Aquarius Moon Sign Emotions

Updated on April 15, 2018
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Aquarius Moon Sign People

One of my heroes, Henry David Thoreau once said, "Each man hears the beat of a different drummer, and must step to the music he hears." I am sure he would not mind if I update his famous quote to include women too. Especially Aquarius moon women and men. These are our friends that have those endearing (and sometimes not so endearing) eccentric traits. They have very strong likes and dislikes. They are independent and unconventional souls, who do what they think is best, and do not especially care if you approve of their actions or not.

But they grow on you, and you begin to respect the fact that they do not follow trends, and that they stay true to themselves. Since their Moon is in that erratic and unpredictable Aquarius sign, these people experience many sudden and unexpected changes in their lives. Another reason is that Uranus, the Planet of Lightning is their ruler. They are strong willed people who can roll with that. And when the changes are hard ones, like deaths or divorces, you will respect the grace and sensibility with which they handle what life deals out to them. It could be easy to label someone who changes so much as flaky, but since you cannot categorize an Aquarian, you would be wasting your time and opinion. They have their own view of the world, and nobody will persuade them otherwise. Life would be such a bore without them!

Aquarius Moon Sign Personality Traits

Aquarian moon sign people are air signs, and thus are very intelligent. They have many interests, and knowledge in many areas. They are the original DIY kind of people, they do not need help, thank you! They do have a humanitarian side, and are often leaders of groups to feed the hungry, or to raise money for a worthwhile cause. It is not their leadership abilities that surprise other people, but the kindness and hard work an Aquarian moon person will put into any kind of project to benefit the less fortunate. They often do volunteer work, and care about groups of people a great deal. They like people in a detached sort of way. So that's why you will find them off fighting for causes, yet not letting too many people get close to them personally.

Most Aquarius moon sign people are quite friendly and agreeable, in an impersonal kind of way. They have kind hearts, and really do listen when others speak. Just don't tread on their personal space and you will get along fine. I realize they may seem hard to understand, but once you get down these few basics, you will find you have a very smart, well read and interesting friend who is worth the time you put in to get to know them better.

Aquarius moon sign people get bored easily, so make sudden changes in life that a faint-hearted person would not consider. Marriage does not really suit their independent spirit, unless they find a soul mate who understands their need for autonomy and realizes this is a person they cannot hover over, no matter how much they love them. They are perfectly capable people and know what they want and what they are doing. An Aquarian moon will not put up with a situation not to their liking for too long. Either you toe the line and shape up, or you will no longer be welcome in their life! They do not waste time on lost causes.

Aquarius moon sign people are usually interested in things that others might find unusual. I know one who is a mortician by trade. She thinks gory stories about autopsies interest others as much as they interest her, which results in some awkward moments. You can often hear them talking about something strange at a party, and others are trying to get away or are rolling their eyes. But they do not want to be like everyone else, and do not understand why others cannot see that.

Aquarius moon sign people are very inventive and love to take things apart to see if they can put them back together. They like science and have mechanical abilities. The women know how to fix their own cars or motorcycles. They most likely have a few tattoos as well. Their way of dressing will also be different. Say, it's 2016, and the Aquarius moon person you have your eye on likes to dress in clothes from the 1950's. They just like to be their own person, and you have to go with that. Although they grow up to be very productive members of society, they will always dress or act a bit differently than the average person. And that's fine, because they will never be "average." Why be average when you can be original? That's what makes them so much fun to be with when you go out. Aquarians like to go to concerts and shows, and like to have a good time. They really are a positive addition to any group.

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A Fixed Sign who can Cope with Change

Aquarius is a fixed sign, which normally makes it's natives resistant to change. It is more complicated in the case of an Aquarius moon sign person. Their basic outlook on life will stay pretty much the same. But their Uranus ruler will cause chaos and upheaval in their lives, and so they will have to deal with more change than the other fixed signs, Taurus, Leo and Scorpio. Add in their low tolerance for boredom and bright and curious minds, and you have a person who is much more open to change than their other fixed partners in the zodiac. This is what makes them such great conversationalists, and so open-minded about the way other people live.

When somebody is discussing their problems, and the Aquarian has had that experience, they do empathize. They will offer suggestions and advice. But chances are that the Aquarian moon was able to pick themselves up faster and get life back on track much more quickly. Why waste time on something that is not worth the trouble? The world is an interesting place with places to go, people to see. Aquarian moon sign people have a practical side that they do not normally let out too much. But they do make quick decisions once they have all the facts. They are also interested in occult subjects, and have psychic abilities. Since they are so independent, you will often find them as owners of their own businesses. And it will not be a mainstream business.

They will own a store that sells mostly organic and vegetarian products. Aquarian moon sign people put much thought into whatever they put in or on their bodies. Perhaps they make their own line of body creams and cosmetics, or practice some kind of natural healing, or own a metaphysical store. Whatever they decide to do, their brilliant minds and commitment to the task at hand will make it a success. And you will be delighted to stop and chat once in a while to catch up with whatever is going on in their lives. Whatever it is, it sure will not be boring!

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        Jean Bakula 13 days ago from New Jersey

        That Cancer Moon creativity will help you get ideas for your fiction! I think there is hope for this combination. Cancer and Aries Suns are squared, and this is a challenging aspect, but we need some of that if we don't want to be bored to death in a relationship. Being Cancer, you do need some distance or time to yourself, but you can explain that it's not because you don't want to be with him. An Aries can be emotionally less mature than a Cancer, and he wants to be front and center all the time. But adults need to understand that others have needs too. He may hurt your feelings without meaning to, Aries people just blurt out whatever is on their minds.

        Libra and Aquarius Moons are good, they are air signs, representing emotions, so you can easily communicate your feelings to each other. Once again, the Aquarius Moon of yours also needs some distance, and you probably seem disengaged to him at times. His Libra Moon craves relationships, and once he decides it's you, he wants you to be with him every minute. He has to learn you have other obligations. But I think you can work through this issue. Your Cancer and Aquarius both make for a changeable person. But so do his Aries Sun and Aries Ascendant, so you both change on a pretty regular basis. So you should see this in both of yourselves.

        I like the Aries and Sag Ascendants. You are both approachable and friendly. He is a sort of "life of the party" kind of guy. You can come off as either talkative or quiet at first, there are two types of Sag people. You are philosophical and take the long view of life, a grounding influence on him. He is a very ambitious person and a born leader. You know what you want, but have a quirky side and may be sort of unconventional, but want security. But that's fine, be yourself.

        I don't see any big complications here. You have a Cancer Sun so like to know where you are going, and an ambitious person will be attractive to you. He can find you lovable and quirky. I think this is a positive mix. Best of luck in the relationship, you have what it takes to work it all out. Have fun.

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        APandaAFoxABear 2 weeks ago

        Cool article. I have a few questions regarding my moon and it's compatibility with other moons. I'm a cancer, with an aqua moon and sag ascendant. The person I love is an Aries sun, Libra moon, Aries ascendant. Some astrology sites say that it's not going to work with that mash up, which disheartens me because I was really late bloomer when it came to feeling romantic love and this person was my best friend before we became a couple. I'm female, he's male, if that helps. I had loved people before of course, but I often just felt a strong friendship and kin connection with them and assumed that was the same as romantic love, but when I became close to this Aries, I realized that it was different. I'm hitting a rough patch lately because he started a new job and I'm struggling to make my way into my chosen profession (fiction writer-there now you know I'm broke lol) and I think I've been making myself distant and it's not helping our relationship but the last thing I want is cause a rift or distance. I just want it to be okay with us, because I have never loved like this before. I'm not sure what I'm asking here lol. I'm very out of touch with my emotions.

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        Jean Bakula 5 weeks ago from New Jersey

        Hi John,

        I'm so happy what I wrote was helpful to you. Teaching astrology is always a good refresher for me! The Moon is all about your emotions, so yes, the aspects to the Moon are very important. The aspects to your Sun, Moon and Ascendant are the most important.

        Since all your planets are in an astrology sign and house, many of them have aspects to other planets. When I interpret a horoscope, I usually interpret the most important ones, and try to keep it at around 15 aspects or so. I am long winded, and when I interpret a chart I always end up with 20 pages, even when I try to be concise. Astrology is a lot of information, enough to be a life time study.

        I've been having a devil of a time trying to remember how to cast a composite chart. I only ever did the one for myself and my late husband, and I have been searching piles of folders of notes. I have a computerized one which agrees with my findings on the one I did myself, but mine is a copy, and I didn't copy the math it originally was cast from. I finally realized about two days ago that it's about the times of both births where I have to start, and I was able to get the degree of Sun for the both of us. But that still makes it hard to find the average point of the midheaven, ascendant and all the other planets and house cusps. I am still working on it.

        It's a great thing to have. Because of Prince Harry and Meghan, I wanted to try one, and still can't find any directions. I don't like synergy charts, it's no different than casting charts for both people and just reading, "Well his Moon is in Cancer, so he's very family oriented, and he Moon is in Capricorn, so she's very ambitious." Then you sit and compare each planet to planet, that's what sites do. So they would have opposite Moons, not really a problem, they just go about showing their feelings in a different way.

        A true composite is a 3rd chart. It's not the chart of you or the other person. It's the chart of the relationship itself, a 3rd entity. Believe me, it's driving me crazy, though I am closer to recalling how it's done now that I can get a composite sun. When I finally recall how it's done, I'll look you up on this hub, or you can find me at jeanbakula@wordpress.com. I never developed it much, it's mostly a landing site for orders, but I do check it and want to make it different. Maybe more posts, but smaller astrology tidbits.

        Thanks for your continued interesting questions.T Keep studying! Take care, Jean

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        John 5 weeks ago

        You articulated your reply very well. Thank you Jean.

        I was wondering, how important are moon aspects in the chart? or any other planet. negatively or positively aspected. essentially how important are aspects in the chart?

        Also, in one of your replies on this article, you briefly mentioned that you had a composite chart done and reading it 39years later it was spot on. Do you perhaps have an article about this experience?

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        Jean Bakula 2 months ago from New Jersey

        Hi John,

        Did you check out the article about houses? It explains more than I can here.

        Yes, the degrees matter. But I think newer astrologers get too caught up in them. There are 30 degrees in each astrology sign, 0-29.. They are split into something called decans. So 0 degrees to 9 would be the first decan of let's say Aquarius, 10-19 degrees would be the 2nd decan ,

        and 20-29 degrees would be the 3rd decan. In my experience, the degree only matters if it's really close. Let's say a Sun is in 29 degrees of Aquarius. Now, newer astrologers would MOVE the Sun if it was within 3 degrees, and put it in the next house.

        I'm a purist, and have a Sun like that in the 8th house. So some would insist on putting it in the 9th house. As my personality goes, it could really be in either one. But the 8th house is correct, and reflects my life experience the most, although many of my interests and love of travel are in the 9th house.

        I say stick with the real position. The seconds don't really matter, 1 minute or 60 seconds isn't going to change your life.

        Some also think if the planet is in the 1st decan, you don't feel it or exhibit the traits as much, exhibit them more in the 2nd, and early in the 3rd, still like the 2nd, but as it gets farther towards the 29th degree, you take on traits of the next sign. I think it's BS.

        I hope that helped and wasn't too confusing. A site that I trust and is pretty good for a computerized site is Cafe Astrology.com. But I'm happy to answer your questions. I have hopeless people who write to me, and I have sophisticated ones who are really trying to learn, and I feel so excited by that! I want to cry when I get a naysayer who still thinks it's all about where your Sun was at birth. I've been studying this since I was 10 yr. old, and still have a lot to learn! Keep going, there are a lot of directions to go in!

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        John 2 months ago

        Thanks Jean. I enjoy your articles. Its very different to the cookbook interpretations I frequently find on the internet.

        Does a degree of the house have any effect on the sign and the house? for example, Venus 9th house 21 degrees 30' or moon in Aquarius 12th house 4 degrees 42'

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        Jean Bakula 2 months ago from New Jersey

        Hi John,

        The house placement has a HUGE influence over the planets. I preach this until I can't take it anymore. When people give me the trinity or a sun sign, I can't tell much. It takes around 12 hours to cast and interpret an astrology chart, and I charge for it. There are 12 houses that have at least 3 meanings each. I have the link to an article I wrote that explains this: http://hubpages.com/astrology/The-Twelve-Houses-of... The picture is large and you will be able to see some of the house meanings yourself.

        The 9th house does rule foreign countries, but in most love relationships it is more likely to mean she may be from another country or will love foreign travel a lot. The house also rules higher education, so she can be a teacher or is well educated or smart. It rules law and philosophy too. So has she been involved in lawsuits or is she a lawyer? Does she read about philosophies often, or read a lot for the love of reading? That would be a more complete look at her Venus. Librans are romantic, and she probably is good looking, needs attention and likes beautiful things.

        The 4th house is about home, but also real estate, and your relationships with family. So you may want to putter around the house, or could invest in real estate often. You do love home, but basically having Venus in the 4th isn't about stability (though you know yourself), that would be your Moon sign when we look for what gives us stability. You are more possessive than she is, but that will keep you close, and Libras like to be with a loved one practically every minute anyway. You'll be fine.

        I have other articles on Exemplore, explaining Moon signs and Sun Signs. I also cover Venus signs on Letterpile.com, where I made up fictional couples, but made them with the same Venus sign. You can find them there and read Libra and Scorpio to get the idea. Have fun. Jean

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        John 2 months ago

        Hi Jean

        Thanks for a great article.

        I was wondering, does the house placement of the moon (or any other planet) have any influence ?

        For example my partner has a Libra Venus 9th (squared Uranus and Neptune) and I have a Venus in Scorpio 4th. Astrologically speaking, from my basic google interpretation, is that she is attracted to adventurous foreign types while i'm more attracted to home and stability.

        Would love to get your thoughts on the house placements of signs.

        John

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        Jean Bakula 2 months ago from New Jersey

        Hi LaLee,

        You are very welcome! I am always happy to hear a positive outcome. I have a good feeling about you two! Jean

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        LaLee Bee 2 months ago

        Thank you so much! He is being absolutely wonderful. We are still a very new couple and are creating our boundaries with each other as well as the foundation of how we relate... It seems like he just wants to philosophize objectively with me at times when I'm interested in being intimate! But the troubles seem to have opened us to new intimacy, so maybe my sag moon is ok with his meandering aquarian thoughts... as long as that ascendant in leo makes my cancer feel like a queen & his virgo makes my scorpio feel safe... we're pretty golden. I will totally be checking back in with you! I love your site. And thank you!!

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        Jean Bakula 2 months ago from New Jersey

        Hello Kyra,

        Since the Moon rules emotions, Aquarius can make you seem a bit aloof at times. You may be really close with somebody one day, and forget their name the next. You need freedom in a relationship and like to do things our own way. So a clingy person or someone who is too needy may get annoying.

        The Cancer Sun makes you nurturing though, so you may experience that need to have some space, and not tell people. You are basically kind and gentle. The Cancer Mercury means you think with your heart, and the Venus Mercury shows you are a true romantic. Three planets in the same sign is called a stellium in astrology. So you exhibit many Cancer traits. You are tender and part of you does want security, and you are artistic and likely psychic too.

        Cancers are as changeable as Aquarians can be erratic, so this can work for you! I actually know many Cancer/Aquarius couples. Both signs get bored easily, and crave change, or can want it suddenly. So it works in an odd sort of way. Cancers need time to themselves, and Aquarius needs to be aloof because they are so interested in learning new things.

        The Leo rising is the facade you show, or how those who don't know you well see you. Leo is a warm and outgoing sign, loves to entertain, throw parties, go out a lot. So on the surface you seem more sociable than you are. The messy part is because you do need occasional solitude, and emotionally both the stelllium in Cancer and your emotional nature of Aquarius demands it.

        Leos and Cancers hate to say no. But you can try to practice it, I think that's causing emotional confusion and disarray. You want to socialize and have fun, but need "down" time. Work on that, you'll get there. Best Wishes.

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        Kyra 2 months ago

        Hi Jean,

        Love this article so much. Truly a pleasure to read.

        I'm a Cancer Sun, Aquarius Moon, and Leo Rising. Lately I've been experiencing a lot of mental disarray, especially with understanding my emotions. They've always been messy, and I think my Cancer Sun, Mercury and Venus contributes to that greatly.

        Still curious if you have any insight or advice for an Aquarius Moon.

        Thank you!!!

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        Jean Bakula 2 months ago from New Jersey

        Hi La Lee,

        That Moon in Aquarius will make him "check out" emotionally at times. I don't know how long you have been together. Your Moon and Venus in Sag should be OK with him not being a clingy kind of person, but it does hurt when it seems like someone isn't listening, or is expressing things in a hurtful way. Your ascendant in Cancer does make you super sensitive, and Scorpio Sun means you are possessive, even though the Sag in you is a help in the relationship. His Sun in Virgo also works well with your Cancer and Scorpio.

        His Ascendant and Venus in Leo also bode well for your Sag planets. I think you hit it on the head. You need to decide if you can handle that aloof part of him, because at times when you need him, he may be in his own world. I don't think he intentionally wants to hurt you, it's just how he is. I do believe there is hope. We all go through phases, and maybe the timing is just bad lately. Take some more time and think about it. If he keeps putting you off for a long period and you can't get any answers, then you may have to move on. But not just yet, wait a bit. Keep me posted, we can always do a tarot reading.

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        LaLee Bee 2 months ago

        Hey Jean, thx so much for this. It's really well written. I'm seeking insight on my partner (moon in Aquarius, sun in Virgo, both asc & venus in Leo) and his really strange way of behaving since we've gotten comfortable. He loves me, is devoted to me, is flying across the world to be with me, an generally takes great care with me when I'm upset, but has recently started to kind of disengage when he's talking to me. He rushes home to talk to me and then says thoughtless things that do not matter to us at all. Sometimes they're things that upset me. He doesn't get hoe I feel uncared for when he seems to lack intention when communicating. It keeps happening. (I'm both moon & venus in sagitarius, sun in scorpio, ascendant in cancer so I feel like I'm losing my mind here.) I just seem to be upset a lot (it's irksome how he's changed) and it only gets better if I complain. He admits there's an issue, and is fully present for a little bit, then seems to slip out again. He's made & is making enormous changes in his life for me/us and swears he just needs time (we need time) but I'm wondering... could there be an element of 'checked-outness' in his moon that will simply be? Is this just part of him I need to decide to take or not? I thought with my sag influence I'd be all on board for the freedom aspect of his moon, but I'm actually super hurt by what I sense is detachment. It is merc rx in fiery aries, and we are definitely going through changes, but I wanted to ask (you put it so politely in your post) do moon n aquarius ppl tend to 'check-out' w/ ppl they love? So much so as to seriously hurt even a sagitarius moon? Or is there hope??

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        Jean Bakula 2 months ago from New Jersey

        Hi Lauren,

        Happy you enjoyed the read! Best Wishes, Jean

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        Jean Bakula 2 months ago from New Jersey

        You really can't unless you have a horoscope cast. People go to astrology sites and cut and paste all the signs their planets are in, but that's not what an astrologer needs, and is only part of the picture. You need the day, month and year of birth, and most importantly the TIME of birth, to get your ascendant or rising sign. Also, the city and country where you were born. I can do it, but can't give a URL here, though there is a way to contact me. A site I trust is CafeAstrology.com, you can learn from that. When I answer questions about planets in signs, it is part of the horoscope. But it leaves out all 12 houses. I have an article about that on Exemplore, and also about Sun signs, moon signs, Mercury and Venus. All that takes time to interpret. Then it matters how far all the planets are from each other. It's a lot more work than people understand. Thanks for inquiring. Take care. Jean

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        Lauren 2 months ago

        Thankyou this is super accurate in terms of personality, and I'm average height and a sort of athletic build (but always feel tall haha.)

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        Carly 2 months ago

        Hi Jean,

        I am an Aquarius but not sure of any other aspects, how would I figure that out?

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        Jean Bakula 3 months ago from New Jersey

        Hi Lauren,

        Yes, Cancer is ruled by the Moon, I'm one as well! The Moon travels through all 12 Zodiac signs in about 28+ days, like a menstrual cycle. So it affects us Cancers more than anyone. People around us should expect a change every 2 or 2 1/2 days!

        The Aquarius Moon rules your emotions. So even though Cancers like stability, our changeable nature makes us open to Aquarius influences. Both signs are nonconformists, and I know several Cancer/Aquarius couples. So there is no "tension" between your Sun and Moon.

        The Ascendant in Gemini again is how others see you, and that's intelligent, lively, someone who likes to go out and learn new things. You probably excel at many things. I think you are tall.

        The Venus in Leo means that you can be stubborn in love, but also expect many displays of affection. You want to be treated like a Queen. And why not?

        Cancer people are gentle and need a long time to open up to others. The Moon and Ascendant in air signs makes you more outgoing than a Cancer description you might read, and more adventurous. Sometimes the Cancer need for security may clash with your emotional, Aquarius Moon, which wants freedom and novelty. But it's not a bad thing. I hope that helps. Take care, Jean

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        Lauren 3 months ago

        Hi Jean, I have a Cancer sun, aquarius moon, asc in gemini and venus in Leo. I think there may be tension between moon and sun (in terms of what motivates me.) Does the moon sign have a particularly strong influence over Cancer? thanks xx

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        Jean Bakula 3 months ago from New Jersey

        Thank you for responding and reading my work!

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        Maureen 3 months ago

        Thank you for your response,that's interesting about Scorpio.

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        Jean Bakula 3 months ago from New Jersey

        No, everyone's chart is a picture of the sky at their time of birth. There are no "family" influences in it except for one I can think of. When a Scorpio in a family dies, another one is born.

        Oppositions or squares like you mention are challenging, but also add excitement to life.

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        Maureen 3 months ago

        Hi was just reading your analysis of Aquarius I've been so curious of the moon sun combinations in my family, I'm a Taurus sun Aquarius moon and my daughter is Aquarius sun Taurus moon. My husband is a Capricorn sun Leo moon while my son is Leo sun Capricorn moon. Is it weird or do families have this placements often.

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        Jean Bakula 4 months ago from New Jersey

        Hi Martin,

        The house a planet is in is very important. I answer questions here about planets in astrology signs, but it's about 1/6 the meaning of a whole chart, which takes about 10-12 hrs. to cast and interpret. Aspects are the distance each planet is from the others, and means more than what sign a planet is in. These are the 3 biggest factors when interpreting a chart, and there are more.

        I haven't written any articles on these, although my audience is more sophisticated about astrology than they used to be. I had to stop answering people who cut and paste all the planets in the signs when they look up their B-days, because it's so little info in reality, and too many were doing it. I then got a nasty email last week from a girl (I assume a teen, she was so rude) and she ranted how I probably was a fake and only cared about money.

        I spent years paying for good astrology books, taking courses and workshops, and I don't think she would have spent that much time on me if I asked for free info (she was on my comments page for weeks getting free answers). It really hurt, as my best friend passed away that week.

        Venus in Libra in the 9th house is this--Libra is the home of Venus, so it's a great place. It shows the person loves romance and even working in partnerships. The 9th house represents education, foreign travel and countries and philosophy and religion. So the person would excel in these areas. The Moon in Aquarius is another air sign, also the moon represents emotions. So it means attraction to an intellectual person who likes those topics too. But the 12th house is about secrets, and secret sorrows. So there may be heartache in this relationship, or one of the parties is not telling their true feelings and being secretive, or both are keeping it secret.

        Close aspects like a conjunction intensify the Venus in Libra. Let me see if I have an article on this. But as you see, all these factors have to be put together like a puzzle, and it takes time. I'm glad you are learning the right way. I may have an article on this at jeanbakula.wordpress.com. But a site I trust, not for charts, but astrology basics, is CafeAstrology.com. Maybe this should be the next thing I write. Thanks for the question and idea. Best Wishes. Jean

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        Martin 4 months ago

        Hi Jean

        how much effect doesn't the house placement of the moon or any other planet have on a aspect ? For example, How does a venus in libra 9th house natal have a impact on ones chart or moon in aquarius 12th house.

        If you have any articles on hard venus aspects in the natal chart, please do share :)

        All the best,

        Martin

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        Jean Bakula 4 months ago from New Jersey

        Happy you enjoyed it!

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        Jean Bakula 4 months ago from New Jersey

        Hi John,

        Ok, well first off, squared or opposite moons are not as bad as some people seem to think they are. If we all got along so easily, wouldn't life be a bore after a while? The square is more challenging, but can bring excitement into a relationship. The opposition means both want similar things, but have different ideas about how to achieve them. It's easier than a square. My husband and I had squared Venuses and Moons, and were married for 39 yrs, (he passed 4 yrs. ago) everyone thought we were the perfect couple. His Venus was in Pisces and mine in Gemini, Moons in Capricorn and Aries. I planned and he had no foresight.. I liked to talk things out about our relationship, but he was a total romantic and probably would forgive me anything. It's older astrology books that make these aspects seem so dire.

        As far as synastry charts, I think you can get a lot out of them, but I don't like to do them. Basically, event though I can predict issues you will have and easy areas for you, I can't predict a couple will stay together forever or a huge length of time. Sometimes we meet someone and are together for a few months, and it changes us forever, that's our soulmate. It's two Natal birth charts compared.

        A composite takes both your Natal charts, and creates a 3rd entity, your relationship. I had ours done a little before we married, and reading it 39 yrs. later, can't believe how accurate it was! I have been considering offering them, but in the beginning of the year I am swamped with people who want Natal charts, they are making resolutions to know themselves better, and want to utilize the knowledge in the chart.

        So I am deciding if I want to do composites. That's the better thing. If you want one I can suggest two good astrology sites I even trust, Cafe Astrology and Astrotheme.com. I don't know if they offer them, they will be computer generated and will have jargon you won't get, but what they say about the relationship will be accurate. Otherwise, ask me again in the Spring. I learned how to cast charts when I was 21, and it's been so long I have to recall how to do composites! But people are asking, and I do know how good they are, so once I dig out from my pile now, maybe I will refresh my memory and start doing them again. Take care.

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        John 5 months ago

        Hi Jean

        Thank you for your article. On a different yet same topic. Could aspects in synastry or composite chart balance out the difference between opposing / squared moons ?

        Also I'm curious to read your opinion on the difference between synastry and composite readings for long term relationship potential.

        Best,

        John

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        bbyblueeyes 5 months ago

        Wow, that sounds amazing.

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        Jean Bakula 5 months ago from New Jersey

        I didn't think the planets were incompatible. Sag people are free spirits. There are the quiet ones, and the ones who never stop talking! Sometimes people really do realize what they had and come back, maybe it will happen.

        Yes, I sometimes can feel my husband around. I am not religious and needed an interfaith minister to help with the service when he passed. She was a clairvoyant in my area, and I had taken metaphysical classes at her business, but not with her. Since I write, I wrote his eulogy, and she added a lot to it. She really was good, and at first she knew so much about him, although they never met. A few nights after he passed, I awoke and saw a ball of white light over my head. She said that was his spirit. I had trouble learning to sleep alone. She said he used to sit by me until I did fall asleep. I don't feel him as much, just every now and then. But I believe in reincarnation, and know he's reviewing this life, so I guess he's busy! But she helped me through those first hard months, and I got more clairsentient since then, a big help for when I cast charts.

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        bbyblueeyes 5 months ago

        Dear Jean,

        I so sorry for your loss on this day. It's very hard to imagine the heartbreak of loosing someone you love so deeply. It's beautiful that you were together for all those years and I'm sure your bond is still very strong. Do you still talk to him throughout the day? I periodically mentally tell my friend I am writing to you about that I love him throughout the day in hopes that he feels it. Is that weird? I truely appreciate your insight on us. You made me realize I forgot to write down his moon sign. He has a Sag. Moon. maybe he's too much of a free spirit? We've had some unforgettable fun times together and I know we met for a reason. I hope him and I stay in touch for a very long time even if our time 'together' has run its course and I hope he relizes one day that I'm his favorite 'girl.' ;) I like everything you wrote and I thank you.

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        Jean Bakula 5 months ago from New Jersey

        I never promise a life long union to anyone, even if you are very compatible. If you are twin souls, or soulmates, you would know that immediately. Something he said or did would have triggered that off right away, or at least in a few weeks. The night I met my husband, he told me "I vibrated faster than anyone he ever met." This is a pretty involved metaphysical observation from someone who was 19 at the time. We dated for 5 yrs. and were married for 34 (he passed away, it's been 4 yrs. today, and I didn't even go on a date yet, nobody measures up).. Many of our unmarried at 30 yr. old son's friends thinks he remains so because they all think we had the perfect marriage. It was good, and the planets were good. But when we met we had astrologers casting our charts, and nobody could say more than what they saw as they knew us.

        Scorpio and Aquarius are two fixed and stubborn signs, so you will have challenges. But that combo is often together and seems able to overcome them.

        Your Venus in Libra, the marriage sign, makes you yearn to always be half of a couple. His Venus in Sag means he needs more freedom, but they are compatible and I like that.

        Saturn is a karmic planet, so it's hard for me to know what about you both it affects without a chart. I don't know what houses they are in or what aspects they make to other planets. He is sensible, but you are fair in general matters. Mars in Sag and Scorpio are next to each other, so that's usually good, signs next to each other agree easily. I don't know where his Moon is.

        I would maybe suggest that since you are both mature and give each other space this could definitely go somewhere. You should both feel the "soulmate" things. I would think a tarot reading specifically about the relationship would help us see where this is going. You can look me up at jeanbakula@wordpress.com. Astrology tells us a lot, but I never predict forevers. Even a soulmate can be in your life for a short time, but you never forget him/her. You both have lessons to learn from each other, but have been together in other lifetimes, and I don't know if you believe in reincarnation. So there are a lot of metaphysical concepts in your question, and even if I did two charts, I'd never say "forever." I'd go with the tarot reading, but otherwise say give it a shot, it looks good.

        Take care,

        Jean

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        bbyblueeyes 5 months ago

        Greetings, I'm a Scorpio sun woman.

        My Moon sign is in Aquarius

        Venus in Libra

        Mars in Sag

        Saturn in Libra

        My male love has an Aquarius sun.

        His Venus is in Sag

        Mars in Scorpio

        Saturn in Taurus.

        This is all I know about him. He won't tell me his birth time. I truly believe he is my soulmate/twin flame. We met 6 months ago on a Leo new moon. He is 9 years older than me. We give each other the space we seek. We don't see each other or talk everyday because we live 45 minutes apart and we both have busy lives. We both have had lot of experience in relationships so we approach each other on a very mature and understanding level when we spend time together. Do you think he thinks the same about me? Do you think we will have a lifelong union here?

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        Jean Bakula 7 months ago from New Jersey

        I'm glad you enjoyed it! I can't interpret all this without drawing up a horoscope, time doesn't permit me, as I have a large clientele of paying customers. You can find more on jeanbakula@wordpress.com Best Wishes.

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        Raul 7 months ago

        Sun, Mercury, Mars and Venus in Taurus, Ascendant and Neptune in Sagittarius, Moon in Aquarius, Jupiter and Saturn in Libra, North Node in Leo... and I really feel this description about the moon in aquarius is quite accurate. Thank you so much :)

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        Jean Bakula 7 months ago from New Jersey

        It is a tough situation. You have the Scorpio Mars and he has the Taurus one, and actually Taurus is more passive than Scorpio. I think it's good to make yourself less available, and at least you are trying by having one night a week where you can try to show and tell him what you need.

        I think that's fine for a bit. But honestly, I wouldn't give it more than a few months. There's somebody else out there who will satisfy your need to have a regular relationship, and will appreciate you more. Open relationships let one person take advantage of the other, as it isn't what you want. I understand there is an attraction, but how would he like it if the shoe was on the other foot? Try for a bit, but if he doesn't change, move one. Best of luck to you!

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        Anonymous 7 months ago

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        Hello, back again! I actually understood you very much. You deserve to be compensated for your time and many people will come here with little studying themselves.

        So I’m the one with the Scorpio Mars actually. His is Taurus Mars. The thing is that we are very close and in love. He sees being with me as different so it’s harder to engage or have sexual desire, especially with his hook up addiction. He is mainly into oral.

        We are starting to work on it 1 time a week. He said it’s hard because before me he would search daily and that his type represent a whole different feeling than is romance. I know this is his Aquarius moon acting out. I usually would have run by now but as I said, I’m more upset over the fact that he feels more desire to chase them then to initiate anything with me. When we have he is super nervous and you can feel the uneasy ness of intimacy on a sexual level.

        I know I want to be with him and a open relationship is fine as long as I know we have desire as well. Even today he has been online all day. He emailed me but I decided to use the law of attraction and finally not respond 1. Because his mind is on a hookup and 2. Because I will see him this weekend and want him to appreciate me and realize I won’t talk to him when he is in this mode.

        When we are together it’s all about doing things and cuddling but he never mentions sex anymore. I told him I won’t be compartmentalized which is why he agreed to “try” with me more often. When combining our charts it makes us seem toxic when the love and romance itself is faaaar from it. I have checked myself to make sure I’m not being codependent and also to not allow my Scorpio energy smother him.

        It sounds like disaster but truly he has wired himself and doesn’t want to lose his independence. Being single that long with instant gratification has caused him to just not know how to feel in his moments of compulsion, but why am I not a part of that? So even with all of our issues I am the strong one and I know he loves me strongly but how do I keep a Moon Aquarius, Venus Aries interested when he is so pattern like a Taurus.

        I hope I’m doing the right thing by not emailing him and giving him time instead of getting upset and having constant talks that drain him. Weirdest situation I’ve ever been in.

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        Jean Bakula 7 months ago from New Jersey

        Hello Daniels,

        Well, I have a Gemini Moon and my love of 39 yrs. had a Pisces one, and we got along fine. She is more of a free spirit and may not want to be tied down as much as you do. A Taurus Moon loves relationships and is a little old fashioned, or romantic. The Mercury and Venus are OK in Libra and Scorpio. Signs next to each other usually work out well. Her Mars in Scorpio actually helps more with your Taurus Moon, it's opposite, but that's an attraction. Your Mars in Cancer makes you home loving and possessive, but also loyal and kind.

        The biggest issue I see is that in my 40+ yrs. of Astrology, I only saw one couple with the same Sun sign that stayed together. It's strange, but true, and I've worked with thousands of people. They were Capricorns, boring as hell. I am a Cancer Sun and dated another one for a while years ago, but it felt more like we were friends, or like dating yourself. That may be what you are feeling. So maybe you are too much the same, and that's what's nagging at you. Libra is the marriage sign.

        I'd rather see you with an earth or water sign sun. I see you as sensitive and wanting to build a life with someone. Maybe she does, but she craves more freedom than you. I hope that helps. If you really try hard and can accept she needs space, I think this could work. The Venus and Mars you have together is good too. But I worry about the same Sun sign thing. Take care.

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        Jean Bakula 7 months ago from New Jersey

        Hi,

        I apologize for being so hard on you. I had a large bunch of questions where people want me to basically do hours of work for free, and I simply can't do it, there aren't enough hours in the day.

        Some of their "problems" seem so trivial to me. But yours isn't. I am a bit stumped here though, I must admit. As far as his planets and yours go, there should be more compatibility. I was with my Taurus for 39 years, and they like romance, and are generally faithful. The Venus in Aries man normally likes to show off his girlfriend, and sort of puts her on a pedestal. And in an odd way, he is, when you are the one who he takes to meet the family and friends. It sounds a little like a Madonna/Whore thing. He doesn't want you to be a "hookup", but wants YOU to be the Madonna. I can see how frustrating this is for you. His Scorpio Mars isn't helping here either. But as I said earlier, a few squares don't kill a relationship, sometimes they add to it.

        Did you talk to him about how neglected you feel in the sex department? Or won't he discuss it?

        I really don't know what to say. I'm sure you are attractive, and it seems you aren't going to get what you need from him. Or even if you do for a while, he may revert to his bad ways, or you will worry he will. That would be stressful.

        With your Moon in Gemini and Venus in Aquarius, you may be giving off a more " I don't need anyone vibe" than you think you are. But with the Pisces Sun, you are sympathetic and psychic and gentle in relationships.

        What's your Ascendant? Even so, I can't say why people are not meeting your sexual needs. This is a tough one. I do think with the current guy, there is an expiration date. You need someone who makes you happy and fulfilled. And you shouldn't be blaming yourself so much. Maybe the right one hasn't come along yet? Have you had this issue with anyone else (it sounds like yes)?

        Maybe you just have a sort of "girl next door" kind of appeal when guys meet you, and have to get past that. I wish I could be more helpful. Keep in touch and let me know how it goes. There are a lot of confusing grand trines and aspects going on right now that are upsetting everyone in different ways. Why don't you try to talk, even if you already have? See if you can make any progress. I can't tell if he wants you to be the "good girl" or if he just wants you to be the cover up for all his hookups. Men, they are so impossible.

        I didn't mean to hurt your feelings. Just don't keep hitting your head on a brick wall if you can't get through. Try, but move on. Take care.

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        Anonymous 7 months ago

        Hello Jean. I think I misrepresented myself. My problem is more that I KNOW that sex isn’t what it’s all about but I don’t want a sexless relationship. Because of his Aqua Moon and upbringing, it makes him not know how to combine the 2.

        I don’t want to just have a romantic relationship and didn’t know his hookup addiction was so important. Again he is a Taurus with Venus in Aries, Moon Aquarius. So I guess I’m saying that I don’t know how to keep his attention. I’m actually the more mature one in the relationship. Everything you said I’ve called him on already and he knows.

        Our bond is unmatched but we are not sexual and it’s been 6months. It’s like he avoids it or doesn’t need it with me because he is so in love, but then on the flip side he gets to have hookups as a way of connecting sexually. I’m very jealous of that and hurt......not because of the open relationship, but because they are getting a part that I’m not.

        We are very much in romantic love, I’m the one that gets introduced to friends and family.

        I understood you couldn’t cast the charts as I’ve done it already. I was just giving you the most important (Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars). I appreciate your time and have been reading this post for months. So sorry for misrepresenting myself (Gem Moon Merc Pisces). I’m a frantic mess because I’m in love and he is the most special person I’ve ever met. But his mental illness and sex addiction to hooking up with a specific type is difficult. He is attracted to me but it seems not sexually.

        It eats at my core because in the past 15 years I have been neglected sexually. Some believe I’m manifesting it because of my Venus Mars Square. Maybe I’m to friendly in my relationships. I don’t know. Very healthy and athletic body. I do my best to be attractive. I seem to only attract love and no desire.....hurts deep. Trust that I do know very much the importance of love, which is why I’m tired of not being desired sexually.

        So just so you understand the dynamic, not for full chart purposes.....(I know what they mean. I just want your amazing input that you’ve shared with others. His Aquarius Moon is strong!!! thank you so much)

        Me: Sun - Pisces, Moon - Gemini, Venus - Aquarius, Mars -Scorpio

        Him: Sun - Taurus, Moon - Aquarius, Venus - Aries, Mars - Taurus

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        Jean Bakula 7 months ago from New Jersey

        I'm sorry, but it takes 10-12 hours to cast a horoscope, and I can't interpret all these planet lists people send me without drawing one out.

        I can answer that just squared moons or one or two square or opposite aspects don't mean it's bad, we need some challenges in a relationship for it to work.

        My husband and I were together for 39 years with squared Moons and Venus.

        You seem to think just sex is enough to make a relationship work. It's not. As you pass the years together, you will have money issues, maybe children, you will be sick and have to take care of each other. You may have to take care of your own parents. You will face serious job and career issues. You may not like each other's friends. People you love will die, and eventually, if you are together long enough, one of you will die first. The loneliness is unbearable.

        If he is so used to hookups, and your biggest fear is holding his sexual interest, I think both of you are too immature for this to work. He only wants sex, and you think it's all that matters. Grow up first and take some time off from "relationships" like this. I'm not saying this to hurt you, but you have to be more realistic about life.

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        Daniels 8 months ago

        Hi Jean.

        My girlfriend has a Aquarius Moon and I have a Taurus moon. Although our emotional needs are very different our relationship still progressing. What I like most about her is the Aquarian moon qualities as you mentioned besides her emotional aloofness.

        Both of our sun signs are in Libra.

        Her mercury and Venus are in Libra. Mars in need Scorpio.

        My mercury and Venus are in Scorpio. Mars in cancer.

        I'm struggling to figure out long term potential between us. I do sense commonality but I feel there's an aspect that is missing, perhaps it's the squared moon aspect? What sign combination should I look at to enhance long term potential, other than moon?

        Thanks in advance

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        Jean Bakula 8 months ago from New Jersey

        I answered this and am unsure why it came back. Any planet Pluto aspects is intensified, so if it is near your Moon, you will feel a huge range of emotions. It's hard to say, I wouldn't say it acts like a Moon in Scorpio. People seem to think all kinds of oddball things about Scorpio Moons. It's not all about sex and death if you have only one planet in a sign. I am unsure why you aren't feeling Cancer or Sag, sometimes people have a stellium, or 3-4 planets in another same sign, so that makes a big difference in a horoscope. But I can't tell without drawing one out.

        The Scorpio in Pluto is a generational thing, and doesn't mean much at all in an individual's chart. The house it's in and aspects it makes to faster moving planets are what matters.

        You have to actually have planets in the astrology sign to feel the effects. You have a lot of fallacies about Astrology.

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        Jean Bakula 8 months ago from New Jersey

        When Pluto aspects any planet, it's energies are intensified. Since the Moon rules emotions, you will feel all of them more. I am unsure why you don't feel Cancer or Sag. Some people have stelliums, or 3-4 planets in a different sign than the Sun, Moon and Ascendant, and then they would show a lot of traits in whatever sign those planets are in. I really can't know more without casting a chart. I don't know why everyone gets so worked up about a Scorpio Moon. It causes intense emotions, leadership ability, intelligence and the willpower to stay on topic. It's not even about sex or death all that much if you have only one planet there. Jean

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        Svetlana 8 months ago

        Hello Jean, great article about Aqua moon.

        I'm Cancer with Saggitarius asc and I don't unfortunately feel that vibrations. My moon is also in aqua but I feel strong scorpio and capricorn influence. Maybe because of Neptune in first house (Capricorn), and scorpio pluto-11house ('95 generation), both in soft aspects with Sun (7H). Some astrologers think that when pluto squares moon (my situation) , moon can act like a moon in scorpio. Is that true? Interesting fact is that my parents have this position (Moon in Scorpio).

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        Jean Bakula 8 months ago from New Jersey

        It's always the darkest before the dawn too. It hurts, I know. Hang in there.

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        Katlyn 8 months ago

        Sorry about that ! As soon as I sent my comment, I read what you said to the others regarding that, and I totally understand :)

        Thank you for your words though. It isn't bad, but when I do get close to someone (was married for 6 years) it seems that I am easily misunderstood, and would lead to fights, which after it happening so often, despite my efforts to remedy the issue, I gave up. It's been a over a year since the separation and I will keep trudging on. Things get worse before they get better, right? :)

        Thank you for taking the time to respond to me. I appreciate your work!

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        Jean Bakula 8 months ago from New Jersey

        I also have an opposition of Sun and Moon-Sun in Cancer, Moon in Capricorn. It means we don't always present ourselves as we really are. Our emotions are a bit out of synch with the person we want everyone to know. I think my Moon gets out more to people, but I have a Scorpio Ascendant. Your Libra one is compatible with both signs. It's not a serious thing unless people close to you keep misunderstanding you. I wouldn't worry about it.

        I've been telling everyone I can't possibly cast a whole horoscope for free, and to stop emailing a list of planets from a site. No offense, but it takes 10-12 hours for me, and I charge $100.00. The site that you got the planets from will be cheaper, but not as good. If you are serious, details are on jeanbakula@wordpress.com. I understand most people don't realize how much work it is. I can read a few planets and answer what is a simple question like you first asked because of my years casting horoscopes. Take care.

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        Arabella 8 months ago

        Hello, Jean. Your article touched me deeply. Pretty much me minus tattoos. :)

        I was curious if you could give some insight regarding my aqua moon and leo sun. They are in complete opposition of each other. And I feel this is causing painful stagnation in my life. Its hard for me to make decisions, leaving me frozen.

        Sun: Leo

        Moon: Aquarius

        Mercury: Cancer

        Venus: Cancer

        Mars: Virgo

        Jupiter: Libra

        Saturn: Aquarius

        Uranus: Capricorn

        Neptune: Capricorn

        Pluto: Scorpio

        Acendant: Libra

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        Jean Bakula 8 months ago from New Jersey

        No problem, Mel. Take care.

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        Mel 8 months ago

        Jean, thank you so much for your insights, I greatly appreciate it! I really helps me understand why I have hard time connecting with people in love matters.

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        Jean Bakula 8 months ago from New Jersey

        That's a good mix. The Sun in Taurus is stable and reliable, pleasant and sensual. The Ascendant in Venus is the way others see you, so in Gemini you are more fun loving and intellectual than Taurus, not that Taurus isn't intelligent. They are practical and what they can actually use is important to them. The sign is ruled by Venus, so you are romantic, but more lighthearted than your Taurus Sun would make you. It's an earth sign, so you may enjoy the outdoors and environmental causes could attract you, as the Aquarius in you likes to get you involved in causes.Venus in Gemini likes to chat and is a social butterfly, also smart. You could be in love with two people at the same time, or have two great love affairs in your life. I have seen that pattern with Venus in Gemini often, and even in myself! The Moon in Aquarius means you need freedom and that may clash with your Taurus Sun in some situations. But it grounds you to have the Sun where it is. Both Taurus and Aquarius are fixed signs, so you are stubborn. Taurus is passive/aggressive, Aquarius just does what it wants. There are lots of contradictions in astrology, so the traits depend a lot on the situation and how important it is to you. Best Wishes.

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        Jean Bakula 9 months ago from New Jersey

        I'm really sorry, but can no longer accommodate people who send me a whole list of planets copied from a site. I do small interpretations for about two planets, but I can't interpret a list like this without drawing out a whole chart, and would need a lot more information about you. If you want an astrology chart, go to jeanbakula@wordpress.com. I charge $100.00. Take care.

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        Mel 9 months ago

        Hello Jean, very informative article, thanks.

        My natal chart is as follows, what can you conclude about my persona, I always seem to be confused when it comes to love.

        Sun Taurus

        Ascendant Aries

        Moon Aquarius

        Mercury Aries

        Venus Gemini

        Mars Leo

        Jupiter Cancer

        Saturn Leo

        Uranus Scorpio

        Neptune Saggitarius

        Pluto Libra

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        Jean Bakula 9 months ago from New Jersey

        Hi Jelena,

        It's normal to appear like a Scorpio, that's what the Ascendant does, it's the facade we hid behind. I am a Cancer Sun with Scorpio Rising too! I also have a grown Scorpio sun, he's wonderful and smart, but was hard to raise. They are so intense emotionally they can't even understand themselves until the adult years. I often get told that "you seem like you don't want to be bothered with people: but Cancers are private and so is Scorpio, we need alone time. Both are strong signs, and maybe you give too much of your power to others. My first love was a Capricorn, we have a lot in common. The Aquarius Moon makes you seem aloof. But you aren't concerned with petty things, you have a broader look at the world. All three are signs that you don't want to be surrounded by people all the time, though Cancers are friendly and loyal friends. We need to be careful not to be taken advantage of. Take care, Jean

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        Jean Bakula 9 months ago from New Jersey

        Yes, the Pisces sun is very romantic and some can be downright doormats, but they are very devoted to loved ones and like to be together often. Taurus is also a bit Jealous, and likes to be possessive. But your Aquarius Moon emotions need some space, and you like time to do stuff on your own. Cancer Suns are clingy, but also have a lot of interests, so if you explain it's not because you don't care, you need "me" time, a Cancer does too, so maybe they will understand that. I know many Cancer/Aquarius couples. Cancer has the Moon in all 12 signs each Month, so they like change. Aquarius change is more dramatic, but something both signs have in common. Virgos want to take care of you. Just humor them. They are witty and restless, something else you find in common with that sign. Try to work with the traits you have in common. With Taurus Rising, you seem more "settled" than you really are. Tell someone if they are smothering you in a nice way. It can work surprisingly well. Take care.

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        Katelyn 10 months ago

        Hi Jean, love your article. I very much resonate with this description. The only thing is that I don't know how to take care of my car.. ha!

        I am a Pisces sun, Taurus Rising, Aquarius Moon (but with Aquarius in Mercury, Venus, and another planet as well). The Pisces sun and Aquarius Moon can be very conflicting... astrology has helped me learn a lot about myself though. Do you have any advice for my sun-moon combination? Especially with love? I seem to attract many Cancer sun/Virgo Moons, but they are too smothering for me. Thanks!

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        Jean Bakula 10 months ago from New Jersey

        OK. An Aquarius Sun and Taurus Sun is a square, meaning you both want your own way. You have great, unusual ways of seeing the world, and Taurus is gentle and loves the outdoors, a real environmentalist. Taurus people are ruled by Venus and easy to get along with. They are romantic. Your Aquarius Sun is very independent, and so are you. You are aloof at times, but with the Scorpio moon need time to yourself. A Taurus is not as adventurous as you, but the Sun signs will be challenging and fun. They are loyal and usually everyone loves a Taurus. Plus emotionally you understand the Aquarius Moon person, and they understand your Aquarius Sun. Wow, I like that. Libra rising is someone who likes to entertain and have parties, go out, see shows, a social creature. A Sag rising person is interesting to talk too, and likes to get into discussions about education, philosophy and has a big interest in other cultures, probably loving travel. I think you make a good pair. Good luck!

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        ajelena 10 months ago

        Hello Jean,

        I'm Cancer sun/Scorpio asc/Aquarius moon and really enjoyed your article on Aqua moon and was able to find my self totally in it. I feel like my soul is Aqua soul even though I may appear like a Scorpio. I got lost on the way for couple of years in an attempt to accommodate as a mother (son is a Scorpio) and a wife (divorcing a Capricorn) and I'm now changing my life, again.

        Also liked a lot about what you wrote about emotional detachment with people, explained a lot about me and how people perceive me, and how they actually don't know how to handle me as they feed on my energy and spirit, and are not sure how I can "cover" and change everything and be an "alien"...

        Not to bother you more just wanted to thank you for the great article.

        Jelena

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        Jason 10 months ago

        Hi! How does a Libra Sun and Aquarius moon shake out? Being both air signs I was curious how these work together for me

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        Henri Leyva 10 months ago

        Hello Jean! I'm an aquarius sun, scorpio moon and libra rising. And a friend of mine is a taurus sun, aquarius moon and sagittarius rising. Is there anyway you could briefly describe me and my friend Stefan based off these three signs only? We're just curious to see what your description will be like. Thank you! I know it won't be as descriptive as a natal chart reading but this will work for us!

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        Jean Bakula 10 months ago from New Jersey

        Hello Regina,

        Both Cancer and Aquarius are signs of a nonconformist. You won't change if you don't want to, and may enjoy being different from others in some way. Cancers are kind and gentle people, family oriented, but also leaders. Aquarius people are very intelligent, and are changeable, often doing things on a whim. Cancers change a lot because the Moon rules them, so it's a person who is comfortable with change, smart, and likable. Someone who wants to keep learning and growing. Best, Jean

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        REGINA 10 months ago

        Hi ,

        Can you talk me about the combination cancer sun and aquarius moon please .

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        Jean Bakula 11 months ago from New Jersey

        Thanks for your compliments and for reading my work, Maria! Best Wishes, Jean

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        Jean Bakula 11 months ago from New Jersey

        Mia,

        Alexair has more advice for you. Best, Jean Let me know how you are doing.

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        Alexair 11 months ago

        Hi Mia,

        I think you may be on your own from here on out. Fighting isn't good for you or the baby. The stress can release unhealthy chemicals to the baby. It's best to let go and move on. Don't wonder if he will be back in your life. It's not worth your time and effort because it's something that is out of your control. Look at what you can control like your health and the babies health instead. I've seen your situation many times and it never turns into a good long lasting relationship. Your child needs love and a loving safe home. It is your job to provide that for him or her. Don't ever chase a man because they will run every time. The more you chase the further they run. The more you fight, the less they will want to be with you. Be good to yourself and your child and never allow any man in your life that causes you worry or sorrow. Be strong and you will get through it. Give yourself a chance to find the right person as a mate. Someone that makes you smile and laugh.

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        Maria Paz 11 months ago

        Wow jean this is so cool, loved this article. So true. I am a Taurus Sun, Aquarius Moon, and Libra Rising very me!

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        Jean Bakula 11 months ago from New Jersey

        He sure is heartless and immature. And what's wrong with his family? They should be encouraging him to be responsible. Do you live with your family, and are they accepting of this? Or do you have any help? I'm so sorry.

        What does he mean "you will never change?" It takes two to make a child. He is half of the equation. Does he have any normal family members you can talk too? You are not crazy and don't owe anyone an apology.

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        Mia 11 months ago

        I texted his ex wife and his sister but they did not respond to me. They think that I am crazy.

        I do not want to kill a life inside me. He says he sees no need to express any concern for me or ask how am I doing since I'm no longer his gf, wife, or friend. He blocked me on all forms of communication except email. I seeked counseling for my issues, apologized and asked for forgiveness MANY TIMES but he always says in my face, I will never change. He believes what he wants to believe.

        He is a Taurus with Aquarius moon (I think) Hes heartless.

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        Jean Bakula 11 months ago from New Jersey

        Mia,

        I'm so sorry to hear about this, a man should never abuse a woman, or vice versa. How far along are you? I don't want to sound cold, but are you prochoice or prolife? Only because if it's early, and he already shows he has no interest in this child, it will be a hard road for you. Please don't take offense. Have you met his family or spoken with them. Maybe they will shame him into taking responsibility for his child. I hope it works out. Let me know how you are doing. Love, Jean

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        Mia 11 months ago

        I've been fighting for a Taurus man for 6 months. Physical fights happened too. Now I'm pregnant with his baby and he refuses to attend counseling for the sake of the baby. Will he come back?

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        Jean Bakula 11 months ago from New Jersey

        Hello Alyssa,

        Three years isn't much, but it can be depending on how mature you both are. The are ages where you still have a lot of growing and self discovery going on. But I married the guy I fell for when I was 18 (not until I was 24) and we had a great marriage. His Venus in Gemini make him a flirt, but since his Sun is in Taurus he is faithful and would like to settle down someday. The Mercury in Gemini means he's intelligent, and so does the Aquarius Moon. You are more emotional than him with the Scorpio Sun, Venus and PIsces Moon. Taurus and Scorpio are opposite signs, so that's the attraction. It's not a disaster. He's a little more lighthearted than you are. If he works or goes to college, and seems like he has goals in life, then I say go for it. If he is just drifting through life, I would say no because of the two Gemini planets. But as long as he isn't living a crazy life, there's no reason astrologically that you can't get along. Good luck. We could always do a tarot reading and see what comes up about your relationship, check for me at jeanbakula.wordpress.com. Take care.

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        Jean Bakula 12 months ago from New Jersey

        I also think once you love someone, you always will, love never dies. I'm Cancer with a Capricorn moon, and I couldn't deal with someone I loved who was in a relationship with me sleeping with other lovers. She is selfish in her way. She's only going to keep hurting you, and you seem so nice. Really, I think it's for the best. Give it time, and you will begin to heal. Jean

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        Jean Bakula 12 months ago from New Jersey

        Mel, that's a beautiful way to end a relationship if that's the way it has to be. You are the more mature one, and Scorpios mellow out with time. You have to find someone who you trust more. The reason her want of freedom bother you so much is because you don't trust her. Now, that could be the fault of either of you. But I think you did the right thing. You can get through this hard time and will meet someone else when the time is right. It's usually when you aren't looking. Hang in there. Jean

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        Jean Bakula 12 months ago from New Jersey

        Mel,

        It sounds like you did the best you could. Two fixed signs are going to have problems, you are both stubborn, even though Aquarians are "free", notice she still wants her way as well. Also, sometimes the timing is just wrong in a relationship, though I think you said you have broken up and came back together again. My first love always broke up with me when the going wasn't even that tough. He was a few years older than me and I was so crazy about him, I put up with it for a long time, 4 yrs. Finally, I broke up with him, and met the man I dated for 5 years and was married to for 34. He has passed, but I learned what it was like to be truly loved by a mature person. I have a rule I tell anyone who has been through a breakup. If someone will leave you once, that already is the pattern or foundation of the relationship. It will always be that way. I am sorry, I know you are in pain. But your truer love could be right around the corner. And don't worry about hogging up space, I'm here to try to help. Plus, there are lots of Aquarians around who also have planets in more stable signs and can compromise more. There's hope for you yet, my friend. Take care.

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        Mel 12 months ago

        the truth is even with all the love that was present our relationship became toxic because of the power struggles and differences in opinion combined with poor communication. we ended things with loving kindness towards each other. and i am leaving it there. i wish her well..

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        Mel 12 months ago

        Mel here again...

        I just need a place to talk about this so hope you are ok with me flooding your comments section.

        The thing is I see myself so much in her (the Aquarius Moon). She is such a beautiful dynamic spiritual being. She is so magical and her heart is gold.

        We are a lot alike and although I live my life differently.. I very much see the beauty in the way she chooses to be free. Again, I love the fire in her. It's the fire in my heart. However, I have rules and strict boundaries that I live by. I'm fluid in some ways certainly but I am very rigid when it comes to certain things. And, like you said, I do always think I am right. She doesn't like that about me. I can be forceful and demanding (even without saying anything). And my will is powerful. I always am in control. I read somewhere that my archetype as a Venus in Scorpio is "The Owner". I believe this to be the worst person in my lovers eyes. Freedom is so important to her. She also wants to please her lover. And, my desires to possess, to consume, to control... conflict with her needs. These are not traits I am proud of. I do not know how I could change them. I do not know how I can not be jealous or possessive. I do not know how I can love without wanting all of my lover all the time. It's so easy for me to become delirious with desire. It's not good because sometimes even too much love can be a bad thing.

        I give too much and it becomes disempowering. I give too little and my lover does not even know that they are wanted by me.

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        Mel 12 months ago

        Hello Jean,

        It's Mel again. WOW. I am truly in awe that you are able to describe the dynamics in our relationship so definitively. Everything you stated is true for the two of us.

        We aren't talking right now. I won't speak on her behalf. But I can tell you that I have not been able to go a single day or night without thinking of her. My friends and family don't like her at all. They don't see what I see. Like you said, she comes off as stronger than she is and like a party girl. But I know her as more than that. I have struggled to embrace her fire. I love that part of her. But, it's also the part that makes me feel insecure in our relationship. She loves connecting with a lot of people in a lot of different ways. Enjoys having many lovers. I love that she sees beauty in everything and everyone. However, I also get jealous. I wanted more from her than she was able or willing to give me. I tried to just be her friend but I can't make my heart not want more than that...

        I had to just let it go. I don't know if she thinks I abandoned her. I know I felt that way for a while like she did that to me. But, really she is just living her life and following her own path. And I am doing the same. And while I did not want it I now see why the separation is/was necessary. & now she lives on the other side of the country. Not like that is a barrier for me. I would go anywhere for that kind of love. But the timing is never right for us... The love is still there. I am just moving forward and hoping one day our paths will cross again but if they don't I will still always love her. Always.

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        Jean Bakula 12 months ago from New Jersey

        Thank you so much for reading my work, Rochelle. Best Wishes, Jean

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        Rochelle Simpson 12 months ago

        love your insight! It is dead on... from a Aquarius moon, sun woman. Kudos and thank you for the site!

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        Jean Bakula 12 months ago from New Jersey

        Hello Bee,

        Aquarius, Taurus and Scorpio are all stubborn or fixed signs. So it's the Venus in Libra that makes you more flexible, romantic, and helps you be a little easier to get along with. It's normal to relate to our Moon signs more, as that represents our feelings. So in Aquarius, you can be aloof, even though you care. The Taurus Ascendant also is a calm and gentle sign, Taurus is ruled by Venus. So you come off as being sensible, warm, and easier to get along with than you are! I'm sure you have better aspects too, you like your own way and are opinionated, but even seeing this much it seems that there are ways to negotiate with you. You are very sexy and romantic! Best Wishes, Jean

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        Bee 13 months ago

        Loved this article Jean! This sounded like you know me! Lol. I often feel like I like relate much better better to my moon sign than my sun. It just depends. I'm an Aquarius moon, Taurus ascendant, Scorpio sun and Venus is in Libra. So... Imagine the many internal battles there. I always love to love but am secretly terrified of it. Same with almost every other area except my beliefs. Those are solid. I want to believe the Aquarius moon in me makes everything sort of fickle or like a swinging pendulum searching for balance. It makes relationships complicated for sure. Which influence do you think causes that?

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        Jean Bakula 14 months ago from New Jersey

        Thank you Ricardo!

        Sun sign Virgos are intelligent, serious, but also witty and fun to talk to. Virgos can be critical, but that's really their worst flaw. They are neat and organized, so can be a good match for someone who isn't. They are kind and affectionate. Taurus Ascendant will make a person seem really calm and in control. The Ascendant is the way you appear, but you have the traits too. Taurus is ruled by Venus, so they are romantic and like to be surrounded by comfort, good food, good wine, nice furniture, the best. They have good taste. They are down to earth and reliable and love the outdoors. They are very sexy. The Moon is about emotions, and Aquarius doesn't show them too much. They can seem aloof, but they do care. They are involved in so many things they will say they love you one day and forget your birthday the next day. They are also very smart and unique. They view the world in a different way than most people, are nonconformists, but don't care what others think. I hope that helps. Take care, Jean

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        Ricardo 14 months ago

        Jean thanks for the article.

        I wonder what is like to born in sun virgo, taurus ascendant and moon in aquarius, i loved your work!

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        Jean Bakula 14 months ago from New Jersey

        Hi Bri,

        I remember, I wrote to you last night, fire and air, right? Ok, so now I see with Venus in Capricorn, it's hard for him to express his feelings. But he has strong ones, and is likely to show them more privately. Mars in Cancer means he wants to settle down some day, and putter around the house with the family. Your Venus in Cancer is opposite his in Capricorn, that's good and means a sexual attraction. Your Mars in Virgo goes well with his Mars in Cancer, Earth and Water. This is what I was hoping to see, because you two needed some earth and water to calm down the air and fire. He sounds mature, and so do you. Since you've known each other and sort of put each other on the back burner as you went to college shows you are both mature. I think this is a great love story, and has great potential. Don't be afraid to tell him you lost your job. Always tell the truth, when you don't, it can mess up something good! You both have outgoing sides and quiet sides, and so are alike, but different enough to make life interesting. And you waited for each other. I think you both care enough to work out the little issues. Go for it! Take care, Jean

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        Bri 14 months ago

        Hi Jean, Thank you! I actually found out what his Venus and Mars are in so, his Sun is Sag and Moon in Aquarius his Venus is in Capricorn and His Mars is in Cancer, I am Sun in Leo, moon in Aries and my Venus is in Cancer and my Mars is in Virgo.. we have only been dating a year and a half but have known eachother since high school and i wasn't interested in him back then even though he was very popular and star athlete and good looking he has tried to come back into my life twice once when I was a freshman in college and he was a sophomore I was unsure of his intentions so I didn't give him a chance (i was in school in VA and he was in school in NY) then four years passed and he came back again and this time I gave him a chance. On our first date we found we have identical tattoos and he had gotten the number 7 and I wanted to as well bc its the number of completion and my birth date. Also have eerie similarities or almost a weird coincidences. I was thinking of surprising him with tickets to a Nats game and when I saw him later he told me a friend of his was giving out tickets for the same game but he had left his desk so missed the email opportunity but thought of us going together. And I can finish his sentences. we are both independent even though i require more attention. I recently lost my job and I haven't told him but i don't want to keep secrets I'm just insecure that he won't want to continue to see me or that he'll find a better person since he likes to travel and right now i am looking for stable work. I want us to work but I'm sure we communicate our feelings differently. would you be able to tell me more from the information I provided? thank you so much.

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        Jean Bakula 14 months ago from New Jersey

        Hi,

        Those daily horoscopes are what gave astrology a bad name. They became popular during WW11 to give people something entertaining to read to keep their minds off the war. Usually if you read you Sun and your Ascendant and mix them together, it's closer to what's happening in your life. Since both your Sun and Ascendant are in Virgo, that should be close, or as close as you can come The Moon doesnt figure into daily horoscopes, but you can try reading Aquarius with Virgo, and it can't hurt anything. Maybe that will feel closer to what's happening in your life. Good Luck. Jean

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        Jean Bakula 14 months ago from New Jersey

        Hi Bri,

        No, these planets are really in good signs, Fire and Air is good. Leo and Sag are both Fire signs, so you are both outgoing, he's more of a thinker and reads or studies a lot of interests, but you are fun to be with and a good match for him. The Aries Moon and Aquarius moon are good too. Aquarius is air, and the moon is how we show our emotions. Aquarius moon people tend to act aloof. It's not that they don't care, more like they don't know how to show it. If he wants to give you keys to his place, he seems serious. If you find what his Venus and Mars and yours are in, that could shed some light. I don't like the computer sites, but Astrothemes is pretty good, Best wishes, Jean

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        Bri 14 months ago

        Hi Jean, my sun sign is a Leo and moon sign is Aries. My boyfriends sun sign is Sagittarius and moon sign is Aquarius. I find that he seems detached at times and very affectionate and playful other times. Its like we have chemistry and compatibility but the way we express ourselves emotionally is much different. I tend to get discouraged and feel like I'm not important. It almost feels like we work but something is always changing. I feel like he's hot and cold and I feel like he is honestly afraid of commitment and that scares me because we talk about buying a puppy together and things for his house (that i don't live in currently but he has tried to give me keys). So it feels like he's not ready for a serious commitment but then is.. Could this pairing work or are there too many differences?

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        US7 14 months ago

        Hello there.... im virgo sun + asc .... im moon aquarius....

        im also born i 1974.. year of tiger which is the equivalent of aquarius...

        is it then a good thing to also read the aquarius horoscope ?

        i mean when reading daily horoscopes ....

        thank you!

        greetings from

        Norway

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        Jean Bakula 14 months ago from New Jersey

        Hello Briana,

        Well, I think the Aquarius moon is what makes him seem aloof in his emotions. It's also a fixed sign, and some people don't like change. Sometimes with guys it's not fear of commitment, it's fear of change. Otherwise, things look good. Actually your Aries moon makes you very outgoing and dramatic, you show your emotions and are a lot of fun to be with. Aries is fire and Aquarius is air, and fire needs air to burn, if you think of elements. So it's not a really bad thing at all. Since he is a sun sign Pisces, he is romantic and sensitive, you may be hurting his feelings with your Aries moon, you are much easier to read and get to know people, he's more quiet and cerebral. When you go out, you may shine more, though he's a great storyteller. He cares a lot about other people, and you are more focused on yourself. Your Gemini Sun means you are interested a little bit in everything, and restless, and Pisces is restless too. Maybe your personality is stronger than his, and it worries him. But there's nothing here to say it's a bad match. Unless you keep breaking up or something I don't know, or have been going out for 10 yrs. without commitment, I think it will be fine. Slow down and listen to him more. There is potential here. I just don't know how long you've been together and it seems to be bothering you, that you want things to move onward. Maybe try to get him to talk about it. You may be happier with someone who shows his emotions more, but there is nothing here to tell me he's not the one. Be optimistic. Jean

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        Briana 14 months ago

        My sun sign is a Gemini an s moon sign is Aries. My boyfriends sun sign is pisces and moon sign is Aquarius. I have a hard time with getting him to express his feelings for me and our relationship. I feel like he is honestly afraid of commitment and that scares me. Could this pairing work or are there too many differences?

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        Jean Bakula 14 months ago from New Jersey

        Hello Mel,

        OK, I see what's going on here. You have a lot of fixed signs, making you both a tad stubborn and wanting to get your way. She has the Aquarius moon, ruling how she feels. You have Sun,(how are are) Venus( how you love) and Mercury in Scorpio (how you think).Your Venus in Scorpio may make her feel squashed a little bit, you need to give her space and trust her. Also, I think with all those planets in Scorpio, you like some privacy sometimes too. Plus Mercury in Scorpio means it takes a lot to change your mind. her Venus (love nature) and Mars (what she likes to do physically) are in Leo. So those are causing the challenges. These are called squares in astrology. But we need challenges in a serious relationship, or we would be bored to death.

        Your Moon in Taurus and ascendant are also in fixed signs. You always think you are right. But I love that you have Taurus in you and she has Cancer. This is good. She is much more vulnerable than people think, with that Cancer Sun, and really wants a long term relationship. Cancer is a leadership sign too, so she knows what she wants and has a good business sense. The Mercury in Cancer means she thinks with her heart, and your moon in Taurus is romantic and gentle enough to get that, and your ascendant in Taurus is good with her Cancer planets too. People probably think you make a great couple. Her Ascendant in Aries also is the way people see her when they first meet her, and Aries takes control a lot, like Cancer, and wants to be noticed. So I think you come off as laid back, and she comes off a bit of a party girl, though that's not true. She's very smart.

        There is a possibility that you can make this work. You need to talk more and tell her how much you care, she needs that more than you think. She needs security more than she lets on, and so do you. I think physically it's all good, but things break down when you start to talk, but you have to communicate more.

        In my personal life, I believe if a couple keeps breaking up over small things, they always will break up rather than solve their problems. But it may have been larger issues, that's something I don't know. I think you can make this work. The Cancer and Scorpio Suns are great. She loves the Taurus part of you (I was married to a Taurus man for 34 years and I'm Cancer).So there are challenges, but a lot of signs that can get you back on track again. Talk more to be sure you agree, and you could either be homebodies for some of the time, but have to get out enough too. I think I would give it another try. Also, as you say, sometimes the timing isn't right. Maybe now it is. Go for it, there's a lot of good here. Best wishes, Jean You can find me at jeanbakula.wordpress.com.

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        Mel 14 months ago

        Hello Jean,

        Thank you for this article. this was the most informative article for me trying to understand my lover who is has her moon in aquarius. i want to know if we have a chance at being in a committed partnership. we dated and broke up but still have been lovers on and off for years. we can't seem to stay away from each other and it is clear there is a deep connection and love. however, we seem to have a hard time communicating and meeting each others emotional needs. i have moon/ascendant in taurus, sun/venus/mercury in scorpio. she has sun/mercury in cancer, venus/mars in leo, ascendant in aries. is this doomed to just be an unfulfilling relationships where we are constantly striving for more but never getting there? or can we make it work at the right time?

        thanks

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        Jean Bakula 14 months ago from New Jersey

        Hi Tiffani,

        Aquarians do really care about people, but they don't wear it on their sleeve, so I'd say you expressed that well. Aquarius is THE sign for computers, electronics, any kind of new inventions. The North node has to do with the future you have in this incarnation. Moon conjunct Venus, very romantic. So you do show it when it matters. That's why we need lots of info about each planet. Good job! Jean

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        Tiffani 14 months ago

        I have this placement and I've been told that I'm not empathetic but very kind-hearted at the same time. Is that an Aquarius moon trait?

        I'm also studying to work with computers, which I've learned is an Uranus thing and quite possibly has a lot to do with my north node which is also in Aquarius. Those placements are different Houses though. My Moon is also tightly conjunct my Venus as well (by one degree).

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        Jean Bakula 14 months ago from New Jersey

        Hello Aparoksha,

        Well, you've done a good job of explaining both of you in an astrology way. A Sag Sun is fun, and extroverted, interested in many things. The Aquariusmoon means you don't always show you emotions on your sleeve either. A Taurus Sun guy is sweet, gentlemanly and pretty sexy. The Virgo Moon means he's shy and a bit critical or picky when choosing someone to date. Usually Sun and Earth combos don't really jell that well. But all your planets are in signs, and some of the others can be better for you both. He is outdoorsy and doesn't like to dress up. He doesn't talk unless he really has something to say. Maybe you could sort of casually ask him what he would think of you two being a couple. You come off with a stronger personality, but the Aquarius moon and his Virgo one could mean he's thinking the same about you! Taurus needs to be told, practically hit over the head. Is there an occasion soon where you can give him a gift? Taurus guys are physical. Touch him with gestures more when you talk. Then see how he reacts to that. Good luck!Jean

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        Aparoksha 14 months ago

        Hello Jean! loved the article.

        I had a quick question for you, I'm a Sun Sagittarius/moon Aquarius and I really like this boy who is a Sun Taurus/Moon Virgo. We both get a long very well, and it's easy to be around him but sometimes he's a bit lack, as far as communication and opening up on a deeper more personal level goes. I'm an emotional/heart based person, who is a bit spacey but highly aware and he's more down to earth and practical, but sometimes it feels like he's also distant and reserved (even though he's highly extroverted). I want to tell him that I really like him more than just a friend, and that I have for a long time now. Sometimes I feel that he's completely clueless to the fact that I have care about him on a deep level, and I would like to tell him up front about how much he means to me. How should I go about doing that with a moon Virgo? Do moon Aquarius get along with them, any advice?

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        Jean Bakula 15 months ago from New Jersey

        Hi Sarah,

        Yes, Aquarius moons and ascendants do come across as detached a lot of the time. But having a Cancer sun will help that, you are nurturing and kind. Cancers are more restless than most people think, and that leads to interests in a lot of subjects.

        I think from what I see, people your age aren't so interested in pairing off so young. Aquarius likes freedom, and in it's way, so does Cancer. Cancer is a sign of leadership. Although they love home and family, they don't want to be bogged down in housework and dirty diapers as much as others believe. It's the love of the family that matters. I am Cancer myself, and never cared if the house was spotless. The mess will always be there, I'd prefer to go out! Career interests or other things may be more important right now. I know a lot of Cancer/Aquarius couples, so the two signs blend pretty well, again, more than others believe.

        19 is young, don't be so hard on yourself. Like I said, I don't see people wanting to settle down so much when young. Relax, it's when you aren't looking love comes your way. Take care, Jean

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