... im moon aquarius....

      im also born i 1974.. year of tiger which is the equivalent of aquarius...

      is it then a good thing to also read the aquarius horoscope ?

      i mean when reading daily horoscopes ....

      thank you!

      greetings from

      Norway

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      Jean Bakula 8 months ago from New Jersey

      Hello Briana,

      Well, I think the Aquarius moon is what makes him seem aloof in his emotions. It's also a fixed sign, and some people don't like change. Sometimes with guys it's not fear of commitment, it's fear of change. Otherwise, things look good. Actually your Aries moon makes you very outgoing and dramatic, you show your emotions and are a lot of fun to be with. Aries is fire and Aquarius is air, and fire needs air to burn, if you think of elements. So it's not a really bad thing at all. Since he is a sun sign Pisces, he is romantic and sensitive, you may be hurting his feelings with your Aries moon, you are much easier to read and get to know people, he's more quiet and cerebral. When you go out, you may shine more, though he's a great storyteller. He cares a lot about other people, and you are more focused on yourself. Your Gemini Sun means you are interested a little bit in everything, and restless, and Pisces is restless too. Maybe your personality is stronger than his, and it worries him. But there's nothing here to say it's a bad match. Unless you keep breaking up or something I don't know, or have been going out for 10 yrs. without commitment, I think it will be fine. Slow down and listen to him more. There is potential here. I just don't know how long you've been together and it seems to be bothering you, that you want things to move onward. Maybe try to get him to talk about it. You may be happier with someone who shows his emotions more, but there is nothing here to tell me he's not the one. Be optimistic. Jean

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      Briana 8 months ago

      My sun sign is a Gemini an s moon sign is Aries. My boyfriends sun sign is pisces and moon sign is Aquarius. I have a hard time with getting him to express his feelings for me and our relationship. I feel like he is honestly afraid of commitment and that scares me. Could this pairing work or are there too many differences?

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      Jean Bakula 8 months ago from New Jersey

      Hello Mel,

      OK, I see what's going on here. You have a lot of fixed signs, making you both a tad stubborn and wanting to get your way. She has the Aquarius moon, ruling how she feels. You have Sun,(how are are) Venus( how you love) and Mercury in Scorpio (how you think).Your Venus in Scorpio may make her feel squashed a little bit, you need to give her space and trust her. Also, I think with all those planets in Scorpio, you like some privacy sometimes too. Plus Mercury in Scorpio means it takes a lot to change your mind. her Venus (love nature) and Mars (what she likes to do physically) are in Leo. So those are causing the challenges. These are called squares in astrology. But we need challenges in a serious relationship, or we would be bored to death.

      Your Moon in Taurus and ascendant are also in fixed signs. You always think you are right. But I love that you have Taurus in you and she has Cancer. This is good. She is much more vulnerable than people think, with that Cancer Sun, and really wants a long term relationship. Cancer is a leadership sign too, so she knows what she wants and has a good business sense. The Mercury in Cancer means she thinks with her heart, and your moon in Taurus is romantic and gentle enough to get that, and your ascendant in Taurus is good with her Cancer planets too. People probably think you make a great couple. Her Ascendant in Aries also is the way people see her when they first meet her, and Aries takes control a lot, like Cancer, and wants to be noticed. So I think you come off as laid back, and she comes off a bit of a party girl, though that's not true. She's very smart.

      There is a possibility that you can make this work. You need to talk more and tell her how much you care, she needs that more than you think. She needs security more than she lets on, and so do you. I think physically it's all good, but things break down when you start to talk, but you have to communicate more.

      In my personal life, I believe if a couple keeps breaking up over small things, they always will break up rather than solve their problems. But it may have been larger issues, that's something I don't know. I think you can make this work. The Cancer and Scorpio Suns are great. She loves the Taurus part of you (I was married to a Taurus man for 34 years and I'm Cancer).So there are challenges, but a lot of signs that can get you back on track again. Talk more to be sure you agree, and you could either be homebodies for some of the time, but have to get out enough too. I think I would give it another try. Also, as you say, sometimes the timing isn't right. Maybe now it is. Go for it, there's a lot of good here. Best wishes, Jean You can find me at jeanbakula.wordpress.com.

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      Mel 8 months ago

      Hello Jean,

      Thank you for this article. this was the most informative article for me trying to understand my lover who is has her moon in aquarius. i want to know if we have a chance at being in a committed partnership. we dated and broke up but still have been lovers on and off for years. we can't seem to stay away from each other and it is clear there is a deep connection and love. however, we seem to have a hard time communicating and meeting each others emotional needs. i have moon/ascendant in taurus, sun/venus/mercury in scorpio. she has sun/mercury in cancer, venus/mars in leo, ascendant in aries. is this doomed to just be an unfulfilling relationships where we are constantly striving for more but never getting there? or can we make it work at the right time?

      thanks

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      Jean Bakula 8 months ago from New Jersey

      Hi Tiffani,

      Aquarians do really care about people, but they don't wear it on their sleeve, so I'd say you expressed that well. Aquarius is THE sign for computers, electronics, any kind of new inventions. The North node has to do with the future you have in this incarnation. Moon conjunct Venus, very romantic. So you do show it when it matters. That's why we need lots of info about each planet. Good job! Jean

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      Tiffani 8 months ago

      I have this placement and I've been told that I'm not empathetic but very kind-hearted at the same time. Is that an Aquarius moon trait?

      I'm also studying to work with computers, which I've learned is an Uranus thing and quite possibly has a lot to do with my north node which is also in Aquarius. Those placements are different Houses though. My Moon is also tightly conjunct my Venus as well (by one degree).

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      Jean Bakula 8 months ago from New Jersey

      Hello Aparoksha,

      Well, you've done a good job of explaining both of you in an astrology way. A Sag Sun is fun, and extroverted, interested in many things. The Aquariusmoon means you don't always show you emotions on your sleeve either. A Taurus Sun guy is sweet, gentlemanly and pretty sexy. The Virgo Moon means he's shy and a bit critical or picky when choosing someone to date. Usually Sun and Earth combos don't really jell that well. But all your planets are in signs, and some of the others can be better for you both. He is outdoorsy and doesn't like to dress up. He doesn't talk unless he really has something to say. Maybe you could sort of casually ask him what he would think of you two being a couple. You come off with a stronger personality, but the Aquarius moon and his Virgo one could mean he's thinking the same about you! Taurus needs to be told, practically hit over the head. Is there an occasion soon where you can give him a gift? Taurus guys are physical. Touch him with gestures more when you talk. Then see how he reacts to that. Good luck!Jean

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      Aparoksha 8 months ago

      Hello Jean! loved the article.

      I had a quick question for you, I'm a Sun Sagittarius/moon Aquarius and I really like this boy who is a Sun Taurus/Moon Virgo. We both get a long very well, and it's easy to be around him but sometimes he's a bit lack, as far as communication and opening up on a deeper more personal level goes. I'm an emotional/heart based person, who is a bit spacey but highly aware and he's more down to earth and practical, but sometimes it feels like he's also distant and reserved (even though he's highly extroverted). I want to tell him that I really like him more than just a friend, and that I have for a long time now. Sometimes I feel that he's completely clueless to the fact that I have care about him on a deep level, and I would like to tell him up front about how much he means to me. How should I go about doing that with a moon Virgo? Do moon Aquarius get along with them, any advice?

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      Jean Bakula 9 months ago from New Jersey

      Hi Sarah,

      Yes, Aquarius moons and ascendants do come across as detached a lot of the time. But having a Cancer sun will help that, you are nurturing and kind. Cancers are more restless than most people think, and that leads to interests in a lot of subjects.

      I think from what I see, people your age aren't so interested in pairing off so young. Aquarius likes freedom, and in it's way, so does Cancer. Cancer is a sign of leadership. Although they love home and family, they don't want to be bogged down in housework and dirty diapers as much as others believe. It's the love of the family that matters. I am Cancer myself, and never cared if the house was spotless. The mess will always be there, I'd prefer to go out! Career interests or other things may be more important right now. I know a lot of Cancer/Aquarius couples, so the two signs blend pretty well, again, more than others believe.

      19 is young, don't be so hard on yourself. Like I said, I don't see people wanting to settle down so much when young. Relax, it's when you aren't looking love comes your way. Take care, Jean

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      Sarah 9 months ago

      Hi Jean! My names Sarah and my sun is in cancer, moon in Aquarius and ascendent is Aquarius. I'm coming up on 19 and still have not had a serious relationship. It's hard to pin point why but I feel like it has a lot to do with my Aquarius side being so closed off and distant. I'm having trouble being personal with people or lovers. Is it common for Aquarius moons and ascendent to be kind of emotionally detached?

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      Jean Bakula 9 months ago from New Jersey

      There are loads of contradictions in Astrology, we all have that, so don't beat yourself up. You have 3 Pisces planets, so still come off like a Pisces. The Moon in Aquarius makes you a bit aloof emotionally., but the Ascendant in Cancer makes you appear warm and friendly. Venus in Capricorn makes it hard for you to share your emotions, or you do it in private. Just make sure you do it. Mars in Taurus with the Capricorn Venus means you are hard working and have goals, so that's good with all that Pisces helps you not to drift through life. Saturn in Sag makes you interested in religions, you may have changed from the one you were brought up in. Uranus in Sag means you have a way of doing things suddenly. Pluto rules Scorpio, so you are interested in life and death issues, and study everything on a subject which interests you.

      It's hard for me to do this, because a list of planets from a site is like half or less of a picture, the reason I charge for an astrology chart. I don't know your ascendant, so I don't know what houses any of these planets are in, and each house means 3 or 4 things. Also, the distance each planet is from another is called an aspects, we all have about 20, and I don't have clue from this. But don't worry about the inconsistencies, we all have them, since all the planets are in aspects and in houses, and we don't know what they are from this. Even if we did, there would be inconsistencies. It's a good combination of planets, some sensitive and creative, some active and hard working. Best Wishes,

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      Jean Bakula 9 months ago from New Jersey

      HI Angelo,

      NO, all your planets and luminaries (Sun and Moon) are in a sign, though some can be in the same sign. Cancer and Pisces is good, but together you could drift through life without goals and neither of you likes to push. If her Moon is in Taurus, she's practical and has goals, and wants stability and that can still work. Your Aquarius moon makes you involved in a lot of interests, and you have an inquiring mind. I usually thing once a couple breaks up instead of solving a problem, that's what they will always do (not an astrology observation, a life one). If you want you could talk and give it one more try. Both Pisces and Cancers keep feelings in and maybe that lead to the misunderstanding. Good luck.

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      Anjelo 9 months ago

      Here's my natal chart:

      Sun - Pisces

      Moon - Aquarius

      Ascendant - Cancer

      Mercury- Pisces

      Venus - Capricorn

      Mars - Taurus

      Jupiter - Pisces

      Saturn - Sagittarius

      Uranus - Sagittarius

      Neptune - Capricorn

      Pluto - Scorpio

      During younger years, I thought I was different from my peers. I am a very sensitive person due to my Pisces Sun sign but i find it difficult to express how and what i really feel. Makes me wonder why since I'm a Pisces. Pisces is big with feelings. But when I found out about my moon sign, that's when I start figuring out why? Sometimes I feel like I am contradicting myself.

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      Anjelo 9 months ago

      All along I though i have only one zodiac sign and that is Pisces. I just learned about my moon signe and got obsessed with it. That is why sometimes I thought why we have so much differences and arguments with my Cancer lover. Her moon sign is in Taurus. I'm a Pisces Sun, and Moon in Aquarius. We broke up but stayed friends. I love her still so much...

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      Jean Bakula 9 months ago from New Jersey

      I'm not staying forever. I just feel burnt out. Come back, and I'll work with you. It's just for March!

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      Nikki 9 months ago

      Have a great time on your retreat, I just want to better understand my natal chart.

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      Jean Bakula 9 months ago from New Jersey

      I'm pretty sure I answered this last night. Go to the Aquarius Moon Sign piece on Exemplore and check. If not, come back. I clearly recall it. :)

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      Jean Bakula 9 months ago from New Jersey

      My first love was Capricorn too. I was only 15 when I met him, and he was 18. My parents hated him, so I saw him in secret. But it was very on and off. Finally, I still loved him, but had graduated HS and loved working, bought a car, and wondered why I matured and he didn't. I met the man who I married while I was seeing Mr. Capricorn, but took it slow, for a while I was seeing them both!. We dated for 5 yrs. and were married for 34. Maybe sometimes the time just isn't right. I believe in reincarnation and know I was with both of them before, but my husband was Taurus, sweet, loving, fun and hardworking, dependable. I made the right choice! He passed away 3 yrs. ago and I still feel like somebody cut me in half. Wait for the right one, you'll recognize him!

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      Nikki 9 months ago

      It's funny that you mention fatal because the love of my life was a Capricorn but I guess, I wouldn't know exactly why we couldn't work out. (I don't know his time of birth.) Even though time has past I still care for them. I tried my best to understand them but again I can't take it so personally, sometimes in life you don't get what you want but you get what you certainly need.

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      Nikki 9 months ago

      I'm the one who asked about the Cancer, leo, and Aquarius my birthday is July 7th 1993, I was born at 8:57 AM in Hialeah, FL. I know my Venus is in Gemini, my Uranus is in Capricorn and so is Neptune.

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      Jean Bakula 9 months ago from New Jersey

      This is an interesting combo, Cancer makes you kind and sensitive, Leo makes you outgoing more than Cancer (though Cancer is a leadership sign, it's the strongest of the Trinity), and the Moon in Aquarius means your most inner self, so you like your freedom and don't want anyone to infringe on it. You like to be different (so do Cancers).So the three come together and in a good way. You will attract Aquarians because of the Aquarius Moon, and although it seems odd, I know many Cancer/Aquarius couples. You understand that both need change. Gemini is compatible with Cancer (signs next to each other usually get along, and have planets in each other's Sunsign. Your Moon and ascendant are compatible with air and fire, Sag and Aries. Capricorn is your "Fatal Opposite. Most people at least date a person of the opposite sign, it's usually the love of your life. But it's fatal because you want the same things out of life, but can't agree about the path to getting them. You will keep making up and breaking up (though the makeups are worth it)! Also, Capricorn is another leadership sign, you have a lot of potential. As you say, most will tell you to go with a water sign, but a Pisces is too weak willed for you, and Aquarius and Leo are fixed signs, making Scorpio a no no. I wish I had your whole chart to see where other planets are. Look to see where your Venus and Mercury are, love and how you think. Based on this I would say a person of a Fire or Air sign, who had a planet or two in Capricorn. I'm going on a retreat for 2 weeks, but later maybe we can do a whole Natal chart, or I could take a look at the one you have. Take care, Jean

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      Nikki 9 months ago

      Dear Jean,

      I'm a Cancer, my ascendant is Leo, and my moon is in Aquarius. I wanted to know exactly why I always attract Geminis, Aquarius, Sagittarius, Aries and mostly Capricorns people in my life. The majority of my friends are Capricorns. And I wanted to know what sign would be most compatible, supposedly Scorpios and Pisces are to be the most compatible even libra but I don't care too much for those signs, they annoy me haha, yet I'm always open to meet someone of another sign. My Natal Chart is a splash.

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      Jean Bakula 10 months ago from New Jersey

      That's OK, it's different for everyone. Having the ascendant isn't the only thing that would bring one certain Astrology sign group in your life. You could have planets that are compatible with Aquarius, like other air signs, or even fire signs, air and fire go great.

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      Jean Bakula 10 months ago from New Jersey

      Hi Kathy,

      Yes, the moon represents your emotions, and the Aquarians close to you feel that same vibe. It's normal. I have a Scorpio Ascendant, and have been surrounded by Scorpios all my life!

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      Kathy 10 months ago

      My moon is in Aquarius and I tend to attract aquarians in my life. My Son his father and my 3 closest girl friends plus my roomate are all Aquarians. Is this normal?

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      Jean Bakula 10 months ago from New Jersey

      You sure have a lot of water signs! A Moon in 29 degrees of Aquarius is so close to Pisces, it will only show up in aspects to it from other planets, or there can be other reasons, I don't have a whole chart. The 8th house is the natural Scorpio house, so you like to research what interests you to the last detail. A Capricorn sun guy would be nice for you, he would be the sensible one, and you would bring out his emotional side. Aries Moon people are fun, so he would get you out doing more. I feel good about him. Best Wishes. Jean

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      Michelle 10 months ago

      Thanks for the descriptions. my moon is right on the border of Aquarius and Pisces between the 11th and the 12th house . Technically I am an Aquarius 29degrees but I have so many Pisces moon traits. I am an ascendant Pisces 1st house and Scorpio sun 8th house and my boyfriend is an Aries moon , Capricorn sun.

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      Jean Bakula 10 months ago from New Jersey

      Thank you very much! You can find me at jeanbakula.wordpress.com, or moongene@optonline.net. Best Wishes!

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      Jean Bakula 10 months ago from New Jersey

      My husband and I both had Scorpio Ascendants! This is really important. You know how the 12 signs go around the astrology wheel? Each section is one of 12 houses, and they all have several meanings, I'll let you look them up, but quickly, they are about appearances, money, communication, home life, romance and children, health, Marriage and war, sex and death, travel and education, how you appear in public, friends and hopes, and secrets. Since you both have Scorpio on the 1st house, you have all the other same sign ruling the same houses. So you feel much the same about the same things in life. This is great for marriage without the other stuff! The Sag and Aquarius moon are an easy relationship. The Aquarius and Taurus moons are square, but you are so compatible you don't want to have no challenges! We also had square Moons too (he passed away, but we were together for 39 years). I love this combo. I wonder why you are thinking of going separate ways? You have great communication, both need quiet time or time alone, (maybe yours isn't showing up lately) and he's thinking of marriage. I would say go for it with no qualms at all. If you have questions you can find me at jeanbakula.wordpress.com. I'd bet money on you two!

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      dica02@hotmail.com 10 months ago

      I loved all your posts. Very accurate descriptions. I can see you love what you do. I'd love a consult

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      Ashlynn 10 months ago

      Hello Jean,

      I have been in an on again off again relationship with my boyfriend for about 4 years now. (He's a Sagittarius Sun with Aquarius Moon. I am Aquarius Sun with Taurus Moon. We both share the same Ascendant in Scorpio). I feel that sometimes he needs his space and I don't mind giving him that. However I do want to be in a committed and stable relationship and not one that is on and off. Lately he has been thinking about marriage. Do you think that it's something we should consider or better off going our separate ways? I could use some advice.

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      Jean Bakula 11 months ago from New Jersey

      Well, my personal opinion is that once someone cheats, they always will, people don't change. But you want my astrological one. A Gemini and Libra is two air signs, so you should communicate well, and are both intelligent. Geminis and Librans are flirts, but Geminis can be less than truthful at times. He is more of a free spirit. The Cancer Moon and Aquarius moon make you both changeable in your emotions. Normally these two signs wouldn't be compatible, but for some reason, maybe that's what makes it work. I know many Cancer/Aquarius couples. You are more sensitive and he will hurt your feelings. maybe without meaning to.

      Gemini people can be dismissive about life in general, they see things as games to play. With Libra and Cancer, you have two leadership signs and are very independent. Really, he shouldn't be dismissive of you, you are very capable. If you can forgive him and he can take the relationship seriously, it could work. But you will always have a grudge with your Cancer Moon, so I see you continuing this cycle. There may be more stable influences, I just know the Sun and Moon. So talk it over, and he has to listen and reassure you that he is capable of being faithful. But if he does it again, or you feel insecure, move on. I know it's hard, but I wouldn't like to see you living this cycle forever. Take care and respect yourself.

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      Ashlyn 12 months ago

      Dear Jean,

      My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years and he is a Gemini man with an aquarius Moon and I am a Libra woman with a cancer Moon we have been having a lot of problems lately and I'm at a loss of what to do it seems that I'm too sensitive and can be self-absorbed at times or in my emotional state and he's naturally dismissive and went crashing a lot I really love him and I really want our relationship to work . He emotionally cheated a year ago swearing that it wasn't anything to him but I can't seem to get over it and we're having a hard time working things out any advice you could give me would be greatly appreciated thank you

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      Jean Bakula 12 months ago from New Jersey

      HI kandy,

      My husband and I had squared moons, and were together for 39 years. Ours were in Aries and Capricorn, so he never thought ahead, and I think 10 years ahead. Yours are in fixed signs, so you both have to agree to disagree on some things, as you are both a little stubborn. Plus Taurus is loyal, and you are Pisces, water and earth are good together. You need to tell him you need some space, and that it's not because you want to get away from him. You just need some time for yourself. Try taking a course, or suggesting a Girl's night out for you, a Guy's night out for him, the same night. I think there's a lot of potential here! Best of luck!

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      kandy 12 months ago

      Dear Jean,

      My boyfriend is a Taurus sun with Scorpio moon. Myself with a pisces sun and Aquarius moon. Often times we find ourselves strongly attracted to each other. .. sometimes without communication we know and just clicked. Once in a while he can be quite controlling, I know he means well, but I'm not good with control in the long run....I love the loyalty he displays but leaves me feeling boxed sometimes. Any suggestions to make it work? Does our moons really get in the way?

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      Jean Bakula 14 months ago from New Jersey

      HI Lulu,

      Yes, signs next to each other usually get along well. It's more of a friends as lovers thing more than a "love of your life" kind of romance though. Still, it has possibilities, all your planets are in different signs. Best of luck to you.

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      Lulu 14 months ago

      Hi, im a female Sun-picses/Moon-aquarius. I have fallen in love with an auqurias/Moon-pieces. I felt an instant attraction to him before Even talking to him. Now I am wondering if he felt the same :-) however, would the described combination of Pisces/Aquarius work?

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      Jean Bakula 15 months ago from New Jersey

      Kim,

      Something is wrong with my comments, it mostly disappeared. Anyway, I checked and at the time you were 33, Saturn was going back and forth between Scorpio and Libra. So perhaps you were living the aftermath of the Return.

      Since Scorpio is a square aspect to Aquarius, that can be what made you change and do something else. Some see squares as negative, but they can be catalysts. Usually in a Saturn Return, someone we love dies, or our lives are thrown into complete chaos, not of our making.

      I think with all air signs in your trinity, you are very intelligent and have lots of great ideas. Fashion would be a great field for you. You are determined with the Aquarius in you, and Gemini's love of people will help you in your business. Best wishes to you.

      I'm swamped this week, but if you go to jeanbakula.wordpress.com maybe we can do a tarot reading to see what's going on with you. Best regards and thanks for reading my work. Take care.

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      Jean Bakula 15 months ago from New Jersey

      Kim,

      Something is wrong with my comments, it mostly disappeared. Anyway, I checked and at the time you were 33, Saturn was going back and forth between Scorpio and Libra. So perhaps you were living the aftermath of the Return.

      Since

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      Jean Bakula 15 months ago from New Jersey

      Hi Kim,

      At any time we can feel more like our Moon Sign or Ascendant than our Sun Sign, depending on what's happening in our lives, and what the 3 signs of our trinity rule.

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      Kim 15 months ago

      Hi Jean,

      I enjoyed your article on Aquarius Moon. My sun sign is Gemini, moon Aquarius and ascendant Aquarius. My birthday us June 1st 1983. I'm 33 this year but I feel like my Saturn return started happening last year up until now. So many changes in my business ans family life. I've also had a change in perspective and feel more Aquarius than Gemini in terms of how I create. (fashion designer) Any thoughts on Saturn return and birth combo?

      Thank you

      Kim

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      Jean Bakula 16 months ago from New Jersey

      Hi sidhkant,

      I am unsure if Aquarius is your Sun Sign or Moon Sign, all of your planets and the Moon are in signs of their own. I think Aquarius and Scorpio is an exciting combination, you won't agree about everything, but that would be boring, right? I know a lot of Scorpio and Aquarius couples. Best wishes to you both.

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      sidhkant 16 months ago

      well, I am aquarious person but I have also read your article about moon sign scorpio which is sign of my loved one...So can you suggest me how to go in relationship, please.