Aquarius Moon Sign Emotions

That Cancer Moon creativity will help you get ideas for your fiction! I think there is hope for this combination. Cancer and Aries Suns are squared, and this is a challenging aspect, but we need some of that if we don't want to be bored to death in a relationship. Being Cancer, you do need some distance or time to yourself, but you can explain that it's not because you don't want to be with him. An Aries can be emotionally less mature than a Cancer, and he wants to be front and center all the time. But adults need to understand that others have needs too. He may hurt your feelings without meaning to, Aries people just blurt out whatever is on their minds.

Libra and Aquarius Moons are good, they are air signs, representing emotions, so you can easily communicate your feelings to each other. Once again, the Aquarius Moon of yours also needs some distance, and you probably seem disengaged to him at times. His Libra Moon craves relationships, and once he decides it's you, he wants you to be with him every minute. He has to learn you have other obligations. But I think you can work through this issue. Your Cancer and Aquarius both make for a changeable person. But so do his Aries Sun and Aries Ascendant, so you both change on a pretty regular basis. So you should see this in both of yourselves.

I like the Aries and Sag Ascendants. You are both approachable and friendly. He is a sort of "life of the party" kind of guy. You can come off as either talkative or quiet at first, there are two types of Sag people. You are philosophical and take the long view of life, a grounding influence on him. He is a very ambitious person and a born leader. You know what you want, but have a quirky side and may be sort of unconventional, but want security. But that's fine, be yourself.

I don't see any big complications here. You have a Cancer Sun so like to know where you are going, and an ambitious person will be attractive to you. He can find you lovable and quirky. I think this is a positive mix. Best of luck in the relationship, you have what it takes to work it all out. Have fun.

Hi John,

I'm so happy what I wrote was helpful to you. Teaching astrology is always a good refresher for me! The Moon is all about your emotions, so yes, the aspects to the Moon are very important. The aspects to your Sun, Moon and Ascendant are the most important.

Since all your planets are in an astrology sign and house, many of them have aspects to other planets. When I interpret a horoscope, I usually interpret the most important ones, and try to keep it at around 15 aspects or so. I am long winded, and when I interpret a chart I always end up with 20 pages, even when I try to be concise. Astrology is a lot of information, enough to be a life time study.

I've been having a devil of a time trying to remember how to cast a composite chart. I only ever did the one for myself and my late husband, and I have been searching piles of folders of notes. I have a computerized one which agrees with my findings on the one I did myself, but mine is a copy, and I didn't copy the math it originally was cast from. I finally realized about two days ago that it's about the times of both births where I have to start, and I was able to get the degree of Sun for the both of us. But that still makes it hard to find the average point of the midheaven, ascendant and all the other planets and house cusps. I am still working on it.

It's a great thing to have. Because of Prince Harry and Meghan, I wanted to try one, and still can't find any directions. I don't like synergy charts, it's no different than casting charts for both people and just reading, "Well his Moon is in Cancer, so he's very family oriented, and he Moon is in Capricorn, so she's very ambitious." Then you sit and compare each planet to planet, that's what sites do. So they would have opposite Moons, not really a problem, they just go about showing their feelings in a different way.

A true composite is a 3rd chart. It's not the chart of you or the other person. It's the chart of the relationship itself, a 3rd entity. Believe me, it's driving me crazy, though I am closer to recalling how it's done now that I can get a composite sun. When I finally recall how it's done, I'll look you up on this hub, or you can find me at jeanbakula@wordpress.com. I never developed it much, it's mostly a landing site for orders, but I do check it and want to make it different. Maybe more posts, but smaller astrology tidbits.

Thanks for your continued interesting questions.T Keep studying! Take care, Jean

Hi John,

Did you check out the article about houses? It explains more than I can here.

Yes, the degrees matter. But I think newer astrologers get too caught up in them. There are 30 degrees in each astrology sign, 0-29.. They are split into something called decans. So 0 degrees to 9 would be the first decan of let's say Aquarius, 10-19 degrees would be the 2nd decan ,

and 20-29 degrees would be the 3rd decan. In my experience, the degree only matters if it's really close. Let's say a Sun is in 29 degrees of Aquarius. Now, newer astrologers would MOVE the Sun if it was within 3 degrees, and put it in the next house.

I'm a purist, and have a Sun like that in the 8th house. So some would insist on putting it in the 9th house. As my personality goes, it could really be in either one. But the 8th house is correct, and reflects my life experience the most, although many of my interests and love of travel are in the 9th house.

I say stick with the real position. The seconds don't really matter, 1 minute or 60 seconds isn't going to change your life.

Some also think if the planet is in the 1st decan, you don't feel it or exhibit the traits as much, exhibit them more in the 2nd, and early in the 3rd, still like the 2nd, but as it gets farther towards the 29th degree, you take on traits of the next sign. I think it's BS.

I hope that helped and wasn't too confusing. A site that I trust and is pretty good for a computerized site is Cafe Astrology.com. But I'm happy to answer your questions. I have hopeless people who write to me, and I have sophisticated ones who are really trying to learn, and I feel so excited by that! I want to cry when I get a naysayer who still thinks it's all about where your Sun was at birth. I've been studying this since I was 10 yr. old, and still have a lot to learn! Keep going, there are a lot of directions to go in!

Hi John,

The house placement has a HUGE influence over the planets. I preach this until I can't take it anymore. When people give me the trinity or a sun sign, I can't tell much. It takes around 12 hours to cast and interpret an astrology chart, and I charge for it. There are 12 houses that have at least 3 meanings each. I have the link to an article I wrote that explains this: http://hubpages.com/astrology/The-Twelve-Houses-of... The picture is large and you will be able to see some of the house meanings yourself.

The 9th house does rule foreign countries, but in most love relationships it is more likely to mean she may be from another country or will love foreign travel a lot. The house also rules higher education, so she can be a teacher or is well educated or smart. It rules law and philosophy too. So has she been involved in lawsuits or is she a lawyer? Does she read about philosophies often, or read a lot for the love of reading? That would be a more complete look at her Venus. Librans are romantic, and she probably is good looking, needs attention and likes beautiful things.

The 4th house is about home, but also real estate, and your relationships with family. So you may want to putter around the house, or could invest in real estate often. You do love home, but basically having Venus in the 4th isn't about stability (though you know yourself), that would be your Moon sign when we look for what gives us stability. You are more possessive than she is, but that will keep you close, and Libras like to be with a loved one practically every minute anyway. You'll be fine.

I have other articles on Exemplore, explaining Moon signs and Sun Signs. I also cover Venus signs on Letterpile.com, where I made up fictional couples, but made them with the same Venus sign. You can find them there and read Libra and Scorpio to get the idea. Have fun. Jean

Hi LaLee,

You are very welcome! I am always happy to hear a positive outcome. I have a good feeling about you two! Jean

Hello Kyra,

Since the Moon rules emotions, Aquarius can make you seem a bit aloof at times. You may be really close with somebody one day, and forget their name the next. You need freedom in a relationship and like to do things our own way. So a clingy person or someone who is too needy may get annoying.

The Cancer Sun makes you nurturing though, so you may experience that need to have some space, and not tell people. You are basically kind and gentle. The Cancer Mercury means you think with your heart, and the Venus Mercury shows you are a true romantic. Three planets in the same sign is called a stellium in astrology. So you exhibit many Cancer traits. You are tender and part of you does want security, and you are artistic and likely psychic too.

Cancers are as changeable as Aquarians can be erratic, so this can work for you! I actually know many Cancer/Aquarius couples. Both signs get bored easily, and crave change, or can want it suddenly. So it works in an odd sort of way. Cancers need time to themselves, and Aquarius needs to be aloof because they are so interested in learning new things.

The Leo rising is the facade you show, or how those who don't know you well see you. Leo is a warm and outgoing sign, loves to entertain, throw parties, go out a lot. So on the surface you seem more sociable than you are. The messy part is because you do need occasional solitude, and emotionally both the stelllium in Cancer and your emotional nature of Aquarius demands it.

Leos and Cancers hate to say no. But you can try to practice it, I think that's causing emotional confusion and disarray. You want to socialize and have fun, but need "down" time. Work on that, you'll get there. Best Wishes.

Hi La Lee,

That Moon in Aquarius will make him "check out" emotionally at times. I don't know how long you have been together. Your Moon and Venus in Sag should be OK with him not being a clingy kind of person, but it does hurt when it seems like someone isn't listening, or is expressing things in a hurtful way. Your ascendant in Cancer does make you super sensitive, and Scorpio Sun means you are possessive, even though the Sag in you is a help in the relationship. His Sun in Virgo also works well with your Cancer and Scorpio.

His Ascendant and Venus in Leo also bode well for your Sag planets. I think you hit it on the head. You need to decide if you can handle that aloof part of him, because at times when you need him, he may be in his own world. I don't think he intentionally wants to hurt you, it's just how he is. I do believe there is hope. We all go through phases, and maybe the timing is just bad lately. Take some more time and think about it. If he keeps putting you off for a long period and you can't get any answers, then you may have to move on. But not just yet, wait a bit. Keep me posted, we can always do a tarot reading.

Hi Lauren,

Happy you enjoyed the read! Best Wishes, Jean

You really can't unless you have a horoscope cast. People go to astrology sites and cut and paste all the signs their planets are in, but that's not what an astrologer needs, and is only part of the picture. You need the day, month and year of birth, and most importantly the TIME of birth, to get your ascendant or rising sign. Also, the city and country where you were born. I can do it, but can't give a URL here, though there is a way to contact me. A site I trust is CafeAstrology.com, you can learn from that. When I answer questions about planets in signs, it is part of the horoscope. But it leaves out all 12 houses. I have an article about that on Exemplore, and also about Sun signs, moon signs, Mercury and Venus. All that takes time to interpret. Then it matters how far all the planets are from each other. It's a lot more work than people understand. Thanks for inquiring. Take care. Jean

Hi Lauren,

Yes, Cancer is ruled by the Moon, I'm one as well! The Moon travels through all 12 Zodiac signs in about 28+ days, like a menstrual cycle. So it affects us Cancers more than anyone. People around us should expect a change every 2 or 2 1/2 days!

The Aquarius Moon rules your emotions. So even though Cancers like stability, our changeable nature makes us open to Aquarius influences. Both signs are nonconformists, and I know several Cancer/Aquarius couples. So there is no "tension" between your Sun and Moon.

The Ascendant in Gemini again is how others see you, and that's intelligent, lively, someone who likes to go out and learn new things. You probably excel at many things. I think you are tall.

The Venus in Leo means that you can be stubborn in love, but also expect many displays of affection. You want to be treated like a Queen. And why not?

Cancer people are gentle and need a long time to open up to others. The Moon and Ascendant in air signs makes you more outgoing than a Cancer description you might read, and more adventurous. Sometimes the Cancer need for security may clash with your emotional, Aquarius Moon, which wants freedom and novelty. But it's not a bad thing. I hope that helps. Take care, Jean

Thank you for responding and reading my work!

No, everyone's chart is a picture of the sky at their time of birth. There are no "family" influences in it except for one I can think of. When a Scorpio in a family dies, another one is born.

Oppositions or squares like you mention are challenging, but also add excitement to life.

Hi Martin,

The house a planet is in is very important. I answer questions here about planets in astrology signs, but it's about 1/6 the meaning of a whole chart, which takes about 10-12 hrs. to cast and interpret. Aspects are the distance each planet is from the others, and means more than what sign a planet is in. These are the 3 biggest factors when interpreting a chart, and there are more.

I haven't written any articles on these, although my audience is more sophisticated about astrology than they used to be. I had to stop answering people who cut and paste all the planets in the signs when they look up their B-days, because it's so little info in reality, and too many were doing it. I then got a nasty email last week from a girl (I assume a teen, she was so rude) and she ranted how I probably was a fake and only cared about money.

I spent years paying for good astrology books, taking courses and workshops, and I don't think she would have spent that much time on me if I asked for free info (she was on my comments page for weeks getting free answers). It really hurt, as my best friend passed away that week.

Venus in Libra in the 9th house is this--Libra is the home of Venus, so it's a great place. It shows the person loves romance and even working in partnerships. The 9th house represents education, foreign travel and countries and philosophy and religion. So the person would excel in these areas. The Moon in Aquarius is another air sign, also the moon represents emotions. So it means attraction to an intellectual person who likes those topics too. But the 12th house is about secrets, and secret sorrows. So there may be heartache in this relationship, or one of the parties is not telling their true feelings and being secretive, or both are keeping it secret.

Close aspects like a conjunction intensify the Venus in Libra. Let me see if I have an article on this. But as you see, all these factors have to be put together like a puzzle, and it takes time. I'm glad you are learning the right way. I may have an article on this at jeanbakula.wordpress.com. But a site I trust, not for charts, but astrology basics, is CafeAstrology.com. Maybe this should be the next thing I write. Thanks for the question and idea. Best Wishes. Jean

Happy you enjoyed it!

Hi John,

Ok, well first off, squared or opposite moons are not as bad as some people seem to think they are. If we all got along so easily, wouldn't life be a bore after a while? The square is more challenging, but can bring excitement into a relationship. The opposition means both want similar things, but have different ideas about how to achieve them. It's easier than a square. My husband and I had squared Venuses and Moons, and were married for 39 yrs, (he passed 4 yrs. ago) everyone thought we were the perfect couple. His Venus was in Pisces and mine in Gemini, Moons in Capricorn and Aries. I planned and he had no foresight.. I liked to talk things out about our relationship, but he was a total romantic and probably would forgive me anything. It's older astrology books that make these aspects seem so dire.

As far as synastry charts, I think you can get a lot out of them, but I don't like to do them. Basically, event though I can predict issues you will have and easy areas for you, I can't predict a couple will stay together forever or a huge length of time. Sometimes we meet someone and are together for a few months, and it changes us forever, that's our soulmate. It's two Natal birth charts compared.

A composite takes both your Natal charts, and creates a 3rd entity, your relationship. I had ours done a little before we married, and reading it 39 yrs. later, can't believe how accurate it was! I have been considering offering them, but in the beginning of the year I am swamped with people who want Natal charts, they are making resolutions to know themselves better, and want to utilize the knowledge in the chart.

So I am deciding if I want to do composites. That's the better thing. If you want one I can suggest two good astrology sites I even trust, Cafe Astrology and Astrotheme.com. I don't know if they offer them, they will be computer generated and will have jargon you won't get, but what they say about the relationship will be accurate. Otherwise, ask me again in the Spring. I learned how to cast charts when I was 21, and it's been so long I have to recall how to do composites! But people are asking, and I do know how good they are, so once I dig out from my pile now, maybe I will refresh my memory and start doing them again. Take care.

I didn't think the planets were incompatible. Sag people are free spirits. There are the quiet ones, and the ones who never stop talking! Sometimes people really do realize what they had and come back, maybe it will happen.

Yes, I sometimes can feel my husband around. I am not religious and needed an interfaith minister to help with the service when he passed. She was a clairvoyant in my area, and I had taken metaphysical classes at her business, but not with her. Since I write, I wrote his eulogy, and she added a lot to it. She really was good, and at first she knew so much about him, although they never met. A few nights after he passed, I awoke and saw a ball of white light over my head. She said that was his spirit. I had trouble learning to sleep alone. She said he used to sit by me until I did fall asleep. I don't feel him as much, just every now and then. But I believe in reincarnation, and know he's reviewing this life, so I guess he's busy! But she helped me through those first hard months, and I got more clairsentient since then, a big help for when I cast charts.

I never promise a life long union to anyone, even if you are very compatible. If you are twin souls, or soulmates, you would know that immediately. Something he said or did would have triggered that off right away, or at least in a few weeks. The night I met my husband, he told me "I vibrated faster than anyone he ever met." This is a pretty involved metaphysical observation from someone who was 19 at the time. We dated for 5 yrs. and were married for 34 (he passed away, it's been 4 yrs. today, and I didn't even go on a date yet, nobody measures up).. Many of our unmarried at 30 yr. old son's friends thinks he remains so because they all think we had the perfect marriage. It was good, and the planets were good. But when we met we had astrologers casting our charts, and nobody could say more than what they saw as they knew us.

Scorpio and Aquarius are two fixed and stubborn signs, so you will have challenges. But that combo is often together and seems able to overcome them.

Your Venus in Libra, the marriage sign, makes you yearn to always be half of a couple. His Venus in Sag means he needs more freedom, but they are compatible and I like that.

Saturn is a karmic planet, so it's hard for me to know what about you both it affects without a chart. I don't know what houses they are in or what aspects they make to other planets. He is sensible, but you are fair in general matters. Mars in Sag and Scorpio are next to each other, so that's usually good, signs next to each other agree easily. I don't know where his Moon is.

I would maybe suggest that since you are both mature and give each other space this could definitely go somewhere. You should both feel the "soulmate" things. I would think a tarot reading specifically about the relationship would help us see where this is going. You can look me up at jeanbakula@wordpress.com. Astrology tells us a lot, but I never predict forevers. Even a soulmate can be in your life for a short time, but you never forget him/her. You both have lessons to learn from each other, but have been together in other lifetimes, and I don't know if you believe in reincarnation. So there are a lot of metaphysical concepts in your question, and even if I did two charts, I'd never say "forever." I'd go with the tarot reading, but otherwise say give it a shot, it looks good.

Take care,

Jean

I'm glad you enjoyed it! I can't interpret all this without drawing up a horoscope, time doesn't permit me, as I have a large clientele of paying customers. You can find more on jeanbakula@wordpress.com Best Wishes.

It is a tough situation. You have the Scorpio Mars and he has the Taurus one, and actually Taurus is more passive than Scorpio. I think it's good to make yourself less available, and at least you are trying by having one night a week where you can try to show and tell him what you need.

I think that's fine for a bit. But honestly, I wouldn't give it more than a few months. There's somebody else out there who will satisfy your need to have a regular relationship, and will appreciate you more. Open relationships let one person take advantage of the other, as it isn't what you want. I understand there is an attraction, but how would he like it if the shoe was on the other foot? Try for a bit, but if he doesn't change, move one. Best of luck to you!

Hello Daniels,

Well, I have a Gemini Moon and my love of 39 yrs. had a Pisces one, and we got along fine. She is more of a free spirit and may not want to be tied down as much as you do. A Taurus Moon loves relationships and is a little old fashioned, or romantic. The Mercury and Venus are OK in Libra and Scorpio. Signs next to each other usually work out well. Her Mars in Scorpio actually helps more with your Taurus Moon, it's opposite, but that's an attraction. Your Mars in Cancer makes you home loving and possessive, but also loyal and kind.

The biggest issue I see is that in my 40+ yrs. of Astrology, I only saw one couple with the same Sun sign that stayed together. It's strange, but true, and I've worked with thousands of people. They were Capricorns, boring as hell. I am a Cancer Sun and dated another one for a while years ago, but it felt more like we were friends, or like dating yourself. That may be what you are feeling. So maybe you are too much the same, and that's what's nagging at you. Libra is the marriage sign.

I'd rather see you with an earth or water sign sun. I see you as sensitive and wanting to build a life with someone. Maybe she does, but she craves more freedom than you. I hope that helps. If you really try hard and can accept she needs space, I think this could work. The Venus and Mars you have together is good too. But I worry about the same Sun sign thing. Take care.

Hi,

I apologize for being so hard on you. I had a large bunch of questions where people want me to basically do hours of work for free, and I simply can't do it, there aren't enough hours in the day.

Some of their "problems" seem so trivial to me. But yours isn't. I am a bit stumped here though, I must admit. As far as his planets and yours go, there should be more compatibility. I was with my Taurus for 39 years, and they like romance, and are generally faithful. The Venus in Aries man normally likes to show off his girlfriend, and sort of puts her on a pedestal. And in an odd way, he is, when you are the one who he takes to meet the family and friends. It sounds a little like a Madonna/Whore thing. He doesn't want you to be a "hookup", but wants YOU to be the Madonna. I can see how frustrating this is for you. His Scorpio Mars isn't helping here either. But as I said earlier, a few squares don't kill a relationship, sometimes they add to it.

Did you talk to him about how neglected you feel in the sex department? Or won't he discuss it?

I really don't know what to say. I'm sure you are attractive, and it seems you aren't going to get what you need from him. Or even if you do for a while, he may revert to his bad ways, or you will worry he will. That would be stressful.

With your Moon in Gemini and Venus in Aquarius, you may be giving off a more " I don't need anyone vibe" than you think you are. But with the Pisces Sun, you are sympathetic and psychic and gentle in relationships.

What's your Ascendant? Even so, I can't say why people are not meeting your sexual needs. This is a tough one. I do think with the current guy, there is an expiration date. You need someone who makes you happy and fulfilled. And you shouldn't be blaming yourself so much. Maybe the right one hasn't come along yet? Have you had this issue with anyone else (it sounds like yes)?

Maybe you just have a sort of "girl next door" kind of appeal when guys meet you, and have to get past that. I wish I could be more helpful. Keep in touch and let me know how it goes. There are a lot of confusing grand trines and aspects going on right now that are upsetting everyone in different ways. Why don't you try to talk, even if you already have? See if you can make any progress. I can't tell if he wants you to be the "good girl" or if he just wants you to be the cover up for all his hookups. Men, they are so impossible.

I didn't mean to hurt your feelings. Just don't keep hitting your head on a brick wall if you can't get through. Try, but move on. Take care.

I'm sorry, but it takes 10-12 hours to cast a horoscope, and I can't interpret all these planet lists people send me without drawing one out.

I can answer that just squared moons or one or two square or opposite aspects don't mean it's bad, we need some challenges in a relationship for it to work.

My husband and I were together for 39 years with squared Moons and Venus.

You seem to think just sex is enough to make a relationship work. It's not. As you pass the years together, you will have money issues, maybe children, you will be sick and have to take care of each other. You may have to take care of your own parents. You will face serious job and career issues. You may not like each other's friends. People you love will die, and eventually, if you are together long enough, one of you will die first. The loneliness is unbearable.

If he is so used to hookups, and your biggest fear is holding his sexual interest, I think both of you are too immature for this to work. He only wants sex, and you think it's all that matters. Grow up first and take some time off from "relationships" like this. I'm not saying this to hurt you, but you have to be more realistic about life.

I answered this and am unsure why it came back. Any planet Pluto aspects is intensified, so if it is near your Moon, you will feel a huge range of emotions. It's hard to say, I wouldn't say it acts like a Moon in Scorpio. People seem to think all kinds of oddball things about Scorpio Moons. It's not all about sex and death if you have only one planet in a sign. I am unsure why you aren't feeling Cancer or Sag, sometimes people have a stellium, or 3-4 planets in another same sign, so that makes a big difference in a horoscope. But I can't tell without drawing one out.

The Scorpio in Pluto is a generational thing, and doesn't mean much at all in an individual's chart. The house it's in and aspects it makes to faster moving planets are what matters.

You have to actually have planets in the astrology sign to feel the effects. You have a lot of fallacies about Astrology.

When Pluto aspects any planet, it's energies are intensified. Since the Moon rules emotions, you will feel all of them more. I am unsure why you don't feel Cancer or Sag. Some people have stelliums, or 3-4 planets in a different sign than the Sun, Moon and Ascendant, and then they would show a lot of traits in whatever sign those planets are in. I really can't know more without casting a chart. I don't know why everyone gets so worked up about a Scorpio Moon. It causes intense emotions, leadership ability, intelligence and the willpower to stay on topic. It's not even about sex or death all that much if you have only one planet there. Jean

It's always the darkest before the dawn too. It hurts, I know. Hang in there.

I also have an opposition of Sun and Moon-Sun in Cancer, Moon in Capricorn. It means we don't always present ourselves as we really are. Our emotions are a bit out of synch with the person we want everyone to know. I think my Moon gets out more to people, but I have a Scorpio Ascendant. Your Libra one is compatible with both signs. It's not a serious thing unless people close to you keep misunderstanding you. I wouldn't worry about it.

I've been telling everyone I can't possibly cast a whole horoscope for free, and to stop emailing a list of planets from a site. No offense, but it takes 10-12 hours for me, and I charge $100.00. The site that you got the planets from will be cheaper, but not as good. If you are serious, details are on jeanbakula@wordpress.com. I understand most people don't realize how much work it is. I can read a few planets and answer what is a simple question like you first asked because of my years casting horoscopes. Take care.

No problem, Mel. Take care.

That's a good mix. The Sun in Taurus is stable and reliable, pleasant and sensual. The Ascendant in Venus is the way others see you, so in Gemini you are more fun loving and intellectual than Taurus, not that Taurus isn't intelligent. They are practical and what they can actually use is important to them. The sign is ruled by Venus, so you are romantic, but more lighthearted than your Taurus Sun would make you. It's an earth sign, so you may enjoy the outdoors and environmental causes could attract you, as the Aquarius in you likes to get you involved in causes.Venus in Gemini likes to chat and is a social butterfly, also smart. You could be in love with two people at the same time, or have two great love affairs in your life. I have seen that pattern with Venus in Gemini often, and even in myself! The Moon in Aquarius means you need freedom and that may clash with your Taurus Sun in some situations. But it grounds you to have the Sun where it is. Both Taurus and Aquarius are fixed signs, so you are stubborn. Taurus is passive/aggressive, Aquarius just does what it wants. There are lots of contradictions in astrology, so the traits depend a lot on the situation and how important it is to you. Best Wishes.

I'm really sorry, but can no longer accommodate people who send me a whole list of planets copied from a site. I do small interpretations for about two planets, but I can't interpret a list like this without drawing out a whole chart, and would need a lot more information about you. If you want an astrology chart, go to jeanbakula@wordpress.com. I charge $100.00. Take care.

Hi Jelena,

It's normal to appear like a Scorpio, that's what the Ascendant does, it's the facade we hid behind. I am a Cancer Sun with Scorpio Rising too! I also have a grown Scorpio sun, he's wonderful and smart, but was hard to raise. They are so intense emotionally they can't even understand themselves until the adult years. I often get told that "you seem like you don't want to be bothered with people: but Cancers are private and so is Scorpio, we need alone time. Both are strong signs, and maybe you give too much of your power to others. My first love was a Capricorn, we have a lot in common. The Aquarius Moon makes you seem aloof. But you aren't concerned with petty things, you have a broader look at the world. All three are signs that you don't want to be surrounded by people all the time, though Cancers are friendly and loyal friends. We need to be careful not to be taken advantage of. Take care, Jean

Yes, the Pisces sun is very romantic and some can be downright doormats, but they are very devoted to loved ones and like to be together often. Taurus is also a bit Jealous, and likes to be possessive. But your Aquarius Moon emotions need some space, and you like time to do stuff on your own. Cancer Suns are clingy, but also have a lot of interests, so if you explain it's not because you don't care, you need "me" time, a Cancer does too, so maybe they will understand that. I know many Cancer/Aquarius couples. Cancer has the Moon in all 12 signs each Month, so they like change. Aquarius change is more dramatic, but something both signs have in common. Virgos want to take care of you. Just humor them. They are witty and restless, something else you find in common with that sign. Try to work with the traits you have in common. With Taurus Rising, you seem more "settled" than you really are. Tell someone if they are smothering you in a nice way. It can work surprisingly well. Take care.

OK. An Aquarius Sun and Taurus Sun is a square, meaning you both want your own way. You have great, unusual ways of seeing the world, and Taurus is gentle and loves the outdoors, a real environmentalist. Taurus people are ruled by Venus and easy to get along with. They are romantic. Your Aquarius Sun is very independent, and so are you. You are aloof at times, but with the Scorpio moon need time to yourself. A Taurus is not as adventurous as you, but the Sun signs will be challenging and fun. They are loyal and usually everyone loves a Taurus. Plus emotionally you understand the Aquarius Moon person, and they understand your Aquarius Sun. Wow, I like that. Libra rising is someone who likes to entertain and have parties, go out, see shows, a social creature. A Sag rising person is interesting to talk too, and likes to get into discussions about education, philosophy and has a big interest in other cultures, probably loving travel. I think you make a good pair. Good luck!

Hello Regina,

Both Cancer and Aquarius are signs of a nonconformist. You won't change if you don't want to, and may enjoy being different from others in some way. Cancers are kind and gentle people, family oriented, but also leaders. Aquarius people are very intelligent, and are changeable, often doing things on a whim. Cancers change a lot because the Moon rules them, so it's a person who is comfortable with change, smart, and likable. Someone who wants to keep learning and growing. Best, Jean

Thanks for your compliments and for reading my work, Maria! Best Wishes, Jean

Mia,

Alexair has more advice for you. Best, Jean Let me know how you are doing.

He sure is heartless and immature. And what's wrong with his family? They should be encouraging him to be responsible. Do you live with your family, and are they accepting of this? Or do you have any help? I'm so sorry.

What does he mean "you will never change?" It takes two to make a child. He is half of the equation. Does he have any normal family members you can talk too? You are not crazy and don't owe anyone an apology.

Mia,

I'm so sorry to hear about this, a man should never abuse a woman, or vice versa. How far along are you? I don't want to sound cold, but are you prochoice or prolife? Only because if it's early, and he already shows he has no interest in this child, it will be a hard road for you. Please don't take offense. Have you met his family or spoken with them. Maybe they will shame him into taking responsibility for his child. I hope it works out. Let me know how you are doing. Love, Jean

Hello Alyssa,

Three years isn't much, but it can be depending on how mature you both are. The are ages where you still have a lot of growing and self discovery going on. But I married the guy I fell for when I was 18 (not until I was 24) and we had a great marriage. His Venus in Gemini make him a flirt, but since his Sun is in Taurus he is faithful and would like to settle down someday. The Mercury in Gemini means he's intelligent, and so does the Aquarius Moon. You are more emotional than him with the Scorpio Sun, Venus and PIsces Moon. Taurus and Scorpio are opposite signs, so that's the attraction. It's not a disaster. He's a little more lighthearted than you are. If he works or goes to college, and seems like he has goals in life, then I say go for it. If he is just drifting through life, I would say no because of the two Gemini planets. But as long as he isn't living a crazy life, there's no reason astrologically that you can't get along. Good luck. We could always do a tarot reading and see what comes up about your relationship, check for me at jeanbakula.wordpress.com. Take care.

I also think once you love someone, you always will, love never dies. I'm Cancer with a Capricorn moon, and I couldn't deal with someone I loved who was in a relationship with me sleeping with other lovers. She is selfish in her way. She's only going to keep hurting you, and you seem so nice. Really, I think it's for the best. Give it time, and you will begin to heal. Jean

Mel, that's a beautiful way to end a relationship if that's the way it has to be. You are the more mature one, and Scorpios mellow out with time. You have to find someone who you trust more. The reason her want of freedom bother you so much is because you don't trust her. Now, that could be the fault of either of you. But I think you did the right thing. You can get through this hard time and will meet someone else when the time is right. It's usually when you aren't looking. Hang in there. Jean

Mel,

It sounds like you did the best you could. Two fixed signs are going to have problems, you are both stubborn, even though Aquarians are "free", notice she still wants her way as well. Also, sometimes the timing is just wrong in a relationship, though I think you said you have broken up and came back together again. My first love always broke up with me when the going wasn't even that tough. He was a few years older than me and I was so crazy about him, I put up with it for a long time, 4 yrs. Finally, I broke up with him, and met the man I dated for 5 years and was married to for 34. He has passed, but I learned what it was like to be truly loved by a mature person. I have a rule I tell anyone who has been through a breakup. If someone will leave you once, that already is the pattern or foundation of the relationship. It will always be that way. I am sorry, I know you are in pain. But your truer love could be right around the corner. And don't worry about hogging up space, I'm here to try to help. Plus, there are lots of Aquarians around who also have planets in more stable signs and can compromise more. There's hope for you yet, my friend. Take care.

Thank you so much for reading my work, Rochelle. Best Wishes, Jean

Hello Bee,

Aquarius, Taurus and Scorpio are all stubborn or fixed signs. So it's the Venus in Libra that makes you more flexible, romantic, and helps you be a little easier to get along with. It's normal to relate to our Moon signs more, as that represents our feelings. So in Aquarius, you can be aloof, even though you care. The Taurus Ascendant also is a calm and gentle sign, Taurus is ruled by Venus. So you come off as being sensible, warm, and easier to get along with than you are! I'm sure you have better aspects too, you like your own way and are opinionated, but even seeing this much it seems that there are ways to negotiate with you. You are very sexy and romantic! Best Wishes, Jean

Thank you Ricardo!

Sun sign Virgos are intelligent, serious, but also witty and fun to talk to. Virgos can be critical, but that's really their worst flaw. They are neat and organized, so can be a good match for someone who isn't. They are kind and affectionate. Taurus Ascendant will make a person seem really calm and in control. The Ascendant is the way you appear, but you have the traits too. Taurus is ruled by Venus, so they are romantic and like to be surrounded by comfort, good food, good wine, nice furniture, the best. They have good taste. They are down to earth and reliable and love the outdoors. They are very sexy. The Moon is about emotions, and Aquarius doesn't show them too much. They can seem aloof, but they do care. They are involved in so many things they will say they love you one day and forget your birthday the next day. They are also very smart and unique. They view the world in a different way than most people, are nonconformists, but don't care what others think. I hope that helps. Take care, Jean

Hi Bri,

I remember, I wrote to you last night, fire and air, right? Ok, so now I see with Venus in Capricorn, it's hard for him to express his feelings. But he has strong ones, and is likely to show them more privately. Mars in Cancer means he wants to settle down some day, and putter around the house with the family. Your Venus in Cancer is opposite his in Capricorn, that's good and means a sexual attraction. Your Mars in Virgo goes well with his Mars in Cancer, Earth and Water. This is what I was hoping to see, because you two needed some earth and water to calm down the air and fire. He sounds mature, and so do you. Since you've known each other and sort of put each other on the back burner as you went to college shows you are both mature. I think this is a great love story, and has great potential. Don't be afraid to tell him you lost your job. Always tell the truth, when you don't, it can mess up something good! You both have outgoing sides and quiet sides, and so are alike, but different enough to make life interesting. And you waited for each other. I think you both care enough to work out the little issues. Go for it! Take care, Jean

Hi,

Those daily horoscopes are what gave astrology a bad name. They became popular during WW11 to give people something entertaining to read to keep their minds off the war. Usually if you read you Sun and your Ascendant and mix them together, it's closer to what's happening in your life. Since both your Sun and Ascendant are in Virgo, that should be close, or as close as you can come The Moon doesnt figure into daily horoscopes, but you can try reading Aquarius with Virgo, and it can't hurt anything. Maybe that will feel closer to what's happening in your life. Good Luck. Jean

Hi Bri,

No, these planets are really in good signs, Fire and Air is good. Leo and Sag are both Fire signs, so you are both outgoing, he's more of a thinker and reads or studies a lot of interests, but you are fun to be with and a good match for him. The Aries Moon and Aquarius moon are good too. Aquarius is air, and the moon is how we show our emotions. Aquarius moon people tend to act aloof. It's not that they don't care, more like they don't know how to show it. If he wants to give you keys to his place, he seems serious. If you find what his Venus and Mars and yours are in, that could shed some light. I don't like the computer sites, but Astrothemes is pretty good, Best wishes, Jean

Hello Briana,

Well, I think the Aquarius moon is what makes him seem aloof in his emotions. It's also a fixed sign, and some people don't like change. Sometimes with guys it's not fear of commitment, it's fear of change. Otherwise, things look good. Actually your Aries moon makes you very outgoing and dramatic, you show your emotions and are a lot of fun to be with. Aries is fire and Aquarius is air, and fire needs air to burn, if you think of elements. So it's not a really bad thing at all. Since he is a sun sign Pisces, he is romantic and sensitive, you may be hurting his feelings with your Aries moon, you are much easier to read and get to know people, he's more quiet and cerebral. When you go out, you may shine more, though he's a great storyteller. He cares a lot about other people, and you are more focused on yourself. Your Gemini Sun means you are interested a little bit in everything, and restless, and Pisces is restless too. Maybe your personality is stronger than his, and it worries him. But there's nothing here to say it's a bad match. Unless you keep breaking up or something I don't know, or have been going out for 10 yrs. without commitment, I think it will be fine. Slow down and listen to him more. There is potential here. I just don't know how long you've been together and it seems to be bothering you, that you want things to move onward. Maybe try to get him to talk about it. You may be happier with someone who shows his emotions more, but there is nothing here to tell me he's not the one. Be optimistic. Jean

Hello Mel,

OK, I see what's going on here. You have a lot of fixed signs, making you both a tad stubborn and wanting to get your way. She has the Aquarius moon, ruling how she feels. You have Sun,(how are are) Venus( how you love) and Mercury in Scorpio (how you think).Your Venus in Scorpio may make her feel squashed a little bit, you need to give her space and trust her. Also, I think with all those planets in Scorpio, you like some privacy sometimes too. Plus Mercury in Scorpio means it takes a lot to change your mind. her Venus (love nature) and Mars (what she likes to do physically) are in Leo. So those are causing the challenges. These are called squares in astrology. But we need challenges in a serious relationship, or we would be bored to death.

Your Moon in Taurus and ascendant are also in fixed signs. You always think you are right. But I love that you have Taurus in you and she has Cancer. This is good. She is much more vulnerable than people think, with that Cancer Sun, and really wants a long term relationship. Cancer is a leadership sign too, so she knows what she wants and has a good business sense. The Mercury in Cancer means she thinks with her heart, and your moon in Taurus is romantic and gentle enough to get that, and your ascendant in Taurus is good with her Cancer planets too. People probably think you make a great couple. Her Ascendant in Aries also is the way people see her when they first meet her, and Aries takes control a lot, like Cancer, and wants to be noticed. So I think you come off as laid back, and she comes off a bit of a party girl, though that's not true. She's very smart.

There is a possibility that you can make this work. You need to talk more and tell her how much you care, she needs that more than you think. She needs security more than she lets on, and so do you. I think physically it's all good, but things break down when you start to talk, but you have to communicate more.

In my personal life, I believe if a couple keeps breaking up over small things, they always will break up rather than solve their problems. But it may have been larger issues, that's something I don't know. I think you can make this work. The Cancer and Scorpio Suns are great. She loves the Taurus part of you (I was married to a Taurus man for 34 years and I'm Cancer).So there are challenges, but a lot of signs that can get you back on track again. Talk more to be sure you agree, and you could either be homebodies for some of the time, but have to get out enough too. I think I would give it another try. Also, as you say, sometimes the timing isn't right. Maybe now it is. Go for it, there's a lot of good here. Best wishes, Jean You can find me at jeanbakula.wordpress.com.

Hi Tiffani,

Aquarians do really care about people, but they don't wear it on their sleeve, so I'd say you expressed that well. Aquarius is THE sign for computers, electronics, any kind of new inventions. The North node has to do with the future you have in this incarnation. Moon conjunct Venus, very romantic. So you do show it when it matters. That's why we need lots of info about each planet. Good job! Jean

Hello Aparoksha,

Well, you've done a good job of explaining both of you in an astrology way. A Sag Sun is fun, and extroverted, interested in many things. The Aquariusmoon means you don't always show you emotions on your sleeve either. A Taurus Sun guy is sweet, gentlemanly and pretty sexy. The Virgo Moon means he's shy and a bit critical or picky when choosing someone to date. Usually Sun and Earth combos don't really jell that well. But all your planets are in signs, and some of the others can be better for you both. He is outdoorsy and doesn't like to dress up. He doesn't talk unless he really has something to say. Maybe you could sort of casually ask him what he would think of you two being a couple. You come off with a stronger personality, but the Aquarius moon and his Virgo one could mean he's thinking the same about you! Taurus needs to be told, practically hit over the head. Is there an occasion soon where you can give him a gift? Taurus guys are physical. Touch him with gestures more when you talk. Then see how he reacts to that. Good luck!Jean

Hi Sarah,

Yes, Aquarius moons and ascendants do come across as detached a lot of the time. But having a Cancer sun will help that, you are nurturing and kind. Cancers are more restless than most people think, and that leads to interests in a lot of subjects.

I think from what I see, people your age aren't so interested in pairing off so young. Aquarius likes freedom, and in it's way, so does Cancer. Cancer is a sign of leadership. Although they love home and family, they don't want to be bogged down in housework and dirty diapers as much as others believe. It's the love of the family that matters. I am Cancer myself, and never cared if the house was spotless. The mess will always be there, I'd prefer to go out! Career interests or other things may be more important right now. I know a lot of Cancer/Aquarius couples, so the two signs blend pretty well, again, more than others believe.

19 is young, don't be so hard on yourself. Like I said, I don't see people wanting to settle down so much when young. Relax, it's when you aren't looking love comes your way. Take care, Jean