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Aquarius Characteristics You Need to Be Aware Of

Updated on April 17, 2016

Aquarius: January 19-February 17

Just like Aquarians Thomas Edison, Matt Dillon, Jennifer Aniston, Christie Brinkley and Copernicus himself, Aquarians are known to be the new millennium's leader of all astrological signs, and because of this people who are born under this astrological sign tend to be the most up and coming trendsetters of the future.

Aquarians sometimes suddenly feel the pressure to change personally, especially when it comes to their personal values and the things that will typically make them happy.

Typically, Aquarians are known to think of things all the time because they prefer that their minds to work hard every single day. This is also the reason why people who are inventors and trailblazers are usually born under this Astrological sign.

They have the passion to think of things that will help them grow as a person and as an individual in this world today. Pleasure and pain can both be experienced by Aquarians because of their ability to think on different levels mentally.

Typically, Aquarians love to be involved in organizations that will let them help other people who are in need. The good thing about the people who are born under this astrological sign is that they tend to keep their emotional feelings at ease to avoid affecting the programs that they are involved in.

On the other side of the coin, Aquarians are known to be very amiable and outgoing which makes people to get attracted to them. They tend to gain more friends, and these people will surely experience how loyal an Aquarian can be.

The Aquarian Within

Usually an Aquarian is always on the lookout for gems of wisdom and they typically are observant with the people around them. This is the reason why they can often gather different information about the people around them.

They also have the ability to ignore their emotions and speak their minds to the people around them. Sometimes their attitude can hurt other people's feelings, but they usually don't intend to harm other people's feelings.

Aquarians tend to be very detached from the feelings that they have, but this doesn't mean that they are insensitive and unemotional. They just have the tendency not to trust their feelings that much, and their ideas are more important than those emotional feelings that they often feel.

At times, whenever someone doesn't agree with what an Aquarian has in mind they tend to get hurt. But the good news is they are driven intellectually and not emotionally, that is why they can instantly forgive and forget everything.

Sometimes Aquarians wonder why they are emotionally different from other people, and they tend to think that something might be missing in them. This is also the reason why most of them stay single or unattached for a long period of time.

Of course, just like any other signs Aquarians also have the ability to enter a relationship in the future. But the only problem can sometimes occur when the opposite sex will feel the detachment feeling from the Aquarian itself.

This can sometimes lead to an Aquarian to feel incapable of having a relationship, and can also make them wonder of their real existence in this world. Luckily, then tend to regain their self-esteem instantly because they know how special they are in this world.

Career of an Aquarius

Typically, most Aquarians love to do something that makes them feel useful. As a matter of fact, they want to be as useful as possible with everything that they do, and this makes people feel amazed with them as a result.

Aquarians make good psychologists, politicians as well as social workers. Most of the people who are born under Aquarius are thinkers progressively, which is why they tend to form great theories and ideas. They are also great in researching things that will help them in every aspect of their lives.

Aquarians love creating big ideas and plans, which is good because these ideas and plans can truly happen with the determination that Aquarians have. The downside is they tend to procrastinate whenever there are details that keep on popping up every single day. Most Aquarians need a secretary to organize everything that they have in mind, whether for personal or for business purposes.

Attracting an Aquarian

Aquarians tend to join verbal battles for fun and engage in conversations that are not too deep. But for you to be able to understand them, you need to be able to stimulate their inner minds. You should know that their brain is always craving for exercise and that is why when conversing with them often it is ideal to capture their attention first.

One of the key factors needed to attract an Aquarian is to have the time to communicate. If you are not really into talking for hours, then you might want to look for a different person who is also not into it just like you. You need to be compatibly communicative with them, for an Aquarian to get attracted to you.

Aquarians also love going out and they tend to love being adventurous once in a while. If you are willing to pursue an Aquarian, then make sure to think of different trips and adventures for an Aquarian to enjoy your company.

But if you are having a hard time thinking of nice things to do, then asking an Aquarian to plan for your trip would definitely be ideal. You will definitely be surprised on how they plan everything instantly.

Make sure to be ready, because they tend to change their plans in an instant as well. Lastly, if you are attracting an Aquarian then make sure to avoid complaints and nagging because they hate negativity when conversing.

Dating An Aquarius

Aquarian women are very independent when it comes to relationships. They don't like relying to their partners, because they feel very useless if they do so. They are also very adventurous, smart and funny whenever they are around someone that they like.

You will never catch them being jealous or clingy, because they are not that kind of person. They are also very unpredictable and they have a thing for surprises, because they want to excite themselves with everything that the opposite sex does.

Treating Aquarian women with respect is one of the keys to their heart. That is why if you are a person who doesn't know how to respect a woman then you need to forget about pursuing them.

You also need to make sure not to make her feel obligated because they hate obligations. Women who are born under this Astrological sign love having their own space and privacy, so make sure to give them those things to avoid creating a conflict.

Men who are born under the astrological sign of Aquarius are also into communication. If you are in a hurry to find love with an Aquarian man, then you won't surely be getting your guy.

Being patient is the key to their heart, because they often have a hard time understanding their emotions. But you should be aware that most men born under this sign have the tendency of falling in love easily, and falling out of love just as easily as well.

You need to be able to accept him for who he is, because he will never change himself for someone that he is not. Just like Aquarian women, Aquarian guys do not like obligations either.

For this reason, always make sure to not give them certain obligations that may only ruin everything that you may have worked for. On the other hand if you are into adventure and challenge, then pursuing an Aquarian guy is definitely ideal.


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      Girish puri 4 years ago from NCR , INDIA

      Suddenly i have started feeling great about myself, i am an thank you so much for the interesting research. you are very close. voted interesting.

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      dandyboy 3 years ago

      I was born under the Aquarian sign and I must admit that I feel somehow reflected in the article , if you can make coldness and detatchment compatible with love or -as an Aquarian would say: intimacy- , then you can get very close to him / her .

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      marilyn 3 years ago

      why are aquarius male so confusing. He tells me he is going to make me fall inlove with him. tells me he loves me, but then he can go for days without making contact leaving me confused.

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      elle64 3 years ago from Scandinavia

      Marilyn love yourself- and then the right man will come along -merry christmas

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      jeni 3 years ago

      hey I m also aquriaus sign.. yes I m always something different ...

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      viv 2 years ago

      I am aquarian... Yes! I'm very independent, I'm opinionated, idealistic... Alot of plans in my mind specially business In the future.

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      elle64 2 years ago from Scandinavia

      I hue.ope your dreams come true

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      sara 2 years ago

      Yeah Aquarian men very confusing my frnd said to me he loves me he always says that again n again he going to make me fall in love wid him but then he said I'll marry wid 4 glzzzz etc :/

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      Erika 2 years ago

      I am an Aquarius born January 30th.... I think this describes me well. I also hate being pressured into doing things... ex. When a guy is too demanding of my time... I tend to feel an overwhelming need to retreat. Believe if an Aquarius woman wants to spend time with you, you will know it! Pressuring her over and over to do so just seems desperate and pushes her away. We hate clingy men.

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      Nina 2 years ago

      I would like to point out that eventhough i am an aquarius, i do get incredibly jealous and sometimes clingy in relationships and I dont mind complaints or negativity...

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      elle64 2 years ago from Scandinavia

      Thanks for stopping by Nina. We all have our stuff to work through.

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      brooke 22 months ago

      i am aquarian and i am very very very cold person its just a way to protect myself from people because its very hard for me to be heartbroken and i know most aquarians are just like me but i met one girl and in one day i became other person but only with her i didnt know that could happen to me i can tell her everything what i feel about her how much i love her and people who says that aquarians are cold arent right its just they arent right person for us for aqurians and i am happy that i find friend who is right for me i cant evenn believe it.

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      Akanke 18 months ago

      Pisces 13 year friendship with aquarian man. Sexual, long deep conversations. Agree we love each other. He's told me a relationship "just won't work." Makes jealous remarks. Says he's curious what our genetic mix would be but doesn't want to have kids. Is this a dating/relationship without verbalizing? He only makes time for me at night. Never for coffee etc. Avoids me in public but makes his presents known to me.

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      elle64 18 months ago from Scandinavia

      Give up and give over. You deserve better. 13 years is a long time to wait for someone. Love yourself.

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      the turk73 17 months ago

      Born Jan 28th I have read all these articles and comments and there are so many things that spot on its crazy hopefully it explained some of the things that I don't understand about myself like if you asked me to build a robotic machine for some purpose in less than 5mins I would have 3 different ideas of how to do and within 10minutes I'd have it narrowed down to the easiest for me to accomplish in the shortest amount of time,but if your a women and you tell ME that you are in love with me it scares the crap outta me even if I'm in love with them too I think it's cause it brings back all these old feelings of totally opening my life and heart to someone like when they saw me let my guard they stomped on my heart almost like they were seeing if they could break me and as soon as they knew they had they were gone like the wind and with my trust issues it's only made them worse and I am having real issues with it so I just occupy myself with work all the overtime I can get or volunteering to go out of town to work but it don't make me happy to be making really good money and I've got a bunch of toys anything I want pretty much except a truely loyal loving women to possibly have a family with cause all my toys with nobody to share them with...My rant is over gotta go

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      mimie 14 months ago

      im an aquarian also, born in feb. 3. all of this is true =)

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      Justme 13 months ago

      The Turk 73

      Love again,....

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      johnnycash 13 months ago

      I'm an Aquarian, born in Feb. 3 this article is like crazzzzzyyyyyy on point

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      Scorpyeah 13 months ago

      Hi all... to the aquarians in here... so should someone really love you?

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      9 months ago

      That's so true

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      Gem 9 months ago

      Sigh I'm a Gemini girl in love with Aqua man, Geminis usually are very social and have met many loves in their life. Aqua kind of mirrors our need for space and wary about moving too fast, but Aqua men are just extremely slow. I believe they can be loyal but it's breaking my heart cos I think I've been patient enough and we also had our share of heartbreaks. We can't be changing all the time for you while you preserve your fear of commitments. It's very very frustrating.

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      Melibeee 8 months ago

      This is on point, I'm dating an Aquarius guy and we've been dating for about 9 months now but he never calls me his gf. I've been patient and enjoy our company but coming to realize emotionally, he's very guarded. I give him plenty of space (probably why is comfortable with me) and we always manage to see each other over the weekends. As much as I want to stick around, I just don't know if the situation will ever change and of it will progress. FYI, I'm a Capricorn girl.

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      elle64 8 months ago from Scandinavia

      Rember you have to bedste true to your selv. But you also ned to bedste frank with him.Be god to yourself.

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      Im.An.Alien. 8 months ago

      This is quite true, I'm a Leo girl who likes an Aquarius guy. He is unique and creative but is also kind of aloof and stuck in his own head. I've confessed I liked him and he just never responded, so I never pressured him to tell me if he likes me back and I never bring up my feelings for him. We used to be best friends and would talk about things a lot, such as his interests and mine (he likes skate boarding and I've always wanted to skate but never had the time to by a board). We have stopped talking more and I feel like we are drifting away because I confessed my feelings for him. My best friend (she's a Gemini) says she always catches him staring at me and she thinks he likes me back, and I see him look at me too, but I think maybe he just doesn't know if he likes me or not? I'm really confused and miss talking to him (it's been 2 months since we said hi) and still have really deep feelings for him. He is super caring and always wants to leave a mark on the world, and my best friend keeps trying to get him to talk to me (without my consent haha). I really want to be able to have deep conversations and talk about things with him, and honestly, I would be entirely happy even if I sat next to him in silence. I don't know what to do, but his friends think I'm nice and we kinda have a "squad" going, but he's the one who talks least to me.

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      Aqua Girl 4 months ago

      Dear Author, your responses are quite annoying. Life is not a straight jacket. If an Aquarian doesn't call you for days, it doesn't mean they don't care. People esp Aquarians need space. If an Aquarian doesn't call you his gf, ask him what you are to him... Aquarians are blunt . I'm sure they'll be honest with you. Stop all these love yourself, be true to thyself responses. No one has it all figured out including you. Sometimes we all need to fight for what we want, it could be exhausting sometimes, but it's ok. One shoe size doesn't fit all. Good luck to everyone here who's going through a rough relationship phase. All I can say is, if your partners attitude bothers you so much and it doesn't seem like they are willing to make you happy, you can look for a emotionally comfortable time to walk away, otherwise make it work and if it doesn't... at least, you know you tried.

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      neveryoumind 3 months ago

      how can you have an intimate relationship without have to put some feeling into it.why are aquarians so shallow.what is so hard about displaying some depth and substance in a relationship.don't be so cold and detached.

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      AquaJane 2 months ago

      The procrastination thing is true but we can be better once we commit on doing some things. I really envy those OC people actually. ^_^ When it comes to detachment, I can testify to that. My mother got ill last year and I'm an only child who lived in another city. Despite of this, I continued to work to support them. I visited her in the hospital once and I went home once when she got paralyzed. I felt sad for awhile but as soon as I went back to work everything went back to normal. Even after I learned the news that she died. I didn't cry at all because I already knew that it will happen to her. I cried few days after she was buried. It was a late reaction and my lowest point perhaps but it didn't stay long.

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      Yannie 2 months ago

      I am dating an Aquarian guy and all of these things are true :) They love intellectual conversations a lot and are very adventurous. They may seem to look tough on the outside, but they are really super sweet. Yes it's true that they may disconnect sometimes, but they have never forgotten about you. Just be patient and it will pay off. :)

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      Ali 4 weeks ago

      Its till februrary 18

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      Candace 2 weeks ago

      This is complete and utter bullshit! Haha.

      Let me explain.

      I know at least 5 aquariun women. All are uncommunicative, demanding, disrespectful, dominating bitches. Catty and jealous. Yes...

      Seriously I thot I was overthinking this crap til I went and got their birthdates. It absolutely floored me when I saw their birthdates! I thot "no, that can't be right."

      Hell, yes it is.

      The number one negative quality I have noticed is they want to be allowed to say and do shit but don't you dare try to do that to them. Backstabbing and passive. Cowards.

      I don't roll with that well

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      elle64 5 days ago from Scandinavia

      Ok.You Are entitet to your opinion.

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